I lost weight and got cancelled by the fat acceptance community
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- Опубликовано: 5 фев 2025
- In case you didn't see on TikTok, I got cancelled by the fat acceptance community this summer and went viral. While I did get a lot of hate and people blocked me, I found a more supportive community that gave me encouraging words to keep going.
I already filmed a video talking about how I lost 50lbs, I just need to edit it so it'll be up soon!
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So glad you held your ground! The audacity of these people is wild to me
Thanks for the support! They really feel so entitled to other people’s bodies.
This is what I never understood about the body positivity community, aren’t we just suppose to be happy in whatever stage we’re in? Including during weight loss? Like isn’t that the point? lol
I feel like it started off as such an uplifting community and just slowly descended into a live action mean girls production in a parallel universe where fat is the new thin.
That's how I feel about "health at every size" lol. Like wasn't it.. we can all pursue healthy habits and be healthy people regardless of size? Weight loss doesn't HAVE to be our focus 24/7? But now it's like, even if I'm 600lbs with a CPAP and limbs removed from diabetes complications ~I'm healthy~
@artdump6592 or it's not my personal choices thar got me to 609lbs...it's my GenETicS
@artdump6592 the mukbangs are horrifying in the body positivity community. Honestly those and the 600lb life folks is what keeps me motivated to keep me going on my weight loss/health journey.
@@artdump6592 right????? I’ve been off that side of the internet for a while now but I could have sworn HAES was “you can do things to keep yourself healthy no matter what size you are!” like drinking more water and drinking less alcohol….imagine my shock when it became “you can be healthy even if you’re 700 lbs!” which is…..not
Power is addictive (almost as drugs and junk food). All the sudden they are in a position of "power" and can bully others. They forget many of them were bullied themselves. But you can't put them in place, ofcourse, because it makes you fatphobic.
Girl, you are a SHINING EXAMPLE of what taking personal responsibility for your life and health can do! ❤❤❤ I've lost 55 lbs so far and I'm proud of it! Damn right i control my weight!
So proud of you sister!!! You fucking rock. We have to support each other because unfortunately, there are people out there that can’t be happy for others. The projection and jealousy is real.
Amen!
It’s honestly disgusting that people think they have a say over another persons body/life in ANY situation
The projection was on A WHOLE OTHER level. She didn’t say anything about wanting other people to lose weight but literally talking about it the FA are like “Ummmm they want every fat person to lose weight”
They’re angry because weight loss is something they think they can never achieve and watching you achieve that for them is hell and brings out all the demons they have to endure in their mind. All those times they tried losing weight and failed.
Coming from someone who was 260lbs and is now 145lbs. GURL, keep going and just ignore them. And you don't have to lift weights, be super skinny, or make it difficult. I've lost all my weight on my walking pad watching anime, RUclips, playing sims, online shopping, texting, and working. Didn't even notice I was being active. I personally cut out all the carbs and sugar because I realized that was my weakness and "eating in moderation" was not something I could do honestly. Yes I still have cake on birthdays, i will occasionally order sushi, but any other time, I'm eating eggs, meat, cheese, and greens. I still can EAT, I'm just not eating all the time like I used to. I love my body, i love my stretch marks, I love the fact that regardless of how I've been treating myself - I'm still here , I'm blessed that my brain turned on and said "hey this is a problem, lets go for a walk and put the fork down before we RIP" 😂.
Unless someone is paying my bills and I’m 💯 dependent on them no one gets to dictate how I live my life. I was 340+ (I stopped weighing myself) now 135. Never going back to the prison that was my body at that time.
I was really gagged at them mocking you for thinking you have control over your body & weight. Like uhhhhh yeah it’s called taking responsibility and having agency over your life?? Which I think is one of the most liberating experiences you can have!!
No because they're so smug about it as if they're making a valid point and it's wild. They've got this s*** eating grin like they're exposing someone for doing something wrong and all they're doing is... Taking accountability? Do I have that correct???
It really shows how warped some of these people's beliefs truly are, they think the idea of having agency and control of your own health and body is laughable. By making this content and pointing out what they think are dangerous, fatphobic lies, all they really do is show the world outside of their movement how deluded and brainwashed they are.
this is the fundamental lie of their propaganda though. if they maintain that it's impossible for them to change, then they don't have to feel bad about being fat and staying that way.
