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  • Опубликовано: 22 янв 2025

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  • @EJ-qz1rj
    @EJ-qz1rj 2 года назад +2624

    This quote is def gonna stick with me for a while:
    “If you can be the man you want your son to be”
    That’s just puts everything in perspective

  • @imharrisonn
    @imharrisonn 2 года назад +2179

    Lucid woke up and chose nothing but to speak facts

  • @bheds
    @bheds 2 года назад +838

    ‘Only when you detach, you will find yourself.’ -IamLucid

    • @DefeaterMann
      @DefeaterMann 2 года назад +1

      READ MY NAME!!!
      !!

    • @mya6506
      @mya6506 2 года назад +4

      So true, honestly goes for everyone

    • @MNightbirb
      @MNightbirb 2 года назад +7

      Dude has insane wisdom in there ngl

    • @sss171
      @sss171 Год назад

      Sadly I disagree with that. Engage in life. But I do agree you can never just drift though life.

  • @attest9110
    @attest9110 2 года назад +2109

    i feel as if in society right now males are getting excluded more and more from things that are very important to talk about. we need more videos like these from everyone. good stuff lucid

    • @JordanWheeler1999
      @JordanWheeler1999 2 года назад +72

      Yea. I find it hard to believe as to how bias everyone gets when it comes to "gender equality" or even "equality" itself.
      Mainly people only cares and respects you if you are black, a woman, gay, feminist, and ect.
      It just feels worst and worst every day

    • @darviousking88
      @darviousking88 2 года назад +26

      Me too like society has changed a lot back then women would cover their private body parts but now they don't also some girls do surgeries on their face only to look beautiful that's why I say beauty is sickness.
      Most men now marry girls for their body parts that's why we need to go by the guidance of God that has sended to us so we can live our life in the best way

    • @JordanWheeler1999
      @JordanWheeler1999 2 года назад +9

      @@darviousking88 in the end of the day it's just human nature, we nor nobody should take that away when it's how everyone is

    • @darviousking88
      @darviousking88 2 года назад +9

      @@JordanWheeler1999 yeah that's sad

    • @lucid523
      @lucid523 2 года назад

      Unfortunately I feel as if the roles of "equality" have switched around. And it should be equal like it says "equality" but men get treated like trash when we wanna vent because we're not ourselves we get told "don't be such a 😺" "men shouldn't cry" we also get treated horribly by the law, the court system and just anything like that. A female can easily accuse us of something we never did and we'd go to jail.. for what? Nothing. It's so horrible what us men go through and tbh not all men are nice dudes same with females. It really truly sucks and maybe hopefully us men can make men's mental health awareness month a official month.

  • @CapsCtrl
    @CapsCtrl 2 года назад +1396

    most chad virgin in the history of humans

    • @Bigavelli
      @Bigavelli 2 года назад +61

      W chad virgin

    • @BM8C7
      @BM8C7 2 года назад

      W chad virgin

    • @b_f_d_d
      @b_f_d_d 2 года назад +35

      W chad virgin

    • @ImaPullThru
      @ImaPullThru 2 года назад +30

      W chad virgin

    • @LazY_NerD
      @LazY_NerD 2 года назад +22

      W chad virgin

  • @The404Studios
    @The404Studios 2 года назад +325

    Man just does not miss.

  • @taxtheyoshimain6780
    @taxtheyoshimain6780 2 года назад +817

    This is why i like lucid, he speaks what he feels is right. Instead of being right in others eyes hes right in his own.

    • @animecraze556
      @animecraze556 2 года назад +15

      Man speaks his mind and is also open to learn more from us. Man is self confident but also knows when to humble himself

    • @juliangarza2128
      @juliangarza2128 2 года назад

      @@animecraze556 true

    • @spicyshizz2850
      @spicyshizz2850 2 года назад

      The video isn’t even out yet wdym

    • @JordanWheeler1999
      @JordanWheeler1999 2 года назад

      @@spicyshizz2850 people can see it early

    • @spicyshizz2850
      @spicyshizz2850 2 года назад +1

      @@JordanWheeler1999 ohh it’s a benefit from Patreon?

  • @BobbieInShanghai
    @BobbieInShanghai 2 года назад +1228

    We need someone like lucid he isn’t afraid to speak out and that’s the good part he could be risking something he just doesn’t care that’s why I like lucid you can really relate to him

    • @DefeaterMann
      @DefeaterMann 2 года назад +2

      READ MY NAME!!!
      !!

    • @toxicchlorine1729
      @toxicchlorine1729 2 года назад +3

      Agreed. He's the kind of people we need to improve society. One who stands up agianst the bad social norms and gives essential advice for living a more positive life.

    • @gihan1
      @gihan1 2 года назад +9

      we don't need someone like him, we should try to be him

    • @mohammedjafer9265
      @mohammedjafer9265 2 года назад

      I actually liked the meme about strong men cause it brings awareness and clear truth were our society is heading

    • @BobbieInShanghai
      @BobbieInShanghai 2 года назад +2

      Holy I didn’t expect this much likes and comments

  • @andreadomo-ibea7078
    @andreadomo-ibea7078 2 года назад +427

    It comforts me to hear a man say this and be a good example to men everywhere. I know at around 3:17 you talked about high school boys talking about how much action they are getting and comparing the action amongst themselves ...The scary part is, it doesn't stop at high school. Grown men can seriously learn a thing or two from you... I wish every man had a brother or friend like you.

