Yes this man is so calm and he lets u know that it’s nothing wrong with you for wanting consistency >bottom line just don’t settle. Thank you Lord for the confirmation cause I got a answer to something I just prayed to God about a few hrs ago.Not settling because I was taught a man knows what he wants and will make sure u are in there presence
When someone is broken and is very insecure, they treat women like how they feel about themselves. Trust me, I've been there done that. Changed my number no more contact.✌️👏🏼
Glad to know I've been moving accordingly😊. I don't play about consistent communication and quality time. Pay attention to his actions and ignore the excuses. A man is never THAT busy for a woman he is being intentional with and who he is afraid to lose. How long does it take to send a text or voice note to check in? A quick phone call at the end of the day to schedule that in person time. DAILY communication and starting out 1-2 times per week for dates and we'll grow from there. If his actions are confusing you, he's just not that into. Move on. And when he hits you up a week later like nothing happened, hit him with a "No longer interested. Wish you the best✌️." Never EVER be a man's convenient, why not🤷🏾♀️, option. Don't disrespect yourself like that.
Thanks, I feel better I did the right thing! My ex was so mad when I ended it! Dismissed everything we were in a text. Proof is in the pudding I guess! He could have fought for me but didn't.
The best thing for a woman is to stay single until she finds someone mature mentally emotionally and spiritually who can & will love her, nurture her and help her heal ,and she can also offer the same in return to her man. If they're not equally yoked and if there's no mental or spiritual maturity or accountability to GOD ,then it's better just to stay single and live your best life!
I will tell women upfront what to expect from me.... Especially, if I don't see you as wifey material. It should not be any of these games, period! Men should be letting women know what their intentions are so that woman can move accordingly.
Right! Had a friend that i really liked and wanted more, tell me that he just wanted to be fwb.....needless to day he didn't get any. My feelings were hurt, but i do appreciate the honesty....but i blame myself for trying to make him want more lol
@@juliawhite7152 this is a hard situation to explain. Being a FWB'S is a double edge sword. That's your path to getting a man. Yes, it takes more than sexual chemistry to have a relationship. But as a man we need to know what your skills are like in that bedroom.... Can't be wifey If you not su*king and Fu*king the right way... Most relationships start off as FWB's. A guy can tell you he wants a relationship and could be lying.... At least with the FWB's you know what it is. Unfortunately most men only say they're looking for a relationship because that's the formality that women want to hear... So guys play that card... They get the box and change gears... Yeah, I know.
@@calvinmack7124 Exactly!! But get this....i would've actually been down.....(i get that most relationships can start off as FWB) but HE was the one that didn't meet MY requirements! He doesn't do oral, but wanted it done on him 🥴. He is a sexually selfish person! Im like dude you can't expect what you refuse to give / reciprocate. There was no folding for him lol, and i respect that. If you don't, you don't....That and he initially made me. "believe" that he wanted a relationship....but i liked him so much even though i realized after the fact that he is a bs'er.... and he also lied about his age, smh! Discernment is key!
@@juliawhite7152 so there's more... I see now... Yeah, that dude is suspect... Why lie period and you not eating the kitty. I eat it like it is my last meal.... Hell, that turns me on😁. I am ready to put in work after eating the kitty😋. Depending on how you look that's the first thing I want to do...🤷🏾♂️ For my experiences I've learned just to be honest.... Some women love to hear it and some don't. Can't win... That's life
Yea men don’t play when they find a woman they want they locked in. A man’s love is beautiful although different from how women love. Men loves lasts too it isn’t emotional. My husband so consistent I had to become a better person lol. He consistently puts in effort since we were 18 and now in our 30s.
funny I'm watching this! I just told someone this week that we need to stop talking, that I wish him the best, but I can't deal with his flaking patterns his inconsistencies. I feel way less anxious since I blocked his number! thank you brotha and happy holidays 🤗🤗
We seek consistent healthy balance and mutual respect. If you’re being treated as an option, remove yourself from that situation. Your worth is non-negotiable.
