What If My Ex Is Using No Contact Too?
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- Опубликовано: 25 июл 2024
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If you are asking, "What if your ex is doing no contact also," or questions related to someone who broke up with you using the no contact rule to try to get back together with you, this is the video for you!
My Ex Is Also Doing No Contact
Coach Lee discusses how you can know if your ex is also using no contact even if he or she dumped you. Though this situation is rare, people are often concerned and wondering if their ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend is also using no contact and if that will prevent them from ever talking to each other or getting back together. This concept is explained and thought through by Coach Lee.
Watch this video all the way to the end to learn what you should do and what you should not do if your ex is using no contact on you.
If your boyfriend or girlfriend broke up with you and hasn't contacted you, you might think they are using the no contact rule on you.
Maybe they are and maybe they aren't. Coach Lee explains how you can know if they are and what you should do if you want them back.
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My grandma used to say, " Stay with the people that love you and want you in their life."
Grand Mas are the best
Right on!
Your Grandmother was spot. From the days when people gave a dam and looked out for one another and life was simple.
You made my day!
You give me sort of relief
Wise woman
The dumper should be the first one to reach out.....ALWAYS
Being dumped suckks
Exactly!
Exactly
Yup! 💯
There always exceptions
Never force yourself to be with someone who doesn't seem to love and care for you ...
I felt that this my boyfriend dumped me been 13 days he say he miss me and I'm sorry I lefted you
*True but... What if they leave a big question mark in your head like "I still love u, but we cannot be together" or after a 3-4 month u somehow can't control your patience and decide to write... And they are still polite and have not blocked or deleted u... What do we think then?*
PREACH!!!
@@spiritualrituals9603time tells everything
I loved when you said “bet on yourself.” Whenever I feel anxious about the breakup I listen to one of your videos and always walk away feeling calmer and better. 💜
.update?
At 7:40 in this video, coach said the realest shit ever spoken. If they havent contacted you yet its because they dont miss you enough. Just think about that the next time you want to break no contact. Why the hell would you want to contact somebody who dont want you still? Stand your ground! You might not feel it but each day you are getting stronger, in there eyes too.
I heard something that women are less likely to contact back then if it was a guy.
Sounds like the mad hatter's tea party. This is all.smoke and mirrors. If your ex is going to come back the cards are in his favor. Move on and don't look back they're a lot nice people out there put you ex on the bus and start fresh. Best of luck in your search
Strongly agree
Keepin' it real...
Really really wonderful 🤩👌
Day 20 of NC ... 2-3 times panic attacks a day ...damm this is hard... but staying strong is the only option I have.
Its the best option you can do this!
I'm in the same boat as you, about the same amount of days and we were married for over 33 years and she left and never said anything
Faith, you will live another day and you will be OK. Just keep reminding yourself that.
Hi! Do you have an update?!?
@@Adultsodas yeah.... I m doing Great now... Cleared my entrance exam for MBA college with good percentile... Got a selection in a nice college... Focused on my health...gained my muscles back....got proposal from 2 girls but didn't accepted..My Ex also tried to cameback but rejected her too(I mean why not..that cheater) 😌.. learning skills related to my career and from yesterday started the FKIN CITRULLINE MALATE for nice blood rush and insane veins and vascularity .... 💪
Got dumbed, blocked in March 11th, Unblocked today, April 19th. Not optimistic, but, I have moved on! I cannot believe the growth in me in 40 days!!
3 months post breakup. i never thought that i would stop crying and i’m becoming stronger every day. i no longer feel like life doesn’t have meaning without him. imagining a future without him doesn’t seem scary anymore, but im excited for what the future holds, with or without him! thank you so much
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@@randommf3549 a few weeks after this, i reached out and got my response. i haven’t looked back since. i met someone who is such a great fit for me :) i learned the hard way that life doesn’t always go according to my plan and actually ended up so much better this way!
Today is one month, no contact, staying strong mehn
Update from you both?
Update
K Mac aww. Update... 1 day.
Update brother?
Update please?
