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- Опубликовано: 15 дек 2023
- What's up my Beardos and Weirdos!
we're going back into BISEXUAL MEMES!! we haven't covered bisexual memes in ages and i'm stoked to go through this one with you all! bi memes are very fun -- and often feel VERY targeted. 😳
i hope you enjoy laughing along with me in this one. ALSO IF YOU READ THESE, type "HOUSE HIPPOS!!" in the comments!
Do one thing for yourself today that makes you happy. Much love. 💜
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First
Hello OT! Love your videos
Oooh i bet i'd look good in a pair
OT where can I get the Bightsaber? I have a “close female friends” that is Bi possibly Pan so I was wondering where i can BI it lol.
9:25 that audio is Pedro Pascal in Kingsmen 2
I became bisexual by pretending to be gay to piss off homophobes and then realized I actually like men.
Just a smidge of trolling
Too much trolling
Same, but instead of just being homophobes in general, it was my parents.
Fake it till you make it!
Slay
My kid came in one day and asked, "Would you be mad if I told you I was pansexual?" I laughed a bit, they started looking worried, so I said, "Would it make you mad if I said I was too?"
You must be an awesome parent
This is freaking awesome. ❤
They should have responded with "There can only be one."
@ChristyAbbey You really said:UNO REVERSE CARD
@@Moonlight_Wolfie-iz6pz 😆
"I want two boyfriends, and I want my boyfriends to be boyfriends" is my life's goal. I just want men, all around me, who all love me and each other, and we're all extremely gay for each other.
Hey it can be real! Keep strong!
Go on get your harem of men!
So real
polyamory then?
YESSIR GO GET YOUR MEN also that’s really cool
i love the "i come with nuts" comic (at 23:41) because the flat-chested M&M person means they're either 1. A trans MtF girl (dressing female identifies female), or 2. a femboy (dressing female identifies male) and there's no real way to tell which one it is.
The comic creator confirmed that Garrett (The blonde one) is a femboy!
@@amandalynn4979as a fan of an m4m series with a character named garrett, i can confirm
@@amandalynn4979who's the creator I want to read more
@@malachi1970 The creator is Skaroy!
What’s the comic called and where can I find it? Asking for a friend
Petition to make "they were gym bros" the official masculine alternative to "They were roommates".
Yaasssss! The himbos need one too!
Gym bros, himbos, its perfect
here me out: they were fishing buddies
Yes
Here me out-
Tent-mates
Ya know?
Like war?
Ok
OT got out his Bisexual Lightsaber? Immediately a cultural reset. Thank you for all the affirmation, awakenings and accommodating more roommates.
Incredible intro indeed
so I read this before watching and I guess I've been reading too much smut because lightsaber just means a censored dick to me lmao
What a legend ^^
I'm sorry, but Bisexual "Lightsaber".
I'm so fucking sorry. I just saw an opportunity for a joke. I am asexual. I will never make any jokes again.
A BI-saber
CAN WE TALK ABOUT HOW GOOD THE “BECAUSE I COME WITH NUTS” LINE IS?
YES! Now we just need a transmasc version :')
soo smooth
@@your_local_transmasc_warriors_ something about trypophobia and having more holes...
@@dyingofdioxide ... I HAVE a form of trypophobia, but it's more in the sense of how homophobia is meant, something about a hole bunch of holes (get it? Ik its bad TvT) in one place doesn't really scare me, just sort of disgusts/creeps me out/fascinates me
Hope u like donuts bc mine is glazed EWWWWWWW WHAT IS THIS
_"Sometimes it's nice to look at men"_
- One Topic, 2023
👀
👀
😋…I meant 👀
👀
I know it is totally parasocial relationship, but it's always a big boost of serotonin to be called roommates and got boopy. Thank you OT for, like, just existing.
Thanks for being a roommate.☺️
I know, right?!
Words cannot express how happy I get every time he does the boop😭💙
Same. ❤
@@lampekartoffelI don't often watch the outro of videos, but I make it a point to watch and wait for the boop! It makes my day.
@@klash813 Yes! Same! It was a pure coincidence that I accidentally watched the outro of an OT video one day, think it was before the boop, but I kinda liked it and just continued. Then he started to give boops before telling us to get out, and now it's something I look forward to during the whole video🙈💙
I became suddenly bi by kissing my friend as a joke
Nice
Omg what a way to find yourself!
Blushing skeleton emoji is so cute
I was that friend once. I just like kissing people and one girl came over as a dare from her boyfriend, and then approached me on her own 3 more times that night and the next day was incredibly confused. Her boyfriend was, on the other hand, very amused. I think he knew XD
I had a very similar experience and another with a short snuggle but in a purely asexual way. It was very alterous.