I use to tell my ex that like it don’t matter what job I’m at or where I’m at..I’ll always be able to give her my time..even if it’s 2-5 minutes and I have to call her back I make sure I let her know how much I love just hearing her
@@liveinthenow3571 I’m learning to just love my women ,be honest,talk,and really just hold her down because what I’m seeing this internet stuff got people thinking bs is real
Basically women (and men) need to have set standards for themselves and they need to specifically set these standards in their minds before they get involved with someone, so that when the other person isn’t meeting said standards, then it doesn’t matter how you feel about them anymore. Your standards should be WAY more important than your feelings. Because a lot of times your “feelings” for someone is just you not wanting to be alone. Every time you compromise standards for feelings, you will always end up eventually ending things due to those standards not being met.
Tell it like it is brah, a man that's interested is consistent in calling, spending time with you, and he always got time for you bc he really likes you. If he's not doing these things he's not as interested as he says he is in you and you got to move accordingly like he says. Well said sir .
This is so true! As people will make time for what they want to make time for. Consistency is definitely a major key!!!!!! Getting to know someone is more than texting & asking questions. It’s more so spending time together, observing, listening, sharing experiences, & so forth. If you feel as though you need to compete for someone’s attention or always find yourself wondering why the interest isn’t mutual, don’t ask, don’t wonder. It’s just that! There’s no mutual interest. Move on. NEVER catch feelings when getting to know someone. Yes have interest if it’s GENUINELY mutual. NEVER catch feelings though!!!!!!!! The idea of this actually happening far as wanting someone whom is genuinely interested around to the point their like, come ride with me, lay with me NSA no sex involved, just see what I actually do & etc. is quite sexy to me. That’s extremely rare nowadays. It’s almost like fairytale-ish. Those kind of men & women are out there though!
That man could also be a person with NPD who is setting you up for a devalue/discard to see how well you measure up as supply. “Be smart. Date smart. Choose wisely.” - Natalie Clarice on YT
He is telling the truth move accordingly when they treat you as such keep your options open til you meet the man that is intentional about the relationship. So while he is missing weeks hopefully your meet your purpose partner.. Don’t put your life on hold with people who are not consistent..and not showing up in the relationship… Keep it pushing…
I had a guy be super inconsistent and because of that I cut all ties. He then came back and apologized and was really consistent until he got me and then he turned into the devil himself.
So basically the first person he showed himself to be was the true person. He just proved that he was inconsistent at the beginning and at the end. Good lesson.
Right..A friend ask me why no one talks about if married to the inconsistency of spouse.Say one thing do another, always defensive when call out on it, always justify / got a reason why he do & don't do somethg, won't give straight answer cuz don't wanna get called out on it ..Wants to know know why No one talks about what if you are married
I agree and have agreed every single thing in every one of these videos I’ve watched but I’m in the most loving relationship now with a man who was inconsistent at first. But the difference is we were friends for years and he was able to communicate what he was going through- custody issues with his ex wife- and I loved him enough to let go but be present and cheer him on through it. I think that’s why it is important to be vulnerable and communicate. I didn’t wait though. I lived and loved my life but once he made it through, wooooooo did that man come back for meeeee!!! 🎉
They got every excuse in the book. Especially the “I’m busy” excuse. Riiiight. I told a guy “there’s 1,440 minutes in a day, and you couldn’t spare ONE of them to send a text message?” SMH. Wild.
This is so true, I dealt with a guy who CLEARLY wasn't really interested. To say he was inconsistent would be an understatement. He would text me here and there, he'd say he'll call me back, but wouldn't. We'd be on the phone and out of no where the phone would hang up then he'd call me back hours or a day later saying his phone has a problem. And this was within 1 month! The last straw was when on August 24th he said "Hold on I'ma call you right back" he text me September 4th "no love" I don't even know what he meant by that, needless to say I never hit him back up.