It’s crazy because they almost make it seem like it’s impossible to do those things? And it’s like, babes, if you don’t have control over your body and weight you either have a health condition or an ed, baseline human who is healthy has control over their eating habits (which usually dictates their weight).
Absolutely, wouldn’t it be more liberating to know you have control of your own weight, which gives you the ability to change it if you don’t like it? You would think right?? But I think what that control does to a lot of people who live in obese bodies instead is makes them realize THEY are the ones who hold the responsibility to change, which is terrifying to those who don’t have the will and gumption to actually make huge changes and stick with them. So instead they find more comfort in blaming it on their own genetics & the attitudes of other people-two things they know they have absolutely no control over, & by doing so make themselves victims instead of their own liberators. They would rather live as an obese, oppressed victim, as opposed to a healthy, liberated overcomer, who took control of their own life, worked damn hard, and changed it for the better.
"It matters not how strait the gate, how charged with punishments the scroll, I am the master of my fate, I am the captain of my soul." (William Ernest Henley)
Period 👏🏻
I’ve seen so many of the RUclipsrs I follow covering this!! So glad to see this video from you. Tons of us are so happy for you even if SOME folks aren’t.
8:04 😂 CACKLING. its crazy how THEY dont see their own delusion? so proud of you for pushing back when you knew in your soul you were doing/saying the right thing.
Honestly the combination of your video and another creator I watch also losing weight and being open about it I’ve made changes myself. I finally made it back under 200lbs this week. I’ve only lost 15, but my habits are healthy and I’m heading towards a healthy weight. The fat acceptance community really hurt me as well, they were telling me it was okay to treat myself with junk food, because skinny women eat junk food too, and I fell into that trap! Now I eat far less carbs (I had a very heavy on carb diet), and prioritize proteins and veggies. Easy and sustainable! Thank you for the encouragement!
The absolute audacity of trying to bully someone out of their own, very personal, goals for their OWN body. 🪦
I say we start bullying people for other goals too. You ran a 5k?! HOW DARE YOU?! You got a promotion?! YOU SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF YOURSELF!!!! 🗣️🗣️🗣️
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This is my EXACT story!! I was very much in the fat acceptance movement for many many years. I was always the fat kid and was a hyper dieter. I was convinced I didn't have any control of my weight, that I would fail (because ALL diets fail, right?!) And I embraced that I was stuck at my weight forever and may as well just be ok with it.
But I felt like I was dying every day. I came across anti fat acceptance videos and I felt like I was hit in the face.
I started learning. I started realizing I didn't have to resign myself to dying at a young age, or always being in pain, or giving up on living well.
So I started walking, light excercise and eating in a deficit.
Im now 50lbs down since March 2024! And working on the next 50.
My lower back pain has decreased significantly, my knees are SO much healthier, I can RUN with my children!! I feel amazing.
If I had never learned that I wasn't helpless, I would have never gotten here. I maintain that fat folks deserve respect and love, however, choosing to change is valid. ❤
From one recovering fat acceptance person to another- solidarity ❤
I don’t have tik tok so I learned about you through Megan’s vid. When I tell you I was so mad when watching the 🪦 video because where did you say anything about anyone else’s journeys other than the very end of your video? People clearly hear what they want to hear. I’m so guilty of this but I’m so grateful that I’ve learned I don’t have to subscribe to everything in that community and that yes, I am allowed to lose weight and strive to make my life a little less hard!
the reaction to ur video is giving that comment in a bean soup recipe “but im allergic to beans 😭” Like you didnt say a single time what anyone should do with their bodies??? Main character energy has rotted peoples brains
You’re hilarious and so right 😂🤣 Like the world doesn’t revolve around fat liberation. Just because someone doesn’t align with your set rules, doesn’t mean they should be ostracized! God forbid we have different opinions in this day and age.
