"C’MON GIRL, I BET YOU GOT SOME GIFTS, SOME TALENTS, SOME DREAMS IN YOUR HEART THAT GOD PUT THERE ON PURPOSE CAUSE THEY’ARE MEANT TO BE REALIZED. BECAUSE YOU WOULDN’T HAVE A DREAM IN YOUR HEART IF IT WAS IMPOSSIBLE!" best and cutest thing I've ever heard
Every single day the “cool girl” monologue from Gone Girl makes even more sense to me. He really dropped the woman who supported him for a newer, younger, bouncier cool girl.
Getting someone knocked up is not moving on. Most Babies are just accidents. He is not in a place where he should make any long term plans. His ex wife won the lottery. It may suck now but she will bounce back. Good LucK Olivia dealing with a newborn and an addict
Well said! You are so right, both at once, and Olivia is no spring chicken. Everyone feels this way. I wonder if they are shocked by the worldwide condemnation.
@@alisonshanklin3690 I think he is afraid of blowback and that's why he went on a talk show to try and clarify the timeline, to make it appear like he didn't cheat on his wife and that Olivia and the baby "saved him." :::insert eye roll here:::
Totally agree.. he tore that bandaid off, and he did it fast and without hesitation, but in a bad way. When he finds himself post-crash and burn again, hopefully she will remember this pain and won’t accept him back. I hope she finds her equal and is happy when this happens (his crash and burn) so she doesn’t have to be subjected to his bull shit again.
I hope his poor ex wife honestly didn’t want to have children. Because he has been very vocal about them being child free, and it’s such a knife in the heart that he would tell his ex wife he didn’t want to have children, and then turn around and have a baby immediately after dumping her. So I really hope that it was her idea, and she didn’t sacrifice having children for him.
Sadly, this happens a lot. Unlike women, men have the luxury of time to change their mind, especially if they get with a younger woman. I've known a few women who have wasted their fertile years on a man who convinced them not to have kids, only for him to turn around and have children with the person he dumped them for. It's absolutely sickening and unforgiveable. Never compromise your desires for a man. He's not worth it.
That's what happens when you are with the wrong person. I knew a woman who was so open and carefree in her relationship under the guise of trust an she wanted no kids. Her ex left her and was married within a year and expecting his first within the next. Now she's marrying this new guy and wants to have his babies
I really thought this was the worst thing he did. Never mind getting with another woman after rehab but having a child with them? That’s so so brutal I cannot even imagine. Ans he’s been so vocal about not having or wanting them it’s insane.
Honestly, I think John's ex-wife dodged a really bad bullet. John seems to be someone who clearly has *numerous* major personal issues that he's struggling with. At the end of the day, his ex-wife will come out on top. I'm certainly rooting for her. ...and by the way, my ex did the same thing to me. He and his new GF were literally having a child within 6 months of our 3 year relationship ending. (We had even bought a house together). It took me a few years to get over that one, ...but definitely glad he's gone.
There's also an interview with Olivia where she states that she met John & his Wife at a wedding, then started emailing him but he ignored her ! She basically went after a married man & got ignored :)))))
Shallon is a brilliant orator but what's even more impressive is that she speaks without much, if any, scripting. Love you Shallon! Also my heart truly goes out to Anna. This is brutal. I know that it's inadvisable for someone recovering from addiction to make major life changes within the first year after rehab.
True. I've noticed most her videos are like a single take or very minimal editing. This dosen't mean she dosen't have a loose script but I agree with you she is skilled.
It is NOT that he moved on. It's that his timeline is shoddy and it implies he truly did his wife dirty. His wife stood by him through the worst of his issues, unwaveringly, when she was having issues herself... only for him to give a nod to this Pick Me (do not get me started on her) for why he's fully recovered now, with no credit to his wife, who did the REAL work. And she's too far pregnant for him to NOT have had an affair, especially if you consider they only met less than a year ago. It's never your ex moving on. It is *how* they move on. And he lost all respect for how he did.
Exactly he obviously cheated his wife even said he did I mean they literally separated 4 months ago and Olivia baby bump is already showing he was obviously with her when he was also still with his wife
This is not going to last. How can someone divorce their wife after everything she went through with him. How you get them is how you lose them. Believe me no baby can fix a relationship
It's a statistical fact that babies are a detriment on a relationship because that first year is so incredibly stressful. It can break a relationship and it will break this one because it's built on a house of cards. Whenever someone tells a couple to "have a baby" in order to fix their relationship you might as well ring the death knell. No child should be brought into this world to fill a void or save a relationship.
Honestly I think John is spiraling and I highly doubt he actually wanted a baby right now I think Olivia is getting older and thought John was an okay candidate and it happened lol after the honeymoon phase is over he’s gonna realize the grass isn’t greener and regret dumping his wife I do not see him and Olivia working out. As someone who actually really liked his standup specials seeing him now from this point of view I think Ana dodged a bullet he sounds like a needy scrawny man who needs constant validation
I'm with you. I saw the headline and my heart sunk for his ex wife. Like why does he get to move on and be "happy" after what he did. Reminds me of Shannon Bedore's situation. So frustrating.
Why does he get to move on and be happy? I’m sorry but wtf. You don’t know these people. This man clearly isn’t perfect, but to imply that he doesn’t deserve to be happy is really sad.
The term "pink cloud" is what I feel John is going though. Right after rehab and newly sober everyone is cheering you on and would never criticize for fear of a relapse. I watched the interview with Seth Meyer and I felt Seth was trying his best to not trigger John.
Seth was probably horrified at the news and worried for him. You notice he didn’t shake his hand, but grabbed John’s shoulder firmly like ..’ Oh man, this is not good, but I’m here for you buddy’. John looked at him for a bit like a child at a parent seeking reassurance. Seth is very intelligent and he knows this is a slow motion shipwreck.
This is why everyone tells you not to jump into a relationship or make any major life changes before you are at least a year sober. This will blow up in his face
To make it worse John said to his ex-wife that he didn't want kids. First thing he does after leaving her-get someone pregnant. If he tried he couldn't have made this break up worse that it is.
Olivia Munn's "cool girl" persona is such a extreme departure from Anna Marie's makeup artist, costume-masters-student, fashion-obsessed, girls-girl, tortured photographer, lampshade decorating persona. Also as someone with an eating disorder, I can't imagine how she feels looking at her and John eating garbage food and (apparently) having more fun than she's had with him in years.
What’s worse is Seth Meyers glorifying him on his show. Are we really supposed to celebrate a man joking about drug abuse, dumping his wife to plow Olivia Munn, and popping out a baby like it’s returnable- all seemingly overnight? Awful how our culture literally rewards this behavior.
I actually think Seth genuinely cares about and is concerned about John. He helped to stage an intervention so he knows how fragile John is and probably wants to show as much support as possible to keep him alive. Seth knows only too well about the drug related deaths of other comedians and entertainers.
Yeah. We live in society (lol) where 'happiness' is the most important, as long as it is sexual happiness. I bet the guy who is exploiting children for cheap labour is happy when his overall business costs are as low as possible but we won't be applauding that. But when someone acts like total bastard and hurts other people in a way to get 'love' we all should suck it up and 'be happy for them' no matter what. Fk that
@@christinacatalano ..thanks Christina. John is at his most vulnerable fresh out of rehab. I pray he survives and is able to be there for many years for his unborn child. My heart goes out to his ex-wife and I pray she is also able to heal from this deep hurt and find peace of mind and happiness.
I know, right?! I was so shock when I see the title, and thought it was just like a rumor. But then I saw the photo of Olivia and I end up like you like WHAT?
He didn't want children with Anna and she went along with it. Now he's a celeb and has to have the Hollywood lifestyle. His private life is making him more famous than his movie roles.
Reading the title of this video made my heart drop. I'm so angry. He has said so many times how he and his wife didn't want children and then he goes and immediately knocks up this other chick? I lost so much respect for this dude in record time. I know he's not in a good place, but... damn.
Yep. Doing more than talking, too. Seems like she got pregnant in February but he didn’t leave Annamarie until April? I’m disgusted and used to be such a fan of John.
I think the hardest part of these situations is that you wonder if they really are a better person now, and you feel like you weren’t good enough for them to fix themselves to save the relationship but they’ll do it for someone else
You should never think this. Some people can be better suited but it shouldn't mean you are worse or better than someone. When you think about it in that way it helps:) And l think it is the truth.
