Yo Lucid, I just wanna say you are awesome! I watch you here and there and have been subbed for a good while but I just want to say keep being you! I’ll be 22 in August and I’m a proud virgin! I love that you understand how truly important losing your virginity to the right person is! It isn’t supposed to be about the temporary physical pleasures that you feel but the connection and growth that occurs between two people that love each other, and you understand that! So props to you man, love you and your content, stay lucid! ❤️
I felt like I should've saved my V-Card.. sometimes I sit back and realized " what was I doing..? " but I still don't regret it only because everything happens for a reason. We all do things we would never think we would've done. The story unfolds and all you have to do is continue your life for the better.
yeah cuz it wont be good to do it with someone and then you just feel like they abandoned u probably, idk, never tried. You gotta do it with someone who is your partner and u both love each other.
From a female perspective it was really interesting to watch this beacause I Remember when I was in school any guy friend I had would be trying way hard and obsessed with losing it and I still Remember all of my girl friends trying to get me together with guys so I could lose mine and at the time my morals were definitely different but for some reason every time I got an opportunity something in my gut would tell me not too glad I never did because now that my faith in God is much stronger I understand he has a bigger plan for me and I made the promise to myself to wait until marriage
I understand the mentality of waiting until marriage (though I think it is pointless since people can truly love each other outside of marriage), but it is actually best to have the experience beforehand since compatibility in that respect is important. There are many who waited until afterward, ended up being too incompatible in that respect, and were forced to go through the hassle of separating.
@@transcendent7lucidity Sexual incompatibility is definitely something you can work on with proper communication. Your argument only applies if you are planning to stay with the person for a short time. Also, dating someone purely because of sexual attraction, and not by their morals, values and personality is a recipe for disaster.
@@cappuccino2901 Actually, it is not something you should be dealing with after marriage. It is something to find out about soon enough before marriage and then decide if it can be resolved or if it means that the relationship should end. No, there are definitely cases in which the people wanted to stay together for a long time but could not resolve it. I am definitely talking about people who actually cared about each other. I am just saying that for people with such a desire, it is important for the both of them to be satisfied enough in this regard. Waiting until after a marriage to learn what is the case is the true recipe for what you said.
I'm 26 and I've had sex many times and I can tell you straight off the bat without hesitation that living a life of discipline and self-control is FAR greater and more rewarding than giving into short term pleasure. I even slept with some really attractive women and felt nothing after. I also had bad sex before and men need to realize that they can have bad sex because the media seems to teach men that sex is like the holy grail of satisfaction in life which is most unfortunate. Men need to learn inner strength and emotional detachment to live a life of satisfaction. That being said though, I don't regret losing my virginity because I learned that sex isn't all that it's cracked up to be and to be honest, I have had some sweet experiences with women despite some unfortunate heart break in the past. You keep doing you, Lucid.
@idkjusttired? I'm not turning him down, and not making it to a week is bad as well. Im just saying don't congratulate yourself for barely having any control over yourself.
what a rip!!!!! i thought you was talking how you lost the vcard file where your identity was kept. you know the virtual business card that macs have so you can digitize, import and share your calling cards.
Idk how this is so entertaining Anyways yea, I’ll follow in the footsteps of lucid. Whether I like it or not I’m staying a virgin, not cuz I have discipline but cuz that’s how it woulda been anyways 👍
Lucid, I too almost fell like to women, but then I installed Arch Linux and realized that women are proprietary; their source code isn't FOSS. Hence, I rejected them. GNU/Linux is the way to go for an automatic anti-thot shield.
Waiting for the right one that you know you’re going to be with for life is worth more than all the instant gratification of doing it with just anyone anytime.
@@adampalmer4159 yup, which is why it would be difficult for me to form a real relationship, I wanna be able to trust someone, but I also can't shake the fact that they could become completely different with the snap of a finger, I also think that way about myself, thinking I could be one way, then years later I completely change and ruin things.
@@adampalmer4159 here's why I think we should try a bunch of different enjoyable things with that person, other than sex. That's how I think, you're dating a human and if they can't accept that way of living, it is a red flag for me definitely.
