The ONE thing Good Men Need From Good Women Today!

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  • Опубликовано: 26 дек 2024

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  • @Happinessis_12
    @Happinessis_12 10 месяцев назад +284

    I pray that people with good intentions find people with good intentions.
    Amen

  • @Ptah1130
    @Ptah1130 10 месяцев назад +94

    People want the title of leader, but not the accountability

  • @stormyv.8890
    @stormyv.8890 10 месяцев назад +37

    It's a women responsibility to wait and see if a man is submitting to God...BEFORE she submit to that man.

  • @danielleh6806
    @danielleh6806 10 месяцев назад +149

    If the man is truly of God and loves the woman as you've stated here, she will willingly submit to a true man of God. She will be humbled by his Godly presence and accept his leadership without issue.

    • @QuietgalSeeya
      @QuietgalSeeya 10 месяцев назад +7

      Yes. I look forward to doing that ❤️😊🙏🏽

    • @ericbush6124
      @ericbush6124 10 месяцев назад +9

      Not automatically will she submits unless she us submitted to God she won't submit to her Husband

    • @Lovegod4821
      @Lovegod4821 10 месяцев назад +2

      Amenn

    • @highlovevibration
      @highlovevibration 10 месяцев назад +3

      Yes ma'mm absolutely, I welcome it.

    • @LadyDee8118
      @LadyDee8118 10 месяцев назад +2

      I agree as well.

  • @lisaimsoprettylyke7
    @lisaimsoprettylyke7 10 месяцев назад +87

    Men get mad about your videos because you spilling tea on their games and I thank you so much because I wish I had someone talk to me about all this stuff I would have made better decisions God bless you

  • @solisabelton9659
    @solisabelton9659 10 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you for your time and effort.I appreciate you investing your time to people like me.I am a regular person I don't have a lot but if I did I would join and pay for your advice.But I pray to GOD that he keeps you on here to help people with a genuine heart and have genuine intentions to do the right thing in your life

  • @mollesmart
    @mollesmart 10 месяцев назад +29

    This hit home for me. I must repent of my bitterness and anger over other men 😢

    • @tvlacy
      @tvlacy 10 месяцев назад +1

    • @tamaramoore4085
      @tamaramoore4085 10 месяцев назад

      Praise God

    • @blaineVann
      @blaineVann 10 месяцев назад

      Wow, what a beautiful thing! Praise God

  • @Happinessis_12
    @Happinessis_12 10 месяцев назад +23

    It’s all about hierarchy :
    God
    |
    Husband
    |
    Wife
    If the first component is not in order , then, the second component won’t be in order.

  • @margeauxjenkins12
    @margeauxjenkins12 10 месяцев назад +24

    Men need to work on THEMSELVES before expecting anything from another person.

    • @ericabridley5679
      @ericabridley5679 10 месяцев назад +8

      Women also need to work on Themselves! This is a human issue not a man issue.

  • @donnag183
    @donnag183 10 месяцев назад +22

    I’m so proud of you Tony and how you submitted to a total transformation from Jesus Christ that made you the man, husband, and father you are today. Glory be to God! 🙌🏾

  • @ChristianTology
    @ChristianTology 10 месяцев назад +53

    Stop going out there looking for a spouse. Stick to your passion and God will bring someone.

    • @tarahbruno3793
      @tarahbruno3793 10 месяцев назад +5

      I believe it!

    • @blaineVann
      @blaineVann 10 месяцев назад +2

      I agree, I tell people this all the time

  • @mollesmart
    @mollesmart 10 месяцев назад +13

    It brought tears to my eyes. It’s sad that these men do what they do but even sadder that we don’t release it sooner to the Lord for healing and we loose decades of our lives making sense of hate, bitterness and anger. 😢

  • @Anti-democratChick
    @Anti-democratChick 10 месяцев назад +45

    I wish a man would come and be the head because I'm tired of being strong and "independent!" I'm frustrated in all aspects 😢 women who don't want to be led should stay single 🎉

    • @mireillebernheimer11
      @mireillebernheimer11 10 месяцев назад +5

      Hum i really understand you.feminism lie to women...they think they are winning by being strong and indépendant but that situation will make them bitter because when they will realise à woman isnt made to struggle that much it will be too late. I refuse to be thé one dring everything, raisins kids,work hard at home,going to job,taking all thé décisions alone...i just like my husband playing that role