If your ex dumped you they didnt value you, or see your value. Keep moving forward. Eventually they will grow some balls, and will come back. Trust me. If you treated them right, and they left anyway its because there is something wrong inside them. They wont fix it. They will just relationship hop. Eventually they will circle back, and I hope that when they do, you have made a better life for yourself, and you kindly point out their obliviousness to reality, and decline their company. THE PEOPLE THAT DESERVE YOU WILL SEE AND HONOR YOUR VALUE!
Joe c Amen 🙏🏻
You absolutely right 💯
What if they dumped you because you didn't see their value? What if they say they tried their best to make you happy but couldn't and will always lust and love you?
Absolutely right. Unfortunately I have been in this situation and at first I doubted myself worth. But then I realised it was her personal issue that stopped our relationship. She has a lot of trauma. I am not mad at her or anything. I pray she heals and become a better person for herself. 🙂🙏💞
@@lorainebejar2837 my bf dumped me 5dys ago.we just start arguing of nonsense stuff until he told me that we are done.for me it's not a mistake to look for him outside in the pub call him and Tex him but he was fighting with me.and in the next day he told me that he want to be alone till I saw him drinking bars all-night long so tried to spy him of what hes doing till morning saw him another girl back riding on his bike.and show up he just surprised but he still going with the girl..and he texted me again that we are finished and that's it..nomore talk..and I don't know wheres he going.he leave me alone.and 5dys now after break up no contact..I'm hurting
"Bet on yourself" I love that! They think you will always be around waiting for them. Don't let them think you're a safe bet, bet you're not.
What's sad, is that while "no contact" and not chasing are indeed not games but strategies, it's clear to see that before a breakup happens, there is a one side part to it, that one party is trying hard to save the relationship... which often pushes the other further away! I say it's sad because it's like you can't be fully yourself or open at times, you have to play a game. Just because it's soooooo easy and common for people to walk away. Women are often encouraged to do so now too.
When you are in love we are in pain and it sucks I'm hoping the universe is listening as well as doing no contact 😕
Poppy One Let’s hope so
Some people invite you to dump them by treating you like shit- and then get mad! Don’t think I want my ex back, but I find these pep talks comforting. My family and friends still talk to my ex, and throw me a pity party every time they see me. Coach lee is like the one honest friend that I am lacking at a time like this.
There is no friend only benefits out of the desperate watchers that we are. Though I appreciate his videos, I know he’s not a friend he is just doing business
Excellent topic, Coach Lee! I swear my ex is using no contact to see if I’ll chase him and to feed his confidence
I agree .. my ex is doing the same thing.. I'm not chasing!
Me too. Ego.
@@annareal_af me too:))) but until when? Really I am very curious-i will not reach out to him but will he and when?
How do you know?
How do you know ? Maybe he wants you back that's why.
No contact is completely necessary for healing. When you tried to make things work a couple of times and it didn't work, it is time to move on.
I love coach Lee's videos and emergency break up kit. 3 months ago my ex checked out of our relationship. It was very painful to lose my best friend. I went no contact and improved myself. I started working out, lost 20 lbs, improved my flirting skills and updated my wardrobe. I have since met the most amazing woman who is drop dead gorgeous. I would not want to be without her. Just a comment to say there is life after a breakup and sometimes it is much better. Stay in no contact and preserve your self esteem. Let the dumper fix things that they broke.
Give it to God
You are SO awesome for making these! You have no idea how many videos like this I watch on repeat these days. You make so much sense, and things are getting better! Thank you so much! :)
Whenever someone dumps me it's just over for me completely regardless of their motives. I don't want to go through some fucked up making up shit just to be in a relationship.
Hi Coach Lee, I glad I had a chance to discuss my personal situation with you during a one-on-one coaching session. I've been on a search to hire a relationship coach for a while now, and I must say that I'm pleased with my choice to have chosen you. You provided great advice and tips regarding my situation.
For anyone who's searching for a relationship coach, I would gladly recommend Coach Lee. You won't be disappointed with your decision.
Your material is so good. It's so rational, wise and fair. I love it.
Thank you relation advisors for educating the people. You are all heroes.
Some people break up with others because they aren't being treated right or they are being taken advantage of. The break-up can serve to get the attention of the one who is neglecting. This topic can go both ways.
@UCEODo1yJtH_g7FpibjWiZsQ Don't feel guilty. It's not your fault! I guess this video wasn't meant for people in our situation. Sounds like you did the right thing.
