Videos Depict Accused Murderer Arguing with Girlfriend at Bar the Night She Was Killed
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- Опубликовано: 7 ноя 2022
- Security footage shown in court depicts accused murderer Matthew Terry arguing with his girlfriend Kay Baker at a bar the night she was killed. Baker's friend, Kelly Andrews, testified that Terry accused Baker of "dancing with another man" at the bar, causing the argument.
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It's sooooo unattractive when people act like this. Little man, you weren't 'protecting your queen and your kingdom' you were having a temper tantrum. BTW that statement is extremely cringeworthy.
pretty soon Bubba will be the king and he will be the queen
I agree insecurity is unattractive trait, it can make the relationship hard work and lack of trust doesn't help but let's be balanced talking generally, say i was your man and a girl stopped me with her leg and I touched her leg playfully and stood there ignoring you, honestly as much as what took place that night after they left was not at all justified would you really be okay with that?? Genuine question btw. More aimed at that general scenario. It appeared to me that she wasn't really into him and the right thing to do would be in my mind to read that energy and politely end it and move on. I also think if I was standing there talking to two girls that I'd be worried if my Mrs didn't care tbh. Then it would be time for me to move on I think lol
"his queen and his kingdom"? My man been watching too much GOT.
@@patrickcostigan2502 i dont think people would be okay with that, but most people wouldnt get so angry that they stab someone either.
@@someidiot420 I agree, which is why I said he should of read her energy and behaviour and walked away from the relationship.
Seems like the defendant made a whole lot out of nothing. He’s a sorry excuse for a man, a tiny, tiny man. 😢
that not a man.
@@kylemcpherson1772 not even a human.
@@ritzee13 that true
Insecure man.
@@ritzee13 he literally a human though
Imagine thinking you have the right to end someone’s life, ever.
I murdered the man who molested my cousin and sister for years. Convince me I didn't have the right or responsibility as I catch him in the act
@@eddiespaghetti4317 Well that’s different. I probably shouldn’t say ever, I was thinking about situations like this
While this case is not an example, I can think of multiple cases where it can be considered ok
@@RichBuddy If you don't trust somebody, you shouldn't be with them at all. That's on you for not ending the relationship which is clearly already over. Especially if you know you're a jealous type with irrational responses to emotional damage, then decide to drink alcohol and go with the person who makes you most vunerable to a social atmosphere where people gather and get loose listening to loud music.... it's like he was begging for a reason.
That's ALL on him, even looking at "both ways".
@@RichBuddy You’re trolling right?
Men like this are dangerous. You can tell he was watching her the entire time at the bar. They are so insecure it’s sick.
It's like everyone on dating apps
I wouldn't say man not all man are like him if we was we would all be in prison
@@maurice6288 lol I was definitely exaggerating!
@@CC12398 not you I know Erika Christine im.guessing she had some.jealous man in her life
@@maurice6288 she did say “men LIKE him”, to be fair.
I would use the word “boys” like him, but, whatever, swings and roundabouts…
Abusers don't need a reason. They're irrational *all the time*. If you don't clean the house just right, say the right thing, wear the right clothes, wear makeup, have a job, talk to family members, have friends, enjoy yourself...
Exactly!
If you are alive, you are wrong.
I am proud that you.survived your abuser/ abuse.
I am a survivor too dasboot27
@ivy Dickson You've got to be trolling! That's such an ignorant & nonsensical thing to say. Are all abusers murderers???
@search4truth 😅🤦🏾♀️ You do realize you kinda just made her exact points in a different way, right? Course, there's a multitude of things; she didn't have to list all of them.
This situation is even crazier, Kay Baker testified for Terry for a prior stabbing incident in Michigan regarding Terry's other ex. That ex warned Kay, who defended Terry, to be careful because he will do it to her as well.
Wow! Do you have a link?
@@MrsK976 I tried to find a third one, but its repeats
@@MrsK976 Search for "He’s accused of killing a Hillsborough teacher. His ex warned he’d hurt someone else." by Mary Claire Molloy. She wrote a good piece about the history and it's free online.
What a tangled web we weave....
His grin in court narcissistic sociopath. He held his rage because she embarassed him.
He embarassed himself. 😄
Only in his Tiny mind
Like the same Tiny thing's he stands 4
Small man syndrome..
