Episode Forty-One: Tinder | Violating Community Guidelines
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- Опубликовано: 16 окт 2022
- Forget Bumble. Forget Hinge. Forget Raya. We're going back to the CLASSICS, babes. Today we're talking about Tinder, the ultimate hookup app that's somehow STILL buggy after being out for TEN YEARS.
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The idea of Brittany faking a British accent on a tinder date has me crying
Multiple tender dates😂😂😂😂😂
it is so her
it’s giving that one episode of zoey 101 where lola fakes a british accent to go on a date lol
She says it’s her first intimate experience so like…was she faking it during that too. So many questions left unanswered. For the better perhaps
@@surfergirl988 HAHA YES
Brittany now that you’re famous I wonder if Jonathan has realized you were in fact not British
Hopefully not from this episode where she repeatedly called him ugly lmao
came here looking for this comment
@@Chachixo *hopefully
@@nickabate9372 it says hopefully?
SHES NOT BRITISH???
I don’t think any of us could have predicted THAT was the origin of Brittany’s incredible English accent 💀
Yea, I don’t really know how to feel about it 🤨
Its disgusting what she did and worst how she told it. Like thatbperson was worthless
@@turfheadd She didnt earn shet she was of age and decided to mess with the man. glad karma has gotten her good.
@@kichan3353 it’s really not that big of a deal lmaoooo it was a harmless lie
@@kichan3353 u good bro?
I think we should make this into a 2-3 hr podcast ladies thank you
No fr
@@viovenda8922 PLEASEEEE
i think sarah is nonbinary
Fr it’s not long enoughhhh
@@chubbygirl890 she goes by they/she
Him: “I’ve never met a British person before”
Britney: “yoouh still Aven’t!!”
IM DYING
I worked at a domestic violence woman’s shelter and we had a wall of pictures of local abusers. One day I opened tinder and saw three of those dudes on the app. These men are violent offenders, one almost beat his girlfriend to death, and they’re on tinder. Remember that people always put their best self on those apps.
Oh my god
the only reason mondays are even bearable anymore THANK YALLLL
Literally only thing getting me through my 8am college math class. 🌝
You would love my podcast 😜✌️
Truth
Especially cuz it’s midterm week 🤮🤮🤮🤮
No literally! I have some personal issues going on and idk something about them talking about shitting and things just gives me some level of sanity.
“it’s okay to not be in a relationship” THANK YOU
Is
Is this news to some people? 😭
@@KingOfGaymes I think it’s more so the social pressure to be in a relationship/seek a potential partner
@@JusticeForChuuu and in my experience it goes for both genders, in my old church community as a man I was probably expected to be married before 30 and start popping out kids, although even while I was a Christian I didn't want kids at all and still don't (there were large families there), and I’ve heard many stories from other apostates of single people being looked down upon and even being treated as outcasts after a certain age in many churches
The podcast is like spending time with your cool older cousins at the family reunion
While the rest of the family is arguing at the dining table.
I met my spouse on OKcupid. We later saw each other on tinder, when we were talking but “just friends” and she swiped left on me! Jokes on her, I’m her wife now.
top tier origin story
“Jokes on her, I’m her wife now”
This feels like a self roast 😭
Writing a bio gives me the same panic brain fart as when you're asked to say a fun fact about yourself to the class
You always end up hiding the most interesting fact because you know you’ll get bullied, so you pick some normal ahh stuff like “oh I had a cat”
Not Brittany half catfishing a guy only to ghost him later, and then being stuck on a guy who appeared perfect but didn’t want more 😭
she’s just like me 😔
PREACH - high key i think she was really pathetic in that situation and what make me feel so embarrassed for her is that she shows she hasnt grown enough to realize the nature of her actions. She was highly insecure and she took advantage of what sounds like a very unlucky and unwise man AND THEN claims purity for herself because she was good at making him take bait. And Also she thinks it was fair because he was ugly?? what? If she never realises that then i think her perfect guy dumping her was so fair game.
