I was bullied in elementary and high school and I always lacked self esteem.I considered myself ugly and I tried very hard to look beautiful by buying a lot of makeup, skincare and haircare products.Of course a lot of people told me I was beautiful but I didn't believed them, not because I didn't want or that I craved attention, but simply because my brain was wired to think that I was ugly due to the bullying.Also, seeing a lot of photoshopped models and women in social media didn't help at all. So let me tell you how I kinda get over it:I realized that a lot of people are too busy to care or to judge you.You think your nose is too big/crooked/small?I guarantee that you are mostly the one that thinks that way and a lot of people simply don't care or don't notice unless you point it out.Same goes for everything else.Oh, and another thing that helped me:just sit and think for a moment:"when was the last time I saw someone with ugly hair/face/body?2 days ago?one week ago?and did I truly care?did my mental opinion affect that person in any way?".And after you say that either out loud or in your mind, you'll start to realize that this is how most people think about you.
You're right, people don't care. But also, everybody's perception of beauty is different. It's true there are always some popular opinions about what beauty is but in the end it doesn't mean it's everybody's opinion. And don't forget that people we are trying to "please" by our look are also imperfect. We are imperfect yet people still fall in love with each other. ❤️
@Trinity M you reminded me of simple quote: a flower doesn't think about how to bloom the right way or whether flowers around are more beautiful, it just blooms the best way it can. 🙂
Yeah i try to believe that but people are really obsessed with me and it makes me really anxious. I've literally heard groups of people sat together bonding for hours over making fun or mocking me and discussing me in general. partly makes me feel like a celeb but also upset some cus I stand out. I sometimes wish ppl didn't think about me but my energy is so intense that they always do and it makes me want to hide away. I hate it.
Girls, just sharing a few hacks that have changed my life: 1. High-waisted skirts - they are flattering for any body type, suitable for anywhere anytime (weekends/office/party/school). High-waisted skirts, shorts or jeans are basically all I wear now, and they always make my short legs look longer than they are (lol). 2. Apply loose powder after foundation - helps makeup stay on 1.5 times longer, a godsend for oily skin, less makeup smearing off under your mask. 3. Preventing eyeliner from smearing on eyelids - apply a thin layer of light nude eyeshadow/powder over your lids as a base, before you apply your eye makeup. 4. Start moisturising, using eye creams, and sunscreen, once you start working in your early 20s - many people have commented I still look really young (not bragging)
DISAGREE WITH THE FIRST ONE, high-waited pants and skirts look really unflattering on my body shape so experiment with both styles and see which you like better everyone !!
@@geetika6540 same, I didn't particularly like jeans before but after trying low rise pants I am in loveee, they are so cute and imo they feel flattering too me, too bad I can't bend down or I feel my panties might show BUT they are cute! especially if they are bootcut! such a flattering shape, I suddenly love jeans and I never thought I would. And for the record my tummy isn't even flat rn, but you don't even need to pair them up with a crop top, just a tight top will do and it shows off your waist and hips. But ofc it totally depends on your body shape and proportions.
Totally agree with geetika and loon, even as a fellow high waister. Love the way high-waisted bottoms make me look taller and slimmer while emphasizing my curves BUT this only works because *they match my actual waistline.* (Midrise bottoms emphasize the chub below my waist while lowrise bottoms clash with my blouson tops/emphasizes my lack of boobage.)
We don't start looking old until we hit 45. I'm 29 and still look similar to my teenage years, just a bit prettier. (Not to sound self-absorbed, but it's true. Aging gave me cheekbones.)
back when i was younger, I WAS SUPER INSECURE i worked out, invested in skincare, embraced my flaws and BEST FEATURES (these days i always flex my eyes, dimples, and round face), and found my ideal wardrobe. i do admit the admirations, compliments, and change in treatment gave me an ego boost. however, the shy and insecure little girl in me is still inside. i'm still working on loving myself and continue doing so.
Although I don't know you personally I'm very proud of you! You did what you think was best for you at the time and achieved a good result. Now invest in your mental health and treat your inner child. Heal yourself and you'll be unstoppable! Nothing's better than a radiant person ❤️ Enjoy the journey, go easy on yourself you're doing the best you can with your current circumstances ❤️ Stay hydrated, stay lovely, stay safe ❤️
Another thing most people don't realize is that celebrities have almost ALL of their clothes tailored to fit them just right, even the baggy ones. I think it's a valuable skill to learn how to tailor your own clothes and it's relatively easy as well. If you're really good at it, you might even be able to make your own clothes, which is even better because it'll be the exact color, shape, size, material and style you want it to be :)
I love this channel for being so practical with the advice, without being discouraging or telling people they NEED to change to be beautiful. You've achieved a really wonderful balance between results-oriented tips, without forgetting that there is a human being out there behind the analysis. Thanks for the great content
for real!! dear peachie always gives multiple make up tips for different feature of face. the vibe is always "if you have this feature, this is how to look more attractive." with an actual tips (not only talking abt confidence, self love and encouragement stuffs).
@@palestar828 Why? Personally, I think that this video is the one of rares videos who really help the people who are insecure or where lose confidence. But is still your opinion so I respect it.
I have never seen anyone speak about dynamic beauty and wow that shifted my whole perspective. I have always believed myself to be beautiful, perhaps in a more unique way, but I never felt like photos did me much justice haha. It is always a good reminder that real life you is the more beautiful version, and one we can't always see for ourselves.
same! ppl always told me im attractive but in pictures i look like a monster. i figured i must just be a weirdo who looks good in motion but not when flattened out by photography. now i have a name for it and i know it happens to a lot of ppl and i feel a lot better about it.
I’ve always found Seulgi stunning. Something about her just draws my eye. I think it goes to show that uniqueness can be just as much of a draw as perfect ratios.
fr god, my eyes were first drawn to seulgi before anyone else and i was surprised to find out that she wasn't a visual... though i will admit Irene is absolutely gorgeous
I always wondered why my friends looked “better” than me, but now I know. One of them has the perfect golden ratio face, one has an extraordinary talent for makeup and uses it to accentuate her doe eyes, and the other wears clothes that reflect her personality and temperament. I always assumed it was because I was born with unflattering features (I mean to others, I’ve always loved my face lol) but now I know I just need to find what works for me!
@@palestar828 their video ps also say to be yourself and find what makes YOU feel most stylish Or suits you best. None of the advice here is set in stone
This is very well made. Well done. My additional input is that hair, skin and eyebrows are the holy trinity of physical beauty. When those 3 things are on point, you're 90% there. Even in a simple jeans and t-shirt with no makeup you'd look clean and put together. The other 10% is in the details and adding your own style and personality to your final look.
I found this video to be ridiculous. There's no equation to being or feeling beautiful. This video is acting like it's some kind of secret code or equation. Lol. It's not that complicated
@@palestar828hat is life only from your point of view. You can just scroll on without needing to leave the same comment over and over. This channel clearly isn’t for you so why are you here, I wonder? I don’t watch stuff I’m not interested in and then leave negative comments about it. I have a life. Do you? Jeezus.
Thank you for being real when addressing body weight. No extreme is healthy and I'm tired of people acting like they can be. Sometimes you have to let go of what you might personally think is "fine" if you want to become your best self.
