Older Christians have been speaking like this to younger ones non-stop forever and these days it continues to be preached on social media by Christians of all ages...in fact, I've heard this so much by now that I'm almost sure that church people are exactly who she is repeating and I'm surprised u say u haven't heard this in a while. Signed, a preacher's kid.
Her saying she is neck is perverted and shows she is not truly submissive. Stop trying to be the neck also if you really want to stand up and be strong women
@@blackgirlmagic8586So you get it? Are you a WIFE? Because If u really got it!You wud have never have the name Blk girl magic! And you are a grown Woman!
Amen, Fantasia! Preach!! I agree with this message! There is a definitely a place and role for the Queen 👑. The enemy has come in and perverted it "all" and I'm glad to hear these words of light and truth.❤
@@lpow3597queens get fired just like kings right? Do your job the best way you can instead of worrying about a new queen. A new queen means you ain't good enough. Simple as that
I will agree 2 disagree, it has 2 be a respectable man yoked w you. So when adultery, other kids come, did he use your neck? It's definitely equality,lots of men make many moves w/o their wife
This applies to the RIGHT man. I’ve met men who deserved to be the head of the household and wouldn’t be allowed to lead and that’s wrong. And I’ve met men who think they deserve to be head just because they have male genitals and they don’t even lead themselves well. It’s all about discernment.
Right, so no one is going to talk about how in The Color Purple the woman she played was emotionally abused, graped, and beaten by the men of the household, until she became independent? She’s just trying not to be labeled a feminist 😂 anyone with half a brain knows it ain’t that simple.
It is not just her nice voice it is the content that she conveys. We must know that God has a place for everything and things are to be done decently and in order. The Lord has everything in place for us but we must apply his word to our life to be led properly. It all comes from God.
It really kind of kills me when these women try to tell other women how they should be depending on the circumstances most women don't have a choice women don't have a choice
You've gotta have a real father to understand this. Then, you choose a real husband. My parents told me I was blessed every day as a child. As a woman, I receive it 🙏🏽
@itssonecessary even dope statement....because many of us aren't blessed with having two parent home, but that doesn't mean we are not able to obtain that for ourselves. As Fantasia said, it's all about exceeding those generational curses.
Too bad most sistas don’t get that part. Being strong is being strong in your femininity, not masculinity rebelling, being combative and uncooperative.
Just know that the bible says......"a man should take care of "HIS household first". In this case, it is only about my melinated "family". We have and can't have any concern about "other households (other races) until we get our own household in order. On another thread with a whyt, yellow or red woman, then she's speaking of her race. It would have been better had you kept that comment to yourself!
@@alantaylor-vb6mn if you don't like what I said too bad!! Because regardless of race or background it goes for every household! FACTS are FACTS and TRUTH is TRUTH!!
@@kweaver1965 and I spoke the truth. Nobody gives a rats ass about your whyt arsh opinion. Anytime we show some leaning towards "unity" with my people, in comes some sorry arsh whyt person putting their two cents in it. Read my lips...."we don't give af what or how whyt folks resolve their issues!
We the people are Chemically imbalanced! We the people don’t Know who we are to even understand the truth .they did a job on us . And we are still eating their food 🤔
@@TEWMUCHdang that’s terrible they did that to her. People don’t like to hear the truth. … but if she said “ I don’t need a man for anything “ she would’ve be praised. 🤦🏽♀️
@@Psalms4091if you believe in God weather the date it still remains the same god says the man is the Head yesterday now and tomorrow...but hey if you don't belive in god then ignore this
@@Psalms4091 So you have a man that you lead in your household? And you happy with a man like that? Serious questions? Many of us want to see where this alternative is working for women. Because if it is, just say so.
Any man that protects, provides, and professes to love you- will never have to worry about where his woman stands. I am married to a Nigerian, and can honestly tell you that he treats me as a queen. I have no problem submitting to his leadership, even though capable of taking care of myself.
WELL SAID BABY GIRL WELL PUT 🎤 🎙 🎤 🎙 🎤 DROP DROP THE KNOWLEDGE WISDOM AND UNDERSTANDING TOLD LIKE A REAL QUEEN WHO HAVE BEEN TAUGHT OR LEARNING FROM LIFE .LESSONS OF LIVING LOVE ❤️ 😍 💖
@reubentaylor9841-This is not a queen. This is an ignorant woman who does not know what Jesus said! The problem with you black men is you ignore what Jesus says and make up your own lies. This why God turned his back on you in the first place caused you to go into captivity in a foreign land for 400 years. Jesus never said that women are to let men lead. Jesus actually said a man is to be a servant not a king.
@brt432-A true queen she is not! Because a true queen would NOT say things that contradict what Jesus said! See no place in the Bible does God or Jesus or any divine being from heaven say that a woman is to let a man lead! Infact Jesus says that a man is to be a SERVANT! The word HUSBAND actually means care taker!
@@purpleiris6489Please provide a source aka a Bible verse that states this. Just want to research it a little more. Knowledge is Power. Each one teach one.
why? so they can bee victims of domestic abuse like Fantasia??!? and get over the king/queen sh!t. you a garbage man in the real world, but gone come home and bee king. shut up.