@@marija8749 of course no one should ever think that but feelings aren’t logical sometimes. I split up with my ex of 5 years cause he was cheating on me all while I was trying to help him overcome his traumatic experiences and become better, fix him I guess you could say. I started dating someone else a few months later. Then he started dating someone else and I couldn’t help but feel like he was bettering himself for her and that I wasn’t good enough for him to want to be better. Then he rang me mid break down cause she left him cause he’d pulled the same shit. I can’t lie, as much as I never want anyone to experience what I went through it felt a little bit good knowing he hadn’t changed and I was lucky to get out when i did. It’s been about 18 months since we split now and I’m still in the same relationship and we now live together and I’m beyond happy. I’m still hearing stories from friends about the fucked up shit he’s doing to girls we know so I’m very happy I didn’t stick around any longer. I do hope one day he can sort his shit out and be a better person and find happiness because I do care about him but I’m happy I got out when I did or I’d still be trying (and failing) to fix him.
I love John but watching Seth last night, when he said Olivia is pregnant, I felt that in my gut. Been there, ugh. I didn’t know his wife’s name but I was only thinking of her and what she was feeling.
Your videos are next level at the moment. As a fellow full time RUclipsr I’ve watched you go through your recent burn out and I know how relentless that pressure can be. You’ve emerged out of it with a greater depth of wisdom, you’re sharing it out here and it’s really inspiring 🙏♥️
This is such a fangirl moment for me 🙆...I have been watching both Gemma and Shallon for over a year now and here they are saying hello across RUclipsverse. Thank you both for the work you do 🙏
I went through the same thing as well a few years ago. My ex was going through depression. I did my best to help him and it did get codependent because I cared more. A few months later he started dating one of his friends "the cool girl". I'm not going to sugarcoat it at first it was rough because I was hurt. I didn't date anybody else because I didn't want to take the easy road of gratification and instead dealt with my inner self as lovingly as I could. I knew that I had to be stable and secure first. My stability is my priority. I learned my lesson. When I read about what happened to Anna I felt so much empathy towards her. I truly wish her inner peace and happiness. I'm letting you guys know my story because with patience and practice it gets easier to manage.
He announced the divorce the SAME MONTH rumors started flying about Olivia being pregnant from people in their circles. The timeline is not adding up and it makes them both look awful.
Yeah it’s supposed to be like no new relationships or major life changes for a year, so basically don’t dump your wife for basically a hollywood cosplayer then knock her up.
Needed this. A year and a half later and I’m still not over a guy I dated. He disposed me like trash and posted he was in an official relationship 2 days before we made plans to go zip-lining together completely blindsiding me. I had no idea he was losing interest and he never told me why.
That's what makes it so difficult. His feelings changed, he changed the rules of your relationship, but he neglected to tell you. It was incredibly dishonest and cowardly of him. And you were left holding all the emotional baggage wondering what went wrong, possibly even "What did I do wrong." All relationships are built on power differentials. Ideally, you want to share equal power with your partner, but this is not always what happens. He/She who cares the least has the most amount of power in the relationship. He skipped out at a time when it was safe for him to do so because he had nothing to lose, but unfortunately, you had the most to lose because you were still invested. In essence, it was like a death to your system and you're still grieving. You were not the problem, he was. I am certain that you have a lot of good qualities. This is an undeniable truth. You bring something to the table when it comes to relationships, be they friendships or partnerships. The fact that he could not appreciate what you have to offer means he was never worthy of you. He's the trash here.
Normally, the woman initiates the divorce when catching her husband cheating, 70% of all divorces are filed by the wife. He is starting a new chapter in his life. Dump the old nerd stage performer and bring in the new shiny leading man. Hypocrites, I meant actors, all of them. Is her baby bump real? This story is bad fiction.
@@annawimpey5307 it’s real but is also that fact that when he was with his ex he said he doesn’t want kids and said that many times and now 4 months after separating his girlfriend is pregnant I just find it weird but anyways
@@aneeshaarshad4956I learned alot reading these posts. His stand up was all about not having children? Guess his biological clock must have started ticking. Women having babies in their 40s? Why? So many using fake baby bumps and surrogates. Maybe for bragging rights. I was scolded for having my last child when I was 39. 😁
Wow. So true about the word ‘catty’. Where is the equivalent word for men? And she got pregnant probably on the first go. She looks 6 months pregnant already. And he’s only four (?) months out from his marriage? This ‘relationship’ can’t last. It started on a foundation of lies and betrayal and an ‘oops’ baby. Oliva is notorious for dating married men and being the side chick. Cheap. Period. Not a quality woman. And he’s a fool. Also, the jokes on them because a baby is not gonna make the honeymoon phase continue. Reality hits REAL hard after a baby.
My ex moved on quickly after we broke up but he was just love bombing someone new. Now the relationship is unraveling and looks like his toxic patterns have emerged.
I know, I was shocked too... he was the proponent of the child free movement. His constant stand ups on Anne Marie and how bad ass she was. And this news made me hurt my stomach.
This news was so upsetting for me. I have always loved John and expected someone like him as my partner. I love Anne Marie because he always spoke about her and how badass she is in all his stand up. He always told that he never wanted kids, now kNowing this and the hurt she would be going through gave me so much anxiety yesterday. I felt her, never felt so much bad for a women. Overall this is a sad situation for John and Anne Marie.
My recent ex was the one who showed me Mulaney. Her family worships him. My ex and I dated 5 years and she left me for her married coworker who just had a child either right away or within 2 months of leaving me. She Mulaney'd me hard and I wonder if she even realizes it. Thank you for this video it made me feel validated in my feelings and the sass helps me put into perspective how lame she was for doing things the way she did. I'll be sure to check out more vidoes!
Men don’t move on. They find a replacement and pretend nothing out of the ordinary has occurred. Olivia was low hanging fruit and I believe that in these scenarios, the other woman can in fact, be blamed. She CO-SIGNED the bullshit, and this makes her culpable in destroying another woman’s life. Full stop.
When it happened I immediately thought, oh wow is just out of rehab the best time for a baby? That’s stressful for most new relationships. Then my next thought was I wonder what Shallon thinks about this 😅 Also, feel glad for his ex and that they didn’t have kids together. She’s already been through a lot with him as a man child. Wishing them all the best of luck though. Keep up with the awesome content! 🌿💗🌸
Found out my ex “moved on” by seeing a tiktok of him in bed with a girl. It’s been one month after a five year relationship. Lived together for two. And the lack of respect I felt when I saw that tiktok from the girl saying they’re “fwb” was astounding it’s like I don’t know this man at all. Focusing on being sad for him that he can’t be alone like you said.
This is NOT a tragedy, the tragedy would have been if you stayed with him. And if you were telling us the same story but instead of five years there were 12 years, a divorce and 2 kids. You are pretty and I bet you're smart. Life goes on. You deserve better :)
The ex wife dodged a deadly bullet here. I hope she isn’t too devastated over this. John and olivia’s honeymoon/cutebaby phase will end real soon when that thing pops outta her screaming. The stress might even make him relapse and Olivia will definitely be dumping his ass for that. I just don’t see her putting up with this dudes shit
She has no intention to. She's ruthlessly securing the bag of a literal addict because her 15 minutes weren't even over yet before she was spit back out by the industry.
what bothers me is all the annoying people i've seen saying "they deserve privacy", when that's what has pissed me off about john and olivia during all of this, is the very lack of privacy on their end. they've been nothing BUT public with this shitshow when they don't in any way need to be. i get making a statement that he's getting divorced but everything since has been their choice and their fault for the exposure and reaction it's gotten. he's the one that chose to make his relationship with olivia not only public, but public so soon after announcing his divorce. that's on him. he and his publicists chose to publicize that information, so i can't stand his fans crying about "parasocial relationships" when people aren't over the moon for them. he's the one that knocked olivia up and is publicly confirming it on national television before his divorce has even been settled. neither of these things have to even be talked about, let alone publicized and promoted, so please spare us the "privacy" defense, john mulaney fans. his privacy wasn't pried into and invaded by media, he was simply just a douchebag that willingly publicized his personal "timeline" on national television and whether he's intending to or not, HE'S the one choosing to publicly humiliate his wife. do his fans really expect us to believe that he and olivia munn are big enough and interesting enough celebs for paps to be stalking them in a freakin pandemic? lol they're clearly orchestrating this press, like most celebrities. being private with these personal matters wouldn't make them less shitty in my eyes, but they definitely would make him seem like more of a decent person. and that's really where i've lost respect for him, is the fact that he's the one choosing to be this idiotic and callous and cold hearted towards his wife. his fans are pissing me off through all of this too. they can't be cool with him publicizing his personal life and behavior and then turn around when the public has something not so nice to say about said behavior. they can't have it both ways. if they want privacy, then be private.