Yes exactly. People are free to do whatever they want with their body, but literal obesity is not healthy at all and when someone points that out people accuse them of “fat-shaming” and justify it as “different body type/genetics”.
Yes of course there's a point where your weight is unhealthy or even harmful. And so it's hard be confident or feel comfortable in that body. Loosing weight and keeping it off can help in those cases. But there are a lot people who can never be skinny or even average weight. Cause of many chronic reasons. Something to consider. If that's the case,then after regular exercise and a nutritious diet that u can afford,the rest is not your responsibility. Leading a healthy life and being comfortable in ur body really helps with your general beauty. Of course to understand your own dietary needs,what kind of activity or exercise interests you etc of this can take different amount of time for different people. So it's ok to feel down sometimes. You're gonna get back up and try again.
@@sakuranovaryan9261 Speaking of beauty, it is possible to perceive, regardless of body type, if the person is thinner or fatter for health or not. Even a person with a chubbier body type, but who keeps their health, is extremely attractive, because you can see the health, confidence and self-care that the exercises provide.
@@sakuranovaryan9261 I’ve always been insecure due to my weight. Been skinny all my life and I’m mostly underweight. I really want to gain weight even if it’s just muscles but my metabolism is fast due to hyperthyroidism. The people who kept asking me if I’m anorexic or have ed pisses me off cuz despite my thyroid problem I’m healthier compared to them, just need to add some kilos lol.
@𓄹 🌷 𝓘𝓼𝓪 𓏲 Unpopular opinion: what men find attractive is the gauge for a healthy body weight for women. Men are literally hard wired to find healthy women the most attractive, which is why most men do not find obese, overweight, or extremely skinny women attractive. Important note, most men also do not find very muscular women attractive because they do not have enough body fat to have a successful pregnancy (a lot of really athletic women don't even get their periods which supports this idea). Extremely skinny women also often have the same problem. I know many women love to hate men and everything they do and think, but this is literally an inescapable fact of nature. You'll be a lot happier if you can accept this and get yourself to a healthy place.
About the posture Ballet helps a LOT. I did ballet a lot when I was a kid, and my posture is now naturally pretty good. And from what I have seen from others, people who did ballet almost all share that trait. I'm sure there are other options but yeah, just saying it in case someone would be interessed!
Their shouldnt be an exact blueprint i think cuz we would just hold each other to unrealistically high standards and and the competition wouldnt be healthy.
@@fiftyzanes beauty isnt a competition. I think they mean and you mean, everyone deserves to feel attractive. Everyone is different and based on an upbringing that isnt diluted with celebrities, advertisements, and unrealistic media, people would be attracted to more realistic features.
@@spacebar9733 I totally agree with you! Everyone deserves to feel beautiful regardless of societal standards. I’m just saying that they do exist & affect how other people perceive us (which doesn’t necessarily have to affect our self-perception, or be a bad thing) :)
i love how this channel breaks down the topic into parts that are easy to understand and follow, even for something subjective like beauty. beauty starts from the inside out.
This is true. Healthy body and skin, nice outfit that suits your body and fitting hairstyle and haircolor can change a lot, even if you are not born to be goddess. And often at least one of them is easy to achieve so don't beat yourself up about not being perfect and start to work on it instead 😉
I was planning to improve myself starting from health and this video covered things I had in my head, thanks a lot 💖 and everyone take care and love yourself 🤗😊...
I can’t lie, this has boosted my perception of self image so much. Yesterday night I watched 3/4 of this video and got up feeling that I look amazing. I’m paying attention t my posture more (even tho my mum reminds me herself 😂) and have realised how I want to be. The posture part now is most important. I don’t know how to explain but it has improved my confidence
this is a very weird thing that i did once but should do it more often and it helped me with confidence: so i was sitting in front of a mirror and i completely relaxed myself as i stared into the girl who's looking back at me in the mirror. i kept trying to convince myself that it's not me and it's a different person. when it finally happened and my brain registered it i thought "wow she's so pretty" and when i realized what i thought i smiled... it was the first time that i ever called myself pretty... highly recommend trying this
Omg this helped me so much with my beaty anxiety, I am soooo insecure about my face like the details (the one which can barely be seen) but never thought that not everybody can see it ,they have to be like 6 cms close to see it LOL
@@eevee.-. true beauty is heavily exaggerated. You don't get a life like that just by being pretty. Im Ju Gyeong also has a good personality! So I decided that I will try to be a better person too!
@@katgreer6113 yes same ! i have only read a few chapters but yeah i know that i won’t become like a 10/10 but i think it will help. and also i agree personality is important too but i haven’t read enough to see jugyeongs personality ^-^
@@eevee.-. i read over 200 and tbh jugyeong has no character development whatsoever and she only cares about hiding her real face bc she’s afraid of losing her clout likeeee🤨🤨
The community built in this comment section is fr, girls supporting girls. The way, every girl is sharing incidents that happened with her and others giving hacks is so lovely. I really say enough of how encouraged i feel to embrace myself and everything about me. Luv you girlies❤❤❤
throughout my life i always felt ugly even as a child, and was constantly reminded of it. up until i started focusing on my mental health and carefully analyzing my own features and manipulating them in a way that flattered me. ever since ive felt comfortable in my body and have received compliments from others just because i took time to heal mentally and build confidence.
I can't describe in words how much this channel is helping me with my sudden glow up journey. I'll recommend y'all to anyone who asks me about glowing up. I'll never gatekeep such decent and self-LOVING channel. I love y'all damn ❤️❤️❤️❤️
4:18 || omg thaaank you for making this point; I’ve always been insecure about yearbook photos or airport photos, even though I find myself pretty irl! That’s why I like taking motion photos instead of normal photos ♡
Thank you for the video! This channel has the best beauty tips on youtube. I'd add that while we can all see people with certain features are beautiful, attractiveness is subjective and this is the part of beauty we can influence the most. It's basically the vibe you're giving. I can see all idols are pretty but only a few of them are attractive to me. There are idols who don't fit my 'type' but because of how they present themselves, my eyes are automatically drawn to them. Even if my 1st reaction is 'not my type', my 2nd reaction is 'attractive' because this person makes me look at them. Generally, people are attracted to confidence and it's true in my case, even if a person is not my type, if they're confident and feel great in their skin, I'll find them fascinating and attractive. Face proportions are great for 1st impression but you need more than that to keep the attention on you for longer than a few minutes. After all, who sits with a measuring tape and checks the bone structure while talking to others? So guys, listen to dear peachie tips, find what works for you and don't be scared to show who you are. If you love yourself, others will find you loveable. If you present yourself as attractive, others won't question it. Good luck!
I honestly was skeptical and thought this would be like the other click-baiting vidoes and you'd talk about the typical message of "self acceptance" without giving actual advice. I'm so pleasantly surprised by the level of care and love put into this. Thank you so so much for your efforts 🙏❤️
@@Cheesey.eesey12 no omg for now ive found my style (acubi + streetwear) im mid way thru losing weight and still nothing on correcting posture but im not on level 0 rn im happy abt that
I agree 1000%. I’ve invested quite a bit in a personal stylist and image consultant, professional make up artists and dermatologist, all to get advice on my own personal glow up and I can tell you….first things first! If your skin is not great, focus on fixing that first and bit by bit you’ll arrive at a look you’ll really like. It’s a journey. Also, it never ends so learn to enjoy the journey it’s a bit part of the process. It’s fun!