I'm here smiling at the plates full of fruits and vegetables and you being so excited to feel better. This is really nice 👏💙
The irony of pushing body acceptance when they start criticizing someone else’s personal choices on their own body. They sound jealous 😊
They always are saying “I don’t care what people do with their bodies” and then they make videos like this 😂
You're awesome! The mental shift you went through is a big deal! 🎉
Thank you for posting this video. As a fellow fat person I also get frustrated with how far the body positivity movement has gone. People shouldn’t forget that eating processed food in massive amounts is not healthy for anyone ever regardless of size. It’s a tough subject because it’s not like other addictions, food is our fuel. Ultimately I just want society to stop with the extremes and the judgements without knowing someone’s story. Not everyone’s “healthiest” looks like a size 2 but we don’t need to go the other direction either. Our bodies are physically different. Ultimately like you said, mind your business. You should never be made to feel bad because you’re putting your health first. You didn’t “betray” anyone. You sharing your story has nothing to do with anyone else’s journey. It’s not the political statement people think it is. You’re just being authentic to yourself. Good for you amazing job! ❤
Thank you for the support and leaving such a thoughtful comment. I appreciate it! ❤️
I agree with you 100%! Either extremes are not healthy. Like everything in life, work or relationships or money or eating, it is all about balance. We shouldn’t deprive ourselves and we shouldn’t glutton ourselves! Humans think so black and white when the answer is always in the gray with more nuance.
Food addiction or EDs are so hard to deal with because like you said, we have to eat to survive. We can survive without alcohol or other substances. I feel like no one in body positivity or fat acceptance movement wants to admit that they struggle with food or eating but they’ll talk about how processed food is made to be hyper-palatable and addictive. Like they don’t put two and two together.
Recovering or the journey of building a healthy relationship with food is going to look different to everyone and it’s fucking hard to do but it’s possible!
Wishing you the best 😘
I feel like there is an extreme mental health crisis going on. People will take things that start out positive and decide it needs to be taken to the extreme in the negative direction. We see this in politics, religion, spirituality, health, food recipes, the environment etc etc.
I remember when you posted your original video you mention, and I still never understood why folks got their panties in a bunch over posting something personal to you and your journey that LITERALLY INVOLVED NO ONE ELSE. You only shared your experience and said this verbatim.
They were triggered because when they see one of their own take responsibility for their health, becoming disciplined and losing the weight their insecurities and jealousy flares up. That's just my opinion.
Period queen 🪦 you inspired me to take control. For me, it’s not about the numbers it’s about making better choices for my overall health. So thanks girly luv ya
Love you!! I hope you can have the happiest and healthiest life possible. Always rooting for you! Congratulations on taking life into your own hands. We can change more than we are led to believe ❤️
I'm not sure where I first saw your Tik Tok, but - funny thing - I saw your Tik Tok and I was like, dual compartment frying pans are a thing???!?!? And I immediately bought one. Hahahaha
Lovely, I just hope that your journey is going smoothly, and that your motivation is solid.❤
Just subbed. I got in the body positivity and health at every size communities after seeing a dietitian that was into those things (I didn’t know when I started with her.)
I proceeded to gain around 65 pounds over the next few years! I dressed out of character like crop tops and stuff like that. I thought that’s what you did when you were happy in your body and plus sized because that’s what the people seemed to do online. I look back and cringe at myself. I didn’t dress like that before the weight gain and I don’t dress like that now. I’m truly happy and comfortable in my body and I don’t have to prove that to others. It just is.
I spent some time working on my mental health and in August of 2023 I went on my health journey. I have lost around 85 pounds naturally all on my own…. I have reversed the debilitating pain and other health issues I was having over this journey. I’m happier and healthier than ever now and I don’t have an eating disorder of any kind for the first time in my life. I am happy and mentally and physically healthy.
Nice work! So happy for you 👏👏👏🫶
I got recommended you after watching a bunch of megan and sam videos❤ hope you guys continue to grow in subs and BRING MORE FAT ACCEPTANCE PEOPLE TO THE DARK SIDE 😈😈😈❤️❤️❤️
Yesssssss, so glad that you didn’t let these people stifle you!!! The world is full of wild people, and thank your for your voice of reason in spite of the cesspool belching out their garbage
Saying that someone is dead just because you disagree with this person's opinion is absolutely disgusting and insane 😕 I mean, is this woman alright there?
It’s always a good day when you post Ang!!:))
You’re so nice :’)
I was so proud of you. They literally proved your point 😂 I don’t think it’s a ‘hearing disorder’ as much as intentionally misrepresenting what you’re saying so they can argue with the straw man instead of your very real points!
Crazy how they’re literally putting words in your mouth to make their bullying seem justified 😭😭 girl I wish THAT was satire
Lmfao IKR?! Like their video needs to be a fucking SNL skit.