First, you are without question, the wittiest vlogger out there. It's such a relief to spend a few minutes listening to someone who's made it past the 9th grade, who's grammar and vocabulary doesn't consist solely of "I seen it" or "Ax me sumfin". Good God, I might not always agree with what you're saying, but oh mama, your intelligence is a breath of so fresh air. Thank you for the brief vacations I can take by listening to you. That being said, I've noticed that lately you've boosted up the cursing. Believe me, I'm no prude, but it's not honoring your communication skills I KNOW you possess. You don't need to do it, you've got the chops to go head to head with anyone to make your point without it. Plus you're lovely.
No way she’s five months pregnant. This is her first pregnancy she can’t be this filled out at 5 months. She looks more like 8-9 months. I feel for his ex…
I was thinking the same thing, probably 8 months, 7 if we’re being generous. Unless she’s having twins? Then I could see it being so big at an earlier point in the pregnancy.
This video was brilliant on multiple levels. So empowering and a total mindset shift on many different topics- friendships and relationships! Thank you!
Can we just take a second to appreciate Shallon always posting so quickly and helpful??? Thank you, Shallon! We're lucky to have you there consistently 💖
It's just a matter of time before this relationship implodes! It's happening way too soon! I'm not really familiar with his work, but he really needs to focus on his sobriety. It's a shame that they have decided to bring a child into this chaos and confusion. I really feel for his ex wife, but I'm sure she will pull through all of this stronger and resilient! She's better off without him!
Ooh this is insane Shallon! Celebitchy is covering this situation and it seems like Mulaney was cheating on his wife with Olivia… so shady. So so shady. He spent years saying he didn’t want children, it was part of his comedy show and now this? Dang!
@Little Darling, right? The timeline looks suspicious and it seems like he cheated given what has been reported by Celebitchy and what is mentioned here by Shallon. It’s tricky because Olivia has mentioned that in an interview that she met John and his wife a few years ago and was interested in talking to him quite a lot, so I could imagine a situation where he was flattered by the attention etc.
john seemed to adore his ex wife he always hyped her up always mentioned her in his comedy he seemed to be head over heels throughout the years. the fact that he can so easily just move on is so strange to me... even if the marriage wasnt working anymore it's all so sudden and rushed. i guess i dont get it makes zero sense to me.
Obviously, I don’t know any of these people personally. I do however, have my own history of anorexia (recovered from that after almost 15 years). I do have my own history of being married to a drug addict for ten years. We are divorced because he would not get sober. I am intimately familiar with AA, and what they teach you about maintaining your sobriety. I used to go to meetings with my ex, and went to Al-non as well. John’s wife also, apparently went to her own treatment for an eating disorder. Therefore, we have two people with serious addictions going on here. No one knows what the dynamics of their relationship is/was….but I can tell you right now: John Mulaney jumping into another relationship right away, and he and Olivia having a baby so suddenly is one of the WORST things he could do for his sobriety! I doubt anyone in AA would think this is healthy for his sobriety. Of course, he is his own person, he can choose to do as he pleases. This will not end well, IMO. And I am not putting all the blame on Olivia - in fact, I put more on John here. He is the one who is putting his sobriety at risk, thus putting his child’s future at at enormous risk as well. Let me tell you from personal experience - being the child of an alcoholic parent is fucking awful, just ask my daughter. Addiction is a family disease, there is no dispute about that. It is not fair to think, "oh the addict just has to stop using and all is peachy again." People can sometimes enable the addict for their own reasons. John’s wife apparently had her own issues of addiction with an eating disorder. So you had TWO people here with SERIOUS addictions. I am in no way suggesting that is the case here; just pointing out how addiction is more than just the addict. Eating disorders are just as, if not, more serious. Rather than just quit using the substance at hand, an eating disordered person has to learn to cope with gaining a normal relationship with food and their body. And at the core of all addictions, are serious fundamental issues that have nothing to do with just using. The using is an escape. Which is why having a therapist, or using the support of a community or group such as AA, is so vitally important. An essential part of recovery is also facing the consequences of your actions, and being held responsible for the collateral damage you caused the people you love. That is part of the 12 steps of AA. BTW, no one can "save you" except yourself - which is why they recommend not diving into a new relationship and dealing with your own shit! I can say, his choice to jump into a new relationship and now have a baby, is VERY unhealthy for his sobriety. And to do so publicly has got to be devastating to his ex. I feel bad for that child, and I do feel bad for John’s ex to have to live this out so publicly. Obviously they must have had some serious issues in their relationship, but this cannot be an easy pill to swallow for her, so publicly. This is just ugly & messy any way you cut it - sorry. I do hope some healing and recovery can happen for John and Anna as they move forward.
Yea. The blame and social ire shouldn’t be put in Olivia Munn either. At the end of the day we’re blaming women for the destructive path of a volatile man which is just patriarchal brainwashing kicking in. Men are not babies and I put this in him. A rubber is 5$ at 7-11
He cheated and knocked someone up. Let’s not forget Olivia was just all over Ruston Kelly fresh after a divorce + rehab till at least December. Also the divorce was just filed in July, they’re not even divorced yet.
It’s incredibly selfish to bring a child in to one’s life as a distraction / new toy. I’ve known many men that do this ( especially later in life) as a later in life instant fix. Buy a new car! 😑
Agreed. I feel so bad for that kid. And you know Olivia isn’t against birth control or abortion. To choose to bring a kid into this situation is the choice of a sick person. I really doubt Mulaney wanted a kid. He’s going along to get along.
My ex fiancé replaced me within hours. What I don't understand is how and where they find women stupid enough to co-sign the behavior. For every skeevy man, there seems to be 10 desperate morons to take up with him.
After rehab you are not supposed to make substantial changes in your life during the first year. This guy in less than a year left his wife, moved to another state and a new relationship, and now is going to have a baby, those are HUGE red flags!! His ex is suffering now but she'll move on too. Good luck to Olivia dealing with an addict and a newborn!
"He John Mulaney-ed me!" If this expression catches on, it will be the most succinct distillation of the common sense in this video. And then the Shalligators will have to remind everyone who said it first.
If you still have a period you can have a baby. Being over 40 having a baby isn't an anomaly 😂 Olivia got pregnant like the 1st week they were together. I doubt IVF treatments were involved...she is 5-6 months pregnant...she has a full on bump.
@@chrisw9122 thats why i dont believe the timeline. women in their 40s usually need to try for more than a year to have a pregnancy that survives the first trimester....a t the age of 35, a woman only ovulates 6 or 7 times a year....by the time she is 41, even way less. i bet they have been sleeping for a year or two. and i bet she told him she was on contraception, since he never wanted kids, but wasnt, since she would like to keep him. so weird
This has been a very rough summer for me and someone I care for very much is going through it so truly I’m sorry for the situation Anne Marie is going through but all storms pass. If we are brave and process through the pain and do the work it will be fine. Life waits for no one so the only think you can do is move on. Define your new life.
He got “Hollywooded” as I call it. My sister and I loved him since high school. Loved his comedy. Then he got a big head. Idk it just gives me a bad feeling. I feel so bad for the ex wife.
I got a boyfriend through testicular cancer. I was literally his only caregiver during his surgery and treatment, so stressed I had a seizure and fell off the wagon and what did he do two months into remission? The asshole dumped me and moved 2,000 miles away just like that. I don't get how we help people through hard times and they just ditch us. It's bullshit. People really suck sometimes don't they
The same thing happened to a friend of mine except he didn’t move 2000 miles away, but he did dump her. He came groveling back to her years later and cried when she told him she got married to somebody else. Maybe the cancer came back and he thought she’d be his caregiver again. 🙄
It’s also really sad that his ex spent so much time getting to learn him and vice versa and he’s partnered with someone else and a baby in the way within a year. For whatever reasons they waited, and now he’s going to focus on his new family which no blame but OUCH
I get the feeling that Olivia desired a baby and at 41 saw that window closing and John was the guy who happened to be around and willing (enough-maybe a gray area between planned and “accidental” pregnancy on this one). I’d bet money that the relationship has an expiration date of months not years.
Hopefully he really wanted kids (Anna Marie is childfree, and he claimed he was as well)… or it is a HUGE DISTRACTION from his issues that cause(d) addiction. Who’s gonna save that kid from a dad that struggles with addiction? If he actually sticks around Olivia? He announced he was dating officially Olivia in March, as he got out of rehab in September. Olivia’s bump is BIG and obviously 6 months pregnant of a March conception….. All that is kinda gross. Doesn’t sound good at all.
I agree. Obviously I don’t know his situation personally but it seems like pretty shitty and careless timing. You can’t tell me you have a handle on your issues within 5 months. And then add a new relationship and a child into the mix? Sounds like a recipe for disaster.
I personally think they claimed to be childfree because she knew it wasn’t a partnership and she would not only have the responsibility of looking after him and his addiction, but also the responsibility of a baby. I hated the idea of having kids when i was with my long term ex because he needed all my attention and care. But now i’m with my current bf and i can’t wait to have a kid with him one day because i know he will he an amazing partner and dad.
