7 Secrets To Becoming Mentally Tougher

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  • Опубликовано: 26 дек 2024

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  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go  3 года назад +529

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    • @mrkryptex3076
      @mrkryptex3076 3 года назад +11

      Simbaaaaa!!!!!!!
      How is he!?👍 🐱

    • @herelizabethan
      @herelizabethan 3 года назад +8

      _mum took away my ps4 so i punched a hole through my bedroom wall_
      *_i’m not aggressive just ooze-masculine passion_*

    • @SuperBlessedKing
      @SuperBlessedKing 3 года назад +8

      My birthday February 14th is in one weekend from now.
      ♒️♒️♥️♥️
      I was born during Valentine’s Day and Black History Month.
      ♥️♒️✨🙏🏽🥳

    • @seanmcfadden3712
      @seanmcfadden3712 3 года назад +2

      @@SuperBlessedKing My eldest niece has her birthday on Christmas. Birthdays on holidays are awkward.

    • @seanmcfadden3712
      @seanmcfadden3712 3 года назад +2

      Thank you. February is always tough for me.

  • @hel2727
    @hel2727 3 года назад +2084

    I feel like depression had actually made me stronger and more empathetic. I never had therapy or medication, didn't talk about it to anyone, but suffered from it for years. And now I'm finally starting to win.
    There is hope, after all. There is light.
    But what I didn't realise before, is that it was hidden inside.

    • @lalalavideo6435
      @lalalavideo6435 3 года назад +5

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    • @swatisaini6447
      @swatisaini6447 3 года назад +32

      Same thing happened with me

    • @hayatzor6249
      @hayatzor6249 3 года назад +53

      i will try to win against depression

    • @lalalavideo6435
      @lalalavideo6435 3 года назад +3

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    • @insidiouslyfanatic714
      @insidiouslyfanatic714 3 года назад +29

      The last lines can actually be used in a poem or a quote....wonderful!
      And great to hear that...thanks for inspiring us :)

  • @greedy381
    @greedy381 3 года назад +4155

    “The only person you should ever compare yourself to is the person you were yesterday”

    • @more1494
      @more1494 3 года назад +93

      Execpt when people compare your past
      (it is so frustrating for me when people compare my past)

    • @greedy381
      @greedy381 3 года назад +12

      @@more1494 I hear you bro

    • @sumasunil3530
      @sumasunil3530 3 года назад +2

      Wow

    • @more1494
      @more1494 3 года назад +4

      @@greedy381 i have no words to say

    • @popcat6570
      @popcat6570 3 года назад +23

      @@more1494 yeah, my mom always compares me with my 2015-2016 self and i feel pretty ashamed whenever they do that :(

  • @datboi6954
    @datboi6954 3 года назад +5868

    1. get an emotional trash can 0:39
    2. acknowledge and use the power of choice 1:31
    3. do the difficult things first 2:14
    4. exercise 2:55
    5. learn how to lose gracefully 3:27
    6. practice gratitude 3:59
    7. let go of things you cannot control 4:32
    I hope I could help! :)

  • @Faizidogarvlogs
    @Faizidogarvlogs 3 года назад +685

    This Girl's voice itself is a therapy......
    Soooo melodious yaa

  • @cordeliangelreece
    @cordeliangelreece 3 года назад +5278

    if an actual emotional trash can was in the physical world, i would totally buy it.

    • @herelizabethan
      @herelizabethan 3 года назад +130

      Here vent here in this reply section think of it as your own personal emotional trashcan
      I don’t know you so don’t hold back i don’t know anyone who knows you that might be keeping you back
      :)

    • @younggamer7218
      @younggamer7218 3 года назад +8

      Ok

    • @simlad
      @simlad 3 года назад +35

      @@herelizabethan thats so sweet :'D

    • @herelizabethan
      @herelizabethan 3 года назад +35

      @@simlad I’ve been op behind the screen i know how it feels i don’t want people to feel as bad as me, a lot of people should try it sometimes it makes me feel good for a bit :D

    • @sherina3663
      @sherina3663 3 года назад +27

      try writing. it really help.

  • @stayhappylittlemermaid
    @stayhappylittlemermaid 3 года назад +949

    Nobody ever said life was easy…they just promised that it would be worth it

  • @abdulrahaman0157
    @abdulrahaman0157 3 года назад +569

    I feel like brutally beaten inside, by my inner demons, I feel like I can’t stand up, but I don’t have a choice. I will stand up and fight, until my last breath, for those who love me and for those whom I love

    • @faitdetreseul9767
      @faitdetreseul9767 3 года назад +11

      Search stoicism my g

    • @jerichoraepueda3960
      @jerichoraepueda3960 3 года назад +18

      We got this, brother 🤝

    • @RPGKingdom64
      @RPGKingdom64 3 года назад +14

      I hope that you will also fight for yourself 🧡

    • @euchiron
      @euchiron 3 года назад +13

      It was a long and hard path to get to the point where I feel like I can finally stare down my inner demons. They're allowed to speak, but I thank them for their input to make them feel heard, and then deny them the driver's seat forever - because I wasn't born with that skill and neither was anyone else. They can no longer take me anywhere I don't want to go. I feel you're on the best path you can be with your approach - never give up!

    • @meow9985
      @meow9985 3 года назад +8

      You can get through this, i believe in you

  • @btcxwxy
    @btcxwxy 3 года назад +612

    I'm going to start leaving self-care tips and reminders whenever I time travel. So here's the first one: brush your teeth when you get up. I know it's hard, but you'll feel a little better knowing that you've maintained personal hygiene. Trust me. You don't have to do it 3 times a day since I know it can be hard to find the motivation, so just once is fine for now. Okay, bye, and remember that I love you even if I don't know you 🥰

    • @fairyfellermasterstroke
      @fairyfellermasterstroke 3 года назад +10

      Alright, I clean my teeth after breakfast, sometimes even before, if I have a horrible taste in my mouth. Than I clean them in the evening.
      So, I'm waiting for the next tip of yours.
      Edit: I wanted to say 'brush'. Anyway, I'll let it say clean, if I already wrote that...

