WHY YOU SHOULD ROMANTICIZE YOUR LIFE ♡ (how to get out of a rut & feel alive again)

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  • Опубликовано: 10 сен 2024

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  • @zubariaashraf5734
    @zubariaashraf5734 2 года назад +430

    "We daydream about the fake scenarios that will never actually take place in our life."
    This really hit me hard because that's all I do all day long 🙂

  • @nekkinekki4721
    @nekkinekki4721 2 года назад +884

    I be feeling a certain way about life negatively. And the next thing I know Rebecca made a video to turn that into something positive. Thank you so much Rebecca. I hope you are doing wonderful. :))

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  2 года назад +28

      I hope you feel better ❤️❤️

  • @madinaain
    @madinaain 2 года назад +590

    After scrolling my feed on social media and seeing this funny and cool moments of people I have started to compare myself with them. I felt so bad thinking that my life isn’t as cool as theirs, but your video brought me back to life! thank you so much Rebecca

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  2 года назад +13

      thank you for watching ❤️

  • @kritibhardwaj7482
    @kritibhardwaj7482 2 года назад +130

    I love to see Rebecca comming back into RUclips after a long time and i can't wait for it to start

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  2 года назад +10

      I honestly love posting so much and I can’t wait to be consistent with it :))

  • @samjebaraj24
    @samjebaraj24 2 года назад +140

    There's nothing worse than looking back at the present moment and feeling empty because you wasted months or years yearning and hoping for something better
    This part killed me 😢
    Thanks rebecca 💘
    I would like to be your friend if I was from you country 😂

  • @rmsfavoritelilcrab4006
    @rmsfavoritelilcrab4006 2 года назад +24

    This video is so aesthetic and inspirational. I was just diagnosed with an autoimmune disease but I'm still gonna romanticize my life. Everything happens for a reason.

    • @jeiahjohnson3406
      @jeiahjohnson3406 2 года назад +1

      As you should !!! Keep going, I'm proud of you 🧡

  • @jankar.5712
    @jankar.5712 2 года назад +13

    I actually try to romanticize my life, but sometimes it just doesn‘t work out. I notice it really depends on my social media consumption, because even the most boring things always look better on instagram. Especially when exams are coming up, it’s extra hard to not hate everything 😅. Your video really reminded me to overthink who I want to follow and it showed those little basic things in such a realistic way that still made me want to realize my life more now. Thank you!

  • @sarah1160
    @sarah1160 2 года назад +2

    i’ve realized that i don’t compare my looks or body to others…i compare my life to theirs. all i’ve ever wanted is an exciting and rich life, but i just feel stuck and like i’ll never have the community around me like i want

  • @savuya3137
    @savuya3137 2 года назад +6

    She made me cry in the intro because I knew it was true and I was experiencing the same thing

    • @Ash-yx1st
      @Ash-yx1st Год назад

      Same I just seriously didn't want to realize it but the intro kinda opened my eyes

  • @cherry28000
    @cherry28000 2 года назад +60

    Thank you so much Rebecca for making this video, I am gonna ramble so sorry for it in advance...
    I completely wasted the past two years of my life and I find it quite amusing how I spent the two years of life just planning and planning, trying journalling, accountability, making vision boards, changing my interest feed to just motivational quotes and dream destinations but I did not execute a single thing I had planned.
    I was terribly inconsistent. I could never work out for more than 3 days in a row and always felt defeated and upset. I really want to lose weight and get healthy and before someone comes at me, I have a health disorder that requires me to lose weight, I am under 18 and I am having terrible health issues. My hair keeps falling, my joints pain and I am always lethargic.
    And all of this affects my studies and my mental health. I am not able to concentrate and thus get annoyed and then go to youtube to find comfort and end up watching videos for hours. All of this really upsets me and breaks my motivation. I have been getting low grades and I have underperformed every single time.
    Heck, once I tried to go cycling for barely 10 minutes and had the worst knee pain of my life that night. Doctors kept telling me to lose weight but I just couldn't start.
    Well, it's 2022 right now and I feel like it has been a high time since I have wasted so much precious time of my life. I am so tired of going through this same cycle again and ruining my own life. I am posting this comment over here so that there are other people who are going through this same situation to get some motivation and start again. I am very determined to better myself and to change my life.
    To all my dear friends over here, I wish that all of you can achieve your goals, change your habits and instead of trying to be the best-looking person or the smartest person out there, go and try to be someone who you are proud to be and just keep bettering yourself
    We all are capable to bring about a good change in our lives, let's go guys. All of us can do it !!!

