Understand This When Desiring To Meet Your Spouse!

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  • Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024

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  • @trockslaw1
    @trockslaw1 7 месяцев назад +111

    I’m alright with imperfect. I’m not down with violence, anger, addiction (bad ones), disrespect and dishonesty. Point, blank PERIOOD!

  • @MeekahLynne
    @MeekahLynne 7 месяцев назад +57

    Don’t block me😂
    From perspective, the issue isn’t SOME women don’t accept flaws, more men are unwilling to govern that same grace. Yeah I’m in my feeling Mr Gaskins….DONT block me 🥴

    • @MeekahLynne
      @MeekahLynne 7 месяцев назад +8

      I’ve grown a lot watching you…and to think you just popped up unrelated to what I was looking for. That was 2 years ago, I thank God and you.

    • @TonyGaskins
      @TonyGaskins  7 месяцев назад +45

      Only thing is, you’re wrong. Ain’t a perfect woman in the world, or near close to it. So any man you see in a relationship is putting up with a lot of things he doesn’t like, but it’s what we all do if we want to make a relationship work. We just don’t put up with as much, but that’s what you should learn from men.

    • @yolandalcheek462
      @yolandalcheek462 7 месяцев назад +8

      I agree with you Meekah, women bend alot.

    • @artellus3859
      @artellus3859 7 месяцев назад

      @@J_Elle30no it’s not “all these” pastors. It’s “all” the ones you know about and only those ones. You’re making a blanket statement and covering all men when there are many men who do the “bending” you’re crediting women for. Expand your knowledge and your limited horizon of humanity and you’ll see many of us deal with the same thing. Certain groups complain more about particular things and particular aspects but many of us deal with the same things

  • @shereewhite4828
    @shereewhite4828 7 месяцев назад +102

    ●There's only one who had no flaws, and his name was Jesus!
    ●There's only one who's perfect and makes no mistakes. He is Alpha & Omega, my heavenly father, God!
    ● I pray that God will send me a man who will accept my flaws, and I'll accept his!

  • @LindsayAmelia
    @LindsayAmelia 7 месяцев назад +138

    I dated a guy who wasted the last day of our vacation hunting down some weed bc he ran out 😂I said, wow..He has a real problem.

    • @phizzy123
      @phizzy123 7 месяцев назад +35

      that’s addict behavior.

    • @Atashchayil
      @Atashchayil 7 месяцев назад +9

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'm weak he down bad 💀

    • @smithaquarius1
      @smithaquarius1 7 месяцев назад +6

      Hmm… bet I know what he looked like

    • @xScarlingx
      @xScarlingx 7 месяцев назад +1

      Omg i had the same experience. Eww

    • @Mike44569
      @Mike44569 7 месяцев назад +3

      you were dating Smokey from Friday and you let him go ?

  • @JennyGaston
    @JennyGaston 7 месяцев назад +40

    Creating a risk assessment scale is key. The scriptures says count the cost so its biblical ❤

  • @Aviao100
    @Aviao100 7 месяцев назад +10

    I bumped on your channel through a girl called Nikki Thot and she briefly mentioned a particular revealtion that she learned from you. So i decided to check out your content myself and have been here ever since.. God is doing the promotion for you, you just focus on creating the content through the Spirit

  • @Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect
    @Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect 7 месяцев назад +15

    Tony this is good! I have to assess guys when I meet them and when I see things I don't like think to myself "can I live with this?" The anger is a hard NO b/c I don't know when he might flip out on me. I've seen too many stories.

  • @Misunderstood1_
    @Misunderstood1_ 7 месяцев назад +7

    Mr. Gaskins you are right men struggle severely with infidelity. I was having a conversation with a man who is sick whose heart and kidneys can go out at any moment and he had some young women coming to see him. He has a girlfriend who has been by his side throughout multiple surgeries and walked through the fire with him and he still couldn't control himself. I find it super hard to believe in love and marriage outside of financial stability. Im talking to Lord daily however just seeing how good women are being to men who don't care about them is interesting 🤔. Out of all the things he could be doing with his time left on this earth his main goal was to show her that other women wanted him 😂

  • @champagnemelton3781
    @champagnemelton3781 7 месяцев назад +14

    Sheesh the commercials on here getting out of hand. This commercial just asked if my booty hole brown🤦🏾‍♀️ i can’t with the world. Great message as always Tony !

