This should have been posted earlier, but how do you feel about this topic? What topics would you like to see next? What's preoccupying your mind at the moment?
Could you guys make a LGBTQ+ video talking about all the different kinds of sexuality's. Ik that you guys did that already but I'm still a little bit confused about some of them. And Google isn't really helping me with my research. 😅
1. They use your feelings against you 2. They compare you to other people 3. They refuse to give you compliments 4. They ask you lots is basic questions 5. They disappear often 6. They don’t fulfill their promises 7. They play the jealousy game 8. They confuse you 9. The silent treatment 10. They suddenly start complimenting you excessively
I'm so glad people are becoming aware. These kind of relationships can ruin your sense of reality. Look for signs of anger when you confront them with their abusive behavior, and a feeling something is not right.
Exactly! I can understand someone getting defensive, out of reaction for being confronted, but when they get angry at someone for standing up for themselves, it further proves the point. It's like if they got angry at the hot stovetop for burning them, after they touch it. There's no logic on their end.
@@heathenly_aesthetic7233 - Like my ex-bf. I fully admit my dysfunctions, what I need to work on, I've been in therapy, I need to go back , I am coming off my meds, etc. I confront him about his dysfunctions? Oh, no. That turns into "Well, right now YOU are the only person who is saying I'm dysfunctional. And it's because of that one time." Oh. No. No no. I corrected that gross misunderstanding. It wasn't because of that "one time." It was based on observing his behavior over the entire time I had known him. I also know him much better than he knows himself. I am objective. He isn't. He will NOT admit fault! He will start an argument with me over..... nothing. Something stupid. Right in the middle of it.... will claim he can't remember why we are arguing.... and blame it ALL on me. Therapy. Yep. More therapy for me. I'm stuck. Mentally stuck.
I was in a relationship with someone exactly like this. they ruined my life and almost cost me it too. people like this do not change and have no limit to what they'll do to you. please be safe out there, know your worth.
"Manipulative people want control over your life and don't truly care about or love you" Man this hits hard when you know the people in question are your parents
Thorbs 04 nah whenever someone says that nothing ever happens and you're expecting me to actually not die but in the end you're just saying that to make yourself feel good.
The last guy I dated first started by telling me I was “hotter than his ex” and then started doing stuff around my apartment just because he expected me to do stuff for HIM at his house. Then he even make a fake scenario trying to make me jealous and purposely talked about other girls and told me he WANTED to make me jealous. He also gas lighted me before and made rude comments claiming they were jokes. Never again will I date someone like that!
I was in a relationship like this for so long. Until one day I woke up, I realized in the end, friendship was even manipulation. I'll remember to be careful around those who cant let go of there past as well.
i've been really really sad because my almost 4 year relationship ended 3 days ago, but seeing these signs and checking ALL of them makes me believe it was for the best even if it hurts now, I couldn't keep doing that to myself. I deserve better.
@@heidirepp7462 I doubt he'll comeback since he's already done that a thousand times but I feel like this was the last one, and even if it wasn't, I don't want to get back with him. Thanks for your words ❤️
This video helped me to get out of a toxic "friendship" roughly one year ago. I was suffering a lot in there, but this video opened my eyes to the emotional abuse I faced but didn't want to see back then. Thank you so much for making this video.
I started sending a bunch of vids to my ex hoping he would get help. Cuz he's a narc. I thought he might have BPD. Uh, it turns out maybe I was projecting and I have BPD. Oops. Well, it would be nice to finally figure out wtf is wrong with me so I can get my shit together. High functioning BPD. Never knew there was such a thing. More stuff to bring up at therapy.....
Be mindful when you do this. Narcissistic people tend to do this as a gateway to make you their supply. It's like giving the combination to the safe to your loving partner and all the while hes a thief!
Yeah I feel that. Defense mechanism, I guess. When someone is nice off the bat it’s strange to me, like they are faking it. Past trauma I’m sure caused this mindset, I’ve been treated like shit by so many people growing up.
This was a good one and very true, I just ditched someone who was playing several mind games with me, and he still tried to play more games even when I said I'm not interested please leave me alone smh these kind of people make me sick, but now that I'm older and wiser it's a hell of alot easier to see through and drop it b4 it even starts... like no thank u
@@allisonl.6201 All that stress caused from two people not getting along, you'll find someone if you're willing to be open minded. I haven't found anyone yet but I can be hopeful.
I'm also gonna add that you might also feel like your brain is foggy or cloudy when being around manipulative people. This is because these types of people put your mind ill at ease and constantly do tiny things to gradually make you question your sense of reality: the purpose of this is so that they can put you in a position where you agree to whatever they want you to do without having you put up a fight, because their mind games have now become normal to your head.
@@daniellaluscius5428 I can relate. Please keep watching Psych2Go videos and keep Googling things like "Signs You're Being (Emotionally/Psychologically) Manipulated" or "Am I Being Abused?" Stuff like this helps to put (and keep) things into perspective.
Soo true, each time I pull away because of the constant lies they transform to the most perfect person. Then not to long after making up, they hurt you worse than each time before and convinces you it's your fault.
I have had two coworkers pull similar mind games. They both acted really friendly or friendly on occasion. Then they both started giving the silent treatment to different people at odd times. The both of them also stare a lot leaving you wondering if they are looking at you. They both also watch people struggle to maintain a conversation that they started themselves. Don't let people manipulate you. It's a them problem. Not a you problem.
A coworker kept repeating to me “I think you show a lot of potential” he wasn’t a superior or anything and he kept repeating it and I never asked. Then one day I snapped and told him to keep this to himself. You can usually tell, when people are supposedly flattering you it’s quite transparent, it just feels off.
This is how things have gone over the last two and a half years with my current GF. First six months of our relationship was something out of heaven, we never fought, enjoyed doing anything and everything together and she complimented me frequently. She spoke very little about her past, childhood or friends, yet she spoke enough about these things not to raise any alarms. We had our first fight a week after our six months and she ignored me for a little over a week. By the first week of our seven month mark she was spending every weekend by me and I was visiting her after work Monday to Thursday for a few hours each. At about 8 months after watching a movie and enjoying some quality time she asked if she could move in. I agreed and she moved in the following weekend. For 4 months things were great we had a stupid fight over something really silly. That Monday I dropped her at her mom's, while I was at work I got a phone call from my landlord informing me that he she was there moving out causing a scene with other tenants. This time I didn't hear from her for 2weeks again ignoring all efforts I made to contact her. Long story short she eventually moved back in and like a scripted play we have a fight, she threatens to leave, we make up three month mark comes she moves out while I'm at work a week later she's back and the same happens. This has happened 4 times now in exactly the same cycle. Am I stupid or am I missing something?
My ex- all the way. I was compared to so many people I didn't know how to be. Once, on an flight to the Bahamas, he saw a girl with a pony tail. He said he liked it. I said, I pony my hair. He said not like that you don't. Usually when we were on trips together, he'd be off having fun with other people. The second he saw I was getting attention, he would be all over me. I saw through it, and of course it was a sign I should have picked up on at the time. I didn't. The effects have left scars that will never go away. It's hard for me to function when it comes to my current relationship. I'm completely in love, and he is opposite of my ex in many ways, but I do find it difficult to talk to him about some things, so I avoid most conversations.
Let them play if it makes them happy,...when you realize they are players only give what makes you happy,,,only what improves you if you would feel worse whn you dont engage them...do what is best for you...dont loose yourself when finding another...remember prayer..
Do not waste your time or life on people with narcisstic personality disorder go no contact or grey rock. Have no to limited time with them if you do business together or are part of your family
You tell them you’re leaving the relationship and why. They say they want you in their life. Then, after some beautiful time together they disappear. When you tell them you’ve had enough of this and you’re leaving they tell you they want you in their life. After some beautiful time together they disappear. Amazing. You would think it would be easy to walk away but it’s not.
@@jamesgerboc Cruel and immature? No. If you are dealing with a very toxic person why is cruel to you and manipulating you, why confront them about you are cutting them out of your life when all they are going to do with bullshit and guilt trip you? Such people aren't worth any of that hassle. And besides, if they were manipulating you from the start, not really listening to anything you say anyway, you really thing confronting them that you will leave them will work. No. Odds are, they're going to guilt trip you and you will go running back to them, which defeats the purpose. Sometimes, the best and most mature thing you can do is cut them off without a confrontation first and just walk away. Severe all ties without a word. That's what ghosting is. By the way, I wouldn't recommend ghosting a person who is not toxic. THAT would be cruel and immature. But ghosting a toxic person is probably the best thing you can do for yourself.
@@enforcerridley158 I misunderstood your comment. I agree now that I understand. At the time I did not agree with you and thought that the best way was to confront her. I did that and lost so you were correct. My apologies.
Thank you for providing a valuable public service because it is important to be careful who is being allowed to influence our lives. Many bad decisions have been made by people who are allowing themselves to be influenced by those who love to play mind games while trying to people please them enough to get by.