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  2 года назад +4

      you can do this ❤️❤️ thank you for telling your story

    • @kristaellington2779
      @kristaellington2779 2 года назад +4

      I have literally been stuck in the same situation..... Reading this made me cry because it's like looking in a mirror. Thank you and I wish you the absolute best

    • @cherry28000
      @cherry28000 2 года назад

      @@kristaellington2779 u can do this girl ✨

    • @janetwangui4136
      @janetwangui4136 2 года назад

      I wish you the best too♥️you got this♥️♥️♥️

    • @Sha-1
      @Sha-1 2 года назад

      How are you doing now?

  • @angel-qx5mr
    @angel-qx5mr 2 года назад +166

    Bestie you are the highlights of my day. You have no idea how much you've helped me and motivate me to actually go for the thing I love and be the one who I want to be. From the bottom of my heart I love you so much and thank you❤🥺

    • @kritibhardwaj7482
      @kritibhardwaj7482 2 года назад +3

      So ture ❤️❤️

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  2 года назад +10

      I appreciate and love you so much for supporting my channel and watching my videos, and creating a safe space for this community ❤️

  • @lillianmarilley3884
    @lillianmarilley3884 2 года назад +91

    Rebecca is literally being a queen by posting again regularly 🥰🥰🥰
    PS Rebecca: You’re the only RUclipsr that never fails to inspire me, it’s like you’re my bestie 💛💛💛

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  2 года назад +2

      I love posting ❤️❤️ thank you for supporting my channel!!

  • @mikaylamags
    @mikaylamags 2 года назад +86

    this video was beautifully done. i love it and you!!

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  2 года назад +4

      omgggg I love your videos!! I love u ❤️❤️

  • @violetbunn6455
    @violetbunn6455 2 года назад +7

    I love how your videos aren’t toxically positive but actually give good advice. Keep doing what you do!

  • @tiana3454
    @tiana3454 2 года назад +11

    This made me feel so much better about myself. Thank you for this beautiful, motivational video. Why can't all people on social media be like you

  • @DivineBudgets19
    @DivineBudgets19 2 года назад +71

    This was so simple yet so effective and beautiful!!

  • @somyasharma11
    @somyasharma11 2 года назад +13

    I was procrastinating from so many days that I will wake up and workout and all but I never had the motivation to actually do it because of the cold weather but today when I saw this video my whole perspective changed and I really appreciated the small things in my life thankyou rebecca❤❤

  • @itsstami9635
    @itsstami9635 2 года назад +31

    I like how she makes us all feel like special and puts so much effort in making us feel important.Also love how much effort she puts in her editing

  • @Bunny-lv3dm
    @Bunny-lv3dm 2 года назад +21

    This is really helping me deal with an uncertain period of my life.
    I love the editing and all the advice ♡

  • @hahalol5408
    @hahalol5408 2 года назад +1

    this introduction was literally exactly what i needed to hear. its so intresting how this video popped up on my explore page. as if someone knew that i needed to see this!! thank you so much. imma start now.

  • @faithwatkins3758
    @faithwatkins3758 2 года назад +1

    Working is honestly the best way to feel better about the mundane. Even a few hours a week will make a huge difference. I’m always depressed if I’m not working at all.

  • @anna_v
    @anna_v 2 года назад +1

    dayum, I feel like my whole life I'm always waiting and waiting for the 'better' to come and it never does. I need to enjoy the present more..