Thank you! That's the one thing I don't like about these videos. I don't think he takes into account the scenario when someone is being taken advantage of (such as: someone not spending enough time with them, someone doing all the talking, someone making them feel like their only worth in the relationship is their body, when someone's gotten complacent with the relationship, etc) and has to initiate the brake up because their self-worth is at stake.
When people brake up under those circumstance, there's a good chance they're still at war with themselves about whether they truly want the brake up and having to keep reminding themselves that staying with their ex will only continue to give that person the right to continue to mistreat them. When you do "no contact" under this scenario, you make it easier for your unappreciated ex to get over you because you've basically just handed them the tangible evidence they need to say: "hey, if they really valued you, they would be here trying to fix the situation with you." These are not the kind of people to play games with. These are people that want to wear their heart on the sleeve and to see yours as well. They want security. And mind games like "no contact" are going to drive them away.
The only reason you should use "no contact" is because you're actually trying to move on and seeing them just resets your healing clock. Yes, more often then not, the ex comes back. I've done it three times and the ex came back every time. And I meant to stay in "no contact", but gave in to my own naivety. I've tried being honest, I've tried being independent, I've tried giving them their freedom, but your ex will always return to the state they were in when you dumped them or they dumped you. Move on, or expect to play mind games for the duration of the relationship. I tried the latter and ended up with depression and anxiety.
Little Britches I agree.
I did everything to save our relationship before i dumb him. Everything in 2 years! His behaviour forced me to break up with him and now he is the victim because i left him??? Perhaps now he will understand what he lost.The night before it was the several night i couldnt sleep because his phone was closed again. And now its my fault that i dumped him???( sorry english is not my mother language)
Little Britches now I don’t know what to do because now that I look back at it I hurt him emotionally and I’m doing no contact and bettering myself to get him back but now I’m not sure if that’s working because he might think I really didn’t care for the relationship if I’m in no contact with him
Exactly Coach Lee! Do not chase! Thanks!
hi my ex is not not calling me
Your words are power sir..
Nah... my ex did the “give me space” , cheated on me.. then said it’s over. But when the real break up happens he did not want to let go.
Thank you so much for encouraging and helping so many people!
Never chase....replace.
@AsSeenOnTV Okay never chase erase.
@AsSeenOnTV I think it's more like you're waiting to be blown....since you mentioned it was so gay. Have a great day.
Davina nice
@@djblack1204 :)
@AsSeenOnTV how do you blow someone with a 10ft pole
very good point in this point ! 🌈
lots of love & blessing 😇
I wanna watch coach Lee videos all day n night so soothing ..learning alot..
This man is a genius! thankyou Lee day 3 and every video helps me more and more!
SOMETIMES WHEN I LISTEN TO YOU , FEELS LIKE YOUR ADVICE WAS MADE FOR ME KKKK IT HITS ME SO HARD , SO HARD AND ITS SO TRUE AND I CAN RELATE
I feel like I’m being scolded and okay with it because I really needed it. 😐
Two weeks post breakup. Some days are easier than others. I have remained in no contact and so is he. we still follow each other on social media. I have noticed that he’s not watching my stories anymore, he hasn’t been posting neither. Well he was never big on social media. I do have a feeling he muted me or is doing a social media detox. I miss him so bad, I want to reach out every night, but I stop myself from doing so. As much as I want to, he’s the one who broke up with me and broke my heart when he decided to leave this relationship. I don’t think I could ever reach out to him, because if it works out a second time, I’ll always wonder if it did because I made the first move and not the other way around. I want him to come to me on his terms because he realized that he wants me.
Update?
@ Iva Mayorga any update???
@@swadhinacharya I never got my ex back and frankly, I don’t want him back. I was in a dark place when we broke up. But I put all my focus back on me, got a new job, moved to a new city, Got a new place, been working out and now I can say I’ve moved on. I don’t think of him much anymore. Been going on dates here and there and now I look back at the break up and I think it was for the next. I hope you’re on a better place too.
@@ivamayorga4911 glad you are happy now... Keep growing dear... Are you using any social media??
Thank you Coach Lee. I don't know if she will ever come back but your vids are very therapeutic.