    • @andziagreen4922
      @andziagreen4922 9 месяцев назад

      Amen 🙏 I know exactly how you feel💜

  • @c.ggraygray4389
    @c.ggraygray4389 10 месяцев назад +10

    I rebuke the devil in the name of Jesus Christ. Amen

  • @Anti-democratChick
    @Anti-democratChick 10 месяцев назад +18

    Tony, you the only man I came across who's actually married. I don't listen to no one single or divorced. Period, that's like taking financial advice from a criminal 😂

  • @Gloria_All_Day
    @Gloria_All_Day 10 месяцев назад +19

    A good leader example I also like in the Bible is when Jesus wash the feet of His disciples. A leader serves as well as being served. ✝️❤️

  • @Ptah1130
    @Ptah1130 10 месяцев назад +14

    Facts!! A leader is humble

  • @businessdevelopment4834
    @businessdevelopment4834 10 месяцев назад +12

    Whew! Just saw a single coach female April on Dear Wifey podcast. This is confirmation of what the Holy Spirit told me
    She talked about healing yourself, but never admonished women to get with God. She teaches "game.''

  • @Shandapowell
    @Shandapowell 10 месяцев назад +10

    I need a man to lead me, cover me and to protect me ( emotionally, mentally, and spiritually).

  • @h.k.hiskingdom4961
    @h.k.hiskingdom4961 10 месяцев назад +5

    This video is standing on business. It shares both godly truths and Kingdom principles. Love for the man to give freely to woman and respect for the woman to give freely to man in relationships. The main idea is that both must be submitted to God's order. Man to God and woman to her husband who is under the Lord's headship. This is a fully covered union that will abound in goodness and flourish as they walk together as one under God. Blessings!

  • @MarjorieSistaForRealPodcast
    @MarjorieSistaForRealPodcast 10 месяцев назад +6

    The best person for the job to give single advice is the married one. They walked through the dating to get to the finished ✅️ line. Tony is that man for the job. He is gifted with wisdom.

    • @ButterCookie1984
      @ButterCookie1984 10 месяцев назад +2

      That does not mean that. Anyone can go to the courthouse and get married.

  • @Neta_2525
    @Neta_2525 10 месяцев назад +2

    😂 Tony you crack me up every time you emulate a woman. But I hear you and you are correct. We as human beings need to get it together and act like adults and continue to serve God. We are now the leaders and role models of this world and should conduct ourselves accordingly. Thank you for this message and for putting it out there. A lot of people need to hear this and comprehend it.🙏

  • @MrDubb5
    @MrDubb5 8 месяцев назад +2

    16:16 ladies Tony aint lyin. If a man doesnt respect whats Tony's sharing, you may wanna get away from that dude. He probably doesnt believe in accountability and doesnt want to grow in the role God has designed for him.

  • @belindahill8310
    @belindahill8310 10 месяцев назад +3

    Thanks Tony for this well needed message to those who genuinely want guidance how to be in right standing according To The Order of The Lord's Perfect Will for His Children. God Bless and Cover you and your family Continuously in Jesus Mighty Name Amen 🙏🏾❤️

  • @Ptah1130
    @Ptah1130 10 месяцев назад +10

    A leader sees the whole picture. He needs to see things from a greater vantage point.

  • @natureyou1509
    @natureyou1509 6 месяцев назад

    Amen, straight from God, thank you Holy Spirit ❤

  • @Gloria_All_Day
    @Gloria_All_Day 10 месяцев назад +12

    Point blank Periodt, thanks for keeping it real. I already know. Thank you for the change up. I need to know more about what a godly man needs from a godly woman. All that other stuff is for the birds. (Means the birds can eat it up and poop it out on fools head 😅)

  • @julieevans3110
    @julieevans3110 10 месяцев назад +2

    Out of The Heart ♥️ a Man Speaketh.