    • @sudhakhandrika237
      @sudhakhandrika237 3 года назад +8

      That's rough buddy ,
      Aww your so sweet!

    • @LokeshSingh-cm4mf
      @LokeshSingh-cm4mf 3 года назад +4

      ❤️😇

    • @lalalavideo6435
      @lalalavideo6435 3 года назад +2

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    • @marybravo8484
      @marybravo8484 3 года назад +1

      Thanks for this

  • @CocoasArt
    @CocoasArt 3 года назад +954

    For a couple years I haven't been in the greatest mental state
    But over this time I went through so many negative things, each time I learned more and more how to deal with it
    And that helped me understand people's feelings a lot more, and how to help
    Often people might be upset about something and write a vent, and 9 times out of 10 I always know what to say
    Friends started calling me therapist of the group xd
    My brain just excercised a lot during these years lol

    • @anjithaa4521
      @anjithaa4521 3 года назад +5

    • @Wunderwolf
      @Wunderwolf 3 года назад +1

      Hello there,i always see you here devushka :)

    • @siqxyre8473
      @siqxyre8473 3 года назад +14

      Oh my! Didn't expect to see you here! But I can definitely relate, well I used to relate until I decided to reserve myself to heal from trauma.
      I think soon I'll go back to actively helping others and giving advice, I'm starting to heal from past events :)

    • @stressedyounglad
      @stressedyounglad 3 года назад +8

      @@sra779 Yeah, it's totally fine to use your time for yourself and concentrate on your future. The people around you might be disturbing sometimes. But I think it would be difficult for you and for them also to start talking like nothing happened. I would suggest that even if you don't feel like talking, just talk a little, very little bit to ensure the people around you that you are still connected. Balance both the things. If you don't balance it you'll face consequences in the future. The people around you might not show interest in you. There is a high chance that you'll be left alone. So balance it. And tell them that you want to concentrate on your future so you won't be having time to talk and try to make them understand. I hope they understand you.

    • @jellioni
      @jellioni 3 года назад +2

      I’m sorry but i read your name as coochie art at first

  • @MsRxses
    @MsRxses 3 года назад +105

    I really needed this; Lately my father has been ruining my Mental health
    My friends on discord are the only people I trust, I don't even trust my own relatives because I know they wouldn't believe me.
    My mother left us for some man; My father never really moved on; Probably a reason why he has been ruining my mental health.
    *Thank you; So much.*

    • @lalalavideo6435
      @lalalavideo6435 3 года назад +4

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    • @lalalavideo6435
      @lalalavideo6435 3 года назад +8

      Maybe this video will help you 🤗🍀🎐

    • @kaamiljk5227
      @kaamiljk5227 3 года назад +4

      Hang in there.... Things will eventually get better.

    • @goldenclosetclubarg
      @goldenclosetclubarg 3 года назад +1

      You'll move through it, be strong for yourself!

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 3 года назад +2

      Jillian, Ultimately it boils down to the mind. Daily mindfullness meditataion for 10-15 minutes twice a day and being assertive are top priorities to develop your mental muscles. Never say "Yes' when you mean "No". Avoid getting too attached to anything in life or being over emotional and over sensitive. . Walk with your head held high. Best wishes. Shyaaam Sir-Counsellor. .

  • @sumasunil3530
    @sumasunil3530 3 года назад +288

    I can't imagine myself without psych2go my life would be such a mess without this channel snd thx again

    • @faitdetreseul9767
      @faitdetreseul9767 3 года назад +6

      Search stoicism :>

    • @faitdetreseul9767
      @faitdetreseul9767 3 года назад +2

      @Perfectlymixed yeah Ik. I just wanted to give advice on today's struggle of genz's lack of motivation and being deppresed, stoicism is a great philosophy of how to not give a f*ck about anything. it's a life saver

    • @faitdetreseul9767
      @faitdetreseul9767 3 года назад +2

      @Perfectlymixed I mean it's ok.
      do you have a disc? I can help you with that

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 года назад +16

      We hope this video has helped you in some way :D

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 3 года назад +2

      @@faitdetreseul9767 Ultimately it boils down to the mind. Daily mindfullness meditataion for 10-15 minutes twice a day and being assertive are top priorities to develop your mental muscles. Never say "Yes' when you mean "No". Avoid getting too attached to anything in life or being over emotional and over sensitive. . Walk with your head held high. Best wishes. Shyaaam Sir-Counsellor. .

  • @pinkpaprika8410
    @pinkpaprika8410 2 года назад +9

    There was a time when I kept thinking “I must do this, and that, and the other..” and kept making todo lists, but with all my will I couldn’t get myself to do even very simple chores, it was a real torment. At some point, I hit on the idea of making a “success list”, i.e. writing down the things I had actually managed to do - afterwards. This really “put a tiger in my motor”! I found myself actually tackling the hardest things first! It made me feel proud of myself, even if I’d simply remembered to take out the trash, because I was judging myself by my own needs and capacities, not by the assumptions of other people. Although I wasn’t able to make this a consistent habit, every time I did so gave me a powerful feeling of success. The memory of such moments reminded me that there was hope, and very gradually (with therapy) things did get better.

