My Advice to Young Men

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  • Опубликовано: 24 ноя 2024

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  • @Luitschez
    @Luitschez Год назад +5741

    Never complain, never explain.

    • @willychrosnik1925
      @willychrosnik1925 Год назад +137

      Feel it bro. But what do you do when a kid asks you something😅?

    • @gto433
      @gto433 Год назад +45

      But always sharing your heart.

    • @knowledgehub7049
      @knowledgehub7049 Год назад +449

      @@willychrosnik1925 what he is trying to say is "don't get used to giving excuses" and "don't get used to trying to prove yourself to others"

    • @issalj2661
      @issalj2661 Год назад +34

      @@knowledgehub7049 Thank you, made things clearer

    • @blackmewtwo3569
      @blackmewtwo3569 Год назад +13

      Biggest fact you know what you did they know what you did they just wanna see if you’d act stupid never lie

  • @luisespanola
    @luisespanola Год назад +308

    Spoken like a genuinely caring father figure.

  • @tommyklein4050
    @tommyklein4050 Год назад +2964

    This is the total opposite of everything I’ve been told and believed. Thank you Robert for opening my eyes. It’s time for me to challenge some of my old beliefs now.

    • @Pk-wu9tl
      @Pk-wu9tl Год назад +48

      Whose been giving you the wrong information 😂

    • @ameerulaqmalmalek9470
      @ameerulaqmalmalek9470 Год назад +29

      It's pretty common sense tho.

    • @icewallowkum1566
      @icewallowkum1566 Год назад +45

      You change your opinion instantly based on RUclips videos? Now THAT is disconcerting.

    • @antoniolazarescu6837
      @antoniolazarescu6837 Год назад +15

      @@icewallowkum1566 Better late than never.

    • @renaissance17
      @renaissance17 Год назад +19

      He’s wrong. Bragging works. She’s barely listening otherwise because she had two dozen other dudes in her dms

  • @maximvassilev172
    @maximvassilev172 Год назад +559

    I am 22 and most of the time I had no father. I really needed a father figure in the years so I found that in many people - film actors, my boxing coach etc. But none of my role models were as wise as this man. Well done!

    • @SpeakTheTruthLouder
      @SpeakTheTruthLouder Год назад +19

      Please consider looking at the life of Jesus and all he said and did in the books Matthew, Mark, Luke and John in the Bible. To me He is actually the ideal man, not just theologically, but actually. Jesus is really a real man in the sense that he led, taught, inspired, gave without expecting things back and modeled kindness without being a wimp or a coward, yet forgave and led people to freedom - and most importantly, He laid down His life for people. He is the long awaited Hero, the real one that all things and stories point to. A read of the Bible reveals the Jesus, truly, is what true masculinity actually looks like. He is obviously God, but He also a true man. May God bless you.

    • @sanane66543
      @sanane66543 Год назад +3

      ​@@SpeakTheTruthLouderJesus pbh is no god he is a prophet look at his actions: 1.praying to god saying "o father why has thou forsaken me" indicates he cant save himself and asks god why he didnt. 2.Jesus prayed with his head on the ground to the 1 and only god. if he was god he obviously wouldnt pray to someone else makes 0 sense. i got lots more but id like to think people here have common sense these 2 points already prove Jesus cannot be god

    • @fungi-pt7vn
      @fungi-pt7vn Год назад +4

      Same here. I also need a figure. Maybe this is the one.

    • @timmorakinyo9529
      @timmorakinyo9529 Год назад

      ​@@fungi-pt7vnBe that figure to your kids and to the world.

    • @BigCarris_53_64
      @BigCarris_53_64 Год назад +7

      I hear ya on that bro, and that fricking sucks. Most of my male family members are okay, but not great. It’s especially my dad who’s very wise. He’s 58. Keep hanging on, bro. Keep going, and I hope you nothing but success, financial stability, and more.

  • @kentjener8856
    @kentjener8856 Год назад +492

    1. Define icon/ideal of masculinity
    For example, Gary Cooper
    - Soft spoken, didn’t talk a lot, not aggressive or pushy, knew who he was, knew what he wanted, knew what was right and wrong and stood for it, didn’t assert himself, but when pushed extremely strong inside, balanced
    = have a sense of control of who you are
    - True inner strength is quiet and calm
    - Having extreme quality like bragging how great they are is a sign of insecurity
    - Don’t talk more than necessary
    - Let action do the talking (Your achievement)
    - True strength is able to take criticism
    2. True masculinity has respect for women
    - don’t feel need to insult or push them around (Chivalrous attitude toward women)
    - Inner security/ confidence seductive and attractive
    - Ranging and panicking and yelling and angry show weakness
    - Sign of success is not just making a lot of money but also longevity
    - To become master of what you are doing
    - Do not have to go and grab things to prove you self, it will all come to you if you have the inner strength

    • @chandradeepkumar9589
      @chandradeepkumar9589 Год назад +21

      TRUE masculinity means respect women not bitches.