Had a first contact, he called me, 3 months no contact. He said did you curse me, I think of you everyday and have dreams about you. I call bs
Do you still want him back?
@@lorainebejar2837 Actually only got the 1 call, havent heard back!! And No I dont want a do over !
@@donnacrowe1913 v good
Have self respect woman ❤️
Just found this channel..this coach is amazing. Love your insight and keep up the great videos!
God bless you couch,, am gonna handle this perfectly with no fear or favor
My ex narc broke up with me 100 times and would’ve done it 100 more if I didn’t stop it. No contact now. It hurts but I can’t feed her anymore.
Moving on process here. Everyday watching your videos inspire me a lot. Still crying here sometimes but i keep going,i stop reaching out to him. And he dont contact me also. But till now he dont get his clothes and other stuff at home. I know 2 days no work but a lot of excuses. 😢
Thank you for helping me clarify my thoughts.
I have to thank you for saying what you said about the breaker-upper needing time. I miss my ex beyond desperately--I truly feel that we are soul mates. But we repeatedly could not find our way. Our roller coaster started with mean things that he would say to me, but then I started saying things back. And to have the kind of situation where you're both hurting each other is so awful. I've never had it before, and I never want it again; but on the same token--I so wish that he and could have found--could find?--our way to each other. I miss him to my core--every cell in my body. But I was the one who broke contact and don't know how we can find our way back. For my sake, his sake, and our sake--it's excruciating, but feels necessary. Once I lashed out back, I felt I was a 'changed' person. How could I hurt someone I love like that?!? I'd not experienced that before--and all of the things he'd said to me--amidst the deep, deep periods of love--then revised as me being 'irritating' etc--made the whole experience seem fake? So I guess, all that to say for others' who may benefit from my experience--I don't regret my decision. We couldn't keep shredding each other. But--if there's any way to stop the problems before they get to that point--especially if you know it's a soulmate--try. I believe he and I both will be forever affected, and for me; confused, saddened, and regretful (and NOT because I did a 'wrong' thing--I have to say; as much as I hated initiating 'no contact', he'd been the ONLY person in my life to be berating and worse; and I really did have protect myself and didn't want to model that kind of relationship for my daughter--just recently at the tender age of 10 she said, "he never let you talk"--and she was right :(. So you might ask; why did I love him--I'm still not sure. But I definitely knew I needed time to give it some serious thought.
Do your kid a favor and don't bring men into the house. Date outside the house. She's probably seen enough drama, and I hope her Dad is in her life.
This is so helpful,thanks coach Lee💝
I think this is one of the best videos on your channel. :) You are just on point.
One question. I wrote a letter to my ex's parents one month after the breakup. I was writing that I really appreciated their time and that I will miss my second family. I had a really good relationship with them and loved their personalities. What do you think about that Lee? Did that push my ex further away??
Hey coach nice to see you again you’ve been away on vacation to bora bora 😂😂
That's a wonderful explanation of how No Contact is for the dumpees!
I swear to God that your voice sounds exactly like my inner voice (a.k.a my higher self) always mumbling behind my head and pulling me back from my wrong decisions.
The only things you must chase are your dreams. When your ex knows from the new you in the future she/he will be probably regret everything, I can guarantee you that
There are times when there is a downward spiral in communication, and both parties simply quit texting at the same time. It's hard to know who the dumper is. I have had this happen to me. Technically you can go off who sent the last message I guess, but I am glad to see this video bc there are some rare situations where it just fizzles away and maybe they think they got dumped.
Thanks Coach Lee for this truth serum.
Thank you Coach Lee. Hope, you could also share some topic about LDR bc i’m into it and don’t know if it would be successful...😔
Emma, that’s on my list for very soon. Thank you for your comment/suggestion.
Hey Coach Lee could you please do a video about what it means if your ex has a breakup with their rebound pretty quickly into the relationship, but then they get back together?
God bless u man u are the best!
My ex said she is giving me space before she reaches out again. However it is to be friends. I will tell her that there is too much history too much feelings to only be friends and to call me if she changes her mind
Excellent video Lee.
Ha,ha,ha! That Beatle's song comes to mind.
Nowhere man.