Well it deppends how u choose to look at it but anyway however you choose to look at it you will always be right and wrong so having an opinion about it is good but doesnt mean its the right one cause there isnt like for me i choose to believe that sex is a form of advanced communication where you are really connected with the other person you know what she wants and vise versa you are drawing the same breath the same body temperature and yadayada but that is only my opnion i dont believe its the right one and therefore i repecte your decision to wait for the fright one just dont take it as the ultimate way to go
As a virgin myself, here goes my opinion, people should treat their V-cards with proper dignity. Through the time I see people flexing on others that they've lost their V-cards (when the majority of the cases is about lusting). It feels weird to imagine ourselves doing it, I speak for me at least. We should preserve it, then lose it with someone who's worth our energy. I speak for both genders, there's a lot of things to do with your girl/boy, having a trustable and mostly credible human being aside you is something rare and so special that I believe sex should be the last thing we could care about. Despite being part of the natural human essence we are rational beings and sometimes our desires can't be fulfilled as we think they should, be rational mostly and live life the way it should be lived even if it means to sacrifice instant pleasures. Stay lucid and stay on the grind.
losing your virginity isn't a big deal. who says sex has to be this sacred ritual that can only be done with someone u will spend the rest of your life with. don't get me wrong its fine to do so if you want, no harm with saving your v card with someone you love, but just saying "casual sex is a bad thing" and nothing else is just a baseless assertion.
@No Commenting that is obvious, but not everyone is interested in people to just fuck🤦♂️ some people have genuine feelings towards others Edit: fixed spelling mistake
Yeah I agree, you can have the intention to be in a long term relationship and find the right person for you, but without going on dates how are you gonna find them besides arranged marriage?
@@Kenhai When Lucid was saying that a girl calling him for a day out could've resulted in him losing his v-card, I think he was talking about what he probably would've wanted to do. He was low-key saying that he wanted to at the time.
@@AhmeddR6 some ppl have no choice,unless you do some Ted bundy shii which at 20 I’m not opposed to anymore cuz I see no other alternatives and the lights are looking very dim for me
@@keandrethegoat1169 my bad i misread the comment and thought it said something like being together with a girl for 3-5 years and still not having sx lol. As for not having choices you're still young theres still alot of time left bro, just let it be and eventually the right one will come. Being single is way better than having a pointless and toxic relationship
I lost my v-card two days ago and I did because I actually like this girl and she means a lot to me. Keep up your journey tho bro, I hope you find the one!
How old are you btw?? Just wondering cuz im gonna be 23 this year and still have my V-card so i just want to make sure age doesn’t make anything too late.
Mad respect to you Lucid, every time I've decided to leave a possibly sexual situation with a girl I've found myself wishing I had just gone for it and lost my vcard, and every chance I get I feel closer to doing it and my discipline feels weaker. It helps to hear from someone else with similar values that's preserving their virginity, stay strong boys💪❤ Don't let peer pressure or impulses beat you Edit: Btw I am by no means some Brad Pitt lookin mf thats pulling hot girls left and right, Ive just somehow gotten lucky a few times kinda like Lucid lmao
as a non-virgin i wish i can go back in time and stop myself from losing my virginity i was at a terrible place in my life and i thought it would make my life better but i just plateaued
Dude, do you really think that having sex once ruined your life? Nah, the people brainwashing you into thinking virginity is important ruined your life.
You know Im afraid of whats going to happen when I find myself in a situation where I have the chance to lose the v card to someone I dont love. I fear that I wouldn't have the foresight to say no to it and back away from it like you would. Great video though, as always
@@faouri. Seems obvious, yet when intimate moments that may at the time seem like a once in a lifetime opportunity come along, common sense and self discipline seem to get thrown out the window. Lucid literally had to be held back twice before he finally decided that he wasnt going to take the third chance.
Subhanallah this reminded me of surah yusuf. When yusuf (a) said Muaad Allah. When the Amir’s wife was trying approach him in an inappropriate way. He called for Allahs aid. May Allah protect us from haram acts
yo lucid i've been watching your videos for a very long time but i dont really comment much, anyways, i commented to tell you that i am a very huge fan of your content. your videos always make me want to think twice before doing something, and that has affected me mentally, and has changed my life for the better. you are the reason why im on nofap btw. im 13, and ever since i found out about your youtube channel, i started doing nofap because of your motivation. heck, i don't even remember what day im on, probably somewhere around 40, lol i dont really know cuz i dont count my days. anyways, thank you. your motivation is very helpful. and thank you, again. i dont know what kind of a person i could've became if i didn't find out about your channel. again, thank you! you are one of my fav youtubers, lucid. i hope you have a good day.
