Really informative video! :) Summary/Recap of the 7 points: 1. You can have fun even doing mundane tasks 2. There is no abuse or manipulation involved 3. They're willing to work on their mistakes 4. They remember the little things about you 5. They encourage you to be independent 6. They don't hold grudges against you for too long 7. You have never been happier than you are right now
I really need to stop watching these bc it just reminds me how I naturally treated my love so well and they just weren’t ready for commitment at all which is fine but then they fuckin blamed me and called me controlling because I frequently complained that I would prefer if they told me before going out “shopping” several hours every day when they were talking to me anyways so it would be so fuckin easy to just tell me before putting down the phone instead of leaving me confused in the dark for like six hours every day sometimes several times a day
After many abusive and otherwise bad relationships, I think I've found the one.. I used to be so afraid of being alone my whole life, but now I'm so happy. I know he's not perfect, but I swear he's so perfect in every way
My crush is finally my boyfriend now We got together a few hours ago 4 hours before my birthday and he was the first one to congratulate me Idk if this is a dream or not but when it's a dream it's a heckin good one
Even when someone says there is no one that likes them There is always someone out there for you You will find them Hope you’re all having a nice day 💙 Unless you love only yourself then that’s the best relationship for yourself lol 😂💙
@@Psych2go I met her when I traveled overseas, it was unexpected and the most amazing moment at the same time. I made a vlog about it, if you would like to watch. Your boyfriend is a lucky guy to have met someone like you 😁👍
Ikr? My ex made me realize that love is not something for me, and only everyone else on the planet can make a relationship work, except me! Youre god damn right a single person can completely change your life
You are living the ideal single life. Before I met my boyfriend, I embraced my single life and got work on my life goals and hobbies. It was amazing also being able to travel tons. :) what do you enjoy most about single life?
@@Psych2go thru healing trauma, I've been able to find how important self love, self respect and confidence are that I dont need to find it externally so I can focus on loving more unconditionally, working on being my best version, healing more to not hurt myself or others thru unhealthy coping mechanisms and such, focusing on my dreams and goals and enjoying life till I can find my keeper to have a loving, reciprocal, healthy rs.
@@Psych2go Is it? Positivity is a choice, I'd say, although related to happiness, but a lack of happiness can be caused by physical and general mental circumstances. Otherwise people would decide to be happy a lot more instead of going on meds, wouldn't they?
@@Psych2go not always my dear, smart friend. I try like hell to be happy, and it's not that easy. Theres been ppl who helped me make it better but they're mostly gone now.
14 signs they are a keeper: Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous, it does not brag, and it is not proud. Love is not rude, it is not selfish, and it cannot be made angry easily. Love does not remember wrongs done against it. Love is never happy when others do wrong, but it is always happy with the truth. Love never gives up on people. It never stops trusting, never loses hope, and never quits. (1 Corinthians 13:4-7)
It is okay if you are single... That just mean you are not ready...maybe there is some things that you haven't given up yet... Any bad habits that might be toxic for a relationship? That's what you should be thinking about losing first and then get in a deeper relationship with Christ and then the rest will follow through... When you haven't done all this and you find a girl/guy anyway.... Trust me that's not the person you should be with... You may think it is because of the lust but I say fight it because the true one for you is not yet there for you sometimes you may be ready but the other half of you isn't so be patient... Now this might offend some people but it's the truth and if you are one of those who are offended by this I ask you do think about this maybe the only reason you're offended is because the things I say here is actually you.... So do think about the things you haven't let go of yet such as your bad habits and be closer with the word of God and get to know him better before thinking of having a relationship...
my favorite thing about my partner is how much care he shows for my loved ones, right from the start. everything from picking up my little sisters from school, to inviting my mom to stay with us when she was going through a rough patch. we’ve been together for 7 years now and he still goes out of his way for my family, despite not being able to spend that much time with them as he’s working on his PhD now. just last night he went over to my dad’s after the snowstorm to shovel the walkway for my dad and little sisters. what a guy!
My mom and I have always said, "that if you're with the right people even doing the landry will be fun." People try to hard to do big and fancy things and it takes away from the simple and priceless joys.
I don't think I could choose a favorite thing about my girlfriend. There's just so many. One of them is how humanitarian she is. She cares so much for others and would go out of her way to help, even if it's something small. It's almost to the point where she neglects her own needs. When that happens, I remind her she's just as important. Sometimes I even pamper her a little just so she can take a break from worrying about everyone else. She's very family driven and loves animals as well as children. (Her dog's name is Luna after Luna Lovegood in Harry Potter. She's also very dorky and a bit of a geek, which I admire.) One time, she felt so bad about accidentally scaring her baby brother as she was rounding the corner that I had to (gladly) reassure her for about half an hour. I've never felt this type of energy with anyone else. She's the reason I realized 'home' isn't a place, it's a person. This is real love. 💞💕
I always feel scared that they would might find this channel too childish or find it weird that I HAVE to learn about these things while I should know them, like im 18 years old I’m supposed to know when a person is good for me or not right
Ah, word play, one of my favorite forms of humor. In my head I read this as the keeper they are referring to is "keeping" people in a basement, therefore they are a keeper, I felt the need to explain in case people didn't understand and thought something awful, explanation one of the worst joke killers ever.
I think relationships have three essential bases: trust, love (real love: no cheating, no lying, caring about their health, etc) and conversation Then those 7 things this channel pointed out, I think this would be the perfect relationship
She's a keeper. She's gotten me dozens of different red lipsticks because she knows how much I'm obsessed with them. I once said back when we were just starting to get to know each other that I liked gem-tones, and she still remembers it to this day. We just got back together after I had to go through two other rough relationships, but all throughout it she's shown me she's loyal, cares, sees me for who I want to be, and truly loves me. If she's not a keeper, I don't know who is.