@@moiseslozano6906 that man was 24 going after 18 year olds lmao he deserved whatever he got
Call it karma, call it whatever you like 🖤🖤🖤
@@moiseslozano6906 wtf is this comment lol
Thank you for being so open this episode Brittany. I relate so hard to being young and obsessed with the idea of being loved. Also being the “fat nice friend” made it so no person ever perused me until college and I literally would date anyone who showed interest in me. Even though it’s really hard, time, experiences, and failed relationships helped show me who I really am and what I’m worth. That being said, my boyfriend and I of 3 years met on tinder 😅
I’m willing to bet he noticed your sense of humor and how smart you are. A lot of men just can’t handle when a woman is as funny as they are or funnier so they don’t acknowledge it. I bet he’s still repeating your jokes as his own too lol
Another reason men don't acknowledge things is just because we don't. Like if someone is funny I will laugh I am not gonna say "you're so funny". Women will do that in relationships to flirt and then when men don't do it it'll be interpret as offensive, when some men just don't communicate like that.
@@ashcar6903 speaking for all men I guess 💀
@@ashcar6903 men will blow smoke up other mens ass for repeating the same reddit joke for 3 years in a row
@@KingOfGaymes all straight men probs
@@ashcar6903 nOt AlL MEn ☹️😫😩🫣🤮
Jonathan just finding out he was tricked years later bc someone heard his tattoo description and sent him this. 😂😂😂
I love how you can tell Brittany is just so smart in her various rants
i love it!! she’ll use high vocabulary and you can always tell when she’s really passionate about a topic l.
I’d say Sarah does that too! Sometimes i think Sarah has a harder tome communicating them but they both have super interesting thoughts!
imagine being that guy:
"yeah I went on a date with Brittany Broski she pretended to be british and called me ugly on her podcast"
No seriously I love Brittany but I feel terrible for that guy :(
@@violetcrimes732 straight up LIED
as a fat queer person actively dating for the first time in college, i heavily relate to brittany’s experiences. i’m working on my relationship with myself but it still stings- especially when my skinny queer friends tell me i’m just “not putting myself out there”- like dude, we both know why lmao
That part. And sometimes its better to stay single, focus on yourself - visualy, if you feel like it and in a healthy way but mostly - which is often overlooked: Academicaly, jobwise, everyday skills and so on. This feeling and topic can truly "block" you from futhering your life as a whole. If you are getting bad grades, dont take care of your home and stop living in general, because you can not get a partner, it is a problem. Stepping away from it all, accepting this is not my time right now and moving on with stuff I can actually have impact on helped me so much. I avoided dating for like 2-3 years and have grown so much as a person in that time, as some who actually has their sh*t together...I graduated with good grades, found my personal style, got closer to my family and friends, learned so many everyday skills like cooking, cleaning, but also invested in hobbies like painting or photography. This gave me the confidence to say: You know, now I might be ready because I know who I am and my value, but I dont feel the need to stress it all. Its really hard in the beginning and you feel like you dont deserve that life - but in reality all of our paths are different and the most empowering thing to do is focus on what you can influence right now and dont let ppl stop you from living.
Brittany scooting away in a fit of laughter finished me 💀💀💀🤣
HE GAVE ME ATTENTION, HOPE THIS HELPS!! that’s sending me
goddamnit Broski you’re the best 😭😭😭
that part had me DYING
Brittany you definitely get this all the time but as an English person you are one of the ONLY American people who does a good British accent, I’m always impressed
100%! The fact she said she learnt it from TOWIE makes so much sense 💀😂
i really do appreciate Britney opening up about her experiences, because while i’ve never been the fat funny friend, i’ve been the quiet neurodivergent one. i connected to some of it where men don’t see us as “girlfriend material” but rather a filter into the mind of a woman
I feel this🥺
I’ve been having such a hard time recovering from covid, and the part about Brittany’s 🐱 being an Escalade is the hardest I’ve laughed all week
What time was this in the video?? I’m trying to find it so I can laugh again😂😂
I appreciate Britany talking about her dating past!
I was a tinderella in college, so I like this
I hope Brittany's tinder guy has seen her online at some point and been really confused as to where her accent went.