“She advanced towards him, and he would have done likewise, had he not seen a sign from his Lord. This is how We kept evil and indecency away from him, for he was truly one of Our chosen servants.” Yusuf, Ayah 24
Idk why you think you must've had sex with those girls if they asked you out. If they liked you it could've been a nice relationship. Also depends on you how you hold the situation, it can turn to sex or it can turn to relationship from that point.
This kind of moral grounding could only come from religion, from an atheistic hedonistic perspective it's all the same really it doesn't matter, the goal is the fun not the meaning. I appreciate how you implement Islam and you help Muslims and non-Muslims with this. May Allah bless you and guide you and us all.
I'm Christian but only by statistic. I try to live my life with morality and respect for the people around me, not out of fear for the firey pits of hell. I also think that sex should only exist as a construct of love, and not of lust/empty pleasure because it's animalic, not human. If we were born with the ability to live by emotion and/or rationality, why should we act on our primitive instincts? It's negating your privilege to live as a human. As a creature that can choose to do good.
@@zaxlorax7605 I respect that very much. I appreciate your perspective on it, not many people especially in the west have this sort of views on the matter. But where do you get this morality? And how is it superior to any other morality? Like why is respectvis better than disrespect? I think your take on the matter is a mere opinion -again respected- but it's still a subjective view with no real objective grounding if it's not based on the grounding that comes from religion. Why such views even if they match religious views wouldn't have real intellectual objective grounding hence a mere opinion? Simply because objective morality could only come from something outside the universe or else it's all subjective and relative (there's so much more to this, I'm not trying to prove it here, you can check some YT videos or some books on subjective vs objective morality, also conversations between theists and atheists). Also, I didn't say anything about heaven and hell so it's strange theat you associated morality with that. 'Cause from my perspective, even if there was no hell, if *it has been proven to you* that the supreme all-knowing creator of the universe gave you guidance to live your life, it would be utterly illogical and stupid of you to neglect it and follow your own limited take on things. Hell in this case is a deterrent to the illogical emotional driven-by-desires beings who try to cause corruption which could be any of us at some point or another in life. I applaud you if you read all of that.
Controversial opinion but the longer you go without ever having sex the worse the experience is probably going to be considering your partner will have had way more experienced men than you Everyone's first experience is over quick and it's not a huge deal honestly it's more of a practice run 😂
Oh and also not to mention a huge part of finding the right partner is the sex, it can literally make or break a relationship depending on how much each person enjoys it.
@@minivdesigns I think he was referring to how the chemistry revolves around it with the person so like being compatible I think is more important than love because without it there ain’t nothing either
I really dont know why , but somehow your video's always make me get into tears . It's like you're my guiding light, i actually love your life experiences.
I have nothing but respect for those that *choose* to wait for the right one (May it be a friend or a love). People back when I was a teen used to obsess over losing it and pretty much bully those that didn’t rush to dip into the easiest girl (which isn’t always the case because some of the dudes would pressure girls into sex just to brag about it). Live your life with dignity and respect.
I turned 21 recently and I still have my V-card. Losing it isn't that important to me, it's not something that I really seek. If it happens with someone I care about and have known for a long time, then sure bring it on. I'm not going out looking for this person, I'm just gonna wait and see what happens.
I agree, I waited and found someone perfect. It might not always happen but when you do find that perfect person it feels amazing, you don’t always have to be chasing someone if you don’t want to
Guys I really need to know this does nofap make you happier cuz ever since I hit puberty it feels like there’s a filter on me and I’m always tired and sad
i think i never had even chance to lose my V.. or i never even tried, mostly i lived on my pc since elementary school, maybe i little regret that as i have 0 IRL friends and im only talking to my internet friends and family. (I'm 20 btw)
Ladies and gents we all learn from our mistakes and experiences. In a world where humans sell their souls for momentary pleasure, let us learn from one another to become the root of modern humanity’s betterment. Join the club if you haven’t already💪 iamlucid.gg
Fortnite battle pass, I just shit out my ass, Booted up my PC Cause I need me To get that Fortnite battle pass I like Fortnite did I mention Fortnite I like Fortnite It's night time I mean it's 5 o'clock That's basically night time Y'all remember cartoon network Adventure time
My husband and I are both Muslims and we were both each others first. I wouldn’t have it any other way and neither would he. You will not regret keeping yourself pure. Keeping in mind that as a youth I was never a religious person but I always knew the importance of virginity.
This is the best video that I've seen by you ! ! ! ! THIS VIDEO WAS INSANE ! ! ! ! Even my heart was pumping listening to the stories - I haven't felt like that in aaaaagggeeeeeesssss ! ! ! ! !