@Alexandra Maier Haha, nah. We're still good friends though. I was still in that lovey-dovey phase thinking we'd live happily ever after and get married and whatnot. Good times, but they don't last forever. Which is alright.
@Alexandra Maier Actually, we've already gotten back before! And they already have a new partner right now. I'm happy staying friends with them (they came out as nonbinary maybe a few years after this post?), they're even one of my best friends! Don't be sorry, a relationship going to a friendship isn't always a bad thing. Sometimes people just don't work out. That doesn't mean it's always a bad thing, or that the friendship has to be tainted with negativity.
Depends on the experiments, but in all seriousness probably not. In my opinion someone who performs experiments on people should try doing it on themselves first, or just not do it.
Great question! If someone feels as though they need to test you, it’s due to insecurity or trauma from the past. You shouldn’t have to run through anyone’s test. I recommend talking about this with that individual and ask them what’s going on because you deserve a chance at love, and not feel as though you’re being tested.
I honestly just want someone that cares and is willing to learn and improve. We never stop growing and having someome to grow together with is something i really miss in life...
Thanks Psych2Go, I really needed this. My boyfriend is one of the kindest, empathetic, encouraging person I’ve ever had in my life besides my dad. But my mom doesn’t like him and I think it’s because he doesn’t come from a lot of money (because she thinks a personal value is based on much money they have) and tries to find ways to get me doubt my relationship and end it. But my dad and friends on the other hand all say he’s a great guy and I should never let him go. My boyfriend has all of the qualities you pointed out in the video, so now I’m 1000% positive he’s the one for me and I shouldn’t let my mom tell me otherwise.
Good lord number 7 really hit home. I've been in so many toxic relationships and I literally broke down a few nights ago because I'm literally the happiest I've ever been in my entire life and it's all because of him😊
My ideal relationship would be one where i can not only hang with friends and family, but have said partner also be apart of it. Someone who could also help with things and also let me help
This perfectly describes the relationship my dad and step mom have, the playing in the grocery store especially. A 20 minute trip can take them 40-60 because they have fun and play around for each other, and with both I’ve never seen them happier than they are now!!! :)))
My favorite thing about my partner is his encouraging my growth and helping me meet my goals, I also love that he is passionate about his hobbies and also really enjoy just being silly around him. Plus cuddles, his arms wrapped around me or him laying his head on my chest makes me just enjoy the moment (Unless its burning hot outside because he is a furnace).
;-; She’s so supportive of me and pushes me to do better for myself. She loves me regardless of how I feel about myself but she pushes me to work on myself so that I can love myself too. She sent me this video and said “I agree with all of it” and I’m about to cry. She’s too good to me. I love her so much.
one thing i love about my girlfriend is how excited she gets when we get to call each other, or when we haven’t talked all day but one of us finally gets time to text the other. it’s long distance (for now💗) and it’s very difficult but i love her a lot and i know she loves me too. in my opinion, distance doesn’t matter as long as you love each other unconditionally.
My husband said he new I was a keeper when I left him a note that said "Dinners in the oven, I'm taking a plate to mom" It wasn't just because I made food. He had an emotionally abusive ex that would use notes to tear him down instead of saying it face to face where he could of said something to defend himself. He said my ordinary "going to the store" type notes were the best. Kinda wish we still did them, it was before cell phones of course!
My ideal partner is someone who doesn't mind being physically affectionate with each other and she puts effort into our relationship no matter how far apart we are.
Been engaged to my best friend for about 3 weeks now. Planning a wedding in a year or so. He fits all seven of these signs ❤️ and as a bonus he's very patient with my anxiety and jealous problems. Praying for a long happy life with him
i learned im so desperate for validation that ill fall in love with anyone who gives me attention, i recently realized this will probably lead to a lot of bad relationships but idk what to do about it and im lowkey scared. im always super good at recognizing when other people are in a bad situation, but im worried if i keep being like this, i wont be able to recognize it for myself. at the same time i have major trust issues so they kinda cancel each other out
Sup Ava, if you do feel that way, you just have to work on yourself. Try to appreciate your own attention etc. You dont have to jump into relationships if you know you have to work on some things. As cheesy as it sounds appreciate yourself,know your worth. But yoooo you do you fam!! Stay safe, take care 🖤🤘🏻
I love your videos so much. I have been going through difficulties with almost every relationship in my life these past few months, and your channel is helping me realize my own trauma and how I need to grow in order to create meaningful and lasting relationships with the people I care about most. Thank you
I started falling in love with myself and that’s help me see that there are good men who aren’t good for me. That’s something that’s so hard to learn but once I accepted that just because they aren’t good for me doesn’t mean they aren’t good at all. It’s also made me some good friends and value myself more and set better and realistic wants from someone.
Alex Dunne I said they’re not good for me. I’m doing fine on my own with my lovely male friends alongside of me supporting me as I support them. Fall in love with yourself and find people who encourage you to feel loved as well 💕
I’m single and interested in someone. They’re a nice person and I like talking to them. They’re understanding. I’d like to get to know her a little more and hopefully if it goes anywhere, all I really want is for us to understand each other on a very personal level and have fun just being around each other
I got out of a recent break up with a person who would only make me upset or cry most of the time. There was no encouragement to keep going forward and didnt want to work to get what he wanted. I had to work for a long time to get him the things he needed and it really messed me up emotionally. Then i broke it off, and now im dating one of the sweetest guys that would go the extra mile just to see me smile. Im engaged and ive never felt so free and happy in my whole life.