  • @skinnygurl6903
    @skinnygurl6903 3 года назад +90

    What it means to be mentally tough.💪🏾
    1.)Get an emotional trash can 0:40
    2.)Acknowledged and use the power of choice 1:30
    3.)Do the difficult things first 2:16
    4.)Exercise 2:55
    5.)Learn how to lose gracefully 3:28
    6.)Practice gratitude 🙏🏾 4:00
    7.)Let go of things you can not control 4:34🕊
    Thank you for giving us these lessons as often as possible!

  • @engene_10.
    @engene_10. 3 месяца назад +4

    We had a parent teacher meeting today in school and i burst into tears in front of my teacher and everyone when i got the reality check. That teacher did help me clear my vision of my life and told me to first be meantally prepared for what i want to do . He kind of found out that i had been going through something when we were talking . Now i realise that if you want to do what you really want to prepare yourself first mentally and physically. That's supposed to be the first step of your journey.

  • @Катюша-щ5ю
    @Катюша-щ5ю 3 года назад +291

    I'd need a video on how to fight laziness and procrastination

    • @ultra6909
      @ultra6909 3 года назад +9

      Yo I am lazy xD

    • @arpitkumar4525
      @arpitkumar4525 3 года назад +50

      1. Just do it. Just start doing it at least. For 60 seconds. You will find more often than not that you can continue doing it.
      2. Have an accountability partner. This can be imaginary even or even God.
      3. Do the easy things first (yes contrary to what was suggested in this video). It might help you to get moving and feel less overwhelmed after finishing many small tasks.
      4. Plan your day a night before. Keep a journal. When you feel lazy, just look at ur plan in journal and then u would want to do things seeing that u still have a lot of stuff to do.
      5. Keep a vision board if u r lazy in doing ur hobbies. Visit it whenever u want inspiration and want to regain the same passion that u had when u started that hobby. See Rachel Kable for vision boards

    • @SanaKhan-uu4kd
      @SanaKhan-uu4kd 3 года назад +4

      @@arpitkumar4525 thank you🌈👍🌈

    • @Катюша-щ5ю
      @Катюша-щ5ю 3 года назад +1

      @Yuziferry LMAO

    • @bsinita_wokeone
      @bsinita_wokeone 3 года назад +2

      Same im dealing with this struggle but for 10 years now, i needs to stop.

  • @soundarya8156
    @soundarya8156 3 года назад +375

    Lately I've been so much happier than ever... These are the words I tell myself to avoid negative stuffs around me:
    "I am like this, let them learn to love the real me"
    "I am not perfect, that's what makes me unique"
    "It's fine, I'm just a human"
    "It'll get better I promise"
    "I love the vulnerable and imperfect side of me"
    "I know I'll find a way to solve this soon"
    "It's ok to be selfish and care for myself"
    There ya go :)

    • @siaaa8871
      @siaaa8871 3 года назад +3

      Thank you:)

    • @shakira7301
      @shakira7301 3 года назад +5

      If you asked my problem few months ago it would be the same. But recently I'm battling something different. I have faced harassment from men and recently whatever i experienced years ago started to kick in and i just feel hard to live. I try to remind myself i can't worry about things I can't change but when men speak bad about women i just have this trigger like an anxiety attack, i lost my appetite and can't sleep recently.

    • @siaaa8871
      @siaaa8871 3 года назад +5

      @@shakira7301 Hope you start getting the happiness you deserve and I am sure bad time will also pass, as per my case I tested positive for COVID but I try to be positive so always look for the brighter side and dont waste your energy and time on those who dont deserve it:)

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 3 года назад +2

      @@shakira7301 Ultimately it boils down to the mind. Daily mindfullness meditataion for 10-15 minutes twice a day and once before sleep and being assertive are top priorities to develop your mental muscles. Never say "Yes' when you mean "No". Avoid getting too attached to anything in life or being over emotional and over sensitive. . Walk with your head held high. Best wishes. Shyaaam Sir-Counsellor. .

    • @beizanten1
      @beizanten1 2 года назад

      cool. thank for sharing

  • @tlotro625
    @tlotro625 3 года назад +16

    My personal tip: Don't try to make things to change instantly. If you try to hammer a nail with just a single hit, you are likely to bend the nail and achieve nothing. You have to do it hit by hit, starting slowly and driving a nail into a wall. The same works for everything you do, including health. You can't just do everything once and expect results, do things one by one, start slowly, pick up speed only if you are 100% sure you are capable of doing so.

  • @deblinadey2789
    @deblinadey2789 3 года назад +50

    Letting go of things that I can't control is the hardest.......

  • @vaniaarellano989
    @vaniaarellano989 3 года назад +3

    Lately I’ve been feeling so down and stressed and that makes me sad because I’m really young and I think I should enjoy my favorite tv show or eat my favorite food or talk to my family/friends or just be a teenager in general but instead of doing that I’m in my bedroom doing homework all day. I’ve always been a good student but I don’t feel as efficient as I used to (I feel heavy, mentally ill) and I hate that, but at the same time I feel sad for demanding more of what I can give (at the moment), I know I’m capable of accomplishing my goals if I want to, but I don’t feel good, I need a rest. Yesterday I broke down and just felt like sh*t to be honest and today I saw this in my recommendations. I just wanna say thank you and I hope to get better. And if you are going through the same situation, take a deep breath, drink water, sleep, eat well, take care of yourself and then get back to work because all your efforts are gonna pay off soon. This is to myself (and to you): You can do it, I believe in you and I know that you’ll get through it. It’s ok to take a break some time and let your mind rest from all the stress, the work and the people. Then you can come back and be your best self. Starting from today I promise that I will be kinder to myself but also do my best at school and I’ll try to balance them both. I’m strong. You are strong.
    Thanks for giving me your time and remember that you can do it. You are not alone, there are many people going through that right now. Stay healthy and have a nice day :).