This might be my favorite video I’ve ever posted.
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cant wait bro
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10:55 bro, you didn't save your virginity, you saved your dignity. Your virginity is free to be given to your wife once you get married inshallah.
we need more of lucids life story’s
We agree
Yeah
stories* 🤓
go out there and make your own brother
Facts lucid can you go a little deeper into your life story’s?
This confirms that Lucid is not only peng, but a great friend
peng 🤣🤣 its leng
@@videomake7839 both terms have the same meaning g
@@videomake7839 u can't be over 15 😂 peng came first
Yh peng came first but it sounds weird Ad nobody says it nm
@@videomake7839 Ur a washed lil yute who is barely 17. People in their 20s like Hamza say it
Yo Lucid, I just wanna say you are awesome! I watch you here and there and have been subbed for a good while but I just want to say keep being you! I’ll be 22 in August and I’m a proud virgin! I love that you understand how truly important losing your virginity to the right person is! It isn’t supposed to be about the temporary physical pleasures that you feel but the connection and growth that occurs between two people that love each other, and you understand that! So props to you man, love you and your content, stay lucid! ❤️
I felt like I should've saved my V-Card.. sometimes I sit back and realized " what was I doing..? " but I still don't regret it only because everything happens for a reason. We all do things we would never think we would've done. The story unfolds and all you have to do is continue your life for the better.
Weak.
@@vdstreetzzz7713 huh?
@@vdstreetzzz7713 "Think twice, speak once."
@@vdstreetzzz7713 bro only looked at the first sentence
I’m saving that for marriage, people might think I’m dumb for doing it. But I just think it’s the best way.
Same because it's better than chasing women in everyday
yeah cuz it wont be good to do it with someone and then you just feel like they abandoned u probably, idk, never tried. You gotta do it with someone who is your partner and u both love each other.
That's dumb
@@fortnite.burger ☠️ alright
Lol that's what's all nerdy virgins say "I'm saving for marriage" shut the hell up and admit no woman wants you
Allah protected you from zina brodie
someone wanting to meet up dosent mean that lol
2 new member early videos!??!?! LETS GOOO
From a female perspective it was really interesting to watch this beacause I Remember when I was in school any guy friend I had would be trying way hard and obsessed with losing it and I still Remember all of my girl friends trying to get me together with guys so I could lose mine and at the time my morals were definitely different but for some reason every time I got an opportunity something in my gut would tell me not too
glad I never did because now that my faith in God is much stronger I understand he has a bigger plan for me and I made the promise to myself to wait until marriage
I understand the mentality of waiting until marriage (though I think it is pointless since people can truly love each other outside of marriage), but it is actually best to have the experience beforehand since compatibility in that respect is important. There are many who waited until afterward, ended up being too incompatible in that respect, and were forced to go through the hassle of separating.
@@transcendent7lucidity ppl who waited until marriage have lower divorce rates than others
@@transcendent7lucidity Sexual incompatibility is definitely something you can work on with proper communication. Your argument only applies if you are planning to stay with the person for a short time. Also, dating someone purely because of sexual attraction, and not by their morals, values and personality is a recipe for disaster.
@@cappuccino2901 Actually, it is not something you should be dealing with after marriage. It is something to find out about soon enough before marriage and then decide if it can be resolved or if it means that the relationship should end. No, there are definitely cases in which the people wanted to stay together for a long time but could not resolve it. I am definitely talking about people who actually cared about each other. I am just saying that for people with such a desire, it is important for the both of them to be satisfied enough in this regard. Waiting until after a marriage to learn what is the case is the true recipe for what you said.
@@cappuccino2901 To respond to FFF's comment, it is actually the case that those rates are higher for people who wait.
My man! Missing on those moments is what made us all get to know you. Man I'm damn thankful. Truly an interesting story, huge respect to you bro
I'm 26 and I've had sex many times and I can tell you straight off the bat without hesitation that living a life of discipline and self-control is FAR greater and more rewarding than giving into short term pleasure. I even slept with some really attractive women and felt nothing after. I also had bad sex before and men need to realize that they can have bad sex because the media seems to teach men that sex is like the holy grail of satisfaction in life which is most unfortunate. Men need to learn inner strength and emotional detachment to live a life of satisfaction.
That being said though, I don't regret losing my virginity because I learned that sex isn't all that it's cracked up to be and to be honest, I have had some sweet experiences with women despite some unfortunate heart break in the past.