I had a thought about that “if you were the opposite gender for a day” and very quickly realized that yes, I am trans.
Good to know!
Congratulations! 🎉 Being aware is the first step... but it's also the most scary step because now you're like of f*ck what do I do now... and being trans looks different for every trans person in terms of transitioning, partially transitioning, and even not transitioning at all! Just know that from a non binary person here that you're valid no matter what.
@@brihebert119 Oh, I'm 6 months past the first step, hun. I'm still trying to feel it out. Mostly because I'm poor and have more pressing matters to worry about first. I at least live in a US state that is very accepting of LGBTQ+ ideas, so there's that.
The "scared the gay out of me" SENT me because that could've been my younger son LOL The fam has several stories in which his long hair got him mistaken for a girl.
My favorite is when he was walking thru a store and some kid remarked "Look at the a** on that girl... Holy crap she's TALL" (He's 6'7")
So he turned around and casually said "Oh thanks Man..." and the kid about fell over.
Idk where the boy came by his wit, but he's my hero. XD
For me its wasn't suddenly bi
It was years of having to undo the homophobia that I'd been taught as a kid and come to the realization that guys can be hella cute
For me it was reverting years of misogyny, it made me more accepting of myself and the side effect made me slowly realise how gay I am
frfr but for me it was every single gender (and the genderless!)
Same
Me except I'm a girl and one day I went "wait why am I supposed to hate gay people again, because they're weird? i'm weird." At like twelve years old. And then proceeded to have a crush on my girl best friend for five years straight 😀
that's why I didn't get it, I was one of them 👍🏼👍🏼
Well you're at 69 likes and I'm not messing with that so 👍
But also yeah me too I had so much homophobia instilled in me from a young age that I would gaslight myself into believing I was straight because it was easier than facing the truth. It took a long time to get over that before I realized that I really like women a lot more than I like men (even though I do have an absolutely amazing bf rn)
One day, OT should end an r/suddenlybisexual video by saying the last word of a meme and then IMMEDIATELY "BYE!" and the video ends without the end cutscene.
Instead of "Bye bye" it's "Bi Bye"
Even better if its just a monotone "Bye.", itd scare me tbh
@@W1ndowP4in scarier than the monotome "kyaa"
He would be suddenly saying bye… I get it
Ideas for next april fools I guess
Found out I was biromantic after one of my friends pretended to be my girlfriend to keep me from getting harassed by boys at school. We never ended up actually dating, we really were just friends, but she did play a key role in me feeling comfortable with who I am today, and I’ll always be grateful to her.
The "I just didn't know what bisexual meant" reminds me a lot of something that happened in my own life
When I was in middle school some older boys came up to me on the first day of class and asked me if I was a lesbian. I didn't know what that meant at the time, but somebody sitting nearby told me to tell them that I wasn't, so I did. I guess I sounded unsure or confused because they started laughing about it, so I doubted it myself and said I actually was, which just made them laugh harder.
Joke's on them though because it turned out I actually AM a lesbian. I just didn't even realize I was a girl at the time.
Oh my god that had more twists and turns than a rollercoaster
That was the best plot twist XD
"Why are you wearing an outfit made entirely out of books?"
It's *plot* armor
😂
Take your 69th like and get out
Uuugh
Great job with that 🤣
Take my like and get out
fun fact. being bi and being a switch means you swing both ways... in both ways
Lol that's me and I'm also genderfluid so i tell my friends I'm fluid in all but the physical sense
@@octagonalpsycho4399 on all levels but physical, i am water
I'm just imagining a really cool ride at an amusement park. Like: you're swinging, and then the bar is also swinging, and everything is like spinning in circles.
@@Astro-fm3bk exactlyyyy
@@Astro-fm3bk A great motivator for staying hydrated, is to replenish and rejuvenate one's genderfluidity /j
As a pansexual, I’d like to say the sims one is accurate. I do speak gibberish and I have, indeed, almost set my parents house on fire.
I hate when i wash my dishes in the bathroom sink 😓😓😓
Man it's so annoying when I can't step over a paper towel 😔😖
22:50 The journey of OT realizing Macaulay Culkin and Brenda Song are married and have 2 kids made me cackle a bit
As a very sapphic bisexual, the rare times a man pings my radar are always a pleasant surprise
Oh, _Hello!_
As a very gay dude, same.
First time it happened I swiveled so fast I got whiplash, followed by a lot of reexamining my preferences.
Same but in reverse. I'm a dude, I like dudes most often, but women... Damn 👀
saaaame, every now and then I see a guy and I'm just like "... yes. Yes indeed, that is a nice looking man" and then can't get them off my mind.
Otherwise it's sapphism all the way down babyyyy
And then a while later she comes out and everything makes sense
@@DRMatt-zd4rh was just gonna ask the original poster how often that happens.
