WILL & JADA: SEPARATED FOR 6 YEARS? How to Deal With Hypocrites! | Shallon Lester

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  • Опубликовано: 6 ноя 2024

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  • @RikkiSpanish
    @RikkiSpanish Год назад +483

    Jada seems downright abusive. If the roles were reversed and Will was doing this to Jada, the public would be utterly outraged.

    • @canesugar911
      @canesugar911 Год назад +35

      This whole role reversal argument is the stupidest thing people keep pushing. Will and jada made their decisions about their relationship and jada HAS been the ONLY ONE getting dragged and blamed for the state of their situationship.
      Since the red table talk, will was the perpetual victim and jada the villain. There was always outrage against jada. Last i checked, jada is a woman.

    • @RikkiSpanish
      @RikkiSpanish Год назад +14

      @canesugar911 I would rip on Will, but other than being a beta, I don't know what he has done. Jada is the one who keeps spilling her guts to the media about the details of their relationship. If you ask me, Jada doesn't get nearly ENOUGH criticism! She's awful.
      Do you think it's not abusive the way that Jada has isolated Will? Is it not abusive to emotionally break someone down? I don't believe this would be nearly as ignored/accepted if Will were acting like Jada is. The media would be going apeshit if Will forced Jada apologize to all of the guests at his birthday party that she decided to organize and throw for him. The media went apeshit simply because Keke Palmer's fiancee spoke up about not liking what she wore to some stupid event, calling him controlling and abusive.

    • @sheenacouture7657
      @sheenacouture7657 Год назад +12

      I thought we all were outraged. Have you seen all the tik toks? Everyone hates her and thinks she is being super shitty to Will

    • @SarahG-vz3ki
      @SarahG-vz3ki Год назад +4

      No, everyone is aware of how it’s messed up but as a man it is Will’s job to stand up for himself & or leave if he’s not gonna get respect but he’s not doing anything about it and that’s his choice.

    • @everydoghasitsday3878
      @everydoghasitsday3878 Год назад +7

      Will cheated on Jada, too. He had affairs with Margot Robbie and Liza Koshy.

  • @Superstitious33
    @Superstitious33 Год назад +428

    Finally Shallon videos are back! My lunch break was so boring the past 2 weeks. Balance is restored lol

  • @glittersloth11
    @glittersloth11 Год назад +252

    Jada is quite vicious. It’s so obvious that she’s always been jealous of Will’s success and the fact that he’s more well-liked (pre-slap, at least) by Hollywood and the general public. She tears him down to punish him for what she lacks. That is not a friend or a spouse. That’s a cruel and selfish enemy.
    And I have also heard stories of them both being gay. Why did he violently defend her at the Oscars? Because she has loads and loads of dirt on him which I’m sure she weaponizes in order to get what she wants out of him, and to make him feel less than on a regular basis. Really pathetic and sad.

    • @Babezilla
      @Babezilla Год назад +8

      Apparently Willl smith is bisexual and so is Jada

    • @elmac4744
      @elmac4744 Год назад +5

      Boo freakin' hoo. Don't kid yourself, he continues to be with her and he loves it.

    • @PuddilyOops
      @PuddilyOops Год назад +22

      Before he knew her she auditioned for a part on Fresh Prince and they chose some other actress. But shortly after that she and Will started dating and she repeatedly told him how mad she was that she wasn’t chosen for that part. Years later she was Still talking about it. Imo that was a narcissistic injury and she is making him Pay for the rest of her life. I would bet money.

    • @TheLovelypecan
      @TheLovelypecan Год назад +13

      She puts out major pettiness vibes and I don’t think people like working with her and that may have hurt her career. She definitely resents Will’s success, it’s not a good look

    • @canesugar911
      @canesugar911 Год назад +3

      You got this insight from a freaking internet psychic(Anthony) and you are confidently spreading that info like its the gospel. 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @amarjotsingh8455
    @amarjotsingh8455 Год назад +37

    beyonce and jay z are in a business relationship too but atleast they shut up about it lmao

  • @jenniferbays5147
    @jenniferbays5147 Год назад +76

    I'm just still in shock that Will punched Chris Rock for Jada and they're supposedly separated for 6 years... Make that make sense!

    • @Babezilla
      @Babezilla Год назад +11

      He didn’t punch Chris. Will felt the need to play saviour for the mother of his children but he went about the wrong way

    • @jenniferbays5147
      @jenniferbays5147 Год назад +12

      @@Babezilla lol I meant slap, thank you for that. I understand defending the mother of your children but he was laughing like a few seconds before he got up. That's why all of this just does not make sense I swear that woman just wants to be in the spotlight some way somehow and she is throwing him under the bus.

    • @TheRubyFeline
      @TheRubyFeline Год назад

      That was a pr stunt.

    • @glittersloth11
      @glittersloth11 Год назад +2

      @@TheRubyFeline definitely not a pr stunt for several reasons. There was nothing about it that benefitted his career/public standing in any way. Additionally, there’s no way he could have known that Chris Rock was going to say anything about Jada. What we saw was a man who realized he better defend his “wife” lest she start threatening to spill all his secrets.

  • @PuddilyOops
    @PuddilyOops Год назад +46

    The fact that Will wasn’t able to tell people that he and Jada weren’t together (when she was with that other guy) and everyone called him a cuck - it’s mind blowing. What even is their relationship? It’s bizarre.