  • @RatedR-10.0
    @RatedR-10.0 10 месяцев назад +12

    I wish I could continue to listen and not feel sad. Pray for me because I swear I'm just ready for all I try to show instead of things not doing nothing for me

  • @kejuanlynette8531
    @kejuanlynette8531 9 месяцев назад

    Happy Birthday!!! (Watching this 3/8). Continued Blessings

  • @MrDubb5
    @MrDubb5 8 месяцев назад

    Tony I'd like your perspective on men refusing to be with a woman that allows her family to disrespect her husband, even attempts to manipulate the husband like its his fault, and she prioritizes her way over what's right for her family (her husband and their child/ren).

  • @takwwnwilson7628
    @takwwnwilson7628 10 месяцев назад +6

    So true brother Amen

  • @vikki7286
    @vikki7286 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you, Tony. I know why I'm single and this message confirms for me why I need to remain single.❤

  • @eurspenc
    @eurspenc 10 месяцев назад

    Amen!!!! Leadership is wisdom!!

  • @carolynlong8701
    @carolynlong8701 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you for sharing your testimony and God has saved you and bless you to be a blessing to others 🙏🏾

  • @Best-ThingYouNeverHad
    @Best-ThingYouNeverHad 10 месяцев назад +3

    Thanks TG!! Your messages are always right on time!

  • @tiffanycollier9391
    @tiffanycollier9391 10 месяцев назад

    I will always enjoy every episode. Your words are edifying and real. You have the rare perspective. ❤

  • @Lovegod4821
    @Lovegod4821 10 месяцев назад +2

    My ex husband is a grown boy there is a big difference between grown man and boy , great message

  • @dungthai6676
    @dungthai6676 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you Tony, God bless you

  • @a1xluv
    @a1xluv 10 месяцев назад +1

    Amen AND AMEN! 💯✅👍🏾

  • @tarahbruno3793
    @tarahbruno3793 10 месяцев назад +2

    no lies! It’s so unfortunate that these podcasts and opinions of grown boys and girls out here makes it so hard for us who are genuine and want to be led by and respect our man.

  • @a.a.12945
    @a.a.12945 10 месяцев назад +3

    Thanks Tony for sharing this message. It’s exactly what I needed to hear today. Praise God for the clarity and truth you speak because it is such a blessing

  • @kadinethompson9442
    @kadinethompson9442 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you for these messages. I am taking notes and learning.

  • @vinadouglas119
    @vinadouglas119 10 месяцев назад +1

    Keep teaching TG❤

  • @neldab2
    @neldab2 10 месяцев назад +2

    Well said, much Respect !

  • @destinymckay871
    @destinymckay871 10 месяцев назад +1

    Tony you are completely correct.

  • @jackseve
    @jackseve 10 месяцев назад +4

    Women DO need their husbands leadership. The man is the Godly head of household. He is supposed to be her covering and protection. In godly principles THAT is the CORRECT order of things in LIFE and the family. God blesses a man who accepts his role and position in the family as the head of the household.
    In my group Bible study we are doing we are studying John. We just covered in John 13 how Jesus taught the disciples that as the leader HE serves his disciples. And we as leaders serve those in our families and those we lead. We LEAD by example and through our humility and godly guidance and direction.

  • @melanamims2622
    @melanamims2622 10 месяцев назад +1

    You know who shouldn't give relationship advice? People who don't want or aren't ready for commitment.

  • @queenkeesh8660
    @queenkeesh8660 10 месяцев назад +2

    Agree red pill talk go out the windows once he who serves god and that woman who serves god come together and value eachother n or selfless 😊

  • @reneecherrie
    @reneecherrie 10 месяцев назад +5

    The single dating coaches need to keep you single to have customers.

  • @SharondaMichell
    @SharondaMichell 10 месяцев назад +3

    The heart is the way!!

  • @tonyasherrod9042
    @tonyasherrod9042 10 месяцев назад

    Tony,thank you again. Straight and to thr point. Your message was eye-opening. Stay blessed and safe.🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @manoniemoments
    @manoniemoments 10 месяцев назад +3

    SPEEEEEAK!!!

  • @vaeyaxzaveriastarnovae3744
    @vaeyaxzaveriastarnovae3744 10 месяцев назад +5

    I'm laugh every other day about how you said a woman can't understand why her dude come home smelling like BOO BOO
    NO ITS LITERALLY PART OF MY GO TO'S FOR A QUICK LAUGH
    ITS cuz of how you said BOO BOO ... It's so hilarious!

