As much as I wish this could be true, Oli has reached a large platform (FOX News) and is actually influencing a lot of people in the worst way. I can’t sit and watch that happen when people like him are given platforms while everyone else he claims to be a part of the community is negatively affected
@@kora9931 it still would, he is now gaining the attention of fox news and the far right. if we ignore this, then they will give him attention and fuel their transphobic fire. we need to fight back and say that what ollie is saying is wrong or no one will listen
I'm thoroughly convinced everything Oli London does is for clout. It's so harmful that he has gotten away with racism and now transphobia because people like to make fun of him.
very much yes. He feeds of any kind of attention someone might give him. He tried becoming jimin first, and it couldn't be any other korean man, it had to be one of the most recognizable members of the most popular boy band at the moment. Then when the attention started dying down, he begins some questionable comments about race, and then gender, and then he transitions to a trans woman, and that doesn't really give him the attention he wanted either. So he is now a transphobe and a conservative, because fox news loves these kinds of detrasiotion stories, and that means that someone once more, is giving him the attention he wants. To someone like that, all i can wish, is for them to fade in the background, slowly but surely becoming irrelevant.
They got plastic surgery just to look like a Korean. I’m about 100% sure it’s deeper than trying to just get clout. I think he’s genuinely ill in some way and has severe delusions
@@3tarbutterfly idk if he was trying to look Korean actually more "attractive" from his pov yeah but I don't buy the Jimin story as he didn't even know who was the leader of BTS. I'm sure he has mental issues but I think the more controversial parts of it are for clout.
It’s insane to me how oli is STILL trying to get attention since the kpop thing died off. He literally detransitioned and turned into a stereotypical Christian republican in America (as a British person?!) for attention.
Like he acts like that never happend .. that for longest time he was obsesed with Jimmin. I don't know what happend over last year or two but it doesn't match with what is he saying about his life.
Do you know who Milo yinnapolis is? Gay republican who, last time I checked, was attempting to make conversion therapy center and was trying to cure his gayness (his shtick original was being a gay republican, kinda like Blaire White but at least she's actually american).
It's always "Kids are being pressured into being transssss" but never the fact that kids are pressured into the binary gender rolls so hard that they don't think they have a choice but to be cishet. When I was a kid I was always told I was going to marry a man, have kids, and be a house wife. It took until I was 13-14 to realize I had a choice and that I don't have to do any of that. Then, it took me until I was around 17 to realize I'm actually trans and there was a reason trying to force myself to be a girl made me so unhappy. So yeah, stop forcing labels and gender rolls onto kids.
Totally, the fact that he said boys wearing skirts confuses then and makes them think they are trans, means that if you like skirts you're a women and like let's start there and break that association first
There's am obvious agenda to confuse children about their gender during their formative years, and now they're trying to confuse very young children. For school administrators/counselors to ask 12-13 year old girls if they always feel comfortable in their female body, and if the answer is no, they get to "choose" something else is not only disingenuous, but it makes a mockery out of the struggle that actual trans people go through. I'd wager that the overwhelming majority of girls at that age have, at some point, or even all the time, have been made to feel uncomfortable in their female bodies, through body shaming, pressure to stay within weight limits, being over-developed at an early age, or bring molested and rendered shameful about their body because of the trauma they endured. Being uncomfortable in your body doesn't automatically mean you're trans, yet this is what is being disseminated to the masses of children. It's a lie. I'm a Gen Xer in NYC, we grew up knowing and seeing real trans people (and I'm grateful to have grown up in a place where queer culture was visible). They weren't common, and they didn't get to "choose." They were born that way. As a tomboy who was mistaken for a boy during my formative years, I'd automatically be convinced I was trans if I was in Gen Z, meanwhile I was born a girl, and born in the right body, albeit, made to feel uncomfortable about it through societal norms. I, like all of my peers who went through similar experiences, got through it, and didn't make a mockery of trans people in the process. If you don't see this agenda that's been in full force for the past 7 years, you're either in denial or asleep at the wheel.
Gender rolls all I thought was pride month theme rolls of the flags of each gender , I might make that gender identity rolls + sexual orientation rolls I'm talking about bread rolls
I hate people weaponizing religion. I'm a queer Christian in a little queer Christian college org, and I hear so much about all of their religious trauma. I hate that people spin the Bible into whatever narrative they want to spread and cherry pick certain pieces then interpret them in the way that matches their views. I wish we could just say that everyone is valid in their existence and peacefully vibe. Barely related to the video but thank you for coming to my Ted talk
I also hate it when evil people use religion to blame their wrongful opinions on and then they make all religious people look bad. Not all of us are hateful. So honestly those people just hurt everyone in the end.
As a genderqueer masculine person, I’m fascinated by Frederic’s outfit! I guess that I’m finally going through my ✨«glow-up»✨ stage, fighting my internalized toxic masculinity! I decided to have longer, Eren Yeager-like haircut, instead of shorter haircut (that made me look underage) and started wearing jewelry with more gender neutral-to-feminine outfits. Also I’m going to change a college next year. I want to win a tender, so I could study for free. Wish me luck! 🙏
@@Reiiven I was thinking about it yesterday, but harry is a strong man. He is confident in who he is and won't change. Oil is the opposite. Oil also is projecting!
Being 18 now and having transgender people in my life since middle school, I never had the pressure of questioning my gender. And sure, I’ve had moments considering if I’m dealing with that, but developed being more in-tune with myself and understanding my feminine side and being happy and okay that I’m a female since birth. I know I’m not a man or anything else. Schools aren’t pushing these agendas. Or at least that’s how my experience was during my last 8 years of being in school.
i totally agree! most public schools in america either don’t mention gay people, like my school, or demonize them, so the idea that schools r promoting transitioning is just so ridiculous
I’m in high school and I’d say there’s maybe 6 or 7 transgender/nonbinary kids that are open about it that I know about out of around 350/400 kids. And most of them I only know because of a gay club. There’s quite a few more cis gay/bi people but not many trans kids, even in an fairly accepting area.
I’m a gender fluid student and I totally agree! They don’t really teach about trans identity or any LGBTQ identity on any kind of a regular basis which is fine even in my liberal school. If you admit to a counselor that your questioning they will give you some resources, however, they won’t diagnose you with trans. There’s about nine or ten out trans kids in a school population of about 1500?