It was so telling seeing his reaction after the verdict. He couldn't even look at the camera. 😂😂
Women, don’t ever date little men like this...when you’re dating and you discover your date’s jealous over you rather than treating you with the respect you *know* you deserve, please *don’t* think it’s cute. It’s the *tell* that he’s an insecure, controlling, impotent little man who will never trust you no matter what you do, no matter how many friends you drop for him, no matter how much you give up everything for him. No matter what you do, he will make your life *miserable* at best.
Edit: The same applies to men dating women who are jealous arseholes. It’ll *never* be worth it.
Anyone who would get mad over THAT is unhinged
I've dated a guy like this. It's terrifying.
@@omayrasdemesne It definitely is.
They are very insecure with themselves. Insanely jealous.
Never know when they will snap.
To each his own ALWAYS!
She was cheating 100% shove, gesture, leg grab, says it all
You got a wife I can rub on?
In the video, when Matthew came out of the bathroom, the first thing he saw was that random guy with his hands up shimmying past Kay and Kelly on his way to the bathroom. Unbelievable timing. It was almost as if Matthew created it himself b/c he was so jealous. When a person is THAT jealous, especially when they've been drinking, the only evidence they see is the evidence that supports their jealous belief.
Yes, I noticed this.
There are maybe 5 people commenting here that are either virgins, afraid to leave the house, picked up their girl at gun point and a van, or going out means a neighbor. That girl was cheating with at least the neighbor every chance she could get, depending on the neighbor she was a drink or 2 away from doing that guy on the bar. Shockingly many people don’t realize seeing a video of strangers = you know nothing. If you have seen that behavior multiple times then it’s an educated guess.
You can tell she wasn’t into him. The body language is clear. She barely spoke to him the entire time.
@@Im-Not-Gay-No-More was she really cheating with the neighbor? Has this come up in the trial at all?
@@pimplepickerton It’s just
My opinion but I would absolutely be willing to wager she was. She spent more doing anything but be near her boyfriend.
"Five years earlier, it was Michelle Rogers lying on a neighbor’s lawn, her blood mingling with Michigan snow. Terry had bitten, beaten and stabbed Rogers multiple times, leaving the mother of his child in intensive care for five days." - Tampa Bay Times (2022/06/30)
His girlfriend Kay Baker testified for Matthew Terry in court, saying "He is very truthful and I trust him completely.” And he was out of prison in three years. Michelle Rogers warned Kay Baker about how dangerous he was.
I heard the Prosecutor might seek death penalty due to his other attempted murder in the same manner. I hope they do! Make sure this man never gets out of prison... He's a danger to any and all women and a menace to society
this is horrible
Wow
So sad.
Wow
Well at least he got to see a replay of what actually happened and know that he got irrationally angry over absolutely nothing.
I'm not sure he saw it that way, even on replay. Look at his face after that was shown. He looks smug, like it proved she had danced with another guy. In his mind, it's perfectly acceptable to be angry over that fragment of a second of interaction.
@@cyn4476 In his mind, maybe. But in no sane person's mind. If someone's partner is that controlling, they should run or seek help.
@@sophiophile agreed. It is hindsight, but if only she could have seen that before that night. Lots of "if only" thoughts about this, I'm sure her friend regrets watching her walk away with him.
@@cyn4476 you're so right. he even looked like he was smirking
Right literally her friend did the little fist pumping first Right before the lady's husband saw and witnessed his wife doing it instead but Right after the friend did it.
I can’t imagine being with someone so devoid of self worth, esteem, confidence, etc they would even notice, much less, become jealous or feel slighted by something so insignificant. Someone that pathetic can’t be mentally sound.
🎯
Jealous people don’t need relationships.
Exactly!
Nope, they need therapy...
He is a jealous, narcissistic, siopath, evil, little man, boy.
His thinking she danced with another guy is crazy.. she wasn’t even paying attention to that guy wow :(
She knew he had stabbed another woman. She testified on his behalf in that case.
The bad choices in these lives is mind numbing.
Us humans are crazy.
I didn't know this, so she was with him even though she knew he stabbed someone else..I need to read up on this case
@@123f89
Yeah, evidently they were a couple, broke up and she went back to him after his time in prison
I hate jealousy people
She testified on his behalf? What's the source there, I couldn't find it.