    • @prathambhardwaj7038
      @prathambhardwaj7038 Год назад +39

      ​@@chandradeepkumar9589true masculinity is respect for everyone not only women

    • @A-uc7lq
      @A-uc7lq 11 месяцев назад

      ​@@chandradeepkumar9589
      You don't have the time for bitches

    • @RamloghunLuv
      @RamloghunLuv 11 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@prathambhardwaj7038 exactly bro

    • @aerah76
      @aerah76 11 месяцев назад +6

      ​@@prathambhardwaj7038 True masculinity is realizing not everyone deserves respect and selectively cutting them off from your life

  • @K1L01-4
    @K1L01-4 Год назад +1083

    when i read his books, i see him as an articulate author with life experiences. when i hear him speak beyond what he writes, i see him as an influencer with traditions & values. Thank you, Mr. Greene!

    • @Eternal.Stoics
      @Eternal.Stoics Год назад +25

      *”Do not fear having no friends. Fear having bad friends” ~My life taught lesson* ( more wisdom in my channel)

    • @patrickprendergast9589
      @patrickprendergast9589 Год назад +4

      yes he is awsome love to meet him some time

    • @THExRISER
      @THExRISER Год назад +6

      And like, the true definition of the word "influencer" not the modern, bastardized definition.

    • @K1L01-4
      @K1L01-4 Год назад +3

      @@THExRISER the term "influencer" should be an urban dictionary term in a modernized context than a traditional XDXD. the term gets tossed & conflated now a days that people often associated it for clout. correct me if im wrong.

    • @THExRISER
      @THExRISER Год назад +7

      @@K1L01-4 Yeah pretty much, any online celebrity is referred to as an influencer simply because of their ability to influence/reach people, regardless of the quality of said influence.

  • @huzaifath40
    @huzaifath40 Год назад +40

    "The goal is not to make a bunch of money... but to be a master in your field and extremely creative... Then things will come to you" 💝💝💗

  • @perezah7852
    @perezah7852 Год назад +742

    "Power over others is just weakness disguised as strength" - Eckhart Tolle.

    • @H3XED_OwO
      @H3XED_OwO Год назад +5

      Pretty much lmao

    • @razumikhim
      @razumikhim Год назад +6

      bot

    • @perezah7852
      @perezah7852 Год назад

      @@razumikhim Yeah, I'm a bot. It's finally here: ruclips.net/video/DLzxrzFCyOs/видео.html

    • @dodgewolf8587
      @dodgewolf8587 Год назад +10

      that some hard hitting quote

    • @erko78
      @erko78 Год назад

      That’s a stupid quote. Power over others is… power.
      That sounds like some dumb beta male shit to make people feel better. Even Robert Greene would disagree with that quote.

  • @mruk616
    @mruk616 Год назад +400

    Robert Greene is a gem for the youngsters, I hope he reaches to more and more young people so they can understand briefly about life

    • @wotiop237
      @wotiop237 Год назад +2

      What

    • @wotiop237
      @wotiop237 Год назад

      @neevmohamednadheem956 self help culture is a joke

    • @AchieveWisdomAndPower
      @AchieveWisdomAndPower Год назад

      As a 14 year old,my friends are degenerates and that’s a good thing.
      They are easy to manipulate due to the fact that they lack wisdom and haven’t read the 48 laws of power.
      They all depend on me when it comes to Mathematics,history,science
      I have gained their trust and I shall use law #12

    • @yashtapase3821
      @yashtapase3821 10 месяцев назад +1

      Young people scrolling instagram

  • @Mahdi_Oruz
    @Mahdi_Oruz 2 месяца назад +7

    17 year old and I’m truly happy that I have gotten the chance to listen to Mr Greene’s words of wisdom at such a young age and develop myself to be the Top 1% of men. No bragging ❤

    • @gettingsomerest
      @gettingsomerest 12 дней назад

      Ayo i saw your name and it’s a shia iraqi name
      انت عراقي ؟ 😂❤

  • @deltasanakiss9781
    @deltasanakiss9781 Год назад +59

    Sometimes back i had lost purpose in my life. When i read your books and listen to your pieces of advice,i changed.Long live King

  • @JustTheTruth-Please
    @JustTheTruth-Please Год назад +498

    This is quality advice this gentleman is giving for free, thank you. And, if I may add, as a mom to a 30 yr/old son who has struggled in this current world and as a woman who has surrounded herself with smart, caring, capable men through life long friendships and in marriage, if you want to know how to be a good partner and what a successful man does in a relationship, find a hella old couple in your life and ask the man what he does, who he is, how he succeeded. Find you an old man who is still making his bride fall in love every day. Signed, 26 years married and still getting love notes every single morning from my adored husband.-- I am glad I found this channel and I am glad young men will get a chance to hear good advice instead of toxic, mean nonsense.

  • @xdisruptor6630
    @xdisruptor6630 Год назад +74

    0:58 is solid gold. It's the first time I noticed the word 'virtuous' being used out in the open to describe what we as men should be striving for. Hats off to Robert for saying it out loud.

    • @nullset2
      @nullset2 Год назад +9

      It's the same stuff I keep getting from everyone: "the only true good is virtue", which is true, but doesn't address the deep, pervasive alienation I'm immersed in.
      Like, sure, all I can do is to keep going, but that doesn't address that I'm expected to live in a cold, uncaring world that is constantly conspiring to destroy me, and that I have to do it completely on my own, without any respite, brotherhood or filiality.
      It feels disingenuous in the sense that it feels as if people are just telling me to shut up and go back to my nintendo (or back to work). As if I'm expected to be nothing but a secular, soulless golem of the industry. This is why everyone has this thousand mile stare now.
      I'm 33. I'm all alone in a new country where I'm a foreigner. What do I do now?

