5 Tips That Will Save Your Marriage (They Might Surprise You)
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- Опубликовано: 2 авг 2024
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I remember when I was so addicted to porn I started doing it as a "job" , I was heavy into drinking and drugs....I rejected God All the time and made a mockery of Christians.... There was So many times people tried sharing the gospel with me and I rejected them time and time again, I had so much anger, so much darkness within me, I was a slave to the enemy and I didn't even know it, I thought I was living "free".... Long story short , it took me to be at my Lowest when I was more suicidal then ever before, I was crying out to my dad on the phone and he begged me to pray, I was angry at his response and hung up....moments letter I fell to my knees and was So desperate and cried out to God.....not even knowing if I was being heard or not.....SO much poured out of my spirit, I don't even remember half of what I said....all I know is after that moment, something hit me, I felt something I never felt before....I was Never the same again, I felt God....I didn't even know what that meant, but now I know it was fully God, I felt a sense of peace and like I wasn't alone ... I felt in my heart that God was really true....he was really....Real....I couldn't explain it, but from that day forward I have Never been the same, over time I gave up all of my addictions and repented for all of my ways ... I now have been completely sober for 3 years and stopped doing / watching porn for over 5....God IS TRUE he IS, the GOD OF MIRACLES!!!!!!!!! If he could change me from the wicked woman I once was...I'm telling you, he can do a mighty work in ANYONE!!!!! I thank the Lord everyday that I'm Not who I used to be, ALL GLORY TO GOD!!!!!🙏💜
Wow! I thank God for you! Thanks for sharing! I have someone I’m praying for and your sorry was so encouraging.
Wow! praise the LORD 🙏 Thank you for sharing!
Wow that’s so amazing!! Praise God for turning your life around and adding your name to the book of life! 🙏🏽 so proud of you for being sober and free of porn for years! I know that’s not an easy feat 💪🏽 thanks for sharing your testimony! I know this will encourage many others!
Wow!!! What an amazing testimony. Transparency is so important for new believers. People need to hear real testimonies and not the "perfect Christian" story. I'm excited for you deliverance.
Love this video so far! (Only a few mins in 😂) I watched you guys before I got married and just celebrated my first month married 4/19!! Thank you for all your advice. You inspire us to continue traveling, investing, praying and eventually parenting! ♥️
Such a blessing to hear that! 💛
Disclaimer: this video is only for healthy couples and not for people in an abusive (etc) relationship
I still click on the videos you guys post that are unrelated to my life (being a single person) because I enjoy your dynamics as a couple. Did not disappoint
Haha Aw thank you!
I read parenting magazines before becoming a parent. There will be ideas you find while watching that will help you the rest of your life.
So thankful for you guys and all you do! My husband and I have been married for a little over a year, and the tip to pray together really stuck out to me. We try to incorporate it, but it isn't a priority when it should be. Our marriage isn't struggling, but it's good to be reminded that we need to pray together, not just for each other
1. Have fun
2. Assume the best encourage each other
3. Be honest
4. Comunicate
Thanks for the advice. Love that you are uploading more consistently now. :) I like tip #2. It is so easy to encourage others yet it doesn't happen very often.
agreed!
Great topic! Thanks for sharing! One tip that my wife and I have done since we got married is ask each other how we are doing in the "love and respect" area. She asks me if I have felt respected by her and I ask her if she feels loved by me. It's been a good exercise for us! Just another idea! Keep up the good work, and God bless you and your family!
Ooo that’s a great one! We are going to do that! Thank you for sharing!
@@nateandsutton You are welcome!
Loved this video!! Thanks for sharing your marriage tips, and as a very happily married woman for 14 years, I can honestly say that having fun and laughing with your spouse is one of the best ways to keep your marriage happy and alive. My favorite person to hang out with is my Robert! Keep laughing and praying with/for each other. ❤
That’s awesome! Totally agree!
Thanks for the advice 🙂!
This was so helpful. Thank you so much!
You guys are awesome, witnessing your connection is helping me improve my connection with God, myself, and my partner!! Made the decision to wait until marriage after watching some of your videos and it has been one of the best decisions of my life. Met someone who may become my wife and am so happy we both have a heart for Jesus, are waiting and find inspiration from so much that you guys talk about! Thank you & God bless.
