It took me till the very end to realise that she never loved me.... She actually loved the fact that I loved her and used that to make me feel loved. Still trying to move on but it's not easy.
This is exactly my situation and I have done everything to say I am sorry but no way making me question the love she used to talk about for 6yrs while she was getting her education. Difficult to move on,I cry every night cos this is my first time in love
Those ones "you wish you never met her" are extremely costly, but you LEARN. Alot of that stuff you cannot allow. Being overly into someone who does not value you is extremely costly and can be life threatening.
My ex was more in love with what I did for her than me. After watching this video I finally realize that living a single life is much more exiting and fulfilling than being in a relationship. Most relationship nowadays is all based on infatuation and financial/material convenience.
Thank you for your honest commentary. I’m a natural giver who’s been burned too many times by women who just used me for their own needs but left me emotionally drained. Those relationships have damaged my trust in women which puts a damper on my current relationship. Trying to trust again once hurt is really difficult. I’m still learning to read the RED flags. Thanks again
I'm the same as you, a natural giver. It seems some women target men like us for their selfish gain. I've become more conscious now of reading the red flags and ensuring that I don't condone it anymore 🙃
Hello Henry, thank for your comment. I am in the same situation that you experienced. I have been chatting with a woman for a while and she used me just to get her own needs. When I told her that I won't supporting her always with her needs, she stopped talking to me. It been more than 2 weeks she didn't send message to me to know how I am doing. It is difficult for me also to trust women again for another relationship..
Henry Lyons, You are not alone there. There are plenty of Good Men who go out of there way please the women they want to be with. But if they are not giving back to you what we are putting out.They need to be removed from our Lifes and move on to someone much better for us.
2 year relationship, and everything you said, she done, besides being jealous when other girls would talk to me, not one message to see how I am, she was dating someone else within 3 months, nice guys finish last, time to play the game.
My relationship of 5 years which I thought was leading to a walk up the aisle ended today, everything you said in this video was true about my relationship with her, now with the benefits of hindsight. I started watching your videos about 2 months ago, and they gave me insight I needed to understand that I was in a toxic, one-sided relationship and I was being gaslighted whenever I tried to complain about my feelings of not being loved by her. I'm relieved it's ended now, although I have to admit here that I've been used good and proper.
This happens to me with d woman I wanna settle with. I so much love dat girl but I have to let her go, she failed me by dating someone, maltreating me, doesn't care about my feelings. I have to let her go, now dey are no more in good relationship with d other person.
Complete Truth Jessica.. You always highlight the strong points of every situation people going through relationships and marriages.. Keep showing your passion of helping us.. You are angel.. God bless you and protect you 🙏
Facts! I've been with a lot of women and can genuinely testify I saw in most of them the opposite (luckily for me 😂😂😂) of those signs Jessica described. Love is one the rarest feelings humans beings will all the time find hard to fake. Especially women. Unfortunately, when it comes to feelings the one who cares less is ALWAYS the winner.
Am really going through this am literally drained …. Always on and off , never acknowledge anything, only looking at what u promised and delayed , ever considering her own things like birthdays , exclude her self from whatever u come up with ever considering her friends…… i gave up now i smash and move on no commitment. relationships now days are just a whole piece of shit 🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️ am really tired ….
This video is accurate and exactly what I experienced in my last marriage. And we had a child but she was so quick to be involved with another the same month she moved out. Love is no longer exist to say the facts and people should just enjoy their singleness
Then the point is why even get into so called relationships these days you are a fool if you want to just do for someone and not get anything in return no other relations on earth does that..
If you didn't hit the nail on the head with this one you never have!!! Case in point there was a woman once in my life who hit every point you made in this video except 2 ( which two aren't important). After a while, I realized that being alone in boredom is WAAAAAY better than being together in misery.
jessica you are truly a relationship guru. I will advice any man watching your videos to heed to every point you highlight . They may have practical applications and may be an invaluable source of knowledge for men in their dealings with the opposite sex .
reverse engineering this, I've come to the conclusion that I was never in love with her ---reason why I was unemotionally detached for many years, finally ending the relationship with no contact for many years. Recently I just got a "hey big head " text from her, via her friend texting me. All I can tell folks is just move on, especially if you or your partner aren't exhibiting any of these features in this video. Good video, J
I’m glad this video exist and it’s helped. I recently dated and I got hurt. I wanted to blame her but this video brought clarity. She my ex was honest w me, we still hang out and I’m learning to let go. I feel liberated and also I feel validated. I finally got through a break up without taking it personal. I will definitely use all this info for my next relationship. Much love fellas.