Oh my god, I always feel so ashamed about the, "oversexualization of women, but I like titties," one. Like I'm so glad I was born a woman so I know how it feels, because honestly I swear, girls are really hot, and sometimes I feel like I would have been a really crappy guy if I was born a dude. Honestly so embarrassed.
Omg same! I feel like I'm all modern and forward thinking and then I'm blindsided by (intrusive sexualized thought) and I'm like WTF was that, self?! Can we not be objectifying?!
Yeah this. I like girls and my sexuality doesn't change even though my gender is fluid, and it feels so wrong calling myself a straight guy even when it's true because I'm not one of *those* cishet dudes, y'know, but yet it also feels like I am one of those guys because my reaction to oversexualized women in media far too often is "ooh hot girl half naked, that's sexy!" rather than immediate anger about the oversexualization when it's totally unnecessary. Although it definitely feels different for me than what straight cis guys say and do, I feel like I'm better at self control and not being outwardly creepy and gross about it.
I’m literally dating my gf but I feel bad abt staring at her boobs. I feel the pain. I’m also no better then a man
I feel the same. I'm bi and I'm always thinking about the limits, but sometimes you can't see them. When I'm with my women friends, it's hard avoid to seeing the chest or some parts that make me feel ashamed of myself. Then add that I'm a genderfluid, so I feel worse when that happens. 😣
I was born a guy and it just felt sexist when I saw sexualized women. Now that I'm a trans lesbian, I'm actually able to look at them and be like "holy fuck your confidence in rocking that look is magnetic!" Like, I don't want us to be objectified, but damn I respect the people that are comfortable just doing what they want, you know? Objectification is more than just sexualization, it's also the control of telling people what they can and can't wear, and if people WANT to wear sexy things, why not?
Two things, 1, I am bisexual and felt all of these on a spiritual level. 2, you sir are very fine and do not look weird in the slightest
18:02 Bro I swear if my straight friend tells me “Being Pan is just being Bisexual” one more time I’m gonna flip out.
It's reallyyy incredibly useless to argue about labels. It's all made up, we made it all up y'all. "Gay" itself doesn't actually exist, it's just a term we use to describe a set of things because we wanted to make a term for it. Labels are completely made up boxes
The bisexual lore is shared with the ace community. It’s that meme about switching the purples on our flags because they look better that way
Is there a bisexual/asexual flag code, where these colors are officially defined in hex, or are these codes just colloquially agreed?
They _DO_ tho fr 💜
@@charliekahn4205I'm sure there's an "official" hex code list of pride flag colors *somewhere*, but I have absolutely no idea who is in charge of keeping it "official".
@@charliekahn4205 yeah there's a semi-official hex code based on the original designs, but it's not really a required thing
Kapwing has one, but the purples are almost all different.
Love that OT went from "here's how to make friends at the gym" to debating dating his gym buddy
honestly fair enough
yeah that and talking about the "i want a boyfriend and another boyfriend who are boyfriends and im their girlfriend" as the ideal relationship
Scott reminds me of the time when someone described being genderfluid to me and I was like “I feel like that’s not a thing because like everyone feels that way right?” 😂 like naw dummy but you do, because you’re genderfluid 😂
32:44 OT nooooo don’t get self conscious. I promise no one even noticed, not even after you mentioned it lol. We love you so much and you are such a joy and delight to watch. You look fine anyway, but this audience really watches you because of who you are and what you mean to us.
"So you're like, half gay, half straight?"
"No, fully gay, fully straight. Think of it like Jesus - fully mortal, fully divine"
About all bards being horny af:
Thursday I started playing an socially awkward ace/aro bard with high charisma, who is just charistmatic and persuasive without noticing. It's been fun so far 😂
Thank you for your sacrifice, hopefully this will let me play a sorcerer, warlock or maybe an artificer who wants to lay everyone.
@@toni2309 It's an honor ( honestly I'm kinda playing myself 😅)
I also play a bard and he's not that horny...I mean a bit...but not that much ^^'
My goals is to create a tsundere Rouge ranger ❤
My bard characters are more in the "if not friend, why friend shaped?" I have become an emissary for 3 monster villages, and am garnering a reputation for luck in working out trade agreements.
thought i was straight, then lesbian, then learned that there was a thing called BISEXUALITY!!! i am openly bisexual from then on. :'D
I'm loving the dynamic between OT and his editor. I'm getting strong bratty vibes from the edits and I'm so here for it!!!
I feel bisexual girls get such sh*t for just being with men...I like girls way more but I fell for a bisexual man and was with him for 6 years. He didn't turn straight and neither did I. We just admired people together
People seem to treat it like Schrodinger's sexuality, like being bi just means the waveform hasn't collapsed yet and as soon as you date someone, that cements you as gay or straight
I had one of those. 'Twas *fantastic*!