    • @veenela296
      @veenela296 10 месяцев назад +2

      Now which video / part is this I need to check it out for a laugh !?

    • @vaeyaxzaveriastarnovae3744
      @vaeyaxzaveriastarnovae3744 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@veenela296 Imma try to find it in my history n I'll tell you the title .. I literally can't stop laughing

    • @highlovevibration
      @highlovevibration 10 месяцев назад

      😂😂 Tony's a funny dude, I pray that my God ordained husband has a great sense of humor🙏 I have to laugh. It's a must.

  • @finegoddess
    @finegoddess 10 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you Tony. 🥰

    • @finegoddess
      @finegoddess 10 месяцев назад

      @@Lavon_Professional it is

  • @BevWoods-bh2xu
    @BevWoods-bh2xu 10 месяцев назад +1

    The wife should submit unto the husband if he is submitted unto God.

  • @mollesmart
    @mollesmart 10 месяцев назад

    I feel guilty. Poor guys but they’ve been so patient and kind.

  • @SharondaMichell
    @SharondaMichell 10 месяцев назад +20

    Those money taking coaches have no real transformation in their life..just goee to show how thirsty people are for answers

  • @Shandapowell
    @Shandapowell 10 месяцев назад +1

    Preach!!

  • @shannawharton4624
    @shannawharton4624 10 месяцев назад +1

    Your speaking facts 💯

  • @Skylimited55
    @Skylimited55 10 месяцев назад +6

    I agree that married couples can give Singles advice about dating. I'm here to listen.

  • @Skylimited55
    @Skylimited55 10 месяцев назад

    Amen, Amen Tony

  • @ImperfectandChosen
    @ImperfectandChosen 10 месяцев назад

    Amen!

  • @brownsugarglamour
    @brownsugarglamour 10 месяцев назад +14

    “Those people work for satan” 😂😂😂 point blank periodt

    • @BYRDTALK
      @BYRDTALK 10 месяцев назад +2

      😂😂😂😂

    • @ButterCookie1984
      @ButterCookie1984 10 месяцев назад

      Is that a fair assessment?

    • @brownsugarglamour
      @brownsugarglamour 10 месяцев назад

      @@ButterCookie1984 did you watch the video? It’s a direct quote.

  • @MissAnnaDominique
    @MissAnnaDominique 10 месяцев назад +1

    Great color shirt

  • @lisaimsoprettylyke7
    @lisaimsoprettylyke7 10 месяцев назад +1

    Hey March babies I’m March 4 🎊 🎉

  • @rohneshamhorne
    @rohneshamhorne 10 месяцев назад +1

    So good!! 🏌🏾‍♀️🏆

  • @Gloria_All_Day
    @Gloria_All_Day 10 месяцев назад +2

    I couldn't articulate anything with my ex narcissistic husband and he couldn't articulate anything to me if it wasn't hollowing or screaming at me.

  • @c.ggraygray4389
    @c.ggraygray4389 10 месяцев назад +1

    I rebuke Satan, and all evil in the name of Jesus Christ. Amen

  • @hannahbrown5069
    @hannahbrown5069 10 месяцев назад

    Amen!🙏🏾

  • @sherrynelson365
    @sherrynelson365 10 месяцев назад

    Amen

  • @artjordan
    @artjordan 10 месяцев назад

    Truth 🫡🫡🫡🫡

  • @SpicethePit
    @SpicethePit 10 месяцев назад

    "Those people work for Satan" 😂😂😂😂

  • @AnumIAM
    @AnumIAM 10 месяцев назад

    I love when he imitates the voice of a woman with bad attitude. lol lol

  • @equallove0
    @equallove0 10 месяцев назад

    Amen🙏🏽

  • @patriciarobertson2564
    @patriciarobertson2564 10 месяцев назад +2

    Tony, I L❤ve how you reach out to your wife to get her perspective on various issues, giving you the opportunity, to share a well rounded set of information with your followers from the male & female points of view as yiu discuss various issues.

