The Universe threw SO many red flags to Khloe regarding this man that at some point she deliberately chose to ignore them all. After it all blew up in her face, she can only think. "Damn I played my self and broke my own heart." Still, I sympathized and cried with Khloe. Lord knows I have one too many circumstances when I ignored red flags and stuff just blew up in my face. You feel like you betrayed yourself. 💔 Thankfully she was blessed with a son and will know what real love feels like all over again.
@@azucenabustos1078 Me too! And she has the money to get the best help and personal escape from that Third Trimester Tristan.. I mean if Khloe doesn't take him back after this I think she can gain trust back from ppl if she doesn't but this is affecting her brand and children if she does.. IF she really does take him back for the 1000th time. Tristan is not the only male in the whole wide world. And to take back a man who KNEW he had anoter girl pregnant. He knew that info to come out and he got Khloe face the worse kind of pain publicly again.
You are SO right that being religious and praying is a BIG help. I had to suffer for 43 YEARS before I met Mr Right but I never lost faith and kept praying and believing and am since 4 years the happiest woman I know. A lot happier than all those women who got married to their college boyfriend cuz they were scared to end up alone 😂
And to anyone who thinks the right person is not out there : he IS. He will LOVE that you can't see without glasses, that you use too many weird emoji's in texts or that you make lots of RUclips videos about how disgusting men are! 😉😉🥰
And the “I want my kids to have the same father” take is such bullshit. Why would you want your children to have an untrustworthy, lying, adulterer as a dad? Your kids will see that behaviour and internalize that. It will reflect how they view the world and relationships. It’s so selfish, is she really thinking about the kids at all?
No she is only thinking about herself And the i can fix him BS She is SO Dumb I feel so Bad for those kids Wait a few month till he gets another of his sides pieces pregnant 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
Because there is a stigma about having children with more than a man and also some people think that is better to a child have a brother than a half brother.
Menopause is a motherfucker, I do not envy you. Try seeing a naturopath and looking for some holistic ways to balance hormones I feel like Western medicine does more harm than good sometimes
@@shallonlester That's true! I was recently diagnosed with Morbus Crohn or Crohn's disease in English, and all I've been getting is cortisone because apparently it's chronic and incurable and the doctors can't do a lot to help me... so I started seeing a doctor who specialises in Traditional Chinese Medicine and I've started acupuncture and different herbs and so far it has been helping a little 🙏🏻 but of course, insurance doesn't cover that in my country!! 🤦🏻♀️ Most doctors don't even talk about it!
@@shallonlester accupunture did for me what no amount of western medicine could do. I have endometriosis, have had a ton of operations and medicine thrown at me and finally I'm in the best shape of my life, mentally and physically, because of accupunture. I suffered for 25 years with no end in sight and now after sessions since May, I have so much less pain and I feel normal finally.
"i get why people do it ,i just don't understand why you would do it with Tristan Thompson" I think it has to do with not wanting multiple fathers . It makes me sad because Khloe (pre Tristan) was my favorite sister. SO supportive to her sisters , the funniest and the most interesting to look it . Khloe has a great personality ! Tristan has not helped her in anyway ,only thing he promises her is embarrassment .
I think it’s actually because of that comparison thing we have all been doing, and in her life, it’s probably dialled up to 💯. She is the favourite sister if she acts are certain way, she’s the ugly sister But can change that through a few ‘alterations’, She’s the unsuccessful sister unless she’s killing it with her and spinoff shows and businesses...So not only is she always in comparison with others, she’s also in a position where she’s proved to herself that her actions can change the outcome of how she is perceived...enter F*k boi trope lol...if she can change him, she probably believes it will change how she perceives herself, and being the first woman on the planet to actually get a f*boy to become devoted to her, well, there’s the comparison, that would be more impressive/stupid than being the first person to walk on Venus lol.
@@lunar686 I disagree strongly with this. Firstly, she is successful and has been but you know she had to find her niche; she wasn't going to put out a sex tape as that had already been done. She has also been beautiful even pre alterations but clearly different in body type. She's tall and had a weight problem, and therein lies the rub. No matter how thin and altered she becomes she carries her sense if difference from her sisters with her. The other issue is that she only has one type of man that she wants. I am always cautioned by men and women who only go after certain physical types i.e., I only date black men, I only date blondes, tall people, athletes, etcetera. That's more concerning than anything imo. We all know what we like but it's concerning that there's no wiggle room for anything that veers away from just one type. And of course she just has to pursue successful athletes which come on that's another red flag as well. She's been willfully blind and a slave to her ideals. She clearly wanted a full sibling for her daughter which I get, BUT..... should she have? Shallon was 100% correct in how she broke that down too. Just because you can doesn't mean she should right? What I wish for all these Kardashian girls is that they find what's authentic within themselves and find love. Not be so invested on the look and image of that!
Why are they determined to keep the same father for all their children? Even if he’s a shithead? Is it because big sister Kourtney was so adamant with this rule she screwed it into their heads?
Shallon, I was listening to you this morning with my AirPods in when my 7 year old daughter comes in the room, and after seeing you talking for a minute she says, “She is pretty and she looks SASSY!” I thought it was too funny and so sweet. ❤️
My attitude is if it didn’t work out, then they weren’t the love of your life. Of it was meant to be, it would have been. If he REALLY was the great love of your life, it would have worked out. The good news is you haven’t lost your one true love, they’re still out there.
This is exactly my thought - the bad news is that the story is still being written but that’s also the good news! There’s new things to discover new dreams to fulfill, it’s all good!
Yes. I would say there's one exception but no others though. Khloe really disrespecting her loved ones by dragging out this Tristan loser crap is hard.