I really feel so good to have subscribed this channel. This channel, literally gives u true knowledge and exposes u to the world of practicality and science. Rather than simply ending the convo with " everybody is beautiful in their own ways" or " beauty doesn't matter", like bro, pretty privilege ain't no cap. Thank u so much, for not sugarcoating things and understanding is in scientific ways❤❤❤
The suggestion about posture is spot on. I lacked self confidence before so no matter what i wear, i feel ugly so my posture is bad but once I've become less hard on myself by fixing my posture, people notice i've looked more confident.
Thank you so much! I felt ugly today, and I said it out loud and felt better. After validating my feelings, I began on thinking how I could fix that and it’s as if you knew all along!✨ Started the video out with negative thoughts and ended it with positive ones. Your videos always improve my mindset of myself!💖
Never have I been called ugly but I know I still have flaws. I don't have acne but I have tons of black heads and large pores, so I'm going to improve that, my posture, my attitude and hopefully get to a healthier body weight.
Posture is a struggle if you have scoliosis like me. I’d take a straight spine over a nose/boob job any day 😂 but exercising a lot more since getting a dog has still had a positive impact on my health :)
I also have scoliosis! I went to a special kind of physical therapy for it. It's called the Schroth method. It actually reduces the curvatures and rotations, or at the very least stops it from getting worse. I was having breathing problems but now my lung capacity has increased, and I have great posture (despite my curvature not going down) I get compliments on my posture even! (I got asked if I was in the military lol) If you can afford it I'd really recommend seeing a physical therapist who specializes in it. It seriously changed my life.
@@eveandaedrul hey - i’ve actually looked into this before! There is a clinic that specializes in it where i live. I don’t think my benefits will pay as I think I maxed by physio coverage for the year… but I’m seriously considering just paying. I haven’t had x-rays for a few years (mild curves) and regular exercise/stretches were fine for managing pain before… but not anymore. I’m happy to hear the treatment worked so well for you!
I love your videos! You tell us the reality of how beauty I'd manipulated to make us all insecure in every video you have made. You also help find what is unique to each person and help them improve in a healthy way. Thank you for they thought you have put in to your videos! ❤
Im soooo glad that i found this video. I have been searching years and years for a video like this to make a blueprint on the things i need to improve. All the other videos are just either the "glow ups" in which people just wear nicer clothes and do better makeup. And i also liked the fact that this video promoted health more than anything, and tells a person what makes them look attractive. I also liked the fact that it told that beauty is the power to attract other people (as a first impression ofc). An amazing video, thanks alot!
OMG this explained why I'm photogenic 😂 I always get compliments on my bone structure and face structure which makes me better in images. Some people even get shocked when they click pics with me and tell me that I look beautiful in photos 💀💀 😭 But I have bad posture and bad hair irl so I guess that's why I don't look that good IRL 🤣 Edit: I found the reason why I'm considered "photogenic". It's because I have conventionally attractive features but I have dark skin. In a country where light-fair skin is preferred (India) I am not considered attractive in motion/real life. But since I have good features- eyes, small nose, v line jaw. I photograph well. 🙂
I'm the opposite. I get compliments in real life and im constantly told im beautiful but I don't see it and look trash in photos. It's made me so insecure I haven't taken a photo of myself in 3 years and don't use social media. It's sad because in today's society we often meet each other online first...i find it hard to get dates.
@@bunniewood Same I hate taking photos too… Everyone says I look way better in real life than in pictures, and I agree because I’m just not photogenic at all 😭😭
@@bunniewood honestly, looking much more beautiful irl is better. it makes ppl surprised to see your visuals in person rather than being disappointed if you look better in photos.
@@bunniewood girl I'd choose looking good IRL more. Although yeah you'll have to compensate by going outside more or have hobbies for your dating life. I don't have a problem with online dating and get asked out a lot on insta but I always feel nervous because I look better in pictures 😅
U were so right regarding all that u've said from 10:33 to 11:10! So glad someone has finally spoken abt it bec super skinny and being over-weight are being promoted so much today in the name of body positivity and self love when it's actually not🙃
This video made me feel so confident! I noticed that a lot of these beautiful celebrities/people have features very similar to mine. They are just more healthier + have an amazing style. All I need to do is to take better care of myself and I’ll look drop dead gorgeous! I hope when I’m older, I’ll be beautiful inside and out.
There is also something that can help with the skin! (It was for me atleast so it can be different for everybody!!!) I used to check my skin everyday in the mirror, and because of that I stressed alot about it. After I stopped doing that it got a bit better day by day. Like I said it helped for me.. it can be different for everyone but what I wanted to say is that you shouldn't stress about how your skin looks like! Take the time you need to get to know it better. For me, it took about a year to actually get to the point where I am now. So just take your time and love yourself because everyone is beautiful!! (Also.. sorry if there are any mistakes, English is not my first language ^^')
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I've been wondering why I don't look good in (unedited) pictures. But people always say that I look great irl! After watching this video, I feel better after knowing that I belong to 'dynamic beauty' just like Seulgi!
Sometimes it’s really weird when you grew up where your look isn’t considered anywhere near the beauty standard and then you may change places and realize you’re sought after, people treat you differently and you don’t know what to do with yourself. Beauty is an investment. If you consider it worth it is completely up to you. I don’t want to judge anyone who doesn’t make it. For me I feel as I’m disabled it literally changes my life if people find me beautiful or not. I like that this channel is basically cracking the code and presents us with the cold hard facts. It’s not magic or good genetics, it’s skill and knowledge and luck.
Also taking care urself not only does it make you more beautiful, but its good for your mental health! I loved this video, infomative, helpful, and also very true! It also doesn’t bring anyone down thank u!
Daily affirmations have helped me become the confident baddie I am today. Literally every morning in front of the mirror, saying nice words and affirmations towards to yourself: eventually it clicks to you and you realize tht you are beautiful and awesome!
This video is amazing. This is literally the first time I've seen an explanation of why some people (like myself) look good on real life but not in pictures that actually makes sense, so thank you for that
This channel is so beautiful and informative....like it brings to attention the little points and details that no one really talks about but which make a massive difference...i have learnt soooo much from this channel and I feel so grateful....Thank you for the knowledge u share from the bottom of my heart. Hope you enjoy abundant joy in life.