Agreed 💚💚💚💚...This Clears Up Every Wonder About The IF....Thank You You For Putting It Just This Way💚💚💚💚...BEcause A Man Knows What He Desires From The BEginning...And Don't BE Afraid To Realize That May NOT BE You...Never Force Things...BE The Lady That You ARE And Always Know When To Leave...The Universe Always Has What You Must Have Already Arranged...And It IS Always The Very Best For You💚💚💚💚He IS Sharing How To Separate The Wheat From The Chaff...So Clear And Precise...A Man Knows What Makes His Heart Beat Fast💚💚💚💚...It IS In His DNA To Know...Change Your Thoughts Change Your Life...2023 IS A Divine Opportunity For Divine Best To Find You...BE Open To Receive Only The Divine Gifts Of Abundance PROSPERITY Health Wealth Love And Good Fortune In Your Every Step Forward...Amein💚💚💚💚...Trust Knowing Certainty 💚💚💚💚
My husband has always said, if we want to be with you, there is no guessing on the woman end. Men move in a consistent manner when we really want to be with you. Even when he and I were dating, there was never a question (oh, does he really like me or want to be with me). 13 years and counting and he still makes me feel this way 😁.
Absolutely true and a fact I am finally living right now at 50 years young! He calls, texts, video chats even if for couple of minutes EVERY SINGLE DAY plus we go on dates every week. Best of all in this new relationship, he is including my kids and about to meet my youngest son this weekend ❤❤❤we have been dating for about a month. I just knew from day one he is THE RIGHT ONE❤❤❤ thanks for sharing this is crucial in finding the right man for you ladies! Tuning in from NYC and loving this channel❤
Facts!! Move accordingly and drop him like there’s no tomorrow!! People will come into your life just to try to take, bring your confidence down just because they’re insecurities. Never let a man or a woman project their burdens onto you. Keep it pushing, and find you someone who will NEVER drop the ball!!!
This is nothing but straight Facts. I had to fall back on a guy that I care about. He is very inconsistent. I'm not playing games with no more Men who aren't consistent.
Finally gave up trying to help them heal. Its just draining my Energy and he said he doesn't need to heal. This is on point and yall the healing process is so freaking Sexy! WE GOT THIS FAM! 😊🎉❤
Thank you Brother. This is a so true and some of our young women need to understand this. He’s not the one for you. There is a man for you. Don’t ever settle.
The only things that should only matter is just common sense. Honesty, integrity, loyalty, faithfulness, patience, kindness. Yes it is that basic. Other things like looks and material things should not matter.
Thank you for sharing this knowledge with us. Some of us are so genuine when we love someone that we can’t see when he is disingenuous and we waste our time with him when we could be with someone who truly love us. This is really helpful. Thank you🙏🏾💯
And ladies, let us stop making ourselves delusional about a man actions. But when they play games "hide and seek", it becomes confusion because it seems like they want us but they don't. Let us grow into maturity and say "he doesn't want me" and move accordingly.
I would say still be careful. i was with someone who always consistently called and we spent lots of time together, but he was cheating his behind off i later found out the whole time we were together. I still to this day dont know how he found time to do it, but yeah.
@@tracychromes7155 intuition first. But character changes mostly. A slip of a word. Demeanor changes. Sex became different.. Things he said not really adding up. Statuses on social media that I knew he wasnt referring to me. But he never called less or hung out with me less. Maybe hung out with me and called me more so I wouldnt suspect anything.Always had an answer to any question i had for him. I never could actually catch him either. But after it was over, things started to make sense. I guess i was a primary supply for a minute. But he was also a narcissist. They are master cheaters and manipulators. You wont even know until its too late.
Yes, I know when a man is interested just by the tell of his consistency. This man I been pretty exclusive with works all the time and so do i but we manage to still find time to talk on the phone every night before we go to bed (we’re long distance) and I never have a question in mind about if he’s into me.
Yes - this is q whole message! My first date with my husband he asked for my to be his Lady and his alone! He sealed the deal and I shut down all other suitors! I love the old school dating protocols - respect was at the forefront!
Yes sir. He is correct. Ladies he's tellin the truth. We as women tolerate to much for the sake of having a man. My brother told me which will always stick with me. He said, we as men do what you allow us to do.
EXACTLY! YOU SHOULD KNOW A MAN'S INTENTIONS IN JUST CONVERSATING WITH HIM....THE CONVERSATION SAYS IT ALL! IF SOMETHING DOESN'T SOUND RIGHT...RED FLAG....MOVE AROUND! HE AIN'T THE ONE!😊
Human nature kicks in and that means everyone wants what they can’t have. That’s why women don’t go for the men that are easy to get. They want the one who’s hard to get and unavailable. This guy has a lot to learn about how women think!