@@Wakeupdelilah many people try to make it work with people who wronged them rather it be a family relationship, love interest, husband, friend or even work colleague.
I love when you're really honest. Like the parts were you say you're actually feeling furious and not curious. It humanizes you. It's so relatable. None of us are perfect so it's nice to see our beloved influencers be relatable.
I can't believe you guys are really over here feeling sorry for Khloe...like really? This woman just keeps taking L's one after the other. At some point when do we hold Khloe responsible for making shitty choices? We know Tristan is trash ok, and he's never going to change, she knows that too. I've come to the conclusion that this women is addicted to pain and of course likes the attention she get's from the whoa is me bs. So not here for it..
And it's not even just Tristan! She stormed into Lamar's room while he was cheating and started beating up one of the hookers! What a clown! She'll never NOT get cheated on because she's set this absurd precedent that she'll never leave a cheater and give them ten million chances and keeps acting surprised when it happens again and again.
Evil week topic: Passive Revenge Hear me out, I've found there were times in life when I was struggling and people judged me relentlessly. I made difficult choices and slowly transitioned to a really good place financially, spiritually, emotionally, etc. Now when I run into the people who wronged me, I feel a twinge of righteous delight because despite all the sh*t the talked, I'm happy and stable while they're miserable and struggling. I didn't actively seek vengeance, but channeled my energy inward and learned how to lead a good life by bettering myself and setting goals, which in itself feels like a kind of covert payback.
I learned so much from this video....I realize you can't change people....its their job to fix themselves....all I can do is continue to work on myself.
I actually just thought about it... didn't Khloe say she wanted another baby specifically with Tristan so True had a sibling? Isn't that kind of an interesting take considering half her family are half siblings and she really should know better than anyone that a different dad shouldn't have mattered?
I find this really interesting as well! If you think about it deeply, it make a lot of sense. Kris had several partners (even cheating accusations) and the sisters probably internalized that. I honestly know a lot of people with “half” siblings who are adamant about having kids with only one partner to sort of correct their past in a way
In the Kardashian’s head it obviously matters that all their kids have the same baby daddies (even tho they’re all TRASH) because the media has painted them as whores, skanks, etc, having one baby daddy is a way to fight back at this. Society does not take likely to women with multiple baby daddies (and in many cases, rightfully so). Also I think Khloe sees True as an only child because she’ll never grow up in the same household as her half-siblings, so Khloe having another kid means she gets to raise them together in the same unit and they’ll obviously share a closer bond than with her dads children.
That part, when she said she went into labor early. That would’ve drawn the line for me over anything else. You putting my child at risk and that should’ve been the end of him.
When my ex told me to do abortion he immediately became a stranger for me. I felt nothing to him. And it was sooo good! I thought I will be feeling depressed but I just focused on my precious baby.
this helped me a lot there's something i really regret, moving to a different country bc my family is here, and i had the thought "what would shallon say?" and i just pictured you saying, go ahead and move back to where you wanna live, be happy, and do it for yourself not for others. for so long i have just not even acknowledged my own wants, i have shamed myself for my feelings and for not just being fine and happy where i am, instead of just saying 'it's okay if i want something else, i just need to do it and live for myself, i need to make a life that makes myself happy instead of living for others'
I felt this. Currently in the middle of considering a move to a country very far from home because everyone else is telling me it might be good. But my heart is just not 100% in it.
I find it fascinating how you can speak intelligently, eloquently, off the cuff and make the most sense that strikes a chord with me every time. You must be a witch!!!
you just blew my mind with that serial obsessor thing. i'm the same way. i listened to a song a 1000 times during a break up and YES when we indulge in these behaviors we end up reinforcing this unhealthy neural pathway that lead to more damaging things.
You are such a cool chick. I do disagree with things that you say, but I feel like you’re the kind of person that people can just have a conversation with. Like I could talk to you and have a very meaningful conversation 🫂 I truly appreciate everything you do 🫶🏻💛 Also, you look amazing ✨ and I love that necklace combo.
Hi Shallon! I’d love to see a video on how to be the alpha in the room wherever you go. How to assert social power. This isn’t evil, and maybe won’t work for evil week, but we could definitely put an evil twist on it! Love you!
I can't even imagine the level of humiliation she must have. You would have thought after Lamar it couldn't get any worse, but I think with Tristan it's a million times worse. At least Lamar truly loved her. I don't think Tristan is capable of love!!!
Evil week suggestion: How to scheme and plot. Whether it's for revenge, or for furthering our own agenda even regardless of anyone else, it all comes down to the planning, which can be (in my experience) be perceived as evil.
Listen. Regrets are only worth emphasizing over if they were mistakes made in earnestness. Khloe had countless times to not have this particular regret. Big difference between naivety and stupidity. Hard for me to care about her suffering. All I can take away from her is: "Could never be me."
I recently rewatched all the most recent seasons of keeping up and the whole family ENCOURAGED Khloe to take Tristan back time and time again. If her head was buried in the sand, her family was holding the shovel.
Her whole family and friends. I've never seen anything like that in real life. I've seen friends tell it like it is or just be silent but never encouraging something that was toxic.
Shallon, I had the same issue as you and your mail. I had an IRS issue I had to fix, and I just wouldn’t, COULDN’T take the first step. I was frozen and did not know why. Finally, I admitted this to the agent, and then I blurted out that I felt overwhelmed. She was so sweet. She said, “I will help you.” She took over the task and told me what she needed from me. Maybe your mail feels like too much on your plate, but you don’t want to admit it. You have shoved it to the lowest priority, but it needs a higher priority than you are willing to give it. Maybe you need an assistant to say, “I will help you.” Then they can tell you what they need from you to complete all those tasks in the mail.