  • @jellyellie242
    @jellyellie242 2 года назад +2

    wow honestly thank you for laying it out like a guide. especially with the chart where you break down tasks and how to make them more exciting. this is such a practical and simple video and i really needed the reminder right now ❤️

  • @Lolzers_670
    @Lolzers_670 4 месяца назад

    This will probably get lost somewhere but I remember when I first watched this video in 2022, and I always seem to come back to this. I miss watching these kind of videos and this fills me with sooo much nostalgia. This is honestly one of my favourite video formats and love love love watching your older videos. There’s something so comforting about this ❤️❤️

  • @amyrafael7993
    @amyrafael7993 2 года назад +19

    your videos really are the highlight of my day. They’re so aesthetically pleasing and what u say always motivate me so so much. Ilysm Thankyou ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  2 года назад +1

      thank you for watching ❤️❤️

  • @isshx2785
    @isshx2785 2 года назад +5

    wow this girl is so pretty inside-out, im so so so proud of you for being so strong and an inspiration to people who look up to you like me
    you're definately helping me become a better person rebecca

  • @boypilledmanmaxxing
    @boypilledmanmaxxing 2 года назад +3

    I love that I see this after crying about how I wish my life was like those I see on social media- maybe it's a sign.

  • @abbytheredwolf174
    @abbytheredwolf174 2 года назад +1

    I have depression and over think way too much but something that helps me is honestly going to school not for the learning lol but for wearing an outfit that looks good and I feel good for once unfortunately wearing a mask has allowed me to feel ok about slipping on important things but I have got my bf calling me to remind and help which I am truly blessed for

  • @aestheticluv3r697
    @aestheticluv3r697 2 года назад +20

    I've been romanticizing my life since August and omggg 8 have never felt better 🥳🥳🥳

    • @zYuL05
      @zYuL05 2 года назад

      How? Can you tell?

    • @aestheticluv3r697
      @aestheticluv3r697 2 года назад

      @@zYuL05 yes I'm happy and it feels like in the main character

    • @zYuL05
      @zYuL05 2 года назад +1

      @@aestheticluv3r697 can you tell about your routines?

    • @inspiredby-sx7wy
      @inspiredby-sx7wy 2 года назад

      How were you doing it? 😊

  • @withloveicebear
    @withloveicebear 2 года назад +19

    thank you so much, really needed this especially how ive been dealing with anxiety. thank you honestly ❤️

  • @aestheticluv3r697
    @aestheticluv3r697 2 года назад +1

    U don't know how many people u have helps. U r a god sentttt

  • @JustJulie
    @JustJulie 2 года назад +18

    The positivity on this channel is contagious ✨🤗❤️

  • @ritajabal
    @ritajabal 2 года назад +6

    you should honestly write your own book, cause this video is just amazingly pure and wonderful to watch!!

  • @filippaskov3644
    @filippaskov3644 2 года назад +6

    I agree so much! ive dealed with axiety and stress for a while, when i started living my life how i wanted to live it i stopped worrying all the time. Im so much more happy now that I know that i want to live in the present moment and make the most of it even tho it can be SOOOO hard. I hope all of you will get better and really use this video for it's purpose (:
    Bye

  • @msfaye5182
    @msfaye5182 2 года назад

    idk why when watching this i started crying.. im trying my best to become a better, healthier and happier person but its so hard rn im trying to move and figure everything out im just all over the place i started with cleaning my room and writing what i want to achieve this week and how im going to do it starting small, i get motivation and then it goes away so im trying to keep pushing forward even after. thank you for this video it was much needed

  • @jayasharma4604
    @jayasharma4604 2 года назад +5

    genuinely love the vibes of your videos so much !!! they’re so simple, yet the message comes across so clearly !!

  • @violasimeone8398
    @violasimeone8398 2 года назад +3

    okay this is so beautiful! tomorrow i'm starting the last few months of highschool and i was already stressed about the final exam lol. now i think i will go studying but with a different mindset, tysm

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  2 года назад

      goodluck with your finals ❤️❤️

  • @teume9491
    @teume9491 2 года назад +5

    I feel lonely and negative and this video really helped me
    Thank you Rebecca you made my day💗💗💕

