THE TRUTH ON WHY MY BODY LOOKS SO DIFFERENT.

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  • Опубликовано: 28 июл 2018
  • Hello beautiful people! I hope you are doing well. You know me I like to keep it real and I thought I'd share with something that is a little personal and at times can be a tough subject to talk about.
    In no way do I want to encourage or discourage anyone from loving the way that they currently are, nor do I want to tell people what to do. This is my journey and situation, that I hope I might help some one by sharing MY TRUTH. Love you all xxxx
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  • @PatriciaBright
    @PatriciaBright  6 лет назад +4930

    Hello beautiful people! I hope you are doing well. I always like to keep it real and I thought I'd share with something that is a little personal and at times can be a tough subject to talk about. In no way do I want to encourage or discourage anyone from loving the way that they currently are, nor do I want to tell people what to do. This is my journey and situation, that I hope I might help some one by sharing MY TRUTH. Love you all xxxx

    • @lorainemarufu4553
      @lorainemarufu4553 6 лет назад +31

      This is exactly why I love Patricia you keep 💯 you’ve always been honest about your body ! I could tell x but it suits so much you look fantastic !! You are an inspiration ❣️

    • @JustaFashionGirlfromChicago
      @JustaFashionGirlfromChicago 6 лет назад +2

      Thanks for sharing. ❤️

    • @karenb2873
      @karenb2873 6 лет назад +1

      You look good Pat......good thing for you is your stomach will continue to flatten out over the next few months 😀 Enjoy!!!!!

    • @latoyiawertz3576
      @latoyiawertz3576 6 лет назад +6

      Patricia Bright your beautiful! Inside and out! Love your channel you always make me smile. You’ve always been honest and real. Love ya girl!

    • @TsisEyes
      @TsisEyes 6 лет назад +2

      Patricia Bright I’m glad you’re feeling better/happier 💕

  • @BriObaseki
    @BriObaseki 6 лет назад +4315

    WE LOVE A TRANSPARENT INFLUENCER. THANK YOU for being you, Patricia! We love you in any shape, size color or wig! Yassss honey!

    • @PatriciaBright
      @PatriciaBright  6 лет назад +34

      Bri Martinez thank you so much babe 😘

    • @Shalayah2010
      @Shalayah2010 6 лет назад +8

      transparent? she admitted to having her body done. big deal. that is so common nowadays.

    • @jodi6708
      @jodi6708 6 лет назад +25

      Akilah C. although getting plastic surgery may be the norm, it’s not easy for everyone to talk so openly about. there’s no need to be negative ... if you don’t like it, why watch her video?

    • @butterliz876
      @butterliz876 6 лет назад +7

      Bri Martinez transparent because others were calling her out. In the end ppl are rather vain and are never satisfied with superficial beauty. She has even gotten lighter. Anyways do what makes you happy. These ppl are not my role models.

    • @adorkable7196
      @adorkable7196 6 лет назад +11

      butterliz876 she is not obligated to share what she does to her body no matter who calls her out. And you think people are satisfied with inner beauty? Lol

  • @IshanAli
    @IshanAli 6 лет назад +3584

    *Patricia starts crying*
    *my inner Edna Mode* “pull yourself together. YOU ARE PATRICIA BRIGHT!!! A whole 7 course mealll”
    loved this video you are amazing

    • @SpicySpinach
      @SpicySpinach 6 лет назад +24

      Ishan Ali I like your comments you‘re funny ☺️

    • @kwashington2326
      @kwashington2326 6 лет назад +23

      Ishan Ali best comment award 🥇

    • @Caroline-cv6nc
      @Caroline-cv6nc 6 лет назад +46

      Omg, you’re everywhere! 😂

    • @jacobsed8615
      @jacobsed8615 6 лет назад +38

      How are you fucking everywhere??????

    • @mltuckerette
      @mltuckerette 6 лет назад +16

      Ishan Ali LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE THAT JUST DON'T GET IT! 🙌🏾👏🏽

  • @TutuAdams
    @TutuAdams 6 лет назад +1629

    I can't believe how many people are in their feelings over a personal choice that a grown adult made. I'm so glad you made a decision for YOU that makes YOU happy & it looks great on you too!

    • @wealthy5702
      @wealthy5702 6 лет назад +24

      Tutu Adams exactly, they are forgetting even dental work is cosmetic surgery

    • @raechuuu510
      @raechuuu510 6 лет назад +30

      WEALTHY 570 so true! they probably would never tell someone "I can't believe you got braces. why can't you just embrace your crooked teeth?"