"Look at that guy over there, he's so cute."
"Omg, you're so right!"
Absolute couple goals
Omg, I love my straight boyfriend, but I'm jealous 😢
(And I can talk with him about that like that, too, but it's more technical for men then. He's a bit of a fit nut, slightly
yeah definitely, I'm a bisexual girl who does have a preference for men, and I'm also hyperfeminine which for a lot of people makes them think im even more "straight" even though, as many sapphics know, hyperfeminine women are actually really often sapphic. a lot of the hyperfeminine alternative fashions attract a huge amount of sapphic individuals.
Honestly, I’ve known I am Bisexual for over 5 decades… and now I’m just happy to live openly🏳️🌈🥰🏳️🌈
❤ Congratulations
@@AramatiPaz you are very kind🏳️🌈🥰🏳️🌈
this is such a sweet story! i’m so happy you’re able to be yourself 💕🏳️🌈
We really need new pride flags emojis 💙💜💖
I absolutely love that. ❤️❤️
0:14 “what’s up roommates” what, no more what’s up my beardos and weirdos?
Us being roommates means RUclips legally can't evict us. (Meaning unsubscribe us) It's an ongoing joke.
I know, I’ve been around for a few years, but still. It’s nostalgic
The "I took a married man to bed.. and his wife" the wife is awake n the video was probably her idea, she's playing asleep. Hubby is still sleeping.
Making friends as an adult can seem very difficult, but remember that "what is your favorite dinosaur?" Is still a good conversation starter, make it light!
Im 43 and I would gladly speak about favorite dinosaurs with anybody of any gender or age. Your theory stands.
@@Alex12111980 Seconding dinosaurs, mine is currently microraptor because TINY FOUR WINGED MAGPIE PROTOBIRB GLIDER!!!!
edit: Though the yi qi is my runner-up second if only because of how odd it is, it's like someone decided to remix archaeopteryx but more bat wing.
@@Alex12111980Same! But now I'm curious, what is your favourite dinosaur?
ankylosaurus. They're super cute and look like little turtles almost and have an awesome club trail for defense! Plus the spikes along their sides. They're just the best for me~
Mines archeopteryx (i think that’s how it’s written) they are pretty cool for being this small and are definitely the underdogs of the dinosaur roster
I was raised in an accepting household, but the only exposure to relationships I had in media was mlm couples and het ones, so I never made the connection that I, a woman, could get a girlfriend. But in middle school, some classmates started talking about sexuality, and when I asked them about it, they gave me the basic rundown. At the end, I just decided "Well, I'll be bi, that sounds like a very cool thing to do." and I've been bi ever since.
"You were born bisexual.
I learned about it in school and immediately converted myself. We are not the same." 🗿
@@tylerphuoc2653like choosing a class in a skill tree after reaching the required xp and storyline progress 😂😂
I read about bisexuality on Wattpad and went "yea, that seems about right." So yea-
Read this comment and thought it said MLM relationships and I was like "So you thought you had to be straight or in a pyramid scheme?"
@@kellymurphy1098 no one fucks you harder than a pyramid scheme 🥵
The bi flirting one is REAL. I literally went up to a girl, went "excuse me, I think ur really pretty and I really like ur glasses" and after she said thanks, I squeaked and ran back to my brother who was laughing his ass off.
starting to suspect OneTopic wears sunglasses so we can't see him watching workouts *respectfully* 😄
So the "bisexuality is default" thing was actually Kinsey's finding back in the day (That both exclusively gay and exclusively straight people were quite rare), and is one of the things people freaked out about the most when he released his reports. Historically there's pretty good evidence for this as well because many ancient cultures like Rome embraced this as well. Being bi was considered normal, and limiting yourself to one sex or the other was viewed as odd.
I would’ve been odd then.
Well. I already am. Autistic, ADHD, germaphobic.
I do actually agree with you about bisexuality being the norm, but as an amateur historian i would like to point out that Rome was perfectly fine with zoophilia and Roman orgies included animals as standard practice, so I am doubtful about them being a very good example
@@pokemagetechare you diagnosed by a professional? I've never heard of someone having ADHD and autism, they're complete opposites, it must be very weird.
@@PeachDragon_ Certainly Rome was more liberal, but you'll find evidence of gay or bisexual relationships in many other histories as well, including Japanese, Chinese, Greek, Egyptian, etc. And even in American history, paying particular attention to military. When men were away from their wives or even just deprived of contact with the opposite sex, some would seek each other to have needs met. In Japanese history, it was common for warlords to find a brothel before a huge battle because they needed their minds clear. Interesting facts. 🙂
@@PeachDragon_ADHD and Autism are almost always diagnosed together.