EVIL WEEK : tricks to NOT fall in love when your in the courtship stage, and keep "behind" him emotionally. When your falling hard. How to control your emotions.
Love this video. She’s like a personal therapist disguised as a RUclipsr who makes videos about celebrities… I don’t care about any of those people but the messages and psychology behind every video, is like a gold mine I was lucky to stumble upon by accident. ❤️
The sound on Monday night football in the background brings up memories of a break up in September in 1991!!!!I was so sad that fall! Those feelings come back each year when the weather starts changing and when I hear football on TV!
I feel especially bad for the kids in the future. Their father's infidelity and Khloe's emotions are all documented on camera and aired on national TV for millions to see.
Holding resentments is like EATING POISON AND WAITING FOR THE RAT TO DIE! It sucks bc it's counter intuitive to forgive (you don't have to forget nor should u) but it really is best for u. Ppl that have hurt u are not up at night thinking about u. Don't give them the power in ur life today
They have such a weird psychology. They use men for their sperm bc they don’t want multiple baby daddies. Kylie and Kourtney did the same thing with Travis and Scott. You can tell Kylie and Travis don’t spend a lot of time together outside a IG pic
Makes sense. It's less messy. Multiple dad's would mean trying to coordinate with multiple families, multiple s.o. in and out of each guys life and hanging around your kids, possibly dealing with multiple sets of rules and beliefs when you are trying to raise your kids under certain rules, the possibility of rifts caused between siblings... If they all have just one dad then you are only doing that stuff with one person.
@@AJ.9.25 it’s still so strange. Kylie and khole have such low self esteem that they think they can’t do better. Travis cheats too but he is just more low key about it and why Kylie is more private now about her life. At least Ciara got a better man, no one in the kardashian family is capable of having a heathly relationship. And it’s like not Tristan, Scott or Travis are active fathers.
@@AJ.9.25 if you want multiple kids with one guy, get married like Kim. Or like their mom Kris who got married twice and Khloe got to experience a great relationship with a step dad. So it’s weird that they particularly is choosing this path. Less weird when you consider how they become famous.
Never heard of anyone else having an issue with mail like I do exactly. I’d have the money to pay my bills too and my roommate would be like “Do you want me to just throw your mail away?” Because it just piled up. I would never even get it myself. Fear of seeing bad news? Not wanting to address being an adult in charge of myself? I really don’t know either it’s like a strange defiance
Try setting up recurrent billing or just logging online to pay it. For me it was bad memories of physical paper itself, so I didn't have the same connection for the online stuff. Just a suggestion, it helped me move from transferring the money to someone else to pay for me to me doing these myself and losing that fear. Good luck❤
I’m on my period too and watched The Kardashians and started crying when Kris did. But when Kim had that side interview and started crying it kinda made me laugh
I just love how you hit my thinks 🤔 on topics 😊❤ I walk away from your topics , doing retrospection on who I am Ty Ty Ty for your way of talking on things in life and showing the threads that combine us all
I was going to make suggestions for Evil Week, but my ideas aren't evil enough to be worthy. Sooo, now this has turned into regular, non-Evil Week video suggestions. 1.) When to know you're about to go too far (and what to do when you already have gone too far) in regards to... well, any topic you feel it could apply to! Manipulating people, exacting revenge, etc. 2.) Where being feared spills over into being disliked or avoided, and how that can end up screwing you over. Professionally and personally. 3.) Moving past the embarrassing or shameful things you've done, AND how to know something shouldn't be forgotten, but continuously dwelled upon so you don't repeat your mistakes. I'd love a realistic answer that goes beyond, "Just forget about it! No one else remembers, anyway! Cheer up, we all make mistakes!" 4.) Living in the world without your lifeforce being sapped from your body any time you encounter exhausting people. In particular: willfully ignorant people, inconsiderate people (I don't mean unkind, but rather unable to use their brain to understand how their actions have consequences/why they're inconveniencing EVERYONE), or boring, unstimulating people. 5.) How to maintain your friendships once you've found a romantic partner who fulfills all your social needs. I always hated people who stopped contacting friends once they were in a relationship. I cringed at, "My partner/spouse is my best friend," but, now... I've become that person. Help meee
@@mave143 Believe me, I’m trying not to lose my friends 😫 Thankfully, my partner doesn’t isolate me; he encourages me to talk to or hang out with friends. He’ll remind me when I haven’t seen someone in a while, or suggest group activities at the house (us with my other coupled friends) when I’m not feeling up to going anywhere. My social energy is so low ever since the first Covid shutdown. I was SUCH an extrovert, and I’d get depressed if I didn’t see a variety of people often. Now, after all that time isolated, I have, like… zero drive to talk to people.
I love under the Tuscan Sun. "They say they built the train tracks over the alps between Vienna and Venice before there was a train that could make the trip. But they built it anyway. They knew one day the train would come.”
Shallon I think moving to Montana is one of the best things that happened to you. It made me sad to think that you don't see that. You are so beautiful. Be happy always ❤
I truly admire & appreciate you, & how you share your wisdom! You posses characteristics most women (&/or any person) aspire to have… brilliance, beauty, compassion, & a great sense of humor! With your platform, you can & do have the ability to help us all be BETTER people! THANK YOU! Sending you a big hug!🤗😘
I read she’s getting back together with him again and giving him another chance. Yes, as in right now in 2022. I used to feel bad for Khloe but I literally can’t, I CANT.
Khloe looked so numb during this episode~ it was super sad and the sad thing is that a child is in the middle. A good lesson to be careful who you have children with ~ wish the best for her though
I was just creeping your ig and I need to say, you look younger and hotter than ever! I hope you stay away from brown hair tho.. blonde definitely suits you much better!