@@ladywindrush5464 wow sorry for your loss!!!, and I don't understand how people really feel like there saying something so wonderful. There's alot of men living off there woman, so how can a woman really let a person like that lead!!!! And my daughters sperm dono only worked about 5 years in his life and he's 50
Yeah… thank GOD we keep GOD In our marriage… LAWD knows I forget sometimes… to shut up and let my husband be THE MAN and follow his lead when necessary… hey Mr. Whyte 😍😍
Indeed these 304's & the scissor community hate this 'cause they don't have that in them. They were groomed to hate men so, they'll be upset about it yet be mad that no man wants them.
She's simply stating what's already been written in biblical principles. Everyone keeps talking about equality, but it's really about the roles and responsibilities of those roles. Any women who tries to take my role, is NOT for me. She is a Queen!!!
What you have stated is so under rated. Had Eve allowed Adam to be the King we should not be in the 💩💩💩💩 we are currently in. Eve was the first feminist she thought to herself she did not need a man, her husband and king in dealing with the Serpent's deception. We all know how that went and is still going, don't we? Failed and defeated man today like Adam, knowingly went along with Eve's Feministic foolishness in the name of "peace" and "love". The same with Samson and Delilah, the Sons of God who took as wives the Sons of men the list of other failed Kings in their sacrifice of that which is truthful on the Alters of LIES. We today as FAILED kings and queens as in the Biblical "myth" shall NOT escape the EVIL consequences of the paths so freely chosen; even as we callously and mockingly dismiss the Biblical stories as useless spaghettis monster stupidity.
Women are not talking about value or importance, when they say "Equal." They are talking about availability of POWER for THEMSELVES...at ANY moment.....for ANY reason.....
@@hotice8885 The funny thing about it all is that woe...men always had power and equality with men. In the foolish deception to be "equal" with men they loss their power over themselves. The Geneses story should be clear that the Creator made them, both male and female like itself with power and dominion over all things in nature BUT ONE ANOTHER. After the mistake, the wrong and bad choice of disobedience something happen to their brain chemistry that made them "aware" and shame of their nakedness. This actuality that goes unnoticed by the vast majority of biblical readers. It is AFTER SIN humanity both male and female sought dominance over each other and all other aspects of creation. After the stupidity of SIN humanity disposition, its nature some how become corrupted. This was the choice that was freely given to the pair in the Garden and humanity today; to choose to see the God/Reality of LIFE that is free from evil OR CHOSE to see the God/Reality that s both GOOD and EVIL We don't have to guess what they chose, for we are still making the same BAD CHOICES as did our fore parents. And like them shall have NOT escape the consequences of BAD CHOICES be you ATHEIST or THEIST 😎😎
@@hotice8885 Power comes with a large degree of peaceful submission. It's all about understanding the roles. Women tend to carry their occupational titles home where it's not needed and she often losses the art of being a wife. So the numbers or statistics indicate this fact .
@@djcoleman9608Sir what grown woman is coming home after working all day and deferring to a fucking man . See that y’all fucking problem now , you somehow think that you’re a God YOU’RE NOT! You’re human get over yourself, women are not dogs they don’t need handlers or to be lead .
Amen, Fantasia! Preach!! I agree with this message! There is a definitely a place and role for the Queen 👑. The enemy has come in and perverted it "all" and I'm glad to hear these words of light and truth.❤
You're Absolutely correct..... The two shall be one ... one is one.... It can't be be divided. else, you got half left, and a half is incomplete.......and anything that's incomplete is unnecessary....and Unnecessary things and people are never a first priority. They must be avoided at all costs..this is why most woman are single with children and no man wants them.... It's not that they're not humans. It's just that they're incomplete and unnecessary. so, they're no more a priority.... The world is a different school all by itself.. You can graduate only by learning from your own and other people's mistakes .. are you in CLASS? I AM! Real talk.
She’s 💯 % correct and we as black women and I’m a Caribbean girl who was taught to be fair and respectful to the men in our lives who were sharing the home with the bills and kids too they are up against more in society than we are and I can honestly say I had to learn that being a strong intelligent black woman from a bloodline of strong women that I can’t just walk all over a man or kick him when he’s down there is compromising, sacrifice, taking accountability for my part in a disagreement and talking not shouting or humiliate him in the streets or in front of others and showing the softer side of a woman instead of RATCHET MESSY DRAMA HE WILL LEAVE YOUR ASS PERIOD ❤
For women you don't have to be strong 24/7 if a man isn't providing safety, security, providing, and leading let him go he ain't for you. In order to have a king you yourself have to embody being a Queen
You're right, unfortunately folks don't read the whole Bible, the word said we are to submit to one another as unto God. Men have been told to lead is to control, women have been told to submit is to be controlled. That isn't what God wants!
@@rhargrow8399a man who understands LOVE will be submitted to; LOVE seems greater than submission as a whole chapter wasn’t written on submission but love. How can it all start from the woman when the man is the leader?
DAM THIS WAS RIGHTEOUSLY WELL SAID !!!PLEASE BLACK MAN AND WOMAN UNDERSTAND WHAT SHE IS SAYING THERE IS A SPIRITUAL LEVEL TO THIS FORMAT LET'S BREAK THE CURSES ...
She shared true knowledge for these young women. The two parent households have become a rarity nowadays. You can have a career, be an entrepreneur, a mother and a wife but you have to learn to let your man lead. If you don’t trust him to lead then you’re not right for each other.
She's right! 💯 I'm the queen and boy do I love it! And I have my own business. And I love how my King takes care of business. And how he has my back! But he's the head of the household.
