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Wake up man logic does not work with women. wait till she divorces him and gets half. Half of everything she didn't build. And more importantly, takes the kids - if they have any.
I’m 78, married to the same one for well over 50 years ; would you believe I am only just starting to fully learn this! On holidays in the past , maybe we were locked up too close for too long , but there was often conflict. This time , after reading a bit about stoicism I decided to step back and stay quiet a lot more, let her instigate more decisions and, guess what she often decided to do what I would have done any way. A lot to be said for a bit of quiet I reckon. (As the man said).
If I step back and detach... she thinks Im blowing her off. If I try using Logic... I'm talking down to her, and she doesn't like the WAY I am saying it.
Need we not admit it, men also are emotional at times, suppressed or otherwise. In this state, it's easy to narrow our focus and do the dance with our wives.... the repetitive one that results in verbal blowouts, etc I believe Jocko's point here is rather than engage in the dance, take a step back and analyze the situation calmly, why am I feeling this way right now, what is she thinking and feeling and why.... etc
Arguing with my wife, well, that's usually one sided and I know my side rarely ever gets a chance to return fire. More often that not it gets the chance to raise the white flag, offer terms of unconditional surrender and then gives up the spoils of war to the winning side.
Their not. He is just a guy stating common sense. Is he right? Absolutely. They should teach shit like this in school. Maybey then we wouldn’t have as many cry baby gen x getting offended by every little ffing thing. Or their parents should discipline them accordingly.
@@crashandburngaming5103 They should teach this stuff at home!.. that right there is the problem, mom and dad are probably too busy yelling at each other to teach their children. That or mom and dad are separated. It starts in the home.
Replying 'logically' to a woman when she's deep into her 'emotion'...simply doesn't work. Step back? Yes, and let her vent, and tell her that you love her, and give her a hug...but only if it's your wife/LTR partner. Once she's vomited all her emotion and is now drained, she will realise the immaturity of her actions and then will, usually, be ready to listen to a logical discussion.
It’s true, that childish emotional warground leads to nothing but assuming that logic is something that a woman/wife needs in an argument ignores their emotional nature. Men are clearly more logical and rational. Women are by nature much more emotional and gut feeling driven. It’s normal for beings that have that much at stake when it comes to offsprings. The most arguments are emotional because they involve very emotional reasons like: is this or that good for my kids and their education. Women, especially mothers get in rage, when they feel something can damage anything for their kids. When they don’t see the man getting on the same emotional level and deeply understand their concerns und when men don’t understand their emotions, then it’s futile to try to convince the woman. It’s like arguing in different languages.
this is the problem so what it he point of talking about this. 90% of all people are being led like sheep by their own emotions and society is drilling that into their heads everyday. just one example is "life is about being happy" one of the biggest lies ever.
Well totally right to detach and step back, analyse, find solutions. However logic with the wife does never work. Even just finding a solution for the current "problem" does not work. Logic best explained by Don MCmillan ruclips.net/video/ObRdUEWwCvI/видео.html.
A scene from 2 1/2 Men is my go-to strategy to handle my wife when she’s emotional. I just look into her eyes and say ”I understand” after her every other sentence. It’s golden🫡
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I detach, use logic and stay focused. Then my wife gets home and it all goes to shit.
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Mate! It's so hard
I was fully on board until he mentioned using logic with one’s wife 😂
I was about to write the same :D. Good point.
Wake up man logic does not work with women.
wait till she divorces him and gets half. Half of everything she didn't build. And more importantly, takes the kids - if they have any.
Logic? Good way to get slapped!
Is he married to another man? If so, then yeah use logic; all the logic you can muster up.
🤣🤣🤣these comments but FACTS
I’m 78, married to the same one for well over 50 years ; would you believe I am only just starting to fully learn this! On holidays in the past , maybe we were locked up too close for too long , but there was often conflict. This time , after reading a bit about stoicism I decided to step back and stay quiet a lot more, let her instigate more decisions and, guess what she often decided to do what I would have done any way. A lot to be said for a bit of quiet I reckon. (As the man said).
If I step back and detach... she thinks Im blowing her off.
If I try using Logic... I'm talking down to her, and she doesn't like the WAY I am saying it.
That’s why she needs to be able to do the same.
You can be logical and empathetic at the same time. Cold logic warms no hearts.
Need we not admit it, men also are emotional at times, suppressed or otherwise.
In this state, it's easy to narrow our focus and do the dance with our wives.... the repetitive one that results in verbal blowouts, etc
I believe Jocko's point here is rather than engage in the dance, take a step back and analyze the situation calmly, why am I feeling this way right now, what is she thinking and feeling and why.... etc
I read a long time ago that when people are emotional they have trouble listening and following instructions.