Currently on a glow up journey and weight loss is a big one for me. I need to lose over 100lbs. Next is skin which I think overtime would start to improve while I'm improving my diet and when I start to workout more.
skincare that 100% works: - cleanser (if u have acne, i reccomed panoxyl but if that's not in ur country, use any cleanser with benzoyl peroxide) - retinol/retinoid product (i recommend differin bc it's affordable and strong, it literally blurred my pores) - moisturizer - sunscreen (do NOT forget sunscreen bc using retinol without sunscreen will damage your skin) - and when you're not using a retinol product, use an exfoliater with bha or aha (i personally use peach slices exfoliating toner)
I think something that helps with posture is stretching often, I followed this one routine to grown taller for a while and I noticed it also helped a lot to fix my posture
Thank you, dear peachie, for quality content. I really enjoy your videos. My glow up plan includes now excersice to tone up my body and help my posture (to strenghten my back muscles, tone up my thighs, do yoga), started belly dancing to wake up my femininity, found myself couple of signature make ups. Also want to arrange my wardrobe, throw away garments that dont fit me in color or design (dont fit my body shape). Buy few good garments. Also want to really take care of my hair, its completely dull after all the color duying. The one thing i struggle is to get more beauty sleep))
Ahhh I can't wait for the video about posture. I've slowly been trying to get rid of my bad posture but the habit keeps coming back sometimes so I hope it will help me out 🥺
Attractiveness can come from many things and all of these but one is in your control - hygiene - posture - style - confidence - manners - articulateness - genes
I FINALLY clicked on this video after a long time seeing it in my recommended list and I also started step 1 of my glow up plan: Removing all financial obstacles that stood in my way to finally start investing in myself properly. ❤ I'm already exercising and I'm slowly improving my diet. I already know that I'll slay 2023 💖
thanks for this guide! i started working on better sleeping habits and drinking more water that my skin has improved! hehe now i just need to start going to the gym and work on my posture c: this vid gave me hope lol ty
This video is the ONLY beneficial glow up video I’ve seen on RUclips as provides scientific information and actual tips other than : drink water , be confident , be clean etc,
as a former athlete from a strict all-girls school, i can skip the most bottom part of the glow up pyramid. having good posture was something that was written in our school rule book and we have always made it a habit for 5 years in high school. i have also slowly started learning how to do makeup well according to what suits me since 2 years ago. so my concern is only the styling part because we go to school in uniform, and i also don't usually go out from my house so i rarely buy any clothes 😭
heyy ik this reply is late but theres a few things you can use to make your outfits match and balance out. rule of 12 a plain white T-shirt= 1 Plain corset top= 2/3 corset top with accents on it= 4/5 so the more thats going on with a piece of clothing the higher points it gets (this applies to all the clothes, shoes and accessories that go into an outfit) and the goal is to add it all up so it equals to around 12 (give or take a few) so for example white cropped baby tee=2 lowrise flare jeans=3 white air force ones=2 clothes=7 accessories=5 so you could put on a simple gold bracelet=1 hoop earring's=2 a ring=1 and a simple claw clip=1 bam simple outfit that adds up to 12 nicely balanced. but you can do that with any outfit (the 12 rule isnt a be all end all bc some things are meant to be dressed up more to for events but its a good base line for making outfits) 🫶
God that first bit about dynamic beauty really blew my mind.... Ive always felt super cute seeing myself in mirrors but not as cute in photos and what you said makes perfect sense!!
Thank you very much for this video dear peachie. It motivates me to wear my posture corrector. I always spend my money buying makeups, clothes, and accessories. Thank you very much for the blueprint.
This video is very useful for me as a teenager who badly wants to glow up. I always try to glow up but i can't see any results and now i found out that I am only focusing on my style and details.This made me realize to do it step by step and it will take time for me to glow up.Thank you for making this kind of videos.I will stay tuned for more of your upcoming videos.
Self love is such a difficult tasking journey. You hit rock bottom and have to build yourself back up unlearning bullying from others and the bullying you did to yourself comparing every little things to models etc. But just know the more you fight the more you work you will be the happiest you’ve ever been.
Yes, we must heal from the past, change our thoughts and start building, step by step, our self-esteem and life. It's a long journey, but it's worth it.
this video is sooo right. thanks dear peachie! you guys make me feel better about myself! now i understand why my proportions always feel a little too strained in pictures. i hope i look better irl :)
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Posture and body language is sooo important in appearing attractive. Even with a good outfit
also being true to the fact that many get minor or major PS surgeries and skin whitening.
@@_linlin_ yeah she said that in the video
Yes
@@_linlin_ OMG WE HAVE THE SAME NAME ITS SO RARE TO FIND PPL CALLED ELINA THESE DAYS LMFAO
me with my bad posture: ha ha ha
I was bullied in elementary and high school and I always lacked self esteem.I considered myself ugly and I tried very hard to look beautiful by buying a lot of makeup, skincare and haircare products.Of course a lot of people told me I was beautiful but I didn't believed them, not because I didn't want or that I craved attention, but simply because my brain was wired to think that I was ugly due to the bullying.Also, seeing a lot of photoshopped models and women in social media didn't help at all.
So let me tell you how I kinda get over it:I realized that a lot of people are too busy to care or to judge you.You think your nose is too big/crooked/small?I guarantee that you are mostly the one that thinks that way and a lot of people simply don't care or don't notice unless you point it out.Same goes for everything else.Oh, and another thing that helped me:just sit and think for a moment:"when was the last time I saw someone with ugly hair/face/body?2 days ago?one week ago?and did I truly care?did my mental opinion affect that person in any way?".And after you say that either out loud or in your mind, you'll start to realize that this is how most people think about you.
thanks for telling about yourself, this really help to improve my vision and self love❤
You're right, people don't care. But also, everybody's perception of beauty is different. It's true there are always some popular opinions about what beauty is but in the end it doesn't mean it's everybody's opinion. And don't forget that people we are trying to "please" by our look are also imperfect. We are imperfect yet people still fall in love with each other. ❤️
@Trinity M you reminded me of simple quote: a flower doesn't think about how to bloom the right way or whether flowers around are more beautiful, it just blooms the best way it can. 🙂
Yeah i try to believe that but people are really obsessed with me and it makes me really anxious. I've literally heard groups of people sat together bonding for hours over making fun or mocking me and discussing me in general. partly makes me feel like a celeb but also upset some cus I stand out. I sometimes wish ppl didn't think about me but my energy is so intense that they always do and it makes me want to hide away. I hate it.
@@dw9524 do they talk about your looks or your personality?
Girls, just sharing a few hacks that have changed my life:
1. High-waisted skirts - they are flattering for any body type, suitable for anywhere anytime (weekends/office/party/school). High-waisted skirts, shorts or jeans are basically all I wear now, and they always make my short legs look longer than they are (lol).
2. Apply loose powder after foundation - helps makeup stay on 1.5 times longer, a godsend for oily skin, less makeup smearing off under your mask.
3. Preventing eyeliner from smearing on eyelids - apply a thin layer of light nude eyeshadow/powder over your lids as a base, before you apply your eye makeup.
4. Start moisturising, using eye creams, and sunscreen, once you start working in your early 20s - many people have commented I still look really young (not bragging)
brag all u want you slayyed
DISAGREE WITH THE FIRST ONE, high-waited pants and skirts look really unflattering on my body shape so experiment with both styles and see which you like better everyone !!
@@geetika6540 same, I didn't particularly like jeans before but after trying low rise pants I am in loveee, they are so cute and imo they feel flattering too me, too bad I can't bend down or I feel my panties might show BUT they are cute! especially if they are bootcut! such a flattering shape, I suddenly love jeans and I never thought I would. And for the record my tummy isn't even flat rn, but you don't even need to pair them up with a crop top, just a tight top will do and it shows off your waist and hips. But ofc it totally depends on your body shape and proportions.