It's so crazy that the guy who briefly pretended to dance with the two women as he passed by them inadvertently set into motion the chain of events that would lead to her death that night....
I wonder if he knows?
Oh no I didn't think about it that way.. I hope he never finds out, that would be hard to process 😕
What???? He did nothing of the sort! The way you put it sounds like this vermin is justified. 🤮🤮🤮
@@piva1358 He said inadvertently.
If it wasn’t this ( something so ridiculous) or this time it most likely would’ve been something else equally ridiculous.
once an abuser, always an abuser
🎯🎯🎯
Unfortunately, true
Oh so true ..he had just a few years before been released from prison for stabbing and beating up a ex gf....Sorry I'm not ever dating anyone like that..
@@grneys45 I’m very familiar….
@@devilis6 That doesn't actually stop them---- What they do/say _may_ have less effect---- but that doesn't stop them being the same vile and pathetic little **** they are!!!
The way he sits there smirking through this testimony is soooo telling. Pure narcissist who honestly believes that what he did was warranted. He needs to be locked up for a long time.
Castrated first.
Forever
FOREVER!
I was thinking this was the Honan holish incident still from saskiatoon
Paige something got released on 5000$ bail for manslaughter
@@austin2245psn say what?
EVEN IF she WAS flirting, it was no reason to murder her.
Yup, we must to confess that she did it . she was flirting to way much 🤭
These hoes ain’t loyal
Funny thing is if it was opposite roles she would not have any of it and make a scene and end the relationship immediately js
@@RelaxationGalaxy Agreed! Me and my man have a healthy relationship with each other and neither one of us at all minds that we talk or dance harmlessly with other people. As long as we go home together and aren't f***ing anyone else, it's all fine and dandy! It's all based on TRUST! Without trust, you have NOTHING!!
The subtle anger on his face is a clear sign he's guilty...
The fact that she talked with her neighbor friends for a while shows she hadn’t yet experienced the dark side of Terry. She was feeling comfortable and being her outgoing friendly self. It’s a shame he chose to hate and murder her over the very attribute everyone else clearly loved her for.
What a great hypothesis! I would tend to agree.
No. No one suddenly becomes controlling. She was just trying to de-escalate the situation. Making sure her friends were at ease, after they’d witnessed her husband acting overbearing, and jealous. She was so used to him being like that, this was her go to setting.
She had experienced his dark side she just didn't believe how horrible it would become. I've experienced her horror. I escaped.
Oh, I agree she had seen ALL the red flags! She testified on his behalf after he stabbed, bit, and beaten his child’s mother. What I’m saying is, it seems like he had done a fairly good job at making her believe he wasn’t capable of taking it that far (with her). I know personally how to de-escalate an abuser and it’s certainly not chatting with men in front of them. No disrespect in my reply… I just feel so sad for her and really believe she thought she could “change” him.
She was warned about his behavior from the ex her stabbed and put in the hospital years prior, Kay even defended him in court hearing. Terry had only served 3 yrs for stabbing the mother of his child.
I'm sorry I wouldn't be married for 39 years if I thought every time my wife talked or did what she did . Your in a bar having fun . Bars are a place to interact with others .
You can feel the short man’s insecurities pouring out the screen ✨✨
her best friend is so brave and important to Kay's own justice. that's love.
It seems that he was looking for an excuse to cause trouble and ruin an enjoyable night, it’s such a ridiculous thing to attention seek over.
Absolutely. He would’ve found any excuse to ruin her happiness and assert dominance over his “Kingdom”
That’s what abusers do. Especially narcissists. They hate you enjoying yourself
Love the sad little incels that come into this video to make victim blaming comments. Pathetic
@madmanfotos2022 if that's what you took away from this video, then you are probably also extremely jealous and more than likely just as dangerous
Omg can you imagine how that poor guy who was just walking by & having fun feels now? That little arm waived made this psychopath that angry!
He probably does feel terrible. I hope he realizes that this had nothing to do with him. A-hole boyfriend was looking for an excuse to fight with her. These people don't have the ability to see that their possessiveness IS the problem. Their relationships never last--but don't usually end like this. What a loser.!!
He probably does not even know, unless they brought him in. I have not been following.
Terry was just trying to find a reason to be jealous and angry at her.