Wow. Watched the whole vid. This was... Deep. But so, so good. Thank you Shallon. Thank you for pulling out the gunk below the surface and helping us see it within ourselves too.
Love u so much Shallon and I’ve been following your Evil Week from the Dawn of the shallon Lester channel’s beginning. Evil week suggestion: how to gain and maintain power in all aspects of life I.e. workplace, relationships. You’re the best ❤
I had a bad childhood, so I chose a bad father for my kid. When I moved out, he became even more toxic, so I needed therapy. So...without the bad I would not have my beautiful child and a mental health that is really good ❤️
@@miriamchalmovianska863 Thank you for your respond. We all make mistakes." Life is most easy read backwards, Soren Kirkeggard". I have had enough of suffering. To beat myself up even more does not help in the end. Its to learn, forgive and move forward.
honestly i do hate that idea that "everything happens for a reason" specially when people say it to make you feel better. it feels like such a "just shut up and stop being sad" thing to say. i think things happen for a reason only if WE FIND A REASON. Finding patterns and meaning in chaos is our survival strategy as humans. If we find a silver lining, a lesson any kind of comfort in rationalizing things then, thats fantastic. but we dont have to, sometimes bad things just happen and the best we can take from it is "i made it through that shit storm".
I love the way the colors in the video go with your eyes and hair, you're looking more beautiful and healthy lately! thank you for the content and greetings from Colombia :)
I could NOT get pregnant with my first husband. THANK GOODNESS. My body was wiser than my brain.
Respect. Sometimes the body knows 🙏
“She’s trying to fix Tristan instead of fixing herself; we’re trying to fix Khole instead of fixing ourselves.” A WORD!
No lies told‼️😂😅
Once khloe is all sorted out THEN MAYBE I’ll go to therapy for my own issues 🤣
He will never be fixed. She will never be fixed.
The Universe threw SO many red flags to Khloe regarding this man that at some point she deliberately chose to ignore them all. After it all blew up in her face, she can only think. "Damn I played my self and broke my own heart."
Still, I sympathized and cried with Khloe. Lord knows I have one too many circumstances when I ignored red flags and stuff just blew up in my face. You feel like you betrayed yourself. 💔
Thankfully she was blessed with a son and will know what real love feels like all over again.
What upsets me is that she can afford the best therapist but doesn't get the help
Pretty sure they wanted aboy .. the used rich money to get specific gender duhb u think it was an accident
@@azucenabustos1078 Me too! And she has the money to get the best help and personal escape from that Third Trimester Tristan.. I mean if Khloe doesn't take him back after this I think she can gain trust back from ppl if she doesn't but this is affecting her brand and children if she does.. IF she really does take him back for the 1000th time. Tristan is not the only male in the whole wide world. And to take back a man who KNEW he had anoter girl pregnant. He knew that info to come out and he got Khloe face the worse kind of pain publicly again.
You are SO right that being religious and praying is a BIG help. I had to suffer for 43 YEARS before I met Mr Right but I never lost faith and kept praying and believing and am since 4 years the happiest woman I know. A lot happier than all those women who got married to their college boyfriend cuz they were scared to end up alone 😂
And to anyone who thinks the right person is not out there : he IS. He will LOVE that you can't see without glasses, that you use too many weird emoji's in texts or that you make lots of RUclips videos about how disgusting men are! 😉😉🥰
You are a sweetheart.
And the “I want my kids to have the same father” take is such bullshit. Why would you want your children to have an untrustworthy, lying, adulterer as a dad? Your kids will see that behaviour and internalize that. It will reflect how they view the world and relationships. It’s so selfish, is she really thinking about the kids at all?
No she is only thinking about herself
And the i can fix him BS
She is SO Dumb
I feel so Bad for those kids
Wait a few month till he gets another of his sides pieces pregnant
😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
Because there is a stigma about having children with more than a man and also some people think that is better to a child have a brother than a half brother.
Yea it was total bullshit! She wanted to hold onto his trashy ass
@@dhsf5937half siblings don’t exist if you both have the same mom
@@asli9812not to you but to many men it’s a weird thing they have.
I’m on day 65 of menopause. I can still cry with you baby girl.
Menopause is a motherfucker, I do not envy you. Try seeing a naturopath and looking for some holistic ways to balance hormones I feel like Western medicine does more harm than good sometimes
Try cupping, the one with small cuts. You do bleed a little but you will feel so much better
Menopause is hard!! Hot flases and sleepless nights. Looking for some remedies. Glad I'm not alone here on Shallon's channel. ❤️
@@shallonlester That's true! I was recently diagnosed with Morbus Crohn or Crohn's disease in English, and all I've been getting is cortisone because apparently it's chronic and incurable and the doctors can't do a lot to help me... so I started seeing a doctor who specialises in Traditional Chinese Medicine and I've started acupuncture and different herbs and so far it has been helping a little 🙏🏻 but of course, insurance doesn't cover that in my country!! 🤦🏻♀️ Most doctors don't even talk about it!
@@shallonlester accupunture did for me what no amount of western medicine could do. I have endometriosis, have had a ton of operations and medicine thrown at me and finally I'm in the best shape of my life, mentally and physically, because of accupunture. I suffered for 25 years with no end in sight and now after sessions since May, I have so much less pain and I feel normal finally.
"i get why people do it ,i just don't understand why you would do it with Tristan Thompson"
I think it has to do with not wanting multiple fathers .
It makes me sad because Khloe (pre Tristan) was my favorite sister. SO supportive to her sisters , the funniest and the most interesting to look it . Khloe has a great personality ! Tristan has not helped her in anyway ,only thing he promises her is embarrassment .