"Bi lightsabers: we swing both ways" 😂
OMG I LOVE THIS
"Pan lightsabers: We swing in EVERY direction you can think of."
@@GoofyGamer1987 who needs physics when you got a pan lightsaber
@@eli_h3094D lightsaber
@@GoofyGamer1987 "Ace Lightsabers: We don't swing in ANY direction. We hit you." (= a dagger?)
I just wanted to let you know that your laugh invokes such joy in me. It lights up my heart like a Christmas tree 😊
Strongly agree with that! :)
Sometimes I don't care that much about what he says or I don't get it (neurodivergent) or something, but when he laughs I HAVE to laugh too, it's contagious, it's so cute! It's purifying.
31:00 - it might mean you’re just SUPER submissive.
@@b14hb14hyou sure you wouldn't like getting teased?
As a trans man who used to be out as a "lesbian woman" for years, I was so confused about my sexuality and gender, due to internalized trans- and homophobia. It took me getting hospitalized with severe depression to finally start acknowledging my feelings - including that I am a man who really likes other men.
I am also a HUGE Batman fan/nerd, so ofc I was extremely hyped when "The Batman" with Pattinson came out. Went to the movies to see it, and the entire time I just sat in my seat, flustered in a pansexual panic at how attractive Pattinson was as Batman and Zoë Kravitz was as Catwoman 😳
On of my friends had the exact opposite story. She had a lot of internalized homophobia from her parents, but growing up the topic of gender identity never came up so she never got any internalized transphobia. In college she realized that she liked women, and the way her upbringing manifested made her think that she must be trans as men are the ones attracted to women
After a couple years of soul searching and living with different sets of pronouns she eventually realized (these are her exact words on the matter), "Oh, I'm not trans, I'm just a dyke" 😂
Pfft, what's go great about Batman? A pillar of man, shrouded in the darkness clinging to his form like raindrops down his chiseled countenance, his fiery stare just as strong as the fist he deals upon his enemies or the hands he uses to pull a beautiful catburglar into his mighty arms?
Pfft, nothing hot about that...
@@Montesama314 We know it's you, Talia Al Ghul-
@@Montesama314Meh, I can't see all that past the part where he's a cop.
I’m sorry this happened to you, this is an amazing story I’m so happy for you, but I just had to say, agreed, the batman franchise is rlly cool, and she was the hottest catwoman to boot :)
If you saw the alphabet, you're straight, if you saw a keysmash, you're gay, if you saw the funniest word you ever heard, you grew up with Sesame Street.
Oh Big Bird you silly himbo. . .
I did. It’s me!
If you think that's funny, then look at "abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz&". Ay Bee Cee Dee Ee eF Gee aycH aI Jay Kay eL eM eN Ou Pe Queue aR eS Tea yoU Vee *_dubble-you_* eX whY Zee AND per se AND/ampersAND
Now that's a good joke. Ampersand/And in the alphabet. Ha. Who ever thought *that* was a good idea?
Ah, the Elemenoupee, my favorite English word
“If attraction is all it takes, then we’re all bisexual”
Me being ace: if attraction is not all it takes then I’m aromantic.
I’ve gotta admit, your laugh is adorable, but I’m not flirting, because I am a minor, I just like your laugh
I'm not bi, but I am ace and I think there is a surprising amount of crossover between the 2
Yes because actually neither of us gets any action with any sex 😂❤
@@areswalker5647as a kissless virgin biromantic ace, indeed neither we get any shit with none 😂💔
We are not bisexual/biromantic, we are bi-ourselves 😂😂😂😅😅😅
The most epic crossover since Avengers Endgame
People assume we’re exact opposites but actually I’ve heard a lot of ace people spend time in the bi community because they’re like “well I feel the same way about every gender and surely romantic and sexual attraction is something I experience so I must be bi”
I am ace people. Aroace to be exact. Hello~
It was really fun explaining to my pansexual therapist that I’ve been ace all this time when she thought I was bi. I just went “oh, everybody assumes that because they don’t listen to the rest of my sentence when I say I’m biromantic grey aroace. I stopped trying to assert the aroace part at some point since that doesn’t compute in people’s brains as easily which means sometimes I trick myself into thinking I’m just bisexual all over again until I remember I’m not :D”
Fun fact the bi community and the ace community were largely comingled in the early days of the lgbt community, and with same gender attracted aces they were called Bambi lesbian/gay/bi. Bambi I guess used to be a slur for the mlm community (specifically against young bi men) in the 50s but was reclaimed because of someone rediscovering the term “Bambi lesbian” and posting abt it on tumblr!
