CHRISTINA HAACK EL MOUSSA ENGAGED: How To Stop Rushing Into Relationships | Shallon Lester

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  • Опубликовано: 7 ноя 2024

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  • @jennevans85
    @jennevans85 3 года назад +211

    It literally blows my mind how many people monkey branch from one relationship to another. I have never understood that, and I won't ever. People who treat others like appliances and say each new partner is the love of their life. Nah. Major Red Flag.

    • @Lauren_22613
      @Lauren_22613 3 года назад +17

      My narcissistic ex-husband did that to me…was replacing me with the girl who just broke up with him so he didn’t have to think about his faults or role in the breakup. Back then I was flattered, now I know better!!!

  • @quinn3660
    @quinn3660 3 года назад +161

    I swear she gets in a new relationship every 5-6 business days

    • @kayp.3832
      @kayp.3832 3 года назад +7

      😂😂😂😂

    • @colby9743
      @colby9743 3 года назад +9

      Hahahaha! Love this quote.
      Copyright and claim it before it gets yoinked.

    • @leahswenson7776
      @leahswenson7776 3 года назад

      🤣🤣😂😂😅

    • @harlowsmama3417
      @harlowsmama3417 3 года назад

      🤣🤣🤣

  • @tmarie69
    @tmarie69 3 года назад +52

    Not to be rude, but isn’t she like….. embarrassed? I would be so embarrassed to divorce someone and be engaged to a new person later in the year. It’s giving low self esteem.

    • @shallonlester
      @shallonlester  3 года назад +37

      I know. I think so many girls do this, they rush out into a new relationship, and they think they look like they’re winning, but really everyone can just see right through it. Manically happy, hard partying, loved up things on social media… It’s all just very transparent

  • @FreeYourSplendor
    @FreeYourSplendor 3 года назад +24

    Rushing into relationship after relationship after relationship, ...that's a vice, just like any other addiction. They cannot be alone or happy and content with just being with themselves, thinking that a relationship is always going to cure that internal loneliness. It's a destructive cycle unless they take some serious time for genuine self-reflection to make lasting, mature changes.

  • @enakerkez2809
    @enakerkez2809 3 года назад +5

    This girl brings dignity back into being single. Behind a video about some c list reality celebrities is a message about being individualistic, brave and authentic. Incredible.

  • @yvonne1899
    @yvonne1899 2 года назад +2

    The core message of this video was truly remarkable. This video blew my mind. Thank you for sharing such an impactful message with the world. I think this video deserves 500M views.

  • @colby9743
    @colby9743 3 года назад +84

    Moving into a relationship after another relationship screams having low self-esteem.

  • @frosting6439
    @frosting6439 3 года назад +36

    Ant Anstead is now with Rene Zellweger I wonder how that happened

  • @heathernewbold406
    @heathernewbold406 3 года назад +24

    I'm 33 years old, and I know two ladies who are on their third marriage, and they're both a year younger than I! I think that their third marriages will work, but they both definitely rushed into prior marriages. I got married AFTER both of them married the third man, but I'm grateful that I really got to know my husband.

    • @1984watchr
      @1984watchr 3 года назад +1

      Well... I tell my friends don't let others' opinions of the number of marriages you have had hold you back from getting married.. again... and again.. and again... it's your life. ;)

  • @GM-fl3lr
    @GM-fl3lr 3 года назад +64

    You are very right about the woman’s hand around the neck. I have noticed that too. Also, monkey branching speaks on low self esteem and always wanting to be in a relationship means you are looking to define yourself through another because you have no self knowledge nor you want to have. It speaks of low IQ.

    • @mave143
      @mave143 3 года назад +10

      It doesn't speak of low IQ. It speaks of low self-esteem, low self-worth, and plain loneliness.

  • @shannon_cf
    @shannon_cf 3 года назад +53

    I started cackling so hard when you were talking about his flatbrim hat face tan 😂😂😂I needed that laugh today, you never fail to make my day Shallon!

    • @carmensandiego4270
      @carmensandiego4270 3 года назад +10

      She’s hilarious lol, I laugh out loud at least once every video 😂

    • @shallonlester
      @shallonlester  3 года назад +35

      I feel like this dude works at Sunglasses Hut and won’t tell her

  • @steph_nation
    @steph_nation 3 года назад +21

    Amazing women with a lot to offer need to stop being all bamboozled when a man loves them, like fucking yeah you do I'm amazing! Don't mean I have to love you though... you deserve better! Actually only accept what you want, please!!

  • @bred.9410
    @bred.9410 3 года назад +5

    That woman is DESPERATE. She and J. Lo need serious help. Why are they constantly getting into relationships and involving their children in their mess? It’s sad.