From Kenya, I love Ghanian people the home of Kofi Annan, Kwame Nkrumah, wode Maya, Jessica, Jerry Rawling there is footballer who made us proud as African during 2010 world cup I forgotten his name but salute this great men. Your city Accra, your famous old school Kumasi. I love you Ghanians one day will visit country. Jessica keep it up your good work.
@@ochomemaurice Jambo ndugu once worked in migori county, awendo Oyani okwethi, oriri, kanga, orongo ,isabanie, sirare,tharime, sonu. I served those people 10 years ago
Fantastic..... Thanks Jess, You just confirmed a lot of things I noticed, which told me, that I was not loved in the previous two relationships.... I am glad I moved on and now, I have no doubt I am in a love-filled relationship, mutual love.... Keep up the good work Jess
Thank you i needed this right now. Done everything for my gf even friends and family are telling me shes bad news and just using me. Maybe i need to face the cold hard reality and move on.
My ex fiancé of 6 years been pushing me away saying she needs focus on herself but this weekend found out she was having sex and getting serious with a conworker she blamed me when she told me then blocked me and spend the night with him... honestly worse pain of my life and I had lung surgery,lost people, went broke...but this tops it off maybe because I was blind and lying to myself even when it was obvious and that made it worse
Thanks Jessica for this insightful and encouraging foresight. I got carried away in such a toxic relationship years back and everything you mentioned except maybe one was all the characteristics she displayed. With all the initial warnings and red flags, I hanged on hoping it was just a phase, but lo and behold, it got worse. My only consolation were my three boys out of the relationship. It took me years to see clearly, but it's better late than never because my kids were very important to me. But when the unhappiness became unbearable, i ejected myself out of her toxic and manipulative claws years down the line, I mean the disrespect and her aggressions became so obvious and was affecting the kids while her characters, exactly all you mentioned started getting worse and pronounced. #Freenow and never been happier
Hey Jessica, great video. I have a close friend you went through this. Sometimes the truth can be staring them in the face and they could still be in denial which was the case with him unfortunately. There are always certain Red Flags early on in relationships; the skill set comes into play when you are able to see through this. For example a big one also is are you always the one calling and texting or attempting to make plans-if so a Red Flag then. Do you feel she doesn't feel comfortable getting intimate-even a hug may appear like a friend is giving you one, limited eye contact-another one is not really a good listener!! She only listened if she ever does to say what she wants to say disregarding your feelings and needs. List goes on and on
You got keys 🔑 🔑🔑. I wish I had you back then. I could literally say I have experienced all of what you talk about. I am always related. Sad world, my world.
The trend for many women is to have a "friends with benefits" situation. My experience, women see relationship as disposable douche bags or condoms.Great video presentation, very accurate, insightful.
It doesnt matter how much relationship a women jump into to dstisfy their ego.the fact is most get use up and discarded in the long run.but men seem to bounce back gracefully.
Good day Lady Jessica OS, I have been so addicted to ur channel and all ur teachings brings a reflections of my past relationships and one I'm entering into presently. I also want to apply all to every of my relationship to both genders irrespective of situations. I appreciate you so much
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It took me till the very end to realise that she never loved me.... She actually loved the fact that I loved her and used that to make me feel loved. Still trying to move on but it's not easy.
I'm in the same boat as you...
Yes, totally true. Selfish and manipulative is what it's called. They just seek what was good for them.
@@mariog3326 was in that kettle, Jessica n others opened my eyes. I ended that situation n with a wonderful person now. Totally moved on.
MEN YOU ARE THE PRIZE
This is exactly my situation and I have done everything to say I am sorry but no way making me question the love she used to talk about for 6yrs while she was getting her education. Difficult to move on,I cry every night cos this is my first time in love
This is exactly what am going through now,I even regret meeting her gosh some people are mean and selfish.thanks for this video
How bad did she mess you up?
Run for your life bro
Those ones "you wish you never met her" are extremely costly, but you LEARN. Alot of that stuff you cannot allow. Being overly into someone who does not value you is extremely costly and can be life threatening.