What if it isn’t clear who broke up with who? It was mostly a mutual breakup.
Perhaps this scenario is covered in the Kit, which I purchased.
Brilliant. Thanks for the advice.
thank you so much for this ...it make me wake up now
Thank you. im in process of no contact.
Two weeks and going strong!! Thank you Coach Lee!👍👍
Hi! Any updates? How long was your relationship?
@@Adultsodas she ended up moving with a rebound, moved in with him. She moving on, and I am moving on, that's life. live and learn.
No contact really works! Iam glad i found coach Lee,i watched all his video again and again,and,after 3months of no contact,radio silence,i decided to greet him happy holidays,to my mind i break the no contact rule.But after a few days,he responded.Greets me a happy new year.and i responded with the same greetings,nothing more.no how are you,nothing.and i leave it at that.now the ball is in his court.I will let him do the works,he is the one who dumped me.so,good luck to him if he can win me over.thanks a lot coach Lee,you are a big help😊
Thank you Man yeses no contact .....is the best ever ..i do agree totaly with him self respect very important
Day 4, no contact. I am already feeling the growth in me! Optimistic at the same time.
Junior Lewis what # is this? Where to?
@@habibbasit4518 Heyy i just broke up with my gf because she said she scared of relationship now of all the stress and wanted to have it after graduation, do you guys think i should wait for graduation because she really my wife material and she likes me too but scared to like me howwww
@@paimon3872 Hey, 3 years later. How did it end?
you said avery important thing, if they come fast back then it is not so solid criteria
What does this mean?
Love your videos man! Thanks so much for this content!
My x is using the no contact on me so forget it i will just move on please he ain't worth it love is patient love is kind he is just a user
You are best coach lee.......👍👌❤❤
We’ve been broken up for a week after two years together and over a year of living together. I had to break no contact two days ago to return a few of his things. Haven’t spoken to him since i saw him that night. It’s been easy to distract myself during the day but night time it feels like it all comes crashing down and I’ve made no progress. These videos are the only thing that calm my mind and make me feel okay. I will never expect him to come back to me but I know he’ll miss me. Our relationship wasn’t perfect but he knows I loved him unconditionally and no matter how much he feels like he needs to find himself he’ll miss me and everything he gave up at some point. I wish I could rush the process but I know I can’t, for now I have years worth of videos to help me sleep at night. Thank you for what you do Coach Lee. I truly don’t know where I’d be without these videos.
Thanks for confirming that. Makes sense or else it would be a stale mate; it would never be resolved.
This information has disillusioned me. What nonsense !!! I'm out of here.
So no contact works. I proved it. 10 days after I initiated NC, my gf contacted me mainly with small talk- and then I messed up everything and pushed to hard. Now I'm literally blocked. So, get Coach Lee's emergency kit, and WHEN (not if) they contact you, be calm. Be patient. Don't do like I did! EDIT: I'm not blocked anymore. After my second NC, she reached out again. So it does work. Also, I'm not affiliated with Coach Lee at all- but I bought his kit and he does know what he's talking about. It is worth it.
Odd&Entertaining my husband has not contacted me at all and it’s been 3 weeks. It’s never gonna happen. 😢
@@taylormade4393 Be patient. 3 weeks is very little time, although I understand each day seems like hell right now. You have to give it time for him to miss you. Time is your friend. Walk or workout. Give yourself 15 minutes a day as Coach Lee says to dwell, and then keep busy the rest of the time. Trust me, I have days where I have broken down like a little baby in the middle of the grocery store. So I feel your pain, okay? You are NOT alone. If you were married, he is thinking about you. He just needs time to really start to miss you. He can't do that if you contact him. 45-60 days is a usual time. There are only two options, okay? He will contact you within 60 days, which is very likely, or you will know the other answer. It may be longer, but trust me, there is a very good chance he will contact you. Just be happy, confident, and don't be needy when he does. You want to attract him- and if you seem like you are happy-go-lucky, he will start wondering what he is missing. Stay strong, okay? You are not alone. I still struggle each day. Pray, and you can make it. Be the best you that you can. Find out who you really are as an individual. Try to let go of the constant thought. It will happen. Time is your friend. Remember, you are not alone. :)
Odd&Entertaining Awe, thank you so much for caring enough to reply. I know this may sound so dumb but I don’t know who broke up with who. We had been arguing a lot lately and under tremendous amount of stress. He had changed a lot and distanced himself a lot in the last month. I’m the one that started throwing my clothes on the bed to leave the relationship so he told me if I left I would not be coming back. It was a horrible argument where we said terrible things to one another.