I don’t believe that Oli believes a word he says. I think the only reason he keeps changing so extremely is him desperately grasping to remain relevant
i agree I'm sure everything he's done, starting from "becoming jimin", changing gender, "transracial", and then this, all aren't things he really believes but is just doing for the relevance and clout
I think Oli London is what I would like to call a "schrodinger's troll" where they are both trolling and serious about what they're doing based on the reactions they're getting.
american politicians' obsession with gender neutral bathrooms is so wild to me. I live in a place where everything gay and queer is basically banned and we have shared bathrooms everywhere without anyone batting an eye
This was the same in my school when I was younger before someone sued the school for not having gendered bathrooms. But before that, no assaults were reported or even rumored.
Genuinely, I hate the misinformation and falseness that's spread on Fox news, and it makes me so sad as a queer person that the people I love watch it without knowing how harmful it is
Hate fox news! They do not go out and do their own research or reporting. They always say I assume, or someone told me, or even a better one I think, but I do not know?! Fox reporters lie and spew hateful talking points.
What you were explaining around 11:20 was 100% correct. You explained it in a good way, imo (coming from a trans person). Of course, other trans folks may have their own opinion or feelings regarding how you explained it, but I'd personally like to thank you for bringing this up. It's so important for people to understand that surgeries, hormones, etc. aren't necessary to be trans. As someone who's trans but hasn't gotten any surgeries (still not sure if I want to... I'm not against the idea, it's just a bit scary and will cost a lot), hasn't had any form of hormone treatment... hell, hasn't even done vocal training exercises, I'm still trans. I am who I am, nothing will change who I am. I have my reasons for these things, other trans people don't, that's ok. Stay safe out there, everyone. And again, thank you so much for bringing this up. It's important and means a lot.
My conservative and very homophobic mother was PRAISING Oli London telling me he was "Saved" and got "out of the confusion" which of course she's saying that because now he's transphobic and christan for clout, which is something someone like my mom would like, and when I tried explaining that she was wrong and he's a horrible person, she just went on a rant about how I'm a confused gay kid. 😍😍
The way they don't care that he tried to be "transracial" is astonishing. If he tried to be Black instead of Korean there would have been a different response to what he's doing now.
My soul has escaped my body, thank you for sacrificing your time to give us an update on this person. You deserve compensation for suffering through this LOL. I didn't think they could get any lower damn
That part where you mentioned being trans without transition (aka becoming more traditionally feminine) was really good. We need to hear more statements like this for real As someone who's born a female with not so feminine body and facial features and who's questioning/exploring their gender and identity overall it's refreshing to think that people can be whoever they want to be no matter how masculine or feminine they look, sound and dress Love your content, Frederic! Also this blouse looks absolutely STUNNING on you! Also Happy Trans Awareness Week! ❤️ Stay safe everyone 🤗
Especially when you start to add different cultural standards of beauty! I’ve had a lot of instances where I see transmasc men depicted in art that look very much like me (hairy, fuller, not perky chests, etc) and it’s left me astonished because a lot of it has to do with European standards of beauty. Feeling comfortable in your own skin is hard, but a lot of that journey is actually just ignoring the outside world and whatever they say. (Speaking as a Latinx gender-nonconforming person). Fuck standards of “gender” and do what you feel is true to who you are and not what society expects you to be.
I really appreciate you taking about how trans women and men may not look fully like a women or a man. My girlfriend is a trans women and I’m a trans man, I am lucky enough to be excepting of my current body, but she has lot of issues with hers and this video made her feel a lot better about her body so Thankyou!! You really don’t know how much you do for this world❤
I am so confused on what people like Kaitlyn Jenner and Oli London think that they’re going to gain. Now you’re turned people of your own community against you and people on the other side still hate you! It’s so pointless to try to appeal to republicans as an outsider. I know that they want to stop the pain, but damaging a community that has already been dragged through the mud FOREVER isn’t going to fix that!
I really hope Oli stops going on rampages trying to find what makes them happy :/ Though I hope they do find something that fulfills their life’s purpose.
I’m underage and trans, but I know I won’t be getting a surgery. I getting a binder to feel more comfortable with my self and have no plans on getting chest surgery in the future. Not all trans people are going to get surgery.
13:00 omg soo glad you said this. I feel like people still even fail to see that not even a lot of cis gendered women have “typical build/ characteristics of a woman”. Some women have deeper voices, a stronger build, a smaller chest, smaller, backside, etc. And the same goes for males who don’t have all of the “typical build/characteristics of a male”. I feel like the minute everyone realizes that there is no “typical build” or characteristic to a gender and/or race (meaning people who identify as and who ACTUALLY ARE a race but aren’t “claimed by the community” due to “typical appearances”. Ex. A black person not being claimed by the community because they are too light skinned) and that it’s just messed up society standards, we can love ourselves and each other more. ❤
My daughter has tiktok and she's 12, but she and I have very deep conversations about things that she sees. She went through a short phase of trying to collect labels. Mental health, gender, sexuality and we've had a lot of conversations about how societal labels are in place to cause separation and while sometimes they help us understand ourselves more often they cause nothing but division, about how she's not going to know who she is as a person until she's pushing 30 and there's no rush to figure it out. They make 18 seem so impending now a days too. Being a child is about having fun, learning and exploring yourself and the world around you. I do feel bad about kids who don't have anyone to have these conversations with though.
High five for such awesome parenting-labels can be helpful and super toxic at the same time! All situations are nuanced and it’s up to people to have more informed, sympathetic and open conversations.
Oli London always states that they hated themself and how they looked and got surgery. This sounds like low self esteem, body dysmorphia, rather than being trans or a trans woman. The surgery can also be a form of self harm due to their low self esteem. There seem to be A LOT of underlying mental health issues they are dealing with that have NOT been addressed appropriately.