    • @doffy_doesnt_cap1082
      @doffy_doesnt_cap1082 Год назад

      @@nullset2interesting take.

    • @astronautical1060
      @astronautical1060 Год назад +2

      @@nullset2 I would say seek out community in this new country. Find enclaves of people who belong to your culture and try to befriend some of them. It may not work out, but as you said, you are currently alone, so any opportunity for fellowship should be seized. Regarding that, if you are religious, try speaking with the people at your preferred house of worship. Most religions are about building community and fellowship and those who are truly religious are usually quite friendly. Take risks. Talk to strangers. You never know where a conversation with someone you don’t know might go.

    • @caucasianafrican1435
      @caucasianafrican1435 Год назад

      It's funny how anti-virtues, like blabbing your feelings openly to strangers, have replaced traditional virtues, like stoicism. It's undercurrents of Marxism.

  • @angusyoung119
    @angusyoung119 Год назад +133

    I always thought I was judgmental for being like this. This is truly what my thought process has been MY WHOLE LIFE. I dont know if I have myself or my parents to thank for that, but either way, this video showed me that Im conducting myself the way I need to, and that Im on the right path. Stay strong, kings.

    • @nicktaber2969
      @nicktaber2969 Год назад

      Why did you think it was judgmental?

    • @angusyoung119
      @angusyoung119 Год назад +1

      @@nicktaber2969 well, admittedly, I can be judgmental at inappropriate times, so sometimes it's hard to know when I'm being "judgmental" or just staying true to what I believe.

    • @Galifamackus
      @Galifamackus Год назад +1

      @@angusyoung119if i could chime in, I highly recommend reading his book Laws of Human Nature.
      Didn’t really care for books until then, it let me combine the book’s ideas and my life experience into a whole new and intriguing worldview

    • @SpeakTheTruthLouder
      @SpeakTheTruthLouder Год назад +5

      Please consider looking at the life of Jesus and all he said and did in the books Matthew, Mark, Luke and John in the Bible. To me He is actually the ideal man, not just theologically, but actually. Jesus is really a real man in the sense that he led, taught, inspired, gave without expecting things back and modeled kindness without being a wimp or a coward, yet forgave and led people to freedom - and most importantly, He laid down His life for people. He is the long awaited Hero, the real one that all things and stories point to. A read of the Bible reveals the Jesus, truly, is what true masculinity actually looks like. He is obviously God, but He also a true man. May God bless you.

    • @TrietLyCuocSongGSH
      @TrietLyCuocSongGSH 11 месяцев назад

      Sounds very nice and meaningful. listen to it over and over again

  • @ethanhamm3823
    @ethanhamm3823 Год назад +124

    You’re saying things that need to be said. Thank you! I’m a 20 year old man in a screwed up world where men are not men. Doing my best to be a man every day. Thank you thank you!

    • @Yusuf-ns6uo
      @Yusuf-ns6uo Год назад

      You are not alone warrior

    • @Tobialder
      @Tobialder Год назад +1

      Keep up!

    • @yavuz9038
      @yavuz9038 11 месяцев назад +1

      dont just be a man, be a business man young lad man's life is cheap.

  • @rodrigodiaz9472
    @rodrigodiaz9472 Год назад +217

    I own and have read all your books. I've watched all your videos and interviews etc. You have helped me in an unbelievable way. Long live Robert Greene!

    • @joshsmith4459
      @joshsmith4459 Год назад +2

      What was your favourite book of his?

    • @rodrigodiaz9472
      @rodrigodiaz9472 Год назад +5

      @@joshsmith4459 honestly, all of them and I go back to reread them

    • @aimgodturn7455
      @aimgodturn7455 Год назад +3

      @@joshsmith4459 human nature

    • @youngest8598
      @youngest8598 Год назад +4

      Can someone buy me laws of human nature and send it to me 🙏

    • @YDAh88
      @YDAh88 Год назад

      @@youngest8598 yeah sure 😂😂

  • @thegreengatsby9803
    @thegreengatsby9803 Год назад +36

    I love you, Mr. Robert Greene :D - I was binging your interviews and podcasts yesterday and I was so relieved that your wife saved your life that day. I am so happy that you are with us today. I am tearing up as I write this. I am grateful to her as we all are, I am sure. I am reading Art of Seduction thoroughly jotting down my notes on the margins of the pages. Thank you so much for this video as there is too much noise regarding men's self-improvement. As a woman, I root for men and the fact you are seeing that young men my age (I am 1995 borne) feel directionless and are addressing it speaks volumes. Your voice in this space will bring some real sense of calm, strength and guidance to a lot of young men (and to young women like me). Please continue with your message as the role of the Patriarch is sorely lacking in our society and you are one of the few trusted figures who can occupy that position.

    • @owengreene382
      @owengreene382 Год назад

      I mist his podcast, his wife saving his ife.