    • @raylonlmao6450
      @raylonlmao6450 2 года назад +11

      fr, im in highschool. Im in a gym class with mainly freshmen and that’s all I overhear the boys talking about. “I got wit her” “I’ll definitely hit” “ima do her like this *motions* ” etc. It’s crazy, it’s like it’s a goal or something😭they hang around the same folks that encourage it

    • @andreadomo-ibea7078
      @andreadomo-ibea7078 2 года назад +9

      @@raylonlmao6450 It's terrible!! And the scary part is, you think this behavior ends at 17, 18 years old...No this can be any man at any age acting like that and encouraging the guys around them to be like that. It's disgusting and you don't even need to come from a place of religion to fight against it. Like think about your mother or your sister if you have one. Would you like someone to treat your mother or your sister like trash? What if someone's a Rape or Sexual Assault Victim? Oh you don't care about other's feeling's and state of sanity, you only care about action.
      Be the father figure you wish you had
      Be the older brother you wish you had
      Be the friend you wish you had
      Be a better man, no a better human in general
      I'm telling you man, it's scary .I'm already 24 years old and I innocently believed this nonsense would stop in late high school, early college. It doesn't stop. That's where we get True Crime Documentaries from.
      I know marriage doesn't = consent
      it doesn't guarantee a perfect wholesome marriage.... But if all fails, I'd rather take my shot with one person who ruined me and I know the main source of hurt, rather than 100 body counts that would be more emotional, mental, and spiritual damage.
      The jerks have called me named like Prude and Virgin Mary all my young adult life this far. Joke's on them . I don't have their kind emotional and mental damage .

    • @raylonlmao6450
      @raylonlmao6450 2 года назад +3

      @@andreadomo-ibea7078 right!!

    • @aarrynz9721
      @aarrynz9721 2 года назад +1

      Girls do it too and it's worse lol. They brag about their promiscuity

    • @captainripley
      @captainripley 2 года назад +3

      @@andreadomo-ibea7078 Yea it’s sad. From my experience I can tell you as young boys when we’re in middle school it kinda gets ingrained in our heads that getting with a girl means we’re cool.
      At all ages as guys we get laughed at for still being v’s so in turn we start seeing girls as just trophies to put in our collection in a sense and not real people.
      It’s sucks that nobody is teach young boys about this.
      The older kids in school teach us that getting with girls means we’re cool and they got that from the kids older than them etc.

  • @noize8703
    @noize8703 2 года назад +1009

    I'm dead ass getting sick of being shamed for being a Virgin. It’s getting really old to hear people getting shamed for trying to live a modest life. I'm a virgin because it doesn't feel right to me to just have a one night stand with someone that I don't care about. It doesn't make me feel good, knowing that I showed the most venerable version of myself that I don't care about. I'm getting mad fed up with everyone around me bitching at me for not having "bitches". I don't want bitches dawg. I want a partner who I have so much love and respect for. I don't feel good being around girls that I can’t trust because I’ve been in that position where I can’t trust this girl. It doesn’t feel good, and it doesn’t feel right. Serving yourself could be your biggest downfall in life. Thanks for this video Lucid.

    • @Cr4z3d
      @Cr4z3d 2 года назад +11

      👍

    • @mysteretsym
      @mysteretsym 2 года назад +70

      "Serving yourself could be your biggest downfall in life." That needs to be a quote

    • @BobozaNDJ
      @BobozaNDJ 2 года назад +7

      We in the same boat

    • @yung_Latios
      @yung_Latios 2 года назад +20

      Couldn't agree more. I'm so self conscious about it that I just keep it a secret and change the subject. It sucks being shamed for being different.

    • @OfficialDenzy
      @OfficialDenzy 2 года назад

      Just get a girlfriend and have sex with her?

  • @Sweeneytv
    @Sweeneytv 2 года назад +123

    Attention seeking behavior or the desire to be loved are huge problems that don't have simple fixes. They are often the cause of lust or bragging about getting action. But this is a good start. Thanks bro.

  • @NobuTalent
    @NobuTalent 2 года назад +508

    “If you could be the man you want your son to be, then you could truly be a man” I’ll never forget this quote bro

    • @MegaBrontes-u5w
      @MegaBrontes-u5w 2 года назад +2

      This. Only that I don't want kids. You are your legacy first.

  • @wGScopez
    @wGScopez 2 года назад +176

    stay determined stay focused stay dreaming stay lucid

  • @MaxThrills
    @MaxThrills 2 года назад +667

    I’m 14, haven’t vaped yet, haven’t had alcohol yet, and still got my V card, and most importantly, I still have my dreams and motivation! Lucid has inspired me to never let go! Amen to this!!

    • @phantomjosh2148
      @phantomjosh2148 2 года назад +46

      BRO IM 16 AND SAME 😭😭😭

    • @viktorboserup6676
      @viktorboserup6676 2 года назад

      Don't listen to this idiot bro. Do what you want, as long as it doesn't hurt anyone else.

    • @fade1473
      @fade1473 2 года назад +43

      Same age but I have vaped. I warn you, do not try that shit cause you will be hooked by the moment you try it. I had to isolate myself from places with people offering to give me a vape for a sec (skateparks) cause I would have probably accepted. Normally I would never accept.

    • @giannhs3187
      @giannhs3187 2 года назад +17

      @@fade1473 14 aswell and also have vaped.. luckily for me i didnt enjoy it in the slightest

    • @giannhs3187
      @giannhs3187 2 года назад +2

      @@kayekeo i dont vape, some of my friends do and i tried vaping with my friends vape

  • @anaslowkey
    @anaslowkey 2 года назад +61

    "Be the man you want your son to be."
    That quote hit me harder than it should. I just realized that I wouldn't want my son to be straying away from the right path, so I shouldn't either. Thank you for this video and God bless. ❤

  • @drako3307
    @drako3307 2 года назад +190

    We really need more people to educate young men about how they carry themselves or we WILL fall

    • @JordanWheeler1999
      @JordanWheeler1999 2 года назад +4

      What?

    • @drako3307
      @drako3307 2 года назад +1

      @@JordanWheeler1999 wym?

    • @JordanWheeler1999
      @JordanWheeler1999 2 года назад +6

      @@drako3307 no, wdym?