It's called "being an adult". Easier said than done, but something to keep practicing, no matter how old we are!
Having the Holy Ghost as a companion to speak to her heart on my behalf because I truly love her helps me.
Arguing with my wife, well, that's usually one sided and I know my side rarely ever gets a chance to return fire. More often that not it gets the chance to raise the white flag, offer terms of unconditional surrender and then gives up the spoils of war to the winning side.
I am totally detached from my husband and others. My husband is a wonderful man, but I just can't get close to anyone. I do not like arguing.
Very good practice! It's funny how the things we learned in the military, we're able to apply in life.
Bang on 💯
Good stuff... good 2 cents
I didn’t know SEALs were experts when it comes to marriages.
Life’s experiences
their divorce rates say otherwise.
What good does it do to become emotional with a woman?
Their not. He is just a guy stating common sense. Is he right? Absolutely.
They should teach shit like this in school.
Maybey then we wouldn’t have as many cry baby gen x getting offended by every little ffing thing.
Or their parents should discipline them accordingly.
@@crashandburngaming5103
They should teach this stuff at home!.. that right there is the problem, mom and dad are probably too busy yelling at each other to teach their children. That or mom and dad are separated.
It starts in the home.
I love Jocko
My advice is save yourself and don’t get a wife
They’re all batshit crazy
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Correct
Replying 'logically' to a woman when she's deep into her 'emotion'...simply doesn't work.
Step back? Yes, and let her vent, and tell her that you love her, and give her a hug...but only if it's your wife/LTR partner.
Once she's vomited all her emotion and is now drained, she will realise the immaturity of her actions and then will, usually, be ready to listen to a logical discussion.
It is so hard to get to that point with them but this is real advice. Hold the line, weather the storm.
Thanks for commenting and giving sound advice. Women are very difficult. Many are crazy or go crazy.
I love your phrase "vomitted out her emotions".
THATS BRILLIANT !
Here's mine: 'no angry person every learned anything'.
Original interview?
It’s that “try to assemble a logical thing to say bad” that’s the kicker.
That’s hard to do, I need to work on that
NAVSPECWAR OFFICERS are excellent at detaching😮
This was going really well until he said come up with a logical response 😂😂😂😂
Jocko spouting the obvious like he invented the internet.
This guy’s never met my wife 😂
The dude across from him is a yes man
People hear what they want to hear. Better humble up before you stumble up. Just nod and say I understand.
It’s true, that childish emotional warground leads to nothing but assuming that logic is something that a woman/wife needs in an argument ignores their emotional nature. Men are clearly more logical and rational. Women are by nature much more emotional and gut feeling driven. It’s normal for beings that have that much at stake when it comes to offsprings. The most arguments are emotional because they involve very emotional reasons like: is this or that good for my kids and their education. Women, especially mothers get in rage, when they feel something can damage anything for their kids. When they don’t see the man getting on the same emotional level and deeply understand their concerns und when men don’t understand their emotions, then it’s futile to try to convince the woman. It’s like arguing in different languages.
The only result you get is they run around in a circle, chasing their own tail and barking incessantly.
This genius just discovered tunnel vision. Good job
Yes, that sounds perfectly right. Unless you're dealing with a psycho.
Glad I'm not married to him or anyone like him.
detach ..ok
calm down ...ok
listen to what she say ... ok
and then try to asemble a "logical thing" to say back ... 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
NO
Good luck using logic on women
Can you tell him to shut up
He said use logic with a woman! 😂😂😂 credibility just went to zero with that one!
This guy doesn't have a wife
this is the problem so what it he point of talking about this. 90% of all people are being led like sheep by their own emotions and society is drilling that into their heads everyday. just one example is "life is about being happy" one of the biggest lies ever.
Well totally right to detach and step back, analyse, find solutions. However logic with the wife does never work. Even just finding a solution for the current "problem" does not work. Logic best explained by Don MCmillan ruclips.net/video/ObRdUEWwCvI/видео.html.
Shitty AI transcription is shitty
Lost me at using logic against women . Sorry I’ve dealt with my share of women and something logical well never stop a woman arguing
Wow. His face contorts into anger at the word ‘emotional’. That’s one angry dude there. Why is he suddenly appearing in my feed?
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Common sense is all it is. But it’s not that common.
A scene from 2 1/2 Men is my go-to strategy to handle my wife when she’s emotional. I just look into her eyes and say ”I understand” after her every other sentence. It’s golden🫡