  • @sumit.thakur
    @sumit.thakur Год назад +40

    That's such a great eye opener, Thank you so much Robert for uploading this **Life Changing** video, that is , in true sense is a life changer for those who understand it, and the positive impact it provide to those who truly understand this is amazingly so infinite that it's hard to give quantify
    I commit to implement the following in my life from today
    1. I commit to Be calm, energetic, cheerful, exited and extremely hard working
    2. I commit to utilise every second of my life in a truly productive activity
    3. I commit to never complain about anything
    4. I commit to dress like a man everything
    5. I commit to look happy everyday
    6. I commit to enjoy hard work in life and be ambitious, hard working, and continue my 10X mentality
    7. I commit to leave masterbation, TV, Non useful video,TV, unwanted call with not so successful people.
    8. I commit to be disciplined to do my own work without needing someone to remind me like Morning activities on Time, Committing to what you said
    9. I Commit to be diplomatic enough to follow the principle in my book and ensuring to not harm any poor man/woman

  • @maximelagace
    @maximelagace Год назад +52

    I think about this quote a lot: "Do what is right, not what is easy nor what is popular." -Roy T. Bennett

  • @glennabela6005
    @glennabela6005 Год назад +19

    Love this! I think with Greene having grown up in an age lacking social media, helped him be the individual he is today. Everything feels superficial nowadays and the toughest part of it it being deemed at outsider if you refuse to be a part of it. Stay strong kings.

  • @Nevermore093
    @Nevermore093 Год назад +19

    Robert is one of the top wisest of our generation. I have all his books. My favourite is 33 Strategies of War.

  • @piratenLjos
    @piratenLjos Год назад +7

    Every young man / teenager should listen to this

  • @nate-nf9sv
    @nate-nf9sv Год назад +12

    I read a book called Models by Mark Manson. In this book, he firstly discusses a similar idea that "we lack a clear model of what an attractive man is" and then provides a similar approach, which requires knowing who you are, facing your weaknesses without being afraid to show them, and so on.

  • @wanghaowang5790
    @wanghaowang5790 11 месяцев назад +5

    Be a gentle man , be a master , be a helper !

    • @JakeTheHappyGuy
      @JakeTheHappyGuy 11 месяцев назад

      Merry Christmas bro!

    • @superfluous5162
      @superfluous5162 11 месяцев назад

      Too much title 😂

    • @Ie4s
      @Ie4s 11 месяцев назад

      Master what? 😅

  • @UnknownPencil
    @UnknownPencil Год назад +120

    Robert, this came at a great time, I’m just turning 18 and I’m the transitioning phase, words cannot describe the impact you’ve had on my life, my upmost sincere gratitude,
    Harbin

    • @drgeorgek
      @drgeorgek Год назад +3

      You’re so fortunate to know this at such a young age… some never do. These are great tools to have for your entire life.

    • @Kelyanz
      @Kelyanz Год назад +1

      I turn 18 in a month no pressure...😅

    • @Kelyanz
      @Kelyanz Год назад +2

      Haha I turned 18 today.

    • @vitorfurtado7862
      @vitorfurtado7862 Год назад

      @@KelyanzHappy belated birthday!

    • @Kelyanz
      @Kelyanz Год назад

      thank you

  • @Andreas-gl7oo
    @Andreas-gl7oo Год назад +22

    He just roasted Andrew Tate so hard. Tate literally is the opposite of everything that you explained and I fully agree with you

    • @fabiz1123
      @fabiz1123 2 месяца назад +1

      Tate is doing it on purpose to gain power,Law #6:Court Attention At All Cost

  • @nortavon
    @nortavon Год назад +4

    And for the young of heart! Thank you for the reminder.

  • @valimg1184
    @valimg1184 Год назад +9

    Much love Mr. Greene.
    I arrived in the West 5 years ago at 15, coming from an Eastern-European background. I never had a problem with not having a father growing up, but the last years have challenged me to discover the man I want and need to become for my clan and me.
    I want to extend a heartfelt thanks for the content you put out.

  • @RealRobinson
    @RealRobinson 10 месяцев назад +1

    "If action speaks louder than words then may I deafen you," is how I sum up this type of attitude. Robert is sharing fundamental principles that are the bedrock of success. This is how you truly build a legacy.

  • @bennjogu1421
    @bennjogu1421 Год назад +10

    Powerful! When you are all angry and yelling, take a step back and tell yourself, "I am being weak".

  • @susza89
    @susza89 Год назад +339

    Thank you for all your hard work Mr. Robert 🙏
    1 random book you wrote has much more value than all the crap I was told to read at school.
    The education system almost convinced me that reading is a waste of time...
    I wish you and your family all the best in life. You trully deserve it.

    • @quigglyz
      @quigglyz Год назад

      The purpose of the education system is to kill your curiosity, stifle your creativity, and turn you into a mindless worker bee who never questions the existing power structures. It made you dislike reading, which means the system did its job correctly. But you survived it. As a result, you are stronger.

    • @RJ12347
      @RJ12347 Год назад +3

      *Random* ?

  • @ishungchan
    @ishungchan Год назад +12

    One author and his words can change lives. Thank you, Robert, as a young man I need this kind of guidance.

    • @RobertGreeneOfficial
      @RobertGreeneOfficial  Год назад +9

      Thank you for watching.

    • @risepheonixpopculture8197
      @risepheonixpopculture8197 Год назад +5

      I'm 42 years old, my net asset position is nowhere near what it should be. I have Multiple failed relationships and never really had a career. Still found this video uplifting.

  • @jeremiah4471
    @jeremiah4471 Год назад +6

    All of the things you mention Robert Greene were things I was naturally doing when I was in my early childhood, but then I hit my teens and these ideals were lost. I am now 21 and I am glad I found this video to remind me that of basic things like having an almost role model is important, being humble and respectful to others around you. A simple message which gets lost in the noise sometimes.