Please make a video on feminism and fake feminism, and what I mean by That is that so many women who got feminist quotes in their bio and talk about women empowerment, the second u don’t agree with them or you simply have a different opinion on how life should be they lash out and they start calling all sorts of names. This happens online and irl too. Many “feminists” talk exactly like straight men . English isn’t my first language, I hope I made myself clear
He’s probably going to relapse and in the mess of it now, there will be a child. He’s a hurricane and his ex wife should thank her lucky stars that she got out of his path of destruction. He’s too fresh out of rehab to deal with a serious partner and a child.
I needed this video. My bf of a year and a half has ghosted me (he's ignored and avoided me for the last month). It's been devastating. But I'm embracing the suck and taking in lessons learned and this video helps.
Shallon , you are absolutely correct on every point! Every point!!!!!!!! I am going through this now. My boyfriend has alcohol issues and is on the road to recovery. I’m already seeing these signs. Thankyou for the heads up x
This video could NOT have come at a more perfect time! He broke up with his baby momma in August last year. Started "dating" me in October but said he didn't want a relationship. We were in a situationship for 9 months, then I ended it because I did want one and he knew this. Didn't speak for 2 weeks, and when he did, he told me he was seeing someone. Went no contact for a little over a month. We spoke again and told me he was now in a relationship with someone. I thought he has moved on, but I can see he hasn't and it's only a rebound :) Thank you Shallon!
You forget that Aaron Rodgers got engaged very quickly with shaileene woodley so maybe Olivia wanted to move on quickly like he did...he is her ex...there’s always some hurt feelings about that
Can I just say this is totally my random analysis but I remember when Shallon did a video on how to get the dorky guy. I believe that dorky guys could have the most supportive girlfriends/wife who’s also attractive and they will still not plug in nearly as much as they would with someone who looks like Olivia munn. A lot of Dorky guys give away any boundaries they had for beautiful women. Most guys arnt like this but if you find a guy who was a ugly duckling back in school sometimes it’s the opposite of kill the cheerleader. They are infatuated with a girl because of how she looks and in some sense it makes him feel like more of a man. I don’t really believe Olivia had to do much at all to make him fall for her,he was already in love with her looks. She just had to laugh at his jokes and act like she liked to watch sports and fart.
Exactly! Former Ugly ducklings will do anything to have a good looking woman to make up for the years they didn't get any attention from the cheerleaders.
Yes! I’m so tired of this narrative where you should just blindly support other women because you are both in fact women. No, I’ve met plenty of shitty women in my life. I will judge you based on your character, not by what’s between your legs.
It kind of seems like an overcorrection of the cheerleader effect. Like he's desperate not to be seen as the nerdy guy who somehow managed to score the hot chick. He can't believe he managed to score the 'hot chick' after always feeling like the 'nerd' and now he's trying to prove to himself & the world that the relationship is real. He's trying to play the character of the type of guy he imagined Olivia should have ended up with and legitimize the relationship by having a baby.
I like your assessment of finding social support but I disagree that it's easy to find it in friends. For me...especially living in NYC and being in my early thirties none of my friends are available to "have my back" in that way. We can see eachother maybe once a month if we are lucky. I've learned not to expect a lot from them. They are too busy being wrapped up in their families and partners, I'll never be a priority to them and it's a lonely thing to come to terms with. Idk.....that's at least my reality for now. But I like what you said about leaving a legacy. I need to volunteer more, give back to my community more, create more. That's something I can control.
I just broke up with my long term boyfriend. I was already over the relationship so the break up did not really affect me. Then I met someone amazing and now I’m that ex that moved on too quickly. it’s hard but when you’re over the relationship, you’re just over it. I stayed in that relationship bc he loved Me so much and I felt guilty leaving a guy who loves me. It’s true what Shallon says, he played the therapist role and helped me become a better person and then after I improved, I left. I do feel bad about it sometimes but I’m glad I did it in the end. I feel like I’m glowing and I’m feeling content with how everything’s played out.
I feel that. It took a long time to officially end things with my ex after mentally clocking out for more than a year. We had a child together which is why I stayed so long but after ending things and seeing someone new, I actually feel the happiest I’ve been in a long, long time. I’m back in school and live by myself with our daughter as we share custody but yeah. I feel you 100%
It’s different when women do it. Odds are you gave him chances, warnings and signs. When men do this, they randomly destroy your life with no warning shot and go HARD with the next.
Thank you for this and all of your videos. Many of us say it, but you are the older sister we all needed. Love your wisdom girl! And hope Anna watches your channel
I read somewhere that in the first year after rehab, you shouldn't make any major changes or decisions and he did that . I don't want bad things for him but he's gonna regret this! How come a guy that for 7 years never wanted kids , in 9 months is ready to have one ???
"C’MON GIRL, I BET YOU GOT SOME GIFTS, SOME TALENTS, SOME DREAMS IN YOUR HEART THAT GOD PUT THERE ON PURPOSE CAUSE THEY’ARE MEANT TO BE REALIZED. BECAUSE YOU WOULDN’T HAVE A DREAM IN YOUR HEART IF IT WAS IMPOSSIBLE!" best and cutest thing I've ever heard
Every single day the “cool girl” monologue from Gone Girl makes even more sense to me. He really dropped the woman who supported him for a newer, younger, bouncier cool girl.
Oof. This. So well said
Don't become his mother. Only a creep would sleep with his mother.
@@martaruiz7891 it's almost always a younger woman so you're still right. Olivia looks alot younger anyway
@@prettyglowin694 exactly!
@@HeythereHelena Agreed.
Getting someone knocked up is not moving on. Most Babies are just accidents. He is not in a place where he should make any long term plans. His ex wife won the lottery. It may suck now but she will bounce back. Good LucK Olivia dealing with a newborn and an addict
Well said! You are so right, both at once, and Olivia is no spring chicken. Everyone feels this way. I wonder if they are shocked by the worldwide condemnation.
@@alisonshanklin3690 I think he is afraid of blowback and that's why he went on a talk show to try and clarify the timeline, to make it appear like he didn't cheat on his wife and that Olivia and the baby "saved him." :::insert eye roll here:::
‘Accident’ at her age planned...by her.
Totally agree.. he tore that bandaid off, and he did it fast and without hesitation, but in a bad way. When he finds himself post-crash and burn again, hopefully she will remember this pain and won’t accept him back.
I hope she finds her equal and is happy when this happens (his crash and burn) so she doesn’t have to be subjected to his bull shit again.
*This is EXACTLY what I was going to say* 🗣 “Being a baby mama is not a trophy to be celebrated” 🗣 Annamarie dodged a bullet - trust. 👏
I hope his poor ex wife honestly didn’t want to have children. Because he has been very vocal about them being child free, and it’s such a knife in the heart that he would tell his ex wife he didn’t want to have children, and then turn around and have a baby immediately after dumping her. So I really hope that it was her idea, and she didn’t sacrifice having children for him.
Omg gut wrenching! I hope it was too!
Ugh this makes me so sick. This is for the best if Anna wanted them.
Sadly, this happens a lot. Unlike women, men have the luxury of time to change their mind, especially if they get with a younger woman. I've known a few women who have wasted their fertile years on a man who convinced them not to have kids, only for him to turn around and have children with the person he dumped them for. It's absolutely sickening and unforgiveable. Never compromise your desires for a man. He's not worth it.
That's what happens when you are with the wrong person. I knew a woman who was so open and carefree in her relationship under the guise of trust an she wanted no kids. Her ex left her and was married within a year and expecting his first within the next. Now she's marrying this new guy and wants to have his babies
I really thought this was the worst thing he did. Never mind getting with another woman after rehab but having a child with them? That’s so so brutal I cannot even imagine. Ans he’s been so vocal about not having or wanting them it’s insane.
Honestly, I think John's ex-wife dodged a really bad bullet. John seems to be someone who clearly has *numerous* major personal issues that he's struggling with. At the end of the day, his ex-wife will come out on top. I'm certainly rooting for her. ...and by the way, my ex did the same thing to me. He and his new GF were literally having a child within 6 months of our 3 year relationship ending. (We had even bought a house together). It took me a few years to get over that one, ...but definitely glad he's gone.
There's also an interview with Olivia where she states that she met John & his Wife at a wedding, then started emailing him but he ignored her ! She basically went after a married man & got ignored :)))))
He said "Olivia and this baby saved me from myself." No, only you can save you from yourself.
exactly...I felt that was such an insensitive thing to say.