I literally feel like because she was my first girlfriend I didn’t know how to handle any of it and I eventually lost her, I think if we had truly been honest and worked on things together things could’ve been amazing. I’ve never felt quite a connection with anyone but to her. I miss her
Did you tell her that? It's okay to let go, tho. It hurts like hell but it makes you learn. If she doesn't want to work it out again, focus on learning how to handle it the next time. Mistakes hurt and there's nothing good to them on their own, really, but life goes on after that. Good luck buddy
Ruby Rootless thank you, it’s been almost 1 year since the break up it was April 1st but I’m too scared to go and text her again and call and talk about everything. I get enormously anxious like the most I ever get, I want to talk so I know i need to and I’ve been trying to muster courage but it’s honestly really hard
I disagree with the last one. I think it's my responsibility to make myself happy and not my partner's. I am quite unhappy lately but I know I'm with the right person. Ironically, when I was with a narcissist, I couldn't have been happier (when we weren't arguing). I was just high on the lies I loved. So, for me the question is, can they take care of their own well being before yours? (Yes, I realize I'd been failing miserably at this, but it's changing already.)
My favorite thing about my partner is how much he cares about me and helping me grow. He’s not afraid to call me on my bs and is proud of me when I’m proud of me
@@Psych2go I'm currently in a relationship. A lot of the time through out I'm always questioning to myself whether I'm good enough for my love and whether what I do or say is right...this video helps me realise a few things about myself. Whether this is a good or a bad thing, I think I might be too clingy to my girl. I'm always trying to stay with them, be with them as much as I can. I don't want to be selfish and keep them to myself, I just want them to be happy, with and without me.
My ideal relationship is being with someone who is positive, caring, talkative, advising, adventurous, selfless and loving. I promise to give them that as well 😍❤️
My ideal relationship is the one i have with my current best friend. She is the sweetest in this world and she pushes me to become a better person eachday. Even if we aren't romantically a couple i feel like she is my soulmate and if she isnt she is the spark that lights up my day and keeps me going
@@Psych2go I think for a little longer than 5 months or so. We met almost 8 months ago and i got to know for sure i would slowly become her best friend since a day we were talking and she told me deep parts of her story. I felt honored but i just thought i was a close friend but not a best friend. Until one day thanks to a mutual friend she told me that the things she tells me she doesnt talk about it with many people and that she feels comfortable and nice with me. As i told her, it feels amazing that the person i look up to believes in me and in my dreams.
When I've had a bad day at work, we take time out and lay on the bed together and just talk about what happened and cuddle and snuggle and its not until he's sure I'm ok that he goes and does what he feels like. He always encourages me to go and see my friends and family. He's encouraged me to learn how to drive..where as my last partner used to tell me I would never be able to drive. My favourite thing about him is how he reads me so well. I don't have to tell him a lot, he knows it,.
All of these are true for my best friend. I don't know if this means that she would be the best partner for me, or if she's just the greatest friend that anyone could have.
I’m watching this because i wanna be the best partner i can be,i hope that the person i’m watching this for still loves me too (i’m holding out for her until we can get back together for personal reasons),and that i hope they,and anyone who reads this comment has a nice day,and good luck on any romantic endeavors you’re on currently,you can do it! 😊
Hope things go well for you, friend! My romantic endeavors seem entirely hopeless as my current crush has stated that she doesn’t want to be in a relationship at all. But seeing all the supportive and loving people in this comment section has given me some new found hope that even if my feelings don’t reach her, they will reach someone who is willing to love me back. B]
I know this is ment for people in relationships but I feel as if most of these go for a good friend. If you have a good friend keep them around, people like that are rare.
My crush all through middle school just asked me out last night and we spent 3 and a half hours just talking last night he’s my baby and can’t wait to spend forever with him🥺
7 Signs That They're A Keeper 1. You can have fun even doing mundane tasks 2. There is no abuse or manipulation involved 3. They are willing to work on their mistakes 4. They remember little things about you 5. They encourage you to be independent 6. They don't hold grudges for too long 7.You've never been happier than you are right now
I am single I am also bi My only real standard is that they like to have fun I love adventures i also love relaxing and watching Netflix i want someone who won't judge me eating a whole bucket of ice cream and who will go on hikes and explore with me and also have me try what they like
I have dated someone, but online. I told him more then I have told others. He was a keeper. He remembers my favorite things, and he apologized profusely if he thinks he did anything wrong. We made eachother really happy. He defended me when people made fun of us. We stuck to eachother through thick and thin. Unfortunately, I was the one who let him go. He started saying bad things about himself, and telling me that he didn't want a relationship in the first place. He later told me that he was trying to hide that he was crushed and confused. But we are really good friends, but I regret doing what I did 💔
He accepts me as me and doesn't try to change me. We can talk about anything and everything, I'm not afraid to tell him anything thats on my mind because I know he isn't going to shut it down and yell at me etc... He respects me and is very understanding. We always have a good time together, are able to laugh together. If one of us is in a bad mood, just talking to each other completely fixes it.
Thanks Laura! We hope it sheds light not only on good marriage partners, because we understand divorces happen frequently, but we hope it helps people understand whether someone is indeed the right person for them. ^.^
My favorite thing about my partner is that he's patient and never ever belittles me when I make mistakes and fuck up. He always says it's part of the learning process and that he'd rather me take the first step and mess up than just simply stand there being too afraid 💕
My ideal relationship is someone who understands my mental health and understands what I go through. Someone who says "Take all the time you need " instead of saying "it's ok.".
To all the people who are single here, people love you. Love is everywhere, even if you don't have someone to cuddle with. Your parents, your friends, your family, your dog/cat/fish/whatever love you. So don't think that people don't love you, people do. And your future boyfriend or girlfriend just haven't found you yet. But when they do, they're in for a treat. :)
I found mine :) he’s my BEST friend he makes me laugh like nobody else and we completely trust each other, we have access to each others phone...but have never had a need or want to check, because we understand boundaries and personal privacy. I love him so much! :) ❤️
4 Signs he's a keeper:
He's never gonna give you up
He's never gonna let you down
He's never gonna run around
He's never gonna desert you
My respect for you 2 is immeasurable
Never gonna tell a lie and hurt you
100th liker
getting rick rolled even in this kind of video, no safe place here... smh...