I’m sorry “I faked my way into a handjob” is simply the funniest fucking thing I’ve ever heard 💀 god I relate to so many of Brittany’s life experiences
i try not to leave lengthy youtube comments but i don't think i've ever related more to brittany's points about ghosting men who don't treat you well and being the "fat funny girl" friend who they rely on. it's so insanely painful and i feel for anyone else who has had to experience that.
i've met two of my exes on tinder and one of them ruined my entire life and we moved way too quickly and were together longer than we should've been because i was scared of him and i realized it's because in the beginning he was one of the first men to show me genuine love, care, and attention. and then he changed a lot and i couldn't let that go and let myself realize that i deserved so much better. it's been a year since i left and i cannot IMAGINE letting a man speak to me that way. it wasn't my fault and it's never any victim's fault but it taught me personally a massive lesson. and unfortunately it took a a few more (less shitty but still bad) guys to truly figure it out. now i'm taking things slow with a guy who is everything i've ever wanted and goes out of his way to make me feel cared about and i love it but in the same breath i know i would be just fine if he left or changed up. it's so freeing.
and if any younger fem people/women (i'm non-binary) feel this way please know that it may be a long and painful process but one day it will hit you that all your friends and family were right and you're a beautiful person that can and will find the person you want and deserve. thank you for being so open brittany, it's like you were in my brain for a second there and i needed that
Thank you so so much for this ❤
i fucking cant believe brittany's british girl tinder story
"you british people are so lovely" LMFAOOOOOOO
1:02:18 I NEARLY SPAT OUT MY DRINK LMAOO "katie........"
Thank you for explaining how normal it is to be single, and not subscribing fully (anymore) to the obsession with falling in love. I am on a very similar path.
SARAH HAS ME DYING IN THIS ONE OMG 😂😂😂
That White Russian scenario made me choke on my drink lmaoo
My husband and I met on Tinder 😂 he super liked me and I thought it was cringe. We chatted a lot and I turned him down on a date twice. We got to know each other through texting while I was traveling out of the country, and I met him the day after I got back. That was six years ago, and we got married two years ago.
Neither of us were great versions of ourselves back then, and I truly feel like I hit the jackpot on a man before he hit his true potential. What a roll of the dice, and Christ was I lucky I didn’t get murdered. I live in Alaska so the chance of getting unalived seems 10x higher
when brittany was talking about how men always think of her as just the friend i felt that. i’ve definitely experienced both ends of that with men. when i was young i was a total tomboy and hung out w all the guys and i would usually have a crush on one of them but they just never saw me like that bc i would do “guy” things with them. When i hit puberty i noticed that if i wanted a guy to like me i needed to be more girly, etc. I started to dress for the male gaze and the more i did things so i would be seen in a romantic way the less male friends i had. When I graduated HS i really became comfortable within my divine feminine and sexual energy and i love it but i have 0 male friends now. The only male “friends” i have are sexually attracted to me and are my “friend” in hopes of getting more. It’s not a real friend. It’s just sad that men can’t see us as multifaceted people. either you’re one of the boys or a romantic pursuit. Idk what it is but it definitely hurts my feelings a lot when I think i have a good friendship with a guy and then it turns out they want more. so many times i’ve had to friendzone guys and they just ghost me completely. i understand it hurts, but it also hurts me as well. I cant be comfortable with my body etc without all men seeing me as just a sexual being. It’s like a curse, we never win.
if i want to have male friends and be one of the guys, then no guy will have a romantic interest in me. if i want to be able to be seen in a romantic way by some men, then no guy will see me as a friend. It’s just weird
@UCQ8nSCiO8HXCH-BTp1R-DyA lol kinda same, they also used me as the insider to the "girl group" and my dumb 12 yr old self tried to give legit advice. F off and suffer off of your own ignorance boy 😂 I also had to give advice about the girls **I** liked, shit was like a bad rom com from the 90s 😂
I’m a listener who popped over to comment- I actually started to cry when Brittany got real about being an emotional support animal for guy “friends” - I won’t call it “friend zoning” because they aren’t actually your friend. I’m naturally boy-crazy and I’ve never heard someone discuss this issue so well. Thank you for sharing your brain with us!!! ❤
this episode was such a breath of fresh air
And yet I couldn’t catch my breath the entire time
I need a second part to this. I deeply relate to Brittany's trauma.