She’s speaking truth and I as a woman in her 60s let me say this trust me young modern women you will not lose yourself once you let the man lead. You’re scared to give up control that you never had. It’s not a competition it’s a union. Be his lover his helpmate his queen. Not his greatest mistake
My sister told me that submission is to bow low enough, so that when God swings the hammer, the man gets hit, not you! Men will give account to God someday, for how they led their families. We don't need to try to take that place! 🙏🏼
Yes!!! I am always been with deadbeat men where I felt like I had to take the lead because they did not handle their business as the head of the house. They always looked at me for stability because I have my own business.
... You brought tears to my eyes. Simple message awesome message powerful message biblical message corrective message ... Spoken so eloquently so simplistically. 💙🧸Rev
I've always loved this woman for her story and everything she's been through... Fantasia is a true rare gem! I wholeheartedly think she's the epitome of true real amazing woman!!! Be blessed Queen!
Exactly. They expect to be Godless and thrive. Look at the product of their broken homes. Their daughters are whores and their sons are sodomites. Now they can't even decide their genders. Abandon God and nothing good follows .
@JM-kr3sy yeah, he stays with the cubs while she goes out and hunt ,then he goes out and bring back other lioness and cubs back to his pride 😤 so he is a king ...of Making cubs 😂😂😂 but I get the impression that's being made ...
@@mightystrong5484Male Lions have a few roles mostly procreation and defending the pride from other male lions but there are times they're also needed to take down prey that is too big for the lionesses.There is this crazy documentary of these male lion brothers and the destruction they caused other prides. One of them literally walked around with a cub ripped in half in his mouth. They killed the alpha male in the pride and every single off spring and then dominated the lionesses. They're pretty savage. I watched a small pride with an enormous alpha and even though the lionesses usually do the hunting if their prey is too big they call the alpha to jump on its back and weigh it down until one of them can get the kill shot. It was a fuckin elephant they took down and the alpha was so huge he was able to jump on its backside and apply pressure until that elephant got so tired he finally gave up and then the lioness went in for the neck. They fight quite a lot. That's why the actual survival of the pride depends on both the King and the Queen.
That's why i like being single and be the boss of my life like I am supposed to be. Anytime you allow anyone to run your life they take you down in a wrong direction.
Well that would be due to the energy your putting out in the universe. Being unsure where you wanna go in life with no kind of direction you tend to attract just that. Blind leading the blind.
You won’t win this argument because no matter which way you cut it, you will be blamed for why your relationship didn’t work out. Online, men are allowed to chose wrong, demonize all women after and women must get it right the first time. I share the same sentiments as you and found a progressive modern man that is my soulmate. He wanted someone established and ambitious like him and I wanted someone who values who I am without trying to turn me into a cookie cutter housewife. Neither of us want children, he doesn’t try to rule over me and I don’t make demands. He has my highest respect because he earned it. When women value a man, respect never has to be requested. It comes naturally. All of us weren’t meant to submit. All of us don’t want to be a housewife or a mother. Don’t let these pick mes and men ready to lead you into the depths of hell make you change who you are to attract your man. Remain true to yourself so the man meant for you will find you.
@@SureYoureRight you talking bout the women must get it right the first time thats cap we saying quit having babies out of wedlock creating single mother homes women control access women need to stop opening their legs to anybody!!! and yall life not no where harder than a man life, because as a man you have to have all your stuff together to fully be a man and provider thats hard in this society when our own women going against us when we trynna lead but women scared to give up control yall never had!
I am from the same soul place as Fantasia. She is truly special. Her vibration resonates with me like crystal. This is energetic, not sexual or physical.
This is how I was raised and this is all I know. The man is the head of the household. The man is also the head of the relationship. The man sets the temperature for the relationship.😊
This is what I've been saying all along. I met Fantasia a few years ago she is so down to earth a realest. I wish women especially black women get it together. We need men as well as men need us.
The Queen is the most powerful piece on the Chess board. By her King’s side until duty calls. Respecting and returning to his side once business is handled.
Well said Fantasia I was one of them owning my home and having to take care of everything that comes with that I didn't have a landlord and raising 2 kids by myself I had a hard time falling back and trusting a real man 💪🏽🤔👍🏼🙏🏽💕💕
Let’s be honest that’s not what the problem was. You just you were better than men and you wanted to be strong and independent 😂😂😂 that shit sounds good until the rabbit got the gun
that's why she got married! She understood the assignment.
god bless her
Exactly!
Assignment?! PLEASE.
@@tyrellanderson4722 where is your wife? Or husband, sweet and low? I'm positive you are single and lonely and not by choice.
@@AnAdorableWombat1😂😂😂
@@AnAdorableWombat1😂😂
If ya don't trust him to LEAD, ain't no need to Proceed ❤
😅😅😅 Never mind
I’m pretty sure you are as single as they come 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@marthaanoushian3470 Yep. And the queens have to pray for the King.
AMEN!
Dating with intentions solves that problem
I haven't heard black women talk like this in a long time. God bless you fantasia
Older Christians have been speaking like this to younger ones non-stop forever and these days it continues to be preached on social media by Christians of all ages...in fact, I've heard this so much by now that I'm almost sure that church people are exactly who she is repeating and I'm surprised u say u haven't heard this in a while. Signed, a preacher's kid.
Because you surround yourself with the opps
Her saying she is neck is perverted and shows she is not truly submissive. Stop trying to be the neck also if you really want to stand up and be strong women
You haven’t been listening…
She's so right
These are the black women I respect
Please respect all women.