Did I actually just get rick rolled on a video about relationships?
Signs he’s a keeper:
- When he wears gloves
- when he is always at the goal post
- when he tries really hard for the ball not to get in the goal
So a cock blocker?
@@eatanotherzio6811 lol 😂
I'm more of a chaser really
I'm more of a rugby player. Make a great hooker.
I'm a chaser actually-
Really informative video! :) Summary/Recap of the 7 points:
1. You can have fun even doing mundane tasks
2. There is no abuse or manipulation involved
3. They're willing to work on their mistakes
4. They remember the little things about you
5. They encourage you to be independent
6. They don't hold grudges against you for too long
7. You have never been happier than you are right now
Tysm! ☺️
Thanks!
I really need to stop watching these bc it just reminds me how I naturally treated my love so well and they just weren’t ready for commitment at all which is fine but then they fuckin blamed me and called me controlling because I frequently complained that I would prefer if they told me before going out “shopping” several hours every day when they were talking to me anyways so it would be so fuckin easy to just tell me before putting down the phone instead of leaving me confused in the dark for like six hours every day sometimes several times a day
After many abusive and otherwise bad relationships, I think I've found the one.. I used to be so afraid of being alone my whole life, but now I'm so happy. I know he's not perfect, but I swear he's so perfect in every way
*He is a keeper is he’s not afraid to let his woman outgrow him. Some men are so insecure they hold their woman back...*
LOUDER! YAS!
En K 🙏
WISE AF MY FRIEND🙏
Preach
Get woke
Saturn Ivory 🙏🙏🙏
7 signs I need to go to sleep:
1-7: it's 1 am and I have to wake up before 6
😂 please go to sleep
same
oof
Get some sleep
Same.
My crush is finally my boyfriend now
We got together a few hours ago
4 hours before my birthday and he was the first one to congratulate me
Idk if this is a dream or not but when it's a dream it's a heckin good one
I hope it goes well for you!
My crush also became my bf and we got together on his b-day a few months ago.
Spoopy.
@@gryffin2347 woah that sounds great as well! Thanks a lot I hope you guys have a great time together 🤗💕
Izuna Uchiha I assure you you’re not dreaming!! Enjoy it while it lasts!
Happy Birthday
@@StarLight-hg5xt Thanks I will 💕
I knew my partner was a keeper for enjoying my dumb, and silly self, but this really confirms it!
Aww cute~!
Anyone who can stand my energetic and punny personality is a force to be reckoned with, glad to hear you found one who likes yours :)
So glad to hear! My boyfriend is also accepting of me and doesn’t mind my silliness. In fact, he brings it out of me. :)
aww so cute 😁
Mine pretended to be a girl for the talent show and that’s how I know he’s a keeper lmao it was so funny 😂
Even when someone says there is no one that likes them
There is always someone out there for you
You will find them
Hope you’re all having a nice day 💙
Unless you love only yourself then that’s the best relationship for yourself lol 😂💙
A fan of indie games B I T C H I LOVE THIS COMMENT
Ima press [X] on that one, chief
A fan of indie games what if they love their wall?😂😂
Exept when you are really ugly good luck finding someone.
I'm not saying its impossible it is just increases the difficulty by the factor 10000.
I’m married to myself so💍
I want one that is "7 signs they aren't a keeper"
I’ll run this by the team. :) be sure to also check out our other relationship videos that may provide more insights in our playlist!
I bet it's not just 7
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@@fucker661 How rude!
just think about the opposite of these...
It's amazing how one person can enter your life and completely change it for the better 😊
I feel the same exact way towards my boyfriend, Chris. :) When did that special person enter your life?
@@Psych2go I met her when I traveled overseas, it was unexpected and the most amazing moment at the same time. I made a vlog about it, if you would like to watch.
Your boyfriend is a lucky guy to have met someone like you 😁👍
Its also amazing how one person can enter your life, fill your head with lies, leave and make you nearly drive off a bridge.
Or worse
Ikr? My ex made me realize that love is not something for me, and only everyone else on the planet can make a relationship work, except me! Youre god damn right a single person can completely change your life
Why are people always so sad about being single?
I personally find it pretty cool and fun
You are living the ideal single life. Before I met my boyfriend, I embraced my single life and got work on my life goals and hobbies. It was amazing also being able to travel tons. :) what do you enjoy most about single life?
same I'm glad I'm single
Traxie ツ it’s a chance to get to know to know yourself better before settling down with someone else.
@@Psych2go thru healing trauma, I've been able to find how important self love, self respect and confidence are that I dont need to find it externally so I can focus on loving more unconditionally, working on being my best version, healing more to not hurt myself or others thru unhealthy coping mechanisms and such, focusing on my dreams and goals and enjoying life till I can find my keeper to have a loving, reciprocal, healthy rs.
@@ElizRued You just wrote my life goal🤣😄 Nice to know that there are more amazing people in this world
Waiting for that emotional detachment video👌 I’m patient I’ll wait.
THIS WOULD BE GREAT
Yes please
Gosh, please
Yess
Thats be really interesting!
Anyone else here single? 😔🤚
You bet
😔✋
Always :))
Me
You bet your ass. :3
Your person should help you be happy, not necessarily MAKE you happy 🙂
So true. Happiness is a choice!
@@Psych2go Is it?
Positivity is a choice, I'd say, although related to happiness, but a lack of happiness can be caused by physical and general mental circumstances. Otherwise people would decide to be happy a lot more instead of going on meds, wouldn't they?