  • @sahilnangare5207
    @sahilnangare5207 Год назад +2

    I have been going through a lot of ups and downs in the recent years.
    But now I have decided to actually put effort into uplifting my life.

  • @steceymorgan814
    @steceymorgan814 8 месяцев назад +205

    Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.

    • @APOLLINAIREBARTHOLOMIEU
      @APOLLINAIREBARTHOLOMIEU 8 месяцев назад

      Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!

    • @elizabethwilliams6651
      @elizabethwilliams6651 8 месяцев назад

      Yes, dr.andrew_james. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.

    • @APOLLINAIREBARTHOLOMIEU
      @APOLLINAIREBARTHOLOMIEU 8 месяцев назад

      Is he on instagram?

    • @elizabethwilliams6651
      @elizabethwilliams6651 8 месяцев назад

      Yes he is. dr.andrew_james

    • @AnjeloValeriano
      @AnjeloValeriano 8 месяцев назад

      Can Dr. Andrew_james send to me in UK?

  • @zer0voidz506
    @zer0voidz506 3 года назад +27

    I remember last week I just started like, writing my negative feelings out, I don't know what has changed but something just feels better.

    • @sirivenneladara8947
      @sirivenneladara8947 3 года назад +3

      Yes it really does help. You should try and continue to do that as much as possible

  • @sirivenneladara8947
    @sirivenneladara8947 3 года назад +7

    Writing in your diary really helps. I would totally recommend it. Especially when you don't have anyone to talk to or are insecure and you are worried about how the other person will judge you, you should start maintaining a diary. You don't need to write on a daily basis but at least write in it when you need someone to talk too. You can also write when something that made u happy happened. Writing in a diary really helps and I mean it

  • @jay32849
    @jay32849 Год назад +1

    everyone watching this video i’m so proud of you . your here because you wanna better yourself good job and keep up the good work you got this 🥇

  • @drunkensquirrel7545
    @drunkensquirrel7545 2 года назад +4

    I'd add daily prayer and/or meditation to this excellent list of steps! I've noticed that when I pray daily I'm better able to handle life's curveballs! 🦋🙏🏽🦋

  • @skinnygurl6903
    @skinnygurl6903 3 года назад +40

    I’m getting mentally stronger by watching you guys!!!! Your channel is inspiration, and the viewer are supportive. Unlike family and friends. All I have to say to y’all is listen to your gut and inner voice and it’s ok to cut out toxic ppl!

  • @Noone-qh7pu
    @Noone-qh7pu 2 года назад +2

    Preparing for the worst case should be one of the points to focus on if one is trying to increase mental strength

  • @leaharmbruster6047
    @leaharmbruster6047 3 года назад +119

    Nobody will see this but... I’m proud of myself. I finally got rid of those toxic manipulative ‘friends’. If anyone needs to, vent down below. You are loved!!

    • @h34tg
      @h34tg 3 года назад +5

      Congratulations honey. I hope now things are becoming better 😸

    • @jonaichi_09
      @jonaichi_09 3 года назад +6

      It sucks to have those "friends" but i'm happy you could get out of that situation!

    • @leaharmbruster6047
      @leaharmbruster6047 3 года назад +5

      Thank you! I’m out here thriving now!☺️

    • @kaamiljk5227
      @kaamiljk5227 3 года назад +2

      Great job... Me too!

    • @shachintheartist
      @shachintheartist 3 года назад

      Thanks

  • @michaelhansom123
    @michaelhansom123 3 года назад +2

    This video helped me a lot I told myself that this year I’m not letting anyone make me feel lower. I let someone take advantage of me which made me feel low and heartbroken but I’m now working on myself physically and mentally for myself.

  • @medhachakraborty7474
    @medhachakraborty7474 2 года назад +12

    I love the way she says that there is no such thing as a wrong choice. I am a student of political science and in public administration there is a concept of decision making called bounded rationality where the theorist i.e. Herbert Simon says that total rationality is not possible- you can have only satisficing decisions i.e. Satisfaction+Sufficing. I hope it helps ❤️❤️✨

    • @SyedaWajihaZehra
      @SyedaWajihaZehra Год назад +1

      Absolutely! It's fascinating how the concept of decision-making aligns with the idea that there's no such thing as a wrong choice. Herbert Simon's notion of bounded rationality acknowledges the limitations in achieving total rationality, emphasizing the practical approach of making satisfying decisions. It's a valuable perspective that complements the belief in the validity of our choices. Thanks for sharing this insightful connection! ❤✨

  • @AB-ue5pm
    @AB-ue5pm 2 года назад +4

    1-Solitude: it's a bless only appreciated by the solitary. Builds character and widen insight.
    2-Listen to your body: depression might be telling you to slow down. Psychosomatics are warning alarm. Don't fight, listen and change accordingly.
    3-Focus on 'why': the rest is details. How, when and what will follow a clear and string why.
    4-Me: my loyalty and obligation is all about me. The rest is irrelevant.
    5-Read the classics:
    -Virtue of Selfishness & Atlas Shrugged by Ayn Rand.
    -100 Years of Solitude by the great Gabo.
    -Being There by Jerzy Kosiński.
    -The Trail & The Metamorphosis by Kafka.
    -The Post Office & Women by Charles Bukowski. Also his short poem, The Genius of the Crowd.
    -The Hitchhiker Guide to the Galaxy by Douglas Adams.
    -Anton Chekhov short stories in general.
    And most importantly, don't think too much.

  • @lianepardo
    @lianepardo 3 года назад +6

    Thanks for this video! I really need this, I think of myself as a phoenix, but I'm becoming weak and weaker every single day. I'll have my first mental health consultation next Saturday after years of battling with my demons alone. Wish me luck!

