A man who knows that his heart ain’t w you yet he’s allowing you to jump through hoops, be misled & he’s wasting your time ain’t a man worth havin no way. Men who are like that only love •themselves•🎯🎯
Such men do not escape karma. Normally whomever their hearts want hardly reciprocate. Not because they shouldn't it's because they have acquired bad karma hurting others in the process.
Lol Yall women are funny So because you've chosen to do all the stuff even though it's not reciprocated it's the man's fault He's the bad guy, that man ain't holding you hostage What the man is saying is if you ain't the one the man will never treat you like the one
@@ABrown-hs7fy Yes lying and manipuakting someone into believing you have feelings is going to eventually bite you in the ass when you do fall for someone genuinely karma is a bitch and no wrong deed goes unpunished
That's why women need to stop giving marital privileges like sex, babies etc to men who don't love them. Withholding sex gives a woman a better perspective on a man's true personality.
There's karma for wasting a good woman’s time and playing with her heart. I’ve witnessed those repercussions. So while you gloat about having the upper hand. I will sit back and watch you play yourself. The same heartache you inflicted tenfold. God does not like selfish and self serving wrecking balls, you will get humbled. So go BE with that woman and leave good women alone.
being good doesn’t mean being ignorant. good and ignorant are two different things. one can be good and intelligent (knowledgable) and This is the combination that everyone women and men need. Women need it more as per what we hear in this clip !
This is why women need to stop letting men waste their time. Some women will stay thinking they can make a man love and want her. Some women can clearly see the signs but they have this belief that they can make a man love her if she does all these things. A lot of women let men string them along.
This is actually truth. I'm out the game and plan to stay out...but when a man likes you, you do everything right. When he doesn't...you can't do anything right.
@@Key-Key444 men aint like women...they don't make excuses for you, big or small. As a woman you should not take it personally...just make sure you never get into a situation with a man without benefitting from it...UP FRONT. Your time as a woman is valuable, and you can 100% build your own wealth, lifestyle.
HONESTY, will save everyone’s time. Why engage with someone then, if you don’t have genuine feelings for them? It’s a shitty, selfish, weak thing to do.
I agree but U gotta remember HOOKERS been in a particular profession for decades and regardless of their TRICKS, that man STILL goes hm to where his ❤️ is🤷🏽♀️ijs
I was actually referring to a man in this situation. Even with hookers as you’ve put it. He DOESN’T HAVE TO engage. Be intentional and honest with whoever it is you want to engage with and stick to them.
@tonyadenson6311 *Many men have tried to hook up with (lock down) hookers, too, but she wasn't having it!* *Also, if one's so inclined to cheat on their partner, I doubt it's "real" love!*
Women need to stop seeking men who are not theirs to marry. Women know this before they give themselves to a man. A woman put herself out there when doing all those things to get that man. We as women know this. Women manipulate and end up getting hurt, because that man was not theirs from the beginning. Women need to stop having babies by men they are not married to and stop acting like wives without being married.
@chrisybeautytv, sometimes the ones in the Church who claim to know and preach JESUS are the worse. Trust me had my experiences with this Reverend who sits at and preach at the pulpit. Alot of them are agents of satan pretending to be light.##
@@tabathagreen1313 Agreed. And that's so shallow! How do they know within minutes if he doesn't know her? Weird. A hot face and body can only do so much!
What's a good woman? Why would they lie to a woman? What's good and bad is determined by the person who's doing the judging. In life, I'm yet to hear a person say, "I'm an awful person." We all believe we are good people.
It doesn't. None of my comments are changing. Y'all always trying to find ways to separate yourselves. "Good Woman" "Real woman". For what? Why not just have integrity towards everyone? That way you don't have to turn in on and off.@@anonymousdonor
OK then.. Ok then why would men lie to women with integrity then?. I have seen it so many times. The women who do not have these qualities are usually the ones that get the guy.
Because men are selfish and heartless, women need to set better boundaries and stop giving up your bodies so freely. They don't care about the good woman, they want the woman who doesn't want them.
@@cha9165Put power back in your own hands by connecting to GOD and increasing your discernment. A man doesn't have to tell you because you have the wisdom to already know. Women need to empower themselves to know. 😊😊
It is not hard. Women need to stop seeking men who are not theirs to marry. Women know this before they give themselves to a man. A woman put herself out there when doing all those things to get that man. We as women know this. Women manipulate and end up getting hurt, because that man was not theirs from the beginning. Women need to stop having babies by men they are not married to and stop acting like wives without being married.
Women typically don't stay where their heart is not. Men on the other hand will be one place and have their heart in another. I've seen women who spent a lifetime with men who didn't love them, even created families with them. And I've seen a man lose it all for the woman they love whether she truly loved him back or not. Bottom line...my grandmother and my papa always told me, a man is supposed to love the woman a little more than she loves him. Ain't no other way. I know it sounds foolish...but the older I get, I'm starting to realize it might be true.
💣 💣 💣 Boom shak ka la ka!!! NIECES/NEPHEWS/BOTH do you HEAR him. TRUTH...said in a couple of minutes. So simple, what has been made complicated. Ol skool use to say 'why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free.' Turn that focus upward and inward and see what your God will do.