Congratulations on your weight loss Ang!!! I don’t feel like your tik tok about wanting to be healthier was fatphobic at all. I don’t know why people have to be angry when others want to lose weight, you can still love your body and still enjoy life while losing weight. Idk why being fat has to be controversial… why do we have to get into it? I just want everyone to mind their business and love their bodies at whatever size they wanna be at. If you wanna change it, change it, be happy, etc. let’s be happy for others with accomplishing our goals! Damn! Anyway, much love!! Congratulations!!!
Thank you for the support!! I really appreciate it ❤️
That’s what I’m saying! I just want everyone to do what they want and I’ll try to be as supportive as I can. Weight is such a hard topic to discuss and I feel like people take everything personally.
Yes, I want to lose weight because I don’t like how I look and I want to be healthier but I also don’t hate people my size or bigger. Two things can exist at once! My feelings towards my body is only towards my body and not everyone else’s.
Imagine this, you learn that you can control how you take care of yourself. You learn that you WANT to do so, and then someone else says that you are hurting them by making a choice for yourself.😂
We can't make choices because those choices hurt everyone around us! Oh noo! Damned if we do, damned if we don't!😂
People are so silly sometimes.
What I think is people who fell into fat acceptance should not feel guilty after they started taking their health seriously. People should realize that the internet is now a part of a person's daily life, and people there too got matured/can change their views.
LOL, I hate this chronically online world we live in now. I know I'm part of the problem, as a viewer/participant, but all of this is so stupid in the greater scheme of life.
Plus, "relationships" that are so empty they don't even warrant a discussion, only a response video and an "unfollow" are not real. This is so dystopian... Life your best real life, in your healthiest body and take this social media shit with a grain of salt
What the hell...S acts like you're on a hate campaign for fat people. I don't know why she's give a fuck.
On another note, glad you're here 💖
Fat acceptance and body positivity was very helpful to me as a concept. Never, ever, EVER as an online cult tho.
Same! I first found out about body positivity in 2015 after I had my first (and only) autoimmune disorder breakout called HSP Vasculitis. The small blood vessels in my legs bleed and I got huge blisters from my knees down. My skin looked like it was rotting off. Of course it healed but then I had massive scabs that turned into scars that took years to turn from red to skin tone. I also gained a lot of weight from being on steroids and pain killers. I had stretch marks in places I didn’t think could have stretch marks. Body positivity helped me learn that even if I couldn’t love myself or my body in that moment that I still had value and was worthy of love.
Then you get involved in the online community and it’s nothing but negativity and pissing contest. They say thin people can’t have body image issues, fat people with EDs are more important than thin people with EDs but also at the same time fat people don’t have EDs, if you want to lose weight then you’re fatphobic but they’re constantly complaining about how hard it is to be fat….. the list goes on and on LMFAO.
Your response was perfect. Her video was infuriating. The defeatist attitude is so real, and can be so convincing.
Love the attitude and respect the confidence to speak out against the FA crazies. Personally I do care what other people do with their bodies: I believe everyone has a right to do whatever they like with their body, but I also have a right to care about their health and wellbeing even if they're complete strangers. I want everyone to make positive steps towards being less self destructive.
Didn't know you had a channel, glad you're doing better
I don't post as much as I should here lol! Thank you for the support.
Their response solidified my belief that they operate like a cult.
I would have to agree
You weren't even trying to be rude….💀 they're taking it way too personally….
Shaming someone for wanting to improve their health and actually BE body positive is insane. No one is shaming them for being fat positive, but god forbid you be overweight or obese and have a come to moment where you say "hey body, I'm gonna exercise and feed my body fuel" because they will come for you. I was always heavy- even as a kid who was active and was in dance. I have PCOS/IR,diabetes, and thyroid issues. I got covid twice and it put like, 50 something pounds on me and I was in pain and was out of shape and felt like I was dying. I ended up getting a VSG.
I tried everything and I mean EVERYTHING. At that weight, I was miserable and my joints hurt and I felt like I had cinder blocks attached to my legs. I've lost 65 pounds and while I still have long covid and can't exercise, I take my health so much more serious. My a1c dropped 3 points and I'm controlled now. I did end up getting dx with hashimoto AFTER losing weight (so clearly, losing weight doesn't always mean health!) but my PCOS is better, my skin is better, I'm on minimal insulin, and I have more energy. I have 0 hate for anyone who doesn't choose my journey, but weighing what I did at my height and heaviest weight, I was quite literally dying and felt horrendous. Covid ruined my body, but I took control. I personally felt terrible, and give props to people who were okay with my stats, but I wasn't. I couldn't function.