I grew up with a manipulative parent who still tries to play mind games with me till this day. Because of this person I have low self esteem and several psychological issues.. it’s made me an easy target all my life for ppl to repeatedly do that to me 😕
As far as #4, asking a lot of questions, it can also be the opposite, a lack of interest. If this is the case; when you talk about your day or of anything of interest to you, they won't ask many follow up questions, if any. They'll interrupt a lot and usually turn the topic to themselves. Over time, it becomes more and more noticeable the relationship is one sided. Wish I had know this when it was happening, this is huge a red flag and means it's time to exit the relationship.
i ask alot alot of questions to people for genuinen interest to know the person. people say when people ask alot its to be nosy. i interrupt alot to give my opinion or interest on the topic. people tell me dont share about your life alot or perso al life but i share normal things in my life. i say why would i make fun/hurt someone with something they shared i see no point. yet people will attack you with anything you say. what do you think?
Just wanted to thank you for the concise and simple to understand tips about toxic relationships. Wish I would have known about this earlier in my life, yet perhaps my acknowledgement might help someone else who might be on the fence about a particular person. Bottom line: run as fast as you can and never look back.
I'm up to twenty. He has moved out but as we have 4 children together he's here all the time. I can't stand him now, the way he walks even..uck. horrid person inside and out.
It's a very hard thing to be in love with a person who is only playing games. They are cruel, hurtful, treat you like you are garbage or you are the bad one to them. They like you to be alone, off balance and torn apart. Do yourselves a huge favor and run as fast as you can the other way and never look back!!
I had a roommate who was the first person I lived with after moving out of my dads house. We were decent friends up to that point. I had recently helped her move into the same house that I was now moving into. Although she promised to help me move on a predesignated, she was literally out of town with her boyfriend the entire weekend... not to mention it was my birthday weekend. She had told me horror stories of her previous mean girl roommates becoming petty and exclusively toward her, and my dad is a train wreck, so it seemed we were both moving on to a better situation. She was very warm at first, seemingly excited to be living and sharing a bathroom with a good friend, and she almost immediately started offering me her hand-me-downs (clothes, furniture, decorations, etc), whenever she could and establishing how super cool she was with me using or borrowing her stuff, and I returned the courtesy. Things were really good for a few months, but there were some red flags I failed to notice. She was obsessed with the idea of us “brushing our teeth together” and over time I noticed that she would act colder towards me for a fee days if we were both home and I didn’t brush my teeth when she did. We would have long talks and she would ask me personal questions, as well as share personal information about herself and her past (as time went on and the truth was revealed, many of her stories, including that of her evil old roommates retrospectively seemed like lies or variations on the truth that she made to appeal to who she thought I was). She also acted as though she was my best friend, but not regularly. We hardly hung out during the week (except when we had long, personal conversations), and we only hung out on the weekends she wasn’t out of town with her boyfriend. Another flag is that she’d constantly talk about her boyfriend to me- specifically that she wasn’t satisfied, didn’t really love him, and that she was only with him because he made more money than her... I convinced her to break up with him, and she did, but later got back with him when she started seeing me as an enemy. One day she texted me, angry as f*ck, because I had used her moisturizer. I apologized and said I thought that it fell under the category of “help yourself to whatever”, that I washed my hands before I touched anything, and that I wouldn’t do it again. She seemed to back off, but it only got worse from there. After I came home from a trip over the holidays (a 12 hour travel day spent on planes and in airports), she picked me up from the airport and spent the entire drive home talking about how much she cleaned and organized the house. When we got home, I told her I was taking a shower and she told me I had to finish cleaning the bathtub before I could. When I said, ‘I don’t want to, it’s 11 pm, I’ve been traveling all day and I have to work in the morning. If you want the tub clean you should have finished cleaning it,’ she slammed the door in my face. I started being a bit of a recluse after that, and she texted me all sweet, basically saying “Do we have a problem?” and I lost my temper and said “Yes, your behavior is disrespectful and incoherent, I don’t trust you,” plus some more choice, PG-13 language. The next week, I had used some of her baking ingredients while cooking (mere tablespoons... I didn’t think it would even be noticeable), she legit screamed at me to “stop stealing her stuff”. No interim, no conversation about the rules changing from “help yourself to the whatever,” it seemed like she just started hating me over night. After that incident, I didn’t touch any of her stuff. I overheard her multiple times trying to accuse me of stealing to our other roommate. She got back with her ex (for the money, I assumed), and he was always around after that. It just got worse and worse to the point where she had turned every single one of our friends against me then would passive aggressively have them all over for loud parties while I was home, they were knocking my belongings over, jeering at me if I crossed their paths, and she even brought her mom into the picture... having her stay with us after having cosmetic surgery (with no warning), openly crying to her about how mean and scary I was, and even tried to get her to move in with us (this girl is freaking 27 okay...) She even switched rooms with our other roommate, bought and set up cameras around her room because she didn’t want me to ‘steal from her’ which I was never doing in the first place. One outlying instance is that there had been a dusty mirror downstairs that had been there for as long as I lived there, and I honestly thought I belonged to our third roommate (because nearly everything downstairs belonged to her), so I moved it to my room while I waited to get paid so I could buy a new one. It was actually the evil girls, and she went into my room while I was not home, with no courtesy text or note, and took the mirror and put it back downstairs behind the couch. She refused to communicate or acknowledge any of the negative ways she was effecting me, or that she had turned all my friends against me and destroyed the social infrastructure I had worked so hard to build. I was so frustrated, getting to the point where my satanic ass was “cursing” and “hexing” her (she was a super fake christian... so this was easily done). I also had multiple print-outs of narcissistic behaviors and typed examples of her behaviors that I taped all around the house. Eventually we both had to move, and the whole situation imploded. That’s my tale, and I don’t even have a legit diagnosis for this hoe, and honestly I’m so glad to be rid of her.
Dang man What you done in the end that’s worth it! 👍 Screw her and her bad tactics, you can have right to leave cause of mess she made either badly behaviour
Sounds like my narcissistic husband......if anyone has and can relate to any and all of these you need to release them out of your life! I am going thru the divorce process now
I need advice.. From 5 to 10 is totally my boyfriend. I really love him, and he supported me thru difficult times (as I did with him time before) but recently I had an emotional breakdown, and his response was "I'm not ready to give you the love and support you need. I'm not sure I want to be with you anymore". He literaly ghosted me when I started to have suicidal thoughts. I know he doesn't treats me right, yet, I don't want to leave him.
If he makes it clear to you by saying that, leave him. And get the support you need. Unfortunately, one person or the person that we should get support from, can’t be there for us. They just don’t have that ability or just won’t do it because they want other things in life, or they are narcissit like the video highlighted. Things changes in life, with that people and lifegoals/lifestyle as well. Prioritize your mental and physical health, get healthy, get stronger and empower yourself. Focus on you and work on goals that you want, take baby steps and then bigger steps, establish routines and romantisize your life. One day you’ll meet a person/friends that is right for you but for now do you. You can do it!
I just finished a 20 year relationship with someone like this. The saddest thing is that he was like this in the begining and I never liked this part of him. But at the same time he was a sweet lovely guy who adored me and always wanted what I wanted. That should have been a red flag to me. Won't ever fall for this shut again that's for sure. I just didn't know what I know now that no matter how you explain, they won't understand. Or even if they do, they keep on playing the game anyway. In fact, the more you think they should know by now because you explained do many times (whatever the thing may be) the more angry you get, the better the game is for them. If you go out of line, even better, they can play the innocent victim and point their finger to you which is the problem in their mind. Sickening.
Ive met this type of person twice in my life 😞💔kinda makes me not want to get into a relationship agin i don't want to open up to someone and they do all the things they know would hurt me and lie to me over and over
@@riverdance8623 that's what im doing now trying to fix myself don't really have plans on trying to look for a relationship right now major trust issues
I can relate to you. I went through something similar In my life even tho it wasn't in a romantic relationship. I hope you don't have to go though that again.
@@phanternalz thank you 😊trying to heal and learn the red flags and if i see it well i learned from my x the red flags and if i see them walking out of them but first i have to heal
Well...one of my friends literally admitted, a couple weeks ago, to trying to manipulate me in a few of these ways to force me to seek therapy because I apparently wasn't moving fast enough for their liking in getting myself fixed. Seems like they refuse to believe that it takes time to find a therapist who's a good fit for an individual. Oh...and, you know, there's a pandemic and been a quarantine for a few months, but yeah.
They prove themselves as a victim which we have already experience from them. It gets hard enough for us when we they becomes good to the people inspite they actually hurt and pull us down just for fun.
It is exhaustive..dealing with a manipulative NARCOpath. The mind games, scheming, threats of all types, lies, cunning deceit, and in the cases with some of the men: the cheating and closet addictions...I have had enough ! It is bad enough when it is in your own family, but when you are dealing with this in a relationship...it is a lose-lose situation.