@titianiaburgin6749 That's not the point
These are women I don't respect at all. This kind of weak bullshit was told to them by a weak man.
@@titianiaburgin6749all women don't deserve respect,
These are the black women I love. Strong AND feminine.
Exactly she’s the only one that get it I’m proud of her 🎉the rest of them are for the streets
@@movingforward-fc4lgShe's not the only one that gets it.
@movingforward-fc4lg Yep seem like she the only Blk Woman! Who really gets it! What other Blk women says This in this matter......
@@blackgirlmagic8586So you get it? Are you a WIFE? Because If u really got it!You wud have never have the name Blk girl magic! And you are a grown Woman!
But why do I always hear black men refer to her, “you ugli Fantasia looking ass”😢
Speak Fantasia speak ,you're a strong successful queen with in house etiquette
Amen, Fantasia! Preach!! I agree with this message! There is a definitely a place and role for the Queen 👑. The enemy has come in and perverted it "all" and I'm glad to hear these words of light and truth.❤
Is this the same woman who was messing with a married man? I’m just wondering!
Why is the adjective to describe black women always “strong?” What the hell does that even mean? I don’t want a strong woman
Until he is ready for a new queen.😂
@@lpow3597queens get fired just like kings right? Do your job the best way you can instead of worrying about a new queen. A new queen means you ain't good enough. Simple as that
“I’m the neck and my husband is the head, he can’t move without his wife” 🔥🔥
A woman motivates a man. He will do anything to protect and be sure she is respected.
Amen
I will agree 2 disagree, it has 2 be a respectable man yoked w you. So when adultery, other kids come, did he use your neck? It's definitely equality,lots of men make many moves w/o their wife
That was so dope!
@@krissmith9952That's due to many households being in shambles. That's her point
This applies to the RIGHT man. I’ve met men who deserved to be the head of the household and wouldn’t be allowed to lead and that’s wrong. And I’ve met men who think they deserve to be head just because they have male genitals and they don’t even lead themselves well. It’s all about discernment.
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Right, so no one is going to talk about how in The Color Purple the woman she played was emotionally abused, graped, and beaten by the men of the household, until she became independent? She’s just trying not to be labeled a feminist 😂 anyone with half a brain knows it ain’t that simple.
Well, that would be the wrong man.
And then expect you to give them head on top of that😢
This‼️‼️‼️
Fantasia has always had the sweetest voice
TRUE!
I swear
Real facts Preachhhh
It is not just her nice voice it is the content that she conveys. We must know that God has a place for everything and things are to be done decently and in order. The Lord has everything in place for us but we must apply his word to our life to be led properly. It all comes from God.
It really kind of kills me when these women try to tell other women how they should be depending on the circumstances most women don't have a choice women don't have a choice
Submission is not weakness,it's being humble and respectful to yo king the man to be a great leader in the house.❤🇰🇪
In This generation it's considered weaknesses just like being kind
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EXACTLY! ❤
No doubt Ephesians 5:23-25
Ephesians 5v23-25❤
You've gotta have a real father to understand this. Then, you choose a real husband. My parents told me I was blessed every day as a child. As a woman, I receive it 🙏🏽
Aye!❤❤
Soooo true. It all starts with the upbringing, but being raised differently doesn't negate having it still tho. One can learn if she's open
This is dope!❤
@itssonecessary even dope statement....because many of us aren't blessed with having two parent home, but that doesn't mean we are not able to obtain that for ourselves. As Fantasia said, it's all about exceeding those generational curses.
🗣🗣🗣
“He who leads correctly will be followed properly.” -Dreya
@Rukkus1979 Not always... and sometimes people just need to let the right person lead them first.
Now that's a REAL strong black woman ✊🏾
Too bad most sistas don’t get that part. Being strong is being strong in your femininity, not masculinity rebelling, being combative and uncooperative.
Thats the one strong BM protect
👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾
This is why Fantasia is so loved by the people.
Fantasia went through it, until she found her real king.
A queen who knows her place in her power role❤
Amen...We are the head and we need that neck our women to love and hold us up and vise versa
@@mauriceblackmon6662these women can’t hold themselves up or take accountability or criticism they think their $hit doesn’t stinks
Those are not generational curses that’s a generational habit
I'm surprised your comment hasn't triggered any feminists yet. You are right though.
She is wise and God bless her
Fantasia is truly right and well spoken. I commend her a real Queen
I second this motion. ✋🏾
Y’all funny ass hell smh 🤦🏽♀️
I THIRD THIS MOTION ‼️‼️‼️‼️ ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯SAY IT ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️I AGREE I WAS TAUGHT WRONG ……..
@@misscynthia32Cynthia g is that you❓
@@mzansitrash😂😂😂😂😂
There is something very feminine and spiritual about her She is different.Thank you Fantashai!!Her voice is also very soothing
That’s why us black men love her so much that’s no cap
= "she thinks like me so she's smart "😂
Simp😂😂
Its godly... a understanding of a womans interpersonal role with a man.
@@timilot766That part 🙄
THIS GOES FOR EVERY HOUSEHOLD! REGARDLESS OF RACE OR BACK GROUND!! She is speaking nothing but TRUTH and FACTS!! God bless her! AMEN 🙏
They all got the memo. It's this Black/African woman that needs addressing. ❤
Just know that the bible says......"a man should take care of "HIS household first".