  • @CeQuiFaitLePlusMal
    @CeQuiFaitLePlusMal 2 месяца назад +1

    I am a student, currently struggling with my studies and finding this video gave me ideas of how I can cope up with my stress. Thank you

  • @MisterVestige
    @MisterVestige 2 года назад +3

    My mental toughness has been deteriorating for a while, as much as I can put on a facade. Thanks for this video.

  • @UpsilonDreams16
    @UpsilonDreams16 3 года назад +169

    Psych2Go has been around for months and months helping us better understand psychology. But my main question is.. how are you all doing back there in the team? Everyone at Psych2Go doing okay? Everyone staying healthy in all forms? You always ask us to tune in with ourselves, but what about yourselves? You all are just as important as the rest of us viewers. We are all amazingly important! Everything going ok?

    • @sirivenneladara8947
      @sirivenneladara8947 3 года назад +9

      Aww you're so kind!! Yes how are u all doing???

    • @bhavyabakhshi5230
      @bhavyabakhshi5230 3 года назад +17

      This is for the first time that I had seen this sort of comment. It's good to see viewers are so loving and emotionally mature haha.

  • @PracticalInspiration
    @PracticalInspiration 3 года назад +11

    Love the point on doing the difficult things first. I practice this all the time and have taught my son to do the same. Beyond mental toughness, it's just so valuable for numerous reasons.

  • @breanna4111
    @breanna4111 7 месяцев назад

    I came to this video because I’m trying to break my flare. The reason I haven’t given up is because of my loving service dog. If I didn’t have him I believe I would find myself in oblivion at rest. I’ve never felt so misunderstood, alone and in pain. I’m going to be going to a chronic pain patient program in August and I hope to be able to fight more and to help keep me emotionally stable.
    This is a life I wouldn’t just choose for anyone. Stay strong!

  • @Noname-1695
    @Noname-1695 3 года назад +8

    I'm having hard time because of my own decisions in life, my mind is weak as just as my body. I guess, what I have to train first is how to get mentally strong, in order for me to get started. I don't know how long it would take, but I know I'll get there someday! 🙂
    Thank you Ma'am for this! 🙂

  • @FireFlood
    @FireFlood 2 месяца назад

    Thanks! Good stuff!

  • @nobelkk2855
    @nobelkk2855 3 года назад +3

    Dear Sara Del Villar. I started all these steps yesterday especially the power of discipline through physical workout and letting go off the uncontrollable things. Surprisingly out of pure coincidence Im seeing this videos today. This video made my day❤️

  • @munkeefinkelbeen5395
    @munkeefinkelbeen5395 3 года назад +2

    I actually have just started practicing gratitude lately, and listing 10 positive things that happen each day. It's helping a lot...I've been much happier lately :)

  • @juliannebenido6835
    @juliannebenido6835 3 года назад +5

    To anyone whos reading this you are so special and blessings will come unexpected

  • @Buhleep
    @Buhleep 3 года назад +1

    I love this video so much...
    all of these things are things I've spoken about with many doctors and therapists over the last 4 years.
    My family screwed me over deeply and I fell into a dark world of drugs, alcohol, sex and fighting.
    I was losing myself completley and I'm still here..getting ready for work and thinking about all the work I'm going to do on my animal crossing island...
    I used to hate life. Now all I want is to learn how to love myself...I deserve it. We all deserve to love ourselves🕊

  • @fatmafati7761
    @fatmafati7761 3 года назад +3

    This channel helped me a lot to deal with my unhealed trauma n to deal with a narcissist n setting boundaries ... God bless you and I owe the voiceover lady a lot of appreciation n thanking ✨💛

  • @asmashahid372
    @asmashahid372 2 года назад +6

    Mistake doesn't remain a mistake when we get lesson from it. That's my quote 💟

  • @Deniela_
    @Deniela_ 3 года назад +5

    Today I finally got the courage to talk to my online friends. I said hello. And they made fun of me for so long. After that I ofc didn’t wanna talk again but then they called me a p**** for not talking. Things like this makes me rlly just wanna cry. I personally don’t like my voice and I’m very insecure and that just made me feel even worse. This video was very calming and it rlly helped me to cry. I was holding it in all day. Thank you 💜

    • @erinshannon8031
      @erinshannon8031 3 года назад

      I'm sorry your friends are like that! You'll always find support here! Don't be ashamed of your voice. I'm sure it's uniquely gorgeous!

    • @prolo6309
      @prolo6309 3 года назад

      Man, fuck those guys! Go and make some new friends. And when you do, you will not feel afraid to talk to them. Strive towards making true friends. You got this.

    • @kritisrivastava9393
      @kritisrivastava9393 3 года назад +1

      Those people aren't your friends. Throw them into the trash can.

  • @scoobydicky9459
    @scoobydicky9459 3 года назад +2

    when i get streesed out i personally thinks remind myself that the universe is vast and i'm just a tiny dot of it. Nothing is really important compared go the vast unknown universe. And the right thing to do is just calm down and enjoy my short life.And there're many choises. And another way is to listen to calm and rewarding songs about how life is.

  • @Alex-rj9sg
    @Alex-rj9sg 3 года назад +7

    Thank you for this video! I was alone last night (my parents left me home alone) and I had some kind of a mental breakdown and your videos help me so much staying in kind of regular mood if not feeling better :) they help me with figuring out my self (no self diagnosing) and what I feel like so I can become a better myself. Thank you very much! :)

  • @babe101103
    @babe101103 3 года назад +2

    A great deal of the people can not let go of the past unless they understand it. I say, understand a bad situation to a satisfying degree and then let it go; there is nothing you can do holding on to a bad situation anyways. I'm talking from experience, once I let go of the bad situation I was experiencing I allowed myself to feel other emotions and that is when the real healing begun for me.