They will even marry you knowing you're not the one. They just want to ensure that they keep getting the benefits because you're doing entirely too much. When that right one comes along they'll still leave you.
I agree, men are married to women that they don’t even love. Heart be somewhere else. It’s really sad because you shouldn’t waste people time and play with people feelings. In some cases just because your heart there don’t mean your meant to be with that person. I’d rather stay single then deal with heartache.
Unpopular opinion: as women we know when we dont have a man's heart...we know!!! A truth a lot of women dont like to admit so that we'll have someone to villainize when we're left out in the cold, speaking from personal experience and from hearing other women relationship stories
I agree that's my situation but I took my heart out & now just reap the benefits of not paying bills until I finish college I don't even sleep with him I know he's cheating and I do not care I know his heart is with his baby momma & idgaf I use to want him but once I peeped that I took my heart out so yes we be knowing
@yousaid4026 do they talk about other women to you? That's the first sign of a women still having a mans heart... is he still angry at that women do he bash her 9 times out of 10 he's still hurt by that woman and still in love smh
Woo!! 😭🤣 your Truth resonated with me with this message. That’s why, Ladies, it is highly ‘Imperative’ to seek GOD (Our Heavenly Father) His Guidance, about any Man before you start Courting him. ♥️ # I say this with Love❤️
@@KINGDEVON16 Agreed. And as a Woman, if we Respectfully hold our hearts, minds, and 🐈⬛ and 🍑 in the Hands of the MOST HIGH-- when a man shows that he does not value what even your own CREATOR does... 🚶🏾♀️...🏃🏾♀️💨 AND show him, he may not, but YOU do!!! ❤🤗
The sad part is how some folks think it’s okay to string people along just for kicks. This vid speaks volumes but the world would be a better place if folks stopped playing these silly selfish games. We reap what we sow!!! May God guard our hearts from deceivers (Proverbs 4:23).
Amen. Additionally, the Bible says, "He who finds a good wife", not "She who finds a good husband ". So we single ladies just need to sit back, focus on our relationship with God, and allow God to work on the man He has for us. Because these men today ain't nothing but a bag of bones anyway. They act so feminine and also lie too much. Men today have lost their integrity. Too focused on sex.
Soooooo true. Ladies, quit playing house and pretend wife with these men treating them like they are your husband and he hasn’t asked you to be his wife. When a man wants you, he will marry you and not take years to do it.
@@eve3363No not all of us. I protected myself by waiting for my hubby to have sex so I have never been heartbroken because I would see how women around me would be used in the worst way for sexual pleasure and tossed aside like trash. I remained faithful to my heart and my body so this helped me so much which is what I tell the teens. It was worth the wait and the blessing from God in my man of God who found me.
This goes for men too, butI am tired of my sisters getting hurt as I have. Women need to stop seeking men who are not theirs to marry. Women know this before they give themselves to a man. A woman put herself out there when doing all those things to get that man. We as women know this. Women manipulate and end up getting hurt, because that man was not theirs from the beginning. Women need to stop having babies by men they are not married to and stop acting like wives without being married. Like most women, I learned this from hurt, but I was blessed not to bring an innocent, precious baby into any of those confused relationships
Preach Sister,these naive, gullible women need to stop having babies with men they're not married to,a baby is not going to hold a man or make him stay with.
@@billie-ocean8286 that's why I really don't trust men,I've been hurt in the past, I'm protecting my heart now, I'm a good woman,I always meet men with bad intentions and trying to take advantage of me.
Sir what you are saying is 100000000000% true! I stupidly stayed in a 3.5 year situationship that was going nowhere. I grew tired by the second and one day I finally had, had enough and put myself first and said no more. Im never doing that again. I waisted 3.5 years of my own life on a male that didn't feel the same way I did about him.
AMEN AMEN, Sister, U r #NOT the only one, I was a FOOL 4 a #NO good MALE who didn't care About me, I #WASTED 2 yes n 3 months..But I learned my lesson, #NEVER Again 🎉
A woman also KNOWS who her heart belongs to. You can make her laugh till next year and book her flights all over the world, but that doesn’t change the fact that she’s able to play along (despite knowing that you’re full of it). By intuition alone, we know clowns and we know frogs. A clown is no man and a frog can never be a prince.
Im not worried about nothing, My heart belongs to Jesus! 😊 my joy comes from Him. I trust Him, thats 1 thing for sure (we can all trust Him fully and dont have to have the worries of this world anymore once we belong to Him. 100% TRUTH
Their heart is usually with that woman who’s not going to come by and nurse him back to good health or even give him a simple phone call when he’s a little ill. If you can’t be with the one you think you love and they are showing you all of the signs that they do not love you back, then that’s the sign that you are toxic and is only attracted to drama and has grown accustomed to dark pain. It actually means that you need to be alone and begin a healing process for yourself! The person who’s bending over backwards to please a person who does not want or appreciate them is an indication that they need to begin a healing process as well. Learn who you are and your worth in order to jump off this vicious toxic cycle💟✨
Imagine that Jesus is telling you that his Heart belongs to you. ❤ Ladies, there is a man called Jesus Christ, he loves you beyond words, you are the Apple of his eyes. The " love" of man is perishable, unfortunately. ❤
A hard truth. Ladies notice the signs. If loving him is hard to do you're not the one he truly wants. Plan your exit and move on. 🤷🏽♀️ It's nothing worse than loving a man who doesn't love you and will lead you on a hook for years just to waste your time. Yes, it's selfish. Yes, it's wrong. But what are you going to do. Ladies you can't change or convince a man to love you either they do or don't. If they do you won't question it their actions will show you.
