Jesse Williams’ Ex Still Wants $40,000 a Month Despite Him No Longer Being on Grey’s Anatomy
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- Опубликовано: 30 мар 2022
- Jesse William’s ex-wife clapped back after the actor requested lower child support payment since he’s no longer on Grey’s Anatomy.
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“If he don’t have it, where you gone get it from?” That’s it Loni!
@@fakeaccount704 Ummm...she is the one who enabled him to pursue acting. When they got together, he was working as a teacher, while she was working in real estate. Moreover, he gets residuals from the show and also owns a production company. He can easily make more money.
@@chocolateangel8743 We are talking about child support. I doubt she needs to receive $40,000 a month from him to care for their kids.
@@gaila.9852 When white women get with black male rappers and athletes, they are constantly requesting and getting this kind of money and more. When the BM complains, they tell him to get a job and make more money in order to fulfill financial obligations. Jesse can do the same.
@@gaila.9852 I know people hurt through divorce but 40k a month I’m sorry she should have been saving
I disagree. He still has the potential to earn it, and he left his job by choice. He needs to go out there and make money. He knew what the payments were when he quit. He wants his kids to move to another neighborhood and change schools, and then in 4 months he will sign a contract for 10 million dollars for a new movie. Nope. Not falling for it.
$40K is a lot!! And child support is not taxed so that’s a gross of $40K a month/ almost half a million of year. No shade to Jesse, but he’s not an A-List actor and I’m certain he’s not making that kind of money these days to support her lifestyle. She can work. My Mom was a stay at home. When she got a divorce, she got a job. The end. She told me she would never depend on a man again.
Right but it could be some anger there. He was struggling she held him down here supporting him. When he got a name for himself. He did her dirty . So its not all about the money.
@@BayouKitchenGuyI’m sure she’s upset and hurt but if she was a school teacher prior then he paid her back in lost wages already. That’s for certain. Also, if her passion was teaching, there is absolutely nothing stopping her from going back into that profession. There’s a teacher shortage so she’ll get hired immediately.
They have joint custody so $40K monthly seems like aLOT.
@@RP.123 Jesse was the teacher. She worked in real estate and made more than him. She is the reason he was able to pursue his acting career. Teachers don't make crap -- unless they work in administration or at the university level and work in a profitable industry.
@@chocolateangel8743 okay. I was just going off what Loni said. If she was a realtor, she can get back out there and sell some properties. Its a buyer’s market anyways
What world are y’all living in? White women are out there asking for 250k a month from men who make less than Jesse. Lol unbelievable
When Adrienne said they live a very simple life 😭😭
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 right!!
Adrienne saying she doesn't know that money she does have her own money too from TCG, her businesses now and promotions from online insta ads not sure what she means and her husband looks like he's loaded!
@@cocodiva893 Adrienne is latina so she trying to keep her worth on the low. LOL
That stare she gave when she said they live a simple life was priceless 😂
@@Littlething41 yeah but so do a lot of other famous well off people keep it on the low, but I love that she's still so humble and never forget where she came from
I think Adrienne has always been a fan girl of Jessie Williams and her true colors are showing lmao
I love Loni showing her compassionate side. I feel like she’s always been compassionate but it’s really shining through this season.
She and the other hostesses are only like this when it's the woman in question. If the man is under assumption of being shady, spiteful etc, they go allll in. Notice how Loni never said she was spiteful when Adrienne said it.
@@hannahwalmer1124 And that was hateful and judgemental of Adrienne to say that
@@propogandalf Again, you're most likely only saying that because it's a woman being talked about. Had this been a man asking for his ex-wife to fork over $40,000 every month, it'd be a whole other discussion and reaction.
@@hannahwalmer1124 No, I'm saying that because she's the reason he has a career and she made personal sacrifices for years for him. If it were a man in that situation I'd support that too.
@@propogandalf Ok, I hear that. You're being fair, which is what most people are not. Thing is, is that in every other situation where it's reversed, we always say that the man is never obligated for the woman to stay/be kind etc just because he did stuff for her, so, to be fair to Jesse, that shouldn't matter if she did a lot for him within the relationship or not. The situation at hand is what it is now. He's not earning as much, so he should be able to pay less to match his new income.
$40,000 a month????? She should’ve been SAVING!!!
😂
She had money. She was the one who had money and left her career or put her career on hold to help further HIS CAREER and now he is leaving… mmmm
@@Mila_Kim_VIP he left a long time ago
@@Mila_Kim_VIP she deserves every penny. Sis made real life scarifies for their family and when he made it he left her🙃….she’s better than me that’s all I say
@@Mandy-dw9wm he did not leave her when he made it. He started in greys anatomy in 2009. They didn’t even get married until 2012. And he asked for a divorce in 2017 because he wasn’t Happy
Sometimes money doesn’t even amount to the level of “hurt.”