Shallon is a brilliant orator but what's even more impressive is that she speaks without much, if any, scripting. Love you Shallon! Also my heart truly goes out to Anna. This is brutal. I know that it's inadvisable for someone recovering from addiction to make major life changes within the first year after rehab.
I completely agree! She speaks with structure but at the same time manages to make it feel like she's our best friend chatting at a lovely brunch.
She’s soo entertaining and intelligent. I love it!!
Built for radio or stand up comedy! Anything entertainment because she’s truly got star power!
True. I've noticed most her videos are like a single take or very minimal editing. This dosen't mean she dosen't have a loose script but I agree with you she is skilled.
Shallon is the besttttt
It is NOT that he moved on. It's that his timeline is shoddy and it implies he truly did his wife dirty. His wife stood by him through the worst of his issues, unwaveringly, when she was having issues herself... only for him to give a nod to this Pick Me (do not get me started on her) for why he's fully recovered now, with no credit to his wife, who did the REAL work. And she's too far pregnant for him to NOT have had an affair, especially if you consider they only met less than a year ago. It's never your ex moving on. It is *how* they move on. And he lost all respect for how he did.
Exactly he obviously cheated his wife even said he did I mean they literally separated 4 months ago and Olivia baby bump is already showing he was obviously with her when he was also still with his wife
Omg, Olivia Munn, what are you doing....
Wow the last part is sooo true. Classiness is apparently a lost art!!
This is not going to last. How can someone divorce their wife after everything she went through with him. How you get them is how you lose them. Believe me no baby can fix a relationship
It's a statistical fact that babies are a detriment on a relationship because that first year is so incredibly stressful. It can break a relationship and it will break this one because it's built on a house of cards. Whenever someone tells a couple to "have a baby" in order to fix their relationship you might as well ring the death knell. No child should be brought into this world to fill a void or save a relationship.
It's inconceivable how many women watching this identify with the subject. Heartbreaking. Shallon, as always, right on point. x
Honestly I think John is spiraling and I highly doubt he actually wanted a baby right now I think Olivia is getting older and thought John was an okay candidate and it happened lol after the honeymoon phase is over he’s gonna realize the grass isn’t greener and regret dumping his wife I do not see him and Olivia working out. As someone who actually really liked his standup specials seeing him now from this point of view I think Ana dodged a bullet he sounds like a needy scrawny man who needs constant validation
I'm with you. I saw the headline and my heart sunk for his ex wife. Like why does he get to move on and be "happy" after what he did. Reminds me of Shannon Bedore's situation. So frustrating.
Oh my god I thought the same thing about Shannon Beador's situation! Heart wrenching, pit in the stomach stuff. :((((
Why does he get to move on and be happy? I’m sorry but wtf. You don’t know these people. This man clearly isn’t perfect, but to imply that he doesn’t deserve to be happy is really sad.
The term "pink cloud" is what I feel John is going though. Right after rehab and newly sober everyone is cheering you on and would never criticize for fear of a relapse. I watched the interview with Seth Meyer and I felt Seth was trying his best to not trigger John.
Seth was probably horrified at the news and worried for him. You notice he didn’t shake his hand, but grabbed John’s shoulder firmly like ..’ Oh man, this is not good, but I’m here for you buddy’. John looked at him for a bit like a child at a parent seeking reassurance. Seth is very intelligent and he knows this is a slow motion shipwreck.
@@nrw7734 yes he looked so frightened, especially when he wasn't talking.
This is why everyone tells you not to jump into a relationship or make any major life changes before you are at least a year sober. This will blow up in his face
Olivia Munn gives off fun, cool vibes, but it's very . . . the Cool Girl monologue from Gone Girl. Like she's trying to be that fictional Cool Girl.
She seems sort of fake to me…like Shallon says she’s the cool girl but I wouldn’t want her around my man
I never liked her, something is off.
To make it worse John said to his ex-wife that he didn't want kids. First thing he does after leaving her-get someone pregnant. If he tried he couldn't have made this break up worse that it is.
Olivia Munn's "cool girl" persona is such a extreme departure from Anna Marie's makeup artist, costume-masters-student, fashion-obsessed, girls-girl, tortured photographer, lampshade decorating persona. Also as someone with an eating disorder, I can't imagine how she feels looking at her and John eating garbage food and (apparently) having more fun than she's had with him in years.
John found his “20%” and ran with it. Oof.
What’s worse is Seth Meyers glorifying him on his show. Are we really supposed to celebrate a man joking about drug abuse, dumping his wife to plow Olivia Munn, and popping out a baby like it’s returnable- all seemingly overnight? Awful how our culture literally rewards this behavior.
I actually think Seth genuinely cares about and is concerned about John. He helped to stage an intervention so he knows how fragile John is and probably wants to show as much support as possible to keep him alive. Seth knows only too well about the drug related deaths of other comedians and entertainers.
Yeah. We live in society (lol) where 'happiness' is the most important, as long as it is sexual happiness. I bet the guy who is exploiting children for cheap labour is happy when his overall business costs are as low as possible but we won't be applauding that. But when someone acts like total bastard and hurts other people in a way to get 'love' we all should suck it up and 'be happy for them' no matter what. Fk that
@@nrw7734 I agree, that’s fair
@@christinacatalano ..thanks Christina. John is at his most vulnerable fresh out of rehab. I pray he survives and is able to be there for many years for his unborn child.
My heart goes out to his ex-wife and I pray she is also able to heal from this deep hurt and find peace of mind and happiness.
@@WrongXNumber you’re smart
We need a video about how to be a good public speaker ASAP
Didnt he always say he doesn’t want kids but with Olivia she’s knocked up within a year of dating WHAT ????
They have been together since May 2021...that is way less than a year...that is not even 6 months.
I know, right?! I was so shock when I see the title, and thought it was just like a rumor. But then I saw the photo of Olivia and I end up like you like WHAT?
He didn't want children with Anna and she went along with it. Now he's a celeb and has to have the Hollywood lifestyle. His private life is making him more famous than his movie roles.
That’s so cruel poor Anna☹️
Reading the title of this video made my heart drop. I'm so angry. He has said so many times how he and his wife didn't want children and then he goes and immediately knocks up this other chick? I lost so much respect for this dude in record time. I know he's not in a good place, but... damn.
Olivia Munn is besties with Amber Heard. Says it all
That says a lot 😂.
@@filmsuga92 indeed
SAYS. IT. ALL.
Well that is a revelation indeed
DAMN! I did not know that. 😱
Poor wife Trust me when I tell you John Mulaney was talking to Olivia Munn during his marriage Shame on Olivia too
Yes 100%
YEPPPERS. They’re both such liars. Why don’t they just admit how much they both suck right now. Pull off the Band Aide.
Yep. Doing more than talking, too. Seems like she got pregnant in February but he didn’t leave Annamarie until April? I’m disgusted and used to be such a fan of John.
Calling it now: John and Olivia won't last
Oh 100% they won’t
@@Lauren_22613 I give it 2 more years
@@PureSparkles22 I agree with you! 2 tops!
coming back to this comment when that inevitably happens
Lmao you were Right
I think the hardest part of these situations is that you wonder if they really are a better person now, and you feel like you weren’t good enough for them to fix themselves to save the relationship but they’ll do it for someone else
This. I need more people to like this because exactly this I
You should never think this. Some people can be better suited but it shouldn't mean you are worse or better than someone. When you think about it in that way it helps:) And l think it is the truth.
yes! you feel like you’re not enough to keep a guy it’s so depressing
Yessss so relatable 😭
@@marija8749 of course no one should ever think that but feelings aren’t logical sometimes. I split up with my ex of 5 years cause he was cheating on me all while I was trying to help him overcome his traumatic experiences and become better, fix him I guess you could say. I started dating someone else a few months later. Then he started dating someone else and I couldn’t help but feel like he was bettering himself for her and that I wasn’t good enough for him to want to be better. Then he rang me mid break down cause she left him cause he’d pulled the same shit. I can’t lie, as much as I never want anyone to experience what I went through it felt a little bit good knowing he hadn’t changed and I was lucky to get out when i did. It’s been about 18 months since we split now and I’m still in the same relationship and we now live together and I’m beyond happy. I’m still hearing stories from friends about the fucked up shit he’s doing to girls we know so I’m very happy I didn’t stick around any longer. I do hope one day he can sort his shit out and be a better person and find happiness because I do care about him but I’m happy I got out when I did or I’d still be trying (and failing) to fix him.
I love John but watching Seth last night, when he said Olivia is pregnant, I felt that in my gut. Been there, ugh. I didn’t know his wife’s name but I was only thinking of her and what she was feeling.