My cousin once told me about his baby mamma and his side chick. He said the side chick was a bedroom bully, but there is no way he was leaving his baby mamma for her because that's who he loves. Ladies, take notes.
Crazy how they can so easily separate “love” from sex. For probably the baby mamma the love and the sex go together. The thing is, him stepping out on her is not love. He has a twisted sense of what love actually is. With love also comes trust, respect, and loyalty. How can you say you love someone, but not be trustworthy, respect, or be loyal to them. Because it’s not love. It’s self serving love. Selfish love for self. Not love for the other person.
Knowing where his heart belongs and actually putting in the action of showing where his heart belongs is two different things A man can know where his heart belongs and continue to play the field to the day he died but knowing where his heart belongs and keeping it there and only there with his body attached to it is a totally different thing we must stop being these men's fools first of all we must wait on God and trust that what he has for us is for us cuz if we wait on God for what it is that he has for us we wouldn't be stuck in a rabbit's hole trying to get a man to appreciate us or love us who was never intended to do any of those things in the first place
Mama always said love who love you and you definitely will get treated much better….. So at the age of 40 why didn’t I heed 😩 I know I love him more and I’m miserable as hell 🚪🏃🏽♀️💨
I know this to be 1000% correct because my mother taught this very thing to me and my sisters!! She taught us to NEVER TRY too hard ("do the most" in today's terms) because the WRONG man will take advantage of that. And she said NO MATTER what you do, if his HEART is not there, you WILL NOT have him! OMG, I swear you're my "Spirit" brother!! LOL Thank you so much for consistently telling us the B%TT-N&KED TRUTH! We NEED to hear it and take heed! 🤗🙏🏽💝
Yeah but he ain't gonna treat nobody right. Not even the one who supposedly has his heart. He'll cheat on her too, but still claim to really love her. I think single life is better , nobody has time for these games.
To be honest some women don't WANT to move on. They want that man more than anything. And they'll stay no matter what. I think most women know somewhere deep down that a man doesn't want them. But maybe he's handsome or rich and they stay.
Truth hurts but this is the TRUTH!!!! 💯 It was no coincidence me coming across this video right now (because it confirms what I already believed/knew in my heart about how certain guys, the more promiscuous ones specifically, operate) Not that this is OK, BUT this is the reality of it. Thank you, sir for this one 🙏🏾❤️🎯
And another thing…I was bought up in Sunday bible school. As much as women were so in religion…it amazes me how so many were not scholars in the Bible. In Genesis…it states that a woman is for a man…not a man for a woman. And I can remember when so called god in the Old Testament told king David to stop living in his emotions due to the death of his son by his army. Killing David eldest son to prevent his son from killing him. David had to get his emotions in check. This is harsh being that this was his son…but his son was warring against him. So his son brought his death upon himself. Knowing that David’s army was going to protect their king. I always lived by keeping my emotions in check as a girl and as a woman…wife…mother. Which my mother always told me I was a boy she never wanted due to me never wanting to show my emotions. As I would always say”what do you want me to do? “ “ break down and die?” You’ll never see me sweat. But being that said…my father was an alpha narcissist too. So I watched and learned from that dude. Made me balanced in my emotions. Learned from the best. So the point is…women…stop living by your emotions when it comes to men. Love in general. It’s no such thing as the love that you are looking for on this earth. The way you’re giving it. Men don’t want a good woman. They want a balanced women. A woman that will walk away from their BS when prompt too😂
You are sooo right!!! Thank you for educating people who dont know. I appreciate good people like us who want a better world and positive change and take action to promote it.
The best message I've heard all year. Someone pass the collection plate and send this to every single woman you know!!! Stop trying to earn prove do just be.
This is so true, especially when you have a Man that claims you and said he belongs to you, and everyone wants to know what that feels like so bad they keep trying to do the most to get what you have…. Sorry, I’m a little triggered 🤣😂. Great video.❤
It Doesn't Matter How Much You Do, How Many Children You Have For Him And How Long You Wait, You'll Never Be The One He Chooses, If You're Not The One, Big Facts! 💯💞💫
Baby, if he won't tell me, he better not come over here playing with me because I have a few screws loose. He'll get the energy that ol' girl had in "thin line between love and hate"
That is why we as women must examine ourselves, listen to our intuition and be willing to release him. Don’t waste time anymore with what is Not chosen for your future purpose. Been there done that. Added up the years of dysfunction, toxic relationships. I made up my mind. God you choose this time, heal my heart and confirm to both of us that we are meant to be together.# TrustGod
FACTS! That's why ya gotta communicate. There should be words n actions gotta line up together. Don't be scared to ask questions. what's said n not said. What's Done n not done to support what was said.. will determine what you need to do. Period.