  • @joncard2941
    @joncard2941 Год назад +12

    I'm 76 years old. When I was a kid my Dad told me about Clark Gable. He said,"women love him, and men love him too." Thanks Dad, I get it.

  • @fujisensei27
    @fujisensei27 Год назад +4

    I love this, real man is respectful. 😊

  • @cutza7
    @cutza7 Год назад +24

    I wouldn't be at this point in my life without you, thank you so much for sharing your wisdom.

  • @sagenosnibor9173
    @sagenosnibor9173 Год назад +83

    I have two boys. The lack of role models in today's society really concerns me. Thank you for your input 🙏

    • @RobertGreeneOfficial
      @RobertGreeneOfficial  Год назад +27

      You’re welcome.

    • @Anthony-dj4nd
      @Anthony-dj4nd Год назад +26

      Where's their father?

    • @ShredzZ
      @ShredzZ Год назад +9

      @@Anthony-dj4nd probably divorced or dumped for chad/tyrone 😂

    • @benzun9600
      @benzun9600 Год назад +5

      Their father should be the role model. No need to look in society

    • @sagenosnibor9173
      @sagenosnibor9173 Год назад +10

      Again, men are always missing the point! The assumptions of my life or children's father are laughable.
      The internet is where trolls shine best so I won't take away your moment, God Bless 🤗.

  • @mihailfelixdumitresc
    @mihailfelixdumitresc Год назад +1

    100 % agreed. How to get there instead, seems to be the true challenge. "No man is an island" goes the saying; helping others without expecting anything in return, is the way to get there in my understanding.

  • @asktheaunties5839
    @asktheaunties5839 9 месяцев назад +3

    As a woman, I love everything expressed / taught in this video. I will also say, he is correct about how & what women respond to in terms of a man’s character. ❤ I wish these lessons/teachings were taught in K - 12.

  • @chanlujock
    @chanlujock Год назад +3

    When I'm deeply engaged in chasing my dreams, my inner power goes through the roof - even with small progress. Exactly how Dr. Greene is explaining. Otherwise, I get pulled back into my shell of darkness, which is what I believe is the root of toxic masculinity.

  • @gravy3858
    @gravy3858 Год назад +10

    appreciate it Robert. Needed this. I turned 21 yesterday

  • @juanfelipegomezchirino140
    @juanfelipegomezchirino140 Год назад +4

    You made me cry, Mr. Greene... Thank you very much for such beautiful reflection.

  • @alfie8645
    @alfie8645 Год назад +3

    This was very much needed. Thank you Robert Greene. The way I see it, the most truly masculine man is the man who never stops and questions his masculinity. Self-confidence is self-acceptance and self-knowledge. It really all comes from within. Nothing needs to change externally for most of us.

  • @staciehaneline9533
    @staciehaneline9533 Год назад

    You're absolutely right! I am repulsed by men who show off and brag.

  • @CorinthianIvory
    @CorinthianIvory Год назад +27

    I have great respect for you Mr. Robert Greene. I'm not sure why everything is so confusing these days, but I am grateful to have a guide like you in this world. Your books have helped me to become who I am.

  • @sergios9338
    @sergios9338 Год назад +9

    You are my ideal person. I truly admire you. Your books have been a life saver for me, I recommend them to everyone. Thank you.

  • @worldaround6520
    @worldaround6520 Год назад +1

    It is good to not attack people but it is also important to tell people when they wrong and why they are wrong.

  • @zakinabyzada4275
    @zakinabyzada4275 Год назад

    In the darkest times, hope is something you give yourself. That is the meaning of inner strength

  • @Mynameisdarkxxo
    @Mynameisdarkxxo Год назад +21

    He’s so right about everything, as a women, for some reason it’s very easy to tell when a guy is trying to impress you; some guys overdo it, their dominance comes off as if they’re on edge, near a breakdown lol women love calm men, it feels safe. Huge difference between confidence and bragging

  • @loujackmorgiewicz8541
    @loujackmorgiewicz8541 Год назад +16

    I heard once in a verse in Proverbs that “wisdom is shown to be true by those that live it.”
    I feel as if everything he described are things we know are right, but we rebel against them because society says it’s cool.
    Robert, your advice is something I think my grandfather would tell me, too. Thank you so much for reminding us to treat people the way we know we should.

  • @timcj8375
    @timcj8375 Год назад +9

    This completely opened my eyes, because if you brag about a woman you got with, it pretty much screams that you dont think you can pull or keep a girl of that value. If you don't brag about the girl, you might just be confident, and believe that you deserve her-type thing

  • @Dghhvgjnb
    @Dghhvgjnb 7 месяцев назад +1

    Im in deep waters, health issues etc, but your advices, wisdom, knowledge, life exprience have helped me to realizing/understand how some things truly work, thank you for everything. 💪🏽👍🏽 I hope/wish for you happy, joyful, healthy life. 👍🏽 (:

  • @zazenh
    @zazenh Год назад +103

    I'm not a young man anymore, but I agree with what you advised . I actually took your recommendation to watch High Noon as I had heard of it and was curious about it. Excellent movie! Gary Cooper is a great example of masculinity and a gentleman. Not easy not to defend yourself when being opposed and challenged, but definitely a virtuous character trait to aspire to. And it works.

    • @sriig
      @sriig Год назад +1

      whatever happened to Gary Cooper?