And you gotta move accordingly which means don't chase him if you haven't heard from him in a few days , don't except excuses just don't waste your precious time with a man who isn't extremely consistent because what you except you'll certainly get a whole LOT more of then it will definitely be your fault for not moving on .
Lack of consistency is an answer too... Dun try to play me for a fool, Bro... We will not talk like you my dude, unless you are my dude.. Claim that spot, if you want it. Not about to sacrifice myself anymore. You either want to step up into that spot beside so we can soar together.. or fall back to watch me do my thang. Either way, Am not diverting from my path for anyone these days. Patience is not my best attribute. Do You, Boo. I got Me.
Thank you for this confirmation. After eight years of being single, I decided to try dating again & honestly gave it up because dudes would want to make plans but never follow through with them. As a result, I decided to not give them another minute of my time once I saw that “writing on the wall“ as you truthfully put it.
That's why grandfathers used to say, "so young man what are your intentions with my daughter? " They knew.
Exactly. Men know how other men roll.
This!!!
True facts,if a man don't know what he want leave him alone .
Miss them days
OH YEAH
I like this man.. he calm and teaching…. He makes you want to listen… soothing ❤
I agree. He gets my attention based off his calm delivery!
Right I like to hear him also.... he's been there done that ...!!!.. he's teaching us ... women and men also ... thank you sir for posting....!!!!
A powerful man does not have to be load. This man has authority without raising his voice.
Yeah he has the most honest insight more than those other cats
Yes this man is so calm and he lets u know that it’s nothing wrong with you for wanting consistency >bottom line just don’t settle.
Thank you Lord for the confirmation cause I got a answer to something I just prayed to God about a few hrs ago.Not settling because I was taught a man knows what he wants and will make sure u are in there presence
CONSISTENCY IS EVERYTHING!!!!!
And honesty, no lies
When someone is broken and is very insecure, they treat women like how they feel about themselves. Trust me, I've been there done that. Changed my number no more contact.✌️👏🏼
Agreed, I’m there now.
Me too
Good for you yes it’s a reflection of themselves and we won’t tolerate it take care of you ❤
I agree. He also told me he gets in his own way. And incapable and inabled. Definitely a broken man , who also refuses to get help for himself.
Glad to know I've been moving accordingly😊. I don't play about consistent communication and quality time. Pay attention to his actions and ignore the excuses. A man is never THAT busy for a woman he is being intentional with and who he is afraid to lose. How long does it take to send a text or voice note to check in? A quick phone call at the end of the day to schedule that in person time. DAILY communication and starting out 1-2 times per week for dates and we'll grow from there. If his actions are confusing you, he's just not that into. Move on. And when he hits you up a week later like nothing happened, hit him with a "No longer interested. Wish you the best✌️." Never EVER be a man's convenient, why not🤷🏾♀️, option. Don't disrespect yourself like that.
True
💯 had this happen and I never said a word after he hit me up after a week
@@RoyaltyK good 🙂
Thanks, I feel better I did the right thing! My ex was so mad when I ended it! Dismissed everything we were in a text. Proof is in the pudding I guess! He could have fought for me but didn't.
This right here!! ❤
The best thing for a woman is to stay single until she finds someone mature mentally emotionally and spiritually who can & will love her, nurture her and help her heal ,and she can also offer the same in return to her man. If they're not equally yoked and if there's no mental or spiritual maturity or accountability to GOD ,then it's better just to stay single and live your best life!
I will tell women upfront what to expect from me.... Especially, if I don't see you as wifey material. It should not be any of these games, period! Men should be letting women know what their intentions are so that woman can move accordingly.
Agreed. Just be honest.
Right! Had a friend that i really liked and wanted more, tell me that he just wanted to be fwb.....needless to day he didn't get any. My feelings were hurt, but i do appreciate the honesty....but i blame myself for trying to make him want more lol
@@juliawhite7152 this is a hard situation to explain. Being a FWB'S is a double edge sword. That's your path to getting a man.
Yes, it takes more than sexual chemistry to have a relationship.
But as a man we need to know what your skills are like in that bedroom.... Can't be wifey If you not su*king and Fu*king the right way...