I used to have a relationship like this and I was not allowed to even make eye contact with another man. It’s ridiculous. He was clearly just walking by and saw 2 women dancing and danced by on the way to somewhere.
Where is he now
@@manic4lovefeeling remorse
His chin up shows this man’s narcissistic character, he’s not distraught at all, you would think he’d be worried knowing he’s being accused of murder.
Go check out how different his reactions were after the verdict. He couldn't even look in the camera lens. 😂😂
She is way too friendly and outgoing for this control freak.
I am too. I was always accused and it drove me insane. Thank god he’s out of my life. Wish Kay could have gotten away 😢
He is way too weak and insecure for a social and friendly person like Kay. Just putting the blame on him where it belongs....
This is true.... that's why I was basically a hermit for 4.5 yrs!
how did he make it this far in life at all if he is so petty!!??
Heard he did 3 years for stabbing a prior girlfriend.
He did 3 years for stabbing a previous gf..... lol.
@@slimpickens3863
Red flag 🚩
His nickname in highschool was Mr Mcstabby.
Hi favorite song was Mac the knife
I wonder if HE cheated on Kay or was currently cheating on her cause his paranoia is through the roof. I can’t believe this was just over some minuscule interaction with a male passerby that he saw exactly as it happened. Then proceeds to go on and on about it for over an hour like a child. And his smirks during court when his murdered girlfriend is being discussed. Dude has more than a few screws loose.
They were only physically together for 2 months. He didn't have time to cheat. This was a pattern for him. He beat and nearly murdered his ex over jealousy in a drunken rage with a knife before this. What's really insane is that she went to extreme lengths for him. Testified at his parole hearing, gave him a shot despite his background, and didn't listen to friends and family who warned her about him. All that and he STILL couldn't believe she was loyal.
He was like with the prior gf. So I agree they project a lot. Mine cheated and accused me constantly
I bet he was. I’ve been with men who were cheating on me and tried you act like I was doing it instead. It’s a classic manipulation tactic. They try to project.
@@abebuckingham8198 That’s not true. Lol People can still cheat on you from day one of dating. I had a four year long relational where we lived together and he was cheating the whole time.
@@alynsak tell us more. What's the deets?
Imagine if you are the bloke who waved his arms for a second as he walked passed this poor woman , his actions in joining in wth the fist pump , in no fault of his own , created this tiny man to do evil things . . . Terrible 😳
The sad thing is I see this often on a night out; I’ve done it myself. Such a simple thing done in fun that can be contagious depending on the people around. The even sadder thing is that I’ve seen the reaction on a person that we were out with. Kept an eye on him because he was acting off though when someone would say something to him he’d just shake his head; talk to her and she’d brush it off as if it was nothing, just the way he was. I just really hope that after being out of the situation things calmed down.
For real! I've been with my husband for 23 years! Don't get me wrong, we have healthy jealous moments, I call territorial. Jealous is something you want and can't have, territorial is something you have and protect, but we laugh amd joke about it. My husband came out to his truck at a shopping center with a woman's phone number on it, We laughed, I told him I'm gonna frame it and put on the glass...break for emergency 😂 This man seems like he was looking for something to be upset about, and he was making stuff play in his head distorted! So sad!
Instead of confronting the man which of course he shouldn't it's ridiculous, he took it out on a girl.
What bothers me the most is he looks so pleased with himself like I didn't do anything wrong you're !
He would have found another reason to do it eventually
@@jennm5675 My thoughts exactly. He would’ve eventually found something else she did “wrong” as a reason to attack her.
Wow that smirk on his face in the courtroom looks deadly.
If this man can get that angry for 3 seconds of a guy randomly passing by and dancing near his GF, I could imagine what else he is capable of!
What a little man. Wearing a suit and glasses will set you free.
This makes me never want to date anyone again.. you never know what’s going through someone’s mind
First sign of jealousy, walk away. There are good people out there, you just have to be aware and not fall for the charm or good looks without looking at the whole picture.
And if a friend says they see red flags, listen!
Stay out of bars. Liquor seems to be the culprit.
I don't know how long they was dating. But she did talk along time to some guys at a table. Which it made him more jealous I'm sure. And alcohol don't help.