23:40 - dang that hit me. I’m a “pastor kid”. I’m not a Christian and I’m gay asf but I have to sit there listening to my parents talk sh-t about me and the lgbtq+. I spend all the time I’m with them planning for how I’m going to leave when I’m old enough and cut them of. I find it so insensitive when people say sh-t like “there pushing there agenda on children!!” Like take a look in the mirror. Enough thing - > I hate people who identified as trans and are now transphobic for obvious reasons but one thing that really annoys me is that they think because they thought like that others do Because they were just doing it “for the trend” (another thing that makes my blood boil) they assume everyone is doing “it for the trend” like no I swear transphobic people just get there info from cis straight white men and Tik Tok. Sorry for this little rant-
(17:50) something I realized a few days ago is the only reason I haven’t been harassed about being gay is because I don’t dress like my other queer friends, so people don’t automatically see me as queer or nb and decide to go after me. The only times I’ve been harassed is when I’ve been hanging out with my queer friends :/
he's like 30 something right? he hasn't been in school for years so how can he know what they teach... and what was tha uncalled attack to harry styles. also he's british why he talks about school on an american program?
I hate the 'think about the children' argument because SOME OF THOSE CHILDREN ARE QUEER AND WILL ALWAYS BE QUEER. Educating kids on the terrifying and existential reality of the vastness of lived human experience is just one tool for people to figure themselves out. Our brains and bodies are like personalized puzzle boxes. No two are alike and it's up to our spirits to solve them, and that takes a lot of introspection that can be terrifying. For those people who are scared of looking inward, it's also like they can't imagine being anyone except themselves, and that the thought of questioning their own actions for one damn second is the most disgusting thing they could do. Ugh. I got off topic, sorry. I just really hate 'think about the children'. Also, I was born in 1990 - I'm AFAB, Cis, queer and YES I also did have some gender dysphoria growing up, especially during puberty but even in elementary school, like freaking 1998!!!! There was no 'woke SJW' media influencing me back then, but there WAS weekly Sunday school influencing me to hate myself for having those feelings and slowing down my self-discovery and self-acceptance It was only later in the 2010's that I became informed enough to understand and name what I was feeling back then. If I knew more about the topic as a child, I may not have felt so damn mixed up if society had given me permission to just be me.
Yes completely agree. And imagine how many people who aren’t here anymore might still be here. It’s so deeply “evil” to deny this simple basic acceptance of humanity in all its forms.
2:59 just because you don't accept your own identity or have your own culture doesn't mean you get to drag trans or Asian children into your bullshit. He's just cosplaying because he doesn't have a stable sense of self. He jumps from identity to identity that are not his and you can tell they aren't him. but I don't know him like that... This dude needs to see a specialized psychiatrist
Wow for once I'm speechless. How can Oli come from sooooo far left to then go sooooo far right? 🤔😣🤨. I do however know that you Frederic truly are beautiful and the term golden ratio definitely applies ❤️ I have severe body dysmorphia so trust me I analyse. You got it 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽😍 keep up the good work xxx
I literally went through so much crap as a kid because my parents trusted me with people who were in our same church. And when I've told them they said, well no worries God will punish them as if that helps lol💀
Oily london was never trans and never will I ever believe they are Korean . This new arc of his is really telling how much attention oil wants When I heard he was so say “Christian “ I knew this was a phase he started as pretending to be Jomon and was like Lisa from black pink for Thule 4 5 months . That’s not even long . I think he’s going along with trend too
i’m a harry stan and had no clue he name dropped harry. hes being a classic troll. do something controversial (aka “acting” korean/wanting to be korean) and then go after sooo many fandoms. then u got the attention stans give u, and u go full conservative christian. AND THEN thats when u go either m.i.a, or they’re the nobody they deserve to be. this is the classic formula for an internet reactionary. but also in some instances, (like trisha paytas or danielle brigohli) a few years later people forgive them/ think they’ve changed just cause they’re not being a troll
I feel like this is off-topic, but I love it when you are having such a serious conversation and all my brain is focusing on is the orchestral music in the background. But I think I was focusing on it so hard because anytime Oli London gets mentioned I sware my brain melts.
Fredrick thank you so much for talking about how Christian parents tell their kids about a set amount of rules they need to follow at a very young age where they can’t even understand math because they same thing had happened to me, I’m still young but now I understand that I don’t have to believe what they say and you have helped me on my journey as a young queer person
What is he talking about they learn it when their 5. I didn't even learn you can marry the same gender until I was ten, and I learned what trans was when I was 12.
I am so grateful to have awesome people like you in the community. It gives me hope and I hope you keep rockin' on. Love your content. Your fashion and thoughts are 🔥🔥🔥
can we just like talk about how frederic SLAYED his outfit, makeup, hairstyle etc today? like holy i'd give everything to be at least decent looking for once in my life /pos
I think Oli realized that at one point he started to become irrelevant because everyone stopped talking about him so he found another thing to do for clout and attention.
The face that Oli even had the audacity to say that Dylan wasn't trying hard enough to transition when they've had over 30 surgeries and doesn't look the slightest Korean is laughable. Oh. And they'll use they/them pronouns for Dylan but preach against it? Hm. Someone is very desperate for attention.
Growing up brainwashed from Christianity I totally felt your rant! I wish that I could show this to my dad but he would get very mad at me. The sad part is that I’m an adult and I’m still forced to go to his horrible church cause I’m under “his roof” 🤦🏾♀️ loved your video
Oh it is very dangerous what he is doing. Last night 5 people got killed at a LGBTQ bar in Colorado. This won't stop. They keep spewing BS to put fear and a lot more hate to all these hateful people to go out and do this.
talking/hearing abt oli is getting so tiring now & gives me a headache so instead i just wanna say that your outfit & makeup is absolutely stunning today frederic
please watch abigail thorn's video "I emailed my doctor 133 times"!! She talks about how inherently transphobic the uk medical system is for people who want to transition, but i feel like that applies a lot here as well
2nd comment lol: I love how you finish the video about hope for people to simply 'learn how to Be' in the Shakespeare sense haha. Definitely stealing that.
Speaking of the pressure to be passing. I agree to that on such a deep level. I'm ftm and am on HRT due to my gender dysphoria. I've wanted to be on testosterone for a lot of things so this hasn't really affected my decision but I used to love my voice. I always did. I've always had dysphoria about many things but not my voice because for me there's no "feminine" or "masculine" voice I don't see it gendered. I started getting massive dysphoria on my voice and it hurried my decision and the urgency for me to get on T. I wanted my voice to change because I needed it to pass not because it fits my gender identity, not because I wanted it. I've had to sacrifice my voice and it was a big deal to me. I don't regret that decision but society making me feel like I needed it made me rush that decision. And it sucks. Because I still don't understand it. Now people do see me as male so yay but it sucks that I had to be pushed to that point.