Wow that’s amazing! Thanks so much for sharing! You def won’t regret that decision to wait! 🙏🏽
I love how you take the time to share what makes you a strong couple with all the young couples out there, and to the ones that still have their special someone out there to meet. Couples and couples to be will set their standards high and with self- worth. Love the praying suggestion and talking about omission. Sutton and Nate, it is nice to see how you love, honor each other, to always nurture your marriage to keep it thriving and take each other’s needs always to heart,talk a bout things openly and seek mentorship if needed. Now go and have some fun! Kind and sweet couple!
Thank you for the kind words! 💛
This was so good. And I also just love watching the fun dynamic between you two. Nate is sometimes awkward yet sooo hilarious, gets me loling every time 🤣🤣🤣
This is so helpful! As a student journalist I've been taught criticism and critique so that became a part of me, but I see that in a relationship that is damaging. Thank you because encouraging is better in all ways! I am very grateful for your five tips. Also, being serious most times doesn't soften a person's character so it's good to have jokes and to have fun. Thank you.
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My husband and I committed to invest frequently in our marriage through counseling even when things are going great. And we find a marriage course or book to go through regularly to grow proactively towards a more fantastic marriage every day!
God bless you all! This is so good! I’m single and saving these tips!!!
Thank you so much for this video! I really like the way you, Nate, look at Sutton when she is telling something. So sweet. And the tips are so great! I needed this! Although I knew a lot of the tips already, it was great to have a reminder, since I haven't done so well lately :\
Great advice
One of the tips y’all gave in a previous video is “outdo one another” in service! It has become a huge part in our marriage. Serving one another (even when you don’t want to) helps us soften our hearts and love one another better.
Yeah that’s a great one! Happy to hear you’re applying it and seeing the results 😄
wow im not even married but i love these videos so i have knowledge for the future
I had no idea we had the EXACT SAME anniversary, same year even! So cool! I'm typing this before I hear your tips which I'm sure are good 😄
We had our third baby 10 months ago and I've also suffered a miscarriage (my second babe). Can't wait to meet your newest one!
I really enjoyed this video and the tips. Especially talking about your spouse in a positive way. I’ve seen the opposite and it broke my heart to hear it even though it wasn’t pertaining to me in anyway
I see nothing wrong with examining oneself. I often find that I am usually negative AND tend to hold my spouse to an unrealistic level of expectations. I have been trying to work on these things AND trying to speak less, think before speaking... Thanks, God bless you both! After 25 years of marriage, we have only prayed together a handful of times, unequally yolked.
It’s awesome that you know these things about yourself and are willing to work on them! And it’s never too late to start praying together! Who knows, maybe that could be the gateway to becoming equally yoked 🙏🏽
Bonus Tip: In sickness and in health; In sickness remember your vows and know that it could be the other way around and it be you. So many people leave marriages when there is a dire diagnosis. It's a hard road to toll, however, this is an honor to serve the other spouse when a life altering circumstance of health changes the trajectory of your lives together. And the bonus is, your life draws closer to God and each other! Life is precious and every breath comes from God.
Happy Anniversary! 🎉 God bless you!
Thanks so much to both of you for these tips, Sutton the examples you give and the points you make really resonate with me, I'm single now but I'm so glad I watched this:) In case meeting a husband is God's will for me, this would be super helpful:)
Agreed! Fun and laughter is important in any relationship! The Joy of the Lord is our Strength! Tfs and Happy Anniversary in advance!
Thank you!
I absolutely love you guys to pieces ❤️
Beautiful video ❤️ God bless you
Y’all are awesome! Thanks for passing on Gods word!
I was watching y’all’s video and a little girl I was babysitting came up to me and said Nate looked like Bruno 😂❤️❤️ love you guys ❤️
At minute 11 right now, and also feeling the "I love this video !!" moment. Not married yet though, but soon will be
Hey, i really love you!!! You are awesome and so encouraging. I love that!! May god bless you all over in every area!
Love and greetings from Germany.
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Thank you! 💛
Her smile captures the room❤️
You should do a video about how to pray with your spouse or partner
You guys have the same anniversary as my husband and I!! 😃
This weekend is our first anniversary! And happy 6th anniversary to you two!! 🥰❤
Aw cool! Happy anniversary to you too! 💛💛
@@nateandsutton Thank you so much!! ❤❤❤
And we are expecting our first baby in June. Around the same time your third baby is due. So exciting!! There are so many new babies being born this year. 🥰
wow. needed this when i didnt think i did. the Lord is doing great things through you guys❤️
An answered prayer 😭🙏🏽 thank you!