    • @drako3307
      @drako3307 2 года назад +2

      @@JordanWheeler1999 I hope you grow up soon brother

    • @JordanWheeler1999
      @JordanWheeler1999 2 года назад +6

      @@drako3307 are you seriously mad over someone that doesn't know what you are talking about? i think you should take your own advice, brother

  • @notdayday
    @notdayday 2 года назад +431

    Honestly a number of my friends, and recruiters all sort of tease me in a way for being single and a virgin. I always tell them I'm just looking for someone mature and real, not just a hookup. But they always "remind" me that there is "enough for everybody", and remind me that I'll "get my piece".
    One of the biggest reasons I don't view women like this is because of my family, I wouldn't want anyone thinking that type of way of my sisters or cousins. I'm confident in my standards and where I stand on the topic, so I don't see myself changing my view point any time soon. I just prefer to stay quiet when people talk about loosing their virginity and hooking up with girls all the time. Most guys have it set and stone that it's something you do to a woman (consensually) , rather than who and why.

    • @businessisboomin7252
      @businessisboomin7252 2 года назад +33

      Love your mindset

    • @lucid523
      @lucid523 2 года назад +26

      Same my friend. I don't view my girl that at all. It sucks that some of us men tend to sexually materialize females. Like it's not all about sexual stuff you want a stable relationship more then anything to be happy then later you can have something like that

    • @leafyishereisdumbnameakath4259
      @leafyishereisdumbnameakath4259 2 года назад +23

      DayDay you're a normal guy and the people around you just have made bad life choices so they want to corrupt others. That's how it works. They aren't conscious of this but yeah it's how it works. It's perfectly normal that they do that, happens to me. Not every man is like that. There are friends that aren't and I hope you find them.

    • @DefeaterMann
      @DefeaterMann 2 года назад

      READ MY NAME!!!
      !!

    • @mohammedjafer9265
      @mohammedjafer9265 2 года назад

      Our society has seriously been corrupted non other then the devil himself

  • @DemetriusJay
    @DemetriusJay 2 года назад +241

    You can never become a man until you learn what a man is. Mashallah, Lucid.
    Thank you for sharing this with us💚

    • @DefeaterMann
      @DefeaterMann 2 года назад

      READ MY NAME!!!
      !!

    • @blackcobra7055
      @blackcobra7055 2 года назад +3

      Can u translate what his shirt says ..

    • @GhoneimVFX
      @GhoneimVFX 2 года назад +12

      @@blackcobra7055 thinking of god
      edit: Real meaning is god always being on ur mind u always think of what he thinks of u through every action u do. Thats how i think about it in my way.

    • @oke497
      @oke497 2 года назад

      💣💣💣

    • @blackcobra7055
      @blackcobra7055 2 года назад

      @@oke497 Pathetic waste of sperm … really feel bad for you type of edgy people

  • @MyMMTop10Music
    @MyMMTop10Music 2 года назад +32

    The fact he removed ads just straight means that he is fucking dedicated and props to you for that lucid! You are like a mentor by making these videos so ye

  • @Indie_Jayyy
    @Indie_Jayyy 2 года назад +181

    I have no idea how or why I'm subscribed to your channel, I'm a 30 year old black woman but honestly you're speaking the truth to the generation Z that has been drifting so far away from the truth. Thanks for helping humanity.

    • @catswork
      @catswork 2 года назад +15

      lol

    • @i6lakk
      @i6lakk 2 года назад +22

      It's an old issue that comes before even Gen Z

    • @ajmma499
      @ajmma499 2 года назад +4

      I'm an old head karen mentality vibe

    • @phantomjosh2148
      @phantomjosh2148 2 года назад +2

      I have no idea why I am either,I’m a mixed race 16 year old.

    • @princearthz
      @princearthz 2 года назад

      @@i6lakk old issues, new platforms. The access to these degrading things are more common than ever.

  • @Ghost____Rider
    @Ghost____Rider 2 года назад +65

    Hey Lucid, I would just like to express my gratitude towards you. I'm currently infected with covid and fighting a terrible fever, the worst I've ever experienced. But watching videos like this really helps me. A man to man convo like this is needed more than ever in this society. Alhamdulillah.

    • @ebtisamali359
      @ebtisamali359 2 года назад +7

      Make sure you take vitamins c,d and zinc and lots of fluid. Also rest even if you dont feel like it to bounce up quickly may Allah heal you !

    • @hamza8895
      @hamza8895 2 года назад +3

      get well soon inshaalllah

    • @joeibiden8816
      @joeibiden8816 2 года назад +2

      make sure to stay hydrated inshallah u will be fine

    • @Ghost____Rider
      @Ghost____Rider 2 года назад +1

      @@ebtisamali359 thanks bro I'll be sure to do this

    • @Ghost____Rider
      @Ghost____Rider 2 года назад +1

      @@hamza8895 thanks inshallah

  • @dedroundzzk
    @dedroundzzk 2 года назад +155

    Never thought I will be saying this, But I was exposed to pornography at 7 years old I’m 14 now and still fighting this addiction. thank you lucid for this honest and truthful message it did hurt me but I’ll still accept this message.