She is angry but I pray sis can HAPPILY move on in LOVE. Jesse was wrong for the way he did her, but she MUST move on for the children. She doesn't need 40,000 but she feels thats how much her pain and suffering is worth........ It aint right, but I get it
Just for some context (no excuse). That woman was the main breadwinner when Jesse was trying to become successful in his career. She is a real estate agent I believe. She is not a golddigger.People mad fun of her looks during their marriage.
I think she is extremely hurt , I can understand but I wish for her that she had loving people to advice her. It is never good for the kids .
"Forgiveness is not for the other person, it's for you!"
I feel badly for the wife because it appears she was very supportive of him before he got famous and rich. She made a lot of personal sacrifices for him because ultimately she probably thought it was what was best for their family.
Unfortunately, he decided that he no longer wanted to be with her and she feels betrayed. She has probably looked at the state of her career, which was put on hold and is angry that she’s now left behind to start over from scratch while his path is paved with a lot of high paying opportunities.
That being said, I don’t think it’s healthy or reasonable to hold onto that forever. Alimony should not last for years, especially when the child support is significant enough to pay for childcare when you return to the workforce.
It is a bit suspicious that he’d give up such a high paying job that helps support his children, for something that pays so little. He would not be the first parent to willfully lower their income to reduce their financial obligation/child support.
Exactly, he was living off her
his did that to force her to work
He was rich and famous before he married her. He started in greys in 2009 he didn’t marry her until 2012z he took care of her the entire time she did not work
@@courtneycarroll6361 no he wasnt. They met in high school… facts. He was a nobody, she took care of his ass
@@courtneycarroll6361 Yeah but they were together long before he became an established actor though. They were dating for a while and born Gage and then they got married in 2012. Either way he used her when he had nothing and then decided he no longer needed her when he got famous.
Don't try to paint her as this sexist stereotype of a "woman scorned." Read about their backstory. He wouldn't have had this career without her, and he did her dirty.
Right and nobody told him to quit that job. That's his problem he knew he was responsible for those payments before he quit.
Exactly!
But does he owe her his life??! at the end of the day she should forgive and move on. Does she want him to stay w/ her despite not being in love w/ her anymore? Wouldn’t she rather be w/ someone that loves her?
Totally agree
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All of the ladies are right. Especially Loni. That's what my mom did. She was a boss and she worked and went to school so it is possible.
They are saying this because as high-income earners they don't want large payments to ever be put on them. As she supported him, he then gains acting success, and then cheated/left her. It may be easy for her to fight him in court until the children are legal adults. Many people fight in court for years for many things while living perfectly happily otherwise. Bitterness may have nothing to do with it.
Thank you for this!
What high earners? The only one who got a multi-million dollar contract was Tamera with $1.2 million with Jeannie receiving the least with $280,000 for the first season of The Real according Showbiz CheatSheet. For season 5 & 6 Tamera made $3.1 million per season, Loni 1 million per season while Adrienne as well as Jeannie made $500K each per season.
Jesse William was making $260,000 per EPISODE not per season that's completely different type of money.
Edit: Spelling.
@@solid7468 just because that's what you read online doesn't make it tru. In addition they all have additional income outside of the show
Yeah I was so surprised with their reaction!
This! Them saying for women to get back on their own feet and take care of their children shows that they are seeing things through their lens. I know plenty of single mothers having to work two jobs to take care of their children because the father is not willing to contribute. Bitterness isn’t always in the equation.
What grown parent leaves job without another job...🧐🤔 Unless they want lower childsupport
He has multiple jobs lined up so 🤷🏼♀️
“Forgiveness is not about the other person” forgiveness is for you” amen to that Loni!
Very wise. I’ll keep a note of that
Loni said it all. She is hurt from the divorce and this has made her bitter and now she’s mostly doing this to stick it to Jesse. But she does have to move on now. I’m not saying don’t ask for child support anymore but if he ain’t got 40k, HE AINT GOT 40k🤷🏽♂️
I loved what Loni and garcelle said - she's entitled to feel hurt, but being bitter and petty is harming her way more than it is him. I pray she let's go and builds the life she wants for her and they can both cooperate to raise their children
Or she appears bitter because she's been abused. A very common mistake by onlookers. Don't be so quick to judge people.
@@lizliz4186 Absolutely what you said can co-exist with what Loni said. But like Loni said I hope she receives the help she needs to heal and recover from what he's put her through because she too deserves to live a peaceful life
@@lizliz4186 Has she been abused or is that allegedly? If there is no proof then don’t be so quick to assume. Wether she was abused or not I still agree with Loni that some things in life that happened to you, yes they were wrong, but you gotta stop living in that hurt because ultimately it’s no good for you. Like what was said, Jesse ain’t gonna change and that’s the reason for the divorce. Let bygones be bygones and rebuild your life and love your life and find the real lover that will do you better. It’s all apart of the healing process but by tryna do this to Jesse, when he probably ain’t got the money, is probably only gonna make her more upset. She just gotta realize what’s best for her and her children of course. Again not saying she shouldn’t claim child support from him ever again but maybe a reasonable amount he can afford
I’m sorry, ain’t nobody told Jesse to quit his job😒
Loni is one fierce empath. I hope that lady is taking care of her needs too.