  • @williamehlers5158
    @williamehlers5158 3 года назад +22

    Her and her ex act like every relationship is their first relationship ever. They literally act like middle school kids all over Instagram.

  • @karagillis5739
    @karagillis5739 3 года назад +3

    OK, Shallon, this makeup is on point. And the lighting - nailed it.

  • @MandyBrookeOfficial
    @MandyBrookeOfficial 3 года назад +3

    Holy crap, Shallon! You look AMAZING in this video! You’re glowing!

  • @dianacooper-havlik9085
    @dianacooper-havlik9085 3 года назад +3

    When you’re right, you’re right. And you’re right pretty much all of the time!⭐️

  • @roseredmayne
    @roseredmayne 3 года назад +11

    I got this notification when I finished your most recent! You look beautiful by the way!! Glowing. You must be doing well inside because you are radiant outside.

    • @shallonlester
      @shallonlester  3 года назад +8

      Thank you!!! Fenty Foundation gets most of the credit :)

  • @shannonsmith1850
    @shannonsmith1850 3 года назад +3

    I was absorbing every word!! Well said. Thank you 💖

  • @A78cts23
    @A78cts23 3 года назад +3

    "Because they live in myth" genius, why we love you Shallon! ❤

  • @Lovepinkdress
    @Lovepinkdress 3 года назад +24

    I understand that this is fast and not going to last BUT how does she do it?!!!!?? How she gets a guy to propose so quick?!!! Same with Tracy Anderson, she has had multiple proposals and marriages. Kids with different men and yet. How do they do it???!!

    • @vickimanager
      @vickimanager 3 года назад +11

      Money, honey.

    • @uhhhhh4748
      @uhhhhh4748 3 года назад +14

      These dudes are clout chasers

  • @professionallyunqualified2653
    @professionallyunqualified2653 3 года назад +1

    Shallon's analyses are the best - life advice and celeb roasts all in one!

  • @etherealdeal1792
    @etherealdeal1792 2 года назад

    These videos are like a wise friend. These videos r so helpful and entertaining. Thank u 🙏🏼💜🤍

  • @virgo_sweetheart7688
    @virgo_sweetheart7688 3 года назад +39

    I read a blind item around the time Christina decided to divorce ant that he was a chronic cheater he cheated on his first wife in England and I believe (I think) that’s why they divorced Christina remained quiet about the cause of their divorce but it wouldn’t surprised me if ant cheated again he probably used her too since she was so famous idk. Just going off things I read true/not true idk. Heather is super over the top with tarek all day every day lol the selling sunset Reddit thinks heather needs to run since he seems to have narcissistic tendencies and sometimes makes rude comments to her that people hear when they post stories.

    • @TomHuckACAB
      @TomHuckACAB 3 года назад +1

      Is that why she picked him?

    • @virgo_sweetheart7688
      @virgo_sweetheart7688 3 года назад +4

      Just read josh hall left his ex wife 2 months before getting with Christina or possibly because of Christina..crazy

    • @SpicyUnicorn
      @SpicyUnicorn 3 года назад +6

      I saw some weird body language in a IG story of Heather/Tarek by a guest at their engagement party. He was quite rude in staging a photo/video. I think Tarek has NPD for sure and the whole gun in the woods incident is a huge red flag.

    • @sensibilities1
      @sensibilities1 3 года назад +2

      Damn!! I had no idea Ant has a history of cheating. But yeah Heather & Tareks relationship seems super unhealthy. They try so hard to create a picture perfect relationship on Instagram

  • @tamaraamanda2483
    @tamaraamanda2483 3 года назад +1

    You're incredible, Shallon! I wish more people watched your videos!

  • @morganmontgomery3461
    @morganmontgomery3461 3 года назад +15

    His sister who’s a playboy bunny is friends with Heather Young who’s engaged with Tarek… Weird.

  • @jamiebrackett8350
    @jamiebrackett8350 11 месяцев назад

    Great video, Shallon!

  • @MA-wg7co
    @MA-wg7co 3 года назад +14

    She needs to save some marriages for the rest of us

  • @AnitaAnneLloyd
    @AnitaAnneLloyd 3 года назад +1

    Shallon I love you! You are ALWAYS spot on.

  • @PrecariousCreations
    @PrecariousCreations 3 года назад +2

    Shallon you are glowing today! You look so beautiful ❤️

  • @saranoelle3927
    @saranoelle3927 3 года назад +3

    So glad you covered this!!! Yes 🙌🏻

  • @celestecorona611
    @celestecorona611 3 года назад +1

    We love you!!!