    • @ConceptVis
      @ConceptVis 2 года назад +8

      What have helped me beat it is, fasting and working out so it keeps me busy n most of all teaches me discipline

    • @noagerestrictions3337
      @noagerestrictions3337 2 года назад +6

      When i see people who share a problem with me it gives myself hope because you know you are not the only one going through the same thing which helps us to keep determined and to move forward

    • @wokk9543
      @wokk9543 2 года назад +6

      it was 10 for me but I am 13 now am I will not do it again

    • @dedroundzzk
      @dedroundzzk 2 года назад

      @@ConceptVis same

    • @dedroundzzk
      @dedroundzzk 2 года назад

      @@ConceptVis I do the same it works really good

  • @janicestevenson6496
    @janicestevenson6496 2 года назад +58

    Thank you Lucid for this straight talk to young men. Although I am certainly not in this category, your honest words are so needed, especially in a culture where everyone is viewed as a commodity to be bought or sold. I am reading a book on relationships by Marshall Vian Summers entitled Relationships and Higher Purpose. Here is a quote about the first stage of relationship development: "This is a time when romance takes precedence over relationship. Romance is attempting to use a person to fulfill an idea about oneself... The difficulty with romance is that you do not want to recognize another. You only want the other person to validate your ideas about them.... But you are still not at a place where intimacy can be truly established... As the relationship progresses, and the person proves to be a real person and not merely a good idea, it can lead to great confusion and disappointment. This relationship does not yet have a sufficient foundation upon which it can last... When this relationship fails, you are thrown back on yourself... Here you must face yourself... If you can learn from these disappointments without bitterness or condemnation, you can gain a very practical wisdom that will be of tremendous value to you in the future." (MVS, Relationships and Higher Purpose)

  • @dandanyellow
    @dandanyellow 10 месяцев назад +2

    came back to this when i needed the most

  • @Angela-vm3kc
    @Angela-vm3kc 2 года назад +103

    Then : a message to all females
    Now : a message to all males
    Well done lucid thanks for caring to us all

  • @moussamalki1544
    @moussamalki1544 2 года назад +166

    As a guy who lives in morocco, I had many chances when people offered me drugs, i had so many chances to have sex, party, get drunk all of those stuff, but i stayed true to myself deep down i felt it wasn't right despite being just 12 - 17 at that time, despite the boys making fun of me CUS i wasn't manly enough to flirt and harass girls or take drugs, that's why i couldn't be more proud of myself, i have never thought that i was different or better than any other guy, i felt that a normal guy should be like that, respectful, true to them selves, have control over their actions, they have pride that makes them the opposite of simps, and the best of all they're not afraid to admit their feelings or mistakes.

  • @bladeisbad5751
    @bladeisbad5751 2 года назад +20

    This video is so relatable to many men in this world

  • @Xelafi
    @Xelafi 2 года назад +87

    It's honestly crazy how mainstream society has made porn. It's kinda like how sugar is more addictive than cocaine, yet we still constantly bait ourselves with it. Nothing about that shit is normal.

    • @zekiz774
      @zekiz774 Год назад

      And the sugar high is worse than a cocain high.

    • @zolantus
      @zolantus Год назад

      sugar is not more addictive than cocaine. i don't know why you'd think that

    • @zekiz774
      @zekiz774 Год назад +3

      @@zolantus it almost is as addictive as cocain. They actually are pretty comparable

  • @istra2496
    @istra2496 2 года назад +8

    Really appreciate the work and message that Lucid is sending fr, I'm the older brother of two little newborn boys and after a state of being down bad throughout ages 12-14, i can't wait to spread your message amongst my bros when they get older after I helped raised them to be responsible, sensible, and motivated boys that aren't down bad by the time they're my age 😈

    • @Roman-Monahan_06.
      @Roman-Monahan_06. 2 года назад

      Hi. I made a mistake and I got carried away. I thought it was fun to hang around people who use tik tok. I downloaded tik tok. I regret it

  • @noah.2628
    @noah.2628 2 года назад +49

    we're so stuck up trying to copy everyone else in society because its "cool" or its "normal". think for yourself.

  • @owxffles450
    @owxffles450 2 года назад +36

    I needed to hear this more than ever. Thank you so much Lucid ❤️

    • @visheshsux
      @visheshsux 2 года назад +1

      video isn't even out yet brother

    • @stormstudios1
      @stormstudios1 2 года назад

      bruh you listen to it and you still use a anime profile picture, grow up bud

    • @apecsi4971
      @apecsi4971 2 года назад +1

      @@stormstudios1 what does a profile picture have to do with anything with what the video said

  • @HadiSOA
    @HadiSOA 2 года назад +36

    "Stay Determined, Stay Focused, Stay Dreaming, Stay Lucid, I'm out... Peace" (I might have to lose my streak bro...)

    • @CARENTHUSIAST1144
      @CARENTHUSIAST1144 2 года назад +3

      no bro hold on

    • @Mor-tis
      @Mor-tis 2 года назад +3

      Like a sailer traveling through rough gales, keep on pushing through brother

  • @ChicaneMedia
    @ChicaneMedia 2 года назад +109

    Things I took from this video:
    - Don't be ashamed for being a virgin
    - Avoid doing activities that harm your own body just to act cool
    - Focus on yourself and not others and what they show on social media
    - Don't let others pave the path for you and make you into who they want you to be.
    - Honestly just being yourself and not sticking with the crowd, be unique, different, not a copy & paste.
    Love you Lucid, don't stop with these eye opening videos, they bring motivation and determination to lots of people.

    • @Yurik-the-marksman
      @Yurik-the-marksman Год назад

      yup dont give in to echochambers or the far left degeneracy, im pretty right leaning, very pro firearms

    • @sk3ll121
      @sk3ll121 Год назад

      @@Yurik-the-marksman I have been looking at the right and left and really found out a lot of the time: I identify with both. I think the key is really to not let other tell you what to think. if you see say a story about a riot, look into both sides and what you would do and what might have caused it and come to your own conclusion. Do not let other tell you what to think and find your own ideas.
      I do love a lot of what he said, the problem is to me at least replacing what is gone. I think that is the true thing to do once you realise addiction or other stuff in life

    • @Yurik-the-marksman
      @Yurik-the-marksman Год назад

      @@sk3ll121 exactly, you have to think for your self, sure most of my beliefs even a good 90% right wing beliefs but at the same time I don’t care about what political affiliation you are as long as you have basic respect regardless of beliefs