She called Mx. Drake-Lee bitter. How is that empathy?
@@Ennui83 well to be fair she said she’s an extremely hurt woman too. Empaths understand hurt people want to hurt back. The reason for the bitterness. And Loni understood the one most important thing - the children hurt the most in all of this.
They swear they know this woman personally 😂 we have no idea how their lives are IRL. The COURTS are the ones who decide child support & alimony payments not the spouse.
She was the one taking care of the family before he got famous. She was the bread winner and allowed him to follow his dreams. Now that he has become successful and is now the breadwinner he is expected to do the same that she did for him.
Dude was a high school teacher, he had money in his pocket, and she was a realtor
@@jaelcaribe I don’t know if you know this but the teachers are outside protesting about their pay. Lol
@@jaelcaribe Teachers don't make enough to chase your dreams as an actor. C'mon now.
@@bethromelus6172 Why not?? They had no children at the time. He was a teacher. They have plenty in f down time. She made the most money but as a single man with no children it would be disingenuous to say he didn’t know how to support himself.
@@rainriver1281 I responded to the breadwinner part of the statement. He may have had less in his pocket than her, but his pockets were not empty
Where is the dislike button
These ladies are on point, she needs to move on and take care of her kid. 40k was a lot of money a month to be getting for your kid, no child needs that much money a month. Jesse has the right to want to move on with his career and ask for the courts to lower payment. Look at Garcelle and how maturely she handled things when it came to her kids, it seems her and her ex do a great job co parenting their twins so there is no excuse for what Jesse's ex is doing right now.
When they first got together, Jesse was an English teacher. She worked in real estate and made more money. She supported him, while he was trying to launch his acting career. After his career began to take off, she gave up her career to take care of the the kids. Jesse is an actor and producer with his own production company. $40,000/month isn't a lot of money -- especially considering he earns residuals from the show.
@@chocolateangel8743 then she can go back to work and do real estate again. Is having a child suppose to be a full time meal ticket for life.
@@massiveman44 White women use black male rappers and athletes as "meal tickets" all the time. It's made Kim Kardashian a billionaire and her sisters millionaires. People talk about how the woman needs to be able to keep a particular lifestyle. Yet, when Jesse's ex-wife does the same thing, people are acting like it's a problem.
@@chocolateangel8743 😤😤😤😤yup I agree and look 👀 Kanye is now asking Kim for child support and nobody is saying anything.
@@chocolateangel8743 Get a job, NEXT!
Loni is being really bias as always, girl just because you would be bitter doesn’t mean she’s bitter. No One knows the real story.
No his wife always been like this since they spilt
The problem is that spousal support is seen as payback for wrongdoing or compensation rather than balancing scales. Maybe the legal system should a specific way to address wrongs done in a marriage other than just divorce. It doesnt seem fair. Its messy but at least we know what we are talking about
None of this was about spousal support. The $40k a month is solely for child support. Originally Jesse was paying $100k a month for two kids which is ridiculous! These payments have nothing to do with the wife being scorned.
@@CC-si3cr Thanks for sharing this information. I said this because of the prevailing comments to say the amount was awarded because Jesse really treated her badly and abandoned her when he got big. And ive seen it a bunch of times. Child/spousal seems to be a way to get back at the man, and not just standard of living. Just trying to think up a solution that ends up beneficial to all parties.
@@toluadeyemi9049 you make an excellent point. There should be a more logical way to quantify this. My thoughts: for spousal support is hourly rate for housework* no. of kids* 24 hrs* 365* no. of years of childcare. This at least "levels" the financial field. The spouse may have to go out and learn some new skills, but at least they have a solid starting point.
40k a month. I wish 😭😭
Jeannie talking about herself with the alimony cause she had to pay Freddie.
Me listening to this video and hearing them talk, all I am waiting for them to acknowledge that they don’t know her finances. A judge awarded that amount. Clearly she has the documentation to prove 40k is needed to care for her children. She became a housewife after becoming a mom. No one knows the plans they made when they were together. It’s possible she just wants to live life according to the plans they made.
The devil's a lie. No one needs $480,000 a year to raise children not even in the state of California. There's a difference between needing something and wanting something
That's not how child support works. Child support is based off of the income the father makes. It doesn't matter if she was a millionaire.
@@christianjames92 depends on the state. In Ohio both incomes are considered.