HAES is so toxic, IMO. Nothing is "healthy" about being nasty and bitter to people who want to change their lifestyle. Unless it's self h@rm, there is absolutely nothing wrong with changing of your life.
Proud of you for not giving a fuck when people are bullies ❤🪦
Obesity should be shamed. The Fatzos cost our healthcare systems and therefore us all BILLIONS.
I hate the way the FA community treats people who leave the movement or disagree with the rhetoric. Happy to see you on YT - I think you're lovely and wish you the best. Keep living your best life unapologetically. It's YOUR life. Im proud of you.
I went on a similar journey ❤ I love your vibes! New subscriber ✋ RIP Queen 🪦👑
RIP 🪦🪦 my condolences to your family
Thank you! My son (dog) is devastated. I had no life insurance policy or inheritance to pass down.
Yes! Learn! It’s so possible 😊😊😊 It’s 90% behavioral 10% genetics. 216 now down to 162 in 7 months and I’m still going 😊. Wouldn’t it be more liberating to know you have control of your own weight, which gives you the ability to change it if you don’t like it? You would think right?? But I think what that control does to a lot of people who live in obese bodies instead is makes them realize THEY are the ones who hold the responsibility to change, which is terrifying to those who don’t have the will and gumption to actually make huge changes and stick with them. So instead they find more comfort in blaming it on their own genetics & the attitudes of other people-two things they know they have absolutely no control over, & by doing so make themselves victims instead of their own liberators. They would rather live as an obese, oppressed victim, as opposed to a healthy, liberated overcomer, who took control of their own life, worked damn hard, and changed it for the better.
Oh my, how dare you decide to live a healthier life. The audacity.
2:14 samateverysize is one of the best creators tbh
I'm fat and never heardvof the fat acceptance comnunity until I started looking at weight loss videos. I think it's a kind of ridiculous concept. Sure, you should love yourself no matter your size. You should fight back against bullying and fat shaming. But to make it your entire personality is weird. And to get mad about people losing weight and embracing a healthier lifestyle is straight-up unhinged.
this is very unrelated: but- I absolutely your jewelry products and you should definitely think about making ear hangers for stretched ears!! love your vids❤❤❤
You literally never said anyone should lose weight. They always distort things. It's very disingenuous.
Agreed! They're a bunch of liars.
Ok I'm following this channel. Very interesting!
I’m so happy for you!
Happy Halloween (when I’m watching this)!! 🪦
Happy late Halloween 🎃👻
you remind me of the youtuber kiki chanel yall are so similar in energy and thats a good thing btw not tryna be rude
Omg no, I love her!!! We’re both from northern Illinois so sass, sarcasm and love for false lashes must be in the water 😂
@@angelycaviolet I love it keep it up diva!!
R.i.p 🙏🪦
last night i posted on tiktok and someone put a comment saying i need ozempic🤔i felt like i had no choice to make another video explaining that is only for pree to full diebetic which i am not. in fact for a big woman i am in perfect health i go to my dr regularly and they look at everything to make sure i stay ok. i dont have high blood pressure or any heart issues even for a smoker which have been since basically 10 years old.fat acceptance is ok but health comes first and if your advised for health to loose weight or choose to on your own people need to stop hateing. infact even if not fat i feel people can advocate for fat acceptance but that takes a heart most dont have.
You look the opposite of healthy.
You look like sick 50....
Why do non fat people need to advocate for fat people? There's more large people than not, so what exactly do you need from non fat people that you don't already have
@@CordeliaWagner1999 if you wanna start talking shit about looks, atleast have the balls to have a picture of yourself as pfp. Anything else is just cowardly 🥰✨
Much love to you spirit person 😂 🪦
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rip girlie 💀💀💀
It’s better on the otherside 👼
I watched you for awhile and I'm not on TT anymore so I missed that. I feel like the concern with saying that you are in control of your body is very triggering for those in recovery or currently with an ED. Yes you can control what you eat, but that doesn't correlate with how much you weigh. I think that rhetoric can be harmful to people. I am in recovery from an ED and its so complicated as a larger person. Also - many dietitians encourage people in ED recovery to not restrict as treatment. I'm not sure what your life situation was like, but wanted to share this perspective as someone who has been diagnosed with an ED, is in recovery, and has seen medical professionals to treat it.