  • @Misunderstood1_
    @Misunderstood1_ 10 месяцев назад +5

    Devils advocate here, I think that what people are trying to convey to married couples or people who have been in long term relationships. Is that some of them have never had the experiences that individuals in today's dating scene are having. Many people in long term relationships take their partners for granted because they don't ever see themselves being single and it causes them to be insulting to single people.

    • @ButterCookie1984
      @ButterCookie1984 10 месяцев назад +1

      I completely agree. Doctors do not have to be sick to treat you. A single person can give excellent advice, based on what they have observed, or what they did wrong.

  • @Shandapowell
    @Shandapowell 10 месяцев назад

    Dictators are dogmatic. To be dogmatic is to be abusive.

  • @thelookout5802
    @thelookout5802 10 месяцев назад +1

    If a man is independent, is financially okay and seems not to need anything, how does one know what to give to such a man. Apart from sex, respect, housekeeping etc. Should one ask him?

    • @TonyGaskins
      @TonyGaskins  10 месяцев назад +6

      There is nothing else needed other than respect.. that encompasses all things

  • @carolannskinner1964
    @carolannskinner1964 10 месяцев назад +1

    Lead myself😂😂😂

  • @LisaMarielove888
    @LisaMarielove888 10 месяцев назад

    Tony I am dating a man who is still married but have been separated for 8 years. The man says when he meets the one for him he will consider the divorce process but at the moment he helps his ex wife by having her on his insurance and they have agreement with sharing the children and it works. He was married after 28 years with a 8 year separation. What’s next? Is he holding on? Being cool to avoid child support and alimony? Please advise

    • @q.t.gamingfamily
      @q.t.gamingfamily 10 месяцев назад +5

      If he's married, he's not available. That's not your man. He's even told you that. You already know your answer but you're going to do what you want to do. He already told you that 1. You're not the one worth him divorcing his wife. 2. You're not the priority, his wife is. If he died right now, you'll be discarded like yesterday's trash. My family just did this when my EX husband had his stroke and eventually passed. They kindly took over his care, blocked the GIRLFRIEND, because, until you are married, that is all you are, and she never saw him again. She HEARD he passed through a third party. That's your future. He at least told you.

  • @springchoyces4715
    @springchoyces4715 10 месяцев назад +1

    Hi Tony, at what point in a relationship does a person start submitting? I know it’s not immediately, but is it after the engagement?

    • @Gloria_All_Day
      @Gloria_All_Day 10 месяцев назад +4

      The Bible says submit unto your "husband ". Key word is husband. Got it?

    • @stormyv.8890
      @stormyv.8890 10 месяцев назад +1

      You can submit the day after your wedding..... 😊
      Remember women are the ones that set the DATE of the wedding ...some
      Women have been trick into a 10 year submitting engagement . So be mindful of this.

  • @profmj7630
    @profmj7630 10 месяцев назад

    Good video

  • @tametra_lasha
    @tametra_lasha 4 месяца назад

    Some women asked to be lwd and ended up with a tyrant! 🙆🏾‍♀️

  • @lysiacoates9115
    @lysiacoates9115 10 месяцев назад

    Save me from this dream I’m stuck in limbo

  • @childatheartconsultbygifty7145
    @childatheartconsultbygifty7145 10 месяцев назад

  • @devinicole1278
    @devinicole1278 10 месяцев назад +4

    you always have good information thats right

  • @idm1738
    @idm1738 10 месяцев назад

    👏👏👏👏

  • @olexkaymartin2364
    @olexkaymartin2364 10 месяцев назад

    Wait not work for Satan. Tony I love it!

  • @CandyNicole-g6j
    @CandyNicole-g6j 10 месяцев назад +1

    What are some long distance relationship red flags. 🚩

    • @easyw1220
      @easyw1220 10 месяцев назад +3

      being in a LDR in the first place.

  • @nasowa_ki
    @nasowa_ki 10 месяцев назад

    1000%

  • @ashleybush5132
    @ashleybush5132 10 месяцев назад

    G‼️😇😇😇😇😇😇😇

  • @justme37928
    @justme37928 10 месяцев назад +4

    🫡You are Absolutely Right Thank you for your Honesty and Clarification Toni 🙌🏽🙏🏼✝️🤍💪🏽