Hes got a pattern. Comes out with something controversial, he gets attention and money, and eventually gets forgotten about. And then he comes out with something even more controversial and the cycle begins again and again. I 100% dont think he even believes in god or believes a single thing hes saying right now. He just knows its going to get him what he wants. He sounds like hes just reaming off every statement hes heard a right wing person say. Eventually he'll be forgotten about again and he'll have to come up with something else even more absurd. He needs to go to therapy.
Thank you for your comment on “the good ones” of Christianity. I know they mean well. I know that I mean well if I say something like that. But it just always comes across as a “but not all men” kind of moment.
I remember that one student from like 6th grade who talked about how their family goes to church in christmas in the middle of a foking night. I didn't even know that people goes to church in christmas
My school literally never pressured me into being trans, there were a few trans guys and a trans woman substitute teacher that unfortunately many students made fun of because some people still think it's fine to be transphobic. Not sure what high schoolers are like now though, hopefully it's improved. Anyways, I figured out who I was during the pandemic at the age of 21. For years before that I struggled with who I was, I hated the thought of being a woman and being in hetero relationship. I hated everything about being a woman even if I was fond of cute things. My name, being referred to as a woman, being treated like one, living my life as one felt like a curse and I wanted to and still do wish I could chuck my uterus and my boobs out of me. Figuring it out was a breath of fresh air to me. Transition is an unfortunately long process and I've barely started taking testosterone but it makes me happy that I can be a man and change my body to fit that. It does however anger me and scare me that people like Oli London feel the need to hurt our community and our rights just because he craves attention.
Maybe because Harry is confident AF on his sexuality and oli and fox and the viewers aren't confident in who they are. Also I do not think Harry cares about oli and fox. Harry is selling out shows.
I know I’m late also this is totally unrelated to the video but I just wanna say it’s now a holiday tradition for me to binge ur videos while decorating thx for doing what u do lmao
I went to the public men’s bathroom for the first time with my dad a few months ago. It smelled a lot worse then I thought it would! I hasn’t gone back since, just cuz I’m still scared😢
Things rightwing people don't understand, that the political spectrum is a necklace and the right-extreme and the left-extreme are just the two claps of that necklace.
Okay so I'm a trans guy I'm 18 and just had top surgery in Australia it was 15 grand and ur not allowed to do it under 16 u have to have been out social u need a psychiatrist diagnosis which also costs money a letter from ur doctor and have several appointments with ur surgeon in Sydney there is only like 2 surgeons so if u live in a rural it's like a whole other thing . Honestly and hrt is so expensive but also like it's just super annoying I'm proud of who I am but grrrrr
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Giving Oli attention is just what this person wants. If we all ignore Oli maybe London will stop whatever this is.
Yeah but yoh still need to talk about this issue
As much as I wish this could be true, Oli has reached a large platform (FOX News) and is actually influencing a lot of people in the worst way. I can’t sit and watch that happen when people like him are given platforms while everyone else he claims to be a part of the community is negatively affected
@@FredericChen Fair enough
Pinning this because i know other people will have similar thoughts and I want them to see my perspective!
@@kora9931 it still would, he is now gaining the attention of fox news and the far right. if we ignore this, then they will give him attention and fuel their transphobic fire. we need to fight back and say that what ollie is saying is wrong or no one will listen
I'm thoroughly convinced everything Oli London does is for clout. It's so harmful that he has gotten away with racism and now transphobia because people like to make fun of him.
very much yes. He feeds of any kind of attention someone might give him. He tried becoming jimin first, and it couldn't be any other korean man, it had to be one of the most recognizable members of the most popular boy band at the moment. Then when the attention started dying down, he begins some questionable comments about race, and then gender, and then he transitions to a trans woman, and that doesn't really give him the attention he wanted either. So he is now a transphobe and a conservative, because fox news loves these kinds of detrasiotion stories, and that means that someone once more, is giving him the attention he wants.
To someone like that, all i can wish, is for them to fade in the background, slowly but surely becoming irrelevant.
And potentially disrespecting religion if his new religion gimmick is actually a gimmick
He actually does, an audio of him saying so was released by his ex.
They got plastic surgery just to look like a Korean. I’m about 100% sure it’s deeper than trying to just get clout. I think he’s genuinely ill in some way and has severe delusions
@@3tarbutterfly idk if he was trying to look Korean actually more "attractive" from his pov yeah but I don't buy the Jimin story as he didn't even know who was the leader of BTS. I'm sure he has mental issues but I think the more controversial parts of it are for clout.
It’s insane to me how oli is STILL trying to get attention since the kpop thing died off. He literally detransitioned and turned into a stereotypical Christian republican in America (as a British person?!) for attention.
love your xiao pfp btw
Like he acts like that never happend .. that for longest time he was obsesed with Jimmin. I don't know what happend over last year or two but it doesn't match with what is he saying about his life.
They probably consider themselves American.
Do you know who Milo yinnapolis is? Gay republican who, last time I checked, was attempting to make conversion therapy center and was trying to cure his gayness (his shtick original was being a gay republican, kinda like Blaire White but at least she's actually american).
@@themagicalllama8514 wait that dude's gay? I thought he was just an ultra right wing fellow.
It's always "Kids are being pressured into being transssss" but never the fact that kids are pressured into the binary gender rolls so hard that they don't think they have a choice but to be cishet. When I was a kid I was always told I was going to marry a man, have kids, and be a house wife. It took until I was 13-14 to realize I had a choice and that I don't have to do any of that. Then, it took me until I was around 17 to realize I'm actually trans and there was a reason trying to force myself to be a girl made me so unhappy.
So yeah, stop forcing labels and gender rolls onto kids.
please that's my life story right there😭
me too im 13 and i recently realized i’m actually a trans boy and don’t want any kids 🥲🥲
Totally, the fact that he said boys wearing skirts confuses then and makes them think they are trans, means that if you like skirts you're a women and like let's start there and break that association first
There's am obvious agenda to confuse children about their gender during their formative years, and now they're trying to confuse very young children. For school administrators/counselors to ask 12-13 year old girls if they always feel comfortable in their female body, and if the answer is no, they get to "choose" something else is not only disingenuous, but it makes a mockery out of the struggle that actual trans people go through.