Most relationships start off as FWB's. A guy can tell you he wants a relationship and could be lying.... At least with the FWB's you know what it is. Unfortunately most men only say they're looking for a relationship because that's the formality that women want to hear... So guys play that card...
They get the box and change gears...
Yeah, I know.
@@calvinmack7124 Exactly!! But get this....i would've actually been down.....(i get that most relationships can start off as FWB) but HE was the one that didn't meet MY requirements! He doesn't do oral, but wanted it done on him 🥴. He is a sexually selfish person! Im like dude you can't expect what you refuse to give / reciprocate. There was no folding for him lol, and i respect that. If you don't, you don't....That and he initially made me. "believe" that he wanted a relationship....but i liked him so much even though i realized after the fact that he is a bs'er.... and he also lied about his age, smh! Discernment is key!
@@juliawhite7152 so there's more... I see now... Yeah, that dude is suspect... Why lie period and you not eating the kitty. I eat it like it is my last meal.... Hell, that turns me on😁. I am ready to put in work after eating the kitty😋. Depending on how you look that's the first thing I want to do...🤷🏾♂️ For my experiences I've learned just to be honest.... Some women love to hear it and some don't. Can't win... That's life
Yea men don’t play when they find a woman they want they locked in. A man’s love is beautiful although different from how women love. Men loves lasts too it isn’t emotional. My husband so consistent I had to become a better person lol. He consistently puts in effort since we were 18 and now in our 30s.
God bless your relationship 🖤. Very happy for you both
@@mmljane I love positive people. Thank you!!
I love that!! 🥰
This is so cute. I love a man that stretches you to become better.
@@nishalashay4402 thanks for the positivity!!
Wow! He's helped me get over the "ghoster".
learn to say to yourself fuck them .. that's when you start realizing you really didn't need them level up I promise u ,u will not look back
That part
This is how I knew I found my husband! Very true!
thats Wonderful 💫💫💫
“You gotta move accordingly” 💯
funny I'm watching this! I just told someone this week that we need to stop talking, that I wish him the best, but I can't deal with his flaking patterns his inconsistencies.
I feel way less anxious since I blocked his number!
thank you brotha and happy holidays 🤗🤗
You are only a smash to him.... It happens 🤷🏾♂️.
He knew from the jump and should have told you.
@@calvinmack7124 didn't let him smash 🙏
@@LaNoisette 👌🏾
Yeah facts , I told him and he said he will change and went right back to focusing on someone else .But want me in his life still lol ✌️ nope
@@calvinmack7124 Why was that your first thought? Every woman isn't out here just sleeping around
We seek consistent healthy balance and mutual respect. If you’re being treated as an option, remove yourself from that situation. Your worth is non-negotiable.
Men & wonen both being honest with their intentions would solve a lot of problems & save everyone precious time.
That's too much like right....
I use to tell my ex that like it don’t matter what job I’m at or where I’m at..I’ll always be able to give her my time..even if it’s 2-5 minutes and I have to call her back I make sure I let her know how much I love just hearing her
I like this, any woman would!
@@liveinthenow3571 I’m learning to just love my women ,be honest,talk,and really just hold her down because what I’m seeing this internet stuff got people thinking bs is real
Basically women (and men) need to have set standards for themselves and they need to specifically set these standards in their minds before they get involved with someone, so that when the other person isn’t meeting said standards, then it doesn’t matter how you feel about them anymore. Your standards should be WAY more important than your feelings. Because a lot of times your “feelings” for someone is just you not wanting to be alone. Every time you compromise standards for feelings, you will always end up eventually ending things due to those standards not being met.
Totally agree with this💫folks make time for what they want💫folks are not that busy💫
A real man is not confused ...and a real divine fem respects a man that knows what he wants 👍😀❤️
Definitely 😊
Thank you for helping us single women. We need to hear this. It's the truth.
That is so true.. real men are hard to find now a days when u have one hold on to them because they are rare.
Tell it like it is brah, a man that's interested is consistent in calling, spending time with you, and he always got time for you bc he really likes you. If he's not doing these things he's not as interested as he says he is in you and you got to move accordingly like he says. Well said sir .