I think it’s actually because of that comparison thing we have all been doing, and in her life, it’s probably dialled up to 💯. She is the favourite sister if she acts are certain way, she’s the ugly sister But can change that through a few ‘alterations’, She’s the unsuccessful sister unless she’s killing it with her and spinoff shows and businesses...So not only is she always in comparison with others, she’s also in a position where she’s proved to herself that her actions can change the outcome of how she is perceived...enter F*k boi trope lol...if she can change him, she probably believes it will change how she perceives herself, and being the first woman on the planet to actually get a f*boy to become devoted to her, well, there’s the comparison, that would be more impressive/stupid than being the first person to walk on Venus lol.
@@lunar686 I disagree strongly with this. Firstly, she is successful and has been but you know she had to find her niche; she wasn't going to put out a sex tape as that had already been done. She has also been beautiful even pre alterations but clearly different in body type. She's tall and had a weight problem, and therein lies the rub. No matter how thin and altered she becomes she carries her sense if difference from her sisters with her. The other issue is that she only has one type of man that she wants. I am always cautioned by men and women who only go after certain physical types i.e., I only date black men, I only date blondes, tall people, athletes, etcetera. That's more concerning than anything imo. We all know what we like but it's concerning that there's no wiggle room for anything that veers away from just one type. And of course she just has to pursue successful athletes which come on that's another red flag as well. She's been willfully blind and a slave to her ideals.
She clearly wanted a full sibling for her daughter which I get, BUT..... should she have? Shallon was 100% correct in how she broke that down too. Just because you can doesn't mean she should right? What I wish for all these Kardashian girls is that they find what's authentic within themselves and find love. Not be so invested on the look and image of that!
Why are they determined to keep the same father for all their children? Even if he’s a shithead? Is it because big sister Kourtney was so adamant with this rule she screwed it into their heads?
@@taco911 perhaps it's a narcissistic way of managing a facade?
@@AliciaM5555 i t was Kim apparently.
Shallon, I was listening to you this morning with my AirPods in when my 7 year old daughter comes in the room, and after seeing you talking for a minute she says, “She is pretty and she looks SASSY!” I thought it was too funny and so sweet. ❤️
Kids know, I love them
My attitude is if it didn’t work out, then they weren’t the love of your life. Of it was meant to be, it would have been. If he REALLY was the great love of your life, it would have worked out. The good news is you haven’t lost your one true love, they’re still out there.
This is exactly my thought - the bad news is that the story is still being written but that’s also the good news! There’s new things to discover new dreams to fulfill, it’s all good!
Love your videos Shallon; they really help! I’m also going through heartbreak at the mo - hold tight, we’ll both get there!
Yes. I would say there's one exception but no others though. Khloe really disrespecting her loved ones by dragging out this Tristan loser crap is hard.
But yes if they LIVED together and had a child. Like girl what more is there???? It was not there.
Chloe is the perfect example of someone who loves swimming in their own suffering. Get some help and break the pattern!
Yes. She’s chosen this multiple times
If she get help...and what she going to do after that ,,nothing ...that's her whole personality,,
@@catcoffee7958 hahaha oh my Goodness
@@Wakeupdelilah many people try to make it work with people who wronged them rather it be a family relationship, love interest, husband, friend or even work colleague.
Agreed. Like it makes her feel alive
I love when you're really honest. Like the parts were you say you're actually feeling furious and not curious. It humanizes you. It's so relatable. None of us are perfect so it's nice to see our beloved influencers be relatable.
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I can't believe you guys are really over here feeling sorry for Khloe...like really? This woman just keeps taking L's one after the other. At some point when do we hold Khloe responsible for making shitty choices? We know Tristan is trash ok, and he's never going to change, she knows that too. I've come to the conclusion that this women is addicted to pain and of course likes the attention she get's from the whoa is me bs. So not here for it..
And it's not even just Tristan! She stormed into Lamar's room while he was cheating and started beating up one of the hookers! What a clown! She'll never NOT get cheated on because she's set this absurd precedent that she'll never leave a cheater and give them ten million chances and keeps acting surprised when it happens again and again.
@@uhhhhh4748 lol and you're taking it personally
@@mave143 We are all taking it personally and having opinions over it because many women live though this, you should know too
@@mysticc6232 She's not a UN spokesperson for women who got cheated on.
@@mave143 No one said she was, however its ok if other women feel related to it and want to share.
Shallon is on fire today!
Evil week topic: Passive Revenge
Hear me out, I've found there were times in life when I was struggling and people judged me relentlessly. I made difficult choices and slowly transitioned to a really good place financially, spiritually, emotionally, etc. Now when I run into the people who wronged me, I feel a twinge of righteous delight because despite all the sh*t the talked, I'm happy and stable while they're miserable and struggling. I didn't actively seek vengeance, but channeled my energy inward and learned how to lead a good life by bettering myself and setting goals, which in itself feels like a kind of covert payback.
There are a lot of women that just cannot accept they are NOT the exception, they are the RULE. I am so sick of that family.
That's a bit harsh 🙄
@@mave143 no really, it's true.
"he's just not that into you"......
True
I learned so much from this video....I realize you can't change people....its their job to fix themselves....all I can do is continue to work on myself.
I actually just thought about it... didn't Khloe say she wanted another baby specifically with Tristan so True had a sibling? Isn't that kind of an interesting take considering half her family are half siblings and she really should know better than anyone that a different dad shouldn't have mattered?
Brilliantly said 🎉
I find this really interesting as well! If you think about it deeply, it make a lot of sense. Kris had several partners (even cheating accusations) and the sisters probably internalized that. I honestly know a lot of people with “half” siblings who are adamant about having kids with only one partner to sort of correct their past in a way
Yes, it's very strange. Even with Kourtney, before Travis, she wanted to use Scott's for a fourth child.