    • @sk3ll121
      @sk3ll121 Год назад

      @@Yurik-the-marksman Yeah, I am more on the left a lot of the time I find but it does not mean I diagree with what the right has to say sometimes. I think we should all respect that everyone has different opinions on different subjects and thus find ways which fit both sides (though tbh everyone will likely never agree with one solution)
      Like I saw you love guns, but I am against guns and find a lot of the time they are used for bad and do not like say the policies in place in America atm for guns (think guns should have a proper license system like cars). but that does not mean I hate you for you owning guns or think you do said action, just feel a lot of the time they are in the wrong hands and feel they need more stuff to prevent that.
      I think online, we do need people to argue because if we all agree, no issues would really get solves. I just also think said arguments can get really petty which is a shame for both side or they argue over stupid shit which stupid (look at all the people who get angry at companies for being poltical and ignoring said companies using the anger to push themselves further). Hell, I disagree with some points in this video yet watched the whole thing and those disagreements did not make me hate the person I was watching. I think arguing for someone or blindly following is the worst online and to become more you must critically think for yourself and find what you yourself believe.

    • @Yurik-the-marksman
      @Yurik-the-marksman Год назад

      @@sk3ll121 while i do disagree with the whole gun control idea, I respect that your honest about it. It’s fine if I disagree aslong as people are honest. Anyways the gangsters with firearms are obtaining them illegally anyway, doesn’t make sense to punish the citizens who are innocent and then just let the criminals be

  • @RuuanBeats
    @RuuanBeats 2 года назад +1

    Thank you homs, I needed this

  • @kr1tzyop
    @kr1tzyop 2 года назад +79

    Lucid I was finally able to realize why I subscribed to you again it's because you aren't too afraid to speak the truth everyone needs to hear both genders included. Which is one of the things that matter honestly, not just trying to make the other person feel the good cause of their feelings but a straight response that will positively affect them instead of lying to their face. Although before I go off and start a whole essay lol I just want to say I'm thankful for you homie:) Stay Lucid!

  • @Jnwora13
    @Jnwora13 2 года назад +20

    I can’t wait for this. I love hearing lucid speak his opinions and mind. I’m sure I’ll enjoy it.

  • @rinx2710
    @rinx2710 2 года назад +103

    im almost 14 and im glad i haven't feel into a pron addiction like most people around me

    • @notlag7384
      @notlag7384 2 года назад +74

      You're lucky. Don't ever touch that shit

    • @dismahusername8309
      @dismahusername8309 2 года назад +42

      I’m 15 and when I was your age I struggled badly with the addiction, please never watch the stuff it’s so damaging

    • @Notyouraveragesunsetlover
      @Notyouraveragesunsetlover 2 года назад +14

      You are blessed, i tell you. No amount of happiness comes from that shit

    • @lulucaslyfe9028
      @lulucaslyfe9028 2 года назад +10

      Congrats my guy, I'm 18 and i had some phases when I was heavily on that shit. Haven't watched it in over a year now and I can promise you I feel a lot better mentally and physically.

    • @oldfeet7880
      @oldfeet7880 2 года назад +1

      Nice bro

  • @pjsuttles4896
    @pjsuttles4896 2 года назад +15

    I’ve never connected to someone and their beliefs before watching this video. I’ve been thinking about change for the past week and I truly believe this encouraged me to take my first step. Thank you Lucid ❤❤❤

    • @its_timber
      @its_timber 2 года назад +1

      fr, he has changed my whole perspective on everything and feels like i broke the chains of being a slave to the internet

  • @roth2023
    @roth2023 2 года назад +11

    "That's how the truth works. It will always hurt somebody somewhere, and as long as it doesn't hurt you and you can learn from it, that's how you will grow as a person"
    -iamLucid

  • @Revzz
    @Revzz 2 года назад +13

    thank you bro for using your platform to speak on these issues

  • @omgsoeli
    @omgsoeli 2 года назад +13

    Your the best lucid, keep up the good work

  • @72bpm
    @72bpm 2 года назад +9

    i love lucid. bless bro. to everything you said, i thought i was the only one finding something wrong with this culture. thank you for making this and bringing knowledge to more people with your platform, in a very well said way. much love

  • @scott471
    @scott471 2 года назад +351

    Toxic masculinity has nothing to do with your physical appearance. It's all about how society has this pressure of what men should be and act like. This stigma that men shouldn't cry because it's a sign of "weaknesses" when it's actually healthy to let yourself feel what you're feeling. That's why men have such a hard time understanding and not having any control of their emotions because they run from them instead of facing them. Masculinity is within you not what's on the outside.

    • @onfire2905
      @onfire2905 2 года назад +43

      That's another topic, he's talking about how bad the state of some males these days and how thinking that there is a toxic side to masculinity is making it worse as masculinity has nothing to do with abuse or mental health but should boost your mood and should make you a better person.

    • @Nyayato
      @Nyayato 2 года назад +16

      fr. Toxic masculinity is really NOT it dawg

    • @fryhyh
      @fryhyh 2 года назад +20

      Another example is "smoking because it makes you seem masculine". I actually agree with that. Smoking does not make you more masculine

    • @Thezombiekiller06
      @Thezombiekiller06 2 года назад

      Toxic masculinity doesn't exist, that's something sexist people push to put down masculine men. Toxicity has nothing to do with masculinity.

    • @tvbuu
      @tvbuu 2 года назад

      @@onfire2905 i mean men should have masculinity and the thing is that even good masculinity is called toxic because they want all of us to be b*tches. you can have feminine and masculine energy but have it balanced but the problem is there's no balance. Dudes are repressed asf and these young chicks are obliterating the mental of the men their age tbh

  • @sajjadkargar9147
    @sajjadkargar9147 2 года назад +3

    We still have RUclipsrs like u in this world! Appreciate it man.