She was never a teacher. She was a broker and she took time off after she had her kids. It was after their 2nd child born, I believe. It was around the time they developed an app together. She didn't quit her job to help his career - that seems to be a decision made for their family.
Edited to add that HE was the teacher before quitting to pursue acting.
People need to stop telling women how much support is too much. A judge decided on that amount based on their financial records and that’s what he should pay. Just because you can live off of $100/month doesn’t mean you should have too especially if the father is able to provide more.
He treated her horribly and I don’t like him anymore but I get why he wants it lowered. It’s supposed to be based on income. Fair is fair.
Unless they purposely lower income to not pay… you cant not work so you dont have to pay child support.
@@monismusings yeah but he’s not purposefully lowering his income. He was on a huge show and now he’s not. It makes sense that it would lower.
@@thethrowawaythatstayed7055 but he quit… that seems purposeful to me…
Purposely QUITTING a huge still available paycheck when you have financial obligations and agreements is PURPOSEFUL JOB ABANDONMENT. PERIOD.
What did he do to her?
All I will say is I'm thankful for Lonnie for at least standing up for the perspective of the woman that was scorned, understanding it comes from a place of being humanly hurt and not being a villain without a cause trying to just spite that man. Then too Lonnie brought it full circle and talked to women in that situation and helped them understand okay now at some point though it is time to go out there and get it how you live and not just live on the coat tail of the man who did you wrong. Personally I believe alimony should definitely have a time limit in certain situations. Now on the other hand... if I am in a position I don't have a skill to build a career because all my time and effort went into supporting you and yours and if I have grown old with you and my cute face and slim waist ain't what it use to be👀....make sure the new girl understand the x wife is in the budget fa life💥
They’ve been going through this for YEARS. At this point, seek therapy and move forward.
@@Strawberryfearsforever right. It seems for this situation with Jesse and his wife she's just keeping the wound open at this point but then again we don't know her ins and outs. Her real life situation as to why she has been going about this for so long. At this point the public just see a hurt woman on a vengeance whether it's deeper than that or not.
When young boys are molested in grow up to molest other young boys it doesn't make it right. Just because you're hurt don't give you the right to be a s*** person
@@maxcenevil 👀 if went somewhere it wasn't suppose to go was a person... 👍🏽 Agreed, nobody said it was okay. It's just to acknowledge they weren't complete monsters/villains as the public will see them. Those women/boys all came from a very hurt place alot of times is all that was being pointed out.
Loni is not standing up for anyone. She got the basic facts wrong and called this woman bitter. This discussion was warped and sick.
Didn’t she work while he was broke and allowed him to follow his dreams and then when he got on he left her?
@@fakeaccount704 she allowed him to leave his job to pursue his career. She didn’t leave her job for a man.
He didn’t leave his job. He was working as a teacher when he was offered the job on greys anatomy. He quit to work for greys. He also didn’t leave her once he got on greys. He started in greys in 2009 and he married her in 2012. He didn’t file for divorce until 2017. And he took care of her the entire time. They didn’t have kids until 2013 but yet she quit working in 2009
I thought she was a real estate agent?! She used to let him stay in some of the houses she was managing!
You have to think, just bc the parents are divorced now…. the kids need to live a middle class/working class life???? Did they forget the cost of healthcare and food, I’m California alone????? Studies show that it takes $60,000 a year to raise one healthy (mentally and physically), well rounded child. He has two kids, who btw we don’t even know may have special needs….40,000 is a reduction from 100,000… Jesse better take a few notes from Mr. Hart. Hell, Chris Brown even.
They’ll still be rich even if it’s reduced and let’s not pretend it’s about the kids
I love how the ladies take on alimony has change through the years. Their personnal experiences made them mature.
love the show, the outfits are fire, and the topics so intentional and mind opening. keep doing what you doing.
If he feels that she should get up, get a job, and contribute, he should have done the same thing when he was on her hands not contributing financially. I'm tired of men using black women and then discsrding them when they come up. Who told you to leave your job when you knew you had financial responsibilities? No sir. Get a new agent and get your bag up.
EXACTLY! They don’t say ANYTHING when a white woman pulls this stunt with a black man. Run her her money!
🔥🔥🔥🔥Exactly my sentiments
This man was paying 40k in child support, no child needs that much money a month. Surely by now she has saved enough money for her child and can take a reduction in child support while getting a job herself. How many more years will she be bitter? Show him you can support your child and yourself.
That’s usually how the court sees it. It would be different if he were fired and unable to find anything else. But the judge says you knew what the order was when you quit. He’s being just as shady as the dude working a regular job. Sad.
@@Dana-bl7gl exactly seems he quite on purpose to not pay what was required of him. Typical....the court will say he has the potential to earn it & let's get out there young man & get to earning. #BLESSINGS
40k per month for two kids was less than 1/10 of the 500K per month he was making.... Child support is figured out by percentages, the more you make the more you pay, regardless of what it actually cost to raise a child. So him making less is grounds to lower it but should he start to earn more, its gonna go right back up.