You keep doing you, Lucid.
Bruh i miss jailbreaking. Miss Jailbreakme.
I’m on 16 days currently you helped me realize my purpose
you're proud of 16 days...
@idkjusttired? I'm not turning him down, and not making it to a week is bad as well. Im just saying don't congratulate yourself for barely having any control over yourself.
Thats nothing to be proud of
@@beak_essence- You dont have control over yourself because you cant stop eating
@@xeox4280 ?? No I'm alive because of it.. .that's totally different. You don't need to watch tiktok girls to survive
It's sad that literally 13 year old kids even think about this as a priority, or actually you know, back in my old days things were really different
lucid the chosen one
what a rip!!!!! i thought you was talking how you lost the vcard file where your identity was kept.
you know the virtual business card that macs have so you can digitize, import and share your calling cards.
love that you kept it 100% real, good video
It's wild to me how "go out with girl" means gonna have sex.
Lucid , this is for you. You seem so much happier man. I'm happy for you dawg.
I think u should have that conversation with @sneako
That would be sick ngl
ALWAYS FREAKY WITH THE BOYS
Lucid is a fcking Gigachad ngl
Wow. I really enjoyed this video, it seems like you restored your old energy and even better ⚡. Hope you're having a gr8 day/night bro❤
Idk how this is so entertaining
Anyways yea, I’ll follow in the footsteps of lucid. Whether I like it or not I’m staying a virgin, not cuz I have discipline but cuz that’s how it woulda been anyways 👍
trust the process bud
I am a V word and I know I don’t have a chance with most people but my opinion is that you should treat the card with regard
What’s up Broski 🦋,
Proud of you Lucid😇
dang he sold... and the profit was immeasurable.
W Man right there
I'm new to you're channel been about 2 month. I am 21 year old virgin.🤝
Almost lost my V card to a girl who my friend said was hot but she would not respect my boundaries of not drinking
Istg this guy gets into unpredictable situation
Choose the right one.
W Lucid
I love you, Lucid, you are my idol, changed my whole future life) and all I want is a like from you
Lucid, I too almost fell like to women, but then I installed Arch Linux and realized that women are proprietary; their source code isn't FOSS. Hence, I rejected them. GNU/Linux is the way to go for an automatic anti-thot shield.
Wow bro, your knowledge enlightens me. Arch Linux tho, sounds quite efficient if you have the full toolset you need :D
@@abdur-rahmanstephenson9756 bro 💀
@@mouldywav ik ik'🤦♂
Bit cringy that Lucid thought he would smash on the first date...
AYYY THATS MY BOI LUCID
Crazy cause I had just lost my V-Card, and I regretted it immediately. 💀💀
That was a close one 😮💨
Bro please tell me your kidding about a v card? And having a real one 😂😭😭 bro ya a nerd
Bro almost died, almost lost vcard, almost was atheist like damn
🤣, bro almost wasn't able to fertilize that egg 🍳, but he kicked the sperm next to him down.
what bad about being athiests
Waiting for the right one that you know you’re going to be with for life is worth more than all the instant gratification of doing it with just anyone anytime.
Yeah, but sometimes the “right one” can turn out to be the wrong one and it’s already too late.
@@adampalmer4159 yup, which is why it would be difficult for me to form a real relationship, I wanna be able to trust someone, but I also can't shake the fact that they could become completely different with the snap of a finger, I also think that way about myself, thinking I could be one way, then years later I completely change and ruin things.
@@adampalmer4159 here's why I think we should try a bunch of different enjoyable things with that person, other than sex.
That's how I think, you're dating a human and if they can't accept that way of living, it is a red flag for me definitely.
Well it deppends how u choose to look at it but anyway however you choose to look at it you will always be right and wrong so having an opinion about it is good but doesnt mean its the right one cause there isnt like for me i choose to believe that sex is a form of advanced communication where you are really connected with the other person you know what she wants and vise versa you are drawing the same breath the same body temperature and yadayada but that is only my opnion i dont believe its the right one and therefore i repecte your decision to wait for the fright one just dont take it as the ultimate way to go
No it’s not
As a virgin myself, here goes my opinion, people should treat their V-cards with proper dignity.
Through the time I see people flexing on others that they've lost their V-cards (when the majority of the cases is about lusting). It feels weird to imagine ourselves doing it, I speak for me at least. We should preserve it, then lose it with someone who's worth our energy.