  • @hazellofficial4360
    @hazellofficial4360 2 года назад +2

    lovely to have someone to remind me to be my own main character

  • @basicallydisha945
    @basicallydisha945 2 года назад +8

    Okk gonna be ready with popcorns to watch this !!! Yaaayyy ♥️

  • @soobinu24653
    @soobinu24653 2 года назад +2

    i could listen to your voice all day. U r so motivational. Love ya

  • @kenzie_grace3627
    @kenzie_grace3627 2 года назад +1

    me: watching hours of productive routines, fashions tips, skincare, exercise, early morning habits, journaling, reading, ect.
    also me: watching these videos until 4am and waking up at noon

  • @nznfthma
    @nznfthma 2 года назад +1

    I've been very low this past year, I kinda gave up on my life and have a lot of work to do but I've no motivation, but after seeing your video I'm feeling much better, I was crying after during the intro because of how hit hard. Thank you so much Rebecca, I'm so glad I found your channel, I love you so much 🤍

  • @meme22548
    @meme22548 2 года назад +1

    you have no idea how impactful this video is to me, thank you so much, i'm a new subs, ily! 🥺❤️

  • @laristeiger3699
    @laristeiger3699 2 года назад

    you somehow show how easily you can be loved and that you are perfect the way you are but in a way that makes one feel good about oneself too and accepted by watching you feel comfortable with sharing all this

  • @avanii2881
    @avanii2881 2 года назад +3

    Her outfits are literally DrEam

  • @gwencassidy8142
    @gwencassidy8142 2 года назад +2

    I just realized that Rebecca is form Ontario to that just makes this video feel closer to home, I love it!!💗💗

  • @aria98
    @aria98 2 года назад +2

    I remember a time where I have been there. Now it’s so hard to get back there bc of exams and stress. Like it’s so hard to keep yourself up when your surrounding is not the best :(
    Cute video tho❤️

  • @dariagorina
    @dariagorina 2 года назад +7

    i haven't watched it yet but i'm absolutely sure that's the best thing ever (as everything you post) love u so much Rebecca!💗

  • @allieboyd5840
    @allieboyd5840 2 года назад

    Did I click on this video for a motivational speech, no, did I need your beautiful words, YES, thank you so much Becca!

  • @fluffy.teddyy
    @fluffy.teddyy 2 года назад +1

    I always compare my life with influencers or youtubers who are having so much fun while I am in my room or in my house but your this video, I mean it's my first video that I am watching of your channel and Idk why but I feel like motivated and feeling fresh and thinking that 'damn, she said correct tho' lol idk why but this video gives me so much positive vibes. Thank you so much for this video ❤️

  • @sofie3266
    @sofie3266 2 года назад +3

    the editing in this omg literally a masterpiece this deserves sm more views

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  2 года назад

      thank u 😫 it took foreverrrr

  • @ChriselleLopez
    @ChriselleLopez 2 года назад +3

    "there's nothing worse than looking back at the present moment and feeling empty because you wasted months or years yearning and hoping for something better"

  • @khushiiarora9533
    @khushiiarora9533 2 года назад +2

    the first minute and a half hit hard. you spoke my thoughts out loud

  • @khyatitidke3929
    @khyatitidke3929 2 года назад +5

    omg i needed this! I've been feeling really down lately 🥺💘

  • @shrishtitomar3482
    @shrishtitomar3482 2 года назад +1

    hands down one of my fav videos made, so glad i came across u. Thank u this was so necessary :)

  • @opheliaforest5158
    @opheliaforest5158 2 года назад +1

    I have been struggling so hard on getting my routine sorted and have just kindo of been rushing through my days, this had totally inspired me to get back to my slow morning routines and setting my day up in a positive way 😍

  • @terynaliya
    @terynaliya 2 года назад +2

    I have been working on romanticizing my life lately. It is SO SO SO important if you want to be the main character in your life. Love the video and keep making great content girl! :))