Your videos are next level at the moment. As a fellow full time RUclipsr I’ve watched you go through your recent burn out and I know how relentless that pressure can be. You’ve emerged out of it with a greater depth of wisdom, you’re sharing it out here and it’s really inspiring 🙏♥️
This is such a fangirl moment for me 🙆...I have been watching both Gemma and Shallon for over a year now and here they are saying hello across RUclipsverse. Thank you both for the work you do 🙏
I went through the same thing as well a few years ago. My ex was going through depression. I did my best to help him and it did get codependent because I cared more. A few months later he started dating one of his friends "the cool girl". I'm not going to sugarcoat it at first it was rough because I was hurt. I didn't date anybody else because I didn't want to take the easy road of gratification and instead dealt with my inner self as lovingly as I could. I knew that I had to be stable and secure first. My stability is my priority. I learned my lesson. When I read about what happened to Anna I felt so much empathy towards her. I truly wish her inner peace and happiness. I'm letting you guys know my story because with patience and practice it gets easier to manage.
He announced the divorce the SAME MONTH rumors started flying about Olivia being pregnant from people in their circles.
The timeline is not adding up and it makes them both look awful.
If he's trying to be sober, isn't he not supposed to make big changes regarding things like a new romance or a baby
Yeah it’s supposed to be like no new relationships or major life changes for a year, so basically don’t dump your wife for basically a hollywood cosplayer then knock her up.
🤣🤣🤣 They’re a train wreck waiting to happen
@JOYCE FERREIRA DE SOUZA You must be new here.
Needed this. A year and a half later and I’m still not over a guy I dated. He disposed me like trash and posted he was in an official relationship 2 days before we made plans to go zip-lining together completely blindsiding me. I had no idea he was losing interest and he never told me why.
That's what makes it so difficult. His feelings changed, he changed the rules of your relationship, but he neglected to tell you. It was incredibly dishonest and cowardly of him. And you were left holding all the emotional baggage wondering what went wrong, possibly even "What did I do wrong." All relationships are built on power differentials. Ideally, you want to share equal power with your partner, but this is not always what happens. He/She who cares the least has the most amount of power in the relationship. He skipped out at a time when it was safe for him to do so because he had nothing to lose, but unfortunately, you had the most to lose because you were still invested. In essence, it was like a death to your system and you're still grieving. You were not the problem, he was. I am certain that you have a lot of good qualities. This is an undeniable truth. You bring something to the table when it comes to relationships, be they friendships or partnerships. The fact that he could not appreciate what you have to offer means he was never worthy of you. He's the trash here.
This girl was probably his sidechick in the course of your relationship. I’m so sorry! You deserve so much better! 💛
I can relate babes. Fuck them. We ball lol
His ex wife said he cheated on her I’m guessing it was with Olivia cause the timing seems right like it’s only been a few months that they separated.
I know, they are trash.
My mom always says no man leaves his wife without another secure option in the picture. In my experience, she’s right
Normally, the woman initiates the divorce when catching her husband cheating, 70% of all divorces are filed by the wife.
He is starting a new chapter in his life. Dump the old nerd stage performer and bring in the new shiny leading man. Hypocrites, I meant actors, all of them. Is her baby bump real? This story is bad fiction.
@@annawimpey5307 it’s real but is also that fact that when he was with his ex he said he doesn’t want kids and said that many times and now 4 months after separating his girlfriend is pregnant I just find it weird but anyways
@@aneeshaarshad4956I learned alot reading these posts. His stand up was all about not having children? Guess his biological clock must have started ticking. Women having babies in their 40s? Why? So many using fake baby bumps and surrogates. Maybe for bragging rights. I was scolded for having my last child when I was 39. 😁
HE BETTER NOT HAVE
A baby in recovery having a baby. Olivia is clueless what she’s heading into. Single momma. I feel for Anna. Good riddance. Great video.
Wow. So true about the word ‘catty’. Where is the equivalent word for men? And she got pregnant probably on the first go. She looks 6 months pregnant already. And he’s only four (?) months out from his marriage? This ‘relationship’ can’t last. It started on a foundation of lies and betrayal and an ‘oops’ baby. Oliva is notorious for dating married men and being the side chick. Cheap. Period. Not a quality woman. And he’s a fool. Also, the jokes on them because a baby is not gonna make the honeymoon phase continue. Reality hits REAL hard after a baby.
My ex moved on quickly after we broke up but he was just love bombing someone new. Now the relationship is unraveling and looks like his toxic patterns have emerged.
He's troubled and should wear protection. Not great dad material.
I also felt sick on Anna Maria's behalf when I heard the news. That must have felt like a sucker punch to the gut.
I know, I was shocked too... he was the proponent of the child free movement. His constant stand ups on Anne Marie and how bad ass she was. And this news made me hurt my stomach.
This news was so upsetting for me. I have always loved John and expected someone like him as my partner. I love Anne Marie because he always spoke about her and how badass she is in all his stand up. He always told that he never wanted kids, now kNowing this and the hurt she would be going through gave me so much anxiety yesterday. I felt her, never felt so much bad for a women. Overall this is a sad situation for John and Anne Marie.
My recent ex was the one who showed me Mulaney. Her family worships him. My ex and I dated 5 years and she left me for her married coworker who just had a child either right away or within 2 months of leaving me. She Mulaney'd me hard and I wonder if she even realizes it. Thank you for this video it made me feel validated in my feelings and the sass helps me put into perspective how lame she was for doing things the way she did. I'll be sure to check out more vidoes!
Men don’t move on. They find a replacement and pretend nothing out of the ordinary has occurred.
Olivia was low hanging fruit and I believe that in these scenarios, the other woman can in fact, be blamed. She CO-SIGNED the bullshit, and this makes her culpable in destroying another woman’s life. Full stop.
When it happened I immediately thought, oh wow is just out of rehab the best time for a baby? That’s stressful for most new relationships. Then my next thought was I wonder what Shallon thinks about this 😅 Also, feel glad for his ex and that they didn’t have kids together. She’s already been through a lot with him as a man child. Wishing them all the best of luck though.
Keep up with the awesome content! 🌿💗🌸
Found out my ex “moved on” by seeing a tiktok of him in bed with a girl. It’s been one month after a five year relationship. Lived together for two. And the lack of respect I felt when I saw that tiktok from the girl saying they’re “fwb” was astounding it’s like I don’t know this man at all. Focusing on being sad for him that he can’t be alone like you said.
This is NOT a tragedy, the tragedy would have been if you stayed with him. And if you were telling us the same story but instead of five years there were 12 years, a divorce and 2 kids.
You are pretty and I bet you're smart. Life goes on. You deserve better :)
@@tangerin511 thank you that’s very sweet :) 4 months later and I feel really really good
The ex wife dodged a deadly bullet here. I hope she isn’t too devastated over this. John and olivia’s honeymoon/cutebaby phase will end real soon when that thing pops outta her screaming. The stress might even make him relapse and Olivia will definitely be dumping his ass for that. I just don’t see her putting up with this dudes shit
She has no intention to. She's ruthlessly securing the bag of a literal addict because her 15 minutes weren't even over yet before she was spit back out by the industry.
Yeah, let's wait and see what happens. Shallon should do updates if she doesn't already. :)
what bothers me is all the annoying people i've seen saying "they deserve privacy", when that's what has pissed me off about john and olivia during all of this, is the very lack of privacy on their end. they've been nothing BUT public with this shitshow when they don't in any way need to be. i get making a statement that he's getting divorced but everything since has been their choice and their fault for the exposure and reaction it's gotten. he's the one that chose to make his relationship with olivia not only public, but public so soon after announcing his divorce. that's on him. he and his publicists chose to publicize that information, so i can't stand his fans crying about "parasocial relationships" when people aren't over the moon for them. he's the one that knocked olivia up and is publicly confirming it on national television before his divorce has even been settled. neither of these things have to even be talked about, let alone publicized and promoted, so please spare us the "privacy" defense, john mulaney fans. his privacy wasn't pried into and invaded by media, he was simply just a douchebag that willingly publicized his personal "timeline" on national television and whether he's intending to or not, HE'S the one choosing to publicly humiliate his wife. do his fans really expect us to believe that he and olivia munn are big enough and interesting enough celebs for paps to be stalking them in a freakin pandemic? lol they're clearly orchestrating this press, like most celebrities. being private with these personal matters wouldn't make them less shitty in my eyes, but they definitely would make him seem like more of a decent person. and that's really where i've lost respect for him, is the fact that he's the one choosing to be this idiotic and callous and cold hearted towards his wife. his fans are pissing me off through all of this too. they can't be cool with him publicizing his personal life and behavior and then turn around when the public has something not so nice to say about said behavior. they can't have it both ways. if they want privacy, then be private.