In this case, it is only about my melinated "family". We have and can't have any concern about "other households (other races) until we get our own household in order.
On another thread with a whyt, yellow or red woman, then she's speaking of her race.
It would have been better had you kept that comment to yourself!
@@alantaylor-vb6mn if you don't like what I said too bad!! Because regardless of race or background it goes for every household! FACTS are FACTS and TRUTH is TRUTH!!
@@kweaver1965 and I spoke the truth. Nobody gives a rats ass about your whyt arsh opinion.
Anytime we show some leaning towards "unity" with my people, in comes some sorry arsh whyt person putting their two cents in it.
Read my lips...."we don't give af what or how whyt folks resolve their issues!
Ok ok
She’s dropping that science💯🇲🇦
That's not science, that bible
She’s absolutely correct. It’s called order and where there is no order eventually becomes chaotic. 💯
THAT PART 🙏🏼🙌🏽
AMEN 👍✌️
For sure!!!!!!!!
She spoke nothing but biblical Facts!!!!❤❤❤❤❤
Yup… many relationships are not built based on what the word of God says and that’s where the problems are coming from.
For Real.
Amen👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@@KFontLab-all the time, AMEN!!!
Gigantic Facts!!!
I'm old school. I agree with her 💯
That's not old school. That's the way it should be
Old BIBLICAL also. The way it’s supposed to to be .
She dropping gems 💎 that’s a real Queen 👸🏾 right there💯💯💯💯
This conversation should’ve went viral she speaking nothing but truth God body
It did go viral and ppl attacked her for it and clowned her saying it was bs. 😢
We the people are Chemically imbalanced! We the people don’t Know who we are to even understand the truth .they did a job on us . And we are still eating their food 🤔
@@TEWMUCHdang that’s terrible they did that to her. People don’t like to hear the truth. … but if she said “ I don’t need a man for anything “ she would’ve be praised. 🤦🏽♀️
@ashleybcookin yup. All facts. 😅 society is backwards now. And our minds are warped🤷🏾♀️
Women who struggle to keep a good man need to hear and receive this.
Whenever a guy refers to himself as a "good man"...10/10 It's BULLSHI+!..
This is 2023 not 1950. Her statement works for her household.
@@Psalms4091do you cat lady
@@Psalms4091if you believe in God weather the date it still remains the same god says the man is the Head yesterday now and tomorrow...but hey if you don't belive in god then ignore this
@@Psalms4091 So you have a man that you lead in your household? And you happy with a man like that? Serious questions? Many of us want to see where this alternative is working for women. Because if it is, just say so.
She’s right! We must find the original order of things… It’s beneficial, especially to our children, the black family and community.
We don't need to find it. People know where it is. They just don't want to pick it up because of the discipline and responsibility it comes with.
Any man that protects, provides, and professes to love you- will never have to worry about where his woman stands. I am married to a Nigerian, and can honestly tell you that he treats me as a queen. I have no problem submitting to his leadership, even though capable of taking care of myself.
Powerful words from a true Queen
WELL SAID BABY GIRL WELL PUT 🎤 🎙 🎤 🎙 🎤 DROP DROP THE KNOWLEDGE WISDOM AND UNDERSTANDING TOLD LIKE A REAL QUEEN WHO HAVE BEEN TAUGHT OR LEARNING FROM LIFE .LESSONS OF LIVING LOVE ❤️ 😍 💖
She is quoting the Bible those words are from the HOLY scriptures... 😊
1 Corinthians 11:3. ❤❤❤❤
Protect this queen at all cost💙
Facts
@reubentaylor9841-This is not a queen. This is an ignorant woman who does not know what Jesus said! The problem with you black men is you ignore
what Jesus says and make up your own lies. This why God turned his back on you in the first place caused you to go into captivity in a foreign land for 400 years.
Jesus never said that women are to let men lead. Jesus actually said a man is to be a servant not a king.
She woke✨🕊️❤️✨
God got her
Biblically, she speaking a man
Love Fantasia ❤️ perfect example of a true Queen 👑👌
@brt432-A true queen she is not! Because a true queen would NOT say things that contradict what Jesus said! See no place in the Bible does God or Jesus or any divine being from heaven say that a woman is to let a man lead! Infact Jesus says that a man is to be a SERVANT! The word HUSBAND actually means care taker!
Sounds like a feminist... Man is made In God image... You sound absolutely ridiculous.
@@purpleiris6489Please provide a source aka a Bible verse that states this. Just want to research it a little more. Knowledge is Power. Each one teach one.
@@purpleiris6489You just contradicted the Bible and not her
@@purpleiris6489yes god says that I can send you chapter and verse
Most men nowadays can’t lead but I love this message
Fantasia is a wise woman. It would benefit more women if they would take her advice.
why? so they can bee victims of domestic abuse like Fantasia??!? and get over the king/queen sh!t. you a garbage man in the real world, but gone come home and bee king. shut up.
My mother tried this she is no longer here.
@@ladywindrush5464 wow sorry for your loss!!!, and I don't understand how people really feel like there saying something so wonderful. There's alot of men living off there woman, so how can a woman really let a person like that lead!!!! And my daughters sperm dono only worked about 5 years in his life and he's 50
You would think but they won't listen 😂😂😂
She slept with a MARRIED MAN PEOPLE
So women don’t DO NOT settle for a man that cannot lead you to the kingdom.