Sounds like the relationship I've been in for 14 years with a narcissistic husband.. I wish I could just LEAVE.. But I will be drowning in debt bc we own a house together.. And I can't cope with that. I'm disabled, and the disability-check isn't large enough for me to manage the debt I would get.. Feeling stuck.. 😢💔
Promises are just pieces of shit for them, which they want you to dump and fall prey to their new shit every single day. The cycle goes on unstoppable.
long story short you know your own mind better than anyone else on the face of this planet. Also know is definitely a valid answer to many many questions.
Whenever I would try to solve my sister's fights, it would feel like the experiences/events/situations would change at a constant: to a point where it would feel like I don't even remember anything at all. Almost as if someone was manipulating the conversation or problem to make sure that I wouldn't get to the bottom of it. Of the reason why the situation happened in the first place. Fudge that, I'm out.
My mom has been my first and worst manipulator in my life,unfortunately and following her almost every one ,from my sisters to my relatives ,my ,exhusband ,exfriends and boyfriends all of them as if united to eachother against me to destroy me to ruin my life but my mom is the boss ,the master of all and worst of all i've been thinking all these years they are like me ,giving the same love ,affection ,honesty and empathy to me they've gotten from me.i even didn't know something as abuse,manipulation ever exists.
The sad part about it, when it's all over, they lie and say that all the things they did to you, you did it to them making people who once liked and respected you hate you without hearing your side of the story.
Me, at 10:30 : Ok, it’s time to go to bed so I can have a good start to the day tomorrow! Also me at 1:26 am: **sees this video** well well well then let’s find out
A good way to deal with these people is to never hold obsession too much and always be ready to let go of or sacrifice that obsession. Those people are able to control you based on your obsessions.
@@yourfan4797 No, but when someone suddenly argues with all his friends and family, and social ties that were positive turn negative: "everyone is wrong except my partner" There is something there.
I have got rid of people like that recently...I am independent and rarely bother people with my depression or anything I might need...this make some people think they can use me as a "punch pag"...because I seem strong and always available. In a way I AM available, BUT like in this video I was only contacted when THEY are suffering or needed a big favor (I am a patient sensitive person who cares)...again I NEVER ask favors, that is not in my opinion what friends are for...I am human though and now and then I also need someone to listen to me when I experience some negative feelings or had a bad day. I would spend an entire night with little sleep encouraging a friend in need...but when I needed 10minutes of their time just to vent, they will always cut me off with "sorry I am working or have to go somewhere or ..." - after hours??? But oh yea, they will call me the next day to "ask nicely" of me to do something for them because I am so nice and talented. I have NO friends left, I have ghosted them all. I am tired of people, most just use me.
I’ve known this person for five years and all I’ve ever heard was promises that he’s never ever kept like going places together like taking me out and all the other stuff that he’s promised but I’ve yet to see one of those things come to pass and it hurts deeply so I guess it’s time to give up that friend. Or ask him for help and they make excuses not to help you now that I’ve listen to the psych to go I realize that this is so true, and it’s OK to let go but then they text you be all Neicy nice thinking that they’re going to change this time but they don’t it’s the same old same old. How long does it take for it to hit your head in your mind that it’s OK to let go but yet we struggle to hang on
I am so confused with Number 4: "They ask basic questions." How is this a sign? Doesn't asking questions mean that one wants to get to know another better?
Normally, yes. But if they keep asking those questions even though you've answered them already several times, it could be a bad sign. But don't forget that when someone does one of those things it doesn't mean that they're manipulative immediately. (Although it could be a 'light' form of it.) Things always have a reason and so does behaviour, so maybe something else is causing such behaviour and it could be solved.
@@babettevanes483 Oh, oh! I got it. I understand these our light signs. I was just confused why it would be considered as one. I understand now thank you!
3. Isn't what a normal person would do. Waiting until you're at breaking point because youre so overdone and stressed by their actions.... Plus 5 and 6. Signs of not only a nasty partner but rude crappy person.
They use your feelings against you They compare you to other people They refuse to give you complements They ask you lots of basic questions They disappear often They don’t fulfill there promises They play the jealousy games They confuse you The silent treatment They suddenly start complimenting you excessively
The silent treatment is the worst. Gaslighting, lack of accountability, passive aggressiveness... I'm seeing all of these red flags in someone that I started seeing a month ago! Yeah, I'm done.
When people try to manipulate you but you see right through the BS yet you continue to entertain the situation to see how far a person will go does that now make you the manipulator 🤔
4:08 spot on , my mom tells me if I keep turning in good work for the next week that she will give me my PlayStation back, a week passes and I ask to get my game back and she says “ I didn’t say I’ll give you your game back, I said that you need to stay on track” and when I say “no that’s not what you said” she says “are you calling me a liar?” Fkn hell
I've learned a lot of valuable information I wish I knew years back, this describes my ex perfectly and we have a kid together. Unfortunately this means I still need to deal with her and my god, she is on the last point right now.. being strangely and overly kind, so I know she must want something
Where were you 15 years ago ... I invested 30 years in a marriage, to a person whom used all these tactics ! He ended up without notice ( his gym bag at front door as usual) said should I hold dinner for you.. “ no your fold is awful and I’m not coming back! I’m going to be with Sue Flowers! That was 15 years ago Her 1st hubby, said” they will make each other miserable. Mark my words ! ( mine was 4th & supporting 9 of her children w/ each man ) They are now divorcing.. he calls me when he’s mad at her & states picking a fight with me I say .. why are you yelling at me; I haven’t seen you in weeks! And hang up. Thank you, please keep these coming. :) 🌟🧡🌟🌺🌸
There where things that i have seen en feeled...i never wanted to believe it...why would someone do this...i really don 't know What to think anymore...😟
@L Franco how tf is me pointing out that LGBTQ is being more used and accepted is making me cartoon phobic? And homophobic is a real issue so you shouldn't make jokes about it.
I was the kind of person who could easily fall for manipulation, but now I can do that, but I don't feel to do it, because manipulating someone is boring
This is exactly what has happened to me. Even my daughter has done this, she constantly compliments her mother in law as classy as though I am not. This too is my daughter and her husband, they cannot compliment me on any level. When family members hate giving you credit for anything and even do not listen when you have something happy to share, this is a sign these people are jealous and have contempt for you. I have been invited to family things so I could see them ignoring me. They want to know why I haven't come when I choose not to but ignore me when I do show up. I don't show up anymore.