I was determined to leave because I felt desperate at the moment. He then got dressed and headed out first but before he left he told me he wanted a divorce. I’m sure he left the house to cool off but I left and never came back. He never reached out to me. I haven’t reached out either. I’m so afraid of reaching out and getting Rejected. The thing is he is supposed to leave on deployment in January so if he doesn’t contact me before then it’s really over. I’m so devastated. Everyday is hell. Im so depressed that I have trouble even getting out of the house.
@@taylormade4393 I understand completely. I would seek some professional counseling, and really think about what you want. I wouldn't worry about rejection. What you really need is some honest communication. Give him some time to cool off, and to miss you. If it was a mutual breakup, then that is different than the normal NC they talk about here. Still, I would give him some space, and really decide what you want. I understand each day is hard. I really do. Get out and walk. Depression is normal, you are not alone. I wasn't treated well, my ex has a lot of mental problems, and I was still depressed beyond anything. So what you are feeling is very normal. Just try to pick yourself up and understand the sun will come up tomorrow. Breath. Sometimes it might be one minute at a time, but eventually, time will help you. It will be each hour. Then each day. You can make it. You are only human, and we feel more than we think. It is very normal. Now is the time to reach out to family and friends. Don't overwhelm them, but let them know you need support. There is nothing wrong with that, and the people who love you will support you. Remember, I'm in pain just like you! So you are not alone. If I could give you a hug over the internet, I would! You WILL make it through. You have time. Take a deep breath. Relax. Deployment or not, you have time. Okay? That really doesn't mean it's over. Be sure to take care of yourself. I understand 100% what you are going through.
Odd&Entertaining Thank you so much. I’m sorry you are in pain too. I wish I could take that pain away from you. I’m grateful for you taking the time to talk to me. You have a huge heart. I hope things get better for you too.
What about if you broke up with them? I'm using no contact and I dumped my ex. She was disrespecting me and was crossing lines. She hasn't even tried contacting me. I'm currently doing radio silence and even stopped posting on social media
When u love some one fight for them,life its take and give, dont give up
Depends on your definition of “fight.”
Love requires two people to feel the same way about one another. Until that happens you're being a creep. PS. stop watching the Disney movies, the single biggest source for turning men into simps.
Excellent explanations!
What if no one broke up? Instead, the other person got mad/argument and is very stubborn, ego driven, and every time an argument occurs they expect you to break the ice because of their silly pride. It’s happened several times in my case in a 2 and a half year relationship. If I don’t contact they don’t. This is a real problem for me and a few others I know. Wish you could make a video on this if you’ve had experience with this scenario. I’m on 2 months NC now. I’m tired of having to give in to save his pride. He even waits a few days to reply to my initiating contact. It’s mental control and absurd.
No. My husband is using no contact so I accept the way he's treating me. To control me and make me accept less than my worth. It's complete manipulation.
You're right. I've allowed him to do this over the last 4 years. So now we are at a stand off. And he's far too proud to give in.
Sometimes things break when one doesn't bend
thank ypu coach lee .. I need this video
I already train him coach. We breakup many times and i always beg ang plead. But this last time i dont. Im in NC a month now. I hope i can be hold on.
I've heard that a lot of women will use no contact as a way of trying to get over you and move on.
This is what my ex does !!!! She was the dumper and asked to not have contact with each other and asked also for space. The breakup was ended in good terms and the relationship was healthy. She is just not ready or confused with herself or I don’t know what is going on her mind but the point is, that yeah she’s doing no contact as well to me to get over the breakup and so on.
I don’t know what the heck should I do
@@rebelarisupdate?
@@matthewcarrillo1951 we haven’t heard or seen each other since then and I no longer care. I gained more than I lost.
Time reveals great valuable gifts that won’t able to see in that moment.