This is so true! As people will make time for what they want to make time for. Consistency is definitely a major key!!!!!! Getting to know someone is more than texting & asking questions. It’s more so spending time together, observing, listening, sharing experiences, & so forth. If you feel as though you need to compete for someone’s attention or always find yourself wondering why the interest isn’t mutual, don’t ask, don’t wonder. It’s just that! There’s no mutual interest. Move on. NEVER catch feelings when getting to know someone. Yes have interest if it’s GENUINELY mutual. NEVER catch feelings though!!!!!!!! The idea of this actually happening far as wanting someone whom is genuinely interested around to the point their like, come ride with me, lay with me NSA no sex involved, just see what I actually do & etc. is quite sexy to me. That’s extremely rare nowadays. It’s almost like fairytale-ish. Those kind of men & women are out there though!
That man could also be a person with NPD who is setting you up for a devalue/discard to see how well you measure up as supply. “Be smart. Date smart. Choose wisely.” - Natalie Clarice on YT
Thanks again
I'm 32 and I'm just now learning this because I am experiencing it.
Setting up dates 🥰 Setting up outings🥰 ..so thankful GOD said to me “my daughter, WAIT ON ME to do it!” 🙏🏾♥️
He is telling the truth move accordingly when they treat you as such keep your options open til you meet the man that is intentional about the relationship. So while he is missing weeks hopefully your meet your purpose partner.. Don’t put your life on hold with people who are not consistent..and not showing up in the relationship… Keep it pushing…
I’ve experienced this, so I know it’s true. If a want truly wants to, he will.
I had a guy be super inconsistent and because of that I cut all ties. He then came back and apologized and was really consistent until he got me and then he turned into the devil himself.
How long was he consistent before he reverted back to inconsistent?
So basically the first person he showed himself to be was the true person. He just proved that he was inconsistent at the beginning and at the end. Good lesson.
That was your red flag from the beginning.
Right..A friend ask me why no one talks about if married to the inconsistency of spouse.Say one thing do another, always defensive when call out on it, always justify / got a reason why he do & don't do somethg, won't give straight answer cuz don't wanna get called out on it ..Wants to know know why No one talks about what if you are married
Sounds like an ego issue. He wanted to maintain control. It’s good that you have now recognized it. Be kind to yourself! Move forward ❤
Alllll of everything this man said is so true! It’s a hard realization sometimes but a man will most definitely make time for you in any capacity.
I could listen to him all day. So calm. He seems like a great partner.
I found that at 64 and I wasn't even looking. Wow. He's make me a priority. Just wait ladies.
Thank you. I needed this. The truth is he didn’t miss me.
Yaasssssss this 1 right here!!! Umph!!
I agree and have agreed every single thing in every one of these videos I’ve watched but I’m in the most loving relationship now with a man who was inconsistent at first. But the difference is we were friends for years and he was able to communicate what he was going through- custody issues with his ex wife- and I loved him enough to let go but be present and cheer him on through it. I think that’s why it is important to be vulnerable and communicate. I didn’t wait though. I lived and loved my life but once he made it through, wooooooo did that man come back for meeeee!!! 🎉
THE WHOLE TRUTH!! I NEVER had to question to husband's interest and still don't. That's why he became my husband and still is.
Facts. Men hate when you pull their card! I literally said this to my ex and he got mad AF.
They got every excuse in the book. Especially the “I’m busy” excuse. Riiiight. I told a guy “there’s 1,440 minutes in a day, and you couldn’t spare ONE of them to send a text message?” SMH. Wild.
Some ladies need to listen 👂! Facts, facts and mor facts.
It’s beautiful to her that real men recognize our nonnegotiable , but this inconsistency cannot be consistent
Consistency is everything!! And the guy would try to gaslight because I would call him out on this... thanks Sir!! I knew I wasn't crazy‼️💯
My guy does this! Very consistent and plans the next date before the current one is even over.
It takes two to tango. There are men who think, well, she’s not really interested cause I haven’t heard from her. Men have feeling too
Facts! That ish hurts, but 💯! When I like a man I will MAKE time. Shheeett.