It may be more timing for her, given her age
In the Kardashian’s head it obviously matters that all their kids have the same baby daddies (even tho they’re all TRASH) because the media has painted them as whores, skanks, etc, having one baby daddy is a way to fight back at this. Society does not take likely to women with multiple baby daddies (and in many cases, rightfully so). Also I think Khloe sees True as an only child because she’ll never grow up in the same household as her half-siblings, so Khloe having another kid means she gets to raise them together in the same unit and they’ll obviously share a closer bond than with her dads children.
Aww you made me cry I got married in the fall as well 11 years ago sadly my marriage ended in divorce we are with you Shallon ❤
11 years in October for me too! And happily divorced now though. Crazy memories from that day though
@@Lauren_22613 Yeah divorce is so hard to maneuver … so I am glad you are currently happy
@@liliad.7448 I hope you are too ❤️❤️ I mean, it’s lonely, sure…but I’d rather be lonely than with a cheater.
That part, when she said she went into labor early. That would’ve drawn the line for me over anything else. You putting my child at risk and that should’ve been the end of him.
Fully agree. That absolutely blew my mind. Unforgivable.
When my ex told me to do abortion he immediately became a stranger for me. I felt nothing to him. And it was sooo good! I thought I will be feeling depressed but I just focused on my precious baby.
@@Eevanova it’s not “soooo good” to hate the man who got you pregnant.
@@Eevanova same!!!!
He done the same think to his baby mother with Khole
Prayers and strength to Khloe as she navigates this new chapter, especially now, amidst millions of critics ... 💖
Shes insane
Evil week suggestion - revenge against people who tried to destroy your reputation
this helped me a lot there's something i really regret, moving to a different country bc my family is here, and i had the thought "what would shallon say?" and i just pictured you saying, go ahead and move back to where you wanna live, be happy, and do it for yourself not for others. for so long i have just not even acknowledged my own wants, i have shamed myself for my feelings and for not just being fine and happy where i am, instead of just saying 'it's okay if i want something else, i just need to do it and live for myself, i need to make a life that makes myself happy instead of living for others'
I felt this. Currently in the middle of considering a move to a country very far from home because everyone else is telling me it might be good. But my heart is just not 100% in it.
I love that Shallon is just cranking out the videos! ❤️
I find it fascinating how you can speak intelligently, eloquently, off the cuff and make the most sense that strikes a chord with me every time. You must be a witch!!!
you just blew my mind with that serial obsessor thing. i'm the same way. i listened to a song a 1000 times during a break up and YES when we indulge in these behaviors we end up reinforcing this unhealthy neural pathway that lead to more damaging things.
I'm the same way and I don't like it.
SHALLON YOU LOOK STUNNING!!! Your hair, the pink, the gold necklace. Just chefs kiss
I hope this baby gives her the most amount of love and happiness
You are such a cool chick. I do disagree with things that you say, but I feel like you’re the kind of person that people can just have a conversation with. Like I could talk to you and have a very meaningful conversation 🫂 I truly appreciate everything you do 🫶🏻💛
Also, you look amazing ✨ and I love that necklace combo.
By the time I understand my part, the sting of bitterness subsides and the need for revenge goes away.
Hi Shallon! I’d love to see a video on how to be the alpha in the room wherever you go. How to assert social power. This isn’t evil, and maybe won’t work for evil week, but we could definitely put an evil twist on it! Love you!
I can't even imagine the level of humiliation she must have. You would have thought after Lamar it couldn't get any worse, but I think with Tristan it's a million times worse. At least Lamar truly loved her. I don't think Tristan is capable of love!!!
Almost dying while snorting coke with prostitutes while your wife is at home is a love I want nothing to do with.
Nahhhh... trust is a lover boy... he loves love as much as khloe f kn does die for love
Deep awareness and reframing is the key to reflecting through all of life’s lessons and regret.
PLEASE DO the ivf "we can but should we" topic. I'm dying to hear your insight.
When I watch your videos it’s like a journey/adventure, one minute I’m vibing, the next I’m laughing, then I’m crying. So much talent it’s incredible.
Evil week suggestion: How to scheme and plot. Whether it's for revenge, or for furthering our own agenda even regardless of anyone else, it all comes down to the planning, which can be (in my experience) be perceived as evil.
Listen. Regrets are only worth emphasizing over if they were mistakes made in earnestness. Khloe had countless times to not have this particular regret. Big difference between naivety and stupidity. Hard for me to care about her suffering. All I can take away from her is: "Could never be me."
Unfortunately, you're correct.
You made me tear up when you said you are one of these people, thanks babe 💛
I recently rewatched all the most recent seasons of keeping up and the whole family ENCOURAGED Khloe to take Tristan back time and time again. If her head was buried in the sand, her family was holding the shovel.
Her whole family and friends. I've never seen anything like that in real life. I've seen friends tell it like it is or just be silent but never encouraging something that was toxic.
Shallon, I had the same issue as you and your mail. I had an IRS issue I had to fix, and I just wouldn’t, COULDN’T take the first step. I was frozen and did not know why. Finally, I admitted this to the agent, and then I blurted out that I felt overwhelmed. She was so sweet. She said, “I will help you.” She took over the task and told me what she needed from me. Maybe your mail feels like too much on your plate, but you don’t want to admit it. You have shoved it to the lowest priority, but it needs a higher priority than you are willing to give it. Maybe you need an assistant to say, “I will help you.” Then they can tell you what they need from you to complete all those tasks in the mail.