I speak for both genders, there's a lot of things to do with your girl/boy, having a trustable and mostly credible human being aside you is something rare and so special that I believe sex should be the last thing we could care about.
Despite being part of the natural human essence we are rational beings and sometimes our desires can't be fulfilled as we think they should, be rational mostly and live life the way it should be lived even if it means to sacrifice instant pleasures.
Stay lucid and stay on the grind.
Man I agree 💯% on this
Nah bruv its not that deep💯
people should treat the actions they take with respect and dignity. No matter what regard
losing your virginity isn't a big deal. who says sex has to be this sacred ritual that can only be done with someone u will spend the rest of your life with. don't get me wrong its fine to do so if you want, no harm with saving your v card with someone you love, but just saying "casual sex is a bad thing" and nothing else is just a baseless assertion.
if u want to save it for "someone u will love for rest of ya life" then do so but yk doin it with other people isnt bad in anyway i believe
Love the storytimes man u definitely need to make more.
but he does lol
He does a decent amount
Yeah this is great stuff. Awesome to just sit down and have a sandwich to
Comment older than video... RESPECT
Lucid says he’s a virgin, but he’s been rooting iPhones since he was in high school
hahahaha that was a nice one
How is this comment from 6 days ago
@@Saul_gonee you dumb cvnt, people pay money monthly to get early access to the vids.
@@Saul_gonee I’m just quicker than you
@@ToastyYolky sigma vibes
Allah saved you.
Idk lucid, this is probably the only time I'm questioning you, A date doesn't automatically mean freaky time or losing your v card. :/
Yeah lol, I'm a bit confused here too
@No Commenting that is obvious, but not everyone is interested in people to just fuck🤦♂️ some people have genuine feelings towards others
Edit: fixed spelling mistake
Yeah I agree, you can have the intention to be in a long term relationship and find the right person for you, but without going on dates how are you gonna find them besides arranged marriage?
@@kojimasan1714 exactly!!
@@Kenhai When Lucid was saying that a girl calling him for a day out could've resulted in him losing his v-card, I think he was talking about what he probably would've wanted to do. He was low-key saying that he wanted to at the time.
this guy is so innocent and pure hearted, mature as well, what a legend
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Bro is not innocent 💀
Don't lose it till you find a girl you're compatible with. Let it take 3-5 years, doesn't matter.
Shit ain't worth it my dawg.
Keep it forever ,ain’t nobody waiting no years just keep it infinitely at that point
Nah thats bs. 3-5 years without having sx is almost impossible
@@AhmeddR6 some ppl have no choice,unless you do some Ted bundy shii which at 20 I’m not opposed to anymore cuz I see no other alternatives and the lights are looking very dim for me
@@AhmeddR6 you did it as a kid, why can’t you do it now?
@@keandrethegoat1169 my bad i misread the comment and thought it said something like being together with a girl for 3-5 years and still not having sx lol. As for not having choices you're still young theres still alot of time left bro, just let it be and eventually the right one will come. Being single is way better than having a pointless and toxic relationship
I lost my v-card two days ago and I did because I actually like this girl and she means a lot to me. Keep up your journey tho bro, I hope you find the one!
If you love that girl and she loves you it was worth it
How old are you btw?? Just wondering cuz im gonna be 23 this year and still have my V-card so i just want to make sure age doesn’t make anything too late.
@@scorgi0just find urself a wife bro
Mad respect to you Lucid, every time I've decided to leave a possibly sexual situation with a girl I've found myself wishing I had just gone for it and lost my vcard, and every chance I get I feel closer to doing it and my discipline feels weaker. It helps to hear from someone else with similar values that's preserving their virginity, stay strong boys💪❤ Don't let peer pressure or impulses beat you
Edit: Btw I am by no means some Brad Pitt lookin mf thats pulling hot girls left and right, Ive just somehow gotten lucky a few times kinda like Lucid lmao
Lose it to a special person and not in a "situation" you feel me?
as a non-virgin i wish i can go back in time and stop myself from losing my virginity i was at a terrible place in my life and i thought it would make my life better but i just plateaued
Frfr for me. I didnt really care. Virginity is a social construct. But I think to each their own wait for the right one.
Dude, do you really think that having sex once ruined your life? Nah, the people brainwashing you into thinking virginity is important ruined your life.
Was she ugly?