  • @dawnturner7055
    @dawnturner7055 3 года назад +5

    Your hair is gorgeous

  • @maeahem
    @maeahem 3 года назад +3

    The British Ant guy with the car show has roped in Renee Zellweger and I just don’t understand how or why. She seems to be another one that ends up in weird user-type relationships.

  • @ziarenkokawy3166
    @ziarenkokawy3166 3 года назад

    The clean house analogy... this might change my life

  • @CaraJayneASMR
    @CaraJayneASMR 3 года назад +1

    Sidenote… Shallon you are looking amazing, those cheekbones!💜

  • @hollygustin
    @hollygustin 3 года назад +3

    Her excuse is that “she took time off to do self love and ate some smoked thing” that apparently evaporates any anxiety…. Lol. Couldn’t of been long since she grabbed this guy before her divorce finalized.

  • @daisylopez6419
    @daisylopez6419 3 года назад

    Shallons makeup is on point

  • @A78cts23
    @A78cts23 3 года назад

    My favorite RUclipsr, yay new video!

  • @nikkio.9990
    @nikkio.9990 3 года назад +4

    I agree about the red flag of the woman's arm around the man especially around his neck area. Although I disagree that it's emasculating, I definitely think it's a sign of trying to convince herself
    she is secure in the relationship. It means there isn't a hundred percent trust. I know a couple from my high school like this on SM. The wife is always paranoid he's looking at other women and every single photo she has her arm wrapped around his neck.
    Probably for good reason. I dated him off and on in high school and college and he had a wandering eye. Plus he has sent me private messages letting me know I'm the one that got away. So let the neck of grabbing begin for the wife.
    *updating to add, I do feel bad for her. And I never indulged his DMs.

    • @anjalir4967
      @anjalir4967 3 года назад +1

      I subconsciously did this in photos with my now ex boyfriend. Looking back, I never completely trusted him. Probably not even upto 50-60%. I always wanted to, but he somehow felt out of reach or aloof; like he was always elsewhere with many other things running through his head. He also never initiated taking pictures together. Was always my idea.

  • @PureSparkles22
    @PureSparkles22 3 года назад +19

    Angelina Jolie was 39 when she got married for the third time... and we know how that turns out

    • @roseredmayne
      @roseredmayne 3 года назад +6

      I forgot about Billy Bob Thorton...those were her lowest days

    • @PureSparkles22
      @PureSparkles22 3 года назад +6

      @@roseredmayne I think she was using that marriage to make people forget about her kiss with her brother at the Oscars

    • @nope_no_nunya.
      @nope_no_nunya. 3 года назад +4

      @@PureSparkles22 Yes and using Maddox to make people forget about Billy Bob Thornton lol

    • @PureSparkles22
      @PureSparkles22 3 года назад +2

      @@nope_no_nunya. I think getting with Brad made everyone forget about billy bob thornton

    • @PureSparkles22
      @PureSparkles22 3 года назад +3

      @@anandakandra all her marriages lasted 2 years. She's the common denominator

  • @sensibilities1
    @sensibilities1 3 года назад +1

    I loved flip or flop, I watched it regularly.
    Then because Christina & Tarek aren’t full blown celebrities it made their juicy drama even more interesting. Since they’re somewhat “normal”, the drama felt like drama between ppl you know irl.
    I find this more entertaining than most other celebrity drama. Cus with this it’s real, you never know with celebrities.
    First off, Christina & Tarek got divorced because Tarek had a mental break. He was running around the streets naked with a gun. Yeah.
    Then I’m not sure how Christina met her 2nd husband but they had a baby together.
    Heather Ray Young who Tarek is now married to, used to be a playboy bunny.
    Christina recently got divorced from her 2nd husband, not sure why exactly. Now she met this guy after saying she was taking a break from dating. But met him and it felt like a soul connection.
    It’s also interesting cus Christina has turned her Instagram very raw & real. While Tarek & Heather are creating this fairytale facade on Instagram

  • @getlauriekor
    @getlauriekor 3 года назад

    Christina needs to watch this episode

  • @andreagascoigne6735
    @andreagascoigne6735 3 года назад

    Brilliant advice, thank you Shallon. 💖💖💖

  • @missnyssah8048
    @missnyssah8048 3 года назад +8

    Yes.its weird when women who put their arms over a man .. Weird..jlo always dies that too.

  • @rebeccacollins45
    @rebeccacollins45 3 года назад

    Shallon literally makes me laugh so hard every video! 🤣🤣

  • @stacieivey7104
    @stacieivey7104 3 года назад

    I completely 100% agree

  • @rachmaninovwasemo2313
    @rachmaninovwasemo2313 3 года назад +1

    I think it can be good to be married twice. Obviously not like this woman did it. But a lot of people get married young and for the wrong reasons. And you can learn from those wrong reasons and do it again the right way once you are ready.