    • @soilgrasswaterair
      @soilgrasswaterair Год назад +4

      Why would he share that though? It gave him space to do his own thing with his longterm side boo and such, without the media and the public being in his business.

    • @canesugar911
      @canesugar911 Год назад

      ​@@soilgrasswaterairexactly.

    • @gingerlee726
      @gingerlee726 Год назад

      Damn that's abusive. Poor Will.

  • @mmps18
    @mmps18 Год назад +57

    Jada is another person who claims to want privacy but then is a chronic oversharer. She confuses me.

    • @tmhtmh6767
      @tmhtmh6767 Год назад +2

      Just like Meghan Markle

  • @NewYearOldMe
    @NewYearOldMe Год назад +44

    Will's behavior is that of a victim that still has his abuser in his life.

  • @ebeauty2322
    @ebeauty2322 Год назад +86

    What I like about Shallon is that she is so open about narcisism and I really think we women are to nice and we should take advice from her.

  • @Vrose9477
    @Vrose9477 Год назад +35

    I just experienced a painful betrayal.
    A best friend who wasn't a best friend obviously. I should have seen it stupid. But she moved and she has been through a lot so I flew up there to see, make sure she was okay. She had a new man, living with him. I stayed with her and him for 3 days and 2 nights. They took me to the airport. Literal minutes away it was cancelled. She wouldn't turn back to help me so I could book a flight and go home the next day. She wouldn't go and get me because she had to be with her new man's motor cycle club meeting. Literally left me 6 hours away from anyone I actually new besides her. The only thing I got was sorry we need to go to the motor cycle club meeting. It was in 2 hours. Such a betrayal feeling so silly for trusting her. Working through that now. Your videos definitely have helped to move forward from this.

    • @rasakors
      @rasakors Год назад +10

      Beautiful girl! I have always loved the phrase - better late than never. It’s good you won’t waste anymore time on her. And better people will come. This could have been a karmic relationship. Best part though, you are and will continue growing and becoming a better person. Sending you love!

    • @elementohsix
      @elementohsix Год назад +7

      Anytime I had friends who tried to “fit me in” around their boyfriends, I just let the friendship go.

    • @sheenacouture7657
      @sheenacouture7657 Год назад +2

      Ugh I hate when people can’t figure out how to be a friend when they get a significant other. I made sure my group of friends was always loved and considered when I was first to have a serious partner. Then when they got wives and husbands they disappeared. One specifically, we were friends for 20 years! His fiancé said that she would not marry him if he kept his female friends so he dropped me. If my partner told me I couldn’t keep my decades long male friends I would have left him. But I guess he felt he had no choice

    • @selochoa639
      @selochoa639 Год назад +3

      Um did she ask you to be there? Or did you surprise her?

    • @Noqqin
      @Noqqin 11 месяцев назад

      @@elementohsix Well that's just stupid.

  • @Lalalissy09
    @Lalalissy09 Год назад +19

    You deserve far better friends than that! I truly admire your resilience in continuing to embrace life and welcoming new, incredible friendships. Your belief in surrounding ourselves with people we admire and aspire to be like is something I truly cherish.

  • @frosting6439
    @frosting6439 Год назад +57

    I’m so confused about their ‘relationship’. Like what? They walked red carpets together and made everyone think they had an amazing marriage in interviews-And then we find out they’ve actually been separated for almost a decade ?? I thought they just had some weird open marriage when all the cheating came out. And yeah, I know it’s none of my business, but it’s just weird how they played this whole thing out. And doesn’t that whole façade block anyone else they actually want to have a real relationship with??

    • @ptrsrfns
      @ptrsrfns Год назад

      None of it is true. Jada is just trying to do damage control and Will is going along with it cause he's a pu55y

    • @GitanAnimex
      @GitanAnimex Год назад +5

      I think they separated after the oscar slap but not before, she is just trying to clean her image,put more distance with that event and leavng will smith as the crazy oneb

    • @glittersloth11
      @glittersloth11 Год назад +1

      Yep, they put on a great show for everyone to hide the fact that it’s the complete opposite. Better acting there than in any of their tv and movie roles.

  • @Ennaitak
    @Ennaitak Год назад +18

    It's simple. In Jadas eyes Tupac was the one that got away, when she got pregnant with Wills baby she felt the need to settle for him and get married, then Jadas career took off more and they gained this reputation of being Hollywood's black power couple and she didn't want to give that up. Now that people see through that, she embarrassed will every chance she gets to maintain that attention

    • @desleywhite7670
      @desleywhite7670 Год назад +4

      Tupac didn’t want Jada but he can’t say so now can he? Jada speaks for him now 🥴🙄

  • @SianYu1
    @SianYu1 Год назад +54

    Everything I know about these two has been against my will (no pun intended 😩)

    • @KB093
      @KB093 Год назад +2

      😂😂

  • @sim771
    @sim771 Год назад +72

    My first bf was a Jewish guy, and I learned really fast (him explaining the basics ~10 years ago) how complex and complicated the conflict is. I’m a pretty smart person, but people with literal PhDs in the topic struggle to form their thoughts and find solutions.
    Since that day, I decided that I do not have the qualifications to speak in the conflict and to speak wrong is not helpful. There’s so much bias and missing facts that no matter which side, it’s likely not even close to capturing the truth. It’s heartbreaking and tragic and the normies like us who aren’t impacted are simply not equipped to claim we know and understand.
    My only source now is my good friend, whose parent is a diplomat, is a literal genius and has accurate sources.
    I listen, I learn, and I don’t speak out of turn.