11-They will not explain how or when you did X Y Z and how you can fix it. 12- They are not interested in talking out problems 13- They never think of you when out. Like my bf will go to the supermarket user my card to pay but not ask if I need anything. 14 - They never show an interest in your interests and call you selfish for asking them to do something only you like 🙄 I deserve way better
I have been a Safety oriented person, and I been respectful, and yet, I have not been described accurately by some, and I keep to myself, and I say hello, and goodbye, and remain respectful to others. *I DO NOT know how many times, I have *articulated, *written, *documented, and spoken repetitively over, and over again, that I do not use, drugs, I am not involved in a risky behavior, and I am NOT using any medications, and I have never had alcohol issues, or use, not making any judgement on others, just speaking about myself. I have had many of my concerns Misconstrued, Misinterpreted, Miscommunicated, Mis-stated, mis-understood, misquoted as well, my concerns, SAFETY SUGGESTiONS have been disregarded, ignored or on several occasions while being in a shelter program etc. Fact: I AM NOT, NOR have EVER been attracted to kids, children, teenagers, NEVER, EVER, NEVER etc. Fact: I am attracted to Women*****However, due to the above-mentioned statement it should be known that, although there have NOT been any intimacies of any sort, sexually whatsoever, or of kind, or dating relationships including this past year as well. In addition to this information, it should be expressed, and known that these Facts, *THERE (HAS NOT), and (NOR would EVER) anything to cause myself to be inappropriate, NOR EVER conduct myself in any inappropriate contact (of any kind towards anyone EVER NEVER). *FACT: I NEVER have conducted myself inappropriately with anyone, and I DO NOT plan to ever. *FACT: I CANNOT receive any pleasure, or gratification from someone else's pain, or causing the pain, or suffering of another human-being whatsoever. *FACT: I Desire to encourage others, not in to cause or inflict pain, or suffering *FACT: I am a person that only desires a (Positive Reciprocal Relationship), Meaning a person that I, and that Person have the same mind-set, and shares the same thoughts towards Humanity, Life, etc.. *FACT: I DO NOT EVER wish to cause harm to myself, nor cause harm to another person. *FACT: And I could (NEVER glean) any satisfaction from causing anyone else pain, suffering, or harm, in any way. *FACT: Although, I (welcome a positive relationship), (healthy fulfilling relationship), and I am not opposed to being in a positive relationship with someone which shares similar goals, and aspirations which I have, and to help promote Peace, Harmony, towards Humanity. *FACT: I am Not Married. *FACT: I have (NOT had any companions Ever) in my travels on the public bus, or otherwise since I have been utilizing the public bus system. *FACT: I have continuously believed that Women should be respected, and Protected from harm, and thus, I treat them with respect. I know that because I HIGHLY believe in this (SO VERY STRONGLY) that their are people which would wish to (Dishonor me), (Slander me), as well as *(CONSTRUCT, and *FABRICATE Slanderously, etc. and *EXPLOIT any *unemployed situations) *homeless situations. (Strictly, on the basis because they are fully aware, that I believe in Highly in the Preservation Life), and (Protecting Life, and Humanity), I feel so strongly to my very inner most Being *FACT: I believe in Protecting Women, Men, And Children, and All People, LIFE, I believe in Preserving LIFE, and the Well-Being of others, I always have believed this my entire LIFE. Additional FACTS; *Fact: I initially I became HOMELESS, because I had become unemployed due to being laid off, and I could no longer afford or contribute towards living expense, or to maintain rent for a place live. *Fact: In addition without having a operational vehicle finding employment became even more difficult to obtain or seek, Although, I never stopped trying, and eventually I did find and obtained employment part-time, until being laid-off again. *Fact: I am NOT, and NEVER been on any, NOR, have ever been on any Medications, nor Prescribed Medication Regimented programs. (This Does not include for example: antibiotics prescribed for the prevention of an infection from a cut for example 15 years ago *Fact: I DO NOT sell Drugs, and NEVER HAVE, and NEVER WILL *Fact: I DO NOT have a Alcoholism issue, and I NEVER have Not judgement on anyone else *Fact: I DO NOT smoke anything, and I NEVER have, I do not many any judgement on anyone else's I DO NOT believe in the use of illegal, and misused drugs, because have the ability to impair cognitive activity, reasoning, and mental focus, coordination, memory, and Mental Awareness, furthermore, some drugs even have the ability to disrupt other cognitive functions etc. Therefore, I Personally, I prefer more of natural remedies, or a natural approach to (recover from sickness), or for (any pain relief for myself), an example of natural remedies I prefer, nutrients such as vitamins, and minerals being derived from eating fruits, nuts, vegetables, chicken, fish, vegetable soups, and teas etc. I make NO judgments whatsoever, on anyone else which may take medications appropriately, and safely for themselves. *Fact: I DO NOT have any psychical, nor mental impairments *Fact: I DO NOT hear Voices, and I never have *Fact: I DO NOT have a verbal conversations with myself *Fact: I DO NOT become happy, and sad, at the same times *Fact: I am NOT Sad or Depressed, nor have I been *Fact: I DO NOT become angry, mad all time *Fact: I have self-control *Fact: I am NOT a violent Person, never have been a violent person. *FACT: I AM NOT, NOR have EVER been attracted to kids, children, teenagers, NEVER, EVER, NEVER etc. *FACT: I am attracted to Women, and I would (NEVER HURT ANY WOMAN AT ANY TIME), NOR ANYONE else. *FACT: I have (NOT had any companions, girlfriends Ever) in my travels on the public bus, or otherwise since I have been utilizing the public bus system. *Fact I have Not ever at anytime paid, given payment, exchanged, accepted anything for sexual intimacies. *Fact: I have NOT dated, I am NOT dating anyone, I have NOT ever engaged in any sort sexual intimacies, NO kind of a sexual relationships, NO dating, NO girlfriends, NO anyone whatsoever, nor otherwise while in, or while enrolled any Homeless Shelter Program, as a Guest or patron, visitor etc. while in any Homeless Shelter Program. * FactI I have continuously traveled alone, and I have NEVER traveled with any girlfriends, women, anywhere, nor with anyone else during any time at a homeless shelter program including the room rental facility, No relationships, No Sexual relationships with anyone *FACT: I am a Very Protective individual, an think in regards of Safety and *Prevention of Harm of Women, Children Men. I prefer my privacy, and mine my business. Author, Advocate for Humanity, Jason Sandifer Michigan, 3/13/2020, 11/05/2019, 11/04/2019 Jason Sandifer, Michigan-(2019) MESSAGE REPOSTED 8/1/2020, 8/12/2020 7/8/2020 7/10/2020 7/25/2020 8/19/2020, 8/20/2020
I've been in this situation for 14yrs. He charmed me in my 20's; stole my 30's, & NOW I'm 42. I got THE ROCK 9 yrs ago!! I. Am. LEAVING. We had a moto crash in Jan & I got settlement$$$. I'm OUT✌.
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This should have been posted earlier, but how do you feel about this topic? What topics would you like to see next? What's preoccupying your mind at the moment?
Types of PUA
Could you guys make a LGBTQ+ video talking about all the different kinds of sexuality's. Ik that you guys did that already but I'm still a little bit confused about some of them. And Google isn't really helping me with my research. 😅
Great job with the thumbnail
Can u make a video on why people manipulate
They're narcissistic people. Simple. Cheaters, Liars, thieves. Financially, emotionally and physically
1. They use your feelings against you
2. They compare you to other people
3. They refuse to give you compliments
4. They ask you lots is basic questions
5. They disappear often
6. They don’t fulfill their promises
7. They play the jealousy game
8. They confuse you
9. The silent treatment
10. They suddenly start complimenting you excessively
This is a copy of another comment lmao
Capp No it’s not, I write the lists.
@@kenny-nk5db ok, but there's one from 4 months ago
Capp I don’t know how, this video was just uploaded for me.
@@kenny-nk5db same-
I'm so glad people are becoming aware. These kind of relationships can ruin your sense of reality. Look for signs of anger when you confront them with their abusive behavior, and a feeling something is not right.
Exactly! I can understand someone getting defensive, out of reaction for being confronted, but when they get angry at someone for standing up for themselves, it further proves the point.
It's like if they got angry at the hot stovetop for burning them, after they touch it. There's no logic on their end.
A Person Who Can
It’s just youtube being youtube
Will he/she still get notification?
I'm becoming aware that you posted this 5 months ago lol
@@heathenly_aesthetic7233 - Like my ex-bf. I fully admit my dysfunctions, what I need to work on, I've been in therapy, I need to go back , I am coming off my meds, etc. I confront him about his dysfunctions? Oh, no. That turns into "Well, right now YOU are the only person who is saying I'm dysfunctional. And it's because of that one time."
Oh. No. No no. I corrected that gross misunderstanding. It wasn't because of that "one time." It was based on observing his behavior over the entire time I had known him. I also know him much better than he knows himself. I am objective. He isn't. He will NOT admit fault! He will start an argument with me over..... nothing. Something stupid. Right in the middle of it.... will claim he can't remember why we are arguing.... and blame it ALL on me.
Therapy. Yep. More therapy for me.
I'm stuck. Mentally stuck.
1: They say I love you and have never showed it
“Actions speak louder than words”
Vigilantic - swear you god never trust a person who hasn’t shown what they say
Facts 👌
Depends on a person. It's hard to show it to someone
some people have a harder time expressing their emotions than others
I was in a relationship with someone exactly like this. they ruined my life and almost cost me it too. people like this do not change and have no limit to what they'll do to you. please be safe out there, know your worth.
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U ruined ur own life..because u allowed it...lets not allow abusive behavior anymore then blame the other person for our pain..
U nailed it! They will destroy u
@Pr.incorporated 👏👏👏
@@mikerainwater6154 💯👏
"Manipulative people want control over your life and don't truly care about or love you"
Man this hits hard when you know the people in question are your parents
Aight gonna end it all till i respawn as a god.
"the volume in this bus is astronomical"
@@sorrychangedmyusername3594 bro don't do it there must be someone 4 ya
Thorbs 04 nah whenever someone says that nothing ever happens and you're expecting me to actually not die but in the end you're just saying that to make yourself feel good.
I don't understand how people can control other peoples life, when I can't control my own life
man these videos are literally describing my last relationship ;-;
Im sorry
Same here
I’m sorry, also why does this video said it was upload less than a minute ago but this comment is from eight months ago I’m so confused......
;(
Me too buddy. I wish people weren't like that.
Sign 1: They give you free diamonds in Minecraft but they steal them back afterwards
vAqeii yes
why the fuck does it say that was commented 6 months ago if that was commented just now
*6 months ago?*
@@ПОКАВСЕМ-э6р true!! 😳
AGUST D가 돌아왔다 who?
3:39 - Constantly lying to keep someone interested in you and in staying in a relationship with you is called _”future faking.”_
I'm happy that I left those toxic people who actually tried to manipulate me
The moment I walk away they no longer have power over on me
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1. He showed himself as victim.
2. He change his behaviour very often
3. He always lies.
You know Donald Trump??
@@isthisshit4real yeah
Key word ‘he’
@@isthisshit4real ya but why
Yes exactly how she did it
Whenever someone tries to compliment me falsely and excessively, it feels very nauseating...