  • @toughdawg
    @toughdawg 2 года назад +23

    Even as a female, I do learn a lot from your videos. I can help further more my male friends with the information that you give

  • @naainz
    @naainz 2 года назад +13

    Keep up the great work

  • @humayunbaloch1189
    @humayunbaloch1189 2 года назад +10

    I stopped pornography years ago and was falling back but not completely so this and ramadan came at the right time you inspire me lucid!

    • @benecrim1724
      @benecrim1724 2 года назад +2

      Ramadan is so great dude. It allways feels amazing when it begins

    • @humayunbaloch1189
      @humayunbaloch1189 2 года назад +1

      @@benecrim1724 agreed best month of the year

  • @trickzclipz5910
    @trickzclipz5910 2 года назад +2

    This man spoke truth.
    جزاك الله خير

  • @spookypichu8045
    @spookypichu8045 2 года назад +7

    Honestly, this video really helped me look at life in a different perspective. It made me notice how messed up society is and how messed up I was without even knowing. Thank you lucid

  • @ReX_THE_CONQUEROR
    @ReX_THE_CONQUEROR 2 года назад +21

    I am literally going to turn 18 and haven't kissed a girl, not smoked once in my life. Not a drop of single alcohol. And ya trying to free myself from porn. It almost 3months i hadnt seen a single porn video.

    • @caders
      @caders 2 года назад +7

      I’m 20 and am in the same place as you. Went a whole year and then have fallen back to it for the last few months. I’m disappointed in myself but have lacked the motivation to stop apparently. Here we go again, wish my luck boys

    • @namename8207
      @namename8207 2 года назад

      @@caders does the addiction not go away even after a year?

    • @caders
      @caders 2 года назад +2

      @@namename8207 oh it totally did. I think the root cause is what changed though, I stopped talking to a girl that I thought could be the one around thanksgiving and lost motivation I guess. She was great but it just wasn’t mutual. Maybe you could say my motivation was biased and it shouldn’t have changed when that ended but it did

    • @caders
      @caders 2 года назад +1

      If that makes sense. My mind was so clear for that year it was amazing. Idk what happened, I think I forced myself back into it

    • @caders
      @caders 2 года назад +2

      I think it was just a result of losing someone I felt so connected to and became lonely…

  • @Daily_Knee_Views
    @Daily_Knee_Views 2 года назад +6

    Thank you for speaking the truth my guy, means alot

  • @MGNate
    @MGNate 2 года назад +3

    You have inspired me to let go of all my troubles. Today I am a new man thanks to you. I hope you know what you are doing is going to shape thousands of people. Keeps it up man we need more people like you.

  • @Jeremixhjr
    @Jeremixhjr 2 года назад +1

    I’m glad you posted this video because I’m 16 and this really made me think...

  • @mefor3
    @mefor3 Год назад +2

    Damn, I needed this.

  • @mendo5459
    @mendo5459 2 года назад +4

    I've detached from Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and Tiktok for the past 4 days now and it's a struggle because that is what addiction does to you. However, my mind feels clearer, calmer, less anxious and more balanced already. Instagram especially messed me up because of the models and fitness influencers that lead to certain moods which leads to other things if you catch my drift. There are so many temptations and distractions in the world now, you really have to be careful. We need more videos like this because these are the truths people need to hear. Respect to you Lucid

    • @rushilg5679
      @rushilg5679 2 года назад +2

      I feel u bro when ever I try to take a break i just get pulled back like a fuckin magnet to the point I feel like breaking my phone

  • @iijogem4281
    @iijogem4281 2 года назад +3

    This is the video I wish that I could have seen while I was in Sophomore year. The amount of things that were thrown at me going into high school were crazy, and I wasn't even given this level of a talk through the whole year. I just came to find your channel about 4 mins ago and this is my 2nd video I've seen by you. I'd be do happy to be like you thru the rest of my high school years.

  • @Kayy._47
    @Kayy._47 2 года назад +4

    What he said changed my whole perception of life, I don’t wanna e unproductive or lay around doing nothing but scrolling my life away, I wanna change and to do that, I gotta make change, thanks lucid 💯 glad I found out about you years back

  • @assemassem3452
    @assemassem3452 2 года назад +1

    Nothing but facts... realest video I've seen in ages

  • @rollingthundr9763
    @rollingthundr9763 2 года назад

    hey you really have been the same through all this thanks for the kind words

  • @ericdiaz1719
    @ericdiaz1719 2 года назад +4

    phenomenal video brother what a great message.

  • @shredder72
    @shredder72 2 года назад +3

    Bro halfway through the video these are all the things I started thinking when I reached the age of 17 (still virgin by choice) and I am SO GRATEFUL to be a virgin even while being one of the "hot" guys in my school and college (not self proclaimed, I still am sometimes insecure cuz ofc I'm a human). Got into my one and only relationship with the person with the same mindset and I still haven't lost it yet. planning to get engaged soon. I can't believe how mature Lucid is at this age and the choice of words that he makes to construct every sentence is amazing. Keep up bro thanks for everything you've been doing.
    The only thing I need now is that stainless steel V-card and will try to if I get my online debit card soon. Much love to the community as well hope you all find a way out of struggles and reach your goals!

  • @z1d612
    @z1d612 2 года назад +8

    Lucid is talking about stuff that needs to be taught by our parents. Who knew that the only person thats keeping me accountable is a stranger online. Thank you Lucid.

  • @DrewskiMashups
    @DrewskiMashups 2 года назад +9

    "A man without a purpose distracts himself with pleasure"

  • @AlvinDema
    @AlvinDema 2 года назад +4

    U just put words on everything I’ve been working on these last months. Been at the lowest point in my life mentally and physically, even gonna so far that I was almost not here to type this message.
    I have a long way to go, I’m not there, I’m just a young guy with a vision of a healthy future. And even if I never get so see that future it will always be the thing that I strive for.
    My body is giving up, my mind is giving up and yet I still am here somehow.