@@warmlantern0000 exactly what I was thinking and was going to write. I was thinking if there had never been bars, alcohol and drugs, a lot of people would be alive and the jails would be pretty empty.
Exactly!
@@cyn4476 Guys do this all the time, they don't all commit murder but stear clear.
Wow what is wrong with him? Some stranger was passing her on way to bathroom. Someone with these kind of jealousy & anger issues does not deserve to live in society.
Imagine sitting in prison over literally nothing because you're just that insecure. Jealousy is a wasted emotion. If someone chooses to be with someone else there is NOTHING you can do about it. Killing them is an embarrassment because now the whole world sees how petty you are.
I mean she was trying to get under his skin by talking to strangers and other random men
@@ledogwaterjames4863 are you a killer? How did you know she was talking to strangers?
@@christy7535 Ummmm, did you watch the video??? It's clear as day that she was talking to other men. Not that there's anything wrong with that. It's on the video. Just saying!
A mature, secure and non-aggressive partner would not react to this scenario in such a vicious way. It’s quite ridiculous to have a full blown fight after a situation like this. Many couples literally laugh at other people making ‘attempts’ at their partners. What if he’s right and both the neighbour and the dancing man had been flirting with her, but she took an opportunity to turn them down? He wouldn’t have known because he was blinded by jealously, paranoia and rage. Her body language was so reassuring towards him - hugging his shoulders, rubbing his back IN FRONT of other men. That didn’t matter to him. People like him need full control over partners and isolate them in order to feel secure and needed. It’s toxic. She’s clearly an ambivert/extrovert and for a man like him, it never would’ve worked; he’d end up accusing her of cheating in any setting. She deserved better and he needed therapy not a wife or gf. Rest in peace to this woman ❤️ My goodness she did not deserve this.
I was engaged to a guy like this creep in 1977. Our last contact was him pulling a French knife on me. I dialed "O" for operator and screamed " he has a knife". Watching this trial is a horrific trigger for me. I absolutely know what she went through right down to the accusations and conversation leading up to having a knife waving at me. The terror she felt as she dove out the window is visceral to me. I escaped. She didn't.
The last time I also saw my ex before my current partner he too had a knife against me.. AGAINST MY THROAT! He was completely wasted and I found out he was cheating on me with a married subordinate of his. I told him Monday I would be calling the company. He told me he was going to kill me and I've never been so scared in my life. He was a nasty alcoholic.
Wow ty for sharing and insite!
So sorry this happened to you and very glad to hear you escaped him.
@@invincible9462 Google it - I did and found that the French actually have pretty much as wide a variety of different knives as all the rest of us do. 🤣
I was in a very similar situation he a narcissistic abusers he was betting me and accusing me of cheating when he was the one that got one of his supplies pregnant now mind you he's 58 so good luck with that ....he but a knife to my neck told me he was going to kill me I broke the screen out of my bedroom window that was 3 stories up and had one leg out of the window before he left me alone...he's doing 2 years in prison and I have an injunction in place for the rest of his natural life.
Guys like that are also jealous when you're hugging another woman
I knew a woman who was dating a troll like this. She went out of town to visit her sister and they were in the hot tub together drinking wine. She told him about it and he went crazy jealous and accused her of being a lesbian.
He saw her talk to the neighbor too and instantly got up to follow her.
U can see he got mad there too and went to fuss at her
At first he ran after her on the way to the toilet. 🙄
@@oOIIIMIIIOo right.
Creepy mf
Hands in pocket, seemingly practicing restraint.
You can tell by watching his body language he’s getting increasingly begrudged about her talking to those guys . Like he can’t HANDLE IT
Yes I pray the judge allows the testimony of his ex that he stabbed also!
He did due to Williams Rule which allows previous crimes to be brought up if they are strikingly similar to the case at hand. Since both his attacks were with knives over jealousy and he nearly murdered his ex the judge agreed to let it in.
He has a crappy smirk on his face the whole time in court
He's very cocky!
That his expression for "No one understands me." All the sociopaths use it.
@@jacquelynskye295 lol true
I would say a man being silly and pretending to dance along with two women caused someone her life. But no it was a jealous psycho boyfriend that bares all the responsibility for this womans murder.