  • @zan752000
    @zan752000 3 года назад

    This is some really good advice.

  • @debbieg8260
    @debbieg8260 3 года назад +1

    you are flawless today - well, you always are, but today, extra !

  • @erinl2278
    @erinl2278 3 года назад

    You look lovely! This was a great video!! 👍

  • @catherinekayne1071
    @catherinekayne1071 3 года назад

    Her ring is also the same shape as Heathers and from the same jeweler.

  • @allyw1364
    @allyw1364 3 года назад +1

    She had a Midlife Crisis and she ran off to feel young again got married and even had another Baby!, basically she shouldnt have left Tarek she messed up
    Take sometime to find who you are and be single for awhile🙄
    The grass is never greener you should water the grass at home and try to sort it out for the children and get into Therapy asap 😇

  • @chembiz
    @chembiz 3 года назад +3

    Christina needs some therapy to unpack her relationship issues/patterns. What sucks is that the kids are going to see and experience instability because all the adults involved couldn't get their shit together (or at least try).

    • @sensibilities1
      @sensibilities1 3 года назад

      She talks about how she’s been in therapy & going though this spiritual awakening journey on her Instagram

  • @mdoctor2985
    @mdoctor2985 3 года назад

    She couldn't stand seeing Tarek happy and her being alone seeing how the tables totally "flipped" on her when she was showing off her new marriage with Ant and showing how "happy" she was now look heather rae be rubbing that shit in big time.

  • @shantyaguilar4869
    @shantyaguilar4869 3 года назад

    Great video 😊

  • @sarab8618
    @sarab8618 3 года назад +2

    Christina and Terek need to stop being so public about their relationships as it looks like they are trying to bandaid their image or compete with each other. While I think Heather is probably lovely, the over-the-top social PDA and never-ending wedding posts are just too much.

  • @fifi2421
    @fifi2421 3 года назад

    Loved the cockney accent 😄

  • @andreagascoigne6735
    @andreagascoigne6735 3 года назад +2

    To be honest, the "Like" button is not enough - for the likes of you, there should be a Fucking Fantastic button. Xx

  • @7thsense724
    @7thsense724 2 года назад

    Well said interesting yep man his arm over yep ty

  • @presidentamanda7468
    @presidentamanda7468 3 года назад +1

    I didn’t even know she was divorcing Ant!

  • @katiej8295
    @katiej8295 4 месяца назад

    Watching this in 2024 so I decided to Google her. She's 40 now & just married ANOTHER guy after a year of dating. Honey, no.

  • @getlauriekor
    @getlauriekor 3 года назад

    She moved in with Tarek on her first date.

  • @judyholiday1794
    @judyholiday1794 3 года назад

    Sometimes I question if she has gotten over Tarek..

  • @somethingspecific3619
    @somethingspecific3619 3 года назад

    💜❤️

  • @ShellyBomb
    @ShellyBomb 3 года назад +1

    Her and Jennifer Lopez ... Try being ALONE for a minute! 😲

  • @WaveDancer426
    @WaveDancer426 3 года назад +2

    I thought she already got remarried?

    • @flyleelee5351
      @flyleelee5351 3 года назад +3

      Right!!! I guess they're divorced and she on to the next already

  • @RNExplorer253
    @RNExplorer253 3 года назад +1

    This sounds like Jennifer Lopez.

  • @debbieknight1224
    @debbieknight1224 3 года назад

    I find nothing appealing about Tarek, but pump the brakes Christina.

  • @brefurn253
    @brefurn253 3 года назад +1

    Now Ant is with Renee Zellweger. Another person with questionable taste in men lol

  • @averystewart3117
    @averystewart3117 3 года назад

    Legit have you thought about reaching out and offering "life coach/romantic advice consulting" services to Christina? Because the way the sheer NUMBER of points you went in on seem to be setup....

  • @DM-hx9ym
    @DM-hx9ym 3 месяца назад

    aaand shes divorced again !! as of july 2024

  • @flyleelee5351
    @flyleelee5351 3 года назад +1

    Wait .I thought she married a man with grey hair and had a baby with that guy

    • @shallonlester
      @shallonlester  3 года назад +10

      She did!! We blinked and missed that marriage

  • @sensibilities1
    @sensibilities1 3 года назад

    Tarek is also a nauseating man. Makes me gag

  • @australiswatson6548
    @australiswatson6548 3 года назад

    monetize

  • @Da_Freak
    @Da_Freak 3 года назад

    She must have been cheating months before the end of the marriages.

  • @teegee2550
    @teegee2550 3 года назад

    She’s a hot mess! Hold on sis with getting married again!