Man are simple and they will show you and actually tell you if they have integrity. Actions are always louder than words. I'm pretty much deaf at this point. I go by actions only. This is actually a people thing not just man. Woman can truly love someone else but be somewhere else for other things. Hopefully people can start being truthful with themselves and other people. For me I can't fake the funk. I dont want you in my personal space if I don't love you and you don't love me.
You deserve a effing Oscar and tribute in the true story Hall of Fame 🎉it's painful to hear what you already know being confirmed but it's for your healing ...ain't you been heartbroken enough breaking your own heart behind em sis ? Ijs I know that it wasn't me for him I got tired of breaking my back and heart after the 3rd&4th time hopefully you learn the 1st or second my queens
Oh my gosh, this is so true I rather have the man’s heart, then his body with me. When men love, they love deep, they love hard, and they will not tell you that their heart is not with you because they enjoy how you’re treating them and making them feel .
A man who knows that his heart ain’t w you yet he’s allowing you to jump through hoops, be misled & he’s wasting your time ain’t a man worth havin no way. Men who are like that only love •themselves•🎯🎯
They actually don’t love themselves and it shows.
@@sadie5411Exactly. 🎯💯 SELF hate projected.
Such men do not escape karma. Normally whomever their hearts want hardly reciprocate. Not because they shouldn't it's because they have acquired bad karma hurting others in the process.
Lol Yall women are funny So because you've chosen to do all the stuff even though it's not reciprocated it's the man's fault He's the bad guy, that man ain't holding you hostage
What the man is saying is if you ain't the one the man will never treat you like the one
@@ABrown-hs7fy Yes lying and manipuakting someone into believing you have feelings is going to eventually bite you in the ass when you do fall for someone genuinely karma is a bitch and no wrong deed goes unpunished
NEVER LET A MAN SHOW YOU OR TELL YOU MORE THAN ONCE THAT HE DONT WANT YOU
Preach 🙌
AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN...BY #SteveHarvey🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤
Preach
Facts
Men stop using women you don't love or want!!!
That's why women need to stop giving marital privileges like sex, babies etc to men who don't love them. Withholding sex gives a woman a better perspective on a man's true personality.
Sounds right, but how so ?
@@muma6559they say no one is nicer than a man who has yet to have sex with you. 🤷🏾♀️
@@chanelr6389 haha, ok. I shall save that piece of advice in my back pocket.
@@muma6559 lol
*CLAP CLAP BRAVO!!!!* 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
There's karma for wasting a good woman’s time and playing with her heart. I’ve witnessed those repercussions. So while you gloat about having the upper hand. I will sit back and watch you play yourself. The same heartache you inflicted tenfold. God does not like selfish and self serving wrecking balls, you will get humbled. So go BE with that woman and leave good women alone.
I am watching a man being humbled right now.
Be careful men. Stop being agents of the devil.
Edit: Repent, and give and hearts to Christ.
being good doesn’t mean being ignorant. good and ignorant are two different things. one can be good and intelligent (knowledgable) and This is the combination that everyone women and men need. Women need it more as per what we hear in this clip !
A word.
This is why women need to stop letting men waste their time. Some women will stay thinking they can make a man love and want her. Some women can clearly see the signs but they have this belief that they can make a man love her if she does all these things. A lot of women let men string them along.
A person will only do what you allow them to do. Always remember that. A man will let a woman string her along as long as she allows it.
This is actually truth. I'm out the game and plan to stay out...but when a man likes you, you do everything right. When he doesn't...you can't do anything right.
Whew ! Thank you ! I needed to see this comment!
Thank you for your “game.” Us who have been through the game can at least school those who still are.
@@Key-Key444 men aint like women...they don't make excuses for you, big or small. As a woman you should not take it personally...just make sure you never get into a situation with a man without benefitting from it...UP FRONT. Your time as a woman is valuable, and you can 100% build your own wealth, lifestyle.
@@tamhead1 wow. That’s a lot of jewels, appreciate it!
@@tamhead1benefitting? In what way?
HONESTY, will save everyone’s time. Why engage with someone then, if you don’t have genuine feelings for them? It’s a shitty, selfish, weak thing to do.
I agree but U gotta remember HOOKERS been in a particular profession for decades and regardless of their TRICKS, that man STILL goes hm to where his ❤️ is🤷🏽♀️ijs
I was actually referring to a man in this situation. Even with hookers as you’ve put it. He DOESN’T HAVE TO engage. Be intentional and honest with whoever it is you want to engage with and stick to them.
@tonyadenson6311 *Many men have tried to hook up with (lock down) hookers, too, but she wasn't having it!*
*Also, if one's so inclined to cheat on their partner, I doubt it's "real" love!*
@dollyscott-payne7488 what a lot of us "women" don't understand is "cheating" has nothing to do w/ us.....
Women need to stop seeking men who are not theirs to marry. Women know this before they give themselves to a man. A woman put herself out there when doing all those things to get that man. We as women know this. Women manipulate and end up getting hurt, because that man was not theirs from the beginning. Women need to stop having babies by men they are not married to and stop acting like wives without being married.
If a man's heart is not with The Most High take head and let him be. Save yourself the heartache.