I have a Tina Belcher face on the back of my right hip and COMPLETELY forgot about it until the other day, It scared me when I was looking in the mirror and remembered I had that tattoo lol It was the feeling of getting a new tat all over again
Take a shot everytime Sarah says “yeah” when Britney is talking lololol
LMAO I WAS THINKING THIS
I think this every episode lol she has her own tangents but sometimes she gets in a yeah loop when she responds
I read this as she said “yeah” 3x in a row🤣
brittany saying “because fuck you” at 50:49 felt very cathartic
Really enjoyed the discussion about the "emotional support" friend but not considered good enough to date. I think a lot of us can relate
Went on a date with an Olympian that I met on tinder he was really nice tbh and we had more in common than you’d think, but had a different girl in every place he went to 😂 so It didn’t work out
I have a huge exam tomorrow and this podcast is literally the only thing keeping me together
I’m there with ya, wishing you the best on your exam !
Good luck on your exam! Not that you’ll need it, you’re a super genius 😎
Good luck 🎉
Look up AMSR of whatever subject you’re learning and listen to it all night till u sleep :)) it helps me lol it gets like engrained into my subconscious
good luck 🥰🎊
“we saw some scary movie”
“…paddington”
cackling. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hey besties! Oh I’m looking forward to this one. Seriously the Reddit tinder community is so awful. Tinder in general is such a shit show
This podcast was really amazing. Not only it was hilarious, but when Brittany started talking about her dating experience it felt so relatable and validating for me, it took me so long to realize that there is nothing wrong in not beeing in a relationship and even more to realize that i didn't really want one so this episode really hit close to home.
35:48 Petition to make Brittany wheeling herself offscreen while cackling a reaction gif
Yall always make my week, truly the funniest people on the Internet
I met my boyfriend of 4 years on Tinder! I was about to delete the app because I'd been on so many bad dates. But there is hope out there!
brittany catfishing as a british woman is SENDING ME LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
can't wait to hear some tinder horror stories 😎
My favorite is when my sister went on a date with a dude at University of Arizona. The guy had no furniture and just an inflatable mattress that wasn’t even filled. Cracks me up every time I think about it.
it felt so validating listening to Brittany's experience with dating, could relate so much. major hugs supreme leader
These two making my Mondays
Tinder has such a weird place in my heart. I met my now fiance on it in 2016 and we're getting married next year. But at the same time my parents don't know that's how we met 😂
I really wish tinder had the panic button when I was using it. Could have gotten me out of the scariest worst night of my life.
🥺❤️sending u love
sarah saying “i’m literally shot and killed” at 35:47 continuing on the white russian joke and having brittany laughing so hard she has to go off screen has me DYING dude 😭
I hope you guys know I listen to this every Monday when I get ready for my shift as a server at a diner and I can’t even do my makeup properly bc I’m laughing so HARD 😭
It's so nice to know Brittany KNOWS how funny she is.
12:08 sign of a great podcast. You two have such a rhythm together
love when y’all just give us the TEAAA
Yes Brittany, prioritize YOURSELF over finding someone else. Love yourself first and by putting finding a relationship on the back burner, your gonna find so many more reasons and opportunities to love yourself and feel good about yourself
I went on a date with a guy who was 25 years old, and I was still in high school. 18 tho, but it was to weird in retrospect that I, 18... was seeing a 25 yo. insane lmao
Brittany I cannot express this enough--that man ABSOLUTELY noticed how funny and smart you were and was probably intimidated. He simply wasn't on your level.
whoever designed your guys' thumbnail for this podcast did an amazing job bc in my sea of subscriptions yours is so eyecatching & not like anything else posted so its super easy to know when its posted.
brittanys hair looks absolutely adorable here
Brittany is so articulate about her experience with romance and dating, its amazing. Her vulnerability is so insightful
I have to say I really relate to the part where Brittany said that men are not interested in her because she looks different than other women. I am a woman with a disability and I feel the exact same way.
brittany’s tinder story is the funniest thing ever omg
I’ve never related more to Brittany since watching this episode. Her experience as a woman is so similar to my own it’s scary but comforting. Love her 💕✨
they bounce off eachother so well, its hilarious. i love sarah's commitment to the joke
yess i laugh my ass off every episode!!