@@Psych2go not always my dear, smart friend. I try like hell to be happy, and it's not that easy. Theres been ppl who helped me make it better but they're mostly gone now.
14 signs they are a keeper:
Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous, it does not brag, and it is not proud. Love is not rude, it is not selfish, and it cannot be made angry easily. Love does not remember wrongs done against it. Love is never happy when others do wrong, but it is always happy with the truth. Love never gives up on people. It never stops trusting, never loses hope, and never quits.
(1 Corinthians 13:4-7)
Preach brother!!
It is okay if you are single... That just mean you are not ready...maybe there is some things that you haven't given up yet... Any bad habits that might be toxic for a relationship? That's what you should be thinking about losing first and then get in a deeper relationship with Christ and then the rest will follow through... When you haven't done all this and you find a girl/guy anyway.... Trust me that's not the person you should be with... You may think it is because of the lust but I say fight it because the true one for you is not yet there for you sometimes you may be ready but the other half of you isn't so be patient... Now this might offend some people but it's the truth and if you are one of those who are offended by this I ask you do think about this maybe the only reason you're offended is because the things I say here is actually you.... So do think about the things you haven't let go of yet such as your bad habits and be closer with the word of God and get to know him better before thinking of having a relationship...
Ily lol
Amen
Best destiny's child track lol
my favorite thing about my partner is how much care he shows for my loved ones, right from the start. everything from picking up my little sisters from school, to inviting my mom to stay with us when she was going through a rough patch. we’ve been together for 7 years now and he still goes out of his way for my family, despite not being able to spend that much time with them as he’s working on his PhD now. just last night he went over to my dad’s after the snowstorm to shovel the walkway for my dad and little sisters. what a guy!
How's it been going? Are your sisters doing well? Did he get his PhD?
My mom and I have always said, "that if you're with the right people even doing the landry will be fun." People try to hard to do big and fancy things and it takes away from the simple and priceless joys.
I don't think I could choose a favorite thing about my girlfriend. There's just so many. One of them is how humanitarian she is. She cares so much for others and would go out of her way to help, even if it's something small. It's almost to the point where she neglects her own needs. When that happens, I remind her she's just as important. Sometimes I even pamper her a little just so she can take a break from worrying about everyone else. She's very family driven and loves animals as well as children. (Her dog's name is Luna after Luna Lovegood in Harry Potter. She's also very dorky and a bit of a geek, which I admire.) One time, she felt so bad about accidentally scaring her baby brother as she was rounding the corner that I had to (gladly) reassure her for about half an hour. I've never felt this type of energy with anyone else. She's the reason I realized 'home' isn't a place, it's a person. This is real love. 💞💕
That's so cute omg goals ❤️
@@lilrapunzel1338 Aww, thanks 😊💕
Wow, lucky you bro
8) They encourage you to grow and be a better person simply because they want you to be happier (with or without them).
I always love your guys’ videos. They’ve helped me learn a lot about mental illness and healthy / unhealthy coping skills. ❤️
1 sign there willing to watch Psych2go with you
#1. They watch Psych2go with you
Yessssss
I always feel scared that they would might find this channel too childish or find it weird that I HAVE to learn about these things while I should know them, like im 18 years old I’m supposed to know when a person is good for me or not right
@ amen
@ I'm older than both of you and also never had a relationship (I've never been on a date, I'm 22) and I use these videos as a sort of guideline.
If you keep people
You're probably a keeper
And also hopefully in jail
Uh...
shHhHhhhH I hide children pennies in my basement
@ that went from 0 to 100 real quick...
Ah, word play, one of my favorite forms of humor. In my head I read this as the keeper they are referring to is "keeping" people in a basement, therefore they are a keeper, I felt the need to explain in case people didn't understand and thought something awful, explanation one of the worst joke killers ever.
If you keep people,
then you're probably in mid-1800s Southern America.
@P ̀a̕ ͘r̸ a͠ n̵ o ̨i ̴d͠ ̧P ͞o͢ t͠ ̀a̛ t You are absolutely correct, and I have very little (almost none) regret about it.
I think relationships have three essential bases: trust, love (real love: no cheating, no lying, caring about their health, etc) and conversation
Then those 7 things this channel pointed out, I think this would be the perfect relationship
I just broke up with a narcissist and manipulative girl and am so happy
*Life is REALLY about making it a worthwhile one. DON'T waste it with people that aren't good for you*
This is so true! What other advice would you recommend to those who needs to hear advice like this?
She's a keeper. She's gotten me dozens of different red lipsticks because she knows how much I'm obsessed with them. I once said back when we were just starting to get to know each other that I liked gem-tones, and she still remembers it to this day. We just got back together after I had to go through two other rough relationships, but all throughout it she's shown me she's loyal, cares, sees me for who I want to be, and truly loves me.
If she's not a keeper, I don't know who is.
Awww happy to hear you are doing well!
@@noobjitsu1743 Thank you! I am too. So glad to be with someone who truly loves me :D
Aww this has to be the cutest thing I've ever read
@Alexandra Maier Haha, nah. We're still good friends though.
I was still in that lovey-dovey phase thinking we'd live happily ever after and get married and whatnot. Good times, but they don't last forever. Which is alright.
@Alexandra Maier Actually, we've already gotten back before! And they already have a new partner right now. I'm happy staying friends with them (they came out as nonbinary maybe a few years after this post?), they're even one of my best friends!
Don't be sorry, a relationship going to a friendship isn't always a bad thing. Sometimes people just don't work out. That doesn't mean it's always a bad thing, or that the friendship has to be tainted with negativity.
I’ve never clicked on a notification so fast.
Wait, I have.
For this channel c:
Thank you for your kind words!