    • @7jarrow
      @7jarrow Год назад +20

      It more difficult to be informed in USA on world affairs. America interferes in some many countries, it has it’s own agenda.

    • @mrssolomon3127
      @mrssolomon3127 Год назад +5

      ​@@7jarrowevery country has its own agenda. Do u live in the USA and have a hard time getting news u can rely on? To be educated and informed, one has to do their own research. It's not a great idea to sit back and have ANY one news source feed u info

    • @yasmin4494
      @yasmin4494 Год назад +8

      Thank you from Israel! I grew up here and I still know there is so much complexity in the situation that I don't have a proper solution. I think only the women and kids in gaza can understand the frustration most of us are feeling of being born into this mess of a situation. Even with bombs over my head, I have compassion for the innocents on the other side who are going through similar fears.
      It hurts so much to see celebrities and other people all over the world treat this like some sort of football match where you have to pick a team, ignoring all the pain and loss of the people behind this conflict. So your sensitivity is highly appreciated ❤

    • @7jarrow
      @7jarrow Год назад +5

      @@yasmin4494 Majority of people want a ceasefire, enough people and children have been killed. No one see it as a a football match but rather a massive tragedy.

    • @s.zen.4587
      @s.zen.4587 Год назад +7

      Well, one can begin with understanding that some people have been without rights for decades, and that is impractical and unethical. So regardless of this or that and overcomplicating things, if someone is without water, food, and rights, that should be of urgent priority to fix, not advance. I mean, if you want abetter world for all. Who would speak up for you if you dont speak up for others?

  • @joannkim6143
    @joannkim6143 Год назад +19

    LOVE IT!! 'My happiness matters more than someone's opinion of me"!! Please make it into a Tshirt.

  • @sheenacouture7657
    @sheenacouture7657 Год назад +28

    When I am down and my self esteem is low I always find more reasons to not judge people because I’m like wow, if this can happen to me I can understand other people. It’s ridiculous to me that some people decide to knock other people down instead of gaining insight.

    • @lunas2551
      @lunas2551 Год назад +3

      Same! I’ve never understood the notion of “chop off the heads of others to feel tall.” I’d rather improve myself

    • @pineapple2681
      @pineapple2681 10 месяцев назад

      Some people are just evil

  • @npats550
    @npats550 Год назад +40

    I was laughing throughout that intro because I think most of the world are feeling that way about these 2! Please let this be a snarky, rant video in the way only Shallon Lester could do!
    0.25, "We're just going to rant!" Thank you Shallon.
    I cannot stand that excuse for a woman. Narcissism at it's finest. No wonder the kids always looked miserable as hell. I seriously think that she has some sort of leverage and if it is the sexuality thing then NOBODY CARES!
    I remember the birthday story. It is awful.
    The worst thing I heard from her, was a certain story that I think could be bordering on CSA. Why, why, WHY AND ON WHAT PLANET DOES ANYONE THINK IT'S APPROPRIATE for Jada to reveal that her Grandmother taught her how to "pleasure herself", at age 9!!!
    Thank you for this video-I throughly enjoyed it!

  • @worldlit1146
    @worldlit1146 Год назад +56

    He single-handedly ruined his career - for her?!

    • @Babezilla
      @Babezilla Год назад +2

      Isn’t he still getting roles?

    • @Lulu-rh2xm
      @Lulu-rh2xm Год назад +8

      His career is literally still fine. You guys are so annoying

    • @00st307-m
      @00st307-m Год назад +6

      @@Lulu-rh2xm if his career still fine, what’s his next movie coming up?

    • @Lulu-rh2xm
      @Lulu-rh2xm Год назад

      @@00st307-m idk ask him u fool💀 he slapped someone booh hoo mark Wahlberg blinded a Vietnamese man after calling him slurs and assaulted black kids. His career is still fine isn't it? And most people defended will. Worry about ur broke self

    • @SarahG-vz3ki
      @SarahG-vz3ki Год назад +6

      More of his reputation.. everyone used to think he was this family man and was so cool and talented but now when I think of Will I think of a wimp.. a coward who lets his wife cast3rate him

  • @Pastasalada
    @Pastasalada Год назад +23

    Jada is a malignant narcissist but my problem is why if she was separated she attended all of HIS awards, I remember 😮because he’s the famous one.

    • @heavymetalbanshee
      @heavymetalbanshee Год назад +7

      Ye and refuses to clap for him to 'humble him'... Shes dripping with jealousy

    • @glittersloth11
      @glittersloth11 Год назад +2

      Because she gets to dress up and get attention for a night. She’ll use any event for him to get the spotlight on her.

    • @Pastasalada
      @Pastasalada Год назад

      @@glittersloth11 that’s true

  • @xgunfiltered7601
    @xgunfiltered7601 Год назад +35

    I love when people try that self aware thing...
    Yeah, tell me what I FEEL...me... tell me what is inside me... because they are inside me feeling my feelings... and when I say "Nah, I am not feeling that"... gaslight me by trying to make me the problem. Amusing!

    • @laurac86
      @laurac86 Год назад

      Ughhh I have a family member that does shit allll the time. Like I’m sorry you have no idea how I feel so please don’t try to tell me because you sound stupid

    • @grazielaalmeida8438
      @grazielaalmeida8438 Год назад

      Sometimes people have the audacy to utter what we are felling.