    • @TheKK29
      @TheKK29 6 лет назад +3

      Tutu Adams this is an open forum of course there are mixed emotion comments dumb ass

    • @TutuAdams
      @TutuAdams 6 лет назад +15

      khalishaR I would say you're the 'dumb ass' that can't comprehend a comment, but I'm getting right with my walk with Jesus and a stranger on the net won't set me back, have a great day beautiful, God Bless You x

    • @TheKK29
      @TheKK29 6 лет назад

      you too

  • @leilanilaupua
    @leilanilaupua 5 лет назад +170

    DON'T EVER FEEL BAD FOR DOING SOMETHING THAT MADE YOU FEEL GOOD!

  • @valjolly7469
    @valjolly7469 6 лет назад +1354

    My son is 21 and I’m still waiting for my body to snap back...🤔

  • @SadeWatkins
    @SadeWatkins 6 лет назад +4456

    when you said "i like sandwhiches" i felt that lmaooooooo
    i love you and im glad you did what makes YOU feel comfortable

    • @adriann9412
      @adriann9412 6 лет назад +17

      sade watkins love you Sade

    • @antoinettetiffith
      @antoinettetiffith 6 лет назад +15

      sade watkins Girl I feel like if people don't like sandwiches they can't be my friend. Sandwiches are delicious okay.😂

    • @KarinaLune
      @KarinaLune 6 лет назад +1

      Sade!!!

    • @aaliyahcova9661
      @aaliyahcova9661 6 лет назад +1

      Sandwiches**

    • @Juvannatv
      @Juvannatv 6 лет назад +4

      Adriann Thompson when she said that I immediately liked the video 😭

  • @Rebeccalouisefitness
    @Rebeccalouisefitness 6 лет назад +20

    Thanks for sharing, Lovely! A huge well done for being bold, brave, honest and charming as ever! Such a positive role model x😊❤️

  • @sexxygiil
    @sexxygiil 5 лет назад +3

    I can hear every bit of honesty in your voice. I've been travelling and have missed watching you this past month and a half. Enjoying catching up on all your videos!!

  • @juliaberg5626
    @juliaberg5626 6 лет назад +479

    Your skintone is looking so warm and glowing its gorgeous

  • @KairoK
    @KairoK 6 лет назад +352

    See, *this* is how you do an authentic video. No excessive crying, balling and wailing or sad music.
    Thank you

  • @daisyzwart1895
    @daisyzwart1895 5 лет назад +2

    You’re an amazing, strong woman and I love how open you are even though you have no obligation to be at all. You’re gorgeous regardless of your appearance but it’s beautiful that you can feel that too now and that you feel comfortable in your own skin you deserve that like everyone else. Thank you for letting your light shine so bright, telling your story and empowering others with everything you share.

  • @jbh4151
    @jbh4151 5 лет назад +3

    Thank you so much for speaking out about this topic! You're wonderful! Much love xoxo

  • @gigilina1782
    @gigilina1782 6 лет назад +868

    everyone can talk about how they wanted you to stay natural and not succumb to stuff, but everyone isn’t trying on clothes on camera for a living. i’m proud of you for doing what makes you happy and comfortable, no one should ever have to feel uncomfortable in their own skin. you are so positive and uplifting, congrats on the snatch boo ;)

    • @lauraandbabies90
      @lauraandbabies90 6 лет назад +2

      Gia Cummings very good point

    • @farahshaheen7657
      @farahshaheen7657 6 лет назад +22

      Laurajadeellison not a good point all.

    • @DA-jh2ny
      @DA-jh2ny 6 лет назад +9

      chanel ambrose who is a big gal , is trying on clothes for the camera and she has never had lipo.even after having two kids.

    • @t.ykoravand2318
      @t.ykoravand2318 6 лет назад

      This type of energy 🙌

    • @Jackley3696
      @Jackley3696 6 лет назад

      Gia Cummings has pj

  • @kaitlinnikolic3589
    @kaitlinnikolic3589 6 лет назад

    This is so inspirational - I love that you are 100% honest with your followers! You do you and don’t let anyone make you feel horrible for doing something that makes you happy! Go girl x

  • @jzeptopuz
    @jzeptopuz 5 лет назад +3

    bless up for talking about this

  • @tiffaniemcmillan209
    @tiffaniemcmillan209 6 лет назад +252

    I get it. I'm 41 with 2 kids. If I had the means, I would tweak my midsection. No judgement at all. We get it.

