How to Become a Homemaker | A Guide for Modern Women!

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  • Опубликовано: 16 июл 2023
  • Are you desiring to become a homemaker/housewife one day? In this video I discuss 6 timeless, simple suggestions to becoming a wife and homemaker in the modern time. Feel free to share and subscribe for more content like this! Thanks for watching! ❤
    ➡️ HOMEMAKING PLAYLIST:
    • Homemaking Inspiration 🏡
    ➡️ FEMININITY & WOMANHOOD PLAYLIST:
    • Playlist
    🚀 FOR TIME TRAVELERS:
    0:37 - Change of Heart (Believe in Homemaking!)
    1:35 - Understand the Purpose & Role of Homemaking
    2:56 - Become a Wife / Finding a Marriageable Man
    4:25 - Understanding Husband's Role
    5:18 - Practice Homemaking (For Single Women)
    6:15 - Avoid Debt
    🎶 MUSIC:
    - Track: "Spring" by Ikson
    / spring-free-download
    Ikson's Social Media:
    - Instagram: iksonofficial
    - Twitter: iksonofficial
    - Facebook: iksonmusic
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    📷 Instagram: / the_helpmeet_journey
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    Hello there! 👋 My name is Berylanne, but feel free to call me Anne for short! I've been joyfully married to my loving husband, Matthew, since October 2020. And yes...we married 4 months later after meeting! Together we live in a little small town in Northern Illinois. I hope my channel brings you lots of inspiration, comfort and enjoyment. I'd love for you to come along on my journey of being a wife and homemaker too! :)
    A little about me: I enjoy baking, DIY and nature. In my past I formerly pursued feminist ways, until I discovered God's ways which completely helped me get on my new path! I give all thanks to Christ who transformed my life for the better through Salvation. I share more of how I came to know God fully in the playlist titled "The Good News". 🙏
    Thanks for stopping by and thanks for subscribing! ❤
    Be sure to follow on Instagram for more inspiration: @The_Helpmeet_Journey
    xoxo
    -Anne :)

Комментарии • 55

  • @ashleyh.7529
    @ashleyh.7529 11 месяцев назад +12

    I love your suggestion about student loan debt interfering with being a homemaker. I feel like youth groups should inform teenage girls about this before they go to college.
    One thing I would suggest to young women is buying a home based on the husbands income. That way if the wife wants to stay home after having a baby, she can because their mortgage isn’t based on both of them needing to work. It’s terrible to have to work when wanting to stay home with young children and infants.

  • @crterwil
    @crterwil 11 месяцев назад +5

    I am a grandma now and have been a home maker while working outside the home mostly part time as needed. My home, hubby and faith are where my heart is. So good to see a young generation of home makers. Lovely video.

  • @sigritrahayu8543
    @sigritrahayu8543 11 месяцев назад +8

    God must be love me so much ❤, your channel pop up on my screen. I am a homemaker for almost 20 years, and you know what I still need this encouragement.. thank you, God bless you

    • @TheHelpmeetJourney
      @TheHelpmeetJourney  11 месяцев назад

      Aw that's so wonderful! 🙏 Thanks so much! 😘❤️ Many blessings 😊

    • @Jordansadie8
      @Jordansadie8 11 месяцев назад +1

      That's great. Yes He loves you sooooo much.

  • @superkitten7560
    @superkitten7560 11 месяцев назад +8

    Thank you for this video. Even seven years on, I still struggle with being okay being a homemaker because society at every turn makes you believe it's *not* okay.

    • @TheHelpmeetJourney
      @TheHelpmeetJourney  11 месяцев назад +2

      Yes it's very unfortunate! It's okay to be a homemaker! ❤️ Blessings 🙏

    • @lovelypandamom
      @lovelypandamom 11 месяцев назад +1

      It's not only okay, but it's great to be a homemaker!❤

  • @michelletackett9489
    @michelletackett9489 11 месяцев назад +13

    Yes. Being a housewife is a wonderful calling and important for society.

  • @gemsandpearlswithlove
    @gemsandpearlswithlove 11 месяцев назад +5

    I love being a homemaker!! I wouldn’t trade it in for anything!!☺️🎀💕

  • @antoinette9988
    @antoinette9988 11 месяцев назад +9

    The issue that feminism tackles is not that homemakers are bad, it is that this work is SEVERELY UNDERVALUED. Men have never respected it as a whole and because of that women devalue it as well. Feminism wants this type of lifestyle to be valued ie in divorce court. If you are going to critique something please check the facts.