VERY VERY VERY ON POINT
My jaw and heart literally dropped when I read the headline this morning. Same reaction as shallon
First, you are without question, the wittiest vlogger out there. It's such a relief to spend a few minutes listening to someone who's made it past the 9th grade, who's grammar and vocabulary doesn't consist solely of "I seen it" or "Ax me sumfin". Good God, I might not always agree with what you're saying, but oh mama, your intelligence is a breath of so fresh air. Thank you for the brief vacations I can take by listening to you. That being said, I've noticed that lately you've boosted up the cursing. Believe me, I'm no prude, but it's not honoring your communication skills I KNOW you possess. You don't need to do it, you've got the chops to go head to head with anyone to make your point without it. Plus you're lovely.
Your story is so true. “He John Mulaneyed me.”
Her baby bump is quite big, looks at least 5 months, so either they were messing around earlier than we thought or he ain't the daddy 😬
No way she’s five months pregnant. This is her first pregnancy she can’t be this filled out at 5 months. She looks more like 8-9 months. I feel for his ex…
I was thinking the same thing, probably 8 months, 7 if we’re being generous. Unless she’s having twins? Then I could see it being so big at an earlier point in the pregnancy.
This were exactly my thoughts, with my daughter I barely started showing at around 5 months! And it was a tiny tiny belly, that girl is 7-8
This video was brilliant on multiple levels. So empowering and a total mindset shift on many different topics- friendships and relationships! Thank you!
Can we just take a second to appreciate Shallon always posting so quickly and helpful??? Thank you, Shallon! We're lucky to have you there consistently 💖
Totally! I needed it today. Sure, they’re their own people, but this shit is too sadly relatable to many of us. It’s triggering AF.
@@LXSeaV ugh I know. This entire video hit home for me too 😔
She became pregnant what like a week after they started dating?!?!?!?!?!?! 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
It's just a matter of time before this relationship implodes! It's happening way too soon! I'm not really familiar with his work, but he really needs to focus on his sobriety. It's a shame that they have decided to bring a child into this chaos and confusion. I really feel for his ex wife, but I'm sure she will pull through all of this stronger and resilient! She's better off without him!
Ooh this is insane Shallon! Celebitchy is covering this situation and it seems like Mulaney was cheating on his wife with Olivia… so shady. So so shady. He spent years saying he didn’t want children, it was part of his comedy show and now this? Dang!
He even cheated?! I'm so disappointed and disgusted!
@Little Darling, right? The timeline looks suspicious and it seems like he cheated given what has been reported by Celebitchy and what is mentioned here by Shallon.
It’s tricky because Olivia has mentioned that in an interview that she met John and his wife a few years ago and was interested in talking to him quite a lot, so I could imagine a situation where he was flattered by the attention etc.
@@curiousseal5960 Ah, someone sucking up to him + feeding his ego intentionally and he chooses her over his supportive wife? Trash.
john seemed to adore his ex wife he always hyped her up always mentioned her in his comedy he seemed to be head over heels throughout the years. the fact that he can so easily just move on is so strange to me... even if the marriage wasnt working anymore it's all so sudden and rushed. i guess i dont get it makes zero sense to me.
It’s a facade the ones who hype up their wives the most are the ones to watch out for, if he truly felt that way he would not have moved on so easily
I heard (just some gossip stories) that John actually cheated on his wife quite a bit.
I'd believe that. I don't know very many faithful addicts or alcoholics...
Obviously, I don’t know any of these people personally. I do however, have my own history of anorexia (recovered from that after almost 15 years). I do have my own history of being married to a drug addict for ten years. We are divorced because he would not get sober. I am intimately familiar with AA, and what they teach you about maintaining your sobriety. I used to go to meetings with my ex, and went to Al-non as well. John’s wife also, apparently went to her own treatment for an eating disorder. Therefore, we have two people with serious addictions going on here. No one knows what the dynamics of their relationship is/was….but I can tell you right now: John Mulaney jumping into another relationship right away, and he and Olivia having a baby so suddenly is one of the WORST things he could do for his sobriety! I doubt anyone in AA would think this is healthy for his sobriety. Of course, he is his own person, he can choose to do as he pleases. This will not end well, IMO. And I am not putting all the blame on Olivia - in fact, I put more on John here. He is the one who is putting his sobriety at risk, thus putting his child’s future at at enormous risk as well. Let me tell you from personal experience - being the child of an alcoholic parent is fucking awful, just ask my daughter.
Addiction is a family disease, there is no dispute about that. It is not fair to think, "oh the addict just has to stop using and all is peachy again." People can sometimes enable the addict for their own reasons. John’s wife apparently had her own issues of addiction with an eating disorder. So you had TWO people here with SERIOUS addictions. I am in no way suggesting that is the case here; just pointing out how addiction is more than just the addict. Eating disorders are just as, if not, more serious. Rather than just quit using the substance at hand, an eating disordered person has to learn to cope with gaining a normal relationship with food and their body. And at the core of all addictions, are serious fundamental issues that have nothing to do with just using. The using is an escape. Which is why having a therapist, or using the support of a community or group such as AA, is so vitally important. An essential part of recovery is also facing the consequences of your actions, and being held responsible for the collateral damage you caused the people you love. That is part of the 12 steps of AA. BTW, no one can "save you" except yourself - which is why they recommend not diving into a new relationship and dealing with your own shit!
I can say, his choice to jump into a new relationship and now have a baby, is VERY unhealthy for his sobriety. And to do so publicly has got to be devastating to his ex.
I feel bad for that child, and I do feel bad for John’s ex to have to live this out so publicly. Obviously they must have had some serious issues in their relationship, but this cannot be an easy pill to swallow for her, so publicly.
This is just ugly & messy any way you cut it - sorry. I do hope some healing and recovery can happen for John and Anna as they move forward.
Yea. The blame and social ire shouldn’t be put in Olivia Munn either. At the end of the day we’re blaming women for the destructive path of a volatile man which is just patriarchal brainwashing kicking in. Men are not babies and I put this in him. A rubber is 5$ at 7-11
@@attiliasenni417 Thanks! Assholes indeed LOL
He cheated and knocked someone up. Let’s not forget Olivia was just all over Ruston Kelly fresh after a divorce + rehab till at least December. Also the divorce was just filed in July, they’re not even divorced yet.
It’s incredibly selfish to bring a child in to one’s life as a distraction / new toy. I’ve known many men that do this ( especially later in life) as a later in life instant fix. Buy a new car! 😑
Agreed. I feel so bad for that kid. And you know Olivia isn’t against birth control or abortion. To choose to bring a kid into this situation is the choice of a sick person. I really doubt Mulaney wanted a kid. He’s going along to get along.
How do you even know it was on purpose
Your describing my Dad lol 😂 I have 7 half siblings cause he’s a mess
@@LXSeaV exactly! What is he going to do? Put on appearances as usual.
This story also gives me Chris Pratt and Anna Farris energy for some reason, men moving way too fast after a divorce skeeves me out.
My ex fiancé replaced me within hours. What I don't understand is how and where they find women stupid enough to co-sign the behavior. For every skeevy man, there seems to be 10 desperate morons to take up with him.
I really enjoyed this video….your comments on associating people with pain and not wanting to be constantly reminded was on point
I’m glad I’m not the only one who felt sick when I saw the news. I feel so bad for his ex wife. I hope she’s doing okay
Exactly! No need to flash it around if you’ve really moved on.
After rehab you are not supposed to make substantial changes in your life during the first year. This guy in less than a year left his wife, moved to another state and a new relationship, and now is going to have a baby, those are HUGE red flags!! His ex is suffering now but she'll move on too. Good luck to Olivia dealing with an addict and a newborn!
"He John Mulaney-ed me!" If this expression catches on, it will be the most succinct distillation of the common sense in this video. And then the Shalligators will have to remind everyone who said it first.
You are very intelligent and hard working and have helped me very much! Thank you Shallon!
"You can probably get 75% 80% of your social inclusion needs met without a wiener involved". Yes! Preach it Shallon.
Anna Marie dodged a bullet. He’s not worth crying over :/
She’s 41, there’s little chance this was unplanned or unassisted. People who have easy and natural pregnancies after 40 are anecdotes, not statistics.
WTF I was sure she was younger. Had to double check and yup, 41
If you still have a period you can have a baby. Being over 40 having a baby isn't an anomaly 😂 Olivia got pregnant like the 1st week they were together. I doubt IVF treatments were involved...she is 5-6 months pregnant...she has a full on bump.
@@chrisw9122 thats why i dont believe the timeline. women in their 40s usually need to try for more than a year to have a pregnancy that survives the first trimester....a t the age of 35, a woman only ovulates 6 or 7 times a year....by the time she is 41, even way less. i bet they have been sleeping for a year or two. and i bet she told him she was on contraception, since he never wanted kids, but wasnt, since she would like to keep him. so weird
@@marykay7878 my aunt got pregnant at 46 without struggle. It’s not uncommon at all
@@HashtagAPI8 knowing about 1 example makes it not uncommon?