This is so true, I dealt with a guy who CLEARLY wasn't really interested. To say he was inconsistent would be an understatement. He would text me here and there, he'd say he'll call me back, but wouldn't. We'd be on the phone and out of no where the phone would hang up then he'd call me back hours or a day later saying his phone has a problem. And this was within 1 month! The last straw was when on August 24th he said "Hold on I'ma call you right back" he text me September 4th "no love" I don't even know what he meant by that, needless to say I never hit him back up.
Agreed 💚💚💚💚...This Clears Up Every Wonder About The IF....Thank You You For Putting It Just This Way💚💚💚💚...BEcause A Man Knows What He Desires From The BEginning...And Don't BE Afraid To Realize That May NOT BE You...Never Force Things...BE The Lady That You ARE And Always Know When To Leave...The Universe Always Has What You Must Have Already Arranged...And It IS Always The Very Best For You💚💚💚💚He IS Sharing How To Separate The Wheat From The Chaff...So Clear And Precise...A Man Knows What Makes His Heart Beat Fast💚💚💚💚...It IS In His DNA To Know...Change Your Thoughts Change Your Life...2023 IS A Divine Opportunity For Divine Best To Find You...BE Open To Receive Only The Divine Gifts Of Abundance PROSPERITY Health Wealth Love And Good Fortune In Your Every Step Forward...Amein💚💚💚💚...Trust Knowing Certainty 💚💚💚💚
My husband has always said, if we want to be with you, there is no guessing on the woman end. Men move in a consistent manner when we really want to be with you. Even when he and I were dating, there was never a question (oh, does he really like me or want to be with me). 13 years and counting and he still makes me feel this way 😁.
Absolutely true and a fact I am finally living right now at 50 years young! He calls, texts, video chats even if for couple of minutes EVERY SINGLE DAY plus we go on dates every week. Best of all in this new relationship, he is including my kids and about to meet my youngest son this weekend ❤❤❤we have been dating for about a month. I just knew from day one he is THE RIGHT ONE❤❤❤ thanks for sharing this is crucial in finding the right man for you ladies! Tuning in from NYC and loving this channel❤
Facts!! Move accordingly and drop him like there’s no tomorrow!! People will come into your life just to try to take, bring your confidence down just because they’re insecurities. Never let a man or a woman project their burdens onto you. Keep it pushing, and find you someone who will NEVER drop the ball!!!
Right when he not trying to be with you like that he doing a third party 😂😂😂😂.
This is nothing but straight Facts. I had to fall back on a guy that I care about. He is very inconsistent. I'm not playing games with no more Men who aren't consistent.
Finally gave up trying to help them heal. Its just draining my Energy and he said he doesn't need to heal. This is on point and yall the healing process is so freaking Sexy!
WE GOT THIS FAM! 😊🎉❤
Thank you Brother. This is a so true and some of our young women need to understand this. He’s not the one for you. There is a man for you. Don’t ever settle.
The only things that should only matter is just common sense. Honesty, integrity, loyalty, faithfulness, patience, kindness. Yes it is that basic. Other things like looks and material things should not matter.
Exactly. You show. So. Much. INTERESTS. Very. Good.
Affection. Attention. N Alertness. You snooze. You loose
Facts. Absolutely
That's so real. Real man with real advice
Thank you for sharing this knowledge with us. Some of us are so genuine when we love someone that we can’t see when he is disingenuous and we waste our time with him when we could be with someone who truly love us. This is really helpful. Thank you🙏🏾💯
Exactly! I give a man 24 hours to get it right
Received! I’m moving accordingly. You give 10%, I give 10%. You increase, I increase..
And ladies, let us stop making ourselves delusional about a man actions. But when they play games "hide and seek", it becomes confusion because it seems like they want us but they don't.
Let us grow into maturity and say "he doesn't want me" and move accordingly.
I would say still be careful. i was with someone who always consistently called and we spent lots of time together, but he was cheating his behind off i later found out the whole time we were together. I still to this day dont know how he found time to do it, but yeah.
How'd you find out he was cheating?
@@tracychromes7155 intuition first. But character changes mostly. A slip of a word. Demeanor changes. Sex became different.. Things he said not really adding up. Statuses on social media that I knew he wasnt referring to me. But he never called less or hung out with me less. Maybe hung out with me and called me more so I wouldnt suspect anything.Always had an answer to any question i had for him. I never could actually catch him either. But after it was over, things started to make sense. I guess i was a primary supply for a minute. But he was also a narcissist. They are master cheaters and manipulators. You wont even know until its too late.