It sounds fake and forced.
The last guy I dated first started by telling me I was “hotter than his ex” and then started doing stuff around my apartment just because he expected me to do stuff for HIM at his house. Then he even make a fake scenario trying to make me jealous and purposely talked about other girls and told me he WANTED to make me jealous. He also gas lighted me before and made rude comments claiming they were jokes. Never again will I date someone like that!
I was in a relationship like this for so long. Until one day I woke up, I realized in the end, friendship was even manipulation. I'll remember to be careful around those who cant let go of there past as well.
i've been really really sad because my almost 4 year relationship ended 3 days ago, but seeing these signs and checking ALL of them makes me believe it was for the best even if it hurts now, I couldn't keep doing that to myself. I deserve better.
Ahah. Yes. You deserve better.
That's sad.
And yes, you deserve better.
Good on you. The hurt will pass, then he'll want you back. Don't do it. 99% or leopards cannot change there spots.
@@heidirepp7462 I doubt he'll comeback since he's already done that a thousand times but I feel like this was the last one, and even if it wasn't, I don't want to get back with him. Thanks for your words ❤️
@@yourfan4797 thank you 🙏🏼
This video helped me to get out of a toxic "friendship" roughly one year ago.
I was suffering a lot in there, but this video opened my eyes to the emotional abuse I faced but didn't want to see back then.
Thank you so much for making this video.
Me and my partner always send eachother these and we tell eachother we’re glad we’re not like this.
Yeah, show each other pictures or videos of insane people.
Your Fan 😂
I started sending a bunch of vids to my ex hoping he would get help. Cuz he's a narc. I thought he might have BPD. Uh, it turns out maybe I was projecting and I have BPD.
Oops. Well, it would be nice to finally figure out wtf is wrong with me so I can get my shit together. High functioning BPD. Never knew there was such a thing. More stuff to bring up at therapy.....
LOL 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Be mindful when you do this. Narcissistic people tend to do this as a gateway to make you their supply.
It's like giving the combination to the safe to your loving partner and all the while hes a thief!
That moment when you dont even trust honest people
Yeah I feel that. Defense mechanism, I guess. When someone is nice off the bat it’s strange to me, like they are faking it. Past trauma I’m sure caused this mindset, I’ve been treated like shit by so many people growing up.
I truly thought I was the only one who thought this
A guy did this to me trying to fool me that he loves me. I played back. 😎 being one step ahead and informed of these things is powerful.
This was a good one and very true, I just ditched someone who was playing several mind games with me, and he still tried to play more games even when I said I'm not interested please leave me alone smh these kind of people make me sick, but now that I'm older and wiser it's a hell of alot easier to see through and drop it b4 it even starts... like no thank u
Was literally just on a texting rampage to my ex begging her to come back thanks for reminding me why I shouldn't have bothered.
@Bob Smith Easier said than done, but I hear ya.
@Bob Smith Well said, thank you I greatly appreciate it.
History has a way of repeating itself. If you broke up once, you'll break up again.
Josh Yes! I broke up with my ex and we got back together and we broke up again two days ago.
@@allisonl.6201 All that stress caused from two people not getting along, you'll find someone if you're willing to be open minded. I haven't found anyone yet but I can be hopeful.
I'm also gonna add that you might also feel like your brain is foggy or cloudy when being around manipulative people.
This is because these types of people put your mind ill at ease and constantly do tiny things to gradually make you question your sense of reality: the purpose of this is so that they can put you in a position where you agree to whatever they want you to do without having you put up a fight, because their mind games have now become normal to your head.
I totally agree..I feel like my minds in a hazy fog so much so I sometimes can't make the simplest of decisions ...
@@daniellaluscius5428 I can relate. Please keep watching Psych2Go videos and keep Googling things like "Signs You're Being (Emotionally/Psychologically) Manipulated" or "Am I Being Abused?" Stuff like this helps to put (and keep) things into perspective.
Soo true, each time I pull away because of the constant lies they transform to the most perfect person. Then not to long after making up, they hurt you worse than each time before and convinces you it's your fault.
I have had two coworkers pull similar mind games. They both acted really friendly or friendly on occasion. Then they both started giving the silent treatment to different people at odd times. The both of them also stare a lot leaving you wondering if they are looking at you. They both also watch people struggle to maintain a conversation that they started themselves. Don't let people manipulate you. It's a them problem. Not a you problem.
A coworker kept repeating to me “I think you show a lot of potential” he wasn’t a superior or anything and he kept repeating it and I never asked. Then one day I snapped and told him to keep this to himself. You can usually tell, when people are supposedly flattering you it’s quite transparent, it just feels off.
This is how things have gone over the last two and a half years with my current GF.
First six months of our relationship was something out of heaven, we never fought, enjoyed doing anything and everything together and she complimented me frequently.
She spoke very little about her past, childhood or friends, yet she spoke enough about these things not to raise any alarms.
We had our first fight a week after our six months and she ignored me for a little over a week.
By the first week of our seven month mark she was spending every weekend by me and I was visiting her after work Monday to Thursday for a few hours each.
At about 8 months after watching a movie and enjoying some quality time she asked if she could move in. I agreed and she moved in the following weekend. For 4 months things were great we had a stupid fight over something really silly. That Monday I dropped her at her mom's, while I was at work I got a phone call from my landlord informing me that he she was there moving out causing a scene with other tenants. This time I didn't hear from her for 2weeks again ignoring all efforts I made to contact her.
Long story short she eventually moved back in and like a scripted play we have a fight, she threatens to leave, we make up three month mark comes she moves out while I'm at work a week later she's back and the same happens. This has happened 4 times now in exactly the same cycle.
Am I stupid or am I missing something?
GET. OUT. NOW. DO NOT CONTACT HER AND BLOCK HER FOR GOOD. PERIOD. THIS IS THE BEST. THING FOR YOU. I PROMISE. YOU. DESERVE. MUCH. BETTER.
@@alex38607 You are right.
@@alex38607 👍👌
You're not stupid. She's a narcissist. You deserve better.
I really like that you keep coming back to the idea that no one deserves that kind of treatment!
My ex- all the way. I was compared to so many people I didn't know how to be. Once, on an flight to the Bahamas, he saw a girl with a pony tail. He said he liked it. I said, I pony my hair. He said not like that you don't. Usually when we were on trips together, he'd be off having fun with other people. The second he saw I was getting attention, he would be all over me. I saw through it, and of course it was a sign I should have picked up on at the time. I didn't. The effects have left scars that will never go away. It's hard for me to function when it comes to my current relationship. I'm completely in love, and he is opposite of my ex in many ways, but I do find it difficult to talk to him about some things, so I avoid most conversations.
Let them play if it makes them happy,...when you realize they are players only give what makes you happy,,,only what improves you if you would feel worse whn you dont engage them...do what is best for you...dont loose yourself when finding another...remember prayer..
Do not waste your time or life on people with narcisstic personality disorder go no contact or grey rock. Have no to limited time with them if you do business together or are part of your family
That sounds like good advice. To cut contact. It's hard to change someone.
this is so sad, it's 3 months ago
You tell them you’re leaving the relationship and why. They say they want you in their life. Then, after some beautiful time together they disappear. When you tell them you’ve had enough of this and you’re leaving they tell you they want you in their life. After some beautiful time together they disappear. Amazing. You would think it would be easy to walk away but it’s not.
Honestly, it's easier when you ghost them.
Enforcer Ridley Then you become like them and they win. I could never ghost someone. It’s cruel and immature.
@@jamesgerboc Cruel and immature? No. If you are dealing with a very toxic person why is cruel to you and manipulating you, why confront them about you are cutting them out of your life when all they are going to do with bullshit and guilt trip you? Such people aren't worth any of that hassle. And besides, if they were manipulating you from the start, not really listening to anything you say anyway, you really thing confronting them that you will leave them will work. No. Odds are, they're going to guilt trip you and you will go running back to them, which defeats the purpose.
Sometimes, the best and most mature thing you can do is cut them off without a confrontation first and just walk away. Severe all ties without a word. That's what ghosting is.
By the way, I wouldn't recommend ghosting a person who is not toxic. THAT would be cruel and immature. But ghosting a toxic person is probably the best thing you can do for yourself.
@@enforcerridley158 I misunderstood your comment. I agree now that I understand. At the time I did not agree with you and thought that the best way was to confront her. I did that and lost so you were correct. My apologies.
Thank you for providing a valuable public service because it is important to be careful who is being allowed to influence our lives. Many bad decisions have been made by people who are allowing themselves to be influenced by those who love to play mind games while trying to people please them enough to get by.