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This is the top comment above all!
THIS… is thee comment!!
Amen Amen Amen 😊
AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN 🎉🎉🎉🎉
I love my wife and my heart belongs to her
Awwwwww, Sooooooo #Sweet 🎉
@@KM-oy5yh 🤣🤣😂 LMAO
Corny ass
His heart should belong to Jesus.
My heart will surely belong to Jesus ❤ Amenn 🙏🏽✨
AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN, Sister 🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉
@chrisybeautytv, sometimes the ones in the Church who claim to know and preach JESUS are the worse. Trust me had my experiences with this Reverend who sits at and preach at the pulpit. Alot of them are agents of satan pretending to be light.##
Not only does a man know, he knows within minutes after he meets her!
Exactly,why waste a good woman 's time
@@tabathagreen1313 Agreed. And that's so shallow! How do they know within minutes if he doesn't know her? Weird. A hot face and body can only do so much!
Why would they lie to a good woman who loves and trusts them and break her heart and trust and damage her beyond repair? No one deserves that.
What's a good woman? Why would they lie to a woman? What's good and bad is determined by the person who's doing the judging. In life, I'm yet to hear a person say, "I'm an awful person." We all believe we are good people.
@@Nah.ImCoolAll your comments on this video say a lot more about you than you may think. 🫡🖤🫴🏾🫵🏾
It doesn't. None of my comments are changing. Y'all always trying to find ways to separate yourselves. "Good Woman" "Real woman". For what? Why not just have integrity towards everyone? That way you don't have to turn in on and off.@@anonymousdonor
OK then.. Ok then why would men lie to women with integrity then?. I have seen it so many times. The women who do not have these qualities are usually the ones that get the guy.
Because men are selfish and heartless, women need to set better boundaries and stop giving up your bodies so freely. They don't care about the good woman, they want the woman who doesn't want them.
I’m a BLACK man & I totally approve this message 💯💯💯💯💯💯👑🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
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Of course.
Uhhh why that got anything to do with it?
@@lovelace8702lol
@@lovelace8702😂😂😂 because black men know that they are the main ones that do this type of shit, that's why
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Amen. It all comes down to this. A man wants what he wants and that's it. If you're not what he wants - you're wasting your time.
He also needs to communicate this 😂
@@cha9165Put power back in your own hands by connecting to GOD and increasing your discernment. A man doesn't have to tell you because you have the wisdom to already know. Women need to empower themselves to know. 😊😊
@@tharealmeplusfiveNo, he needs to verbalize this, or face karma for not doing so, it's just that simple.
@tiffanyyisrael7989 Definitely, and Karma is so real.😊
@@tharealmeplusfiveAbsolutely!
That's a "HARD" truth, but so true, and well said.
It is not hard. Women need to stop seeking men who are not theirs to marry. Women know this before they give themselves to a man. A woman put herself out there when doing all those things to get that man. We as women know this. Women manipulate and end up getting hurt, because that man was not theirs from the beginning. Women need to stop having babies by men they are not married to and stop acting like wives without being married.
As a woman, I feel the same way. If the love isn't there it can't be faked, replicated, and nothing they do will ever be enough or change it
Well said
Amen
Women typically don't stay where their heart is not. Men on the other hand will be one place and have their heart in another. I've seen women who spent a lifetime with men who didn't love them, even created families with them. And I've seen a man lose it all for the woman they love whether she truly loved him back or not.
Bottom line...my grandmother and my papa always told me, a man is supposed to love the woman a little more than she loves him. Ain't no other way. I know it sounds foolish...but the older I get, I'm starting to realize it might be true.
@@CMeri-sl6btThat's a fact
💣 💣 💣 Boom shak ka la ka!!! NIECES/NEPHEWS/BOTH do you HEAR him. TRUTH...said in a couple of minutes. So simple, what has been made complicated. Ol skool use to say 'why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free.' Turn that focus upward and inward and see what your God will do.
They do tell you. We dont be listening.
In more ways than one.
@@phinolanurse8059 for sure.
@DulceCubana100, 🎯 They DO tell you, and we don’t listen!👍🏽
They will even marry you knowing you're not the one. They just want to ensure that they keep getting the benefits because you're doing entirely too much.
When that right one comes along they'll still leave you.
I agree, men are married to women that they don’t even love. Heart be somewhere else. It’s really sad because you shouldn’t waste people time and play with people feelings. In some cases just because your heart there don’t mean your meant to be with that person. I’d rather stay single then deal with heartache.
Unpopular opinion: as women we know when we dont have a man's heart...we know!!! A truth a lot of women dont like to admit so that we'll have someone to villainize when we're left out in the cold, speaking from personal experience and from hearing other women relationship stories
Agreed
I agree that's my situation but I took my heart out & now just reap the benefits of not paying bills until I finish college I don't even sleep with him I know he's cheating and I do not care I know his heart is with his baby momma & idgaf I use to want him but once I peeped that I took my heart out so yes we be knowing
Hello how do women know when they don’t have a man’s heart?