Totally agree with geetika and loon, even as a fellow high waister. Love the way high-waisted bottoms make me look taller and slimmer while emphasizing my curves BUT this only works because *they match my actual waistline.* (Midrise bottoms emphasize the chub below my waist while lowrise bottoms clash with my blouson tops/emphasizes my lack of boobage.)
We don't start looking old until we hit 45. I'm 29 and still look similar to my teenage years, just a bit prettier. (Not to sound self-absorbed, but it's true. Aging gave me cheekbones.)
back when i was younger, I WAS SUPER INSECURE
i worked out, invested in skincare, embraced my flaws and BEST FEATURES (these days i always flex my eyes, dimples, and round face), and found my ideal wardrobe. i do admit the admirations, compliments, and change in treatment gave me an ego boost. however, the shy and insecure little girl in me is still inside. i'm still working on loving myself and continue doing so.
Although I don't know you personally I'm very proud of you!
You did what you think was best for you at the time and achieved a good result. Now invest in your mental health and treat your inner child. Heal yourself and you'll be unstoppable!
Nothing's better than a radiant person ❤️
Enjoy the journey, go easy on yourself you're doing the best you can with your current circumstances ❤️
Stay hydrated, stay lovely, stay safe ❤️
Sending you a lot of good vibes! You're already on your way to feel confident in your skin, that's amazing!
seeing you say you flex your round face is so nice, i'm so insecure about my round face but maybe i could learn to make it a flex too :))
@@astrolatte_ yes!!! i wish u a lot of good vibes too ❤
@@dochka our round face makes us look like cute dumplings!! u gotta flex it, sweetie ❤
Another thing most people don't realize is that celebrities have almost ALL of their clothes tailored to fit them just right, even the baggy ones. I think it's a valuable skill to learn how to tailor your own clothes and it's relatively easy as well. If you're really good at it, you might even be able to make your own clothes, which is even better because it'll be the exact color, shape, size, material and style you want it to be :)
For me it's really hard to choose my own clothes and make them look good and flattering together. Do you have any tips?
@@niahkasia1919 honestly, learning color theory helps a lot from my experience
color coordination saved my life
I love this channel for being so practical with the advice, without being discouraging or telling people they NEED to change to be beautiful. You've achieved a really wonderful balance between results-oriented tips, without forgetting that there is a human being out there behind the analysis. Thanks for the great content
i was seeing that throughout the video she chooses the words really well!!!
for real!! dear peachie always gives multiple make up tips for different feature of face. the vibe is always "if you have this feature, this is how to look more attractive." with an actual tips (not only talking abt confidence, self love and encouragement stuffs).
I found this video ridiculous
@@palestar828 Why? Personally, I think that this video is the one of rares videos who really help the people who are insecure or where lose confidence. But is still your opinion so I respect it.
I have never seen anyone speak about dynamic beauty and wow that shifted my whole perspective. I have always believed myself to be beautiful, perhaps in a more unique way, but I never felt like photos did me much justice haha. It is always a good reminder that real life you is the more beautiful version, and one we can't always see for ourselves.
same! ppl always told me im attractive but in pictures i look like a monster. i figured i must just be a weirdo who looks good in motion but not when flattened out by photography. now i have a name for it and i know it happens to a lot of ppl and i feel a lot better about it.
I'm more beautiful in videos, which is why I only post those haha. And if I did post a pic, I screenshotted it from a video
I’ve always found Seulgi stunning. Something about her just draws my eye. I think it goes to show that uniqueness can be just as much of a draw as perfect ratios.
She is very beautiful it's not only you
I've always thought she was the most striking in the group. Can't wait for her solo!!!!! It's on the 4th of this month! Aaaaaa
@@eveandaedrul it was so good 😭💕
fr god, my eyes were first drawn to seulgi before anyone else and i was surprised to find out that she wasn't a visual... though i will admit Irene is absolutely gorgeous
I KNOW RIGHTTT
I always wondered why my friends looked “better” than me, but now I know. One of them has the perfect golden ratio face, one has an extraordinary talent for makeup and uses it to accentuate her doe eyes, and the other wears clothes that reflect her personality and temperament. I always assumed it was because I was born with unflattering features (I mean to others, I’ve always loved my face lol) but now I know I just need to find what works for me!
yes girl!!!!
😹😹
HOW ABOUT JUST BE YOURSELF? This video is ridiculous. There's no rules to it
@@palestar828
that’s- that’s what i said 🧍♀️
@@palestar828 their video ps also say to be yourself and find what makes YOU feel most stylish
Or suits you best. None of the advice here is set in stone
I've never seen anyone explain the concept of being non-photogenic so accurately, this is so validating
This is very well made. Well done. My additional input is that hair, skin and eyebrows are the holy trinity of physical beauty. When those 3 things are on point, you're 90% there. Even in a simple jeans and t-shirt with no makeup you'd look clean and put together. The other 10% is in the details and adding your own style and personality to your final look.
I found this video to be ridiculous. There's no equation to being or feeling beautiful. This video is acting like it's some kind of secret code or equation. Lol. It's not that complicated
@@palestar828hat is life only from your point of view. You can just scroll on without needing to leave the same comment over and over. This channel clearly isn’t for you so why are you here, I wonder? I don’t watch stuff I’m not interested in and then leave negative comments about it. I have a life. Do you? Jeezus.
@@angelroseglow exactly! If you don’t like it, leave. its not hurting anybody.
Thank you for being real when addressing body weight. No extreme is healthy and I'm tired of people acting like they can be. Sometimes you have to let go of what you might personally think is "fine" if you want to become your best self.
Yes exactly. People are free to do whatever they want with their body, but literal obesity is not healthy at all and when someone points that out people accuse them of “fat-shaming” and justify it as “different body type/genetics”.
Yes of course there's a point where your weight is unhealthy or even harmful. And so it's hard be confident or feel comfortable in that body. Loosing weight and keeping it off can help in those cases. But there are a lot people who can never be skinny or even average weight. Cause of many chronic reasons. Something to consider. If that's the case,then after regular exercise and a nutritious diet that u can afford,the rest is not your responsibility. Leading a healthy life and being comfortable in ur body really helps with your general beauty. Of course to understand your own dietary needs,what kind of activity or exercise interests you etc of this can take different amount of time for different people. So it's ok to feel down sometimes. You're gonna get back up and try again.
@@sakuranovaryan9261
Speaking of beauty, it is possible to perceive, regardless of body type, if the person is thinner or fatter for health or not.
Even a person with a chubbier body type, but who keeps their health, is extremely attractive, because you can see the health, confidence and self-care that the exercises provide.
@@sakuranovaryan9261 I’ve always been insecure due to my weight. Been skinny all my life and I’m mostly underweight. I really want to gain weight even if it’s just muscles but my metabolism is fast due to hyperthyroidism. The people who kept asking me if I’m anorexic or have ed pisses me off cuz despite my thyroid problem I’m healthier compared to them, just need to add some kilos lol.