  • @elleobi
    @elleobi 6 лет назад +467

    thank you for your vulnerability and transparency, as usual. You're a real one-of-a-kind

  • @priscillamarkus2290
    @priscillamarkus2290 5 лет назад +1

    Thank you for sharing my love. Honesty is an amazing quality to see, and feels so good to hear the truth from people.

  • @Schatzilu101
    @Schatzilu101 5 лет назад

    Girl you look gooood!! It’s crazy how much a change like this can make the biggest difference. Recovery takes a while but you got it. You rock Patricia, way to be true to yourself ❤️❤️❤️

  • @YahushaDollie
    @YahushaDollie 6 лет назад +432

    This image of perfection that everyone has been chasing does not exist. We have been fooled by the media, that perfection can be obtained when that is not the case. We fix ourselves only to develop into older versions who will wrinkle and wither away. Notwithstanding, it is the right of him or her to do as you please with your own body. All I'm saying is to love yourself, truly, and what God has given you. Young people, You ARE ENOUGH. Stop believing the lies.

  • @Ifeyinwa
    @Ifeyinwa 6 лет назад +431

    SO many women hide/lie about the work they've had done but here's Patricia baring it all even though she KNOWS people will hate because it's that important to her to be HONEST with her followers. If THAT doesn't make her enough of a role model for you guys, then you're trippin. PS you look incredible Patricia x

  • @alexandrarussom33
    @alexandrarussom33 6 лет назад

    Patricia! Thank you for being so candid. Your honesty is refreshing and beautiful! I am 9 months postpartum and have also been considering surgery, and hearing your story and your perspective has made me feel so much more comfortable in this process. You are just as equally real as any other person in this world, and your perspective is so appreciated 💕🙏 Best to you, my dear!

  • @studaquarius9408
    @studaquarius9408 6 лет назад

    Thank you for always being real. This is why you are one of my favorite youtubers and instagrammers! You are beautiful on the inside out ❤️

  • @Cheryltheresa
    @Cheryltheresa 6 лет назад +1107

    5:11 how you’re able to slide in some humour is incredible. “Because you know... I like a sandwich”.
    Good for you Patricia. If you’re happy, that’s all that matters.

    • @SassyPrincessify
      @SassyPrincessify 6 лет назад +1

      CherAndMarkie hey just found your channel hopefully you can subscribe back

    • @ndiwila1
      @ndiwila1 6 лет назад

      Patricia honestly I totally understand! I have the same issue, I have a 16 month old, I have lost weight but not in the right places, to be worse I have a huge fibroid, so I always get ‘is there a bun in the oven’ I’ve had it. So please am with you!!

  • @juliannagiordano1273
    @juliannagiordano1273 6 лет назад +314

    Patty, haven't even watched the video; but I can tell you we love you NO MATTER WHAT.

  • @xxKaraLovesYouxx
    @xxKaraLovesYouxx 6 лет назад +62

    Who cares what she does to HER body?! She looks amazing!!! Attaining the version of yourself that you like is difficult and if she chose surgery, that is her choice. I don’t care what she does, she looks great and she is happy and that’s what matters!

  • @jayamelrose9768
    @jayamelrose9768 6 лет назад

    Love it!!! Honestly you're a very strong person to be able to share with us your body battles. You make me want to tell my story and share with people what I have to got through!!!

  • @Dr3Mc3Ninja
    @Dr3Mc3Ninja 6 лет назад +409

    Hm, so apparently I am blind and did not notice the difference in the video. I was more focused on how bloody amazing the editing was. It was hysterically good.
    You had a lovely body to begin with but if this procedure boosted your confidence, I am happy for you. You deserve to feel happy in your own body.
    My abdomen is where noticeable fat would sit on me. I recently lost weight and my boobs suffered. If only we could target weight loss.
    "I like a sandwich." That voice was amazing.
    Pelvic floor snatching. *I wheezed.* Kegels!

  • @tianaray6464
    @tianaray6464 6 лет назад +248

    That hair colour really suits her and compliments her skin complexion x

  • @priscilliakay8033
    @priscilliakay8033 5 лет назад +1

    You look gorgeous Patricia! You have worked and you are still working very hard, so good on you for doing what makes you feel good girl! x

  • @Channelname-1
    @Channelname-1 6 лет назад +2

    You've always been such a bright shining light Patricia, you look amazing and gorgeous as always and I'm happy for you that you're happier with your body ! Much love xoxo

  • @Moi_81
    @Moi_81 6 лет назад +1253

    So distracted with how pretty you look. Hair and makeup is on point!!