(Edit: Bambi in this context meaning a sexually fluid and sensitive person who prefers cuddles and kisses to sex)
I think the bisexual vs pansexual argument is the only time Omnisexual and polysexual people are glad to be forgotten, because they don’t have to be dragged into that mess
As an Omni I can confirm
Wait, polysexual exists? I always suggested that we changed the name from pan to poly since it had the same initial and made more sense, btw what are the differences?
@@shadowolfkiller9337Pretty sure poly people are okay with *multiple* partners at once, regardless of gender, while pan people prefer only one partner at a time (also regardless of gender) - anyone feel free to correct me if I'm wrong
@@loreteller. thank you
@@shadowolfkiller9337 No problem
I was a little 'suddenly bisexual' when I first saw the movie Hackers.
Have you seen Angelina Jolie in that role?
Hot damn.
19:26 I was so confused on what y’all were paying attention to, I was low-key, just looking at the number of squats He was doing thinking “I could never do that many Bruh. ” 😂
I think a part of the problem with the guys saying they're hooking up with tons of guys but they're still straight is the lack of separation in sexual orientation and romantic orientation in mainstream society. You can be bisexual and heteroromantic.
The thing is, there have been a lot of times and places where sexuality and romantic orientation have been viewed as separate things, and in a lot of them, being bisexual but not biromantic was seen as perfectly normal and acceptable, either just for men or for everyone - or it was largely believed that the type of love one can experience for one's own sex and for the opposite sex are completely different and so it's fine to hook up with both as long as you're not cheating on a long term partner, or there was a concept of "you marry someone your opposite sex who you can tolerate in order to have children, and then sleep with your same sex friends you actually like behind their back. It's not really cheating because if it's gay it doesn't count the same as if it's straight."
I mean, if he says he's straight, then I believe him. You can hook up with people you're not attracted to. Plenty of people do it. You can enjoy sex with men without actually being attracted to them, just like it's possible to date people without experiencing romantic attraction. More power to him for being so confident in his sexuality that he feels comfortable hooking up with men while still identifying as straight.
It's not just about separating different types of orientation and attraction, you also gotta separate attraction and action.
@@LeyCarnifex I'm ace and I agree, but dude hooked up with 50+ guys, I would say he is at least a little bit bi, but he can use whatever label he feels more comfortable in.
The "95% attracted to X" is what ive learned is called "heteroflexible" or "homoflexible" depending on your flavor, and was how i began my journey to coming out as Bi.
@@b14hb14h
Lol
I KNEW THERE WAS A NAME FOR IT
I am a trans man who got hit up on fetlife by a heteroflexible man. As a trans person it’s so hard to tell if someone is being transphobic or actually heteroflexible
12:24 Holy crap, I didn’t know the Oompa Loompas were real!
Being bisexual is just the two for one special in life
I declared myself as bi in like 5th or 6th grade because my ace ass thought that "liking" both genders meant actually liking them and being their friend 😭
In my defense I was only told by a "friend" that straight means liking people of opposite sex, bi means you like both and homo means you like the same one. We also didn't have sexED, so this was literally the first time I've heard these words
This story was so funny and sweet, and also relatable 💜🖤🩶🤍
STOPP IM AROACE AND I DID THE SAME 😭😭
From what I remember, asexuals were often branded as bi back in the 70s? It was the logic of "Well being bi means you like both genders equally. So No-Attraction Nancy is Bi, since she doesn't like both genders equally."
It’s apparently quite common
Wow. Honestly this sounds like something I'd do if my parents hadn't told me what different words for sexualities meant early 😂
I came out as bi a little while ago and I have known for three years, i have never been more happy. I am so proud of myself :3
I'm proud of you! ❤️
Also proud of you 😊❤
Congrats!
Congratulations!
I’M SO PROUD OF YOUUUUU!!!!! Coming out can be an incredibly personal and difficult thing, you absolutely should be proud of yourself!
Its been so long since I saw this channel, this is the first of your videos to show up for me in about a year!
I had an accidental ally moment in the comment section in one of my videos last month. I’m genderfluid but ⟟ try to look more masculine than feminine. Someone asked for my pronouns and ⟟ said he/they/most of the time. Someone else charmed in and told me that ⟟ can’t change my gender and I’m just ⏃ male no matter how hard i try. I’m AFAB😂
At this point I don't know if OT is trying to tell us he's bi or if he's just still being a good ally
It really doesn’t matter
Straight men can hug men too
I am aware they can but some of the things he says and the fact he got flustered and blushy at one point in the video is just confusing to me
Either way he's getting a cookie 🍪 ❤ best roommate ever
unless he saus otherwise, he's just a straight guy who's jsut compellty comfortable with his identity qnd doesnt mind joking about it amd such
Me: Yeah it's fine to experiment that doesn't mean you're bi it's just healthy sexual exploration
Also me: ONE OF US ONE OF US
Loving this! As a recently out bi, I need more! Also your laugh is super contagious.