  • @evasccl7846
    @evasccl7846 7 месяцев назад +8

    Hi Tony, thank you for making this video... you are so so right in all you have said! As i was carefully listening to you, i realised that everything you said makes total sense, and that is why Jesus had to come to earth, and die on the cross for us , because we cannot change people, nor can we change ourselves on our own strength!!! We need God, through Jesus who cleanses our hearts and minds, and makes us new... only Him can make the change in us!
    Tony, this also made me think about the importance of our relationship with God first and utmost... we certainly cannot hide anything from God, we are fully naked before Him who created us ! That is very humbling, and when we embrace our nakedness before God... the more we see how we need Him, and as our relationship with Him gets deeper... something beautiful happens with our relationships with those around us too! Thank you Tony!! God bless you and your family

  • @LdAmaro71
    @LdAmaro71 7 месяцев назад +31

    Wish you were my friend in my earlier years, need more Godly men as you, Pr. Tony.
    Keep up the good work. 👍 May God continue blessing you and your family. 🙏🏼 will add your name in my “Prayer /Intercessory & Petition” notebook. 🙏🏼

  • @danyelgarcia3689
    @danyelgarcia3689 7 месяцев назад +4

    I actually like this video. It's a bit sobering. Thanks 👍🏽. I love the delivery of this video.

  • @WITHGODSGUIDANCEANDDIRECTION
    @WITHGODSGUIDANCEANDDIRECTION 7 месяцев назад +6

    14:46 😅love that "GOD Blessing me" i means GOD Bless you at the end. ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥 Yes GOD IS BLESSING YOU SIR FOR ALLOWING HIM TO USE YOU TO BLESS SO MANY OF US! Another good video, thank you Tony❣️🙏🏾💝🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @tonyasherrod9042
    @tonyasherrod9042 7 месяцев назад +4

    Tony, this was on point. I really needed to hear this message. It resignate everything that I have been feeling. 🙏🏽

  • @Erica-et4ye
    @Erica-et4ye 7 месяцев назад +4

    Awesome video, Tony…thank you! Could you please do a video for women in their 40s who feel they are ready to get back out into the dating scene.

  • @virtue1495
    @virtue1495 7 месяцев назад

    Thanks for the words of wisdom. I've always seen your quotes when my sister first introduced me to your content and today I got to watch your videos, and now I'm hooked!! It's quite late here where I'm at, stayed up studying for my cardio exam in a few hours, then I listened in and before you know time flew by. Your content is refreshing, so real and I love that you put God in it. Just subscribed and shared your clips with my friends and siblings. God bless, and keep on keeping on🙏🏾🤎

  • @alicia_nicole
    @alicia_nicole 7 месяцев назад +1

    Its called integrity. Get you some and find people with some too

  • @Torieollivette
    @Torieollivette 7 месяцев назад +1

    I learn to really get to know a person fully, because even when they do have flaws that aren’t acceptable. They will be like stay or leave. Most logical people would get better because of their person to make them better.
    I think JM, truly believes he isn’t the problem and it’s their lost because in his mind if he was so bad why is Meagan with me. He doesn’t think he actions or words are terrible.

  • @sharonkeggins927
    @sharonkeggins927 3 месяца назад

    That’s funny 😀😀😀”Take your time, slow your roll”😂😂😂

  • @ShriloKim
    @ShriloKim 6 месяцев назад +2

    I am dating a guy who is great, treats me so well, adores me, confident, hard working, financially free and patient with me. However he does not believe in God 😢 he hasn’t done anything wrong but I hate I may have to let this one go

  • @amandafields6431
    @amandafields6431 7 месяцев назад +6

    Proverbs 20:6-7❤

  • @goldintya
    @goldintya 7 месяцев назад +2

    Tony is so right thanks for this one

  • @tadesha
    @tadesha 7 месяцев назад +4

    Thank you for this wisdom! 🙏

  • @queenkeesh8660
    @queenkeesh8660 7 месяцев назад

    That multiplying by 3 is really true I use this thought process wisely in my current dating season

  • @CrownedJulz
    @CrownedJulz 7 месяцев назад

    Good video - very key to get that inner healing and deliverance work done. Yes, especially as a born again, Holy Spirit filled Christian

  • @yolandalcheek462
    @yolandalcheek462 7 месяцев назад +4

    It's some flaws we can't overlook. If i can get a provider, saved and filled with the Holy Ghost and faithful, those things are a must. As long as he an't addicted to porn or a wife beater with multiple kids and baby moms, i can work it 😂

  • @eurspenc
    @eurspenc 7 месяцев назад +2

    This is so true! Thank you for sharing!!

  • @Anamak_23
    @Anamak_23 6 месяцев назад +1

    Hi Tony,
    What about someone who drinks and smokes?
    Being a God Fearing women the word says don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers!
    What do you think?
    As I know only God can change a man.

  • @reanetsetelile9522
    @reanetsetelile9522 6 месяцев назад

    I thank God for you, just right on time 🙏 I needed this. Thank you so much.

  • @vanisacampbell5261
    @vanisacampbell5261 7 месяцев назад +5

    This was very interesting and informative ❤🎉😊

  • @malindahicks4292
    @malindahicks4292 7 месяцев назад +2

    God bless me, is right💯😁🙌🏽

  • @freshprogressbeauty
    @freshprogressbeauty 6 месяцев назад

    This is soooo good! This would avoid lots of divorces

  • @cynthiawashington5386
    @cynthiawashington5386 6 месяцев назад

    Great information. Blessing unto you MOG and your family 🙏🏽

  • @christinelong2407
    @christinelong2407 7 месяцев назад +2

    Wow I really needed to hear this. Thank you!