  • @ColeyMing
    @ColeyMing 6 лет назад +358

    the most important thing is you happy n comfortable in your skin

  • @pearliepau2332
    @pearliepau2332 6 лет назад +170

    You hear that someone committed suicide and they are described by friends and family as bubbly and full of life. Unfortunately none saw how much they were unhappy within themselves. I see a beautiful body and hear wonderful words from you...I hope you're truly happy because your eyes say something else. All the best! God loves you.

  • @kore412
    @kore412 5 лет назад +7

    You look so good before and after!! The only difference is now you are happier so happy for you girl!!

  • @CrippledChaosClown
    @CrippledChaosClown 6 лет назад +870

    It's incredibly hard to talk about body issues, and even harder to talk about what if anything you choose to do to it. It's sucks but it's also harder for women, if this is what you felt was the right thing for you and you can afford it then why not. It's your body after all and being open and discussing these things is healthy for people to hear and brave on your part because sadly some people can and possibly will be cruel. I wish you all the best and I truly hope you're happier now that one issue you disliked has been (very tastefully) altered.
    💋 xAndyx 💋

  • @asapkaila
    @asapkaila 6 лет назад +143

    Now repeat after me, and say it with your chest. Auntie Patty has been and will always be a whole meal. Thanks for coming to my TED talk

  • @rachaelthomas-jones3044
    @rachaelthomas-jones3044 5 лет назад

    Love to you, absolutely proud you put your truth out there even though it’s nobody’s business, normalising that making changes to you body if your not comfortable is okay if it’s your own well informed decision.❤️❤️❤️

  • @abi_purps3354
    @abi_purps3354 6 лет назад +37

    It was comments that made her feel worse about herself now she has done something to make herself feel happier there are comments that are now degrading her and telling her that she is wrong for feeling a little insecure about a place on HER body and doing lots of research BY THE WAY to change it. She doesn't owe us an explanation she responded to the comments and people that were asking in the first place. So cut her some slack. I love you Patricia you do you. 💜💜 Also i LOVE your outfit as always

  • @LeshondraHeron
    @LeshondraHeron 6 лет назад +126

    Patricia has the most positive comment section, no matter what. A true testament to her character

  • @jadearmanii2124
    @jadearmanii2124 6 лет назад +932

    *i love how honest you are i respect that*

  • @annatupitsyna8310
    @annatupitsyna8310 6 лет назад

    this is just WOW !!!! 😍😍😍😍SUCH AN AMAZING CHANGE , that is so cool that you’ve done this and shared your experience here , thank you!

  • @maryfo9558
    @maryfo9558 6 лет назад

    This is the reason that I LOVE YOU so much! You are so authentic!!!!!

  • @shweeleigh1616
    @shweeleigh1616 6 лет назад +1017

    I always wonder how stupid someone has to be to ask a woman if she's pregnant. So rude. You are gorgeous either way but you need to be happy with yourself. 💜❤️

    • @snoodysnoody8118
      @snoodysnoody8118 6 лет назад +23

      Ashleigh Latham I agree , I think they is extremely rude because it could be due to weight gain or illness

    • @addictedtoprocrastination9986
      @addictedtoprocrastination9986 6 лет назад +16

      Ashleigh Latham Exactly what I was thinking. I feel like it’s common sense that you shouldn’t ask that question, but apparently common sense ain’t so common these days.

    • @shweeleigh1616
      @shweeleigh1616 6 лет назад +4

      IthinkI'maddictedtoprocrastination definitely not! Lol

    • @wealthy5702
      @wealthy5702 6 лет назад +1

      Ashleigh Latham it is so intrusive, especially for someone who maybe has fertility problems. Like asking about finances

  • @_Maya_Andrea
    @_Maya_Andrea 6 лет назад +413

    My nana always told us to bind our stomachs after having a baby (like wearing an extra small girdle or wrapping it with fabric) So the women in my family do that for like two months straight literally directly after having a baby. Do that y’all! It will help heal your body and keep your stomach together

    • @Younggurlmajic
      @Younggurlmajic 6 лет назад +25

      Maya Andrea this!!! And it helps with the extra skin as well...i .did this after my c-section

    • @sabinajoh
      @sabinajoh 6 лет назад +144

      Blackgurlmajic oooh I’ll try this when I have a baby (in like 10 years)

    • @batouls5924
      @batouls5924 6 лет назад +7

      Hhh my mom did that and it works

    • @nca4794
      @nca4794 6 лет назад +3

      Ok Maya Andrea with the tips! I'm takin notes!!! 🙌

    • @saraAFA_
      @saraAFA_ 6 лет назад +9

      Yes it works. But not for mums who had Caesarian births unfortunately.