I had this type of jealous boyfriend scenario happen to me. I was at a gas station talking to the owner outside, vaguely paying attention to the comings and goings of people with my back to the gas bar. This guy pulls up after filling his gas tank and started into me for staring at his girlfriend. I could see her in the passenger seat and the only thing I could think of was how she should be running away from this guy as fast as she could. But, I bet she didn't.
Happens all the time.
Nope.. my friend is with a guy like this and we are almost 50…too old for bs …I really think it’s some kind of mental disorder -
i got accused of having a torrid affair with a stranger because we walked out of the mens and womens bathroom at the same time the doors were next to each other.......... a random stranger uh looking back now i shouldve said yes i did the guys cuter than you and walked away ...some people are just horrible
I dated a very jealous man once. Someone that is that insecure and jealous is incredibly dangerous. I never, EVER cheated on him but got accused of it daily. These people are so, SO damaged. And abusive. I did not stay in that relationship very long.
I hope he’s realizing how wrong he was about her dancing with the dude. But at the same time why didn’t mighty Matt go and confront the dude she was supposedly “dancing “ with. Nope he took the COWARD way out. Smh
For a guy like him, this video probably “confirms” what he thought.
Because men like him can’t face other men. They can show their ugliness against women. In other words, they’re cowards!
Well, even if she had kissed the dude... he killed her. That means he's not a normal dude who sometimes gets a little jealous.
Why does he look so…..smug? This is the first clip I’ve watched from this trial and dude looks pleased with himself wth
Agreed, just came across this trial myself... he can hold his head back in arrogance in court but we all see his bald cul-de-sac of hair he sports in the bar videos. N probly just the cheater, only way someone is that obsessively insistent on miniscule interactions. Them ppl look for things like that they can pick a fight from or blow up
She left her phone on the table with her jealous boyfriend while she went to the bathroom in another part of the bar, and was away from in for a long time, which show she had nothing to hide. But he walks up and inserts himself into her conversation by handing her the drink she didn't even want at the moment like she had "forgotten" it, and then curled his shoulders inward and put his hands in his pockets and pulled the "I'm so harmless and sweet" act to try to get himself into the memories of these neighbors as a "cool and level headed guy" when that's not at all who he is. He's establishing his character witnesses before committing his crime.
Yeah he interjected into a situation where he had nothing to offer just because he couldn't wait to confront her. He was just sitting on the edge of his seat chomping at the bit.
The defense implying that Matt is not physically abusive after he's been on trial for stabbing someone previously is a choice.
They probably are not allowed to bring that out until a sentencing trial. The jurors have to only go on this incident, not his previous history. They probably won’t have his ex testify until then, but you never know.
The prosecutors, I mean.
@@holylandfan3275 You're right. If that's what we are going on, then the trail of blood leading to the bushes where he was hiding wearing only his shirt and underwear would then be the nail in the coffin.
So just because he didn’t yell or get physical with her, doesn’t mean he’s a nice guy that just lost it.
Totally. The defense attorney suggesting that because he wasn’t screaming or being publicly physically abusive equates to some sort of calm mood on his part is really reaching.
He had probably be flirting with others behind her back and she never knew. She did no wrong. His low self esteem got the better of him. Been there myself. What a nightmare. It can happen to men and women definitely.
its always projection. the men in these situations will lose their minds at any hint of their women paying attention to someone else while they have a few other women waiting on them. ive been there as well. and pretty much every woman ive met.
Domestic Violence isn't LOVE Ladies.... Please seek help ASAP, quietly with a lot of precaution.
Men sometimes suffer it too
He was obviously jealous of her talking with the neighbor so long. He was using the dance thing as a crutch, at this point, because he didn't even check out the 'dancing' guy as he passed him by, nor did he stop to speak with her and her friend out of concern. It's clear he was looking for a fight with her. She was doomed. Wretched human. Guilty.
Imagine accusing your gf/wife for dancing with some guy and then go ahead and make it worse and end up killing her. Then you see on cctv video her not dancing with some guy.. Also its so sad to think how she felt when he wrongly accused her and then ends up dying :(
Some men don't deserve to have wives/gfs.
I don't think she even noticed the guy dancing behind her friend. To lose your life for something so trivial is so unfair.
Send him to supermax Florence, dude needs to be locked up 23/7
I will never understand this level of jealousy, it is just insane to even think about.