    • @lalalavideo6435
      @lalalavideo6435 3 года назад +1

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  • @Popo-hn6of
    @Popo-hn6of 3 года назад +8

    I just clicked on a video about how depression sounds and I get this notification omg what is this timing

  • @shannonchilem525
    @shannonchilem525 2 года назад

    it all started with an issue.. an issue that is not true but spread everywhere... But now I'm slowly recovering and continuing to chase my dreams

  • @mentallytoughwomen9918
    @mentallytoughwomen9918 2 года назад +3

    Mental Toughness isn't something we're born into, but something we have to learn. When we do, we discover that stress is our friend, not our foe. It's essential for whatever we want to achieve in life.

  • @tommygunn6901
    @tommygunn6901 3 года назад +11

    "The force will be with you, always....."

    • @lalalavideo6435
      @lalalavideo6435 3 года назад +2

      🌿🍁🤗ruclips.net/video/SJeZ7bJTyoc/видео.html

  • @supriyagawai7656
    @supriyagawai7656 2 года назад

    my journey on the same channel first, watching videos to identify my dark past rot in it and now videos of making myself mentally stronger and the good positive videos to know myself
    i grew up

  • @minfirezman2351
    @minfirezman2351 3 года назад +8

    Thank you, I've been struggling on how to become mentally stronger, perfect timing as always thanks!!!

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 года назад +1

      No problem!! We hope these tips helped you

  • @katieburke2902
    @katieburke2902 3 года назад

    when it comes to living your best life...it means finding your happiness...no shame in that...exercise...seriously sharpens the mind and confidence...♡

  • @anonymousleapyear5616
    @anonymousleapyear5616 3 года назад +11

    I feel like this was a really good video to post just after 2020 because a lot of people are struggling with a lot of different things, and this can really help them get through it.
    So thank you Psych2Go for being there for us when we need you❤️

  • @DhavalDeolasi
    @DhavalDeolasi 8 месяцев назад

    Wonderful practical tips! But 1 most important thing missing is you have to get suggestions from your close relatives/ seniors who have wisdom, who know your strengths & weaknesses, who have been there in that phase of life and done that, who have lot of real life practical experiences. These will be the people who love you unconditionally and want only welfare of you and your family even if they scold you while giving their valuable advice.

  • @yipps1171
    @yipps1171 3 года назад +4

    I just need this to stop crying so much, it's starting to get normal to my family

  • @lemonpie_vanilla
    @lemonpie_vanilla 3 года назад +2

    Really needed this, thanks. I am really weak mentally, I cry so fast and I get hurted far too easily and it is really annoying.

  • @shyaaammeneen63
    @shyaaammeneen63 3 года назад +19

    Nice video. Daily mindfullness meditataion for 10-15 minutes and being assertive are top priorities to develop your mental muscles. Never say "Yes' when you mean "No". Avoid getting too attached to anything in life or being over emotional. Best wishes. Shyaaam Sir-Counsellor. .

  • @didiathome526
    @didiathome526 3 года назад +2

    Love the description "emotional trash can," - brilliant! This was the only one I had not heard before. Thanks for a great list. I can start using this right away!

  • @sra779
    @sra779 3 года назад +6

    Hey psych2go...I just wanna thank you down from the heart....💜...I became more self loving , confident and l learnt many mental facts...and sometimes I understood what my frnds are going through and help them for feeling better...every video of you are informative and helpful... especially voice of Amada💜🥺....I became strong ...and Im realising that life is so simple and lovable...I'm looking for possibilities instead of problems... 🥺💜...just because of strength and support and information and live that you given...you became my best friend 💜🥺 .....love you....thank you psych2go fam....just wanna say...every video you do is useful...💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜...I wish I could meet you and hug you and say thank you💕

  • @maddyroybal7656
    @maddyroybal7656 2 года назад +1

    I’m not 100% sure if having an emotional trash can is a great idea. I’m no psychologist, but I’ve been to one. She often emphasized the importance of creating a time in your day to simply debrief yourself and allow all of the emotions you have to flow out. It is not helpful to just push them to the side or throw them in a trash can. Your emotions often arise for many reasons. Take those moments in your debriefing to understand why you are feeling those things and accept that sometimes they can be a product of your environment. Don’t shame yourself for having those feelings. Learn to notice patterns in your thoughts. That’s what’s helped me most. It’s helped me begin to love myself.

    • @ubilwilbur4775
      @ubilwilbur4775 2 года назад

      My problem is with the concept of "trashing" emotions. As unpleasant as they are, negative emotions can be a tool for good if one uses them as such.

  • @nataliagonz4661
    @nataliagonz4661 3 года назад +10

    I saw this and clicked as soon as I could because A weak mental system has been making me very different from others apparently and I’m only getting meaner and meaner because nobody is respecting my kindness

    • @herelizabethan
      @herelizabethan 3 года назад +1

      You can vent in this reply section :)
      Only real people would accept you for you and I’ll be that person :D

    • @prolo6309
      @prolo6309 3 года назад +3

      Don't be kind just because you want others to respect you. Be kind because you like being kind. At the end of the day, you don't need approval from others to be happy.

    • @ahhwe-any7434
      @ahhwe-any7434 11 месяцев назад

      Somexs u really do hafta fake kindness to get by tho. Like y the f do I hafta be stuck w/ u for? You're the worst 😭. I just look at ppl, mostly all liars, like you're a damn psychopath killer! This is y I can't w/ y'all. Ok maybe not but still. I still can not

    • @maxsheng8215
      @maxsheng8215 6 месяцев назад

      Change the system. But id say your trying to fit into a system which is not you. Let the system fit you, if no such system, just go with your instinct. It will not disappoint you by following ur instinct. It existed before any system.