  • @MKayV
    @MKayV 6 лет назад

    Look good feel good! Sending you positive vibes Patricia, you’re a beautiful human being inside and out and that’s what really matters ❤️

  • @ashleesargent1820
    @ashleesargent1820 5 лет назад +1

    I’ve always loved your videos and seen you as an amazing person, I’m proud of you and happy that you’ve been able to become more confident in your own skin no matter the circumstances.

  • @ASofi4
    @ASofi4 6 лет назад +198

    I can comprehend why people are so confident to ask questions such as “are you pregnant” is it any of their business? It’s so inappropriate, you never know what people are experiencing and it’s such a sensitive matter 😔

    • @moslypig
      @moslypig 6 лет назад +15

      Andreia Sofia right?! Like the person is going to say “YES, I am!! I haven’t told my friends and family yet, but let me tell you” 🤦🏼‍♀️🙄

    • @shannonmacquarrie9402
      @shannonmacquarrie9402 6 лет назад +1

      Andreia Sofia I so agree with you! Patricia should have done this video bc she wanted to share her experience, not bc she felt pressure from other ppl she doesn't even know! Totally inappropriate..would you do that to some at the grocery store?

    • @noirking6138
      @noirking6138 6 лет назад +2

      I'm sitting here in shock. As a man I was raised NEVER to ask that question to a lady. So i'm confuses as to why any women within their right mind would ask someone they're not friends with this. It's rude af and to see those comments she posted were disappointing. Just sad.

  • @damariusingram6205
    @damariusingram6205 6 лет назад +73

    I really appreciate how real you are and I know this video is going to help so many people. I have GI disorders so I'm often bloated a lot and it can definitely effect your self-esteem.

  • @skytaniguchi1198
    @skytaniguchi1198 6 лет назад

    It's amazing that you wanted to share this with us, your beautiful girl! Im glad you did what you wanted and needed to do to feel good about your body!

  • @foreverslayy8551
    @foreverslayy8551 6 лет назад

    The fact that you are even honest with us makes everyone especially me love you even more . I’m loving your body and you have gave me courage to do things just for myself .

  • @melp.eliazar
    @melp.eliazar 6 лет назад +241

    I am sorry that you felt you had to share that. It was private and none of our business. You are beautiful as you are.

  • @ablaabla7158
    @ablaabla7158 6 лет назад +118

    One thing I've come to learn in my 30s is not to judge and be so self-righteous as I was in my 20s. If it makes you feel good and happy then👍👍.

  • @susanakidimoce7345
    @susanakidimoce7345 6 лет назад

    Wow thanks for being transparent and allowing yourself to be vulnerable. I’m not thinking of getting anything done but I respect you for your honesty and being brave enough to put it out here. You looking gorgeous as always. Loads a love 💖 💖💖

  • @melodiouslex249
    @melodiouslex249 6 лет назад +427

    When she said “I like a sandwich” I felt that

  • @TheMelncholyglamour
    @TheMelncholyglamour 6 лет назад +49

    The fact that you even felt it necessary to address this, hurts me. No explanations needed. You're beautiful, and all bodies are beautiful and different. I really wish people would stop feeling entitled to comment so heavily on other people's bodies- positive or negative. Most likely, that opinion or comment is unsolicited and not welcome either way. Live and let live, and love each other unconditionally, without questions. ✌❤

  • @thingsthisladylikes384
    @thingsthisladylikes384 6 лет назад

    You are a beautiful being, inside and out! Thank you for your honesty!!! ❤️

  • @KarlaRodriguez-bl4uu
    @KarlaRodriguez-bl4uu 5 лет назад

    I love your honesty!! I always admired you for putting yourself out there when trying on clothing and not try to show perfection or anything like that! You’ve always looked beautiful! I’m glad you feel better about your body now! 😘 ♥️ I loved your outfit by the way

  • @iPerformance
    @iPerformance 6 лет назад +531

    "I can't come and kill myself!" Yess my Nigerian self felt that spiritually 😭💕

    • @thxlovefactor
      @thxlovefactor 6 лет назад +2

      iPerform Lmaooo

    • @hihi-ec2xv
      @hihi-ec2xv 6 лет назад +10

      iPerform Oh you're Nigerian ,hmmmmmm
      Just admit that Ghanian jollof rice is better than Nigerian