OMG the boop at the end and the "get out of here" had me blushing :3
I was confused then he said Mary Christmas you filthy animals and I was like WAIT ONE SEC is that Kevin?!!?!?!?
That bisexual flirting thing is literally so me, i went to gamescom this year and met a female league of legends team i like and one of them is literally so tall and super stunning and i just stopped in front of her and said 'ooohh my god you are seriously so pretty' and then left, almost tripping while going down the stairs cause my cosplay was tight and heavy 💀💀
Sounds so cute ❤ 😂
Not me thinking I was straight for years and ignoring my strong preference for men thinking I just wanted to be like them because I’m trans. The wanting to be like them thing was actually true for a while but once I was more comfortable with myself I realized I was absolutely bi. Also, little shoutout to my fellow biromantic aces out there!
The trick I use for making friends is reverse stalking. Walk up to a random person and tell them where you live. Now they either walk off with a random stranger's home address, or they have to talk to you so that it isn't weird that they know where you live!
ngl OT has to be the best human that i've seen on youtube basically all of his videos are fundraisers, and all of his videos are insperational and are truely funny.
thank you OT for all of the videos you make and including everyone (exept hateful people)
I'm actually a bi Christian, and I've never been happier! God loves you no matter your sexuality or identity, and no one should tell you any different!❤
As a Christian Bi Ace myself, I confirm and agree. 🩷💜💙
Eyyyy fellow bi Christian
Yeah I think LGBTQ+/ally Christians are following the Bible most accurately. It says to love everybody, not to love everybody EXCEPT if they’re so and so.
you have no idea how much this comment means to me. so just thank you for leaving it
Here to add my Catholic lesbian voice to the mix
One of my friends who is a boy asked another one of my friends if he likes boys or girls and I said “I LIKE BOTH” and he said “ your gay and straight at the same time?” And the sorrow I felt in those moments because he didn’t know the word bisexual was very disappointing
I’ve been saying that “everyone is bi unless told otherwise” for YEARS. I’ve never heard anyone else say it before.
I have to love the fact that I click most of his videos for the thumbnail and he actually shows that one every time
50% of this feels more like suddenly polyamorous, and I'm here for it
It's RUclipsrs like OT and threads like this that made me finally comfortable being bisexual. I came from an accepting home but it was here I learned it doesn't have to be a 50/50 split to be bisexual and that I fall into the bisexual camp even if my sexuality is 85 straight and 15 not. So thanks OT for making me finally realize my own sexuality
I love this for you ❤you are so valid
I'm so happy for you! I'm also a bisexual with a preference for the opposite sex, which makes me feel like I'm "too straight" sometimes. But we're here and we're just as valid as anyone else :)
And omg when that 15% hits it makes me realize how *definitely* not straight i am. It's kinda funny how much it still surprises me. XD
@@throughcolouredglasses9300 Yes! This exactly! I feel like an imposter, then the gay creeps up on me suddenly reminding me, nope definitely not straight! lmao
8:35 As a guy who's been training in the gym for a while by myself, I have to say that I'd love if someone wanted to train with me, it'd be down to make a friend in the gym.:D
I believe I have gone too far in the bisexual lore… GREAT DAY TO LOVE BOTH!!!
Am I the only one who took the “some people pull girls, some pull boys, some pull both, I pull a door that says push” one as an Asexual callout post?
I've never heard someone call bisexuality a cult but it was really funny. I'm bi and I immediately went and shared this with my friends so they knew where my allegances lie. Thank you.
14:31 - Eeee!! Kitty Pryde has to be one of my all time favourite X-Men characters - canonically a cosmic being (In a timeline where she eventually became Star-Lord), First Lady of Spartax, part time leader of the X-Men, and played in the live action by Elliot Page!
Sorry, ramble over now. Great to see you back, OT! Me and my sister both discovered our identities through you, so thanks from the bottoms of our hearts for everything you do!
I remember the day I realized I was bi was extremely sudden. I was standing outside of a hotel in California in the rain, on tile, and a guy walked by on the sidewalk and it was right then and there where I realized that my romantic thoughts about men was in fact me actually being attracted to them and not just *weird shower thoughts*.
I then promptly fell flat on my ass when I went to step forwards.
15:42 i think the point of no return would be fearing you're faking it, only to see your type walk by and immediately go "NOPE, I AM BI AS HELL."