It’s worth the wait, we deserve this
The man that can't lead you to the kingdom it's
A loss anyway. Don't be
Unequally yoke period.
Jesus first.
Do not settle for a man who does not have the tool to lead. He is suppose to be the provider, if he can't provide he can't lead! Period!
@@deborahosborne5150bingo!
But how can you know that, if you are not married to the man. Man will not start providing until you are his responsibility.
Good luck you're running out of time
She's 100% correct
Yeah… thank GOD we keep GOD In our marriage… LAWD knows I forget sometimes… to shut up and let my husband be THE MAN and follow his lead when necessary… hey Mr. Whyte 😍😍
I’m pretty sure the 304s gone hate this 😂😂😂 blessings to this queen great energy and a good balance and understanding God is the greatest 💯✊🏽💪🏾
Indeed these 304's & the scissor community hate this 'cause they don't have that in them. They were groomed to hate men so, they'll be upset about it yet be mad that no man wants them.
She’s 100% right!
She's simply stating what's already been written in biblical principles. Everyone keeps talking about equality, but it's really about the roles and responsibilities of those roles. Any women who tries to take my role, is NOT for me. She is a Queen!!!
What you have stated is so under rated. Had Eve allowed Adam to be the King we should not be in the 💩💩💩💩 we are currently in.
Eve was the first feminist she thought to herself she did not need a man, her husband and king in dealing with the Serpent's deception. We all know how that went and is still going, don't we?
Failed and defeated man today like Adam, knowingly went along with Eve's Feministic foolishness in the name of "peace" and "love". The same with Samson and Delilah, the Sons of God who took as wives the Sons of men the list of other failed Kings in their sacrifice of that which is truthful on the Alters of LIES.
We today as FAILED kings and queens as in the Biblical "myth" shall NOT escape the EVIL consequences of the paths so freely chosen; even as we callously and mockingly dismiss the Biblical stories as useless spaghettis monster stupidity.
Women are not talking about value or importance, when they say "Equal." They are talking about availability of POWER for THEMSELVES...at ANY moment.....for ANY reason.....
@@hotice8885 The funny thing about it all is that woe...men always had power and equality with men. In the foolish deception to be "equal" with men they loss their power over themselves.
The Geneses story should be clear that the Creator made them, both male and female like itself with power and dominion over all things in nature BUT ONE ANOTHER.
After the mistake, the wrong and bad choice of disobedience something happen to their brain chemistry that made them "aware" and shame of their nakedness.
This actuality that goes unnoticed by the vast majority of biblical readers. It is AFTER SIN humanity both male and female sought dominance over each other and all other aspects of creation.
After the stupidity of SIN humanity disposition, its nature some how become corrupted. This was the choice that was freely given to the pair in the Garden and humanity today; to choose to see the God/Reality of LIFE that is free from evil OR CHOSE to see the God/Reality that s both GOOD and EVIL
We don't have to guess what they chose, for we are still making the same BAD CHOICES as did our fore parents. And like them shall have NOT escape the consequences of BAD CHOICES be you ATHEIST or THEIST 😎😎
@@hotice8885 Power comes with a large degree of peaceful submission. It's all about understanding the roles. Women tend to carry their occupational titles home where it's not needed and she often losses the art of being a wife. So the numbers or statistics indicate this fact .
@@djcoleman9608Sir what grown woman is coming home after working all day and deferring to a fucking man . See that y’all fucking problem now , you somehow think that you’re a God YOU’RE NOT! You’re human get over yourself, women are not dogs they don’t need handlers or to be lead .
Amen, Fantasia! Preach!! I agree with this message! There is a definitely a place and role for the Queen 👑. The enemy has come in and perverted it "all" and I'm glad to hear these words of light and truth.❤
Totally agree, Jesus is the head and the man is up under Jesus, just facts!
Woman is a neck and man is a head. Partnership ❤
That's right, The Bible says when a man and a woman come together in Marriage, they become one. Not 50 50 ,but one. Thank you Fantasia ❤
I touch and agree. Fantasia was talking Bible.
You're Absolutely correct.....
The two shall be one ...
one is one.... It can't be be divided. else, you got half left, and a half is incomplete.......and anything that's incomplete is unnecessary....and Unnecessary things and people are never a first priority. They must be avoided at all costs..this is why most woman are single with children and no man wants them....
It's not that they're not humans. It's just that they're incomplete and unnecessary. so, they're no more a priority....
The world is a different school all by itself.. You can graduate only by learning from your own and other people's mistakes .. are you in CLASS? I AM!
Real talk.
She didn't say that at all and the Bible is complete horse shit
That's still 100
Facts
Preach fantastia!! Tell more black women this
Tell envys wife this.
@@GetHers979 amen
She said it perfectly, and she explained how we got into this position.
Life experiences have brought her to this testimony.
She’s 💯 % correct and we as black women and I’m a Caribbean girl who was taught to be fair and respectful to the men in our lives who were sharing the home with the bills and kids too they are up against more in society than we are and I can honestly say I had to learn that being a strong intelligent black woman from a bloodline of strong women that I can’t just walk all over a man or kick him when he’s down there is compromising, sacrifice, taking accountability for my part in a disagreement and talking not shouting or humiliate him in the streets or in front of others and showing the softer side of a woman instead of RATCHET MESSY DRAMA HE WILL LEAVE YOUR ASS PERIOD ❤
You get it and I applaud you for that Queen 👑❤️💯
Right on… Reason with him, and support him respectfully!