We really do need more of Lucid's life stories there so entertaining, the way he tells them tho 🤣
You know Im afraid of whats going to happen when I find myself in a situation where I have the chance to lose the v card to someone I dont love. I fear that I wouldn't have the foresight to say no to it and back away from it like you would. Great video though, as always
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@@Dave-ob4cy idc, every video is great
You just need to have self discipline
I've thought about this many times before
@@faouri. Seems obvious, yet when intimate moments that may at the time seem like a once in a lifetime opportunity come along, common sense and self discipline seem to get thrown out the window. Lucid literally had to be held back twice before he finally decided that he wasnt going to take the third chance.
lucids got a micro 100%
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Subhanallah this reminded me of surah yusuf. When yusuf (a) said Muaad Allah. When the Amir’s wife was trying approach him in an inappropriate way. He called for Allahs aid. May Allah protect us from haram acts
Aameen
What about me?
@@aggressivetoast wdym?
Bro has the closest calls in history bro 💀
Ngl just cos a girl says wyd don’t mean you’re gonna smash 🤣
alhamdulillah. great video.
He's gonna say something like "I almost lost my V-card" the actual card not his virginity
MashaAllah Allah is the best of planners
Lucid.. I love you man. But have you ever considered that maybe they just wanted to hangout? and not go down bad on someone
I was thinking the same lol
LOL
Bro you know God had a hand in the whole phone thing 😂
Indeed ma boi Lucid that was FIRE 🔥!!!!
yo lucid i've been watching your videos for a very long time but i dont really comment much, anyways, i commented to tell you that i am a very huge fan of your content. your videos always make me want to think twice before doing something, and that has affected me mentally, and has changed my life for the better. you are the reason why im on nofap btw. im 13, and ever since i found out about your youtube channel, i started doing nofap because of your motivation. heck, i don't even remember what day im on, probably somewhere around 40, lol i dont really know cuz i dont count my days. anyways, thank you. your motivation is very helpful. and thank you, again. i dont know what kind of a person i could've became if i didn't find out about your channel. again, thank you! you are one of my fav youtubers, lucid. i hope you have a good day.
“She advanced towards him, and he would have done likewise, had he not seen a sign from his Lord. This is how We kept evil and indecency away from him, for he was truly one of Our chosen servants.”
Yusuf, Ayah 24
So True!
Idk why you think you must've had sex with those girls if they asked you out. If they liked you it could've been a nice relationship. Also depends on you how you hold the situation, it can turn to sex or it can turn to relationship from that point.
This kind of moral grounding could only come from religion, from an atheistic hedonistic perspective it's all the same really it doesn't matter, the goal is the fun not the meaning. I appreciate how you implement Islam and you help Muslims and non-Muslims with this. May Allah bless you and guide you and us all.
I'm Christian but only by statistic. I try to live my life with morality and respect for the people around me, not out of fear for the firey pits of hell.
I also think that sex should only exist as a construct of love, and not of lust/empty pleasure because it's animalic, not human. If we were born with the ability to live by emotion and/or rationality, why should we act on our primitive instincts? It's negating your privilege to live as a human. As a creature that can choose to do good.
@@zaxlorax7605 I respect that very much. I appreciate your perspective on it, not many people especially in the west have this sort of views on the matter. But where do you get this morality? And how is it superior to any other morality? Like why is respectvis better than disrespect? I think your take on the matter is a mere opinion -again respected- but it's still a subjective view with no real objective grounding if it's not based on the grounding that comes from religion. Why such views even if they match religious views wouldn't have real intellectual objective grounding hence a mere opinion? Simply because objective morality could only come from something outside the universe or else it's all subjective and relative (there's so much more to this, I'm not trying to prove it here, you can check some YT videos or some books on subjective vs objective morality, also conversations between theists and atheists). Also, I didn't say anything about heaven and hell so it's strange theat you associated morality with that. 'Cause from my perspective, even if there was no hell, if *it has been proven to you* that the supreme all-knowing creator of the universe gave you guidance to live your life, it would be utterly illogical and stupid of you to neglect it and follow your own limited take on things. Hell in this case is a deterrent to the illogical emotional driven-by-desires beings who try to cause corruption which could be any of us at some point or another in life. I applaud you if you read all of that.