  • @pizarronot
    @pizarronot 4 месяца назад

    I've realized I work so hard on working on my body, that I've leaving my mentality aside. Thanks for this video ❤

  • @SAGE-ro4yb
    @SAGE-ro4yb 3 года назад +15

    I've never clicked on a video so fast after reading the title

  • @mirroreduniverse9044
    @mirroreduniverse9044 2 года назад +1

    Motivated, determined, resilient, confident, mentally untouchable. Notice I didn't say physical because no man is. Unfortunately, our physiology limits us anything past that. More words can describe my presence, but let's not be selfish. I walk a path. A path that was aligned for me since the begining of time. The creator gave me life through abundance. Allowing the correct blend of souls to cross paths, but not only to make eye contact, but to share passion with one another. A passion that allowed human life to be conceived over, and over, and over again. And through it all with proper planning, placement, and the correct space and time, here I stand. Mistakes made, battles fought, time elapsed, ridicule spewed. I refuse to let the actions of mere fellow humans distract me from serenity. In this life do you fill a purpose? A longing, a yearning itch for completion? If so, then we both share something. Something unbreakable, something remarkable. Never fall short to the false obstacles some call roadblocks. I am a walking example, and breathing blueprint to what resilience can display regardless of the sagittal divide and support. You see hate, hate is nothing but an expression of colluded emotions. Hate can be controlled. Hate can be tamed. Hate is nothing but an insecurity within oneself, but can be overcome. Giving humans specific labels makes me slightly uncomfortable, but I thank all categories regardless. So to all of my supporters, fans, members of The Covenant, and all of my emotional haters that are truly disguised, I thank you. Your years of words have allowed me more motivation in myself than I have ever had in my entire life. Some of the messages I receive are unbelievably touching. They're humbling. You see, the creator has blessed me. Has blessed me with a gift. A gift to allow others sanctuary through my actions, through my words. Each and every last subscriber, you mean something to me. I am a product, a breathing product, kept alive by you. This message can be delivered to each and every soul that I speak to individually. Close your eyes. Know your worth. Never let anyone tear you down for they do not posses the power of intrigue that is the mind. Evolve past your current self and understand what you provide is meaningful. So with all of that being said, thank you for three years of love and support. Thank you. Ten thousand subscribers and many more.

  • @starros1
    @starros1 3 года назад +5

    Very well done, Sara. Anyone can benefit from your mental toughness advice. Thank you!

  • @trevormarrosi3286
    @trevormarrosi3286 Месяц назад

    I find that meditation helps me become more calm because i remind myself to breath deeply which has a calming effect

  • @french-ishtoast
    @french-ishtoast 3 года назад +66

    I used to be pretty mentally stable but the pandemic really messed me up.... luckily in the future the pandemic passed.
    -A Time Traveler

    • @imiss1D
      @imiss1D 3 года назад +7

      Hey!!! We are at the same timeline
      Pendemic isn't over yet
      Or is it..
      Edit: Directioners will get me

    • @french-ishtoast
      @french-ishtoast 3 года назад +1

      @@imiss1D Oh I have already traveled to the future >:)

    • @imiss1D
      @imiss1D 3 года назад +3

      @@french-ishtoast so tell did 1d reunite ??

    • @french-ishtoast
      @french-ishtoast 3 года назад +1

      @@imiss1D That is something you must find out yourself... mwhahahaha

    • @oh-ohstinky5819
      @oh-ohstinky5819 3 года назад +1

      the time travel thing is becoming old

  • @scrap-wrk6222
    @scrap-wrk6222 Год назад

    In times of negativity I like to say this to myself “I’m not perfect that’s what makes me human” because it’s honestly true.
    no one is truly perfect regardless how mentally strong or weak they are In the end we are human not a perfect being.

  • @floraith
    @floraith 3 года назад +4

    Thank you! This has helped me with my unhappy and stressful life honestly, keep up the good work! ❤️

  • @milos7705
    @milos7705 2 месяца назад

    I been practicing mindfulness, gratitude. This stuff helps and seems silly at first . Keep going you’ll see

  • @lion3914
    @lion3914 2 года назад +5

    MENTALLY STRONG
    1) get an emotional trash can
    2) acknowledge and use the power of choice
    3) do the difficult things first
    4) exercise
    5) learn how to lose gracefully
    6) Prartice gratitude
    7) let go of things you can't control

  • @annettebaker7556
    @annettebaker7556 3 года назад

    Thanks

  • @woof9991
    @woof9991 3 года назад +5

    This actually gave me courage and an idea to deal with my situation rn, thank you 🌱🌸

  • @ngocnhuypie
    @ngocnhuypie 2 года назад

    i love the narrator's voice, she speaks in such a gently smooth way

  • @thedarkertheberrythesweete7125
    @thedarkertheberrythesweete7125 3 года назад +37

    “ find a support group “
    I literally have no friends

    • @-criedjupiter-8464
      @-criedjupiter-8464 3 года назад

      Family

    • @-criedjupiter-8464
      @-criedjupiter-8464 3 года назад +3

      Online friends

    • @josephineananda
      @josephineananda 3 года назад

      Recovery International.

    • @cloudfish1829
      @cloudfish1829 3 года назад +3

      Pets, during my worst years of depression, my hamsters got me through so much, not because they rly did anything, but just the thought that I wasn't alone and there was something bright to look forward to in life.