    • @TheHelpmeetJourney
      @TheHelpmeetJourney  11 месяцев назад +7

      None of this makes sense...? These are all huge generalizations and false notions. Realistically, feminism and marriage/homemaking don't go hand-in-hand. 😒

    • @innervisions100
      @innervisions100 11 месяцев назад +3

      Thank you! People actually know nothing about feminism but are always dogging it. Feminism would never devalue a woman's labor.

  • @tammya5403
    @tammya5403 11 месяцев назад +4

    For me, making a more detailed video on what to look for in a man for marriage, would be so helpful and informative! I was raised in a little bit of dysfunction, but with God, He changed my mindset for the better. Just found your channel today. Thank you for being on RUclips! God bless you and your beautiful family ❤🙏

    • @TheHelpmeetJourney
      @TheHelpmeetJourney  11 месяцев назад +3

      Will do! 👍 Thanks for the suggestion! I'll have the video posted in the near future. Thanks for watching 😊😊

  • @deborahhopper4832
    @deborahhopper4832 11 месяцев назад +5

    Well said😀I’ve been home making for a long while.

  • @lean3HisBeloved
    @lean3HisBeloved 11 месяцев назад +8

    I am newly married and I grew up in an environment where all tue females in our family were career orientated,especially my mom. Although I have a small business if my own,I enjoy home making so much more. I rely on videos like this for guidance and education on top of what the Bible teaches. Thank you for helping a fellow sister in the faith walking out a role culture seems to always want to encourage us out of.

    • @TheHelpmeetJourney
      @TheHelpmeetJourney  11 месяцев назад

      I'm glad this video is helpful! It's a blessing to have the opportunity of homemaking too! 🥰 God Bless! 🙏

  • @YTuser854
    @YTuser854 11 месяцев назад +3

    the men will love this one

  • @summertime9224
    @summertime9224 11 месяцев назад +4

    I think you did EXCELLENT composing this video and explaining the components of homemaking 👍 When I went to high school, I was blessed enough that the school (religious one) had several courses focused on the mentalities necessary to succeed at being a wife. Make no mistake, it was an institution that challenged and demanded with regard to math, computers and finance, but in all of those topics it was central that the value of those skills was to build a valuable wife, not a single woman "doing it for herself", who might be called on by her husband to execute this or that either in the household or at a family business. People often just think of the old "home economics" classes of the 50's or something, but a modern day woman often needs the mental and emotional nourishment that goes to the brain and heart to contradicts the messages and imagery of selfishness and self interest that are so prevalent today. And yes ladies that means being able to cook and knowing what gets out such-and-such stain too! Brava to you Berylanne! Keep giving this wonderful information, and the day to day realities of it all also. You do a fine job 🌹

    • @TheHelpmeetJourney
      @TheHelpmeetJourney  11 месяцев назад

      Aw thanks for sharing your background! ❤️ I appreciate the kind words 🥰 😊

  • @aproverbshome173
    @aproverbshome173 11 месяцев назад +3

    A man that find's a wife finds a good thing! Proverbs 18:22
    Great video waiting in the Lord for the right man and to men right woman. Thank you for sharing!

  • @TheHelpmeetJourney
    @TheHelpmeetJourney  11 месяцев назад +3

    Hello there! 👋 Feel free to leave a comment below on any other suggestion or tip you may have for women desiring to become a homemaker/housewife one day! 🥰 👇
    (Your comment may be pinned at top!) 😊

  • @ms.delicateflower938
    @ms.delicateflower938 11 месяцев назад +2

    yes! we need a husband list video. the dating world is very different and sad.