He doesn’t have it anymore BY CHOICE. He didn’t get fired from Greys Anatomy. He quit to avoid paying that large amount. Bruh ain’t fooling NOBODY!!!!
That's like cutting off your nose to spite your face though if this is true.
@@fakeaccount704 They said he left bc he FELT like it would be ending not that it actually was. Plus, I just went and read an article about the show and Shonda Rhimes (the creator) said time and time again that the show will end whenever Ellen Pompeo wants it to. Ellen Pompeo said that she doesn't know when she wants the show to end so, Jesse's decision to leave this show wasn't based on fact.
Now, with all that said, no matter if his decision to leave was a good one or not the bottom line is that he's not on the show anymore and he's not making the kind of money that he used to make. So the ex-wife needs to go back to work so her children's stability doesn't change bc their Dad doesn't make the money that he used to.
Like who willingly goes from 5 million/ year to 80k, very fishy to me.
@@avaisabella5585 it was suppose to end with season 18 but abc offered Ellen more money for another season
@@courtneycarroll6361 Yeah and who's to say that Ellen wasn't just saying that she wanted to end the show bc her contract was up and she wanted more money out of ABC. That's why I said his decision wasn't based on the facts bc it wasn't official that it was ending it was just speculation and Jesse and/or his agent should have thought about the idea that Ellen could be saying this just to get more money.
She paid for him before he was famous. She was the one going to work while he was a struggling actor. He left her when he got famous.
40 grand a month is crazy, especially for a child. That’s how much the average person makes a year.
My thought exactly!!
He makes 5 million a year or 400k a month. Not that crazy tbh
@@ilovememyselfnidw he isn’t making that now though. When you start making less then you should pay less.
@@ilovememyselfnidw My thoughts exactly!!!!
Jeanie Just mad she has to pay alimony 🤣
THE REAL NEEDS TO BE A PODCAST! Pleaseeeeeee ! Keep this team alive
is that their agreement before the courts then all parties should honour it
$40,000 a month is ridiculous. I agree with Jesse she need to go to work and hold up her financial responsibility. She shouldn’t get extra because she’s hurt. I agree with Loni!
I don’t even get £1 a month I would have even be happy with &
£500 a month
Child support is based on percentage. Usually 10% which means he makes around 400k a month or almost 5 million/year. That’s a lot of money. Giving 280k/year to the wife and kids you abandoned so they could still live nicely is the least he could do.
@@ilovememyselfnidw They wasn’t married that long and I doubt he abandoned the kids he didn’t want her anymore things happen. So she’s not obligated to support her own kids? He no longer has that job or what if something happens to where he can act look at Bruce Willis then what? Again you don’t get extra because your hurt and bitter.
@@bosslady83 but its not her extra, its child support, not alimony
@UCZAUJX3J8zJbIcFBcra2H3Q key phrase helped build… because she did help build him.
Hopefully, she's socked 60% of that monthly into a fund or set it aside and let it grow over time and definitely loved beneath her means. I believe, he left job on purpose. Only difference between him and the hourly workers out there in divorce is child support $$. Men do crazy things to avoid child support 🙄
Oh look👀! A logical person! A unicorn 🦄😂 I think you and I are the only ones who said something similar. He absolutely left that job to have that amount reduced because otherwise...why?? It doesn't make any sense unless he's trying to avoid something.
That's so wrong she put her career on back burner to support him and this is how he did her. I don't blame her for her being angry and like someone else said in the comments. She clearly has enough documents to prove 40k is important in her finances.
"40k is important in her finances" wow really who would've ever though that?
Correction. Jesse was a teacher and Aryn was the breadwinner in real estate. Aryn made the decision to (sugar mama) financial take care of Jesse for yrs and then had a family.
Oh hush! Plenty of black women fall into the category of suga mama when it comes to black men. Black men are typically always broke so yes, the women are always the breadwinners until he comes up and has the audacity to leave
She didn’t take care of him for years. He was making money just not as much as she was and he started on greys in 2009 long before they got married and had kids. She stopped working in 2009. She didn’t have kids until 2013. And they got married in 2012. She is just bitter
@@courtneycarroll6361 they were together for years… years
@@monismusings I know that I literally just said they were together. I said she wasn’t taking care of him because he worked just like she did he only didn’t make as much as her because he was a teacher.
Jesse shouldn't have left the show when you known you have payments to.make. he did that so he could reduce the amount shame on him. I do believe that she too needs to contribute to the household if they are no longer together and you no longer are a stay at home.mom.
You ladies are correct. As women some of us have to do better and be better people in the midst of a divorce. Stop with the hanging a man up by the ankles and shaking him until the last nickel falls out his pockets.