BABE WAKE UP NEW VCG JUST DROPPED
it was really nice to see sarah laughing so much in this episode
In the most respectful way id like to point out the parallels of how brittany feels being the “support animal” for a man she’s interested in to the men who are made fun of and talked down about for withdrawing from a friendship with a woman they develop feelings for. While ones that start verbally attacking women because of it are assholes, the ones who genuinely just fall for someone are lumped in with the undesirables
i really hope sarah and brittany understand that these olympian’s aren’t “going on dates” at the games and they’re 100% not swiping right on someone who ISNT also an olympian💀 they’re literally having massive sex parties between events that get so out of control that the olympic committee has to enforce rules and regulations to how much they can have sex with each other. i remember one year each person was only given a certain amount of condoms and another year they basically replaced all the beds with cardboard that could hold the body weight of 1 person. i really wish they had some more background info instead of just a passing tangent cause it’s fucking insane what goes on there.
I recently got banned from Tinder without ever talking to another person. They never gave me an official reason, but I think it was because I made a joke in my bio about looking for a sugar daddy. So now I have a vendetta against Tinder.
I dont know but I feel like Brittany was really open in this episode and I live for every bit
Brittany you continue to surprise me with how much I can relate to you. I loved you talking about your tinder story because i’m literally going through this right now and totally related with everything you said. You are the best ❤
STOP EVERYTHING. A NEW VCG JUST DROPPED
A NEW PJP VIDEO JUST DROPPED TOO
I love this podcast so much. You guys are such a great duo and are so funny but I love that you can be vulnerable as well. It's tough discussing insecurities and pondering why you can't find your person, but hearing it brings a lot of comfort for me because I wonder the same thing for myself and it helps me feel less alone. I really appreciate you Brittany and Sarah
Brittany, I had a repressed memory of being involved in this convoluted love triangle in college (bi girl/gay guy/bi guy) and it turned out the bi guy completed faked being British! Like his accent, backstory, everything 😂
Pleeeease do an episode about Toddlers and Tiaras, Dance Moms, Alana/Honey Boo Boo, and just child pageant/reality shows in general! Would love to hear your guys' takes.
absolutely lovedddd brittany's therapy ranting, it summed up so many of my experiences 🙏🏻 love you queen, thank you so much for the comfort and wisdom
you guys mean a lot to me. brittany’s rant about relationships and women’s worth really hit at the right time. i love u guys!!!
"Let me suck this butter off my fingers, hold on" God I love Brittany
I’m so early every time! 😮 it shocks me how good my notifications are. Love your podcast guys! It makes me laugh uncontrollably!
Saw you guys yesterday in Dallas & now I get to watch yet another new episode I love y’all sm ty for making my week ❤️❤️
This podcast is severely underrated. Or maybe I’m just a millennial and am one of a small crowd still watching the RUclips version. Either way, much love 💕 I look forward to y’all “posting” or whatever.
I so needed these laughs today, thank you! Coming from military families yourselves, I’m sure you know the struggles of my upcoming PCS. Today sucks but you guys definitely made it better ♥️
This makes my Mondays so much more bearable.
The biggest thing for me is just the dramatic shift after finishing school, where you no longer have so many potential options for dating or flings.
And as someone who doesn't go out, mostly because I don't drink and I do not want to take advantage of anyone, I am basically limited to dating sites when it comes to meeting people. I've been on tinder for almost two years, and I've never once actually met up with someone from tinder or continued any type of relationship with them for more than about two weeks
i love this podcast so much. it makes me feel like i’m in the room gossiping with them after a night out. it’s so funny
Grindr is terrifing i think yall need an episode on it. I gave a straight friend access to my grindr and they were... Appaled with the things they say in just the couple hours they had control
Being in college in my first semester (and feeling like this may not be for me) your podcast gets me through the week. Idk what id do if i couldn’t listen to y’all! love y’all!
As some rando on the internet that doesn't know your situation: college isn't for everyone. Its a scam anyway. Get a job as a plumber and make $$$$
As someone who has his masters, college is not for everyone. You can be successful without a college education. And just because it’s not for you now doesn’t mean it won’t be for you later. Sometimes it just takes some time to figure yourself out, you have your whole life ahead of you, plenty of time to go to college if you find that it’s time to.
Absolutely love when you two get raw and personal. One of my favorite episodes yet 🥰
You both always discuss the most interesting topics. Love the videos!
This energy today is off the meter I'm enjoying it 😆
Oh my god Sarah literally made me look twice🥺 She looks so beautiful.
Y'all have the only podcast I can actually stand to listen to, you're both so smart and so funny
i got good news today and y’all posted the podcast right after! not too bad for a monday. thanks you two!
Met My wife on tinder, 8 years ago, still going strong
Love that