    • @Unknown-vy3do
      @Unknown-vy3do 6 лет назад +1

      hi hi Aahaahahah😂

    • @uthnimat
      @uthnimat 6 лет назад +1

      hi hi never

    • @hihi-ec2xv
      @hihi-ec2xv 6 лет назад +2

      Uthman Nimat it's ok,I know that you're thinking it

  • @Curlyfitness1980
    @Curlyfitness1980 6 лет назад +879

    After having my twins my body was destroyed, I’ve always workout, I am also a fitness competitor. I ended up having a mommy makeover because my muscle were separated, I had hernia and loose skin. Not everybody recovered the same after giving birth. I never thought I was going to have surgery but I did, as long you doing it for you and only for you. The pain and the recovery is no joke lol, but I am happy, I have my life back. Congrats I love your channel.

    • @BrittCros
      @BrittCros 6 лет назад +2

      Curlyfitness1980 love girl jtg awww 21801

    • @airilamb8503
      @airilamb8503 6 лет назад +1

      Curlyfitness1980 she had a child?

    • @Curlyfitness1980
      @Curlyfitness1980 6 лет назад +1

      Casinova Fashionova yes.

    • @laidyfernandes6683
      @laidyfernandes6683 6 лет назад +6

      Curlyfitness1980 after giving birth to my first child my body recovered well and booty got bigger, but after my second child, girl... where is my butt? I look horroble i dont wear dresses, i have A LOT of strechmarks

    • @maurissac3892
      @maurissac3892 6 лет назад

      Curlyfitness1980 I had twins and my body is destroyed and no matter how much I work out nothing I changing. I feel like surgery may be the next step for me.

  • @JoStylin
    @JoStylin 5 лет назад +41

    My sister had this 'overstretching of the abs' problem after giving birth. Actually, she was advised by her doctor to have surgery because if not seen to, it can cause severe back problems as you get older.

  • @Sushia86
    @Sushia86 5 лет назад

    Love you Pat! Keep on sharing your life experiences, keep on growing. Thanks for sharing your truth while being so careful to who your listener are. You’re a blessing. Xo.

  • @asias.8770
    @asias.8770 6 лет назад +80

    “you can not die, you have to live” -Patricia Bright

  • @Xandy2dandY
    @Xandy2dandY 6 лет назад +648

    We love you Patricia. I haven't watched the video yet, but I'd like to say that as far as I've followed u and watched u on social media, you're truly a special person and have a great impact on others...definitely on me. Keep being you boo and thank u in advance for your candidness. xx

    • @PatriciaBright
      @PatriciaBright  6 лет назад +23

      Comments like this truly make me so happy. Thank you!

    • @Xandy2dandY
      @Xandy2dandY 6 лет назад +4

      Happy to add a bit of "Bright"ness to your day :D (sorry I'm lame kkkkk)

    • @JCovington1211
      @JCovington1211 6 лет назад

      AGREED!

  • @pippaduarte
    @pippaduarte 6 лет назад

    Tricia you look gorgeous like literally goals, and I am sooo sooo happy you got that taken care of and you’re in a better position !!!

  • @Chariiiiiiiiiiiiii
    @Chariiiiiiiiiiiiii 6 лет назад

    I’m so glad you decided to do what makes you feel happy and comfortable x

  • @ThyroidlessLex
    @ThyroidlessLex 6 лет назад +244

    It drives me nuts when people speculate on pregnancy! It’s so rude and makes me rolls my eyes every time 🙄

  • @CravingCurlyKinks
    @CravingCurlyKinks 6 лет назад +56

    I love you soo much girl!! You are such an awesome personality and so transparent!!!

  • @angelafenene9737
    @angelafenene9737 6 лет назад

    I appreciate your honesty and it encourages us to do us not the world. I genuinely love you keep doing you cause you inspire us. Tooth or pear you are ADORED!

  • @palibby1874
    @palibby1874 5 лет назад

    As long as you are doing it for you and your own personal happiness then I AM 100% HAPPY for you. It’s your body your choice and you are really killin em, REGAWDLESS.❤️❤️ you are glowing beautiful

  • @talissa
    @talissa 6 лет назад +1169

    *i LiKe A sAnDwIcH* i felt that on a level

  • @jlkitz1775
    @jlkitz1775 6 лет назад +21

    Don't compare yourself to others; unless you have a personal trainer, a chef & a glam team, most women don't 'snap back' in 3 days. We "regular folks" need to stop that. Glad you made it thru safely, and feel comfortable in your own skin.