    • @amalrajpr6800
      @amalrajpr6800 Год назад +2

      @@sriig the strong silent type

    • @TrietLyCuocSongGSH
      @TrietLyCuocSongGSH 11 месяцев назад

      Sounds very nice and meaningful. listen to it over and over again

  • @timmorakinyo9529
    @timmorakinyo9529 Год назад +15

    Knowing who you are gives you joy from within and When you realize how superficial our social societies are and the impermanency of our existence,so the power is to stay anchored and centered at the core of our Beings.

  • @True38
    @True38 Год назад +38

    I agree 100% with this message, especially about sustaining and maintaining your power and wealth instead of being a one-hit wonder. As a Strategist in life, this is one of the most important aspects I can think of because it doesn't matter how much resources I have today if it can all be taken away from me tomorrow.
    Thus, to be proactive and make decisions yesterday to create a better tomorrow is an absolute must in life, as well as having a long-term plan in terms of your job and career. Trust me on this one because I've been in the rat race for over 20 years earlier, and I've always ended up with little to nothing. I'm 38 years old and I STILL don't own my own house, so that says it all.
    So no matter how many great job opportunities that are out there, they simply don't concern me unless they are both sustainable now, as well as in the future. That is the ONLY way to sustain what you have at all times. Also, saving and investing your money for the long-term to achieve financial freedom is also a must that everyone should take seriously.
    By combining these two approaches and strategies in life, you will be MUCH better off in the long-term than to just grab whatever is right in front of you. Also, don't EVER think about having kids unless you are 100% financially stable or you will mess up your life. I've seen this happen to people throughout my whole life and they end up stuck and literally have to say YES to everything and everyone to survive, letting go of all of their personal power, freedom, and dignitiy in the process.
    I promised myself all my life that I would NEVER end up like a sucker like that because like Robert Greene has pointed out in his own books, humans usually don't change their behavior unless they have to. Thus, humans also "don't care" unless they have to. It's not all that black and white of course but it is much of reality.
    So yes, be strategic in life, make good and smart long-term decisions, and never flaunt your wealth to anyone unless you want to stirr up more hate and envy than necessary. Because believe me, that will come your way regardless whether you like it or not. Best to keep a close inner circle of trust then.

    • @DERRICKLEONIDAS365
      @DERRICKLEONIDAS365 Год назад +2

      NO DISRESPECT BUT YOU CANT CONTROL ALL OF YOUR LIFE. AT SOME POINT YOU HAVE TO LET GO AND LET GOD. YOU SAID YOUR 38 AND YOU DONT OWN YOUR HOME, KEEP LIVING IT WILL HAPPEN. GOD BLESS YOU.

    • @BB-mq9qk
      @BB-mq9qk Год назад +3

      You still have life and your only 38, my man you have another 40 years on earth if all goes well! So owning a home is still possible if that’s your life goal just saying.

  • @holyvergutierrez4070
    @holyvergutierrez4070 2 месяца назад

    He is the kind of mentor that we need.

  • @highten
    @highten 4 месяца назад

    This is relief for those who haven’t any real drive. Life is about the fight, the hunger, the fire.

  • @elijahdr
    @elijahdr Год назад +7

    You're my favorite author for a reason, thank you Robert 🙏

  • @josephpezold2383
    @josephpezold2383 Год назад +6

    Robert, you have truly changed my life for the better over the past couple of years because of your work and advise. Thank you so much

  • @PeresNewton
    @PeresNewton Год назад +6

    Robert Greene will be the saviour of humanity. Such an intelligent man, there was a reason why God saved him from death. Hey Robert, may you have long life and great health. Amen

  • @rameshnoori566
    @rameshnoori566 Год назад +2

    This message is very powerful but most people can’t understand what Robert is saying 🔥

  • @lisab5716
    @lisab5716 Год назад +1

    I've learned from this man to never say I'm sorry... Say thank you for being patient and it's amazing I get excused for everything

  • @blackdiamond5977
    @blackdiamond5977 Год назад +4

    Absolutely correct and vital to remember in today's age.

  • @ccriztoff
    @ccriztoff Год назад +8

    Throughout this video Robert was describing my personality. This initially made me feel good but then concerned me because deep down I still feel like I could be better, do better and I feel as if I know nothing. If what Robert says is true then me being how I currently am will have all these wonders come to me but that just hasn't been the case so maybe Im not who I think I am. I wish I could uncover my deficits which would allow me to fully actualize my potential.

    • @BirdTurdMemes
      @BirdTurdMemes Год назад +1

      I can't take any comment by someone with a Sam Hyde pfp seriously

  • @ivefa2872
    @ivefa2872 Год назад +5

    how fortunate we are to live in a time we can have your mentorship

  • @rafaelgaspargervasio
    @rafaelgaspargervasio 9 месяцев назад

    You covered so many important points in so little time. You're also such a charismatic speaker. Amazing.

  • @kaushalthakkar8590
    @kaushalthakkar8590 10 месяцев назад

    Right things will come to you when you develop inner strength 💯

  • @adamruzzo
    @adamruzzo Год назад +4

    A fresh (and wise) voice on the subject. Thank you!!

  • @dannya5076
    @dannya5076 Год назад +5

    Robert... thank you, as ever. It makes a difference to young men to have strong role models who are speaking sense in simple, accessible terms.