Stay strong buddy,,, I can relate
Me too bro
I think this is the finest African woman on the planet! I love her insights, her looks, her voice, her brains, her caring attitude, EVERYTHING.
My ex was more in love with what I did for her than me.
After watching this video I finally realize that living a single life is much more exiting and fulfilling than being in a relationship. Most relationship nowadays is all based on infatuation and financial/material convenience.
amen!!
✌✌
Otek
Na word bro
Thank you for your honest commentary. I’m a natural giver who’s been burned too many times by women who just used me for their own needs but left me emotionally drained. Those relationships have damaged my trust in women which puts a damper on my current relationship. Trying to trust again once hurt is really difficult. I’m still learning to read the RED flags. Thanks again
I'm the same as you, a natural giver. It seems some women target men like us for their selfish gain. I've become more conscious now of reading the red flags and ensuring that I don't condone it anymore 🙃
Hello Henry, thank for your comment. I am in the same situation that you experienced. I have been chatting with a woman for a while and she used me just to get her own needs. When I told her that I won't supporting her always with her needs, she stopped talking to me. It been more than 2 weeks she didn't send message to me to know how I am doing. It is difficult for me also to trust women again for another relationship..
Henry Lyons, You are not alone there. There are plenty of Good Men who go out of there way please the women they want to be with. But if they are not giving back to you what we are putting out.They need to be removed from our Lifes and move on to someone much better for us.
2 year relationship, and everything you said, she done, besides being jealous when other girls would talk to me, not one message to see how I am, she was dating someone else within 3 months, nice guys finish last, time to play the game.
When u talk... The world listens. keep on educating us.. Respect in all aspects🤙
My relationship of 5 years which I thought was leading to a walk up the aisle ended today, everything you said in this video was true about my relationship with her, now with the benefits of hindsight. I started watching your videos about 2 months ago, and they gave me insight I needed to understand that I was in a toxic, one-sided relationship and I was being gaslighted whenever I tried to complain about my feelings of not being loved by her. I'm relieved it's ended now, although I have to admit here that I've been used good and proper.
This happens to me with d woman I wanna settle with.
I so much love dat girl but I have to let her go, she failed me by dating someone, maltreating me, doesn't care about my feelings.
I have to let her go, now dey are no more in good relationship with d other person.
Same here 💔
Real talk fam, you probably have already done this but if not block her ass. Don’t give her any way back into your life . Keep strong brother.
How long ago did it break up?
Wow same was 4years
Complete Truth Jessica.. You always highlight the strong points of every situation people going through relationships and marriages.. Keep showing your passion of helping us.. You are angel.. God bless you and protect you 🙏
You have one of the most beautiful voices I have ever heard. Warm and calm…you should consider counseling if you are not in it already. God bless
I am terribly hurt . It hurts so bad . You comforted me .
Facts! I've been with a lot of women and can genuinely testify I saw in most of them the opposite (luckily for me 😂😂😂) of those signs Jessica described. Love is one the rarest feelings humans beings will all the time find hard to fake. Especially women. Unfortunately, when it comes to feelings the one who cares less is ALWAYS the winner.
My marriage ended last year and i struggled for answers and along came Jessica. This video is the best since i subscribed
Am really going through this am literally drained …. Always on and off , never acknowledge anything, only looking at what u promised and delayed , ever considering her own things like birthdays , exclude her self from whatever u come up with ever considering her friends…… i gave up now i smash and move on no commitment. relationships now days are just a whole piece of shit 🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️ am really tired ….
The cold ugly truth. I will accept this and move on. Thank you.
You're going to be just fine Richard.
This video is accurate and exactly what I experienced in my last marriage. And we had a child but she was so quick to be involved with another the same month she moved out. Love is no longer exist to say the facts and people should just enjoy their singleness
I walked out of the relationship with a lady who took me for granted its the most painful thing that hurt me so much
Yay, I’m here today
How can a woman love when she's subconsciously always ready to jump into a better option if the occasion shows up? Use your brain.
That mind cannot and does not love
Then the point is why even get into so called relationships these days you are a fool if you want to just do for someone and not get anything in return no other relations on earth does that..
Bingo
You're always hitting the right spot in your relationship talks. Thanks so much for your lessons 👍
If you didn't hit the nail on the head with this one you never have!!!