@𓄹 🌷 𝓘𝓼𝓪 𓏲 Unpopular opinion: what men find attractive is the gauge for a healthy body weight for women. Men are literally hard wired to find healthy women the most attractive, which is why most men do not find obese, overweight, or extremely skinny women attractive. Important note, most men also do not find very muscular women attractive because they do not have enough body fat to have a successful pregnancy (a lot of really athletic women don't even get their periods which supports this idea). Extremely skinny women also often have the same problem.
I know many women love to hate men and everything they do and think, but this is literally an inescapable fact of nature. You'll be a lot happier if you can accept this and get yourself to a healthy place.
About the posture
Ballet helps a LOT. I did ballet a lot when I was a kid, and my posture is now naturally pretty good. And from what I have seen from others, people who did ballet almost all share that trait.
I'm sure there are other options but yeah, just saying it in case someone would be interessed!
I'm currently starting ballet at home so I hope it works!💕
@@lilliesinthegard32 good luck to you !!! ♡♡♡
@@lilliesinthegard32 wow people can do ballet at home? I didn't know that
Yes also kazuha from lesserafim she did ballet and she has such a great posture 😍
I'm 20. Can I still do ballet?
I would not gatekeep such revolutionary knowledge. Everyone deserves to be pretty 💕
Theoretically that makes sense, but if everyone was beautiful, beauty wouldn’t exist.
Their shouldnt be an exact blueprint i think cuz we would just hold each other to unrealistically high standards and and the competition wouldnt be healthy.
@@fiftyzanes that's a good thing. Beauty shouldn't exist, only attraction should.
@@fiftyzanes beauty isnt a competition. I think they mean and you mean, everyone deserves to feel attractive. Everyone is different and based on an upbringing that isnt diluted with celebrities, advertisements, and unrealistic media, people would be attracted to more realistic features.
@@spacebar9733 I totally agree with you! Everyone deserves to feel beautiful regardless of societal standards. I’m just saying that they do exist & affect how other people perceive us (which doesn’t necessarily have to affect our self-perception, or be a bad thing) :)
i love how this channel breaks down the topic into parts that are easy to understand and follow, even for something subjective like beauty. beauty starts from the inside out.
Glow up
- health (skincare , healthy diet workout, posture, quality sleep, drink water)
- structure (face shape wise hairstyles, healthy hair, body ratio)
- style
- confident body language
This is true. Healthy body and skin, nice outfit that suits your body and fitting hairstyle and haircolor can change a lot, even if you are not born to be goddess. And often at least one of them is easy to achieve so don't beat yourself up about not being perfect and start to work on it instead 😉
losing weight is definitely one of my confidence booster! understanding how my body works, eating better, and being active really does wonders!
Absolutely!!
this is the best beauty channel
I was planning to improve myself starting from health and this video covered things I had in my head, thanks a lot 💖 and everyone take care and love yourself 🤗😊...
I can’t lie, this has boosted my perception of self image so much. Yesterday night I watched 3/4 of this video and got up feeling that I look amazing. I’m paying attention t my posture more (even tho my mum reminds me herself 😂) and have realised how I want to be. The posture part now is most important. I don’t know how to explain but it has improved my confidence
LMAO my mum does the same girl😂, but since i watched this >>amazing
omg! blueprint like this is a god-sent 🙌 helps to look at "beauty" in a different view. thank u
this is a very weird thing that i did once but should do it more often and it helped me with confidence:
so i was sitting in front of a mirror and i completely relaxed myself as i stared into the girl who's looking back at me in the mirror. i kept trying to convince myself that it's not me and it's a different person. when it finally happened and my brain registered it i thought "wow she's so pretty" and when i realized what i thought i smiled... it was the first time that i ever called myself pretty... highly recommend trying this
Omg this helped me so much with my beaty anxiety, I am soooo insecure about my face like the details (the one which can barely be seen) but never thought that not everybody can see it ,they have to be like 6 cms close to see it LOL
I watched true beauty and decided pretty privilege would be a valuable asset , now I’m here , great channel
It's true.
exactly the same as me lol, i was reading true beauty on webtoon and decided i wanted that life too
@@eevee.-. true beauty is heavily exaggerated. You don't get a life like that just by being pretty.
Im Ju Gyeong also has a good personality! So I decided that I will try to be a better person too!
@@katgreer6113 yes same ! i have only read a few chapters but yeah i know that i won’t become like a 10/10 but i think it will help. and also i agree personality is important too but i haven’t read enough to see jugyeongs personality ^-^
@@eevee.-. i read over 200 and tbh jugyeong has no character development whatsoever and she only cares about hiding her real face bc she’s afraid of losing her clout likeeee🤨🤨
The community built in this comment section is fr, girls supporting girls. The way, every girl is sharing incidents that happened with her and others giving hacks is so lovely. I really say enough of how encouraged i feel to embrace myself and everything about me. Luv you girlies❤❤❤
throughout my life i always felt ugly even as a child, and was constantly reminded of it. up until i started focusing on my mental health and carefully analyzing my own features and manipulating them in a way that flattered me. ever since ive felt comfortable in my body and have received compliments from others just because i took time to heal mentally and build confidence.
Exactly 💯, I totally agree with you ❤🎉
I can't describe in words how much this channel is helping me with my sudden glow up journey. I'll recommend y'all to anyone who asks me about glowing up. I'll never gatekeep such decent and self-LOVING channel. I love y'all damn ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I appreciate the straightforwardness about how obesity should not be celebrated. It is not healthy.
4:18 || omg thaaank you for making this point; I’ve always been insecure about yearbook photos or airport photos, even though I find myself pretty irl! That’s why I like taking motion photos instead of normal photos ♡
majority of kpop idols just had surgery tbh
And Woonyoung needed none
@@armyshope she did have minor surgery tho
@@elixir8165 well then
@@armyshope she did actually get some surgery, but there's nothing wrong with that lol
@@rue345 but she didn't need it she was already beautiful
Thank you for the video! This channel has the best beauty tips on youtube. I'd add that while we can all see people with certain features are beautiful, attractiveness is subjective and this is the part of beauty we can influence the most. It's basically the vibe you're giving. I can see all idols are pretty but only a few of them are attractive to me. There are idols who don't fit my 'type' but because of how they present themselves, my eyes are automatically drawn to them. Even if my 1st reaction is 'not my type', my 2nd reaction is 'attractive' because this person makes me look at them. Generally, people are attracted to confidence and it's true in my case, even if a person is not my type, if they're confident and feel great in their skin, I'll find them fascinating and attractive. Face proportions are great for 1st impression but you need more than that to keep the attention on you for longer than a few minutes. After all, who sits with a measuring tape and checks the bone structure while talking to others? So guys, listen to dear peachie tips, find what works for you and don't be scared to show who you are. If you love yourself, others will find you loveable. If you present yourself as attractive, others won't question it. Good luck!
I honestly was skeptical and thought this would be like the other click-baiting vidoes and you'd talk about the typical message of "self acceptance" without giving actual advice.
I'm so pleasantly surprised by the level of care and love put into this. Thank you so so much for your efforts 🙏❤️
things i need to work on:
losing weight
correcting my posture
finding my right style
Did you do it dude?