  • @SarahBurnette1007
    @SarahBurnette1007 Год назад +148

    For those of you who aren't in the Shallontourage, you SHOULD BE. She sends us so many videos! And they aren't dinky short ones either, she sends us 20 minutes or so. The community is fun and her continuing advice in the group is top notch. If you love Shallon and her advice, the Shallontourage is worth it.

    • @laurac86
      @laurac86 Год назад +7

      I’ve been following Shallon for yearssss now and have definitely been thinking about joining!!! 🥰

    • @SarahBurnette1007
      @SarahBurnette1007 Год назад +1

      @@laurac86 join us!!!! Doooooo iiittttt!!!!

    • @Ugnele
      @Ugnele Год назад +3

      How do you join?

    • @njc1304
      @njc1304 Год назад +4

      Agreed!! And they're way more juicy than RUclips.

    • @hiiij9638
      @hiiij9638 Год назад +17

      Y’all pay $40 a month for sec advice and nonsense ? You tripping

  • @amazingme894
    @amazingme894 Год назад +10

    Your advice on self-preservation and happiness are always so helpful and uplifting to me ty ty ty

  • @belindalee6349
    @belindalee6349 Год назад +30

    I love that Sharon is so raw and brutally honest. When everyone is a virtual signal creamer, saying thank you. I can always come back to her channel for normality

  • @elementohsix
    @elementohsix Год назад +11

    Jada has realized that she has stayed relevant all these years by sticking by Will’s side. Even as an actress on her own she would have fallen to the side. Will has never needed her for his own success which is why she resents him so much. This is why she constantly tears him down, and I’m so glad people see her for who she is! She’s not fooling anyone.

  • @Donnamadonna2
    @Donnamadonna2 Год назад +36

    as someone who has been married, divorced, and married again- I'll say that I never was more heavily invested in my own personal and professional growth and self-care than I was when I was single and dating. I sometimes i have to remind myself of that chick and learn from her.

  • @izu9040
    @izu9040 Год назад +7

    13:51 my adjective on being single: CELIBATE. I hate that part as much as I hate the idea of sleeping with strangers or people I don’t care about like that.

  • @murdahill
    @murdahill Год назад +12

    Omgoddess how to stop glorifying a relationship! The breakups that were the hardest for me to get over were the ones that I built up an entire mythology about in my head

  • @ekaterinastacey3132
    @ekaterinastacey3132 Год назад +49

    Can we have a ranking of top female celeb narcissists please? Kim K, Jada, Miss Markle, JLo, etc. I'm curious about your expert opinion and insights 😅

    • @jarkachalmovianska7812
      @jarkachalmovianska7812 Год назад +2

      Add beyonce

    • @00st307-m
      @00st307-m Год назад +13

      @@jarkachalmovianska7812 I don’t think Beyoncé is a Narcissist. From rumors I’ve heard constantly from over the years, she’s not that smart and she’s being controlled by Jay Z.

    • @hjkayel9610
      @hjkayel9610 Год назад +5

      Amber Heard for sure, oh and Ellen Degeneres plus Oprah

    • @oncetimeupon
      @oncetimeupon Год назад

      J lo?

  • @Canyoutakemebackwhereicamefrom
    @Canyoutakemebackwhereicamefrom Год назад +1

    Hi shallon. When you explained this concept of leveling (when a person puffs themselves up and insults others to make themselves appear bigger while making the other ppl feel small) a scene from the movie scarface came to mind where Al Pacino is drunk at a restaurant table and he is yelling at his wife but when the orher customers look at him in shock he stands up and he is literally puffung his chest out and starts telling everyone else in the room telling them what losers they are. It was just so brilliantly done because it fits that napoleon complex personality so well of fake confidence and those ppl that cannot handle feeling inadequate without dragging everyone else down to their level. Its so embarassing. I dated a lawyer who was like this. It was like watching a two year old have a tantrum every time he wasnt the centre of attention or everytime he felt slighted he lashed out at ppl who were not even remotely deserving of his wrath...like old ladies 🙄🤦

  • @kittyfairy662
    @kittyfairy662 Год назад +22

    Jada seriously hates will and she has manipulated him so well that he thinks he's at fault. Idk if you've seen their red table talks but she literally says 'she went crying down the aisle' and that she 'hated her wedding' right in front of him and he laughed... he also spent like $500k and 3 years planning her 40th bday party and she told him 'it was the most ridiculous display of your ego' like what??? meanwhile most men dont even remember a womans bday, he spent 3 years planning it, and she got mad and called him out for his ego. where's the gratitude??? i would love having a husband who cares so much about me. The worst part is that in the red table talk will has been manipulated so much that he thinks he only did it for his ego instead of doing it for love
    I don't actually think either of them are gay, Will is in love with Jada and Jada is in love with tupac, she can't let him go

  • @a.m4863
    @a.m4863 Год назад +5

    "Why is it intolerable when people disagree?" Omg THANK YOU🎉

  • @soniavejar1
    @soniavejar1 Год назад +11

    Shallon, thank you for your videos. Thank you for the acknowledgment of the position the world is in and thank for acknowledging that all we want to do is take our minds off things and we can do it together. Makes us, at least me not alone.

  • @kittypau
    @kittypau Год назад +34

    Idk why but I feel like Jada is getting back at Will for something, there must be a reason he bears with all the public humiliation. And she gives me vibes of a vengeful person.