  • @rohenry9962
    @rohenry9962 Год назад +5

    I was actually expecting you to make a video like this and was wonder when you would. Thank you Mr. Greene. 🙏🏽

  • @Zonthoria
    @Zonthoria Год назад +1

    I hope everyone discovers themselves. Just remember it is never too late!

  • @matthewromme3490
    @matthewromme3490 10 месяцев назад +2

    Doubt this comment gets much traction but encourage everyone to share this video with 1 young man who would benefit from hearing this excellent message.

  • @med_essellami
    @med_essellami Год назад +4

    A very valuable video that I hope will find lost men around the world.

  • @Wave.6
    @Wave.6 Год назад +4

    Thank you very much for finding an opportunity to share you wisdom with us, Robert. I wish all the best to you and your close ones. You change lives of young (and not only) men.

  • @mimicanada1957
    @mimicanada1957 Год назад +5

    Thank you so much Mr Green you’ve helped me a lot at work! I work in a bank as a teller! I am a woman and I agree men need to have versions of masculinity they admire. I discovered you through Jordan Peterson and finishing 48 laws of power and I’m about to start the laws of human nature. Just wanted to express my thanks 🙏

  • @firewoman7722
    @firewoman7722 Год назад +1

    This is also great advice for women in accessing & and expressing their masculine side

  • @AndrewTheVikings
    @AndrewTheVikings 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you Mr. Robert Greene, you basically helped me understand what a true masculinity is. We live in the world where everything is going backwards and there is small numbers of role models and mentors that are useful. This is what I need to go through in life. Again thank you Mr. Greene.

  • @DeanKulaweera
    @DeanKulaweera Год назад +4

    Thank you Mr. Greene - we need positive male role models like you.

  • @unkulture
    @unkulture Год назад +5

    Thank you Robert for the timeless words of wisdom. Please, I'll want you to talk extensively on self analysis; how to analyze oneself and the things to look out for and how to track one self to know who/what one really is.

  • @holisticallyme556
    @holisticallyme556 Год назад +62

    Such a pity we are losing those values in this new generation whereby masculinity is linked with bravado, aggressiveness and showoff material power. Positive vulnerability is key it keeps one grounded and in touch with reality … thank you, Robert.

    • @True38
      @True38 Год назад +12

      I agree but masulinity is also attacked in other ways, mainly by feminist and woke people who can't stand real men and their so called "toxic" masculinity. We MUST embrace our true nature of masulinity and be and act like real men, and not girls. Otherwise, real work can never be produced in the world, and there can never be healthy relationships between men and women.
      Also, we are ALL different in our own unique ways, and Robert Greene would be the first one to tell you that. Thus, there is no point going around judging people unless they are really screwed and talk utter nonsense.
      Besides that, we need to accept people for who they truly are and not what we want them to be. Yes, we could all do and be better, and we should in fact strive to be the best version of ourselves but we also have our own limits that each and everyone of us must consider. Some are just meant to be President, wheras others are meant to be a Singer.
      So just stay True to yourself because that's all that matters. Nobody's perfect, and at the end of the day, nobody really cares.

    • @holisticallyme556
      @holisticallyme556 Год назад +2

      @@True38 where is the normal living we used to having bsck on the 90’? 😅Was i that naive or life has just become too complicated ? at 40 I feel I know nothing st times 😉🙃

    • @AwakenZen
      @AwakenZen Год назад +1

      Blame the gays

    • @Jf_1900
      @Jf_1900 Год назад

      It's all Hollywood's fault

    • @True38
      @True38 Год назад

      @@holisticallyme556 Believe me, I miss normal living as well. Back in the days were so much easier, now everything has to be complicated. It's just sad.
      Luckily, you can always live your life on YOUR terms and not anyone elses. I ignore and stay away from this BS as much as possible.

  • @furqanshafiofficial
    @furqanshafiofficial 10 месяцев назад

    You're right. Inner strength is the main game

  • @unknown-xo5jh
    @unknown-xo5jh 4 месяца назад +1

    The best advice that I ever heard.Thank you 💝

  • @m0n6rch
    @m0n6rch Год назад +19

    Thanks Robert, I really needed these words at this point in my life. I have read all of your books and have been studying human nature & psychology on my own accord through life (21 now)
    I'd just like to say I truly honor & commend you and your work, for the wisdom you have given back to the world. You are a gift to us younger generations, trying to find hope in an ever growing hopeless society.
    I believe you will be spoken about for years to come. Very wise & articulate man. If you are reading this Robert, I wish you nothing but the greatest health, wealth & happiness for the future my friend.

  • @aubreymcgovern9467
    @aubreymcgovern9467 Год назад +237

    For someone who has not started their investment journey but done a-lot of research. in this economic climate, am I better to save and enter the market when I see companies at my price points or to invest a % of my savings each month.

    • @liambracey6708
      @liambracey6708 Год назад +3

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      @richardsoncuthel810 Год назад +2

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    • @taylorcoggan2054
      @taylorcoggan2054 Год назад +1

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    • @richardsoncuthel810
      @richardsoncuthel810 Год назад +4

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      @sebastianspiegler5801 Год назад +1

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  • @muddyblooddy6022
    @muddyblooddy6022 Год назад +6

    Take criticism. Secure.
    Deep respect to woman. Not dominate them.
    Control emotion.
    How to last many years, not one hit wonder. Long term carreer. A master of what you do.