I swear the police are playing mind games on me when I get interrogated for being accused on a crime I didn't commit
Paul Louis Damasing hole on...
hope you’ll continue to be safe!!
r/oddlyspecific
Cooolll
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@Amani Brian
Nice one. I actually saw that link
Fucking legend
Friend: wanna play a game
Me: ya
Friend: pulls out uno and uses two +4
Me: Brings out reverse card
*pulls out emoji movie*
Oh god
That’s not your friend anymore
Ayoo
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@@gyundy3396 ruclips.net/video/KbTC-6ZtqXc/видео.html
This video: 10 signs someone is playing mind games with you
Sees number 1.
**Avoids mother** ;_;
EXCUSE ME MA’AM WHY IS YOUR COMMENT 6 MONTHS OLD
🤣🤣🤣🙏🏽 yessss
This comment section post dates make absolutely no sense
They are some wired time travellers🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@TheguywithspectaclesHeh
I grew up with a manipulative parent who still tries to play mind games with me till this day. Because of this person I have low self esteem and several psychological issues.. it’s made me an easy target all my life for ppl to repeatedly do that to me 😕
This sounds like almost everyone that I've ever been involved with.
Right! 😩
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My "best friend" was like this.
Same here
@@tamarabel3878
Best fri'end'. 🙏
Best Fri 'end'. 🙏
Same here
I’m sorry pal, I really am.
11: Their comments are from a few months ago
is that a mind fuck? lol
Same I was like wtf wasn’t this release like minutes ago? 😂😂😂
There was one underneath this that said "6 months ago"
@@Psych2go yeah
I'm hella confused
Sounds like being with a narcissist...yet that word was never used...strange
As far as #4, asking a lot of questions, it can also be the opposite, a lack of interest. If this is the case; when you talk about your day or of anything of interest to you, they won't ask many follow up questions, if any. They'll interrupt a lot and usually turn the topic to themselves. Over time, it becomes more and more noticeable the relationship is one sided. Wish I had know this when it was happening, this is huge a red flag and means it's time to exit the relationship.
i ask alot alot of questions to people for genuinen interest to know the person. people say when people ask alot its to be nosy. i interrupt alot to give my opinion or interest on the topic. people tell me dont share about your life alot or perso al life but i share normal things in my life. i say why would i make fun/hurt someone with something they shared i see no point. yet people will attack you with anything you say. what do you think?
Just wanted to thank you for the concise and simple to understand tips about toxic relationships. Wish I would have known about this earlier in my life, yet perhaps my acknowledgement might help someone else who might be on the fence about a particular person. Bottom line: run as fast as you can and never look back.
17 years. 17 years of this. Tick, tick, tick go the boxes.
I'm up to twenty. He has moved out but as we have 4 children together he's here all the time. I can't stand him now, the way he walks even..uck. horrid person inside and out.
It's a very hard thing to be in love with a person who is only playing games. They are cruel, hurtful, treat you like you are garbage or you are the bad one to them. They like you to be alone, off balance and torn apart. Do yourselves a huge favor and run as fast as you can the other way and never look back!!
I had a roommate who was the first person I lived with after moving out of my dads house. We were decent friends up to that point. I had recently helped her move into the same house that I was now moving into. Although she promised to help me move on a predesignated, she was literally out of town with her boyfriend the entire weekend... not to mention it was my birthday weekend. She had told me horror stories of her previous mean girl roommates becoming petty and exclusively toward her, and my dad is a train wreck, so it seemed we were both moving on to a better situation.
She was very warm at first, seemingly excited to be living and sharing a bathroom with a good friend, and she almost immediately started offering me her hand-me-downs (clothes, furniture, decorations, etc), whenever she could and establishing how super cool she was with me using or borrowing her stuff, and I returned the courtesy. Things were really good for a few months, but there were some red flags I failed to notice. She was obsessed with the idea of us “brushing our teeth together” and over time I noticed that she would act colder towards me for a fee days if we were both home and I didn’t brush my teeth when she did. We would have long talks and she would ask me personal questions, as well as share personal information about herself and her past (as time went on and the truth was revealed, many of her stories, including that of her evil old roommates retrospectively seemed like lies or variations on the truth that she made to appeal to who she thought I was). She also acted as though she was my best friend, but not regularly. We hardly hung out during the week (except when we had long, personal conversations), and we only hung out on the weekends she wasn’t out of town with her boyfriend. Another flag is that she’d constantly talk about her boyfriend to me- specifically that she wasn’t satisfied, didn’t really love him, and that she was only with him because he made more money than her... I convinced her to break up with him, and she did, but later got back with him when she started seeing me as an enemy.
One day she texted me, angry as f*ck, because I had used her moisturizer. I apologized and said I thought that it fell under the category of “help yourself to whatever”, that I washed my hands before I touched anything, and that I wouldn’t do it again. She seemed to back off, but it only got worse from there. After I came home from a trip over the holidays (a 12 hour travel day spent on planes and in airports), she picked me up from the airport and spent the entire drive home talking about how much she cleaned and organized the house. When we got home, I told her I was taking a shower and she told me I had to finish cleaning the bathtub before I could. When I said, ‘I don’t want to, it’s 11 pm, I’ve been traveling all day and I have to work in the morning. If you want the tub clean you should have finished cleaning it,’ she slammed the door in my face. I started being a bit of a recluse after that, and she texted me all sweet, basically saying “Do we have a problem?” and I lost my temper and said “Yes, your behavior is disrespectful and incoherent, I don’t trust you,” plus some more choice, PG-13 language. The next week, I had used some of her baking ingredients while cooking (mere tablespoons... I didn’t think it would even be noticeable), she legit screamed at me to “stop stealing her stuff”. No interim, no conversation about the rules changing from “help yourself to the whatever,” it seemed like she just started hating me over night. After that incident, I didn’t touch any of her stuff. I overheard her multiple times trying to accuse me of stealing to our other roommate. She got back with her ex (for the money, I assumed), and he was always around after that. It just got worse and worse to the point where she had turned every single one of our friends against me then would passive aggressively have them all over for loud parties while I was home, they were knocking my belongings over, jeering at me if I crossed their paths, and she even brought her mom into the picture... having her stay with us after having cosmetic surgery (with no warning), openly crying to her about how mean and scary I was, and even tried to get her to move in with us (this girl is freaking 27 okay...) She even switched rooms with our other roommate, bought and set up cameras around her room because she didn’t want me to ‘steal from her’ which I was never doing in the first place. One outlying instance is that there had been a dusty mirror downstairs that had been there for as long as I lived there, and I honestly thought I belonged to our third roommate (because nearly everything downstairs belonged to her), so I moved it to my room while I waited to get paid so I could buy a new one. It was actually the evil girls, and she went into my room while I was not home, with no courtesy text or note, and took the mirror and put it back downstairs behind the couch. She refused to communicate or acknowledge any of the negative ways she was effecting me, or that she had turned all my friends against me and destroyed the social infrastructure I had worked so hard to build. I was so frustrated, getting to the point where my satanic ass was “cursing” and “hexing” her (she was a super fake christian... so this was easily done). I also had multiple print-outs of narcissistic behaviors and typed examples of her behaviors that I taped all around the house. Eventually we both had to move, and the whole situation imploded. That’s my tale, and I don’t even have a legit diagnosis for this hoe, and honestly I’m so glad to be rid of her.
Dang man
What you done in the end that’s worth it! 👍
Screw her and her bad tactics, you can have right to leave cause of mess she made either badly behaviour
Sounds like my narcissistic husband......if anyone has and can relate to any and all of these you need to release them out of your life! I am going thru the divorce process now
The story of my life at the moment...
Ahhhhh the silent treatment..!!!!!
He loves dishing it out to me..!
Stupid man 👨. I’m finally walking away.
I need advice..
From 5 to 10 is totally my boyfriend. I really love him, and he supported me thru difficult times (as I did with him time before) but recently I had an emotional breakdown, and his response was "I'm not ready to give you the love and support you need. I'm not sure I want to be with you anymore". He literaly ghosted me when I started to have suicidal thoughts. I know he doesn't treats me right, yet, I don't want to leave him.
If he makes it clear to you by saying that, leave him. And get the support you need. Unfortunately, one person or the person that we should get support from, can’t be there for us. They just don’t have that ability or just won’t do it because they want other things in life, or they are narcissit like the video highlighted. Things changes in life, with that people and lifegoals/lifestyle as well. Prioritize your mental and physical health, get healthy, get stronger and empower yourself. Focus on you and work on goals that you want, take baby steps and then bigger steps, establish routines and romantisize your life. One day you’ll meet a person/friends that is right for you but for now do you. You can do it!
@@NinaAsmoni Thank You that is wonderful ,perfect advice...I know I needed that💖
I just finished a 20 year relationship with someone like this. The saddest thing is that he was like this in the begining and I never liked this part of him. But at the same time he was a sweet lovely guy who adored me and always wanted what I wanted. That should have been a red flag to me. Won't ever fall for this shut again that's for sure. I just didn't know what I know now that no matter how you explain, they won't understand. Or even if they do, they keep on playing the game anyway. In fact, the more you think they should know by now because you explained do many times (whatever the thing may be) the more angry you get, the better the game is for them. If you go out of line, even better, they can play the innocent victim and point their finger to you which is the problem in their mind. Sickening.