    • @malki2768
      @malki2768 Год назад +3

      We can be. But my thing is a truly healed Virgo should know that there is always a door you can use if you no longer want to participate in a union of my kind. She’s absolutely showing her shadow and, it’s bullshit. Gotta go.

    • @tishjanuary7379
      @tishjanuary7379 Год назад +2

      Possibly but she seems like a narcissist & it feels like an abusive codependent relationship. People like that seek out partners that they can breakdown & manipulate.

  • @heyimbtk
    @heyimbtk Год назад +7

    “You threw that arrow because you already own it.” MA’AM. 👏👏👏

  • @LightworkerLaneTar
    @LightworkerLaneTar Год назад +11

    You are the perfect combination of funny and informing! Love your channel Shallon thank you for continuing to inspire and enlighten us! 💖

  • @CleoWolf
    @CleoWolf Год назад +3

    I haven’t even started the video, and your caption is my EXACT FEELING! Ugh so excited for this video big sis, GO OFF lol 😂

  • @Choleeee2
    @Choleeee2 Год назад +11

    I feel like I’ve grown to be good at sniffing out a person with bad intentions but not being able to put the boundaries down and get rid of them. How do I apply the brakes with a person who is trying to insert themself in my life that I don’t have a good feeling about without coming off as a monster?

    • @beewest5704
      @beewest5704 Год назад +2

      If you know someone has bad intentions why do you care how they will pursue you? Who wants to be seen as meek & nice to a pr3dator? Is it your boss or something?

    • @claire1254
      @claire1254 Год назад +1

      I understand this; it´s always best to simply block/cut any untrustworthy people out of your life as swiftly as possible. However, if you can´t rip off the bandaid (whether you´re worried about a conflict, you work together, or you just doubt your instincts); then just need to make a clear strategy and map out your ´exit plan´ or slow-fade. Literally, write it down; for example: step 1, remove yourself from group chats with that person. Step 2: don´t respond to 1:1 messages from them (or delay your response to muuuuch longer than you usually would). Basically, ghost them haha. If the person is vicious; ghosting can be a way to exit the situationship while also protecting yourself if you don´t feel right about just blocking them. I find this is the best way to handle people who I just have a bad feeling about. The times I´m hesitant.. are the times when I´m doubting my own instincts. But it´s so important to try to listen to your instincts. Also have a plan prepared for if they contact you again/ and be disciplined with yourself (don´t soften or doubt yourself, just remember to look at your action plan and you will be OK!). They also often show their a&& during this process; so this will probably also validate your instincts. You´ll feel very relieved after a month or two, good luck!

  • @krystaljohnson5908
    @krystaljohnson5908 Год назад +12

    Shallon, you offer some of the best dating advice there is out there. For free . Like, life changing stuff. We are so lucky to have you. I just want to say thank you for everything you do❤

  • @GitanAnimex
    @GitanAnimex Год назад +14

    Will and jada are the most bizarre relationship i have ever seen

  • @francine6485
    @francine6485 Год назад +9

    Topic is... Being ensnared by a narcissist. How Will Smith's life was destroyed by marrying a narcissist.

  • @slemusrocks
    @slemusrocks Год назад +12

    “You know what I hate the most? Jada and Will Smith” 😂😂😂😂

  • @lauraosswald5812
    @lauraosswald5812 Год назад +13

    Jayda is giving strong Meghan Markle vibes 🥴🥴🥴

  • @amairany_aranda
    @amairany_aranda Год назад +9

    It's so sad to think that if they are really separate; that slap cost Will been banned from the Oscars for Idk how many years.
    Cus the cheating scandal only affected his personal live, but this ran his career

  • @keishaofficer9063
    @keishaofficer9063 Год назад +12

    Shallon sounds exactly like my inner monologue.

  • @Celestial-Bleu
    @Celestial-Bleu Год назад +4

    SINGLE:
    INDEPENDENT, SELF-SUFFICIENT, STRONG, SELF AWARE, FEEDOM, WORTHWHILE, CONFIDENT.
    From a woman who was married for 30 yrs. Single for a few years after.

    • @shallonlester
      @shallonlester  Год назад +4

      Amen! Being single is incredible IF you break out of this social conditioning that you’re nothing without a man. Screw all that.

  • @LMCEK
    @LMCEK Год назад +4

    Jada is definitely on the dark triad spectrum. Idk if their marriage was a PR move but I do remember Will looking genuinely devastated, hurt, and betrayed during the RTT interview with Jada. Or maybe he's just an Oscar winning actor. Who knows. What's real is that they brought kids into the world and modeled this effed up dynamic to them. I was raised by parents who fought 24/7 (one was a narcissist) and it has resulted in a lot of problems for me in my own romantic relationships

  • @emmajoy2192
    @emmajoy2192 Год назад +11

    I laughed so hard at the proud boy's bit omg

  • @CymbaletteJaneMS
    @CymbaletteJaneMS Год назад +8

    Saving this video for the gym later, but trust and believe, these two cueballs deserve eachother. Two peas in an insane pod 👋🎱 🎱👋

  • @MissSnowFire
    @MissSnowFire Год назад +1

    Love you're attitude about moving to MT. As someone from North Dakota we have a lot of people who move here then bad mouth it and want to change it to what they think it should be.