  • @dgmclips2905
    @dgmclips2905 2 года назад +34

    True message akhi, may Allah SWT honor you my brother and grant you the highest ranks of jannah ❤❤

  • @emperorofeastica
    @emperorofeastica 2 года назад +6

    Lucid is one of the only ppl on this platform that is speaking truth and we need to help more people to go back on the right path of life
    🇬🇧 Love from the United Kingdom🇬🇧

    • @JW0121
      @JW0121 2 года назад +2

      Hamza is the new wave from uk too best ytuber on the planet

  • @dyinglewd7964
    @dyinglewd7964 2 года назад +16

    Dude, I can't believe I just saw a p*rn mobile game ad in the middle of a Lucid video.
    what is wrong with this world...

    • @randomguy48114
      @randomguy48114 2 года назад +4

      plot twist : lucid did that intentionally to test us

    • @brushot
      @brushot 8 месяцев назад

      I think it’s the p industry fighting back XD

  • @adjahnithermot2275
    @adjahnithermot2275 2 года назад +1

    Not the video I was searching for, but the one I definitely needed. Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @dontdisruptafk
    @dontdisruptafk 2 года назад

    I am happy to find these kind of videos, i am proud to say i haven't gotten into temptation or have become slave to any addiction yet. Believe me in the past i have had friends, that tried to convince me, and they have even bragged of doing stuff that didn't bring any benefit to them except ("Rep). But i stayed away. Currently my motivation is God, and i was raised a believer, I will admit (since lucid came out with the truth), that i have considered being apart of this group to gain "Rep", but never went through with it, because in my head i knew it wouldn't benefit me and only thing i would gain is regret, and repent. Thank you for reminding what path i am on, and the destination i need to take. I won't become a weak man, and instead i will do things i don't want to that will benefit me in the long run. Stay safe, thank you for your advice, We all needed this!

  • @jacobkn4812
    @jacobkn4812 2 года назад +10

    This video is such a relief to watch. In particular I'd been getting teased pretty hard these past few months because of my attitudes towards women. Im not interested in hookups or running toxic game for the sake of it. I want a meaningful, respectful relationship.
    If you wouldn't want your daughter dating a man who acts like you, you might need to check yourself.

  • @carrot4981
    @carrot4981 2 года назад +16

    Thank you Lucid, my "old-friend" is literally smoking cigarettes, drinking alcohol - And he even smoked weed a few days ago. And he's 12. He's tagging all over his school, and hanging out with the wrong people. I really feel bad for him.

    • @Paper-Z
      @Paper-Z 2 года назад

      I guess you should expose him to content like this then
      Even if you don't want to face him or you are shy, you can just send him a link to this video without saying anything
      God will help him insha'Allah

    • @carrot4981
      @carrot4981 2 года назад

      @@Paper-Z me and some other friends from my school face to face, so there's not a problem with saying to him. problem is he won't stop

    • @neofox2526
      @neofox2526 2 года назад +1

      wtf damn

    • @carrot4981
      @carrot4981 2 года назад +1

      @@neofox2526 yup :/

    • @The-Devils-Advocate
      @The-Devils-Advocate 2 года назад

      Please help your friend in whatever way you can. Turn your emotions into actions.

  • @saswitchcraft7881
    @saswitchcraft7881 2 года назад +5

    I am at rock bottom. But thank you for this video and for your honesty. I can tell that everything you say comes from a place of wanting us all to be better, not malice. First video I've seen of yours but I hope you keep on this path bro.

  • @sivasubramanian956
    @sivasubramanian956 2 года назад +2

    Dude dude dudeeeeeeeee, this is the best advice I have ever heard in my entire life, I was undergoing an emotionally breakdown and things were not going well but this is what I want to hear... I am very thankful for this advice man. I love you bro. I will be back stronger and you saved me man. ily man. Thanks and take care

  • @davidglaze5089
    @davidglaze5089 2 года назад +1

    Great points made in this video Lucid

  • @FlamingNava
    @FlamingNava 2 года назад +38

    As a male I have been fighting my pxrn addiction slowly and surely. I have successfully gone from fxpping once a day to fxpping once a week. This has been the most difficult journey of my life, though I feel it is for a better cause. I just want to say lucid, thank you so much for making videos like this and speaking out against society. If you had never done this id still be heavily addicted.

    • @aleppogameingreal
      @aleppogameingreal 2 года назад +2

      stay strong my dude

    • @redg9191
      @redg9191 Год назад +1

      Almost at the 3 week mark, you can do this

  • @TheKoalaMafla
    @TheKoalaMafla 2 года назад +114

    I will add to this: you men need to immerse yourselves in books. Get knowledge about everything from every source you can find. Reading is a much healthier alternative to TV and social media.

    • @VitalXeno
      @VitalXeno 2 года назад +3

      Na u lame

    • @AIvin.
      @AIvin. 2 года назад +22

      @Vital Xeno well obviously if you play video games and use social media 24/7 get on a dopamine detox

    • @VitalXeno
      @VitalXeno 2 года назад +2

      @@AIvin. 🤓

    • @Steezealways
      @Steezealways 2 года назад +3

      @@VitalXeno yup what he said

    • @estatic6258
      @estatic6258 2 года назад

      nah

  • @Petalon_
    @Petalon_ 2 года назад +4

    This video is actually so true my boy Lucid just speaking FACTS!!!

  • @sage9139
    @sage9139 2 года назад +1

    I needed this. The world needed this. Thank you. The world needs more people like you that have no fear to speak out, and it's not gonna happen if everyone is just sitting around. I am truly inspired to become a better person. Thank you.

  • @study-corner
    @study-corner 2 года назад +1

    Dawg, this video is soooooo relatable!🥲

  • @wajjihmuhammad1392
    @wajjihmuhammad1392 2 года назад +16

    4:43 I like how you mention doing the opposite of the crowd, because it truly shows how much more you stand out and how "strange" you look for living your own way of life. Without no purpose in life, you would have no reason to stand out, no reason to find your inner self.