Jealousy + alcohol + paranoia + derangement = murder
This is just so sad , so many evil people in this world.!
His kind wants to cage the woman and stomp out her light. She was the type that shines but he is very dark and the bright light radiating from her was uncomfortable to him.
Janet.......THIS IS THE ROOT OF ALL EVIL. that alcohol and flirting don't have a problem of defeat, in some people's minds.........an evil that leads to destruction of marriages and relationships......of a lowest point in one's life.
It angers me that this guy wasn't getting it even after constantly being assured that his mate (Baker) was not dancing with another guy, but even if she was he should've ended the relationship and moved on. Instead, here we are now, unfortunately.
I'm sort of an armature body language observer. The last time she was at the table with the two guys talking (before Matt goes over) he was rubbing his hands together quite a bit so I Googled that body language: "Rubbing hands slowly means you’re planning to harm someone else. Think of evil, scheming cartoon villains." Interesting.
24:27 she even knows the little weakling of a man clearly needs comfort and reassurance and gives it to him
Imagine being this guy, and you killed her because you swore that she was dancing with that dude, and this is the first time you've seen this video and realized she wasn't, lol.
He saw the same thing we all saw that night and he still got jealous.
He still believes what he believes I bet
@@venturevanessa6320 Probably. Or, he just thinks "Well, there was that other time, she deserved it for that one,then!"
@@orvil9223well said. This is exactly what bitter narcissistic people say when their first reasoning for wanting to get back at someone is invalid. “That other time…”
@@SaeOfficial_Music This exactly!
This is insane. How can someone be THAT insecure and jealous?!
That's a pretty pathetic reason to murder somebody. He won't do well in prison.
Trial about a woman's head nearly OJ'd ... and he smiles & smirks throughout? Okay then.
The juxtaposition of the witness's relationship with her husband and Kay's relationship with Terry is telling. The witness and her hubby are relaxed, loving, and connected. He thinks nothing of her taking longer at the bathroom than normal. It's clear he's trusting and secure. Terry, on the other hand, shows he's the exact opposite: hyper-vigilant, controlling, and jealous. He follows Kay everywhere, whether physically or with his eyes. Such an insecure, small "man".
He doesn't seem upset at all. One would think in this circumstance a person would be distraught.
He seems defiant.
Covert Narcissist. Emphasis on Covert.
So scary. She has no idea what's happening in his head as she's chatting and having a good time. Him sitting there watching her with his arms crossed... To her, just a normal night out. You'd never think someone could react that way to you hanging out with friends😦Chilling!
I was thinking the same thing. She's over there just chatting with her neighbor, and you can see him get more and more agitated until he gets up and interrupts them to give her a drink.
Technically she did know what he was capable of. She testified on his behalf during the first stabbing. I suspect she wasn’t informed of the entire situation and bought into his story. But again, she absolutely knew he stabbed his former girlfriend and knew he went to prison for it.
@@dmaria8684 Yeah, that's true, I didn't think about that. Of course she knew he could be violent. And it's curious that she chose to stay with him after that. It seems as she was in some sort of denial, I don't know... Not victim blaming here btw! Human behaviour just interests me.
@@malinoscarsson9362 curious to know if her friends at that table also knew he did prison time for attempted murder and that stabbing centered around domestic violence. It’s clear these perpetrators (domestic violence) have no logical reason or excuse for their violence. I suspect he was coercively controlling her prior to this by his admitting “queen and domain” comment. I think it’s interesting how these men find supporters until they kill or in his case kill again.
Mailin I could not agree with you more from A Canadian 🇨🇦 John THIS Man sits there Knowing what HE DID Why Does He Not Own UP TO It.
She couldnt even go to the bathroom by herself. he killed her for absolutely nothing all cause of his insecurities . Rip kay baker.
"I wan't to protect my queen and my kingdom" 🤮
it makes me sick and makes me sad to see her rubbing his back and shoulders and hugging him in the bar like that, knowing later he would slash her throat. omg 😪😪
She already knew something was wrong by his demeanor and was trying to appease him.
@@chrislawver6045 yeah..she probably did that quite a bit..😔
Kay was a social butterfly , this guy changed his seat after going to the bathroom so that he could see her approach and I bet he was burning inside when she stopped to talk to ball cap backwards guy and stay there for a long time . What a tool.