  • @kateau
    @kateau 2 года назад

    SHE SAVED MY LIFE I LOVE FOREVER 😭😭💗💞

  • @parnikasunda5909
    @parnikasunda5909 2 года назад

    okay but curly hair suits you sm omgg

  • @fabienne4681
    @fabienne4681 2 года назад

    i just deleted all social media to find back to reality. it was so hard for me to see beautiful women everyday on social media that i compared myself to. your video just gave me so much motivation to work on myself and be the best version. i caught myself laying in bed all day the past months just scrolling through social media. i’m so unbelievable sad to became lazy and tired of creating a good life. i have so many issues in my relationship rn because i compare myself to his girl friends and being possessive. it needs to stop now and you made the first step to give me the motivation i’ve been waiting for. i appreciate this so much, thank you 🙏🏼

  • @jessicapacifico6928
    @jessicapacifico6928 2 года назад

    i'm crying rn. thank you so much!! It's the first time I've seen your video and now I can't stop. love from Brasil

  • @ayushisingh2515
    @ayushisingh2515 2 года назад +1

    Your videos are like rays of sunshine in winter ,really motivates me to live my life happily .

  • @MeganBungato
    @MeganBungato 2 года назад +2

    first video of yours that i've seen and i loved every second. immediately subscribed :)

  • @emilywoods3897
    @emilywoods3897 2 года назад

    Rebecca, this video is a perfect example of how just a short 10 minutes can do so much. In some cases its spending 10 minutes in the morning to romanticize the little things, but in this case it was watching your video. You gave me so much motivation to make a change this year, thank you!❤

  • @Gabyscorner
    @Gabyscorner 2 года назад +2

    finally a good youtuber who is from Canada 💓

  • @hannahwhyte
    @hannahwhyte 2 года назад +1

    This video is literally magical !! You have such a healthy attitude to life

  • @eramfatima31
    @eramfatima31 2 года назад +1

    rebecca literally looking like an angel throughout the video

  • @Summerrct
    @Summerrct 2 года назад

    The speech at the beginning *chefs kiss*

  • @tobiokageyama7589
    @tobiokageyama7589 2 года назад +5

    Always there for us at a perfect timing ! Exactly what I needed today. Thank you so much for being authentic and soooo kind. Love u

  • @rosieposie4052
    @rosieposie4052 2 года назад

    This is your first videoi am watching currently......i want to say its the best place and i will stay here♥ i found your video completely explaining what happening in my life right now⭐⭐

  • @teacheranalice
    @teacheranalice 2 года назад

    OMG, YESSS!! That's what has helped me deal with anxiety over the last few years!! Enjoying and being grateful for the small things, makes you much happier when the BIG things appear in your life ✨💛

  • @AnkitaSharma-ho8oc
    @AnkitaSharma-ho8oc 2 года назад +8

    Queen is dropping A1 Content ❤🥺

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  2 года назад +1

      hahah thank u for watching ❤️❤️

  • @laxmipriyasahu6493
    @laxmipriyasahu6493 2 года назад

    This the universe's message to me to start romanticizing my life. I shouldn't wait for someone or something to happen, rather make everyday special by myself.

  • @nisha5461
    @nisha5461 2 года назад

    I can't believe people are observing their not so good habits n changing them for their own good 👍
    Thank you for sharing 💜
    God bless you!

  • @suzieharris18
    @suzieharris18 2 года назад +1

    This video helped me turn my day around. Thank you 🤍

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  2 года назад

      thank you for watching 🥰❤️

  • @EmilyOsmund
    @EmilyOsmund 2 года назад +6

    Amazing editing!! I know you must have worked so hard great job sis we love you!!!

  • @madisonoliviaxx
    @madisonoliviaxx 2 года назад +2

    I love that she is posting again

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  2 года назад +1

      trying so hard to be consistent ❤️

  • @healthylifestylebyannapoer2340
    @healthylifestylebyannapoer2340 2 года назад

    Romance makes the heart happy automatically makes the body's imunity high

  • @okay-om7vi
    @okay-om7vi Год назад

    because of the war in my country I was forced to moved out from my house. Its really hard for me losing my home, my friends, my family.. i feel like i lost not only my life but also myself. Everything was before now is only a memory, so i couldn't pull myself together for a long time, because nothing have a value for me like those times. But now, thank you to your video, i definitely sure i want to change my way of 'living' to a real living.