They say “good morning” before bed and “good night” when they wake up
Ive met this type of person twice in my life 😞💔kinda makes me not want to get into a relationship agin i don't want to open up to someone and they do all the things they know would hurt me and lie to me over and over
Cure yourself before getting into another relationship. It might be trauma bond..
@@riverdance8623 that's what im doing now trying to fix myself don't really have plans on trying to look for a relationship right now major trust issues
I can relate to you. I went through something similar In my life even tho it wasn't in a romantic relationship. I hope you don't have to go though that again.
@@pclark8096 well then you are on a right path. Just don't give up on people, surely there is The One for you 🌷
@@phanternalz thank you 😊trying to heal and learn the red flags and if i see it well i learned from my x the red flags and if i see them walking out of them but first i have to heal
Was with someone for a looooong time who manifests 7 of the 10. So much happier that it's over and my healing continues
Well...one of my friends literally admitted, a couple weeks ago, to trying to manipulate me in a few of these ways to force me to seek therapy because I apparently wasn't moving fast enough for their liking in getting myself fixed.
Seems like they refuse to believe that it takes time to find a therapist who's a good fit for an individual.
Oh...and, you know, there's a pandemic and been a quarantine for a few months, but yeah.
They prove themselves as a victim which we have already experience from them. It gets hard enough for us when we they becomes good to the people inspite they actually hurt and pull us down just for fun.
It is exhaustive..dealing with a manipulative NARCOpath. The mind games, scheming, threats of all types, lies, cunning deceit, and in the cases with some of the men: the cheating and closet addictions...I have had enough ! It is bad enough when it is in your own family, but when you are dealing with this in a relationship...it is a lose-lose situation.
Yes!! Someone has been playing mind games for years.
The only person I want playing mind games with me is that dope catapillar from alice in Wonderland 🐛💨
Sounds like the relationship I've been in for 14 years with a narcissistic husband.. I wish I could just LEAVE.. But I will be drowning in debt bc we own a house together.. And I can't cope with that. I'm disabled, and the disability-check isn't large enough for me to manage the debt I would get.. Feeling stuck.. 😢💔
Promises are just pieces of shit for them, which they want you to dump and fall prey to their new shit every single day. The cycle goes on unstoppable.
Thanks for making this video!!!! I needed this! :P
long story short you know your own mind better than anyone else on the face of this planet. Also know is definitely a valid answer to many many questions.
Whenever I would try to solve my sister's fights, it would feel like the experiences/events/situations would change at a constant: to a point where it would feel like I don't even remember anything at all. Almost as if someone was manipulating the conversation or problem to make sure that I wouldn't get to the bottom of it. Of the reason why the situation happened in the first place. Fudge that, I'm out.
My mom has been my first and worst manipulator in my life,unfortunately and following her almost every one ,from my sisters to my relatives ,my ,exhusband ,exfriends and boyfriends all of them as if united to eachother against me to destroy me to ruin my life but my mom is the boss ,the master of all and worst of all i've been thinking all these years they are like me ,giving the same love ,affection ,honesty and empathy to me they've gotten from me.i even didn't know something as abuse,manipulation ever exists.
Is it possible that someone doesn't know they're playing a mind game with the other?
yes, it is
Nope
Yes. If they have a very bad personality and no social skills.
@@akhilvarma198 yes if they really arent into you
The sad part about it, when it's all over, they lie and say that all the things they did to you, you did it to them making people who once liked and respected you hate you without hearing your side of the story.
Me, at 10:30 : Ok, it’s time to go to bed so I can have a good start to the day tomorrow!
Also me at 1:26 am: **sees this video** well well well then let’s find out
I didn't realize he was going through my things while I was at work. Seriously, every drawer, closet, under the bed. Every cabinet. It was crazy!
Your videos are soo calming, every time I watch one, it puts my mind at ease. Thank you!
Thank you for your kind comment :)
A good way to deal with these people is to never hold obsession too much and always be ready to let go of or sacrifice that obsession. Those people are able to control you based on your obsessions.
If your social ties are less (friends, family) since you are dating, means that your partner is playing mind games with you, be aware!!
Ahah. It's not like it was your choice. Deff partner's fault
Or they just don’t like there family and don’t have any friends
@@yourfan4797 No, but when someone suddenly argues with all his friends and family, and social ties that were positive turn negative: "everyone is wrong except my partner"
There is something there.
@@MaquiGC something? Yes.
It's a tell tale sign of an abusive narcissist. That's how they isolate their victims and make them completely dependent on them
wouldn't compliment me or show affection, would only want to talk when it was on their terms, would call me obsessed, etc
This was exactly happening to me for the past 2 years.
Thanks a lot for saving me from him!
We hope this video helped you become more aware of the mind games people use against us. How many signs described him the most?
I have got rid of people like that recently...I am independent and rarely bother people with my depression or anything I might need...this make some people think they can use me as a "punch pag"...because I seem strong and always available. In a way I AM available, BUT like in this video I was only contacted when THEY are suffering or needed a big favor (I am a patient sensitive person who cares)...again I NEVER ask favors, that is not in my opinion what friends are for...I am human though and now and then I also need someone to listen to me when I experience some negative feelings or had a bad day. I would spend an entire night with little sleep encouraging a friend in need...but when I needed 10minutes of their time just to vent, they will always cut me off with "sorry I am working or have to go somewhere or ..." - after hours??? But oh yea, they will call me the next day to "ask nicely" of me to do something for them because I am so nice and talented. I have NO friends left, I have ghosted them all. I am tired of people, most just use me.
"Gouge" your reaction ! Lol.. it's Gauge. .
I’ve known this person for five years and all I’ve ever heard was promises that he’s never ever kept like going places together like taking me out and all the other stuff that he’s promised but I’ve yet to see one of those things come to pass and it hurts deeply so I guess it’s time to give up that friend. Or ask him for help and they make excuses not to help you now that I’ve listen to the psych to go I realize that this is so true, and it’s OK to let go but then they text you be all Neicy nice thinking that they’re going to change this time but they don’t it’s the same old same old. How long does it take for it to hit your head in your mind that it’s OK to let go but yet we struggle to hang on
5:49 - because you’re co dependant
This is been me growing up with my mom the entire go. And what she still does to me now that I’m still stuck living with her
I am so confused with Number 4: "They ask basic questions." How is this a sign? Doesn't asking questions mean that one wants to get to know another better?
Normally, yes. But if they keep asking those questions even though you've answered them already several times, it could be a bad sign.
But don't forget that when someone does one of those things it doesn't mean that they're manipulative immediately. (Although it could be a 'light' form of it.)
Things always have a reason and so does behaviour, so maybe something else is causing such behaviour and it could be solved.
@@babettevanes483 Oh, oh! I got it. I understand these our light signs. I was just confused why it would be considered as one. I understand now thank you!
exactly.... makes you question the person making these videos on here!!!
@@sarahmarshall7523 Sometimes I do. I feel like their videos are starting to become more theoretical rather than fact.
Most people are quick to speak and it’s better to listen that way you can control the conversation and have the upper hand in any situation
Some of these points described some actions taken by someone who I dumbly fell in love for...
3. Isn't what a normal person would do. Waiting until you're at breaking point because youre so overdone and stressed by their actions.... Plus 5 and 6.
Signs of not only a nasty partner but rude crappy person.
Some people is playing mind games with me
Over compensation with complements and gift when they think you suspect something they did or lied about......
You just described a narcissist
They use your feelings against you
They compare you to other people
They refuse to give you complements
They ask you lots of basic questions
They disappear often
They don’t fulfill there promises
They play the jealousy games
They confuse you
The silent treatment
They suddenly start complimenting you excessively
The silent treatment is the worst. Gaslighting, lack of accountability, passive aggressiveness... I'm seeing all of these red flags in someone that I started seeing a month ago! Yeah, I'm done.
When people try to manipulate you but you see right through the BS yet you continue to entertain the situation to see how far a person will go does that now make you the manipulator 🤔
Valline Schmidt makes you the observer of the manipulator
4:08 spot on , my mom tells me if I keep turning in good work for the next week that she will give me my PlayStation back, a week passes and I ask to get my game back and she says “ I didn’t say I’ll give you your game back, I said that you need to stay on track” and when I say “no that’s not what you said” she says “are you calling me a liar?” Fkn hell
My mom pulls this lie too, it's her favorite.
Nicolle Herr smh i swear it’s annoying asl😤
I've learned a lot of valuable information I wish I knew years back, this describes my ex perfectly and we have a kid together.
Unfortunately this means I still need to deal with her and my god, she is on the last point right now.. being strangely and overly kind, so I know she must want something
Where were you 15 years ago ...