@@Cheesey.eesey12 i found the best style for me its acubi mixed with street wear, im still working on my weightloss and posture simultaneously ^_^
any update?
@@Cheesey.eesey12 no omg for now ive found my style (acubi + streetwear) im mid way thru losing weight and still nothing on correcting posture but im not on level 0 rn im happy abt that
@@cupcake-bf9mp yess ive managed to find my style which is acubi but have to work on losing weight and posture!!
I agree 1000%. I’ve invested quite a bit in a personal stylist and image consultant, professional make up artists and dermatologist, all to get advice on my own personal glow up and I can tell you….first things first! If your skin is not great, focus on fixing that first and bit by bit you’ll arrive at a look you’ll really like. It’s a journey. Also, it never ends so learn to enjoy the journey it’s a bit part of the process. It’s fun!
I really feel so good to have subscribed this channel. This channel, literally gives u true knowledge and exposes u to the world of practicality and science. Rather than simply ending the convo with " everybody is beautiful in their own ways" or " beauty doesn't matter", like bro, pretty privilege ain't no cap.
Thank u so much, for not sugarcoating things and understanding is in scientific ways❤❤❤
The suggestion about posture is spot on. I lacked self confidence before so no matter what i wear, i feel ugly so my posture is bad but once I've become less hard on myself by fixing my posture, people notice i've looked more confident.
Litreally the only video where the INTRO is actually usefull and not required to skip
Thank you so much! I felt ugly today, and I said it out loud and felt better. After validating my feelings, I began on thinking how I could fix that and it’s as if you knew all along!✨
Started the video out with negative thoughts and ended it with positive ones. Your videos always improve my mindset of myself!💖
Never have I been called ugly but I know I still have flaws. I don't have acne but I have tons of black heads and large pores, so I'm going to improve that, my posture, my attitude and hopefully get to a healthier body weight.
Posture is a struggle if you have scoliosis like me. I’d take a straight spine over a nose/boob job any day 😂 but exercising a lot more since getting a dog has still had a positive impact on my health :)
I also have scoliosis! I went to a special kind of physical therapy for it. It's called the Schroth method. It actually reduces the curvatures and rotations, or at the very least stops it from getting worse. I was having breathing problems but now my lung capacity has increased, and I have great posture (despite my curvature not going down) I get compliments on my posture even! (I got asked if I was in the military lol)
If you can afford it I'd really recommend seeing a physical therapist who specializes in it. It seriously changed my life.
@@eveandaedrul may I ask how old are you when you took that therapy?
@@llyyyyy3414 I'm 24 and went to pt this year in April and May.
i had a spinal surgery for my scoliosis and now i have permanently good posture without having to do anything so its a win win situation here
@@eveandaedrul hey - i’ve actually looked into this before! There is a clinic that specializes in it where i live. I don’t think my benefits will pay as I think I maxed by physio coverage for the year… but I’m seriously considering just paying. I haven’t had x-rays for a few years (mild curves) and regular exercise/stretches were fine for managing pain before… but not anymore. I’m happy to hear the treatment worked so well for you!
I love your videos! You tell us the reality of how beauty I'd manipulated to make us all insecure in every video you have made. You also help find what is unique to each person and help them improve in a healthy way. Thank you for they thought you have put in to your videos! ❤
Im soooo glad that i found this video. I have been searching years and years for a video like this to make a blueprint on the things i need to improve. All the other videos are just either the "glow ups" in which people just wear nicer clothes and do better makeup. And i also liked the fact that this video promoted health more than anything, and tells a person what makes them look attractive. I also liked the fact that it told that beauty is the power to attract other people (as a first impression ofc). An amazing video, thanks alot!
OMG this explained why I'm photogenic 😂 I always get compliments on my bone structure and face structure which makes me better in images. Some people even get shocked when they click pics with me and tell me that I look beautiful in photos 💀💀 😭 But I have bad posture and bad hair irl so I guess that's why I don't look that good IRL 🤣
Edit: I found the reason why I'm considered "photogenic". It's because I have conventionally attractive features but I have dark skin. In a country where light-fair skin is preferred (India) I am not considered attractive in motion/real life. But since I have good features- eyes, small nose, v line jaw. I photograph well. 🙂
I'm the opposite. I get compliments in real life and im constantly told im beautiful but I don't see it and look trash in photos. It's made me so insecure I haven't taken a photo of myself in 3 years and don't use social media. It's sad because in today's society we often meet each other online first...i find it hard to get dates.
@@bunniewood Same I hate taking photos too… Everyone says I look way better in real life than in pictures, and I agree because I’m just not photogenic at all 😭😭
@@bunniewood honestly, looking much more beautiful irl is better. it makes ppl surprised to see your visuals in person rather than being disappointed if you look better in photos.
@@bunniewood girl I'd choose looking good IRL more. Although yeah you'll have to compensate by going outside more or have hobbies for your dating life. I don't have a problem with online dating and get asked out a lot on insta but I always feel nervous because I look better in pictures 😅
@@bunniewood same
This blueprint helps me build a better me and get myself back into dating.
At least you can find a partner which is perfect!
Dear peachy must be so stunning, she has a lot of knowedge about beauty and is willing to share it with us!! ❤️
Yup, most of these I already learned in high school and based on my experience they are actually really helpful.
U were so right regarding all that u've said from 10:33 to 11:10! So glad someone has finally spoken abt it bec super skinny and being over-weight are being promoted so much today in the name of body positivity and self love when it's actually not🙃
This video made me feel so confident!
I noticed that a lot of these beautiful celebrities/people have features very similar to mine. They are just more healthier + have an amazing style. All I need to do is to take better care of myself and I’ll look drop dead gorgeous!
I hope when I’m older, I’ll be beautiful inside and out.
Been wanting to “glow up” ever since finishing high school. I’ve been eating way better recently and trying to sleep earlier. One step at a time!
There is also something that can help with the skin! (It was for me atleast so it can be different for everybody!!!) I used to check my skin everyday in the mirror, and because of that I stressed alot about it. After I stopped doing that it got a bit better day by day. Like I said it helped for me.. it can be different for everyone but what I wanted to say is that you shouldn't stress about how your skin looks like! Take the time you need to get to know it better. For me, it took about a year to actually get to the point where I am now. So just take your time and love yourself because everyone is beautiful!! (Also.. sorry if there are any mistakes, English is not my first language ^^')
« Self love is keeping yourself healthy »
« Ignoring issues that are compromising your health isnt self love, its self neglect »
Love that. Hate the body positivity movement. Especially when its all about hatred towards healthy individuals.
I've been wondering why I don't look good in (unedited) pictures. But people always say that I look great irl! After watching this video, I feel better after knowing that I belong to 'dynamic beauty' just like Seulgi!
I need that video about posture! My whole life I been struggling with my posture and height, I'm so excited for that video! Thanks ♡
Sometimes it’s really weird when you grew up where your look isn’t considered anywhere near the beauty standard and then you may change places and realize you’re sought after, people treat you differently and you don’t know what to do with yourself.
Beauty is an investment. If you consider it worth it is completely up to you. I don’t want to judge anyone who doesn’t make it. For me I feel as I’m disabled it literally changes my life if people find me beautiful or not.