Case in point there was a woman once in my life who hit every point you made in this video except 2 ( which two aren't important). After a while, I realized that being alone in boredom is WAAAAAY better than being together in misery.
Thank you...I am at the crossroad, but my feelings for her is hard to let go. Need clarity, but your information is valid.
This is exactly what im going through 🤦🏽♂️and she ticked all the 11 points is just crazy for me
It's difficult to swallow but wow that's the truth and thank you Jessica OS 🎉
Honestly this is one of the best videos I’ve watched. Point by point everything is true. Well done Jessica 👏
The last point is really hitting me hard....Thanks Jessica
Thanks doll. And fans your all great and deserve the best
jessica you are truly a relationship guru. I will advice
any man watching your videos
to heed to every point you highlight . They may have practical applications and
may be an invaluable source of knowledge for men in their dealings with the opposite
sex .
I love my girl , but she don't care about my feelings. This video empower me to let her go , thank Jessica. Much respect 👏🇸🇱
This video really hit home today… thank you… the words I really needed to hear at this time in my life!
reverse engineering this, I've come to the conclusion that I was never in love with her ---reason why I was unemotionally detached for many years, finally ending the relationship with no contact for many years. Recently I just got a "hey big head " text from her, via her friend texting me. All I can tell folks is just move on, especially if you or your partner aren't exhibiting any of these features in this video. Good video, J
Thank you for opening my hearts, Jessica.
Any time!
Wow! Damn it it hurts like hell!
Thank you this is really what I needed to hear.
This is an icebreaker!! Mheeennn! Jess! You're deep!
I could feel truthfulness in your points.thank you Jessica
Thanks so much Miss Jessica this really has help me understand a current situation. Thanks
U re 100% correct. God bless you always
"Oh my goodness, this makes so much sense. You are a gem. Thanks! ❤️"
I’m glad this video exist and it’s helped. I recently dated and I got hurt. I wanted to blame her but this video brought clarity. She my ex was honest w me, we still hang out and I’m learning to let go. I feel liberated and also I feel validated. I finally got through a break up without taking it personal. I will definitely use all this info for my next relationship. Much love fellas.
Thank you Jessica you are the best. I feel so encouraged after having a break up 💔. All that u have shared are facts in what I was going through.
Thanks a million times for this video Jessy. A lotta guys can relate to this 😊
Jessie all I will say Is thank you soo much and God bless you 🙏🙏🙏
exactly what i went through but i have moved on now i really loves this girl so so much , i regret meeting her
Hmk, now i feel free after many paradoxes of love and mixed signals from different reasons in my current relationship. I thank you Jessica
This is exactly what I am going through right now. Thanks :)
This is solid. Lots of value, many insights.
Your videos are a whole eye opener
From Kenya, I love Ghanian people the home of Kofi Annan, Kwame Nkrumah, wode Maya, Jessica, Jerry Rawling there is footballer who made us proud as African during 2010 world cup I forgotten his name but salute this great men. Your city Accra, your famous old school Kumasi. I love you Ghanians one day will visit country. Jessica keep it up your good work.
Asamoah Gyan 🇬🇭
@@quahthamaster thank you brother. Yes Legend Asamoah
Did Asamoah Gyan make us proud in world cup 2010 or he broke our hearts as Africans.? Typing from Migori in Kenya 🇰🇪
@@ochomemaurice Jambo ndugu once worked in migori county, awendo Oyani okwethi, oriri, kanga, orongo ,isabanie, sirare,tharime, sonu. I served those people 10 years ago
Life is beautiful regardless of how good it feels........
Love is a given .......
I must say, you have a unique grip on the reality of the situation.
I truly appreciate this video continue the good work your doing educating people out there.
These truths are an eye opener to men outside there ...Keep up Jessica
Madame Jessi , You have said it all , This are words that speaks directly to me , Indeed Bitter truth .
Fantastic..... Thanks Jess, You just confirmed a lot of things I noticed, which told me, that I was not loved in the previous two relationships.... I am glad I moved on and now, I have no doubt I am in a love-filled relationship, mutual love.... Keep up the good work Jess
Thanks Jessica you are amazing. Continue the great legacy. Peace and love.