  • @kritibhardwaj7482
    @kritibhardwaj7482 2 года назад +3

    the editing in this video is so amazing from the thumbnail to the songs and I liked everything about this video and her curled hair ofc ❤❤❤💕💕💕😘

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  2 года назад +1

      thank you!! hehe I haven’t curled it in so long

    • @kritibhardwaj7482
      @kritibhardwaj7482 2 года назад +1

      @@RebeccaJayy yeah that's why you look so pretty 💕💕

  • @juliet8501
    @juliet8501 2 года назад

    I can't explain my feeling rn in words, i need some motivation form last week's, wasn't able to study alot but this video helped me alot, you have a pure soul Rebecca thanku soo much 🥺💗

  • @selin6346
    @selin6346 2 года назад +1

    Your content helped me a lot w anxiety and getting out of an unhealthy lifestyle. It covers a special place in me, keep going girlie. x

  • @Ray-sl7kh
    @Ray-sl7kh 2 года назад +3

    dude i missed you sm

  • @lucerorojasprado7438
    @lucerorojasprado7438 2 года назад +2

    You hace no idea how much you helped me! Big hug for you gorgeous!!

  • @blue_satin_sashes
    @blue_satin_sashes 2 года назад +1

    hey rebecca! i love your videos! they're so encouraging and helpful. i've been insanely productive the past few weeks, but i'm starting to get very burnt out. it'd be interesting for you to do a video about how to recover from and prevent getting burnt out! much love xxx ❤

  • @anamariastoian2670
    @anamariastoian2670 2 года назад +1

    Thank u so much for uploading videos like this,it helpsme so much.
    You are scuh a baddie!! ily

  • @Mymakermovie77
    @Mymakermovie77 2 года назад +3

    I love the lessons that you share and how you make it achievable too. And the editing is so nice! No wonder you spend a lot of time on it. I'm super impressed :))

  • @teume9491
    @teume9491 2 года назад +1

    I love the way you make your video simple and in really positive way...

  • @judenicolezengimelga1751
    @judenicolezengimelga1751 2 года назад

    Why am I only discovering Rebecca recently??? This is comfortable

  • @amberfirexx9
    @amberfirexx9 2 года назад

    this video is so beautiful and well made, i teared up a little at times...thank you

  • @neharaj8847
    @neharaj8847 2 года назад

    You radiate a very pure and beautiful energy; I wish you all the happiness in the world ✨

  • @Ichvora
    @Ichvora 2 года назад +1

    you're literally my safe place!!

  • @sav3923
    @sav3923 2 года назад

    Your words gave me chills

  • @hih1590
    @hih1590 2 года назад

    the part for me about "everyone isn't living their lives as they show on social media" is that it lessens my hopes of a happy future. _if_ people would have the "perfect" lives they showcased, then i'd know i can also achieve that; i'd have something to strive for. knowing everyone suffers in their own way kinda makes my pessimistic thoughts take over, thinking things will never be that good. if not even the people who _seem_ to be happy are, how am i supposed to?

  • @jiajia7355
    @jiajia7355 2 года назад

    I needed this. I've been so stressed about school lately and when I'm not my life seems pretty boring, but I'm gonna try changing that❤

  • @sweetinocentanu
    @sweetinocentanu 2 года назад

    Your video brought tears to my eyes cuz its so relatable.

  • @reginaromanuk1930
    @reginaromanuk1930 2 года назад

    First I didn’t want to watch this video because of the title, but I’m happy that I’ve clicked on it because it really helped me. Thanks )

  • @thisakyaabeykoon7294
    @thisakyaabeykoon7294 2 года назад +1

    Aaaannnddd...right when I needed it again....thank you so much

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  2 года назад +1

      thank you for watching ❤️

  • @Sofia-ss4pn
    @Sofia-ss4pn 2 года назад +2

    I found your channel a couple of days ago and this the second video I watch of yours and I just need to say thank you and I love you. ♡ Thank you because you're reminding me that it's possible to change my present by changing my mindset/the lens I see the world through and I love you because I absolutely love what you're doing. 💘 will keep watching your videos!! Xoxo

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  2 года назад

      thank you for watching ❤️❤️