Also, I really cracked up at Nate's face when Sutton mentioned sex life ahaha
I'm definitely going to try the butt waddle thing with my husband! He will love it and he thinks everything is funny anyways! ~ It was hilarious when Nate did a little demo for us. ~ I think it would be funny to just do it in front of a mirror too! :)
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??? Is there a way to request a Christian counselor through Better Help? I have heard a lot about Better Help lately so I just wondered how you get matched with a counselor. Thanks. Loved the video!
I’m young but definitely looking forward to marriage!
I would love to know what you guys think about Disneys new movies and how will it affect you and your children watching in the future. I’m a mom and I’m seeing a lot of bogus Christian views that are really stretching some of the meanings to certain movies I’m not saying all because there are some movies that I’m not okay with. But it’s really making me think and fall into ways that I don’t think I should be falling into
Hihii, I love the timing of this video. Yesterday (24 April) was my 1 month wedding "anniversary". Me and my husband both forgot about it. XD
Haha Aw happy anniversary!
@@nateandsutton You too, in 4 days! ;)
I always wanted to know if you work out Sutton during pregnancy and after pregnancy? Also, what are your eating habits like? I would love for you to share!
I def worked out way better at the beginning of my pregnancy. As it goes on I reallyyyy lack motivation haha but I know it’s good to move and stretch! I could do better with my eating to be honest 😬 it’s not horribleeee, but it’s def not great haha I could eat pizza and pasta every day of the week
@@nateandsutton you are naturally thin! What a gift from God where you don't need to work really hard at exercising and eating right. Seeing you so vibrant brings me a lot of joy to my heart.
Such a random question… what teeth whitener do y’all use???
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Tip: Buy those thrift store outlandish clothes and wear them on your next video.
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With all respect your husband is really handsome. May the lord bless your marriage.
Can you guys do a video or just enlighten me what counseling does if there is no issue to sort out in marriage? Like what do you even talk about in those sessions?
I think even if you don’t have a problem you can always strive to be/do better! We were at a point where everything was good, we were both happy, no problems but we got the books husband and wife in pursuit and starting reading through them and trying their suggestions and it took our marriage up a notch! We never want to get to the point where we think we have it all under control and know it all, but instead have a posture of always being willing to learn and grow together to make our marriage the best it can be!
@@nateandsutton Thanks for replying & I understand the part of working on our marriage constantly with our husband/wife. We also love reading books and watching Yt videos like your channel and that always sharpen us but I did not quite understand what a counselor would help when a couple is already making some effort together…. I guess they would provide more tools :)
You can talk about ways to communicate better, you could go over childhood relationship patterns that may be shaping your marriage, you can learn tips on how to improve on relating to each other, etc.
Hi.
How can I save a marriage with a narcisist husband pretending cresthin..where he doesn't want to go counseling..or separation or divorce.
And exist child in this marriage..
😂 I don’t think anyone knows what hopeless romantic is because I’ve heard people explain it both ways.
Yeah when you think about it it actually doesn’t make sense 🤔
@@nateandsutton There are quite a few things we’ve heard in our lives where I wonder if it’s true and where it even came from.
Speaking of marriage counseling, I can’t remember what they said word for word but Sam and Nia have said something about doing regular marriage counseling. Yes, I love them! I 100% believe they are followers of Jesus.
where is nathaniels shirt from??
Got it at tj maxx but it’s lucky brand!
Do you guys have advice for a couples who are having problems conceiving? We’ve been married 5 years and My husband doesn’t make any sperm cells and it’s threatened to cause the end of our relationship. We’re good now.. but any advice is appreciated
Do you Love all people?
April 30th is my birthday
Happy anniversary in advance
I think being single after 25 can sometimes be hard
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go the extra mile for your spouse
My tip on marriage... oh wait, I'm still single :(
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Both of u have rly nice teeth
REPENT FOR THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN IS AT HAND TURN FROM SIN AND TURN TOWARDS RIGHTEOUSNESS THROUGH CHRIST JESUS
JESUS CHRIST IS COMING BACK SOON AND WE MUST BE READY FOR WHEN HE COMES BACK
Idk man. I've seen a few of these videos and Nate has got to be one of the worst husband's I've ever witnessed. I hope she leaves him for some one who can actually love her properly.
ya’ll should really make a podcast!!🤍
@NateandSutton Hello y'all
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@@nateandsutton How're you guys doing?