@yousaid4026 do they talk about other women to you? That's the first sign of a women still having a mans heart... is he still angry at that women do he bash her 9 times out of 10 he's still hurt by that woman and still in love smh
@@leagalore No, he does none of that mess with me. Doesn’t talk about other women except when I asked about past dating life
Well that was clear as day!!!!!💯
You spoke the truth, I pay close attention to a man's actions.
Woo!! 😭🤣 your Truth resonated with me with this message. That’s why, Ladies, it is highly ‘Imperative’ to seek GOD (Our Heavenly Father) His Guidance, about any Man before you start Courting him. ♥️ # I say this with Love❤️
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🤣🤣🤣. There's no courting.
This the one!
I agree wholeheartedly 🎯💯💗🙏🏾
AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤
True for women, too. I lost my fiance the day he realized my heart wasn't totally his.
Respectfully, he did what he was supposed to do as a MAN!
I agree, and I respect him for it. He saw the truth in my eyes. Which also means he was truly paying attention to me. @@KINGDEVON16
@@KINGDEVON16 Agreed. And as a Woman, if we Respectfully hold our hearts, minds, and 🐈⬛ and 🍑 in the Hands of the MOST HIGH-- when a man shows that he does not value what even your own CREATOR does... 🚶🏾♀️...🏃🏾♀️💨 AND show him, he may not, but YOU do!!! ❤🤗
Why was he your fiance if your heart wasn't totally his?
I don't give my entire life story to strangers. I've known you ten seconds and already don't like you LOL @@cierraword6056
The sad part is how some folks think it’s okay to string people along just for kicks. This vid speaks volumes but the world would be a better place if folks stopped playing these silly selfish games. We reap what we sow!!! May God guard our hearts from deceivers (Proverbs 4:23).
Amen. Additionally, the Bible says, "He who finds a good wife", not "She who finds a good husband ". So we single ladies just need to sit back, focus on our relationship with God, and allow God to work on the man He has for us. Because these men today ain't nothing but a bag of bones anyway. They act so feminine and also lie too much. Men today have lost their integrity. Too focused on sex.
Amen, Amen I just said that, you reap what you sow
AMEN
Exactly!! You can’t change a man’s heart or mind- so don’t let him play you & ride your behind!!!
Say that again
Soooooo true. Ladies, quit playing house and pretend wife with these men treating them like they are your husband and he hasn’t asked you to be his wife.
When a man wants you, he will marry you and not take years to do it.
Exactly,if a man wants you,if he will marry and it won't take 20 years either.
Very True..I learned this the hard way..God saw me through.. I will never be that woman again ❤
We've all been used by a man. Too many women today just don't want to admit it
@@eve3363 yes at some point or another..even if it’s just to build his self esteem back..which was my case! Never again.
@@eve3363No not all of us. I protected myself by waiting for my hubby to have sex so I have never been heartbroken because I would see how women around me would be used in the worst way for sexual pleasure and tossed aside like trash.
I remained faithful to my heart and my body so this helped me so much which is what I tell the teens. It was worth the wait and the blessing from God in my man of God who found me.
This goes for men too, butI am tired of my sisters getting hurt as I have. Women need to stop seeking men who are not theirs to marry. Women know this before they give themselves to a man. A woman put herself out there when doing all those things to get that man. We as women know this. Women manipulate and end up getting hurt, because that man was not theirs from the beginning. Women need to stop having babies by men they are not married to and stop acting like wives without being married. Like most women, I learned this from hurt, but I was blessed not to bring an innocent, precious baby into any of those confused relationships
Do u know how many men I meet that claim to be single and their not
Preach Sister,these naive, gullible women need to stop having babies with men they're not married to,a baby is not going to hold a man or make him stay with.
@@billie-ocean8286 that's why I really don't trust men,I've been hurt in the past, I'm protecting my heart now, I'm a good woman,I always meet men with bad intentions and trying to take advantage of me.
Thank you brother, received loud and clear my bags are packed and I have left his keys on the table. Time to heal and look for my future husband.😂 😂
Exactly
Sir what you are saying is 100000000000% true! I stupidly stayed in a 3.5 year situationship that was going nowhere. I grew tired by the second and one day I finally had, had enough and put myself first and said no more. Im never doing that again. I waisted 3.5 years of my own life on a male that didn't feel the same way I did about him.
AMEN AMEN, Sister, U r #NOT the only one, I was a FOOL 4 a #NO good MALE who didn't care About me, I #WASTED 2 yes n 3 months..But I learned my lesson, #NEVER Again 🎉
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I wish some woman actually appreciate a real man and a real man actually appreciate a real woman.
Thank you brother. If it “ ain’t you; it just AINT YOU “
A woman also KNOWS who her heart belongs to. You can make her laugh till next year and book her flights all over the world, but that doesn’t change the fact that she’s able to play along (despite knowing that you’re full of it).
By intuition alone, we know clowns and we know frogs. A clown is no man and a frog can never be a prince.
Im not worried about nothing, My heart belongs to Jesus! 😊 my joy comes from Him. I trust Him, thats 1 thing for sure (we can all trust Him fully and dont have to have the worries of this world anymore once we belong to Him. 100% TRUTH
AMEN
Damn.Every woman needs to hear that!
Their heart is usually with that woman who’s not going to come by and nurse him back to good health or even give him a simple phone call when he’s a little ill.