Get a job, downsize your home if you have to. No more designer clothes, bags and dining out. To be honest, there is a wonderful sense of pride that comes from being independent.😊
Y’all are so annoying. That woman held him down for years. Look into their story before making ignorant blanket statements.
@@jazzyj904 That was her choice. So she is suppose to be living a 500k lifestyle forever? it is never ok to move on ? He's going pay child support. Just not a yearly salary a month for most Americans.
@@jazzyj904 thank you
@@jazzyj904 Right! it ain't right, but I get it! When you hold someone down...it hits different, She feels used, as she should! he got on and got him a typical Hollywood chick smh but she gotta move on, he doesn't owe her his life, and she owes it to herself to not let a man dry her up! She's toooooo Smart!
@@massiveman44 I don't think it should last for life, but $500,000/yr. for the next 15 (with spousal and child support included) isn't unreasonable. That's only $7.5 million. Given his age, status, and the fact he owns a production company, that should be pretty easy to do.
Women like her spend maybe 10% of that monthly paycheck on the kids, and pocket the rest themselves. Kids do not cost 40k a month- nobody would have them if they did.
That's for pain and suffering.... he'll find it 🤣😂🤣😂😩
My aunt did this and she was the mistress for somewhat wealthy man who bought her a house and paid child support while my cousins were starving calling their uncle (my dad) to bring them some food because my aunt was away %80 of the time with her partying/rich life style.
WoW, your aunt is tacky, tired and trifling.
She needs her restitution from all the years she financially supported him so that he could try to be an actor. Why would he quit a show making at least what $80,000 per month to do a play? How is that play furthering his career? he's hiding money and he wants to stop paying her
She did not financially support him. She was a realtor and he was a teacher. He made money as well as her just not as much. In 2009 he started acting on greys anatomy and she quit her job. They got married in 2012 and he asked for a divorce in 2017. He owes her nothing
Wow these ladies miss the mark on this one! They really beat this lady down who husband left her for a younger woman. If he decides to Leave then that’s on him not her nor the kids. Pay up and find a better job Sir…
Found a better woman
A lot of men quit their jobs so they don't have to pay a lot in support. I understand why she would want to make sure he's not doing this on purpose. I divorced someone who ended up hiding money so I understand.
I love A but I feel like alot of times she says she knows someone or has a friend relating to the topic so her view on it is taken more seriously or so its accepted I guess in a way. Idk it just comes off like that to me.
She was a real estate agent and Jesse was a teacher.
Girl Greys is not on its finial season Ellen just signed another one year deal to play Meredith Grey for another year that could means season 19 & 20
Aren’t they essentially saying “Get to Work” lol
Sometimes you don't feel better until they feel worse...bless them
Those alimony disputes are a mind bender to me. And the worst part lie Garcelle said is that if your former spouse finds out you are making more money after their divorce, you can go and ask for more. It is like you never actually got rid of the person you divorced.
Yeah, its kinda like the vows they take till death are real and mean something. 🤣😂🤣😂
She is very hurt. Very. She stood by him all those years, then he get famous and leaves her.
Yesssss loni be preaching tbh she said don't sit up hear being all bitter and stuff go out & live your own life like she said forgivness is for you & your own sanity and mental health not for anybody else I like that I''m like yasssss
Love the talking points.
No matter how many years she taught to take care of him it'll never equate to the lifestyle she was provided. That's excessive and it's definitely coming from a hurt place. Plus they Share custody...she doesn't have them full time.
I'm not feeling them painting her as bitter. She's the reason why he's even successful. They have an agreement, that agreement doesn't change just because your season ended. $40K is a lot of money to people who are NOT in Hollywood. Private school tuition, designer clothes, curricular activities, PREMIUM health insurance, etc costs and it's not cheap. Until those children become of age, he needs to pay point blank period and if I were her I wouldn't let him off the hook either 🤷🏾♀️
totally agree. It's hard to listen to Loni because she speaks on things as if she's an authority.
I'd just sue for custody and raise them myself before I pay 40K (100K at one time) per month, that's just dumb
You sound completely ridiculous and out of touch, you have to be just as bitter to agree with this nonsense. He should file for joint custody to eliminate this drama. Live your life for your children. People be trying to do too much all over the world after becoming parents. Your focus is and should always be your children.
She is highly educated. She needs to get a job, I am sure she has saved over a million dollars by now. She is just bitter, she has gotten more money than most women by this point.
They’re not painting her as bitter, that’s how she’s behaving.
I would like to hear from his wife. I'm wondering if there are expenses that I don't understand.
1600 a week? What play is this? I took theatre in high school😭
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The Real 2015 RUclips Video Title: “we’re divorced, now support me”
Jeannie specifically was singing a very different tune. She changed her mind real quick when equality came into play and she ended up having to pay Freddie.