I'd wager that the overwhelming majority of girls at that age have, at some point, or even all the time, have been made to feel uncomfortable in their female bodies, through body shaming, pressure to stay within weight limits, being over-developed at an early age, or bring molested and rendered shameful about their body because of the trauma they endured. Being uncomfortable in your body doesn't automatically mean you're trans, yet this is what is being disseminated to the masses of children. It's a lie.
I'm a Gen Xer in NYC, we grew up knowing and seeing real trans people (and I'm grateful to have grown up in a place where queer culture was visible). They weren't common, and they didn't get to "choose." They were born that way.
As a tomboy who was mistaken for a boy during my formative years, I'd automatically be convinced I was trans if I was in Gen Z, meanwhile I was born a girl, and born in the right body, albeit, made to feel uncomfortable about it through societal norms. I, like all of my peers who went through similar experiences, got through it, and didn't make a mockery of trans people in the process.
If you don't see this agenda that's been in full force for the past 7 years, you're either in denial or asleep at the wheel.
Gender rolls all I thought was pride month theme rolls of the flags of each gender , I might make that gender identity rolls + sexual orientation rolls
I'm talking about bread rolls
Happy Trans Awareness Week as well!
AS A FTM TRANSGENDER, THANK YOU ❤️❤️
as ftm trans, ty
Happy Trans Awareness Week!!!!!!!!!!! ❤️
thank you :D
kinda unrelated but, i came out as ftm to my friend 2 days ago and my other friend yesterday. i have 7 more to tell, wish me luck
HAPPY TRANS WEEEEEK!!!!
I hate people weaponizing religion. I'm a queer Christian in a little queer Christian college org, and I hear so much about all of their religious trauma. I hate that people spin the Bible into whatever narrative they want to spread and cherry pick certain pieces then interpret them in the way that matches their views. I wish we could just say that everyone is valid in their existence and peacefully vibe. Barely related to the video but thank you for coming to my Ted talk
I also hate it when evil people use religion to blame their wrongful opinions on and then they make all religious people look bad. Not all of us are hateful. So honestly those people just hurt everyone in the end.
As a queer christian myself, I feel you
Amen. As a fellow queer Christian, I agrer
THANK 👏YOU 👏
listen to love thy neighbour from the prom musical😌🤭
oli london turning christian was not on my 2022 bingo card
Nor a transphobe.
same 😭
As a christian we do not claim him
oli being absolutely cringe is one of the few things my kpop-obsessed sister and i agree on
As someone who is fan of multiple kpop groups (including bts), we really all think he's cringe. I cannot think of a single person who likes him
As a genderqueer masculine person, I’m fascinated by Frederic’s outfit!
I guess that I’m finally going through my ✨«glow-up»✨ stage, fighting my internalized toxic masculinity!
I decided to have longer, Eren Yeager-like haircut, instead of shorter haircut (that made me look underage) and started wearing jewelry with more gender neutral-to-feminine outfits.
Also I’m going to change a college next year. I want to win a tender, so I could study for free. Wish me luck! 🙏
Good luck and I hope it turns out well
Congratulations! Someday I'll be there too!
Oooooo
I am a genderqueer transmasc person
You do what you want my friend!
as a fellow genderqueer person, i aspire to have fredericks wardrobe because it slays
@@ginalinettispaghetticonfetti I love your username, and profile! It's so pretty!
“idolising weak men like harry styles” THE WAY I FUCKING SCREAMEDDDD 💀
Ummmm Harry is no weak man! He is confident AF. Oli is super weak!
oil london, a talentless clout-chaser, really had the audacity to say that
like crusty oily lotion needs to leave Harry alone 😒
I’m not even a Harry styles fan but he will always be LEVELS above this guy
@@Reiiven I was thinking about it yesterday, but harry is a strong man. He is confident in who he is and won't change. Oil is the opposite. Oil also is projecting!
Being 18 now and having transgender people in my life since middle school, I never had the pressure of questioning my gender. And sure, I’ve had moments considering if I’m dealing with that, but developed being more in-tune with myself and understanding my feminine side and being happy and okay that I’m a female since birth. I know I’m not a man or anything else. Schools aren’t pushing these agendas. Or at least that’s how my experience was during my last 8 years of being in school.
i totally agree! most public schools in america either don’t mention gay people, like my school, or demonize them, so the idea that schools r promoting transitioning is just so ridiculous
I’m in high school and I’d say there’s maybe 6 or 7 transgender/nonbinary kids that are open about it that I know about out of around 350/400 kids. And most of them I only know because of a gay club. There’s quite a few more cis gay/bi people but not many trans kids, even in an fairly accepting area.
@@imaneclair4836 exactly, transphobes create such toxic spaces for us and then start making up stories about how we're flourishing and that it's bad
I’m a gender fluid student and I totally agree! They don’t really teach about trans identity or any LGBTQ identity on any kind of a regular basis which is fine even in my liberal school. If you admit to a counselor that your questioning they will give you some resources, however, they won’t diagnose you with trans. There’s about nine or ten out trans kids in a school population of about 1500?
Someone once mention and asked if Fatou knew Oli London in her live, and she said, *"he needs help."*
BYE SHES SO REAL FOR THAT
I don’t believe that Oli believes a word he says. I think the only reason he keeps changing so extremely is him desperately grasping to remain relevant
Yep! Now he is a racist bigot. Well I guess he was racist before, but now he is a bigot.
Yeah, his ex friend already confirmed this ages ago when she leaked a phone recording of him admitting this
i agree
I'm sure everything he's done, starting from "becoming jimin", changing gender, "transracial", and then this, all aren't things he really believes but is just doing for the relevance and clout
oli london scares me
Honey he scares ALL of us
I think Oli London is what I would like to call a "schrodinger's troll" where they are both trolling and serious about what they're doing based on the reactions they're getting.
I love this term how have I not heard about it before 😭
@@nivvv-hx2tl It's a term I picked up from 4chan.
This is the perfect word for this kind of person
american politicians' obsession with gender neutral bathrooms is so wild to me. I live in a place where everything gay and queer is basically banned and we have shared bathrooms everywhere without anyone batting an eye
I don't think people realise that gender neutral single bathrooms also exist 💀 like babe only one person's going in there at a time calm your tits
In my school we literally used the same toilets for years and on my floor we're still sharing it. Never had a problem with that
This was the same in my school when I was younger before someone sued the school for not having gendered bathrooms. But before that, no assaults were reported or even rumored.