I do think that the online communities are just... not very nuanced. We should all have the right to choose what we do with our bodies and not be told what we can or cant do. I 100% agree.
There's also this societal shift from accepting larger bodies back to people scrambling to fit the next trend and larger folks are upset with that and feel like they are losing icons. That isnt on you and no one should feel forced to stay at a certain weight large or small to meet an expectation.
You are fully welcome to disagree with me, but that was my perspective based on this video and my own experience.
As someone who has been on both sides of the Ed spectrum it is absolutely important for someone who has a binge disorder to have control and feel in control of what they’re eating. Just as it would be harmful for someone with a restrictive diet to say “don’t restrict” to a binge disordered person. Binge disorder is a lack of control. Also restriction is a loss of control to your condition. That being said I don’t think those words are harmful in the context she uses them.
You look super cute and I love those eye lashes. 🪦
RIP 🪦
These little supposed support groups are all hypocrites 🙄 and very harmful to themselves, and others dont get me started on the hate of not being any of their allies. Why are you upset that someone wants to do better for themselves.
They are jealous!
8:53...Dont start giving bored billionaires ideas. It'll detract from their donations.
🪦🪦 you a BAD BITCH... and I mean that in a good way!!! Good for u 🌻❤
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RIP 🤣You will be missed
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🪦RIP Queen! 😂
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Who do you think you are by controlling what you put in your mouth and how much of it? How dare you mock us (them) that weight loss is possible through diet and exercise! You really have some nerve!
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I think it’s awesome what you’re doing. I’m actually on my own weight loss journey and I just lost my first 10 lbs. and it made me so happy. Unfortunately for me though I have physical disabilities so I can’t exercise so I’m basically just relying on a healthy diet. So I really enjoy your what I eat vlogs and I hope you continue to make more because I need diet inspiration lol 🖤🪦
I found your spiritual, Christian rhetoric refreshing! Do you already believe in God? He loves us so much, that he sent Jesus as a sacrifice to save us. It seems like your spirit is seeking The Truth. Many parallels with your fitness journey🙏🏾
She said she isnt Christian 😅
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@@m0rganic-1 ew 😬
@ much love to you. You came across this for a reason🤗
Omg my condolences 🪦 lmao
This is exactly why I haven't affiliated with groups like this, as soon as you have a change of some perspectives (which is like normal as you get older) you get ridiculed and bashed for "changing" when that's literally what growing as an adult is about.
I myself am in the process of having gastric bypass because that's my personal journey, I've tried the diets and exercising but I need more help. I have had support for the most part but I know how some people think about surgery and I don't care. Whatever works for you is all that matters and no one can tell me otherwise.
I love your spirit and style (I'm hoping to buy more of your jewelry soon), I've followed because of your videos about Whimsigoth fashion but I stayed because you're a fucking awesome person lol I'm happy that you're happy, no matter what that looks like for you. As long as you're healthy and thriving is all that matters 💜💜💜
bullying is immature and this is clearly bullying behavior. I didn't know the fat acceptance community was so fiercely pro-fat. I thought it was all about being yourself and loving yourself no matter what you look like, I didn't know that you are bad if you want something different for yourself. girl, great that you have lost weight and feel better in your body! Great that you are pursuing your goal, whatever that is, that's great! I didn't really like your motivational comment at the end of the original video: that everyone has control over their body, because my body, and that of many people, is really not controllable due to medical issues. That's why I accept my fatness, because I have to get on with myself. so no, losing weight is really not for everyone. But I don't think that it was unacceptable for you to say that, I think it's just showing your enthusiasm and your eager to help other people be happy too. ❤
apart from that: let everyone have their own lives, goals, possibilities and respect each other. Don't bully or say: you can lose weight too! because that is not realistic for everyone. some are truly genetically helpless.
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How the hell do people care that much?😂 Also, congrats on your health! It is very hard work and an achievement you should be proud of!🪦
People really project a lot of stuff onto you when you lose weight. I lost about 110lbs over the past two years and people who I thought were my friends started treating me differently. It really sucks but like you said, if people are mean it's probably because they aren't very happy in their own lives. 🪦
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