  • @olderwiser64
    @olderwiser64 Год назад +20

    She thought people would think she was amazing with her and Will on Red Table Talk being so “open” and yet it backfired. Then the slap backfired even worse. So now she’s trying to say “I had no part of that. I was already separated AND I thought that slap was a skit too.” They are sooo out of touch. Plus now she’s saying Tupac asked her to marry him and they were soulmates-but timeline doesn’t match up-and Chris rock asked her out 2015.🙄 That’s just narc revenge on Chris Rock for his comedy special. You know when Will slapped him that he didn’t do anything right then, because he was going to do something later and boy did he do something. He eviscerated those two. Eviscerated. Love, Chris Rock.

    • @rattaxi9645
      @rattaxi9645 Год назад +2

      I thought his special was BRILLIANT.

    • @olderwiser64
      @olderwiser64 Год назад +1

      @@rattaxi9645Me too! It was so good, start to finish. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @eh1126
    @eh1126 Год назад +15

    I kinda blame Will for this, I think he brought all this upon himself. He left his wife for Jada. And now that he sees what a huge mistake that was, he cares too much about his image to face the truth. That’s the only reason he took her to the Oscars. He knew people would realize they’ve been separated if she wasn’t there with him.

    • @clairedaniels1877
      @clairedaniels1877 Год назад +2

      Correction. Will's ex-wife left him and divorced him. Will didn't want to divorce her. He admitted to being a bad husband to her.

  • @TB-rx1ue
    @TB-rx1ue Год назад +5

    Palestine does support Hamas. He has surprisingly high approval ratings in their polls. Over half said Hamas was a good representative of Palestine in a 2021 opinion poll.

    • @MistyEyesNow
      @MistyEyesNow 3 месяца назад

      Well... If you had hamas in your country, you would also probably say "I like them". Because if you dont, they will cut your head lol
      Not all research is true. Sometimes people lie while being interviewed

  • @angelal7141
    @angelal7141 Год назад +5

    The slap was totally a fake stunt. The whole thing was lifted straight from a sketch from years ago.

    • @TheRubyFeline
      @TheRubyFeline Год назад +3

      It looked so fake, I cannot believe people fell for it🎪🤷🏻‍♀️😄.

  • @QueXLcior
    @QueXLcior Год назад +2

    Ranting does make us happy, good point. I don’t know how people do it. Being in a fake relationship literally gives me diarrhea.

  • @batsls1
    @batsls1 Год назад +4

    I needed a gossipy video like this to distract me from the Israel issue. It's incredibly distressing for me, so thank you.

  • @sophiemorrison9820
    @sophiemorrison9820 Год назад +5

    I thought the harkles were an immense waste of time but Jada is far, far more irrutating. Go away Mr and Mrs smith.

  • @bleu.honey88
    @bleu.honey88 Год назад +6

    Shallon I want to send you a canvas that looks like it was inspired by you, it's beautiful! Is there a PO Box I can send it too? Sorry if this comment shows up twice, my computer is not cooperating today lol.

  • @siracastori01
    @siracastori01 Год назад +3

    Everything else you said I pretty much I agree with, especially how prioritising your image can harm your reality, but I say this a someone who hates surprises (an unexpected present? Sure, that's sweet, but anything that involves other people and puts me in a position, socially, that I have not chosen or prepared for is incredibly anxiety inducing for me. a surprise party gave my first panic attack and was like...11) and will let people know in no uncertain terms, I can see someone not reacting to a party for them that has been kept a secret for two years from them to celebrate turning an age that most women are quite ambivalent about in the best of ways, I get that.
    I looks like sort of a Diane and Mr. Peanutbutter scenario.

  • @muma6559
    @muma6559 Год назад +2

    yeah, singleness with happiness is great ! So much can be done !

  • @LocalEdits_v8j
    @LocalEdits_v8j Год назад +3

    Im so sick of ppl making Will out to be this innocent little lamb & Jada this vicious wolf when they are both in the marriage they signed up for! You all clearly haven’t read Wills book he speaks of his drinking, his narcissism & how that drove a wedge between his eldest & his kids with Jada, the man is in insufferable!!! August came out to speak of his relationship with Jada & said straight up that Will knew & he was cool with it, how is he the victim in that dynamic when they have agreed on an open marriage ? Will has had many extra-marital affairs wheres the smoke for him ? Just because he potrays Mr Nice Guy in public doesn’t mean that is who he truly is behind closed doors. Probably why his 1st wife left him.

  • @mayahoyle2939
    @mayahoyle2939 Год назад +28

    I have always felt the obligation to be “humble” and not enjoy receiving compliments or even think of myself too highly. Even if I feel confident, it’s always followed by this reminder of “actually, no, you’re not shit, don’t puff yourself up too much ”. Why do I do that to myself? Could it really be because of the patriarchy like Shallon said?

    • @shallonlester
      @shallonlester  Год назад +33

      Absolutely. Bc people around you feel more comfortable with you staying small. Be around people who want to see you spread your wings!

  • @nickievison1134
    @nickievison1134 Год назад +1

    It's true, when I've felt my lowest is when I've found myself more bitter and judgemental towards others. That's the time to change the channel.