W. T. F.
@@heathermason9311 Did you miss the part where Shallon talked about having a block about opening her mail?
Shallon what lip product are you wearing! The color looks amazing on you
I got more from this video than I did from years of therapy. Thank youuuuu ❤️👏🏻
Haha love you!
I’m going through the same thing as you Shallon. Will take your advice and just give in to loving him forever…
It is like my biggest dream coming true!!!!! Shallon is uploading daily videos😍😍😍😍😍😍 Oh MY ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Why did she pose on hospital bed holding the baby 😂? It looks like she kicked out the woman that just gave birth to pose on her hospital bed.
EVIL WEEK :
tricks to NOT fall in love when your in the courtship stage, and keep "behind" him emotionally. When your falling hard. How to control your emotions.
Love this video. She’s like a personal therapist disguised as a RUclipsr who makes videos about celebrities… I don’t care about any of those people but the messages and psychology behind every video, is like a gold mine I was lucky to stumble upon by accident. ❤️
"Let her feel that, LET HER FEEL THAT"
Go off, Shallon!!
The sound on Monday night football in the background brings up memories of a break up in September in 1991!!!!I was so sad that fall! Those feelings come back each year when the weather starts changing and when I hear football on TV!
I feel especially bad for the kids in the future. Their father's infidelity and Khloe's emotions are all documented on camera and aired on national TV for millions to see.
Shallon do a makeup and hair tutorial I love this look
She looks beautiful
Honestly, you have a great commedian timing, tone...etc.
I love it, quality information, great advice + your funny input, amazing🤣🤣🤣
Holding resentments is like EATING POISON AND WAITING FOR THE RAT TO DIE! It sucks bc it's counter intuitive to forgive (you don't have to forget nor should u) but it really is best for u. Ppl that have hurt u are not up at night thinking about u. Don't give them the power in ur life today
They have such a weird psychology. They use men for their sperm bc they don’t want multiple baby daddies. Kylie and Kourtney did the same thing with Travis and Scott. You can tell Kylie and Travis don’t spend a lot of time together outside a IG pic
Makes sense. It's less messy. Multiple dad's would mean trying to coordinate with multiple families, multiple s.o. in and out of each guys life and hanging around your kids, possibly dealing with multiple sets of rules and beliefs when you are trying to raise your kids under certain rules, the possibility of rifts caused between siblings... If they all have just one dad then you are only doing that stuff with one person.
@@AJ.9.25 it’s still so strange. Kylie and khole have such low self esteem that they think they can’t do better. Travis cheats too but he is just more low key about it and why Kylie is more private now about her life. At least Ciara got a better man, no one in the kardashian family is capable of having a heathly relationship. And it’s like not Tristan, Scott or Travis are active fathers.
@@AJ.9.25 if you want multiple kids with one guy, get married like Kim. Or like their mom Kris who got married twice and Khloe got to experience a great relationship with a step dad. So it’s weird that they particularly is choosing this path. Less weird when you consider how they become famous.
@@AJ.9.25 but they have assistants and nannies, not much trouble for the managing of this differences really
@@Daijxo very true.
Never heard of anyone else having an issue with mail like I do exactly. I’d have the money to pay my bills too and my roommate would be like “Do you want me to just throw your mail away?” Because it just piled up. I would never even get it myself. Fear of seeing bad news? Not wanting to address being an adult in charge of myself? I really don’t know either it’s like a strange defiance
I do the exact same thing, Mail gives me so much anxiety. I think it is fear of bad news for me.
Try setting up recurrent billing or just logging online to pay it. For me it was bad memories of physical paper itself, so I didn't have the same connection for the online stuff. Just a suggestion, it helped me move from transferring the money to someone else to pay for me to me doing these myself and losing that fear. Good luck❤
I'm 19 and I even have lots of regrets. and I'm sure I'll keep having them. it is life. thank you for fixing my perspective on regrets.❤️
Shallon ,Thank you for your hard work ,love watching you !
I’m on my period too and watched The Kardashians and started crying when Kris did. But when Kim had that side interview and started crying it kinda made me laugh
Kims cry face is hilarious. It makes serious situations funny when they shouldn't be lol
it's because she sounds so phony even when she cries
You look great in this video! Ur hair , makeup , jewelry all looks pretty put together.
I just love how you hit my thinks 🤔 on topics 😊❤
I walk away from your topics , doing retrospection on who I am Ty Ty Ty for your way of talking on things in life and showing the threads that combine us all
I was going to make suggestions for Evil Week, but my ideas aren't evil enough to be worthy. Sooo, now this has turned into regular, non-Evil Week video suggestions.
1.) When to know you're about to go too far (and what to do when you already have gone too far) in regards to... well, any topic you feel it could apply to! Manipulating people, exacting revenge, etc.
2.) Where being feared spills over into being disliked or avoided, and how that can end up screwing you over. Professionally and personally.
3.) Moving past the embarrassing or shameful things you've done, AND how to know something shouldn't be forgotten, but continuously dwelled upon so you don't repeat your mistakes. I'd love a realistic answer that goes beyond, "Just forget about it! No one else remembers, anyway! Cheer up, we all make mistakes!"
4.) Living in the world without your lifeforce being sapped from your body any time you encounter exhausting people. In particular: willfully ignorant people, inconsiderate people (I don't mean unkind, but rather unable to use their brain to understand how their actions have consequences/why they're inconveniencing EVERYONE), or boring, unstimulating people.
5.) How to maintain your friendships once you've found a romantic partner who fulfills all your social needs. I always hated people who stopped contacting friends once they were in a relationship. I cringed at, "My partner/spouse is my best friend," but, now... I've become that person. Help meee
Girl do not lose your friends for a man. It's a mistake I made that I regret to this day.