I invested 30 years in a marriage, to a person whom used all these tactics !
He ended up without notice ( his gym bag at front door as usual) said should I hold dinner for you.. “ no your fold is awful and I’m not coming back! I’m going to be with Sue Flowers! That was 15 years ago Her 1st hubby, said” they will make each other miserable. Mark my words ! ( mine was 4th & supporting 9 of her children w/ each man )
They are now divorcing.. he calls me when he’s mad at her & states picking a fight with me I say .. why are you yelling at me; I haven’t seen you in weeks! And hang up.
Thank you, please keep these coming. :) 🌟🧡🌟🌺🌸
There where things that i have seen en feeled...i never wanted to believe it...why would someone do this...i really don 't know What to think anymore...😟
11) Relying on a trippy ass thumbnail to lull people who love psychedelic art into watching your video
Can we all just take a moment to applaud Psych2Go for not ONLY making the male the manipulative one and adding a gay couple?
@L Franco same lol
No
If yall gonna be @$$holes then leave. I dont wanna deal with your homophobic crap.
@L Franco how tf is me pointing out that LGBTQ is being more used and accepted is making me cartoon phobic? And homophobic is a real issue so you shouldn't make jokes about it.
Fine. But you shouldn't say crap like that anyway. You dont know if someone is gonna react worse then me.
I was the kind of person who could easily fall for manipulation, but now I can do that, but I don't feel to do it, because manipulating someone is boring
The comment dates are the ones playing mind games on me
This is exactly what has happened to me. Even my daughter has done this, she constantly compliments her mother in law as classy as though I am not. This too is my daughter and her husband, they cannot compliment me on any level. When family members hate giving you credit for anything and even do not listen when you have something happy to share, this is a sign these people are jealous and have contempt for you. I have been invited to family things so I could see them ignoring me. They want to know why I haven't come when I choose not to but ignore me when I do show up. I don't show up anymore.
Thank you so much Psych2Go for helping me look at my relationship for what it truly is.
How are things now?
11-They will not explain how or when you did X Y Z and how you can fix it.
12- They are not interested in talking out problems
13- They never think of you when out. Like my bf will go to the supermarket user my card to pay but not ask if I need anything.
14 - They never show an interest in your interests and call you selfish for asking them to do something only you like 🙄 I deserve way better
Wait... So you're telling me my parents have been playing mind games with me?!
*//Shocked Pikachu face*
I have been a Safety oriented person, and I been respectful, and yet, I have not been described accurately by some, and I keep to myself, and I say hello, and goodbye, and remain respectful to others.
*I DO NOT know how many times, I have *articulated, *written, *documented, and spoken repetitively over, and over again, that I do not use, drugs, I am not involved in a risky behavior, and I am NOT using any medications, and I have never had alcohol issues, or use, not making any judgement on others, just speaking about myself.
I have had many of my concerns Misconstrued, Misinterpreted, Miscommunicated,
Mis-stated, mis-understood, misquoted as well, my concerns, SAFETY SUGGESTiONS have been disregarded, ignored or on several occasions while being in a shelter program etc.
Fact: I AM NOT, NOR have EVER been attracted to kids, children, teenagers, NEVER, EVER, NEVER etc.
Fact: I am attracted to Women*****However, due to the above-mentioned statement it should be known that, although there have NOT been any intimacies of any sort, sexually whatsoever, or of kind, or dating relationships including this past year as well.
In addition to this information, it should be expressed, and known that these Facts,
*THERE (HAS NOT), and (NOR would EVER) anything to cause myself to be inappropriate, NOR EVER conduct myself in any inappropriate contact
(of any kind towards anyone EVER NEVER).
*FACT: I NEVER have conducted myself inappropriately with anyone, and I DO NOT plan to ever.
*FACT: I CANNOT receive any pleasure, or gratification from someone else's pain, or causing the pain, or suffering of another human-being whatsoever.
*FACT: I Desire to encourage others, not in to cause or inflict pain, or suffering
*FACT: I am a person that only desires a (Positive Reciprocal Relationship), Meaning a person that I, and that Person have the same mind-set, and shares the same thoughts towards Humanity, Life, etc..
*FACT: I DO NOT EVER wish to cause harm to myself, nor cause harm to another person.
*FACT: And I could (NEVER glean) any satisfaction from causing anyone else pain, suffering, or harm, in any way.
*FACT: Although, I (welcome a positive relationship), (healthy fulfilling relationship), and I am not opposed to being in a positive relationship with someone which shares similar goals, and aspirations which I have, and to help promote Peace, Harmony, towards Humanity.
*FACT: I am Not Married.
*FACT: I have (NOT had any companions Ever) in my travels on the public bus, or otherwise since I have been utilizing the public bus system.
*FACT: I have continuously believed that Women should be respected, and Protected from harm, and thus, I treat them with respect.
I know that because I HIGHLY believe in this (SO VERY STRONGLY) that their are people which would wish to (Dishonor me), (Slander me), as well as
*(CONSTRUCT, and *FABRICATE Slanderously, etc. and *EXPLOIT any *unemployed situations) *homeless situations.
(Strictly, on the basis because they are fully aware, that I believe in Highly in the Preservation Life), and (Protecting Life, and Humanity),
I feel so strongly to my very inner most Being
*FACT: I believe in Protecting Women, Men, And Children, and All People, LIFE, I believe in Preserving LIFE, and the Well-Being of others, I always have believed this my entire LIFE.
Additional FACTS;
*Fact: I initially I became HOMELESS, because I had become unemployed due to being laid off, and I could no longer afford or contribute towards living expense, or to maintain rent for a place live.
*Fact: In addition without having a operational vehicle finding employment became even more difficult to obtain or seek, Although, I never stopped trying, and eventually I did find and obtained employment part-time, until being laid-off again.
*Fact: I am NOT, and NEVER been on any, NOR, have ever been on any Medications, nor Prescribed Medication Regimented programs.
(This Does not include for example: antibiotics prescribed for the prevention of an infection from a cut for example 15 years ago
*Fact: I DO NOT sell Drugs, and NEVER HAVE, and NEVER WILL
*Fact: I DO NOT have a Alcoholism issue, and I NEVER have
Not judgement on anyone else
*Fact: I DO NOT smoke anything, and I NEVER have, I do not many any judgement on anyone else's
I DO NOT believe in the use of illegal, and misused drugs, because have the ability to impair cognitive activity, reasoning, and mental focus, coordination, memory, and Mental Awareness, furthermore, some drugs even have the ability to disrupt other cognitive functions etc.
Therefore, I Personally, I prefer more of natural remedies, or a natural approach to (recover from sickness), or for (any pain relief for myself), an example of natural remedies I prefer, nutrients such as vitamins, and minerals being derived from eating fruits, nuts, vegetables, chicken, fish, vegetable soups, and teas etc.
I make NO judgments whatsoever, on anyone else which may take medications appropriately, and safely for themselves.
*Fact: I DO NOT have any psychical, nor mental impairments
*Fact: I DO NOT hear Voices, and I never have
*Fact: I DO NOT have a verbal conversations with myself
*Fact: I DO NOT become happy, and sad, at the same times
*Fact: I am NOT Sad or Depressed, nor have I been
*Fact: I DO NOT become angry, mad all time
*Fact: I have self-control
*Fact: I am NOT a violent Person, never have been a violent person.
*FACT: I AM NOT, NOR have EVER been attracted to kids, children, teenagers, NEVER, EVER, NEVER etc.
*FACT: I am attracted to Women, and I would (NEVER HURT ANY WOMAN AT ANY TIME), NOR ANYONE else.
*FACT: I have (NOT had any companions, girlfriends Ever) in my travels on the public bus, or otherwise since I have been utilizing the public bus system.
*Fact I have Not ever at anytime paid, given payment, exchanged, accepted anything for sexual intimacies.
*Fact: I have NOT dated, I am NOT dating anyone, I have NOT ever engaged in any sort sexual intimacies, NO kind of a sexual relationships, NO dating, NO girlfriends, NO anyone whatsoever, nor otherwise while in, or while enrolled any Homeless Shelter Program, as a Guest or patron, visitor etc. while in any Homeless Shelter Program.
* FactI I have continuously traveled alone, and I have NEVER traveled with any girlfriends, women, anywhere, nor with anyone else during any time at a homeless shelter program including the room rental facility, No relationships, No Sexual relationships with anyone
*FACT: I am a Very Protective individual, an think in regards of Safety and
*Prevention of Harm of Women, Children Men.
I prefer my privacy, and mine my business.
Author, Advocate for Humanity,
Jason Sandifer
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I've been in this situation for 14yrs. He charmed me in my 20's; stole my 30's, & NOW I'm 42. I got THE ROCK 9 yrs ago!! I. Am. LEAVING. We had a moto crash in Jan & I got settlement$$$. I'm OUT✌.
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