  • @victorevolves
    @victorevolves 11 месяцев назад

    I am 20. And I am learning from your books and videos. Thank you, Mr. Robert

  • @subhasish_barui
    @subhasish_barui Год назад +1

    I read your Mastery and choose a career on my personal inclination. I quit my general study of theoretical physics and became a graphic and motion designer. Each and every word you said is true...Thank You Robert, I owe you.

  • @fosres
    @fosres Год назад +38

    Thank you, Robert, for reminding this of the importance of inner strength, inner confidence, and a sense of deep purpose. I think this is something we are not reminded of enough when we are young.

  • @Low-key-reviews
    @Low-key-reviews Год назад +5

    I was actually searching for answers related to current situation which I am going through. This is the positive guidance I needed right now. Thanks for being such a nice person and sharing these ideals with us.

  • @mr.avocado
    @mr.avocado Год назад +17

    Another advice for all men. Don't take this too literally or don't try to force this ideals into you. Remember, we are all kids trying to be adults, we sometimes want to cry, feel frustrated, feel mad, and you got to take care of him. Following ideals is a sign of inner strength, and knowing when to not to follow them is a sign of more inner stregth and wisdom.
    And also, those seeking woman, don't obviously search inner stregth. It is true that having it may make woman search for you instead of all the way around, but if you want to have the best probabiloties you have to put yourself out there too. And these doesn't only applies to woman, but job opportunities, friends, money or any goal out there.
    And most importantly, don't make this wisdom words (from the video) become YOUR wisdom. Don't ever be afraid of taking steps and failing, and making errors and mistakes, cause that is the only way you can learn and create your OWN wisdom.
    Stay strong folks! :D

  • @erikvazquez559
    @erikvazquez559 8 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for everything Mr.Robert🙏🏽 you’re one of the ones that changed my life

  • @ShallExplore
    @ShallExplore Год назад +2

    Robert Greene put in decades of hard work and smart work. It's visible through his works.

  • @henzdomstedt4853
    @henzdomstedt4853 Год назад +4

    a genuinely strong masculine man doesnt want to harm anybody, it may seem like it because he is sometimes hard, direct and honest without caring about your reaction, he doesnt want to take advantage of anybody just for his personal interests, he doesn't want to oppress or decieve anybody and wants to let anybody live however they want.
    He wants to leave a positive impact and value on the world, on his community and future generations. He has an strong set of values and principles, his friends, family and his woman, which are all holy to him, and he wants to protect and sustain these things/people and his personal boundaries to be respected. If any of these are violated or threatened, he is ready to defend them, if necessary, with violence or even by sacrificing his life. If you're not ready to die for something, you live for nothing.

    • @MRB39919
      @MRB39919 Год назад

      Tell this to the men that get women pregnant during their “test drive” and then run off and cry when held accountable for child support! It’s absolutely absurd!

  • @joeybrunello
    @joeybrunello Год назад +5

    Thank you for your work, sir. It is much appreciated.

  • @ashkanrahimi620
    @ashkanrahimi620 Год назад +9

    dear robert greene I just want to thank you for all your great works and how your work has no specific target audience and can help everyone get better no matter what stage of life they are at. I am a 21 year old college student from Iran and the impact your works have had on my life so far have been very immense. I hope that you are always well and that the world gets to see more of your great works.

    • @rezagrans1296
      @rezagrans1296 Год назад

      گاگا چطوری ‹گاگا› ؟!?😊😀🐻مشاهده می گردد چس چس چس هموطنا مدام سر پاچه خاارجیآ صف بستند ها... انگد خودشیرینی ننما، ممک اینجلیسیو نکش گاگااا!🦓! بفرما ب[ن]شین کمی پارسی (نه فارسی- که صوووووبت کنیم. کنس, بدو بیا کنس. زنده باد ملاها و جمهوری اسلامی💯🐨🦥🥇💃🐼🕺

    • @rezagrans1296
      @rezagrans1296 Год назад

      اُهو اسکو بیا جامونه عوض کنیم اسکو، شمائا پاچه لیس گربیا تشیف بیار کونادا ممبیام ایرون، شرط اینکه تهرون نباشی چمُغلی

  • @jacobbj
    @jacobbj Год назад +3

    U know what makes this video better? The comments!
    I love reading these stories, quotes, and self-affirmation from my brothers here.
    Keep it up my bros, let's all try our best to be good men and make a better world 🫶🫶🫶

  • @Abdiaziz48
    @Abdiaziz48 Год назад

    Robert has really shaped our lives. He will truly live with us forever. Long live Sir.

  • @immanuel_offixial
    @immanuel_offixial Год назад +1

    I never comment videos, but your advice is so great. I want to thank you a lot for the work you do

  • @premeditation6596
    @premeditation6596 Год назад +5

    Sir, you are a true gem, thank you so much for changing my life in good way

  • @shadmodir
    @shadmodir Год назад +6

    This is so true. When I look back at male characters that I've truly admired throughout my own childhood I see that they did believe in what they stood for, but they never tried to force others to believe in those things, too.
    Sadly I see myself try to prove my point to people and help them understand my beliefs, I've tried to stop doing it, but haven't been successful just yet.
    I remember my grandpa such a worthy gentleman;He was kind, he stood up for what he believed, however he never was harsh or angry with anybody, he was a war martyr in the Iran-Iraq war.
    Thank you for sharing this!