Ah by the way, how do I make captions for you guys? I can write in both English and Spanish, maybe I could do a little help to you as you helped me!
Psych2Go hello so what if they do experiments on you to see what happens are those keepers? Not in that kind of situation it is a example
Depends on the experiments, but in all seriousness probably not. In my opinion someone who performs experiments on people should try doing it on themselves first, or just not do it.
Great question! If someone feels as though they need to test you, it’s due to insecurity or trauma from the past. You shouldn’t have to run through anyone’s test. I recommend talking about this with that individual and ask them what’s going on because you deserve a chance at love, and not feel as though you’re being tested.
Romance and love is one of my biggest weaknesses.
My favorite thing about my partner is their selfless, genuine, and kind heart. Plus, the adorable nose crunch!!
I honestly just want someone that cares and is willing to learn and improve. We never stop growing and having someome to grow together with is something i really miss in life...
Thanks Psych2Go, I really needed this. My boyfriend is one of the kindest, empathetic, encouraging person I’ve ever had in my life besides my dad. But my mom doesn’t like him and I think it’s because he doesn’t come from a lot of money (because she thinks a personal value is based on much money they have) and tries to find ways to get me doubt my relationship and end it. But my dad and friends on the other hand all say he’s a great guy and I should never let him go. My boyfriend has all of the qualities you pointed out in the video, so now I’m 1000% positive he’s the one for me and I shouldn’t let my mom tell me otherwise.
Good lord number 7 really hit home. I've been in so many toxic relationships and I literally broke down a few nights ago because I'm literally the happiest I've ever been in my entire life and it's all because of him😊
Wait I don’t do these things to myself should I dump myself
Yea I guess I should dump myself too
I'm not even dating myself, that's how lonely I am
xAesthęticBunny I guess it makes two
Yeah im this close to breaking up with myself tbh
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Finding a keeper is 'nearly' impossible and that's the truth. But being able to find the one would be truly special.
I know but we can work on being a keeper and being wise when dating to find our keeper.. I guess :(
8. If they are epic gamers, 100% a keeper
I don't know if that's supposed to be a pun on the company who made Fortnite.
Aaaaaand that’s why you’re probably single.
Especially the epic gamers that destroy lebtards ebic style 😤
Haha, you sound like my cousin who I’m visiting quite soon this week! xD what kind of games do you play?
Mm yes
My ideal relationship would be one where i can not only hang with friends and family, but have said partner also be apart of it. Someone who could also help with things and also let me help
This perfectly describes the relationship my dad and step mom have, the playing in the grocery store especially. A 20 minute trip can take them 40-60 because they have fun and play around for each other, and with both I’ve never seen them happier than they are now!!! :)))
My favorite thing about my partner is his encouraging my growth and helping me meet my goals, I also love that he is passionate about his hobbies and also really enjoy just being silly around him. Plus cuddles, his arms wrapped around me or him laying his head on my chest makes me just enjoy the moment (Unless its burning hot outside because he is a furnace).
I love your videos so much!! I’ve found them so helpful and interesting. Thanks for your hard work ♥️♥️
Thank you Leonie! Your kind words mean a lot! ^.^
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She’s so supportive of me and pushes me to do better for myself. She loves me regardless of how I feel about myself but she pushes me to work on myself so that I can love myself too. She sent me this video and said “I agree with all of it” and I’m about to cry. She’s too good to me. I love her so much.
It's so heartwarming watching this video since it made me realize how precious my relationship with my partner---it applies a lot to both of us.
one thing i love about my girlfriend is how excited she gets when we get to call each other, or when we haven’t talked all day but one of us finally gets time to text the other. it’s long distance (for now💗) and it’s very difficult but i love her a lot and i know she loves me too. in my opinion, distance doesn’t matter as long as you love each other unconditionally.
My husband said he new I was a keeper when I left him a note that said "Dinners in the oven, I'm taking a plate to mom" It wasn't just because I made food. He had an emotionally abusive ex that would use notes to tear him down instead of saying it face to face where he could of said something to defend himself. He said my ordinary "going to the store" type notes were the best. Kinda wish we still did them, it was before cell phones of course!
My ideal partner is someone who doesn't mind being physically affectionate with each other and she puts effort into our relationship no matter how far apart we are.
Been engaged to my best friend for about 3 weeks now. Planning a wedding in a year or so. He fits all seven of these signs ❤️ and as a bonus he's very patient with my anxiety and jealous problems. Praying for a long happy life with him
My favorite thing about my partner is that he pushes me in a very positive loving way that I’ve never had before.
i learned im so desperate for validation that ill fall in love with anyone who gives me attention, i recently realized this will probably lead to a lot of bad relationships but idk what to do about it and im lowkey scared. im always super good at recognizing when other people are in a bad situation, but im worried if i keep being like this, i wont be able to recognize it for myself. at the same time i have major trust issues so they kinda cancel each other out
Sup Ava, if you do feel that way, you just have to work on yourself. Try to appreciate your own attention etc. You dont have to jump into relationships if you know you have to work on some things. As cheesy as it sounds appreciate yourself,know your worth. But yoooo you do you fam!! Stay safe, take care 🖤🤘🏻
Thank you🥺❤️
This video assured me that he's a keeper.. I was wondering if there's any video on how to treat them & do things to make them feel good.
I never had love before.. so this video is hurting me 😔
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You’re not alone, buddy.
Same
The first time is a trap
I’m sorry to hear. I used to feel that way every time I watched a chick flick before I met my boyfriend. Have you tried dating apps?