I WAS REFRESHING FOR THIS ALL DAY
SAY IT . Dude, listen to the Celebrity Memoir Book Club podcast on Olivia Munn’s book. Never feel ashamed of trashing her. She is NOT a good person.
This has been a very rough summer for me and someone I care for very much is going through it so truly I’m sorry for the situation Anne Marie is going through but all storms pass. If we are brave and process through the pain and do the work it will be fine. Life waits for no one so the only think you can do is move on. Define your new life.
I was told in highschool by men that they can talk behind each other's backs like women, but it isn't gossip because they are men....
He got “Hollywooded” as I call it. My sister and I loved him since high school. Loved his comedy. Then he got a big head. Idk it just gives me a bad feeling. I feel so bad for the ex wife.
I got a boyfriend through testicular cancer. I was literally his only caregiver during his surgery and treatment, so stressed I had a seizure and fell off the wagon and what did he do two months into remission? The asshole dumped me and moved 2,000 miles away just like that. I don't get how we help people through hard times and they just ditch us. It's bullshit. People really suck sometimes don't they
The same thing happened to a friend of mine except he didn’t move 2000 miles away, but he did dump her. He came groveling back to her years later and cried when she told him she got married to somebody else. Maybe the cancer came back and he thought she’d be his caregiver again. 🙄
BRO.. Olivia is now stuck with this junkie
What great advice!...we ALL needed to hear this!
It’s also really sad that his ex spent so much time getting to learn him and vice versa and he’s partnered with someone else and a baby in the way within a year. For whatever reasons they waited, and now he’s going to focus on his new family which no blame but OUCH
Yeah; I place lots of blame! Let's hear it folks!!
I get the feeling that Olivia desired a baby and at 41 saw that window closing and John was the guy who happened to be around and willing (enough-maybe a gray area between planned and “accidental” pregnancy on this one). I’d bet money that the relationship has an expiration date of months not years.
Hopefully he really wanted kids (Anna Marie is childfree, and he claimed he was as well)… or it is a HUGE DISTRACTION from his issues that cause(d) addiction. Who’s gonna save that kid from a dad that struggles with addiction? If he actually sticks around Olivia? He announced he was dating officially Olivia in March, as he got out of rehab in September. Olivia’s bump is BIG and obviously 6 months pregnant of a March conception….. All that is kinda gross. Doesn’t sound good at all.
I agree. Obviously I don’t know his situation personally but it seems like pretty shitty and careless timing. You can’t tell me you have a handle on your issues within 5 months. And then add a new relationship and a child into the mix? Sounds like a recipe for disaster.
I personally think they claimed to be childfree because she knew it wasn’t a partnership and she would not only have the responsibility of looking after him and his addiction, but also the responsibility of a baby. I hated the idea of having kids when i was with my long term ex because he needed all my attention and care. But now i’m with my current bf and i can’t wait to have a kid with him one day because i know he will he an amazing partner and dad.
@@MelH87 This reminds me of the time Sonja Morgan went to Costa Rica and magically recovered from a pill addiction instead of actually going to rehab🙈
Please make a video on feminism and fake feminism, and what I mean by That is that so many women who got feminist quotes in their bio and talk about women empowerment, the second u don’t agree with them or you simply have a different opinion on how life should be they lash out and they start calling all sorts of names. This happens online and irl too. Many “feminists” talk exactly like straight men . English isn’t my first language, I hope I made myself clear
He’s probably going to relapse and in the mess of it now, there will be a child. He’s a hurricane and his ex wife should thank her lucky stars that she got out of his path of destruction. He’s too fresh out of rehab to deal with a serious partner and a child.
I needed this video. My bf of a year and a half has ghosted me (he's ignored and avoided me for the last month). It's been devastating. But I'm embracing the suck and taking in lessons learned and this video helps.
Ghosting is the absolute worst. So painful. What a coward.
Shallon , you are absolutely correct on every point! Every point!!!!!!!! I am going through this now. My boyfriend has alcohol issues and is on the road to recovery. I’m already seeing these signs. Thankyou for the heads up x
They'll be broken up before she gives birth. Hate to see it
Love to see it.
@@Gigi-kr7ki Lol, exactly. These people are obnoxious. Who cares if they break up.
This video could NOT have come at a more perfect time!
He broke up with his baby momma in August last year. Started "dating" me in October but said he didn't want a relationship. We were in a situationship for 9 months, then I ended it because I did want one and he knew this. Didn't speak for 2 weeks, and when he did, he told me he was seeing someone. Went no contact for a little over a month. We spoke again and told me he was now in a relationship with someone. I thought he has moved on, but I can see he hasn't and it's only a rebound :) Thank you Shallon!
and he's posting on instagram etc more. Something he never did before with me lol
You forget that Aaron Rodgers got engaged very quickly with shaileene woodley so maybe Olivia wanted to move on quickly like he did...he is her ex...there’s always some hurt feelings about that
Oh wow. Didn't know that
Was just thinking about this.
Can I just say this is totally my random analysis but I remember when Shallon did a video on how to get the dorky guy. I believe that dorky guys could have the most supportive girlfriends/wife who’s also attractive and they will still not plug in nearly as much as they would with someone who looks like Olivia munn. A lot of Dorky guys give away any boundaries they had for beautiful women. Most guys arnt like this but if you find a guy who was a ugly duckling back in school sometimes it’s the opposite of kill the cheerleader. They are infatuated with a girl because of how she looks and in some sense it makes him feel like more of a man. I don’t really believe Olivia had to do much at all to make him fall for her,he was already in love with her looks. She just had to laugh at his jokes and act like she liked to watch sports and fart.
Exactly! Former Ugly ducklings will do anything to have a good looking woman to make up for the years they didn't get any attention from the cheerleaders.
Yes! I’m so tired of this narrative where you should just blindly support other women because you are both in fact women. No, I’ve met plenty of shitty women in my life. I will judge you based on your character, not by what’s between your legs.
It kind of seems like an overcorrection of the cheerleader effect. Like he's desperate not to be seen as the nerdy guy who somehow managed to score the hot chick.
He can't believe he managed to score the 'hot chick' after always feeling like the 'nerd' and now he's trying to prove to himself & the world that the relationship is real. He's trying to play the character of the type of guy he imagined Olivia should have ended up with and legitimize the relationship by having a baby.
I like your assessment of finding social support but I disagree that it's easy to find it in friends. For me...especially living in NYC and being in my early thirties none of my friends are available to "have my back" in that way. We can see eachother maybe once a month if we are lucky. I've learned not to expect a lot from them. They are too busy being wrapped up in their families and partners, I'll never be a priority to them and it's a lonely thing to come to terms with. Idk.....that's at least my reality for now. But I like what you said about leaving a legacy. I need to volunteer more, give back to my community more, create more. That's something I can control.
LOVEBOMBING. I’m calling it.
You can always get hotter, you cant get wittier. That quote gave me life today!
I just broke up with my long term boyfriend. I was already over the relationship so the break up did not really affect me. Then I met someone amazing and now I’m that ex that moved on too quickly. it’s hard but when you’re over the relationship, you’re just over it. I stayed in that relationship bc he loved
Me so much and I felt guilty leaving a guy who loves me. It’s true what Shallon says, he played the therapist role and helped me become a better person and then after I improved, I left. I do feel bad about it sometimes but I’m glad I did it in the end. I feel like I’m glowing and I’m feeling content with how everything’s played out.
I feel that. It took a long time to officially end things with my ex after mentally clocking out for more than a year. We had a child together which is why I stayed so long but after ending things and seeing someone new, I actually feel the happiest I’ve been in a long, long time. I’m back in school and live by myself with our daughter as we share custody but yeah. I feel you 100%
It’s different when women do it. Odds are you gave him chances, warnings and signs. When men do this, they randomly destroy your life with no warning shot and go HARD with the next.
@@missminti 100%
Wow…this was one of the best explanations of how a woman feels when your partner moves on. Thanks for this!
You’re absolutely amazing. You’ve made my worst days better thank you!!
I can imagine Shallon easily taking a step into stand up comic land..the delivery and story telling is high quality!
Whoever moves on the fastest is not over the break up ..damn..that spoke volumes to me..
Thank you for this and all of your videos. Many of us say it, but you are the older sister we all needed. Love your wisdom girl! And hope Anna watches your channel
I read somewhere that in the first year after rehab, you shouldn't make any major changes or decisions and he did that . I don't want bad things for him but he's gonna regret this! How come a guy that for 7 years never wanted kids , in 9 months is ready to have one ???