@@user-gp4bw4ko1x well said bro MashAllah
8:30 to 9:07 is 100% a tiktok clip ong, I guarantee you a 1m+ views instantly😭😭😭😭☠
ya cuz Girl texts you to hang out=she wants to do the deed😂bro ur so lost
If it's not a friend already yeah that's what it means
Controversial opinion but the longer you go without ever having sex the worse the experience is probably going to be considering your partner will have had way more experienced men than you
Everyone's first experience is over quick and it's not a huge deal honestly it's more of a practice run 😂
True
Oh and also not to mention a huge part of finding the right partner is the sex, it can literally make or break a relationship depending on how much each person enjoys it.
@@Unduruz another truth
@@minivdesigns ratio
@@minivdesigns I think he was referring to how the chemistry revolves around it with the person so like being compatible I think is more important than love because without it there ain’t nothing either
I really dont know why , but somehow your video's always make me get into tears . It's like you're my guiding light, i actually love your life experiences.
bro allah loves you that why you didint lost your card
Allah saved you from haram
I have nothing but respect for those that *choose* to wait for the right one (May it be a friend or a love).
People back when I was a teen used to obsess over losing it and pretty much bully those that didn’t rush to dip into the easiest girl (which isn’t always the case because some of the dudes would pressure girls into sex just to brag about it). Live your life with dignity and respect.
AYOO THANKS TO YOU I KEP MY VCARD AND NOW I GOT THE GIRL OF MY DREAMS
Can't wait for the video title: 'I lost my V-card'
I lost my V-Card last week to the guy who stole my wallet.
I had my vCard until I was 27. Go me !!!
bro was protected by allah preposterously well
I turned 21 recently and I still have my V-card. Losing it isn't that important to me, it's not something that I really seek. If it happens with someone I care about and have known for a long time, then sure bring it on. I'm not going out looking for this person, I'm just gonna wait and see what happens.
lol imagine waiting for someone to look for you
I agree, I waited and found someone perfect. It might not always happen but when you do find that perfect person it feels amazing, you don’t always have to be chasing someone if you don’t want to
Yeah we see why you virgin talkin bout sun yea bring it on 🤣😂
Yo… never loose your v card outside of marriage its zina…
4:26 bro was down down bad back in the days 💀
Allah saved you ahki ❤️❤️❤️
If you have OCD and lose your V-card, your brain will make your life a living hell.
13:20 I see u quoting surutal baqarah ayah 216 sneakly there
;)
Nice catch
Lol I feel like In life u need to let things go yk… it’s kinda sad u still haven’t experience it yet tbh and ur a grown man cmon now…
Guys I really need to know this does nofap make you happier cuz ever since I hit puberty it feels like there’s a filter on me and I’m always tired and sad
At least u chose a very halal choice
Kudos to you! Much respect, bro.
This video made me think… we gotta prevent the homies from getting married. Can’t let them lose the v card
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What?
this aint it lmaoooo
Don't have to get married and that'd a good time to lose a vCard dumbass lol wtf.
i think i never had even chance to lose my V.. or i never even tried, mostly i lived on my pc since elementary school, maybe i little regret that as i have 0 IRL friends and im only talking to my internet friends and family. (I'm 20 btw)
same here im 18
Loser holy shit
that's pretty sad
yep it is, I'm trying now to get back into IRL but i'm just too socially awkward when speaking eyes to eyes.. so it's hard for me now.
Ladies and gents we all learn from our mistakes and experiences. In a world where humans sell their souls for momentary pleasure, let us learn from one another to become the root of modern humanity’s betterment.
Join the club if you haven’t already💪 iamlucid.gg
You learning words from Adam?
There is an imposter amongus
Fortnite battle pass,
I just shit out my ass,
Booted up my PC
Cause I need me
To get that Fortnite battle pass
I like Fortnite did I mention Fortnite
I like Fortnite
It's night time
I mean it's 5 o'clock
That's basically night time
Y'all remember cartoon network
Adventure time
I liked this but I removed my like because the lyrics are wrong.
@@idontknowwhattowritehere.8361 u sure? I mean, I did copy and paste it
@@Lasha16_ Yes sir, It's "Cause I need need".
Still pretty great tho made me laugh!
Here's your like again.
My husband and I are both Muslims and we were both each others first. I wouldn’t have it any other way and neither would he. You will not regret keeping yourself pure. Keeping in mind that as a youth I was never a religious person but I always knew the importance of virginity.
This is the best video that I've seen by you ! ! ! !
THIS VIDEO WAS INSANE ! ! ! !
Even my heart was pumping listening to the stories - I haven't felt like that in aaaaagggeeeeeesssss ! ! ! ! !
We almost lost you soldier. Were you hurt?
GRAND MASTER VIRGIN 😭