I’m barely going on to day 3. Hardest thing I’ve ever done, seeing from different people around me she hasn’t blocked (family members) it seems like she’s completely over everything and told them she doesn’t see us being together at this point in time. The only thing that I’m holding on to is that she said she can’t predict what can happen in the future. I don’t think she’s ever going to un block me and message me first
Oh man , I’m in the same boat. The future line is a cruel way of torturing us
They don’t miss u enough ! 🙂
I’m on NC day 21. I’m starting to realise I miss the memories and fun times more than the person.
Staystrongbro
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Thank you for this video! 😀 I have read a bunch of your articles, but I can't really find the question to this particular no contact rule... My ex and I both decided to go no contact for 30 days starting today after our 6 year relationship. We've been broken up for 7 months and we've been in touch all this time, mainly because he's indecisive about what he wants with us. And so am I sometimes. We both agreed on going no contact for 30 days because we're having too many fights and we both need to work on ourselves and we need to figure out what we want. He even said he sometimes regrets the breakup but isn't ready due to his mental state and our fights. We both said we hope we can work things out after NC, but I'm scared he'll forget about me, or be happy without me. Should I reach out to him after 30 days? I'm just scared he'll ignore me and has forgotten about me. Or should I wait for him to text me? Even if we agreed on the 30 days NC? I'm afraid he'll get over me since we both initiated no contact to see where our heads are at and to get our minds straight. Will he even miss me or think about me? Please help!
He won't forget about you. If anything he will miss you more.
Sweetheart you don’t have to worry about him not thinking about you or missing you. I guarantee he is missing you and thinking about you every day just as you are. You both have been through everything together six years not a short time. Keep your head up stay strong and I would text him after the 30 day keep it short. I hope everything works out for you and you seem like a sweet girl.
After 75 days of no contact my ex messaged me asking can she pick up some stuff she left behind , she stayed for 3 hours , we chatted like old friends , I stayed calm , enjoyed the moment and now she is messaging me regularly, in the 11 weeks no contact I had totally revamped my house , exercised and got my social life back , we may only end up as friends but it sure feels good right now , stay strong
Update Bryan?
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I don't think we're getting updates lads
Thanks for the heads up on this one ☝️
I need to heal and forget him.
We on the same phone plan so idek how this suppose to go lol
Im pretty sure my ex using no contact. I want them back but im a stubborn and principled man. No way will i ever break no contact. They must repair what THEY broke!
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Perfect!!! Thank you a lot !!!!!
FOUND IT! 💪
7:22 onward. That’s all you can do
Me and my girlfriend we had a relationship for almost 6 year and one month ago he broke-up with me and start dating someone else.
I hope she will come back after a period of thinking.
Thanks for all the advice
How'd it go?
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should add a video about dating a person with border line disorder/traits. 4 years, 3 break ups...walking out on arguments, never resolving issues, moody, dr. jeykl/mr. hyde...will not go to counselling...hard to love someone like this. When they are good they are wonderful...but can turn on a dime. Never takes ownership of issues. Not sure if no contact will work with a person like her, but I am doing it NOW after 3 months of some back and forth mixed messages. As a man of Faith, I trust God for guidance and answers, to restore our relationship...if not then that is His will and I will meet someone else. GREAT video's of advise!! thank you Coach!!!
I am not saying my girl is doing that, but as usual
the input of Coach Lee was
Beautifully input.
What if your ex’s family members still come around and reaching out while you’re doing no contact?
Dee all the way G That’s a really good question!!!! 🤔
Do not reply, they will talk to the ex and the ex might be using them to get info, even if granny dies, not apart of that family anymore, do not reply!
I'm done. I talk to her after 61 days, today would be our 1 year aniverssary, I reached out to see how she's doing, and she went so cold to me, man, after all I did for her, after all I suffered, and impruve myself for her and made things that I wouldnt even made for myself in a lifetime, I'm not worth for her, not even to ask how im doing, I'm a much person now and It's all thanks to the shitty situations that she put me on, but now I feel stupid, weak and pathetic, she did not miss me at all
Do you have a video about breaking up with your ex and then trying to get him back then him rejecting me?
Thanks for this videos mate
Does no contact work even if she left for logical reason but still loves me so much?