  • @heathergillespie4904
    @heathergillespie4904 Год назад +2

    Hey, Shall!💗💋 I don't buy Jada's recent mess. At one point, Will and Jada were Black Couple Goals. Now they are the poster for what happens when you stay together for less than stellar reasons. All the messes have followed. I knew they were out there when the kids started showing up weird. Supposedly, she was a swinger and he did it too just to keep her. I've heard that since the 90's. The Slap broke their facade and they refuse to believe that we can see them now. They don't get that until they get real, we won't believe them 👀

  • @LuzDeMariposita
    @LuzDeMariposita Год назад +6

    Another topic could be, the potential hidden blessing in having your facade finally cracked. That man seemed trapped in his persona.

    • @Babezilla
      @Babezilla Год назад +2

      I think a good video would be how to stop living a lie and stop the feeling of pressure to be someone you’re not. Will and Jada won’t stop the happy couple act even though they haven’t been together since like 2013

  • @abithomasxo
    @abithomasxo Год назад +2

    Jada hates Will because she doesn’t love him, she still loves Tupac. All she does is talk about Tupac. She told Will to his face that she hated their wedding, and that the birthday he had planned for 3 YEARS, was a display of his ego. Most women can’t get a man to reply to a text, and she found herself a guy who loves her so much he planned her birthday for that long, and completely berated him for it.

  • @nicolelee6478
    @nicolelee6478 Год назад +9

    Love your ENERGY ALWAYS ❤!

  • @dcoci
    @dcoci Год назад +3

    I didnt realize until shallon addressed the entire familys names, but LOL
    Will-willow
    Jada-jayden

  • @mblake4007
    @mblake4007 Год назад +4

    Always a breath of fresh air! Thank you! x

  • @lizvinson2897
    @lizvinson2897 Год назад +1

    Former SPLC hate crimes and immigration writer, you right about the hate groups, they're very, very real and very, very threatening!

  • @Ashas.Garden
    @Ashas.Garden Год назад +4

    My $ 0.03. I strongly suspect (DISCLAIMER: based on nothing more than my experience and observations of Will Smith from afar) that Will Smith is Kinky bisexual and Jada know some shit. First she woulda encouraged that behavior under the guise of true transparency, then used it to control him.

  • @A78cts23
    @A78cts23 Год назад +1

    My husband said what has Jada done in the last 20 years, then I thought about how many awesome films Will has done over the last 20 years, he is a great actor I can't imagine her ego can handle that

  • @dziepnguyen3719
    @dziepnguyen3719 Год назад +4

    You are responsible for your own happiness. Go woman!

  • @amberpratt5078
    @amberpratt5078 Год назад +4

    My theory is that they were not really separated, and she’s lying about it. It just doesn’t add up to me…

  • @BlakeAvenue
    @BlakeAvenue Год назад

    Shallon your videos always come right on time babygirl!

  • @pamela6470
    @pamela6470 Год назад +3

    You are a girl after my own heart. I literally agree with everything you’re saying!

  • @ragtimegals
    @ragtimegals 11 месяцев назад

    I heard an interview with them around maybe 2010 when I was a young teenager, and they were saying back then that they were in an open relationship. I think it was Larry King or an HLN primitime interview show. I remember because I was like 13, and I had never heard of open marriages before. They explained it and it freaked me out that anybody would want to do that because it seemed so unnatural, anxiety inducing and hurtful to me. That’s why I remember it pretty clearly, I guess. I also remember thinking that Will Smith seemed really uncomfortable and ashamed then too.
    What, did they erase that from history though?? I don’t even want to look it up, because even if I do no one is going to care or believe it. The mass majority only acknowledges whatever the headlines are, not what reflects reality.

  • @RebeccaBardess
    @RebeccaBardess Год назад

    I’m sorry you’re dealing with such bullies. You’ve shown up so much for your community there.

  • @sildor3
    @sildor3 Год назад +3

    In her Jay Shetty interview she said that at the red table talk she was supposed to go alone and say they were separated, but Will wanted to join and while doing the talk he just wasnt ready to tell the world and she respected that...idk

  • @EMunaBee
    @EMunaBee Год назад +4

    His horrible acting and and violence at the Oscars seemed enough. Her constant use of the word "entanglement" instead of stating something for what it was, as she chose to talk, and keeps choosing to carry on, is beyond. There's something deceitful and inherently wrong with both, as individuals and as a couple and it's probably much more than the rubbish they allow you to see...or they wouldn't be together.

  • @karimmadueno3257
    @karimmadueno3257 Год назад +2

    What I like the most about Shallon is how unapologetic she is. It's refreshing

  • @Celestial-Bleu
    @Celestial-Bleu Год назад +3

    You know she said they haven't called each other "Husband & Wife" in seven years. Bullshit. There's at least a dozen or more recorded instances where she refers to him as husband. He referred to her as wife.
    Do they forget receipts exists.

    • @shallonlester
      @shallonlester  Год назад +2

      Jada truly thinks she smarter than everyone. Can’t wait for her to cry racism when she gets the memo that everyone smells BS.

  • @elmac4744
    @elmac4744 Год назад +8

    Will & Jada. It's not sad. It's a sickening choreographed dance of co-dependence. He is not a stupid man. He signed up for this and continues to double down on his choice. His statement on her new memoir? "You can all too easily lose your sensitivity to their hidden nuances and subtle beauties." He's APOLOGIZING for her continued abuse and efforts to humiliate him. This is emotional sadomasochism and it's consensual. Sorry for "poor Will"? Hell no.