@@Psych2go no because I'm just not comfortable with them... the thought of running into a predator
I love your videos so much. I have been going through difficulties with almost every relationship in my life these past few months, and your channel is helping me realize my own trauma and how I need to grow in order to create meaningful and lasting relationships with the people I care about most. Thank you
I started falling in love with myself and that’s help me see that there are good men who aren’t good for me. That’s something that’s so hard to learn but once I accepted that just because they aren’t good for me doesn’t mean they aren’t good at all. It’s also made me some good friends and value myself more and set better and realistic wants from someone.
those men you consider to be not '' good '' will accomplish more than you ever will
Alex Dunne I said they’re not good for me. I’m doing fine on my own with my lovely male friends alongside of me supporting me as I support them. Fall in love with yourself and find people who encourage you to feel loved as well 💕
I’m single and interested in someone. They’re a nice person and I like talking to them. They’re understanding. I’d like to get to know her a little more and hopefully if it goes anywhere, all I really want is for us to understand each other on a very personal level and have fun just being around each other
Me: *Is single*
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Me: *MUST WATCH!!*
I got out of a recent break up with a person who would only make me upset or cry most of the time. There was no encouragement to keep going forward and didnt want to work to get what he wanted. I had to work for a long time to get him the things he needed and it really messed me up emotionally. Then i broke it off, and now im dating one of the sweetest guys that would go the extra mile just to see me smile. Im engaged and ive never felt so free and happy in my whole life.
I literally feel like because she was my first girlfriend I didn’t know how to handle any of it and I eventually lost her, I think if we had truly been honest and worked on things together things could’ve been amazing. I’ve never felt quite a connection with anyone but to her. I miss her
Did you tell her that?
It's okay to let go, tho. It hurts like hell but it makes you learn. If she doesn't want to work it out again, focus on learning how to handle it the next time. Mistakes hurt and there's nothing good to them on their own, really, but life goes on after that.
Good luck buddy
Ruby Rootless thank you, it’s been almost 1 year since the break up it was April 1st but I’m too scared to go and text her again and call and talk about everything. I get enormously anxious like the most I ever get, I want to talk so I know i need to and I’ve been trying to muster courage but it’s honestly really hard
@@ProMrLecoq01 Best of luck then. I honestly wish you the very best.
Ultimately this made me realize that life is supposed to be fun and sometimes I don’t allow myself to feel that.
I disagree with the last one. I think it's my responsibility to make myself happy and not my partner's. I am quite unhappy lately but I know I'm with the right person. Ironically, when I was with a narcissist, I couldn't have been happier (when we weren't arguing). I was just high on the lies I loved.
So, for me the question is, can they take care of their own well being before yours? (Yes, I realize I'd been failing miserably at this, but it's changing already.)
it's hard when she's with someone else yet she respects me and uplifts our friendship greatly...
I feel like we're all keepers if we are accepted for who we are.
My favorite thing about my partner is how much he cares about me and helping me grow. He’s not afraid to call me on my bs and is proud of me when I’m proud of me
Wow. This is me towards myself.
:) never hurts to be your own keeper!
Thanks. I’ll be my own keeper til I find the right person :’)
This is adorable...it hurts how much I can relate, unironically.
Aww, how come it hurts?
@@Psych2go I'm currently in a relationship. A lot of the time through out I'm always questioning to myself whether I'm good enough for my love and whether what I do or say is right...this video helps me realise a few things about myself. Whether this is a good or a bad thing, I think I might be too clingy to my girl. I'm always trying to stay with them, be with them as much as I can. I don't want to be selfish and keep them to myself, I just want them to be happy, with and without me.
Could you guys make a video about overcoming emotional dependency?
My ideal relationship is being with someone who is positive, caring, talkative, advising, adventurous, selfless and loving. I promise to give them that as well 😍❤️
My ideal relationship is the one i have with my current best friend. She is the sweetest in this world and she pushes me to become a better person eachday. Even if we aren't romantically a couple i feel like she is my soulmate and if she isnt she is the spark that lights up my day and keeps me going
Aww, I’m glad you met your best friend! How long have you two been friends for? Soul mates can exist in friendships, too, I find. :)
@@Psych2go I think for a little longer than 5 months or so. We met almost 8 months ago and i got to know for sure i would slowly become her best friend since a day we were talking and she told me deep parts of her story. I felt honored but i just thought i was a close friend but not a best friend. Until one day thanks to a mutual friend she told me that the things she tells me she doesnt talk about it with many people and that she feels comfortable and nice with me. As i told her, it feels amazing that the person i look up to believes in me and in my dreams.
When I've had a bad day at work, we take time out and lay on the bed together and just talk about what happened and cuddle and snuggle and its not until he's sure I'm ok that he goes and does what he feels like. He always encourages me to go and see my friends and family. He's encouraged me to learn how to drive..where as my last partner used to tell me I would never be able to drive. My favourite thing about him is how he reads me so well. I don't have to tell him a lot, he knows it,.
My ideal relationship looks like my friendships
Healthy relationships often have a solid friendships. :)
He loves even when I can’t find the courage to acknowledge myself... never once has he made me feel bad about expressing or feeling things..
Wow. Literally right on time. Like, by the second on time.
We don’t have telepathy, we promise. xD but we’re so glad our fans can relate to the content we create every day. :)
All of these are true for my best friend. I don't know if this means that she would be the best partner for me, or if she's just the greatest friend that anyone could have.
Ideally your SO is one of your best friends, too, so... You might call relationships romantic friendships as well
I’m watching this because i wanna be the best partner i can be,i hope that the person i’m watching this for still loves me too (i’m holding out for her until we can get back together for personal reasons),and that i hope they,and anyone who reads this comment has a nice day,and good luck on any romantic endeavors you’re on currently,you can do it! 😊
Hope things go well for you, friend! My romantic endeavors seem entirely hopeless as my current crush has stated that she doesn’t want to be in a relationship at all. But seeing all the supportive and loving people in this comment section has given me some new found hope that even if my feelings don’t reach her, they will reach someone who is willing to love me back. B]
Being number 7 for someone is hard, even if you can be 1-6
I love my boyfriend so much. He’s definitely a keeper❤️
Someone who accepts me for me. Who is willing to go 50-50 on everything. Someone who respects loyalty and trust as much as I do.