I like that this channel is basically cracking the code and presents us with the cold hard facts. It’s not magic or good genetics, it’s skill and knowledge and luck.
Mind-blowing as always
Also taking care urself not only does it make you more beautiful, but its good for your mental health! I loved this video, infomative, helpful, and also very true! It also doesn’t bring anyone down thank u!
Daily affirmations have helped me become the confident baddie I am today. Literally every morning in front of the mirror, saying nice words and affirmations towards to yourself: eventually it clicks to you and you realize tht you are beautiful and awesome!
I'm losing weight but I have such a long way to go. I get impatient because I feel like I can't glow up myself until I get to a certain weight
Peach gives good advice. Glow ups really do start from the inside, out!
Excited to see what's new yayyy
thank you peachyy! Love your vids, this literally just wraps all your videos of self improvement with a bow.
Love the beginning part about beauty not all being captured in photos!
thank you for the wonderful video! it was really informative. the positive outlook on transformation/glow up is exactly what i needed.
can i just take a quick moment to appreciate your analysis? your videos are so detailed with so much info just WOOOW
This officially became my comfort channel. The videos are so well done and interesting to watch.
This video is amazing. This is literally the first time I've seen an explanation of why some people (like myself) look good on real life but not in pictures that actually makes sense, so thank you for that
This channel is so beautiful and informative....like it brings to attention the little points and details that no one really talks about but which make a massive difference...i have learnt soooo much from this channel and I feel so grateful....Thank you for the knowledge u share from the bottom of my heart. Hope you enjoy abundant joy in life.
Currently on a glow up journey and weight loss is a big one for me. I need to lose over 100lbs. Next is skin which I think overtime would start to improve while I'm improving my diet and when I start to workout more.
skincare that 100% works:
- cleanser (if u have acne, i reccomed panoxyl but if that's not in ur country, use any cleanser with benzoyl peroxide)
- retinol/retinoid product (i recommend differin bc it's affordable and strong, it literally blurred my pores)
- moisturizer
- sunscreen (do NOT forget sunscreen bc using retinol without sunscreen will damage your skin)
- and when you're not using a retinol product, use an exfoliater with bha or aha
(i personally use peach slices exfoliating toner)
i have acne and post inflammatory erythema (PIE) i don’t know how to simultaneously treat them both
YESS new video yayy!!!! 😍❤
I think something that helps with posture is stretching often, I followed this one routine to grown taller for a while and I noticed it also helped a lot to fix my posture
Thank you, dear peachie, for quality content. I really enjoy your videos. My glow up plan includes now excersice to tone up my body and help my posture (to strenghten my back muscles, tone up my thighs, do yoga), started belly dancing to wake up my femininity, found myself couple of signature make ups. Also want to arrange my wardrobe, throw away garments that dont fit me in color or design (dont fit my body shape). Buy few good garments. Also want to really take care of my hair, its completely dull after all the color duying. The one thing i struggle is to get more beauty sleep))
Ahhh I can't wait for the video about posture. I've slowly been trying to get rid of my bad posture but the habit keeps coming back sometimes so I hope it will help me out 🥺
Attractiveness can come from many things and all of these but one is in your control
- hygiene
- posture
- style
- confidence
- manners
- articulateness
- genes
we need a video about the details and finding your style to complete the pyramid pls 🙌
I FINALLY clicked on this video after a long time seeing it in my recommended list and I also started step 1 of my glow up plan: Removing all financial obstacles that stood in my way to finally start investing in myself properly. ❤ I'm already exercising and I'm slowly improving my diet. I already know that I'll slay 2023 💖
thanks for this guide! i started working on better sleeping habits and drinking more water that my skin has improved! hehe now i just need to start going to the gym and work on my posture c: this vid gave me hope lol ty
we need this! write that down girls!
I love how you added subtitles and little captions in the video it's so helpful ❤️
Love that this channel isnt full of the 'everyone is beautiful, beauty is subjective' bs
This video is the ONLY beneficial glow up video I’ve seen on RUclips as provides scientific information and actual tips other than : drink water , be confident , be clean etc,
as a former athlete from a strict all-girls school, i can skip the most bottom part of the glow up pyramid. having good posture was something that was written in our school rule book and we have always made it a habit for 5 years in high school.
i have also slowly started learning how to do makeup well according to what suits me since 2 years ago. so my concern is only the styling part because we go to school in uniform, and i also don't usually go out from my house so i rarely buy any clothes 😭
heyy ik this reply is late but theres a few things you can use to make your outfits match and balance out.
rule of 12
a plain white T-shirt= 1
Plain corset top= 2/3
corset top with accents on it= 4/5
so the more thats going on with a piece of clothing the higher points it gets (this applies to all the clothes, shoes and accessories that go into an outfit) and the goal is to add it all up so it equals to around 12 (give or take a few)
so for example
white cropped baby tee=2
lowrise flare jeans=3
white air force ones=2
clothes=7
accessories=5
so you could put on a
simple gold bracelet=1
hoop earring's=2
a ring=1
and a simple claw clip=1
bam simple outfit that adds up to 12 nicely balanced. but you can do that with any outfit
(the 12 rule isnt a be all end all bc some things are meant to be dressed up more to for events but its a good base line for making outfits) 🫶
God that first bit about dynamic beauty really blew my mind.... Ive always felt super cute seeing myself in mirrors but not as cute in photos and what you said makes perfect sense!!
I think skin body posture and hairstyle are the most important, honestly!
Can you do videos about styling outfits for every body type? Your videos are really helpful!
Please do a dedicated video for big forehead women and their styling techniques❤
TYSMM I love your videos and how you have good and practical tips!
Did I just binge this whole playlist? Yes, yes I did.
The 10 - 2 meter observation is really insightful. Will consider it for mu process of the glow up. Thanks!
I've been wearing more casual outfits lately, so gotta say that subtle details are very helpful.
Thank you very much for this video dear peachie. It motivates me to wear my posture corrector. I always spend my money buying makeups, clothes, and accessories. Thank you very much for the blueprint.
Very true, I have a friend who is very beautiful but ngl not the most photogenic. Still images don’t do her justice!
most of the people we look up to as beautiful have definitely put the hard work in and thats why they look the way they do
This video is very useful for me as a teenager who badly wants to glow up. I always try to glow up but i can't see any results and now i found out that I am only focusing on my style and details.This made me realize to do it step by step and it will take time for me to glow up.Thank you for making this kind of videos.I will stay tuned for more of your upcoming videos.
Self love is such a difficult tasking journey. You hit rock bottom and have to build yourself back up unlearning bullying from others and the bullying you did to yourself comparing every little things to models etc. But just know the more you fight the more you work you will be the happiest you’ve ever been.
Yes, we must heal from the past, change our thoughts and start building, step by step, our self-esteem and life. It's a long journey, but it's worth it.
yess please i need that body posture vido asapp😍😍 this channel saved me so much
Had my body slumped during this video and immediately sat straight up! Haha
This is sooo helpful, I loved this video so much!
omg yes i do see a lot of people taking body fat into account
this video is sooo right. thanks dear peachie! you guys make me feel better about myself! now i understand why my proportions always feel a little too strained in pictures. i hope i look better irl :)