Genuinely, I hate the misinformation and falseness that's spread on Fox news, and it makes me so sad as a queer person that the people I love watch it without knowing how harmful it is
*for context, I am not out*
Hate fox news! They do not go out and do their own research or reporting. They always say I assume, or someone told me, or even a better one I think, but I do not know?! Fox reporters lie and spew hateful talking points.
What you were explaining around 11:20 was 100% correct. You explained it in a good way, imo (coming from a trans person). Of course, other trans folks may have their own opinion or feelings regarding how you explained it, but I'd personally like to thank you for bringing this up. It's so important for people to understand that surgeries, hormones, etc. aren't necessary to be trans.
As someone who's trans but hasn't gotten any surgeries (still not sure if I want to... I'm not against the idea, it's just a bit scary and will cost a lot), hasn't had any form of hormone treatment... hell, hasn't even done vocal training exercises, I'm still trans. I am who I am, nothing will change who I am. I have my reasons for these things, other trans people don't, that's ok.
Stay safe out there, everyone. And again, thank you so much for bringing this up. It's important and means a lot.
My conservative and very homophobic mother was PRAISING Oli London telling me he was "Saved" and got "out of the confusion" which of course she's saying that because now he's transphobic and christan for clout, which is something someone like my mom would like, and when I tried explaining that she was wrong and he's a horrible person, she just went on a rant about how I'm a confused gay kid. 😍😍
I’m really sorry to hear that’s your situation~ stay strong, one day you’ll make it out of this
@@RS-ny8my thank you sm, it means a lot. i will stay strong
The way they don't care that he tried to be "transracial" is astonishing. If he tried to be Black instead of Korean there would have been a different response to what he's doing now.
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We all care. And both are so wrong.
My soul has escaped my body, thank you for sacrificing your time to give us an update on this person. You deserve compensation for suffering through this LOL. I didn't think they could get any lower damn
That part where you mentioned being trans without transition (aka becoming more traditionally feminine) was really good. We need to hear more statements like this for real
As someone who's born a female with not so feminine body and facial features and who's questioning/exploring their gender and identity overall it's refreshing to think that people can be whoever they want to be no matter how masculine or feminine they look, sound and dress
Love your content, Frederic! Also this blouse looks absolutely STUNNING on you!
Also Happy Trans Awareness Week! ❤️
Stay safe everyone 🤗
Especially when you start to add different cultural standards of beauty! I’ve had a lot of instances where I see transmasc men depicted in art that look very much like me (hairy, fuller, not perky chests, etc) and it’s left me astonished because a lot of it has to do with European standards of beauty. Feeling comfortable in your own skin is hard, but a lot of that journey is actually just ignoring the outside world and whatever they say. (Speaking as a Latinx gender-nonconforming person). Fuck standards of “gender” and do what you feel is true to who you are and not what society expects you to be.
I really appreciate you taking about how trans women and men may not look fully like a women or a man. My girlfriend is a trans women and I’m a trans man, I am lucky enough to be excepting of my current body, but she has lot of issues with hers and this video made her feel a lot better about her body so Thankyou!! You really don’t know how much you do for this world❤
I am so confused on what people like Kaitlyn Jenner and Oli London think that they’re going to gain. Now you’re turned people of your own community against you and people on the other side still hate you! It’s so pointless to try to appeal to republicans as an outsider. I know that they want to stop the pain, but damaging a community that has already been dragged through the mud FOREVER isn’t going to fix that!
I really hope Oli stops going on rampages trying to find what makes them happy :/ Though I hope they do find something that fulfills their life’s purpose.
yes! i really wish they could learn that being attention hungry in this way isn't healthy for their mind? it sounds so exhausting chasing relevancy
People like that unfortunately never find what fufils them, they always want the attention
They should probably try asmr, god knows that was what quelled trisha paytas's clout hunger
I’m underage and trans, but I know I won’t be getting a surgery. I getting a binder to feel more comfortable with my self and have no plans on getting chest surgery in the future. Not all trans people are going to get surgery.
13:00 omg soo glad you said this. I feel like people still even fail to see that not even a lot of cis gendered women have “typical build/ characteristics of a woman”. Some women have deeper voices, a stronger build, a smaller chest, smaller, backside, etc. And the same goes for males who don’t have all of the “typical build/characteristics of a male”. I feel like the minute everyone realizes that there is no “typical build” or characteristic to a gender and/or race (meaning people who identify as and who ACTUALLY ARE a race but aren’t “claimed by the community” due to “typical appearances”. Ex. A black person not being claimed by the community because they are too light skinned) and that it’s just messed up society standards, we can love ourselves and each other more. ❤
As a Korean woman myself I can ensure 'being a Korean woman' is nothing Oli London speaks of.
thank you for telling me that i don't need to have surgery to be trans. you've solved like half of my identity crisis ❤❤
My daughter has tiktok and she's 12, but she and I have very deep conversations about things that she sees. She went through a short phase of trying to collect labels. Mental health, gender, sexuality and we've had a lot of conversations about how societal labels are in place to cause separation and while sometimes they help us understand ourselves more often they cause nothing but division, about how she's not going to know who she is as a person until she's pushing 30 and there's no rush to figure it out. They make 18 seem so impending now a days too. Being a child is about having fun, learning and exploring yourself and the world around you. I do feel bad about kids who don't have anyone to have these conversations with though.
High five for such awesome parenting-labels can be helpful and super toxic at the same time! All situations are nuanced and it’s up to people to have more informed, sympathetic and open conversations.
Oli London always states that they hated themself and how they looked and got surgery. This sounds like low self esteem, body dysmorphia, rather than being trans or a trans woman. The surgery can also be a form of self harm due to their low self esteem. There seem to be A LOT of underlying mental health issues they are dealing with that have NOT been addressed appropriately.
23:40 - dang that hit me. I’m a “pastor kid”. I’m not a Christian and I’m gay asf but I have to sit there listening to my parents talk sh-t about me and the lgbtq+. I spend all the time I’m with them planning for how I’m going to leave when I’m old enough and cut them of. I find it so insensitive when people say sh-t like “there pushing there agenda on children!!” Like take a look in the mirror.