It's so sad to say that only 1 thing you spoke of that doesn't apply to my situation.. but you dead on the the rest..thanks again for your help
Thank you i needed this right now. Done everything for my gf even friends and family are telling me shes bad news and just using me. Maybe i need to face the cold hard reality and move on.
Thank you Jessica. U made my day
You are spot on!
Am playing it back to back. One of your best video ever📹👍💯
So deep 💯😔, you have said it all 💯
Beautiful and perceptive as always... ❤️
You have done a lot to us aunty Jessica, keep it up!
My ex fiancé of 6 years been pushing me away saying she needs focus on herself but this weekend found out she was having sex and getting serious with a conworker she blamed me when she told me then blocked me and spend the night with him... honestly worse pain of my life and I had lung surgery,lost people, went broke...but this tops it off maybe because I was blind and lying to myself even when it was obvious and that made it worse
Every point resonates.Going through the same😔
Great content thank you Jessica
Much love
Respect 💯💯💯💯
You a very knowledgeable, articulate, and your eyes are gorgeous
Always on point.
All you have said is true thank you
In love with the theme
Thanks Jessica for this insightful and encouraging foresight.
I got carried away in such a toxic relationship years back and everything you mentioned except maybe one was all the characteristics she displayed. With all the initial warnings and red flags, I hanged on hoping it was just a phase, but lo and behold, it got worse.
My only consolation were my three boys out of the relationship. It took me years to see clearly, but it's better late than never because my kids were very important to me. But when the unhappiness became unbearable, i ejected myself out of her toxic and manipulative claws years down the line, I mean the disrespect and her aggressions became so obvious and was affecting the kids while her characters, exactly all you mentioned started getting worse and pronounced. #Freenow and never been happier
It took u 20 years to leave.......come on...
That you Jay I needed this video.. Today, This is true from end to end.. Women do really want what they say they want.. Why is that.?
Your wealth of knowledge is immense, I fell victim of everything you’ve just mentioned. How do you even know all this things
Woooow She really used me!!! i am devastated!
This is deep 😌
I feel like watching it 100 times.Spot on.
Hey Jessica, great video. I have a close friend you went through this. Sometimes the truth can be staring them in the face and they could still be in denial which was the case with him unfortunately. There are always certain Red Flags early on in relationships; the skill set comes into play when you are able to see through this. For example a big one also is are you always the one calling and texting or attempting to make plans-if so a Red Flag then. Do you feel she doesn't feel comfortable getting intimate-even a hug may appear like a friend is giving you one, limited eye contact-another one is not really a good listener!! She only listened if she ever does to say what she wants to say disregarding your feelings and needs. List goes on and on
You got keys 🔑 🔑🔑. I wish I had you back then. I could literally say I have experienced all of what you talk about. I am always related. Sad world, my world.
You really opened my eyes to many things with you videos. God bless you.
Thanks!
No problem! Thank you too
This is exactly what happened with my ex, she was just a gold digger
Woooo this serious and true point out I love the flow
Sadly is that one can see the signs, however, because one is in love. One tries to convince themselves about the love that is not there.
Direct nail hit 💯
Thanks Jess...I enjoyed this video as it speaks to me and a situation I experienced.
Fantastic insights, indeed. Cheers. You gave a vivid description of the toxic,energy-draining and materialistic ex.
Wonderful video ☺️ always learn more and more 😊
Jess these are sad facts..
Truth is 💯 pain at times
Very helpful. Thankyou
You're welcome!
Great content!! Please do drop the songs on your background maybe on the video description sometimes ? Please and thank you
Thanks for this I appreciate the word I needed to hear this
You've said it all
Hmm... This is a very good video. You nailed it.
God bless you mam.
After watching your video, ..
I had to confront my girl only. To discovered she never loved me..
Thank you very much for your good week..
The trend for many women is to have a "friends with benefits" situation. My experience, women see relationship as disposable douche bags or condoms.Great video presentation, very accurate, insightful.
It doesnt matter how much relationship a women jump into to dstisfy their ego.the fact is most get use up and discarded in the long run.but men seem to bounce back gracefully.
Good day Lady Jessica OS, I have been so addicted to ur channel and all ur teachings brings a reflections of my past relationships and one I'm entering into presently. I also want to apply all to every of my relationship to both genders irrespective of situations. I appreciate you so much