Take heed sis! He made it plain and clear!
STRAIGHT FACTS!!
Yes, I know when a man is interested just by the tell of his consistency. This man I been pretty exclusive with works all the time and so do i but we manage to still find time to talk on the phone every night before we go to bed (we’re long distance) and I never have a question in mind about if he’s into me.
💯 true! Not at His Convenience.
Absolutely.
Yes - this is q whole message! My first date with my husband he asked for my to be his Lady and his alone! He sealed the deal and I shut down all other suitors! I love the old school dating protocols - respect was at the forefront!
Facts. Totally agree.
NO LIES TOLD! THAT MAN WILL MAKE TIME AND COME WHAT HE WANTS!!!!
I never really comment, but this Short hit the hammer to the
nail. 🔨
Keep it coming 🤗
Be Encouraged ✝️🕊️
Listen Linda! He’s not lying. Move accordingly. Lol
Thanks for sharing! Very interesting content. I have to say that you are right as I remember my brother's old relationships.
Exactly! Consistency is everything!
So true just be open honest and transparent so neither parties feel like they have wasted their time
Definitely.. but some people have selective hearing when it comes to getting what they want
Yes sir. He is correct. Ladies he's tellin the truth. We as women tolerate to much for the sake of having a man. My brother told me which will always stick with me. He said, we as men do what you allow us to do.
EXACTLY! YOU SHOULD KNOW A MAN'S INTENTIONS IN JUST CONVERSATING WITH HIM....THE CONVERSATION SAYS IT ALL! IF SOMETHING DOESN'T SOUND RIGHT...RED FLAG....MOVE AROUND! HE AIN'T THE ONE!😊
Awesome content as always my brotha🔥✊🏾🔥✊🏾🔥✊🏾🔥✊🏾🔥✊🏾🔥
Human nature kicks in and that means everyone wants what they can’t have. That’s why women don’t go for the men that are easy to get. They want the one who’s hard to get and unavailable. This guy has a lot to learn about how women think!
CONSISTENCY 💯!!!!!
FACT'S vs FEELING'S
Beautifully said
Consistency is key....Period
And you gotta move accordingly which means don't chase him if you haven't heard from him in a few days , don't except excuses just don't waste your precious time with a man who isn't extremely consistent because what you except you'll certainly get a whole LOT more of then it will definitely be your fault for not moving on .
VERY WELL STATED AMEN AMEN AMEN
BRUTAL 😢...BUT 100%CORRECT 💔
Actions ❤❤❤ not the words, words let us down every time 💯💯
I agree. That so truth yeah this is when a man is very very interested in you that is 100 facts on everything you're saying
Keeping me focused 😉 not giving people/ men to many chances❤
I’ve been watching you, listening and receiving your messages for some time. So, I have subscribed to your channel. Thanks for keeping it real.
True Dat!!!💯
Lack of consistency is an answer too... Dun try to play me for a fool, Bro... We will not talk like you my dude, unless you are my dude.. Claim that spot, if you want it.
Not about to sacrifice myself anymore. You either want to step up into that spot beside so we can soar together.. or fall back to watch me do my thang. Either way, Am not diverting from my path for anyone these days. Patience is not my best attribute.
Do You, Boo. I got Me.
Thank u so much this is helping save women who are in situationships for yearsss
True facts when just pretending to want be with you
I’m moving on I want you to know your work is not in vain I’m a senior and God needs to be in the Plan!
Thank you for this confirmation. After eight years of being single, I decided to try dating again & honestly gave it up because dudes would want to make plans but never follow through with them. As a result, I decided to not give them another minute of my time once I saw that “writing on the wall“ as you truthfully put it.
I love his thoughts because they are real.
This is so so true!!!!
💯💯CORRECT!!!
Man this is so true this how I feel it should be I’m standing on this thank you
Time is oh so very precious! Just love yourself ladies and let him go do what he needs to do! God has a plan for all of us.
Thank you!!!
🫶🏿🫶🏿🫶🏿 Protect This King At All Cost!!!🫶🏿🫶🏿🫶🏿