    • @mrrocket8467
      @mrrocket8467 2 года назад

      Can u Tell me what the video is about pleas since its on Premiere

  • @uzair9637
    @uzair9637 2 года назад +6

    Lucid my bro you always give great advice and always keep it real, much love 💙

  • @Skyphide
    @Skyphide 2 года назад +5

    that was so inspiring i feel like giving this guy a tight hug and saying thank you (no sus)

  • @trayambakrai
    @trayambakrai 2 года назад +10

    Lucid, you are saying facts. I have tons of friends who've hit rock bottom due to them simping for girls that use them for different things.

    • @trayambakrai
      @trayambakrai 2 года назад +1

      ​@@Iujjdjcbjrujgsm Like you?

    • @trvxo
      @trvxo 2 года назад

      @@trayambakrai thats heavy 💀

    • @munis002
      @munis002 2 года назад +2

      He is not talking about only beautiful women or ugly women . You are missing the point of the video . His entire point is men should not be running 24/7 behind women whether they be ugly or beautiful doesn't matter in high school noone is mature enough to understand love they are only having lust by treating women like a game your done with one you move on to the next . And even if some stick with a women do you think they are really going to get married or will their be any meaning to that relationship . 14 to 25 is crucial years in man's life and if he is being trained only to lust for women and go after them like a dog would go after a piece of meat than he is not going to be able to be successful

    • @trayambakrai
      @trayambakrai 2 года назад

      @@munis002 It seems Mr. keyboard warrior didn't read my comment and his keyboard warrior instincts kicked in. I said that THEY ARE RUNNING BEHIND WOMEN 24/7.

    • @munis002
      @munis002 2 года назад

      @@trayambakrai looks like MR triggered got triggered by my comment here is your comment "Lucid, you are saying facts. I have tons of friends who've hit rock bottom due to them simping for girls that use them for different things." this no where includes "THEY ARE RUNNING BEHIND WOMEN 24/7." secondly my comment was not even directed towards you it was directed towards the women in the comment section

  • @crisprcas09
    @crisprcas09 2 года назад +8

    My dad taught me early how to do exercises (like push-ups for example) and made me practice them every other day. I am really thankful for that because now I have a good habit of exercising everyday.

  • @ashtonstaples2996
    @ashtonstaples2996 2 года назад +9

    Every male needs to hear this.

  • @c0smo70
    @c0smo70 2 года назад +17

    I hate that having a new girlfriend every week has been normalized and even idolized. A relationship is supposed to long-term and filled with love, trust and respect. Being a true man means being strong and protecting those important to you: your family and especially your partner who you will have kids with and share your life and experiences with.

  • @samuel-mx3oq
    @samuel-mx3oq 2 года назад +4

    you have no idea how much i needed this. i’ve been fighting my own battles recently, many involving the exact things you mentioned, and this definitely helped. thank you for being the brother i never had lucid 💜

  • @partybeats6383
    @partybeats6383 2 года назад +1

    Hey lucid just wanna say that I 100% agree with what you said in this video, that is besides the detach yourself from music part. Because idk where I would be in life with the absence of music I would be, as you said, "6 feet under". Needless to say my guy keep up the good work because im sure a lot of young males needed to listen to this.

  • @MKYCT
    @MKYCT 2 года назад +1

    TRUE💯 That's courage there... This message would have done a great deal most people's life if they heard it sooner!

  • @syrnin
    @syrnin 2 года назад +9

    lucid you have really changed my outlook on everything the last few months and i couldn’t thank you enough. i recently cut off contact with all of my “hoes” and i have never been happier with just being on my own

  • @Ash_Knash
    @Ash_Knash 2 года назад +10

    This guy is so wise .He is always trying to make us be better humans
    Edit: this guy is a chad virgin

  • @PsdSplxsh
    @PsdSplxsh 2 года назад +4

    Lucid, your the realist person on youtube. I think a lot of people needed this video, Thank You

  • @gavinschieber5551
    @gavinschieber5551 2 года назад +1

    Thank you so much, this video has absolutely changed my life and how I live.

  • @Goated1024
    @Goated1024 Год назад

    Lucid,I thank you for helping me through this.I have turned my life around and stopped for a while now.I have been training my body and mind nowadays other than "simping".I appreciate myself more than i do to others.I have been focusing on myself al ot more than usual and i have already gained muscle and am stronger in the mind and body than i have ever been before.I will continue watching you on my journey to become a great man.
    Keep it up,you're changing lives here Lucid.

  • @ib_rezin1371
    @ib_rezin1371 2 года назад +5

    I MADE IT TO DAY 100! I LOVE YOU LUCID !!!

    • @1ycx
      @1ycx 2 года назад

      Big up, keep rocking man !

    • @taklamen5178
      @taklamen5178 2 года назад

      Don't focus on the days, focus on the journey becoming a man

  • @NutterTesting
    @NutterTesting 2 года назад +4

    Damn I really thought I was a loser thanks bro.

  • @sniperzayn
    @sniperzayn 2 года назад +7

    Can we all appreciate that lucid recorded this all in one take, just like most of his other videos. Imagine the effort done to not stumble or lose his flow foe 14 minutes straight. Thats honestly really good speaking skills

  • @mynameiszoro
    @mynameiszoro 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for saying what many fear to think about.
    Ramadan kareem! Love the hoodie!

  • @DaniLaVani
    @DaniLaVani 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you Lucid for your videos. I have watched at least 30 of ur videos until now, and it really did help me get over the addiction. God bless you for your self control, because not only does it really help YOU, but also really helps US.

  • @foxcannon
    @foxcannon 2 года назад +3

    Honestly a powerful video for anyone, not just men. "If you can be the man you want your son to be" might have just changed my life. Amen brother 🤝