  • @Messiahandmaster
    @Messiahandmaster Год назад +1

    Can’t wait for evil week. Can we please do one on revenge but with various types of people, ex friends, ex partners, bosses etc. Love you Shallon

  • @acsw
    @acsw Год назад

    I too went from a liberal to a moderate. I love to see more people who aren't subscribing to one political ideology or the other. As Andrew Yang says, not left, not right, but forward.

  • @zoeoper3139
    @zoeoper3139 Год назад +3

    Well I was their florist about 7 years ago. We knew they were breaking up because they were not spending on parties and celebrating. They have a house in park city where I live.

  • @zaidaabdulla7414
    @zaidaabdulla7414 Год назад +4

    Shallon, you’re always a scream. I thoroughly enjoy your rants. Absolutely hilarious 🤣 you are so sharp too.

  • @tarvitsenapua
    @tarvitsenapua Год назад

    yes!!! omg I’ve been waiting for this one

  • @rebelrebel366
    @rebelrebel366 Год назад

    Bless you girl for saying it how it is. Always. 💜

  • @truthteller816
    @truthteller816 Год назад +1

    😂 Yes, the Dave Chappelle skit was called the "Black, White Supremist." I loved that skit, its one of his best from his show.

  • @bellyruzmom
    @bellyruzmom Год назад

    Omg I am so excited to hear what you have to say !!!

  • @elenahijazi2218
    @elenahijazi2218 Год назад +10

    I watch your channel all the time, so I feel like I have a grasp on your personality. You do not lack any intellectual skills at ALL, Shallon. You are a very well-rounded and well-read person, Shallon, and I adore your channel. That being said, I really do not appreciate your note on the atrocities happening in Palestine right now. Did you know that Israel bombed a hospital in Gaza last night?? Yes, a HOSPITAL. 1,900+ people dead. no injuries. just deaths. women. men. children. all dead. a hospital. Anti-zionism is not anti-semitism. The jews came to Palestine, and they welcomed them with open arms. Now, they have turned into the same Nazis against the Palestinians. I beg of you to please learn more before speaking on this because your words have a lot of effect. Moreover, best believe that we are getting shadow-banned in an Orwellian way on any and all social media platforms that SHOW what’s happening in Palestine. You guys in the West have no idea what’s happening because we are not even being allowed to reach you. I truly mean this with love, and I would not waste my time commenting (I never comment) if I did not know that you come from a place of curiosity and seeking knowledge and the right information.

    • @elenahijazi2218
      @elenahijazi2218 Год назад

      @@bruciejones8476Brucie, please tell me why Palestinians (whether that be the civilians or Hamas) would bomb themselves? Please tell me. The Israeli accounts posted and deleted that the reasoning of them bombing a HOSPITAL was because they were “mercy killing them because of lack of medical equipment”. I have screenshots of every outlet that supports Israel stating a different reason, a different lie. We have videos and devastating photos of the victims of the bombing.

    • @frosting6439
      @frosting6439 Год назад +4

      BOTH side are wrong. Both killing each other and hating each other. What makes one better than the other? They’re both murdering. It’s sick and sad and devastating all around.

    • @fautpaspoussermamie
      @fautpaspoussermamie Год назад

      Israel did not bomb a hospital. Hamas misfired a missile and it fell on the people they pretend to help. Stop lying and misrepresenting the facts to fit your narrative. You call Israelis Nazis but who purposefully targeted babies, women and grand mothers. Hamas did. Islamists are the nazis. Who throw gays off buildings, stone women, stab professors in Europe, shoot people at concerts, drive trucks into crowds??? Islamists. They are the scourge of humanity and they and their supporters deserve to die. Am Israel Hai!!!🇮🇱🇮🇱🇮🇱

    • @00st307-m
      @00st307-m Год назад

      @@frosting6439 sorry but both sides are not equally wrong. Palestinians are not committing a genocide, they are not destroying a whole population of millions of people, cutting off their power, water, and electricity. Also, the Palestinians don’t have the biggest military in the world supporting them. Israel does. The US president is going to Israel, but he didn’t even go to Lahaina or to Palestine, Ohio in times of crisis. Don’t you find that suspicious? It is the Palestinians that are practicing self-defense, after 75 years of settlers, trying to take their land w U.S.A. backing and money.

  • @Tiredallthetime2
    @Tiredallthetime2 Год назад +1

    Thanks for the light drama- definitely needed this tea today ❤ also I like your stupid shirt. I hate my hair today too

  • @ladyT01
    @ladyT01 Год назад

    Is this the same Shallon Lester ive fell in love with watching Tubi?? The show irreconcilable differences was the best with her on it and if this is her I'm beyond excited 🥳

  • @catherineclark436
    @catherineclark436 Год назад +11

    Jada and Megan Markle should collab 😂

  • @mimikavet
    @mimikavet Год назад

    "When discussion stops, apathy begins".... fucking BRILLIANT!!!

  • @mirandamlxo
    @mirandamlxo Год назад +2

    Jada is a serial narcissist. She thinks she's relevant,more than his famous actor spouse Will Smith. I feel bad for him at some point because she seems really abusive towards him all the time like she hated him. They are better off each other because that relationship it is not toxic but radiactive imo

  • @SarahRock-n1g
    @SarahRock-n1g Год назад

    I’ve been waiting for this! Imma get my drink

  • @acsw
    @acsw Год назад

    Been dyingggg for your commentary on this! 🩶

  • @lasenoradelacruz
    @lasenoradelacruz Год назад +1

    I love when Shallon has a bun and is ready to rant 😂❤