Girl, DO NOT DO COOL SCULPTING. Haven't you ever seen what happens to some people? Their body manifests the shape and hardness of the wand/paddle thing they do. Linda Evangelista experienced this. DO NOT DO COOL SCULPING. Go under the knife if you must but do not fall for these stupid quick fixes.
I'm glad you mention that taking responsibility is not the same as blaming yourself. I think this an important distinction especially for folks who may have bad habits related to their self image.
Hey carla great vidoe the biggest Difference is in Before vs After is in the After people take you more seriously and you are no longer invisble to society. We live in a shallow world.
I loved this! Thank you for answering so many questions. I think it’s so important that you touched on our responsibility in social situations. I never understood until a few years ago that I was giving off defensive and negative don’t talk to me energies. For anyone fighting the same battles or socially awkward I’d recommend an etiquette course or book. It taught me how to be more social.
Oh that’s an interesting idea. I’ll have a look at some, I know some can be outdated but I imagine it will give the needed techniques for interacting zx
Love this video Your advice re comparison is excellent, gratitude lists are a wonderful way to remind myself of my worth and my individuality You’re incredible at multitasking make up tutorial and answering questions, Your makeup is sensational 😀(Joanne) 💗
💄I really enjoyed this Q & A style video, I hope you do more! My favourite makeup discovery this year was Essence’s Pretty Natural Foundation and L’Oréal lipstick in Fairest Nude💖
My favourite make up of 2023 is definitely BPerfect Chrome Foundation, Ekin Su Radiant Glow Primer BPerfect & I love the Cronzer from them too. I bought a bundle from them for Christmas pressie for me for reaching my 1st goal on Bodyslims 😂🎉
While I do think confidence and friendliness can play a role, I sadly have seen that it doesn't impact people's treatment of you nearly as much as your weight does. I heard about this confidence theory and, since my weight has gone up and down, I decided to intentionally maintain my attitude around others to see if it was my attitude or the weight. It was the weight. Both men and women treated me far better when I was thinner. When I was thinner, people would put effort into conversations and seek me out. I didn't have to put nearly as much effort into friendships. When I was heavier, people would avoid me or obviously not want to continue conversations (I would have to keep the conversations going on my own while they kept looking away). And these were a lot of different people over many years. So yes, sadly, your appearance does matter when talking to people. This is why I make sure someone's appearance does not change how I treat them because I've been on both ends.
🧿 my fave is eye shadow, liner, mascara, just all eyes. I liked this video format. I agree with others when they say do NOT do cool sculpting please, poor Linda Evangelista and others are warped from poor experiences. I know all forms of plastic surgery and altering have pros and cons, but this one seems to be one of the worst. But let us know how it all goes, rooting for you. Thank you for encouraging us to show up for ourselves 🖤
I agree that it is about 50/50 with people treating you differently. Half of it is being obese, the other half is your attitude and dressing nicely. I now wear more fitted clothes even though not totally slim and I think it makes me look like I respect myself. Then, in turn, others respect you a bit more.
Greetings from Germany Hi Carla These are the kind of videos that I really like and find interesting and encouraging 😍 The make up is pretty Thank you for answering as honest and reliable as always With great respect Alexandra from Bavaria Germany 😎
Great Q+A Carla, lovely makeup, ur so gud @ it effortless, Great idea answering questions while doing something ❤ I got a very nice blusher by Benefit its Secret Oasis..Tks Carla have a nice relaxing weekend 🖤❤️🖤
Was there a reason you didn’t include buying clothes in your rewards? I struggle to buy new clothes when I’m losing weight, always blaming my body for not fitting my clothes and not realising it’s because I’ve dropped a size. It’s stalled my weight loss quite a few times over the last few years
Love your answers, thank you for that, but it's a bit hard to follow if without a pause you jump from answering to describing your makeup steps and back. Would prefer it seperate or without the comments about the makeup and maybe just add the steps if that on the comments 🤔
I would absolutely recommend a water softener and filter for your whole house- it's not as big of an investment as you may think and if properly kept up will last a very long time. I'm a Functional Medicine Nurse Practitioner and recommend a parasite and heavy metal cleanse for any chronic/ongoing skin problems. I'll be happy to share resources if you would like! All I recommend I've done myself 😊 Thank you for who you are and for being such an inspiration to me and so many others 🩷🖤🩷🖤🩷
Girl, DO NOT DO COOL SCULPTING. Haven't you ever seen what happens to some people? Their body manifests the shape and hardness of the wand/paddle thing they do. Linda Evangelista experienced this. DO NOT DO COOL SCULPING. Go under the knife if you must but do not fall for these stupid quick fixes.
I'm glad you mention that taking responsibility is not the same as blaming yourself. I think this an important distinction especially for folks who may have bad habits related to their self image.
Hey carla great vidoe the biggest Difference is in Before vs After is in the After people take you more seriously and you are no longer invisble to society. We live in a shallow world.
I really like this Q&A format. Your makeup is beautiful!💄
💄 I so appreciate you and your openness to share your struggles and accomplishments! You make a difference. ❤
I loved this! Thank you for answering so many questions. I think it’s so important that you touched on our responsibility in social situations. I never understood until a few years ago that I was giving off defensive and negative don’t talk to me energies. For anyone fighting the same battles or socially awkward I’d recommend an etiquette course or book. It taught me how to be more social.