@@mave143 Believe me, I’m trying not to lose my friends 😫
Thankfully, my partner doesn’t isolate me; he encourages me to talk to or hang out with friends. He’ll remind me when I haven’t seen someone in a while, or suggest group activities at the house (us with my other coupled friends) when I’m not feeling up to going anywhere.
My social energy is so low ever since the first Covid shutdown. I was SUCH an extrovert, and I’d get depressed if I didn’t see a variety of people often. Now, after all that time isolated, I have, like… zero drive to talk to people.
Thankyou I got the feeling that she did not care for this baby. The smiles were just for this camera.
Shallon is simply the best. Tysm for being open with us!
SHALLON is the BEST! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
The honesty in this video is 10 🌟
We love to see the number of subscribers again… 👑
I love under the Tuscan Sun. "They say they built the train tracks over the alps between Vienna and Venice before there was a train that could make the trip. But they built it anyway. They knew one day the train would come.”
Girl you are on fire with the upload schedule!!
Shallon I think moving to Montana is one of the best things that happened to you. It made me sad to think that you don't see that. You are so beautiful. Be happy always ❤
I truly admire & appreciate you, & how you share your wisdom! You posses characteristics most women (&/or any person) aspire to have… brilliance, beauty, compassion, & a great sense of humor! With your platform, you can & do have the ability to help us all be BETTER people! THANK YOU! Sending you a big hug!🤗😘
Khloe is pretending to deal with regrets yet she’s still letting this guy disrespect her. Jeepers! 🤦🏻♀️😱👻
I read she’s getting back together with him again and giving him another chance. Yes, as in right now in 2022. I used to feel bad for Khloe but I literally can’t, I CANT.
It would not surprise me one bit. She wants what she wants even if she has to cut herself to pieces to get it.
I CANT EITHER ITS TOO MUCH FOR ME
I haven't fully understood this video last month. Oh boi, I do now.
Every word touches me deeply.
For EVIL WEEK. What about “how to be a user/ social climber?? , how to kill or ignore rumors??”
Wow 😮just got on, love it! Can’t ever miss it..👍🏻
(*by the way, your great!)
The Grandma 👵 from Ohio 👌🏻
Love you Miss Millie!
100% agree with “gods plan” whatever deity you want to use. Your body will tell you before your mind and it was clearly rejecting him!
I loved this Talk I think we all can relate. Thanks for showing how the healing proces is in reality..
Evil week: how to manipulate clients/customers to buy your product and give you their money.
Khloe looked so numb during this episode~ it was super sad and the sad thing is that a child is in the middle. A good lesson to be careful who you have children with ~ wish the best for her though
She’s addicted to the pain and sympathy from her fans in the aftermath. That’s why she continues with Tristan. Tell me I’m wrong.
A perpetual victim of her own choices on camera.
They are not together.
Victim mentality. Really sad and pathetic.
Toxic relationship are addictive & addictions are difficult to break. She is not done with Tristan.
You're wrong because you don't know Khloe or her reasoning and psychology. You actually sound ridiculous speculating 🤣 🤣
I am also on day 2 of my period. I am also now crying with you.
You literally crack me up sometimes. The overalls rant made me 😂
I was just creeping your ig and I need to say, you look younger and hotter than ever! I hope you stay away from brown hair tho.. blonde definitely suits you much better!
For evil week, please do how to dismantle guilt! I heard you mention it in passing in an older video.
I learnt early on that money is not everything in life but it helps ❤
Taking Cowboy to daycare 🥰😇😂 such a great mama.
Thank you for being vulnerable.
Love you, Shallon! ♥️♥️♥️
Wow. Watched the whole vid. This was... Deep. But so, so good. Thank you Shallon. Thank you for pulling out the gunk below the surface and helping us see it within ourselves too.
Love u so much Shallon and I’ve been following your Evil Week from the Dawn of the shallon Lester channel’s beginning.
Evil week suggestion: how to gain and maintain power in all aspects of life I.e. workplace, relationships.
You’re the best ❤
Love this video. Relevant to my life right now. So many gems. Thanks for making it.
Spot on to when I found you . So true . Love ya babe ✔️
I had a bad childhood, so I chose a bad father for my kid. When I moved out, he became even more toxic, so I needed therapy. So...without the bad I would not have my beautiful child and a mental health that is really good ❤️
You would, with a better man. Without the suffering. Dont give pass to bad situations or your bad decisions.
@@miriamchalmovianska863 Thank you for your respond. We all make mistakes." Life is most easy read backwards, Soren Kirkeggard". I have had enough of suffering. To beat myself up even more does not help in the end. Its to learn, forgive and move forward.
P.S. Love that re "those Home Goods wooden sign responses ..." soooo F'g true Shallow - 😮💨
honestly i do hate that idea that "everything happens for a reason" specially when people say it to make you feel better. it feels like such a "just shut up and stop being sad" thing to say.
i think things happen for a reason only if WE FIND A REASON. Finding patterns and meaning in chaos is our survival strategy as humans. If we find a silver lining, a lesson any kind of comfort in rationalizing things then, thats fantastic. but we dont have to, sometimes bad things just happen and the best we can take from it is "i made it through that shit storm".
Preach it sis. Always a good side on everything. Even if it’s sutil
“You know” that he’s shady but you have hope that he may change…that’s what fucks us up…we want to have faith
I love the way the colors in the video go with your eyes and hair, you're looking more beautiful and healthy lately! thank you for the content and greetings from Colombia :)
My heart beats so fast while I’m watching this video, it just hits so close to home 😢
best Kardashian video yet! so insightful
Shallon!! We love and support you!