Enough thing - >
I hate people who identified as trans and are now transphobic for obvious reasons but one thing that really annoys me is that they think because they thought like that others do Because they were just doing it “for the trend” (another thing that makes my blood boil) they assume everyone is doing “it for the trend” like no
I swear transphobic people just get there info from cis straight white men and Tik Tok.
Sorry for this little rant-
Im so sorry you had to experience that, you are valid, you are loved and i know God loves you for who you are❤
if you're ever going to tell them I would wait until you turn 18, and move into a stable place.maybe cut contact if needed.❤
Honestly I have a strong feeling this won’t last very long 💀 give it a couple months and he will pick something else
2:50
I had a feeling he's going to say this , but when he did ... i really wanted to throw my phone at the f***ing wall
(17:50) something I realized a few days ago is the only reason I haven’t been harassed about being gay is because I don’t dress like my other queer friends, so people don’t automatically see me as queer or nb and decide to go after me. The only times I’ve been harassed is when I’ve been hanging out with my queer friends :/
he's like 30 something right? he hasn't been in school for years so how can he know what they teach... and what was tha uncalled attack to harry styles. also he's british why he talks about school on an american program?
I hate the 'think about the children' argument because SOME OF THOSE CHILDREN ARE QUEER AND WILL ALWAYS BE QUEER. Educating kids on the terrifying and existential reality of the vastness of lived human experience is just one tool for people to figure themselves out. Our brains and bodies are like personalized puzzle boxes. No two are alike and it's up to our spirits to solve them, and that takes a lot of introspection that can be terrifying. For those people who are scared of looking inward, it's also like they can't imagine being anyone except themselves, and that the thought of questioning their own actions for one damn second is the most disgusting thing they could do. Ugh. I got off topic, sorry. I just really hate 'think about the children'.
Also, I was born in 1990 - I'm AFAB, Cis, queer and YES I also did have some gender dysphoria growing up, especially during puberty but even in elementary school, like freaking 1998!!!! There was no 'woke SJW' media influencing me back then, but there WAS weekly Sunday school influencing me to hate myself for having those feelings and slowing down my self-discovery and self-acceptance It was only later in the 2010's that I became informed enough to understand and name what I was feeling back then. If I knew more about the topic as a child, I may not have felt so damn mixed up if society had given me permission to just be me.
thank u, nicely said💚
Yes completely agree. And imagine how many people who aren’t here anymore might still be here. It’s so deeply “evil” to deny this simple basic acceptance of humanity in all its forms.
All the Oli London bs aside, ur outfit is 10/10 gorgeous 🔥
2:59 just because you don't accept your own identity or have your own culture doesn't mean you get to drag trans or Asian children into your bullshit. He's just cosplaying because he doesn't have a stable sense of self. He jumps from identity to identity that are not his and you can tell they aren't him. but I don't know him like that... This dude needs to see a specialized psychiatrist
Wow for once I'm speechless. How can Oli come from sooooo far left to then go sooooo far right? 🤔😣🤨. I do however know that you Frederic truly are beautiful and the term golden ratio definitely applies ❤️ I have severe body dysmorphia so trust me I analyse. You got it 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽😍 keep up the good work xxx
yeah he was never far left. he started out racist 😬. he fetishized Korean ppl & constantly bastardized their culture(s)
I literally went through so much crap as a kid because my parents trusted me with people who were in our same church. And when I've told them they said, well no worries God will punish them as if that helps lol💀
Oily london was never trans and never will I ever believe they are Korean . This new arc of his is really telling how much attention oil wants
When I heard he was so say “Christian “ I knew this was a phase he started as pretending to be Jomon and was like Lisa from black pink for Thule 4 5 months . That’s not even long . I think he’s going along with trend too
“god can save you in the darkest of times” oh really? oli unfortunately couldn‘t be saved 💀💀
i’m a harry stan and had no clue he name dropped harry. hes being a classic troll. do something controversial (aka “acting” korean/wanting to be korean) and then go after sooo many fandoms. then u got the attention stans give u, and u go full conservative christian. AND THEN thats when u go either m.i.a, or they’re the nobody they deserve to be. this is the classic formula for an internet reactionary. but also in some instances, (like trisha paytas or danielle brigohli) a few years later people forgive them/ think they’ve changed just cause they’re not being a troll
But those people were likable to begin with and weren’t abjectly hurting other people without caring along the way.
@@fighterflight are u really saying the cash me outside girl was likeable to u?
I was really reading this person’s name as “Oil London” for so long
I literally fell off my chair SCREAMING HOOTING HOLLERING AND HOWLING 💀
Your blouse is beautiful today - the botanical details are perfect
I achually met olly london last yr at a pride parade in birmingham 💀
frederic's earrings throughout the video: ⬆➡↙↖➡↩⤵⤴↪➡⬇↙⤴↗
Made me laugh more than it should
man i had no idea you just posted this i literally refreshed 5 times to see the comments-
I feel like this is off-topic, but I love it when you are having such a serious conversation and all my brain is focusing on is the orchestral music in the background. But I think I was focusing on it so hard because anytime Oli London gets mentioned I sware my brain melts.
Fredrick thank you so much for talking about how Christian parents tell their kids about a set amount of rules they need to follow at a very young age where they can’t even understand math because they same thing had happened to me, I’m still young but now I understand that I don’t have to believe what they say and you have helped me on my journey as a young queer person
What is he talking about they learn it when their 5. I didn't even learn you can marry the same gender until I was ten, and I learned what trans was when I was 12.
5:10 I didn't know people actually said "trans people didn't exist 20 years ago"... I thought that was a jokeee
loving the fit frederic !!!
I am so grateful to have awesome people like you in the community. It gives me hope and I hope you keep rockin' on. Love your content. Your fashion and thoughts are 🔥🔥🔥
Not the republicans eating up what's coming out of Oli's mouth🤣
Hey he will be a reporter on Fox soon enough.
can we just like talk about how frederic SLAYED his outfit, makeup, hairstyle etc today? like holy i'd give everything to be at least decent looking for once in my life /pos
"we're gonna go in blind "
oh honey you don't know what you're in store for...
First [but also literally slay on the T-Swift tickets]
I think Oli realized that at one point he started to become irrelevant because everyone stopped talking about him so he found another thing to do for clout and attention.