If you can’t be with the one you think you love and they are showing you all of the signs that they do not love you back, then that’s the sign that you are toxic and is only attracted to drama and has grown accustomed to dark pain. It actually means that you need to be alone and begin a healing process for yourself!
The person who’s bending over backwards to please a person who does not want or appreciate them is an indication that they need to begin a healing process as well.
Learn who you are and your worth in order to jump off this vicious toxic cycle💟✨
Sooooooo #True n Sooooooo #WONDERFULLY said 🎉
If this isn't the truth, I don't know what is. I concur 1000%.😊😊
Thank you for telling the TRUTH that alot of these so called men deny & waste a good woman's time rather than be upfront
A man’s heart belongs with his darn self. So ladies STOP tripping. I said what I said!!🤷🏽♀️
Exactly because if he loved the woman so much he wouldn’t step out on her
Say that again
Facts💯 U can NEVER be right for da wrong person ,no matter wat u do💯
Absolutely Correct
Stop doing back flips +++
For people that don't want you
Men & Women
Imagine that Jesus is telling you that his Heart belongs to you. ❤
Ladies, there is a man called Jesus Christ, he loves you beyond words, you are the Apple of his eyes.
The " love" of man is perishable, unfortunately.
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AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN 🎉🎉🎉🎉
Literally giving your energy away to waste.
I totally agree! I use to say " you can do a cartwheel split on it but if he don't want you he don't want you "..period..Facts my brother..smh
A hard truth. Ladies notice the signs. If loving him is hard to do you're not the one he truly wants. Plan your exit and move on. 🤷🏽♀️ It's nothing worse than loving a man who doesn't love you and will lead you on a hook for years just to waste your time. Yes, it's selfish. Yes, it's wrong. But what are you going to do. Ladies you can't change or convince a man to love you either they do or don't. If they do you won't question it their actions will show you.
Yes
Actions, yes yes yes
What kind of hook? How do they lead you on?
My cousin once told me about his baby mamma and his side chick. He said the side chick was a bedroom bully, but there is no way he was leaving his baby mamma for her because that's who he loves. Ladies, take notes.
Crazy how they can so easily separate “love” from sex. For probably the baby mamma the love and the sex go together. The thing is, him stepping out on her is not love. He has a twisted sense of what love actually is. With love also comes trust, respect, and loyalty. How can you say you love someone, but not be trustworthy, respect, or be loyal to them. Because it’s not love. It’s self serving love. Selfish love for self. Not love for the other person.
This is absolutely true… because most men have NO IDEA OF WHAT LOVE IS….
Knowing where his heart belongs and actually putting in the action of showing where his heart belongs is two different things A man can know where his heart belongs and continue to play the field to the day he died but knowing where his heart belongs and keeping it there and only there with his body attached to it is a totally different thing we must stop being these men's fools first of all we must wait on God and trust that what he has for us is for us cuz if we wait on God for what it is that he has for us we wouldn't be stuck in a rabbit's hole trying to get a man to appreciate us or love us who was never intended to do any of those things in the first place
Mama always said love who love you and you definitely will get treated much better…..
So at the age of 40 why didn’t I heed 😩 I know I love him more and I’m miserable as hell 🚪🏃🏽♀️💨
*I know what you mean! (And I love the graphics.)
That's sad, women stop letting men use you and string you along.
The more you try the more you feel about yourself. So profound.
It doesn’t matter who has the upper hand if no one is happy. Not the woman he loves, not the woman he’s with and certainly not him.
Wisdom in a little over a minute. What every father should tell his daughter. Ths BRO!!!!!!
I know this to be 1000% correct because my mother taught this very thing to me and my sisters!! She taught us to NEVER TRY too hard ("do the most" in today's terms) because the WRONG man will take advantage of that. And she said NO MATTER what you do, if his HEART is not there, you WILL NOT have him! OMG, I swear you're my "Spirit" brother!! LOL
Thank you so much for consistently telling us the B%TT-N&KED TRUTH! We NEED to hear it and take heed! 🤗🙏🏽💝
Yeah but he ain't gonna treat nobody right. Not even the one who supposedly has his heart. He'll cheat on her too, but still claim to really love her. I think single life is better , nobody has time for these games.
Exactly... ain't nobody got time for these unstable creatures.
Very true once a cheater or a man of many women he will always be.
Exactly, Exactly
A woman also KNOWS sir, It's back & forth between both the parties. They both know about each-other.
So why not just tell the poor woman "It's not you" so she can move on?
So that women learn to learn by themselves and be self reliant and sharp to understand this
To use her for everything she’s got.
@@bhavnaupadhyay8453 totally unnecessary
So he can use her of her time, body and resources.
To be honest some women don't WANT to move on. They want that man more than anything. And they'll stay no matter what. I think most women know somewhere deep down that a man doesn't want them. But maybe he's handsome or rich and they stay.
Truth hurts but this is the TRUTH!!!! 💯 It was no coincidence me coming across this video right now (because it confirms what I already believed/knew in my heart about how certain guys, the more promiscuous ones specifically, operate) Not that this is OK, BUT this is the reality of it. Thank you, sir for this one 🙏🏾❤️🎯
I wish men would just STOP wasting our time 🙄
If the truth don't set us free, nothing else would 😊.