  • @maggiemullen6922
    @maggiemullen6922 6 лет назад +2

    I love how candid you are💖💖

  • @16uloveme
    @16uloveme 5 лет назад +1

    You look AMAZING!! I think you are so so so brave for talking about it! You do you girl ♥

  • @CharjoelliaTV
    @CharjoelliaTV 6 лет назад +43

    Thank you so much for being so transparent Patricia. We all have struggles we deal with as a momma and it's so important to share them to know you're not alone. Our body changes so much and it is such a transition for some of us who don't just snatch back but the little blessings we are given in the process are so worth it. Your body is beautiful pre and post surgery thank you for sharing.

    • @SassyPrincessify
      @SassyPrincessify 6 лет назад

      Charjoellia TV hey just found your channel hopefully you can subscribe back

  • @ThRealJo
    @ThRealJo 6 лет назад +464

    damn... i didn’t even notice ur belly, all these while i was always paying attention to ur personality and jokes even when you are trying on clothes. it must have been hard Pat, haih.. youtube why u doing this

    • @ShebrewQueen
      @ShebrewQueen 6 лет назад +3

      Joey L I didn't notice it, either.

    • @lynnhobby32321
      @lynnhobby32321 6 лет назад +4

      Joey L I don’t notice body changes. I notice when people act differently. Too bad more people can’t do that.

    • @lilmissmonsterrr
      @lilmissmonsterrr 6 лет назад +6

      Her confidence tricked me into thinking she was accepting of her body and that inspired me. I never thought ill of her body, I loved that she accepted herself.

  • @purpleshadow5295
    @purpleshadow5295 6 лет назад

    This is so inspirational! Your speech has made me want to work harder for that dream body, but not at all cost and certainly, without giving up on who I am! Thank you for this

  • @babyboobree1
    @babyboobree1 5 лет назад +19

    "Food is life and life is food", yes it is Patricia!!!

  • @Jameson77777
    @Jameson77777 6 лет назад +439

    Patricia been a snack attack since day one! Nothing new here people!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @HH-jv6pt
    @HH-jv6pt 6 лет назад +239

    I genuinely cannot thank you enough for this vid Patricia,you are so real and I have so much respect for that🙌🏻😘❤️

    • @feyiplus4500
      @feyiplus4500 6 лет назад

      She is not real. Real will be her loving her body the way it is, not living up to a faux standard.

    • @HH-jv6pt
      @HH-jv6pt 6 лет назад +1

      Yeye Osun if she feels as if she is insecure and unhappy with her body so be it , we don’t know exactly how she feels and what she’s going through. I had stated she was real, in the sense that she was opening up to millions of people, also I don’t understand why her getting something done is so controversial IT DOESNT AFFECT U!!

  • @sharonmullally4380
    @sharonmullally4380 6 лет назад

    you are true to us your followers, you carry us along and you fill in you don't lie to us and you don't decieve us, it's totally worth following you Patricia! keep being you and keep carrying us along you are a good example of a leader. love you like kilode

  • @amandaischristine
    @amandaischristine 6 лет назад +1

    So happy you’re more comfortable in your skin! I think you’ve always been beautiful but happiness and confidence makes you gorgeous so whatever works!! You look AMAZING, girl, absolutely stunning. That shape is boggling, honestly 😂💕

  • @mammajamma4397
    @mammajamma4397 6 лет назад +190

    Depending on when you recorded this, we had our procedures done at the same time. I had a tummy tuck and lipo about 6 weeks ago. I'm JUST beginning to feel like a human this week (I've only been back to the office once and that was almost too much).
    I had it done because years ago I lost well over 100 lbs, and my body is just a mass of loose skin. And like you said, I'm in a place in life where I want to enjoy my body because I never got the chance to. I'm still swollen and numb, but I'm beginning to see the results. I'm already more confident! Yesterday went to the beach for the first time post surgery; not sure if it was my newfound confidence or my new bikini, but people were actually staring at me. On the beach! Me! That has NEVARRRR happened in my life!
    Point being, proud of you for addressing something that got in the way of you fully embracing yourself. Cheers!

    • @Latomian
      @Latomian 6 лет назад +3

      Umm...go gurl!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @Myrvcleo_o
      @Myrvcleo_o 6 лет назад +2

      I recently lost over 60 lbs and I’m still working on it, but I have the loose skin and this procedure could help I didn’t know.

    • @lakendra1979
      @lakendra1979 6 лет назад

      I'm having a TT done too in a few months.