    • @TheHelpmeetJourney
      @TheHelpmeetJourney  11 месяцев назад

      Will do! 👍😊

    • @user-oc7sv4pe1w
      @user-oc7sv4pe1w 11 месяцев назад

      @@TheHelpmeetJourney can't wait & if its possible, pls talk about how to resist the temptation & stand firmly in your standards despite 3D reality, also how to feel worthy when we're in 30s , i am 32 and took 2 years dating break after multiple toxic relationship and FEAR OF RUNNING OUT TIME IS REAL sis

  • @lovelydeedlight1448
    @lovelydeedlight1448 11 месяцев назад +1

    I am slacking I can definitely do better ❤I love the way you love and take care of your family ( blessings to your family) 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @candacelucas3447
    @candacelucas3447 11 месяцев назад +5

    I still work but I love to cook and do for my husband.And being feminine I can’t tell you how many times I been told I cook to much and I should just make my husband a sandwich.home making is my commitment to my husband

  • @natarshaunderwood7448
    @natarshaunderwood7448 11 месяцев назад +1

    So happy I found your channel God is good to me😇

  • @zynabuchishala2132
    @zynabuchishala2132 11 месяцев назад +2

    Really missed you with your content.

  • @aliaguerin4100
    @aliaguerin4100 11 месяцев назад +4

    The stepford wives😂

  • @batyaseguin6307
    @batyaseguin6307 9 месяцев назад +1

    Great information.

  • @carlaray3318
    @carlaray3318 11 месяцев назад +3

    Im so glad I found your channel. I'm a homemaker too & I love it! You take such wonderful care of your family & your home! 🏡❤

    • @TheHelpmeetJourney
      @TheHelpmeetJourney  11 месяцев назад

      Welcome! 😘 Thanks so much for the sweet words! 😊

  • @yvettewalshe9130
    @yvettewalshe9130 11 месяцев назад +1

    God bless you. Pls make that list for other young women!

  • @lovelypandamom
    @lovelypandamom 11 месяцев назад +4

    I'm a homemaker thanks to the Grace of God! ❤ I used to have to work 10 hour days then come back to take care of my little house. Now I spend my days caring for our *home* and family, and it's wonderful 😊

    • @TheHelpmeetJourney
      @TheHelpmeetJourney  11 месяцев назад +1

      That's so great you made your way back home! 😄 God is good! Thanks for watching ❤️

  • @kaylajames3098
    @kaylajames3098 11 месяцев назад +1

    Husband video please. As well as more on what to work on while still single and 30.

  • @Berlanciamyrtil
    @Berlanciamyrtil 11 месяцев назад +1

    Yes! What should we look for in a man for traditional marriage please 🙏🏿

  • @user-oc7sv4pe1w
    @user-oc7sv4pe1w 11 месяцев назад +2

    finding husband journey please, i am so tired of nowadays dating world & its very confusing especially for a colored woman

  • @batyaseguin6307
    @batyaseguin6307 9 месяцев назад

    What was the book you were reading from please.

    • @TheHelpmeetJourney
      @TheHelpmeetJourney  9 месяцев назад

      It was my own narration! (Not from a book) 😊 Thanks for watching! 👍

  • @alexandria3004
    @alexandria3004 11 месяцев назад +5

    This was on time! I grew up with feminist mind set, but God is leading me to be married. I want to learn before it happened. Thank you!

    • @TheHelpmeetJourney
      @TheHelpmeetJourney  11 месяцев назад +1

      You're welcome! 🥰 I hope you'll be blessed with marriage in the near future! 🙏

  • @rh7968
    @rh7968 11 месяцев назад

    Well said!

  • @antonio1120
    @antonio1120 11 месяцев назад

    P R O M O S M 🙄

  • @mirandataylor6385
    @mirandataylor6385 8 месяцев назад

    I don’t understand your view of an American housewife being feminine? Do you just ignore that the American housewife was created after American whites lost their slaves? When they no longer had slaves to do domestic duties, that work was transferred to women. Those times were very abusive for women and many of the women in those times had mental breakdowns and abused drugs.
    How did you change oversees her household to say does domestic duties? Most successful families had maids or servants to help with those tasks since the beginning of time. Are you just brainwashed by American-washed history and haven’t actually looked back at the actual roles of women throughout history?

    • @TheHelpmeetJourney
      @TheHelpmeetJourney  8 месяцев назад +1

      I can clarify...... My beliefs and viewpoints of homemaking, gender roles and family structure comes from the Bible. I believe in Biblical principals as a Christian. I don't follow political or ideological beliefs within the culture. With that being said, I don't believe homemaking is connected to a specific historic time period or was "invented" during American Slavery. I believe God instituted homemaking and the family structure for all women. Raising children full time has nothing to do with historical slavery or what women did in the past. God's will for men and women will either be accepted or rejected. 🙏 I'm not sure where you learned this mindset from, but it's completely false. I hope this helps! 👍