Its rough, I'm 48 and have had embarrassing moments at bars. I learned from humility. Some people can't deal with such a thing.
Explain how alcohol is legal over all other drugs
How so?
Ladies pay attention to this story pay attention to the things coming out about this murderer a wolf in sheep's clothing pay attention to the signs
A sheep that stabbed his prior girlfriend..
@@rociwillreadforyou Yeah, sadly she went into this eyes wide open.
Is that guy in the green really that insecure. It was a happy dance. WTF buddy relax. He's acting like they embraced each other. The guy didn't even miss a step walking by.
This lady testifying better watch out, I’m sure he’d have a go at her next if he could.
He can always ask someone
Condolences and blessings to your family Ma'am, may you Rest in Peace.
Its never a narcissist fault when they bet you ....they see you as their property to do with what they want. Mine went to prison 7 months ago for 2 years. Hurting and controlling others is their happy place absolutely 💯 toxic.
“I’m going to protect my queen” walks right past the guy and kills his “queen” later
Can I just say even if she was dancing with another man , that’s no excuse!!!
This guys body language exudes jealousy & unconfident, it’s a shame people lose their lives over people like this. His body language sure says a lot about him.
Last text message from”Kay” was probably typed by “Matthew”. What a horrible human being.
He came out of the bathroom just after she did. He was standing just inside the mens bathroom listening and waiting for her to exit.
What an insecure, little man he is. Imagine the amount of inadequacy someone must have to become so enraged over something so trivial.
"Protect my queen and my kingdom" is secret code for "Control my partner and and protect my ego".
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Yep. Jealousy and possessiveness is often disguised as protection.
So his girlfriend is not allowed to dance if she wants. I could careless if my girlfriend did it. It’s happened many times.
Especially if it was as innocent as that. If they were groping each other , I’d probably not appreciate it. But I’d just leave.
Jeez! Talk about over-possessive, over-jealous and total insecurity! Crazy!
He has that thing, I can see it. He did this. He holds a latent anger that boils beneath the surface and if you do the right thing to set him off, it’s over.
The sad thing is, if it wasn’t this that sent him doolally it would have been something else just as petty. Sad, insecure little man.
Such a waste of a beautiful life.
I can not believe he wasn’t in prison for the previous attack.
Our justice system is so beyond broken.
Guys like him should only date other men , he didn’t confront the guy that “danced” with her
His haircut should’ve been the first red flag.
If 'insecure' was a person.
I see that Ms Baker did NOT want to go back to the table. As soon as she came around the corner and saw Mr Tarry sitting at the table, Ms Baker hesitated, then a patron stuck his foot out and diverted her, for quite some time, while he sat steaming 😤 I'd like to hear from the son sitting at the end of the table.
I felt same way. I honestly would have went to friends house if I was her. Not continue contributing to the problem. This guy was manic and can’t think of his anger. He was making things up in his head that doesn’t exist
@@Aboma2012 Agreed 👍 she had a bad feeling from minute one. Lesson, listen to your instincts 😢
I hate men like this. I'm a dad of 2 young women and they KNOW that behaviour is an instant red flag
Terry is an example of a man with too much ego that is hyper sensitive to any perceived personal slight - many women possess no instincts that would urge them to stay away from such men - with the inevitable result
Quite often they're already involved / entangled when this kind of behaviour starts to present.
i think it has more to do with fear of abandonment than with ego
I think women are raised to think possessiveness means he just reeaaally loves them. I once had a gf who would accuse me of not caring about her because I wasn't triggered by other men taking an interest in her. She even started trying to upset me by flirting with my friends at which point I dumped her. I'll never forget her trying to come back saying she only did it so I "would fight for her". She genuinely thought love requires me to risk injury or prison to make her feel special.
@@jakestroll6518 @Jake Stroll It sounds like you made the right decision to leave that girlfriend, looks like she was attention-seeking to provoke a reaction from you, which always leads to drama and conflict. Not all girls are like that Jake. Hope you find a good lassie soon🍀🏆
I am surprised Kelley's husband did not get a little miffed at this Matthew guy basically calling his wife a liar, repeatedly. I guess he felt no need to defend her honor. Maybe if he had taken some umbrage at the insult to his wife it may have caused the murderer to take stock before proceeding.