🗣️🗣️🗣️ SISTER FANTASIA! 🎉 I could not have said it any better! She's dropping gems!💎💎💎👏👏👏🤯.🤯🤯
Me too
So true! 💪🏾
For women you don't have to be strong 24/7 if a man isn't providing safety, security, providing, and leading let him go he ain't for you. In order to have a king you yourself have to embody being a Queen
Medieval Queens entered the chat 😂
I agree ❤ My hubby is the King, earned not given, he definitely earned it PERIOD
Women have a big issue with submission. Submission is a sign of self-control and strength, not a sign of weakness
You're right, unfortunately folks don't read the whole Bible, the word said we are to submit to one another as unto God. Men have been told to lead is to control, women have been told to submit is to be controlled. That isn't what God wants!
@@rhargrow8399a man who understands LOVE will be submitted to; LOVE seems greater than submission as a whole chapter wasn’t written on submission but love. How can it all start from the woman when the man is the leader?
DAM THIS WAS RIGHTEOUSLY WELL SAID !!!PLEASE BLACK MAN AND WOMAN UNDERSTAND WHAT SHE IS SAYING THERE IS A SPIRITUAL LEVEL TO THIS FORMAT LET'S BREAK THE CURSES ...
No this THINKING is the curse
@femailspot3836 No sister it's not your probably Man Less now with that response.
@@femailspot3836how so?
@@femailspot3836 I KNO THIS IS A LATE REPLY BUT BETTER LATE THAN NEVER
....TO YOUR REPLY YOU MUST BE SINGLE AND BY YOURSELF WITH THAT ANSWER SIS!
Say it loud. If you don't trust him. Find somebody else. But for QUEEN Fantasia she found the key to success.
Protect HER at all cost ❤️🙏🏽
💯💯💯
If I ever hear a woman speaking this way, I'm pursuing her💯
Amen
I love this!!! PREACH Fantasia! This is God's Law! Man is the head!!!
So true. Every household needs a man in the family
Not just any man
I'M VERY HAPPY U FOUND MAN TOO LEAD .❤ YOU
She shared true knowledge for these young women. The two parent households have become a rarity nowadays. You can have a career, be an entrepreneur, a mother and a wife but you have to learn to let your man lead.
If you don’t trust him to lead then you’re not right for each other.
Straight 💯
This a beautiful woman who knows how to treat her man he’s one lucky guy to have the beautiful Fantasia🌹❤️
Her man treat her right as well, equal in every way , no dusty male business😮
She's right! 💯 I'm the queen and boy do I love it! And I have my own business. And I love how my King takes care of business. And how he has my back! But he's the head of the household.
Fantasia told no lie here!!!🎉❤👍🏾🌹💜😘
Angela got offended. A hit dog WILL holler. And she wonder why she ain’t got no man! Preach Fantasia! ❤
Exactly
Submission is a beautiful thing..the very protection we need from our Black men
You got it reversed! Submission comes first, NOT protection!
@@Ikw2 So why don’t you explain it to me??
What she spoke of is not submission. She was speaking of a healthy balanced relationship.
@@cuspofbeauty1402 So tell me in your own demonic voice where does submission fit into the equation? 🤔👀
@@mrquick6775actually love comes first from the MAN! If you believe in submission you must receive this fact.
She’s speaking truth and I as a woman in her 60s let me say this trust me young modern women you will not lose yourself once you let the man lead. You’re scared to give up control that you never had. It’s not a competition it’s a union. Be his lover his helpmate his queen. Not his greatest mistake
Gain your self let that man work child
❤️
Absolutely 💯
Modern men aren't leaders.
That's because when we DID give up control and trusted we were abandoned. Most of us have tried.
Facts preach FANTASIA 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
My sister told me that submission is to bow low enough, so that when God swings the hammer, the man gets hit, not you! Men will give account to God someday, for how they led their families. We don't need to try to take that place! 🙏🏼
Yes!!! I am always been with deadbeat men where I felt like I had to take the lead because they did not handle their business as the head of the house. They always looked at me for stability because I have my own business.
Excellent point ☝️! Did your entrepreneurial spirit come from not having men in your life as leaders growing up? I'm just curious.
Every male is not a man
This Queen is speaking Truth,I wish these women would take her advice,we need more Queens like her coming from a King 💯
... You brought tears to my eyes. Simple message awesome message powerful message biblical message corrective message ... Spoken so eloquently so simplistically. 💙🧸Rev
Spoken like a true queen 🫡
I've always loved this woman for her story and everything she's been through... Fantasia is a true rare gem! I wholeheartedly think she's the epitome of true real amazing woman!!! Be blessed Queen!
Feminine healing is deeply needed for women to find inner balance and reclaim our position ❤
Amen sis!! Let them know Fantasia!!🤩🤴🏽👸🏽
When a queen has a king
She means equality...you both can work as a team, but you have your responsibilities and strengths and need to recognise that. Love her
Acknowledge what she is saying.............
Wow! I’ve been a long time Fantasia super fan. Great voice. Now I realize she knows a lot about life too. Well said, Ms. Fantasia! 👍🏽
She's speaking truth!!! ❤❤❤
Preach Fantasia That's the Truth
The way God wanted it to be! Truth! FACTS! ❤ Thank you Fantasia!