I wholeheartedly agree. Amen
Omg!!!! This man speaks truth this is how I feel so my feelings no wrong time to go!!!!!!
Amazing how all of a sudden these men are experts...Send message from brother to brother.
And another thing…I was bought up in Sunday bible school. As much as women were so in religion…it amazes me how so many were not scholars in the Bible. In Genesis…it states that a woman is for a man…not a man for a woman. And I can remember when so called god in the Old Testament told king David to stop living in his emotions due to the death of his son by his army. Killing David eldest son to prevent his son from killing him. David had to get his emotions in check. This is harsh being that this was his son…but his son was warring against him. So his son brought his death upon himself. Knowing that David’s army was going to protect their king. I always lived by keeping my emotions in check as a girl and as a woman…wife…mother. Which my mother always told me I was a boy she never wanted due to me never wanting to show my emotions. As I would always say”what do you want me to do? “ “ break down and die?” You’ll never see me sweat. But being that said…my father was an alpha narcissist too. So I watched and learned from that dude. Made me balanced in my emotions. Learned from the best. So the point is…women…stop living by your emotions when it comes to men. Love in general. It’s no such thing as the love that you are looking for on this earth. The way you’re giving it. Men don’t want a good woman. They want a balanced women. A woman that will walk away from their BS when prompt too😂
🤣😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I TOLD HIM. SHE WON'T BE ME! 🤣🤣🤣💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💜💜💜💜TY!!!
You are sooo right!!! Thank you for educating people who dont know. I appreciate good people like us who want a better world and positive change and take action to promote it.
If a woman doesn't love you then she doesn't! N if you want her you have to earn her! Always!
The best message I've heard all year. Someone pass the collection plate and send this to every single woman you know!!! Stop trying to earn prove do just be.
That’s some Real Life Talk ❤😢
This is the pure truth ❤
Hard to hear. But true.
This is so true, especially when you have a Man that claims you and said he belongs to you, and everyone wants to know what that feels like so bad they keep trying to do the most to get what you have…. Sorry, I’m a little triggered 🤣😂. Great video.❤
It Doesn't Matter How Much You Do, How Many Children You Have For Him And How Long You Wait, You'll Never Be The One He Chooses, If You're Not The One, Big Facts! 💯💞💫
Baby, if he won't tell me, he better not come over here playing with me because I have a few screws loose. He'll get the energy that ol' girl had in "thin line between love and hate"
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There we go!!!!
This is the best lesson a woman can learn.
That is why we as women must examine ourselves, listen to our intuition and be willing to release him. Don’t waste time anymore with what is Not chosen for your future purpose. Been there done that. Added up the years of dysfunction, toxic relationships. I made up my mind. God you choose this time, heal my heart and confirm to both of us that we are meant to be together.# TrustGod
Gospel truth 😢 truer words we're never spoken!!! ❤ Thank You for speaking this!!! 💞
Absolutely true ! Preach brother,preach.
Words of wisdom ! Truth
So if he knows who his heart belongs to why does he play the field? Why Mess with other females? Stay with who your heart belong to.
FACTS! That's why ya gotta communicate. There should be words n actions gotta line up together. Don't be scared to ask questions. what's said n not said. What's Done n not done to support what was said.. will determine what you need to do. Period.
Same with women
Men know right away !!!!
The unfortunate truth
Man are simple and they will show you and actually tell you if they have integrity. Actions are always louder than words. I'm pretty much deaf at this point. I go by actions only. This is actually a people thing not just man. Woman can truly love someone else but be somewhere else for other things. Hopefully people can start being truthful with themselves and other people. For me I can't fake the funk. I dont want you in my personal space if I don't love you and you don't love me.
I’ve always said watch actions and not words.
Me Either
Please 🙏🏾 say this louder for the ppl in the back that didn’t heart you 🫶🏾!!!
If it ain't you then it ain't you💯‼️
This man is speaking pure truth!
You deserve a effing Oscar and tribute in the true story Hall of Fame 🎉it's painful to hear what you already know being confirmed but it's for your healing ...ain't you been heartbroken enough breaking your own heart behind em sis ? Ijs I know that it wasn't me for him I got tired of breaking my back and heart after the 3rd&4th time hopefully you learn the 1st or second my queens
Oh my gosh, this is so true I rather have the man’s heart, then his body with me. When men love, they love deep, they love hard, and they will not tell you that their heart is not with you because they enjoy how you’re treating them and making them feel .
Short and powerful!!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Thank you!!! The most honest a truthful video I have ever heard. I so appreciate you. This was the bottom line!!!
That was cold and harsh my brother. But I love you cause you speak pure truth. God bless you ❤❤❤
I definitely needed to hear this. Almost backtracked, thinking he might treat me differently the 2nd time around.
BIG FACTS!!!!❤💯👍
True love is felt in your heart.............,.if it is not there initially........it never....ever
..will be there........❤❤❤❤
So true ... ❤
Very true.
Wow this is so true, thank you for sharing this 💯❤️
That's the fucking truth!!!
Truth comes in many forms. Listen!!