Ah yes perfect profile picture
@@strawberrysplitz1566 YOU STOLE MY LINE-
STOLAS BABYYYY! also yes
Stolas: "I'm definitely in love and have even been attracted to my very womanly woman wife--HEEEEYYYY BLIIIIIITZYYYYY"
Why is this relatable as f***? 😂
The bisexual light saber was PEAK. my mom would love that lol
Love the pfp also WORD
@@Samurai_2552 thanks lol
9:51 _I saw a keysmash, realized it was the alphabet, skipped over halfway. I've never felt more called out in my life._
17:52 basically all the lumity interactions from the owl house before they started dating😅
I've said it before and I'll say it again, OT is transition goals. Don't put yourself down OT
OT is certainly an 8/10
@@HauntakuTV
only an 8???????
Im 90% sure this man is the reason I figured out Im bi.
@@HauntakuTV AN 8???? WHAT ARE YOUR STANDARDS???
Oh gods, I just realized OT is my (realistic) transition goal!
He is close to my body shape/coloring, and has a similar aesthetic.
New Official Goal!
Was just thinking that
A real life changer for me was finding out that you can use three different things to describe yourself. You can say who you're sexually attracted to, romantically attracted to and aesthetically attracted to. There was a time when I was wondering if I was bisexual because I love women but when my sister and I watched the vampire diaries I was weirdly attracted to Ian Somerhalder. And I realized I would be interested in him until he'd drop his pants. Now I'm proud to say I'm a biaesthetic homoromantic homosexual
Nobody actually categorizes their aesthetic attraction, never mind lists it with the other two. It's just sort of irrelevant. It's also much less gender or sex based than the others.
This is me, in a way- My first ever non-hetero sexuality was bisexual. I realize now women just look prettier than men (sometimes, femboys beware!) and I'm just a gay trans man
@@your_local_transmasc_warriors_ another trans masc warriors fan?
What a coincidence
Wait, this fits me so well. I like girls 90% of the time, but those few guys, I'd be interested til the clothes came off and then not so much. Heck, some of 'em I would like to make out and cuddle with, just don’t want to go further than that - although whether I draw the line at "both of us fully clothed" "his shirt off, mine on" or "both of us topless" is highly dependent on the individual guy. And it's very rare a guy gets this response from me... and the odd thing is that I don't really have a type, so much as extremely occasionally I'll see a guy and go "That's definitely not a girl, but I still want a kiss and to cuddle and touch that slice of beefcake."
Mostly it's guys with a certain style of beard though, there's something about fuzzy kisses and I think I more like that than I actually want to kiss any of those guys because they look objectively attractive.
@@your_local_transmasc_warriors_Another trans warriors fan?
4:32 - there’s a Christological Formula joke in there somewhere about one divinity and one humanity smashed together lmao.
The "So you can scream my name as loud as you want sugar!" audio is from a movie called "golden" something, I'm pretty sure.
Every time OT does a bi vid, it’s always “buddy, roommate, my guy, do you have something you want to tell us?” But only when it’s not “buddy, roommate, my guy, do you have something you wanna tell yourself?”
21:58 I honestly couldn't tell if they were a femboy, or a pre-top trans woman. Either way, they slaying it 💅💅
I follow them on insta. They're a model, femme presenting.
Real
@@aceanimations3214 who are they?
@@raistlinmills131 Jorge Chacón
I just love your laugh. You're such a good person. Thanks for being cheerful on the internet :)
The conversation on sexuality/ romantic feeling etc from aro/ ace community helped my hubby realize his Sexual attraction is straight but he's demi-romatic 😅 it's so wonderful the conversations being had by those with open minds 😊
It occurred to me that I hadn't felt romantically attracted to anyone in seven years. I paused for a moment to reflect upon all the partners my siblings had had by my age and I began to question why I was so chronically disinterested in everybody. After doing some internet research, I found the label demiromantic and suddenly my entire life made sense.
I am pansexual but I feel like Phantom of the opera is a universal experience in the bisexual community (for the most part. I absolutely love it)
The Phantom from the 2004 movie was my first gay crush 🫣
“I mean as long as their mean to me… 😏”
-OT
OT i was literally making a clip of you talking about your gym spotting experience to send to someone who feels the exact same way about it when you hit us with the “this is too personal no one will relate” lol
a boyfriend date is where the boyfriends paint each other's nails while yelling at great british bakeoff because that fondant won't be done in time and the cake will overflow out of the pan.
I...I want to be part of that date night
I found out about OT after the purple hair, and I can't imagine that he once had completely brown hair. I've looked at the old videos with brown hair, and I still don't believe it.
Same here lmao ❤
Same
The more I see of your content, the more I think you are what would happen if we put PM Seymour and your narrator in a fusion machine
31:04 THIS SOLVES EVERYTHING I’ve been so confused about my identity, now I can happily say I’m 85% demisexual, 5% asexual, and 10% super attracted to certain fictional characters 😂