Exactly. They expect to be Godless and thrive. Look at the product of their broken homes. Their daughters are whores and their sons are sodomites. Now they can't even decide their genders. Abandon God and nothing good follows .
Wow! I'm loving it. So many need to hear this and recognize what it is to be a queen.
Ms. Fantasia is totally on point and thoroughly well spoken 👏 👌 🙌 👍
100% correct,,,,She's on point,,Listen Ladies,, She puts it very intelligently..👍
The Lion may not be the biggest animal, but the Lion will always be king
I get what you're saying the make lion is the head BUT.... The female lion hunts and takes care of the children
The lion will always need their lionesses. In the animal kingdom the lionesses also respect her king.
@JM-kr3sy yeah, he stays with the cubs while she goes out and hunt ,then he goes out and bring back other lioness and cubs back to his pride 😤 so he is a king ...of Making cubs 😂😂😂 but I get the impression that's being made ...
@@mightystrong5484Male Lions have a few roles mostly procreation and defending the pride from other male lions but there are times they're also needed to take down prey that is too big for the lionesses.There is this crazy documentary of these male lion brothers and the destruction they caused other prides. One of them literally walked around with a cub ripped in half in his mouth. They killed the alpha male in the pride and every single off spring and then dominated the lionesses. They're pretty savage. I watched a small pride with an enormous alpha and even though the lionesses usually do the hunting if their prey is too big they call the alpha to jump on its back and weigh it down until one of them can get the kill shot. It was a fuckin elephant they took down and the alpha was so huge he was able to jump on its backside and apply pressure until that elephant got so tired he finally gave up and then the lioness went in for the neck. They fight quite a lot. That's why the actual survival of the pride depends on both the King and the Queen.
The lion is the king cause the bear allows it 😂
This lady is a multi millionaire telling you this !!!
Married to a man she employed be for real!
@@eyanasglow8163 she is human, she made a mistake. But I bet you now her husband appreciate her and protect her.
@@Bobbillyjrboy I mean she employed him, it's the least he can do 😭
@@eyanasglow8163lmao
From the start..That Part!!!!! Talk that truth blackwoman. ❤fantasia 4 this
That's why i like being single and be the boss of my life like I am supposed to be. Anytime you allow anyone to run your life they take you down in a wrong direction.
Well that would be due to the energy your putting out in the universe. Being unsure where you wanna go in life with no kind of direction you tend to attract just that. Blind leading the blind.
Oh sounds like you met the wrong people
You won’t win this argument because no matter which way you cut it, you will be blamed for why your relationship didn’t work out. Online, men are allowed to chose wrong, demonize all women after and women must get it right the first time.
I share the same sentiments as you and found a progressive modern man that is my soulmate. He wanted someone established and ambitious like him and I wanted someone who values who I am without trying to turn me into a cookie cutter housewife. Neither of us want children, he doesn’t try to rule over me and I don’t make demands. He has my highest respect because he earned it.
When women value a man, respect never has to be requested. It comes naturally. All of us weren’t meant to submit. All of us don’t want to be a housewife or a mother.
Don’t let these pick mes and men ready to lead you into the depths of hell make you change who you are to attract your man. Remain true to yourself so the man meant for you will find you.
@@SureYoureRight you talking bout the women must get it right the first time thats cap we saying quit having babies out of wedlock creating single mother homes women control access women need to stop opening their legs to anybody!!! and yall life not no where harder than a man life, because as a man you have to have all your stuff together to fully be a man and provider thats hard in this society when our own women going against us when we trynna lead but women scared to give up control yall never had!
Tf Is this lead shit like women are sheep or horses. Lead ya mf self and do right by others.
Lord please protect this woman with all your love in Jesus name we pray amen 🙏🏾 ❤
PREACH girl!!! PREACH
You’re Talking! Real Talk! 👏🏽👏🏽Bless you ! 🙏🏽❤️
It's a Union and a Partnership. It's not a Competition and a Conflict.
I am from the same soul place as Fantasia. She is truly special. Her vibration resonates with me like crystal. This is energetic, not sexual or physical.
Sweet soul, Fantasia .. you are blessed with wisdom
This is how I was raised and this is all I know. The man is the head of the household. The man is also the head of the relationship. The man sets the temperature for the relationship.😊
This is what I've been saying all along. I met Fantasia a few years ago she is so down to earth a realest. I wish women especially black women get it together. We need men as well as men need us.
Fantasia is spitting FACTS
So beautifully spoken by this beautiful black queen ❤👸🏿
.......and this is why I LOVE Fantasia.....
Somebody give this girl an offering, 'cause she just preached a whole message!💯
A whole one🙏🏽👐🏾👐🏾
Hallelujah ❤️
The Queen is the most powerful piece on the Chess board. By her King’s side until duty calls. Respecting and returning to his side once business is handled.
Well said Fantasia I was one of them owning my home and having to take care of everything that comes with that I didn't have a landlord and raising 2 kids by myself I had a hard time falling back and trusting a real man 💪🏽🤔👍🏼🙏🏽💕💕
This what I'm talking about
Let’s be honest that’s not what the problem was. You just you were better than men and you wanted to be strong and independent 😂😂😂 that shit sounds good until the rabbit got the gun
@@MrQuincy611 please explain who the rabbit is in her situation and what happens when they “get the gun”…
Absolutely...💯
The King 👑 needs the Queen 👑...
Blessings...🙏
Be strong together 💪💐💐💐💜💜💜