That's good to have a list of traits you would like it a partner :) Have you met someone like that?
Psych2Go I thought I had once...
But due to meddling by outside parties it feel apart.
Not since then. And havent felt the same about anyone since.
I know this is ment for people in relationships but I feel as if most of these go for a good friend. If you have a good friend keep them around, people like that are rare.
My crush all through middle school just asked me out last night and we spent 3 and a half hours just talking last night he’s my baby and can’t wait to spend forever with him🥺
7 Signs That They're A Keeper
1. You can have fun even doing mundane tasks
2. There is no abuse or manipulation involved
3. They are willing to work on their mistakes
4. They remember little things about you
5. They encourage you to be independent
6. They don't hold grudges for too long
7.You've never been happier than you are right now
Do you agree with our list? :)
@@Psych2go i do
I love this channel, gives me ideas to give into my writing to books
I am single
I am also bi
My only real standard is that they like to have fun
I love adventures i also love relaxing and watching Netflix i want someone who won't judge me eating a whole bucket of ice cream and who will go on hikes and explore with me and also have me try what they like
Sounds like easy to reach standards hopefully you don't stay single long if you don't want to
Are RUclips comment sections hookup places now.
Zachariah Woller lmao ig you tube started out as a dating app
ShadowMatter thanks you too
Hey sounds like me other than replace netflix with books 📚
I have dated someone, but online. I told him more then I have told others. He was a keeper. He remembers my favorite things, and he apologized profusely if he thinks he did anything wrong. We made eachother really happy. He defended me when people made fun of us. We stuck to eachother through thick and thin. Unfortunately, I was the one who let him go. He started saying bad things about himself, and telling me that he didn't want a relationship in the first place. He later told me that he was trying to hide that he was crushed and confused. But we are really good friends, but I regret doing what I did 💔
sign #8...
they look like bald-headed anime characters
@Brainfart はい！(^^)
Ok boomer
He accepts me as me and doesn't try to change me. We can talk about anything and everything, I'm not afraid to tell him anything thats on my mind because I know he isn't going to shut it down and yell at me etc... He respects me and is very understanding. We always have a good time together, are able to laugh together. If one of us is in a bad mood, just talking to each other completely fixes it.
This is awesome advice for anyone who is thinking about getting married!
Thanks Laura! We hope it sheds light not only on good marriage partners, because we understand divorces happen frequently, but we hope it helps people understand whether someone is indeed the right person for them. ^.^
This video just makes me realize that I was the only keeper in my previous relationships. Ty for uploading this content. 💔
My favorite thing about my partner is that he's patient and never ever belittles me when I make mistakes and fuck up. He always says it's part of the learning process and that he'd rather me take the first step and mess up than just simply stand there being too afraid 💕
My ideal relationship is someone who understands my mental health and understands what I go through. Someone who says "Take all the time you need " instead of saying "it's ok.".
I thought this was gonna be 7 signs they're a killer ashdhfdkdj but this is good
XD if your boyfriend/girlfriend knows all the lyric to Bts DNA he/she is a keeper
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He loves me. And, even when he forgets to say it, he never forgets to show it. Today is our one year anniversary and I couldnt be happier.
That's so beautiful
To all the people who are single here, people love you. Love is everywhere, even if you don't have someone to cuddle with. Your parents, your friends, your family, your dog/cat/fish/whatever love you. So don't think that people don't love you, people do.
And your future boyfriend or girlfriend just haven't found you yet. But when they do, they're in for a treat. :)
But I like being single xD
@@caseywilde7931 fair enough, you do you dood! :)
Jweiss 500 I feel like I can remember that in my mind, thank you. ;o;
thanks dude and worry 4 cats love me I'll wait
Thank you so much! I’m going through a breakup right now so I don’t know if this counts for me but I still really appreciate the kindness :)
I found mine :) he’s my BEST friend he makes me laugh like nobody else and we completely trust each other, we have access to each others phone...but have never had a need or want to check, because we understand boundaries and personal privacy. I love him so much! :) ❤️
When he’s the one but you’re depressed and have trust issues 👏🏻👏🏻
Amen
Its her for me
Who is a keeper? Hands up!🙌
0:49 you wrote "evolved" but you said "involved", watch out the typos
Came to the comments just for this.
There was also "independant". I came to see if anyone else had noticed (I know, I know)
Congraaaaats, you just made the world a better place by pointing out the typo...
YES!
1:47 the number fluctuates between the 4 and 5.
I learned how being treated badly, showed me what a keeper actually is
I'm single but still watching cuz I love this channel!
oh yeah yeah why do like half of the RUclips comments I see have that profile pic? Am I out of the loop on something
@@tannerdixon1265 just look up oh yeah yeah. It was a meme song that someone soon made into a RUclips raid
Thank you for your support, it means a lot! :)
he's kind
considerate
thoughtful
loving
sweet
a good person
Does it bother anyone else that the Ying Yang was rotating the wrong way...?
I was bothered that the little smaller dots weren't perfect circles, but yeah it did rotate strangely.
I found this person and she was my best friend from 8th grade. Now i can't imagine ever being as happy as i am at this very moment.
That is good to know! What do you like most about this person?
Aww, I wanna be a keeper with someone 💕😊
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My boyfriend is exactly like all these examples in this video. He’s a gentleman, but knows when to have fun. I love him so much ❤️
I’m so glad you found him, Evie! He sounds like a gem. :)
Psych2Go thank you!