    • @cloudfish1829
      @cloudfish1829 3 года назад

      And also family, esp your mom. I remember back then, every time I was around more than 4 family members, I would be happy and much calmer. Sadly, they couldn't be around all the time

  • @marslars3567
    @marslars3567 3 года назад

    The voice of the narrator is so soothing to my mind and heart and the message gets easily received.

  • @Eggzzies
    @Eggzzies 4 месяца назад +14

    "THEY DON'T KNOW ME SON!!"

  • @Saiarts_yt
    @Saiarts_yt Год назад

    For me, having morning and evening routine is a must. But also incorporating naps into my day helps as well, generally speaking having a self care routine is a must.

  • @jwmrna
    @jwmrna 3 года назад +5

    I really was waiting for this vid my whole life lol. This is really helpful. I am in a bad state in my life right now but using these tips I think I can get through it! So, thank u for these advice!

  • @haninDaline87
    @haninDaline87 2 года назад

    I have a big issue in staying at jobs because of bullying and harassment and I’m not strong mentally, then I go through deep depression and I even think I wish I’m not alive, knowing that I’m really not that person, I don’t have any bad habits, never smoke, never drunk, I used to be very positive, ambitious, I noticed I changed since I faced bullying, I was even physically assaulted at a job, but I didn’t know what to do. Now that I know, sometimes I feel resentment and it’s hard to let go. That’s the past, I strongly want to let go and be mentally strong for now and in the future. I’m trying and I need more advice and videos like this.

  • @monicaperez2843
    @monicaperez2843 3 года назад +4

    Here are a few more: ask yourself what is the most pressing problem in your life. Work to solve it, and often your other problems will disappear with it. Another suggestion: accept some people need to be loved from a distance. Love them from a distance, as allowing others to abuse you does not benefit you or them.

  • @prernajh
    @prernajh 2 года назад

    This is exactly what I needed given how badly filled with fears and doubts I am about my upcoming CAT exam. Starting today I really am gonna work on myself and gonna post every single day in either yes or no indicating whether I succeeded in keeping myself positive or not.

  • @nainshiraina2155
    @nainshiraina2155 2 года назад +6

    I really need this generation to invent a device to erase the memories...

  • @craigmerkey8518
    @craigmerkey8518 3 года назад +1

    I love this ! The one thing I have learned is validation seeking is the most number one harmful thing you can do!

  • @vibhatripathi48
    @vibhatripathi48 3 года назад +14

    Hey psych2go, i wanted to request a video on the topic 'maladaptive daydreaming.' I am seeing some symptoms in myself and I am scared. I am not self diagnosing myself though. Hope you notice and help me a bit .
    Love this channel so much ❤

    • @lalalavideo6435
      @lalalavideo6435 3 года назад +1

      🌱ruclips.net/video/SJeZ7bJTyoc/видео.html🌿

  • @anammorar
    @anammorar 2 года назад

    I spend time with my boyfriend. I don't have many friends, and socializing has helped me to decrease my anxiety.
    - hope this tip helps

  • @samsonm.5372
    @samsonm.5372 3 года назад +8

    I really love this channel and I noticed a string of solution driven videos have come out recently. It couldn't have been at a better time ♡. Thank you psych2go for YOUR support in my life. I tell you it's more constant than some people in my life & I hope you continue to empower others for years♡♡♡

  • @achilimihu4050
    @achilimihu4050 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you for creating such a video. I have spent many sleepless nights thinking about climate change, corruption going on around, destruction happens because of ultra materialistic people everywhere. But I was forgetting one thing was that nothing was in my hand :(

  • @ultra6909
    @ultra6909 3 года назад +18

    Sometimes we already know the true way, just need somebody to remind us...just my opinion ;)

    • @lalalavideo6435
      @lalalavideo6435 3 года назад +1

      💖🤗🍀ruclips.net/video/SJeZ7bJTyoc/видео.html🍁

    • @J_iraa
      @J_iraa 3 года назад

      wait really? i didn't know that tho- i feel so wierd...

  • @turulszervac1714
    @turulszervac1714 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you for these tips. The only one I already do is exercise as I go to the gym every day. The others I'm not sure how to actually implement. Practicing gratitude and letting go of things in particular are things I've been told a lot in my life but really don't know how to do, despite having it explained to me. Doing the difficult things first does sound easier and losing gracefully is easier said than done but still easier than the other things. As for an emotional trash can, I think I could manage that through writing. As for choice, I understand the logic quite well but I feel like I'm bound to society and other people too much.

  • @VictorPham_
    @VictorPham_ 3 года назад +12

    When you’ve built up your mental fortitude...then you fall in love.

  • @pokemonshower7338
    @pokemonshower7338 3 года назад

    I never thought of doing this but now I feel like I should do it..
    It is to write all your negativity and your negative thoughts about yourself on a paper and throw it or burn it
    And start a new thought.
    I hate myself, I always wish to develop myself but it doesn't work
    I compare myself with me yesterday and when I find any mistake again or anything I had done worse
    I just think that I am worse and I can't develop

  • @frutticam
    @frutticam 2 года назад +3

    Just a little reminder 💚
    Believe in yourself ✨
    Don’t forget who you are and what you capable of ✨
    Don’t estimate yourself ✨
    Stay strong ✨

  • @alyssawilson6271
    @alyssawilson6271 3 года назад +2

    This video brought light to things I was already doing but also things I can work on for the future. I'm greatful for these videos.

  • @vAqeii
    @vAqeii 3 года назад +82

    Secret 1: Playing Minecraft on Hardcore mode

    • @boystarr706
      @boystarr706 3 года назад

      this is my sign to play minecraft

    • @cordeliangelreece
      @cordeliangelreece 3 года назад +1

      i would like this comment but it's at 69 likes and i can't mess it up