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Why does the interviewer hate Jocko’s wife so much? Really weird.

***UNLESS, it's a group of AMs.

I wish I could reflect and diminish this video from my mind because it was a fucking waste of time

The only result you get is they run around in a circle, chasing their own tail and barking incessantly.

Reflect dropps the guards becaus ethey subconsciously see themselves. Then they are open to your question. Your question should be one that requires more than a yes or no answer. This waybit can only be asnwered by your logic part of your brain. You cannoy be in both fight and logic. As the person switches to logic brain they immediately calm down. It taoes aome time for the cortisol to also diminish so yhey will have feeelings of agitation bit they are on their way. Asking quesstions is an activation type of conversation and it also helps the person to own their own problem rather than dropping it on your desk to deal with.

So, be a good liar😂

First will absolutely work but the last one will not.....W

What phenotype is this?

This is really just dude discovers empathy. Which is not always easy for dudes. He has his stuff together.

Another thing I find aggravating is when I’m upset about something like “don’t worry about it” or “that’s life” 🤬

Worked in customer service for over 20 years. We’re trained to show empathy when customers come in upset. Second, offer in the moment solution to their frustration.

This guy spoke truth. That’s the correct way to diffuse situation with people you are in love with or to want to stay friends.

Dropping some 💎♦️🔷️✨️

This is pretty basic stuff tbh. The real issue is how to deal with people who are angry at you!

wow, real advice in no time? no selling out, sponsorships and "Hey guy!, let me tell you about the easiest technique...."

The ice machine? Ask her if the vacuum still works. Dishwasher okay?

Wife : U piece of shit, i caught u cheating on me again!!" Husband : Oh no not again, damn I am an idiot.. but let's figure things out together shall we??

Context please. Is this about orientation or exercise?

When we are angry are ability to reason and make good decisions diminishes massively, so saying calm down is supportive towards having a calm state of mind to best and most effectively resolve the issues at hand

It’s true, that childish emotional warground leads to nothing but assuming that logic is something that a woman/wife needs in an argument ignores their emotional nature. Men are clearly more logical and rational. Women are by nature much more emotional and gut feeling driven. It’s normal for beings that have that much at stake when it comes to offsprings. The most arguments are emotional because they involve very emotional reasons like: is this or that good for my kids and their education. Women, especially mothers get in rage, when they feel something can damage anything for their kids. When they don’t see the man getting on the same emotional level and deeply understand their concerns und when men don’t understand their emotions, then it’s futile to try to convince the woman. It’s like arguing in different languages.

I was expecting to find out how to deescalate some drunken nutter in a pub..

Fix the voice please

Wat an absolute idiot. Haha

The plant in the back perfect setting for this guy.

If I’m in a firefight with my wife and I pop up from the weeds I’m getting unalived.

Another putin apologist...

I can totally picture that Jocko guy angry and someone did the trick with him

It doesnt work on scammers though. It can be used against you, should they choose to sue you. Because it can be deemed as admission of making mistake.

so saying "are you on the rag again" is not a good response. got it!

All obvious stuff lol

"Well okay, do you want me to get ice shipped from Alaska there princess!?" ... 😏Man I'd be so tempted

I like this "reflect and diminish" technique. In the past, the "reflect" part was known as "commiserating" or "empathizing". As others have stated, it's a way of validating the other person's feelings, and showing them you're on the same team. What about when the other person is (rightfully) angry at YOU? Answer sincerely, without sarcasm or brushing it off, "Yeah, I know. That was STOOpid. I don't know what I was thinking, or if I was even thinking at all! What can I do to help make this better?" Own your mistakes to show you're on the same team. I've used this technique personally; can confirm it works.

Not having to handle other people is the gift that keeps on giving.

What to do when someone is angry at you? If you'll do this, they will think you are mocking them and their reaction will definitely escalate. What to do if it's your boss who is angry with you? There is some hierarchy involved, too...

This seems pretty obvious if you have empathy lol. I do this already, usually.

Not genius stuff just basic psychology

"I caught you cheating with the skank next door you asshole!!" "Ah man that's horrible! We need to get this situation sorted out, we need to fix this!"

Lol this is what's known by emotionally competent people as basic empathy, here now explained by a Navy Seal like a set of tactical directions 😂

I suppose I am the only one annoyed with those subtitles. As it turns out I can hear what he said. Imagine that.

Excellent method as long as it is not a sociopath.

Congrats on almost 1 million views. This technique comes naturally for the best customer service and sales people, glad to see it represented here so clearly.

Jock retired as an officer of I’m not mistaken he wasn’t struggling lol

His wife’s really mad about the supply department

man explains basic social skills

Great advice, but it does not work with my wife. She is blaming me for the shit thats happening.

A scene from 2 1/2 Men is my go-to strategy to handle my wife when she’s emotional. I just look into her eyes and say ”I understand” after her every other sentence. It’s golden🫡

How do I apply this to my Ex-Wife who is angry at the fact that I'm alive?

How is this merit a video. This is literaly level one basic people skill. You all are tripping

@GrantCardone "Always, Always, Always agree with the customer."

Stupid socks always disappear who created them? Houdini?