2015 was 7 years ago. People change. People learn. People experience things and grow. That's how the world is supposed to work. Bringing up what she said 7 years ago is irrelevant. She matured
@@takishaedwards273 She 'matured' because it happened to her.
@@takishaedwards273 exactly
@@takishaedwards273 Exactly a lot can happen in 7 years, Jeannie herself has said she is not the same person she was back then. Its called growing up
Imagine assessing a person’s emotions without assessing their bills. Who says her motives are emotionally charged? So her husband being wealthy makes the needs of the home they’ve built a nuisance?
Many people are left with debts and other things that can’t be ignored. Not sure why the wife requested the amount, but I sure wouldn’t dismiss her and merit emotionally instability as her motive. It’s too dismissive in my book.
Here we have 4 career driven women who more than likely has never taken a backseat to their partner’s lifestyle to be a dependent. While I too am business minded, I can also remove my persona to see a different side of the situation.
The dismissive tone is not cool ladies. Everyone has a story and not all details make it to the Tabloids folks are reporting from. IJS
I agree, I feel like they're taking his side cause he's a celeb like them, probably don't wanna mess with him being a possible future guest. Whereas his wife is not famous and they gain nothing by taking her side. I think what he did to her was really low. If he wasn't interested in her romantically anymore for whatever reason, if he ever had any love for her, he should've done it respectfully, separated, divorced, whatever the case. But the way she cheated on her and it was public, then left her and she had just had a baby and all that. No way, that's wrong. As long as he can, he needs to take his responsibility. I don't really care if she works or not. It's sad that these ladies would say those things about her, all being women. Jeannie needs to be careful how she talks about another woman that's been wronged like that, cause you never know, it could happen to you Hunaiii! Adrienne too. I wouldn't be so quick to judge like that.
@@eversgirls574 I think they've all been in the wrong side of alimony/ child support so they're a bit biased.
But $40k alimony cmon she just wants to keep that lifestyle with less to no effort on her end. Whatever happen to strong, independent women?! Ask for alimony but also work. A lot of women nowadays are entitled and just lazy.
They divorced and he gave her 3 houses, millions in spousal support, and $40k a month in child support. In what way do you think she's in need of more money or possibly could be in debt? This woman is set for lifetimes. She's doing this because she's hurt and not over her ex husband and how the divorce went down. This is her getting back at him. She needs therapy. Now she's talking about taking full custody of his children. Now defend that.
He didn’t quit Grey’s to further his career, he quit to try to get out of paying child support to her. Men do that every day so they don’t have to be responsible for their debts. They’ve been divorced long enough, so she is probably not entitled to alimony. The woman is not stupid, she has sense enough to know he has money stashed away that is not part of his savings (probably in an offshore account). Otherwise, he wouldn’t be able to wine and dine women with his money. Why does everyone feel like this is about bitterness, it isn’t. She sacrificed for him to make it, so he should do the same!
I am seeing alot of actors/actresses that were on big shows, making good money yet now are on LMN, Hallmark & even commercials
Who can't raise their kids on $10,000 a month???? Why you need $40,000??? It trips me out you come from nothing and now all of a sudden you can't live on anything LESS THAN $100,000 a month!!! Man my household makes less than $50,000 a year and we STILL eat shrimp from time to time LOL 😂😂😂
Do the kids go to a private all white school?
This is a lesson to women who want to be in a monogamous financially stable marriage: do not ever leave your job for no man, I don't care what he promised you. Find any mean to work AND take care of the kids. The minute you willfully sacrifice your job for his acting career/ his dream/ his whatever they will leave thus leaving you stuck with all the pain of the sacrifices you've made.
Don't do it. If the choices are A or B; create a C otherwise they will play you for a fool like a fiddle.
Omg I love all their outfits✨
These prices are ridiculous period !
There’s no reason she should be asking for $40,000 a month and be living a “simple life”. My mom did this when I was a kid and took all the money for herself, some (not all) moms in these situations are selfish and just want the money for themselves and it makes the relationship with their dad so complicated.
That's horrible. I'm sorry. My mom literally gave us our child support checks once we were in middle school. We used what little we got for school in whatever we needed...it was an addition because my mom paid first everything and by everything I mean she paid for both myself and my sister's braces at the same time, my brain surgery and aftercare and hospital stays not to mention the yearly cat scans I had to get and my insurance, our medical.and dental and my dad really didn't do anything. He did less than the minimum most times. So I am sad when parents abuse the system and don't use it to take care of home and children😬
Exactly! If you are living the simple life then why do you still want an outrageous amount of money from your ex for child support? Its like Loni said where will he get that money from?