  • @KairoK
    @KairoK 6 лет назад +186

    And the truth is you do not even owe us an explanation. 🤷🏽‍♂️ we appreciate it though

  • @alexandriamora5970
    @alexandriamora5970 6 лет назад

    YOU LOOK SO GOOD!!!! Love you girl! Thanks for sharing ❤️❤️❤️

  • @beautyfrmwithin
    @beautyfrmwithin 4 года назад

    Thank you for having the courage to speak on this subject! You look AMAZING!!!!

  • @ChiMasterMedia
    @ChiMasterMedia 6 лет назад +1625

    I have two children and one emergency c- section. My belly is as huge as a mountain. We went to BRIGHTON PIER yesterday,and I was telling my husband how sad I was about changing my swimsuit for swimming,he pointed at someone. When I looked closely at her,I saw how curvy she was with no limbs. I mean, she had no hands and her male friend was feeding her ice cream 🍦 . I cried for a while and asked God to forgive my insanity.
    I like you with or without bump ❤️💋

    • @TheRealDoraLondon
      @TheRealDoraLondon 6 лет назад +19

      Chi Asmr Awww sorry to hear. I had the same issue with Patricia and went and got my tummy tuck. It’s depressing for me when people look at you as a teen mom and your a grown ass women lol who just looks young with 3 children 😩😩😩

    • @suez7615
      @suez7615 6 лет назад +102

      That's great, but it's her body and she didn't like it, so she changed it and now she's really happy.
      Just because someone else may have it worse doesn't automatically mean our "lesser" struggles are invalidated.

    • @NoName-sp5dp
      @NoName-sp5dp 6 лет назад +2

      I doubt you would lose limbs over surgery but I get it

    • @minjichoi3799
      @minjichoi3799 6 лет назад +95

      Kufre Akpan that's not what she meant🙄

    • @Noix009
      @Noix009 6 лет назад +10

      Minji Choi lmao 😂 right !!!!!!!

  • @femineity
    @femineity 6 лет назад +316

    Look up Patricia Bright in the dictionary and next to her name would be: Loving Spirit, Intelligent, Beautiful, Inspiring, A Daughter, A Wife, A Mother, A Boss....WINNING! 💖💯👍🎶🌺👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏👏👏👏👏💎

  • @kizzianabrannon2572
    @kizzianabrannon2572 6 лет назад

    You do you boo!! Youre so beautiful and im so glad you’re more comfortable now (even if we all thought you were great just the way you were) at the end of the day its your body and if you want to change it for whatever reason then thats your decision, i think you look great!! X

  • @TheTinablack
    @TheTinablack 6 лет назад +4

    I’ve always had a tummy too, even when I was younger. After my kids it just got worse. Thank you for the information and support in this video 💖
    PS you’re so beautiful

  • @xngala
    @xngala 6 лет назад +88

    I didnt notice anything until you pointed it out

  • @nicolalocke5409
    @nicolalocke5409 6 лет назад +59

    Some people do find it easier then others, my mum was back into her size 8 jeans the next day after having me. Her sister struggled and did everything possible but just couldn't do it so she got surgical help. It is what it is. At the end of the day it's your happiness that matters you do you.

  • @ItsMelloe
    @ItsMelloe 6 лет назад +1

    This video made me emotional self love self appreciation it’s about you deciding and doing your research thanx Pat we love you ♥️.

  • @biblefruits
    @biblefruits 5 лет назад +1

    Love this video. I had the same thing happen when I had my daughter. I have always been a slim person as well and that lingering “baby bump” is so discouraging, especially when there’s not much you can do about it so I completely understand the feeling of being happy, strong and confident, but also wanting to feel better in your own skin for YOURSELF.

  • @BrowngalRie
    @BrowngalRie 6 лет назад +121

    “Food is life, life is food” #mymotto4life

  • @MariamsLifestyle
    @MariamsLifestyle 6 лет назад +33

    I love how honest you’re! I didn’t really notice the change n your body! But now I can see the change u look beautiful ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @shakinahkyalo9809
    @shakinahkyalo9809 6 лет назад

    Girl, I'm so proud of you coming out like this. I'm happy you happy. You look beautiful either way. ❤️️

  • @konatola17
    @konatola17 6 лет назад +3

    It makes you happy that’s all that really matters. YOUR HAPPINESS. You look GREAT. Do what makes you happy for 2018

  • @HannahLesterr
    @HannahLesterr 6 лет назад +26

    I love how you’re doing this because there are so many body confidence videos out there and quite a lot of the time it’s bigger girls (me!!) but the fact you’re “skinny” and still showing the side where you can have little confidence is so important!! Shows even smaller girls can feel this way and that’s so important