Oh that’s an interesting idea. I’ll have a look at some, I know some can be outdated but I imagine it will give the needed techniques for interacting zx
Loved this style of video, thank you! Laura 💄💄 💄
I love hearing you answer questions! MORE PLEASE!
You ask I’ll answer 😂
Love your q&as!!
Interesting info on the fillers. Fav makeup adjacent product for me is my grande lash heated eyelash curler - no more accidental tugging! LOL 💄
Stunning makeup! That is such a skill. Appreciated the mascara brand. Loved the tutorial/Q&A format! Thanks!!
Love this video
Your advice re comparison is excellent, gratitude lists are a wonderful way to remind myself of my worth and my individuality
You’re incredible at multitasking make up tutorial and answering questions,
Your makeup is sensational 😀(Joanne) 💗
Thanks Joanne 🖤
Enjoyed so much. Thank you ❤
💄I really enjoyed this Q & A style video, I hope you do more! My favourite makeup discovery this year was Essence’s Pretty Natural Foundation and L’Oréal lipstick in Fairest Nude💖
Love you Carla the Saie beauty products are some of my favorites too!!
My favourite make up of 2023 is definitely BPerfect Chrome Foundation, Ekin Su Radiant Glow Primer BPerfect & I love the Cronzer from them too. I bought a bundle from them for Christmas pressie for me for reaching my 1st goal on Bodyslims 😂🎉
They’re such a great brand aren’t they Suzanne!’ I am so impressed!
Yes I'm obsessed it's great thats an Irish company too.
While I do think confidence and friendliness can play a role, I sadly have seen that it doesn't impact people's treatment of you nearly as much as your weight does.
I heard about this confidence theory and, since my weight has gone up and down, I decided to intentionally maintain my attitude around others to see if it was my attitude or the weight. It was the weight. Both men and women treated me far better when I was thinner.
When I was thinner, people would put effort into conversations and seek me out. I didn't have to put nearly as much effort into friendships. When I was heavier, people would avoid me or obviously not want to continue conversations (I would have to keep the conversations going on my own while they kept looking away). And these were a lot of different people over many years.
So yes, sadly, your appearance does matter when talking to people. This is why I make sure someone's appearance does not change how I treat them because I've been on both ends.
🧿 my fave is eye shadow, liner, mascara, just all eyes. I liked this video format. I agree with others when they say do NOT do cool sculpting please, poor Linda Evangelista and others are warped from poor experiences. I know all forms of plastic surgery and altering have pros and cons, but this one seems to be one of the worst. But let us know how it all goes, rooting for you. Thank you for encouraging us to show up for ourselves 🖤
I agree that it is about 50/50 with people treating you differently. Half of it is being obese, the other half is your attitude and dressing nicely. I now wear more fitted clothes even though not totally slim and I think it makes me look like I respect myself. Then, in turn, others respect you a bit more.
Love the video so great answering all the questions while doing make up. I love a makeup video. Thank you for answering my question so well 💜🖤💜
Thank you Suzanne xx
💄and eye liner. ❤
Greetings from Germany
Hi Carla
These are the kind of videos that I really like and find interesting and encouraging 😍
The make up is pretty
Thank you for answering as honest and reliable as always
With great respect
Alexandra from Bavaria Germany 😎
Grüsse aus Bayern xxx
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Ich dachte ich bin hier die einzige aus Bayern 😉
Grüße aus Baden-Württemberg 🙂
💄I would love for you to do another Q& A doing your make up or putting a few outfits together.
Oh that’s a good idea!! Ask some questions and I’ll answer xx
Thank you 🎉
Sleeping grounded will help your neck. It’s changed mine.
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Great Q+A Carla, lovely makeup, ur so gud @ it effortless, Great idea answering questions while doing something ❤ I got a very nice blusher by Benefit its Secret Oasis..Tks Carla have a nice relaxing weekend 🖤❤️🖤
Was there a reason you didn’t include buying clothes in your rewards? I struggle to buy new clothes when I’m losing weight, always blaming my body for not fitting my clothes and not realising it’s because I’ve dropped a size. It’s stalled my weight loss quite a few times over the last few years
Love your answers, thank you for that, but it's a bit hard to follow if without a pause you jump from answering to describing your makeup steps and back. Would prefer it seperate or without the comments about the makeup and maybe just add the steps if that on the comments 🤔
You look really cute and wholesome and young in a Wednesday adams kinda vibe with your hair pinned back
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Imposter syndrome means you’re pushing yourself 🎉
Is it pretending to be someone you’re not?
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I would absolutely recommend a water softener and filter for your whole house- it's not as big of an investment as you may think and if properly kept up will last a very long time. I'm a Functional Medicine Nurse Practitioner and recommend a parasite and heavy metal cleanse for any chronic/ongoing skin problems. I'll be happy to share resources if you would like! All I recommend I've done myself 😊 Thank you for who you are and for being such an inspiration to me and so many others 🩷🖤🩷🖤🩷
Oh do please Kristin xx
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