  • @yessi4113
    @yessi4113 7 месяцев назад +4

    Count the cost 💯

  • @Gloria_All_Day
    @Gloria_All_Day 7 месяцев назад +1

    Yes, my insecurities is being hard on myself.

  • @abbi8408
    @abbi8408 7 месяцев назад

    Can you do a longer video plss!! I’m married and I’ve a man who is very dishonest but preachs in church. We have 3 kids. I’m torn

  • @MWisdomWisdom
    @MWisdomWisdom 7 месяцев назад +1

    TONY, THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THiS.

  • @lunanacho
    @lunanacho 7 месяцев назад +2

    can you go over what young men look for as criteria for their wife? I have not seen much logic in their selection criteria and noticed that it rarely changes as they age. In the bible, it says men picked their wives based on just seeing them, but how does that make it a wise choice? Samspon ruined his life by marrying based on looks and david already had a wife when he saw his second, and then third wife.

  • @LadyAngela678
    @LadyAngela678 7 месяцев назад +4

    Hes probably laying hands on her already. He, like the rest of the world, can’t believe she’s with him.

  • @b.rookthebest3778
    @b.rookthebest3778 6 месяцев назад

    This was so good and blessed me.

  • @tarahbruno3793
    @tarahbruno3793 7 месяцев назад +3

    This was so good!😊

  • @MissAnnaDominique
    @MissAnnaDominique 7 месяцев назад +2

    This was great thanks

  • @samonecharisma3043
    @samonecharisma3043 7 месяцев назад +3

    Yes my ex had to find the dam narcos in DR…we on a nice vacay & he wanted to be high the whole time

  • @Lovegod4821
    @Lovegod4821 7 месяцев назад +1

    Amen

  • @olexkaymartin2364
    @olexkaymartin2364 7 месяцев назад +8

    Chose alcohol chose wrong

  • @Listentomusicist
    @Listentomusicist 7 месяцев назад

    Godly wisdom 🙏🏾

  • @jesusb4me3
    @jesusb4me3 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you 🙏🏾

  • @Thatcher8888
    @Thatcher8888 6 месяцев назад

    This was really good!

  • @paupau2044
    @paupau2044 7 месяцев назад

    You summarised toxic masculinity. Thank you

  • @Chosengirl1
    @Chosengirl1 7 месяцев назад +1

    Wisdom ❤

  • @thelioness6102
    @thelioness6102 7 месяцев назад +4

    ❤❤❤

  • @GirlfriendsTeawithSebrina
    @GirlfriendsTeawithSebrina 7 месяцев назад

    Excellent

  • @perdybirdie
    @perdybirdie 7 месяцев назад +1

    Johnathan has a history of violent, sociopathic, manupulative behavior. As well as one where he ONLY dated ww. Meagan is silly for being with him, and I pray he doesnt do her the way he has done all the others. 1 could be a mistake, but multiple is a clear pattern. And thats what he has established with all his romantic partners and women on his sets.

  • @andrealobo9260
    @andrealobo9260 7 месяцев назад

    We are all imperfect people so never say never !

  • @trichelleconner2612
    @trichelleconner2612 7 месяцев назад +1

    Oops, a positive Freudian slip😅

  • @latrisageorge2180
    @latrisageorge2180 7 месяцев назад

    This was good food!!!!

  • @kemiLuv
    @kemiLuv 7 месяцев назад +1

    We all have our demons 😊

  • @doseofsam549
    @doseofsam549 7 месяцев назад

    So what if you find a man who loves God, prays and reads his word,leads well, is a provider and loving BUT loves to porn and drinks a lot? This man had vowed to do and be better by me and asked me to be pâtirent with him. I wasn’t pâtirent enough to find out lol.I’m all for accepting flaws and this topic was really needed. As a Christian woman in my 30s I would love to find a partner one day. Knowing people aren’t perfect is an addition, but I find it difficult balancing flaws

    • @MadebyMarisJ
      @MadebyMarisJ 7 месяцев назад

      You were right to leave him.

    • @Ilovevitaminwater
      @Ilovevitaminwater 7 месяцев назад

      Porn is cheating
      Alcoholism is destruction of your temple and spirit
      He got some healing to do ma’am

  • @donnajeffreys8252
    @donnajeffreys8252 7 месяцев назад +1

    What I have learned from people, both male and female is when you think 💭 oh no they wouldn't do something like that to me , OH YES THEY WOULD !!

  • @darlenebernard4288
    @darlenebernard4288 6 месяцев назад

    Megan Good can't change him. She likes bad boys which is one of the issues she left her husband. Only God can change him that's why it's important to date males that live their lives by the Bible, but she must know the Bible in order to be able to recognize he's not a lover God and that he's faking.

  • @MissHoustonSelassie
    @MissHoustonSelassie 7 месяцев назад +1

    So Needed…Thank You Coach!
    🤍🙌🏾✨