17:26 Yeah the pressure to know what you are is real, which is why I usually just refer to myself as queer instead of trying to group myself
The face that Oli even had the audacity to say that Dylan wasn't trying hard enough to transition when they've had over 30 surgeries and doesn't look the slightest Korean is laughable. Oh. And they'll use they/them pronouns for Dylan but preach against it? Hm. Someone is very desperate for attention.
17:33 - 19:20 ❤thank you so much for talking about this
Growing up brainwashed from Christianity I totally felt your rant! I wish that I could show this to my dad but he would get very mad at me. The sad part is that I’m an adult and I’m still forced to go to his horrible church cause I’m under “his roof” 🤦🏾♀️ loved your video
I'm like 99% sure oli's just doing this for a check. but I still think it's awful what oli is doing
Oh it is very dangerous what he is doing. Last night 5 people got killed at a LGBTQ bar in Colorado. This won't stop. They keep spewing BS to put fear and a lot more hate to all these hateful people to go out and do this.
Oli was never trans it was a lie he did it for attention he was never gender dysphoric he's just doing things for attention
At this point Oli London is body horror 😭😭😭😭
honestly meeting a drag queen in my tiktok phase would be great for my mental health (i was 12)
All the things you mention are very true and need to be adressed, especially the things about tik tok and social media with kids.
talking/hearing abt oli is getting so tiring now & gives me a headache so instead i just wanna say that your outfit & makeup is absolutely stunning today frederic
"I did so much to become trans" what the heck are you talking about 😭
Apparently wearing a wig and changing your pronouns is "a lot"
Also I loveeee the earrings with the makeup (the earring look like Howl's)
please watch abigail thorn's video "I emailed my doctor 133 times"!! She talks about how inherently transphobic the uk medical system is for people who want to transition, but i feel like that applies a lot here as well
2nd comment lol: I love how you finish the video about hope for people to simply 'learn how to Be' in the Shakespeare sense haha. Definitely stealing that.
Speaking of the pressure to be passing. I agree to that on such a deep level. I'm ftm and am on HRT due to my gender dysphoria. I've wanted to be on testosterone for a lot of things so this hasn't really affected my decision but I used to love my voice. I always did. I've always had dysphoria about many things but not my voice because for me there's no "feminine" or "masculine" voice I don't see it gendered. I started getting massive dysphoria on my voice and it hurried my decision and the urgency for me to get on T. I wanted my voice to change because I needed it to pass not because it fits my gender identity, not because I wanted it. I've had to sacrifice my voice and it was a big deal to me. I don't regret that decision but society making me feel like I needed it made me rush that decision. And it sucks. Because I still don't understand it. Now people do see me as male so yay but it sucks that I had to be pushed to that point.
kinda crazy that this would come out on the day of the club q shooting 😭
Oli London is actually insane like omg
Hes got a pattern. Comes out with something controversial, he gets attention and money, and eventually gets forgotten about. And then he comes out with something even more controversial and the cycle begins again and again. I 100% dont think he even believes in god or believes a single thing hes saying right now. He just knows its going to get him what he wants. He sounds like hes just reaming off every statement hes heard a right wing person say. Eventually he'll be forgotten about again and he'll have to come up with something else even more absurd. He needs to go to therapy.
He did not just shame "✨✨❤️Harry styles✨✨✨"
Thank you for your comment on “the good ones” of Christianity. I know they mean well. I know that I mean well if I say something like that. But it just always comes across as a “but not all men” kind of moment.
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i- did oli london get transphobic but then not at the same time i’m so confused are they okay i-??
Yep he is now a transphobe. Dude supported the LGBTQ community but now is completely against it?
He was never trans
I remember that one student from like 6th grade who talked about how their family goes to church in christmas in the middle of a foking night. I didn't even know that people goes to church in christmas
"He cant make you Korean" lmao im wheezing
The Trans community didn't accept him so now he's seeing if the alt-right will
I think this is really just indicative of how important mental health is for EVERYBODY, in every community.
My school literally never pressured me into being trans, there were a few trans guys and a trans woman substitute teacher that unfortunately many students made fun of because some people still think it's fine to be transphobic. Not sure what high schoolers are like now though, hopefully it's improved.
Anyways, I figured out who I was during the pandemic at the age of 21. For years before that I struggled with who I was, I hated the thought of being a woman and being in hetero relationship. I hated everything about being a woman even if I was fond of cute things. My name, being referred to as a woman, being treated like one, living my life as one felt like a curse and I wanted to and still do wish I could chuck my uterus and my boobs out of me.
Figuring it out was a breath of fresh air to me. Transition is an unfortunately long process and I've barely started taking testosterone but it makes me happy that I can be a man and change my body to fit that. It does however anger me and scare me that people like Oli London feel the need to hurt our community and our rights just because he craves attention.
10:56 13:33 Not Oli London gatekeeping being trans! What the hell 🫨
Okay but your outfits are so pretty
Oli London has scared me since i saw the video of (them? him? her? idk) wishing jimin a happy birthday-
You forgot about Xian Nishi, another Korean Weeabo lol
Love your videos and content!
Sending lots of love and support all the way from Costa Rica :)
He shit on Harry styles ?????erm what
Maybe because Harry is confident AF on his sexuality and oli and fox and the viewers aren't confident in who they are. Also I do not think Harry cares about oli and fox. Harry is selling out shows.
Olay lotion really just on another level of PLASTICITY 😑
Im watching this on my tv and had to go on my phone to comment because you went off👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I know I’m late also this is totally unrelated to the video but I just wanna say it’s now a holiday tradition for me to binge ur videos while decorating thx for doing what u do lmao
3:10 The fact that he said alpha straight male 'unironically' is way to concerning.
I went to the public men’s bathroom for the first time with my dad a few months ago. It smelled a lot worse then I thought it would! I hasn’t gone back since, just cuz I’m still scared😢
imma need a vlog of ur eras tour experience pls
Things rightwing people don't understand, that the political spectrum is a necklace and the right-extreme and the left-extreme are just the two claps of that necklace.
u slayed as always
Okay so I'm a trans guy I'm 18 and just had top surgery in Australia it was 15 grand and ur not allowed to do it under 16 u have to have been out social u need a psychiatrist diagnosis which also costs money a letter from ur doctor and have several appointments with ur surgeon in Sydney there is only like 2 surgeons so if u live in a rural it's like a whole other thing . Honestly and hrt is so expensive but also like it's just super annoying I'm proud of who I am but grrrrr