Honestly life is expensive. If you have children and you're in a certain tax bracket, $40000 is still a lot of money but you can see how it gets spent. Everything is more expensive. Maintenance for a luxury car is obscene. Household help is crazy expensive, and you literally cannot do it alone when you live in a big house. Maintenance, utilities and taxes for a large house will cost 10s of thousands of dollars a year or more. Alot of these contractors will charge you three times as much if you live in an expensive neighborhood. You have to get them to tell you a price before they see your house or its over. I'm not trying to justify anything but until youve lived it, its hard to understand hiw much a certain lifestyle costs. She would probably have to turn her and her kids lives upside down to accept a reduction in child support, with a different house and different school. And we all know he will still be earning well after his broadway show. So why should she uproot her family like that? I haven't even started talking about 10000 -30000 per year school tuition and all the additional fees those private schools add on, security (if needed), clothing and gadgets so you kids can keep up with the Joneses (so your ex won't breathe down your neck about where is the money going if his kids are wearing $40 shoes) etc etc etc. I personally wouldn't allow myself to get trapped such an expensive lifestyle, but we don't know her situation. The judge gave her that money for a reason.
@@destinya5627 she live a simple life so even paying bills and paying for everyday supplies still dont equal to 40k a month. Its ridiculous
Yes it is..she took care of him,funded his career,left her career,not to mention its hard getting back in after you been out for years.then he makes it because of HER,and he cheats, allows people to call her ugly etc,then leaves her for whores in Hollywood etc..shut your raggedy mouth, she deserves EVERY DIME FROM the trashy weak dude.he was only with her for money,and took that wo and life
I do not understand how these ladies in these marriages as stay at home moms and not set themselves up when things are good. Get a flip, do something. Don’t let any man be able to act a fool and affect your lifestyle.
Say what u want but you see Ayesha Curry, whoa babyy! Wise wise woman, if ever, he decides to act a fool, she set herself up.
And STOP fixing a man. Encourage yes, but don’t drop your life and put him through school and all that. A lott of these relationships end up in the men leaving the day1-wife or act a fool.
damn thats a whole lot of money!!!! damn!
I still don't understand the shared custody thing in terms of support. If one has 50/50 custody where is there even a child support order. I am still mind blown that Kelly Clarkson has to pay 45,000 a month when he only has the kid 2 days out of the month. If you have like 94% custody, why are you paying anyone child support? 45,000 for 6%...Kelly Clarkson would have to making money hand over first.
What the hell is Loni wearing? Come on, dress her properly!
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You don't want to be a bitter Betty. It's not a good example for your kids even though you have a right to your feelings if you were wronged. It's time for her to move on now though
She was a successful real estate broker. And he was a teacher before Grey's
Get your coins girl! 😏 😂
Teacher or Realtor? I thought she was a pretty successful realtor, which helped support his career, and was his "manager" while he was trying to get into the business. She also quit her job to move with him when he got Grey's Anatomy. She deserves EVERY penny!!
I agree!
Yes!!!
She absolutely does deserve every penny. He also quit his lucrative job so he wouldn’t have to pay her…that’s very common.
Well he don't have it. so now what?
@@christinarach340 -If the woman has a good lawyer, he absolutely does have to…I’m speaking from personal experience. Women have a lot of power in a divorce.
they have split custody but she gets 40k per month in child support? Wow , she has some really good lawyers!
Black chyna needs her lawyer 😂😂
Yep lol
Well said
Love the colors of the cloths today 👌💓
I wonder if the bias here is related to the fact that Jeanie and Adrienne are both married to men with so called ‘bitter baby mothers’ and that’s why they’re taking this harsh position. It’s so disheartening
Not sure about Jeanie, but I really don't think Adrienne's husband has a bitter baby mama.
Or they just have common sense…
@@testingcontacts2290 Adrienne’s husband has had his fair share of baby mama drama. He has two children with his former mistress. She took him to court at one point for failure to pay child support.
@@lynne709 Ok but is she better?
Fighting for what you think you deserve is not bitter? I don't here her name in any mess.
@@testingcontacts2290 I’m not saying the woman is bitter but let’s be honest here. It can’t be easy for Adrienne to deal with a situation like that so she may be sensitive about this subject.
Loving Garcelle's topknot bun!
This ex is one unreasonable and twisted person. Shame & disgusting to gauge like this, just indecent.
Jennie have a lot to say since her husband is in the same situation with his child's mother who live in Atlanta
I wish the ladies would've shown more compassion and understanding towards Aryn as opposed to give her unsollicited advice. They obviously do not understand where she comes from. Yes, $40k/mth is a lot of money, more than most people make a year. But there's a context and history behing all of this. It's the principle of it. She was his come up wife, she was the sole breadwinner of the family whilst taking care of their beautiful children, paying for his acting classes and all his expenses. But he threw her like trash after making it. Letting her fend for herself as she was treated like dirt in the media, including by the black community. Who is he/who are we to tell her to take a job to take care of her kids, when she was the one who actually did this in the first place? It seems like she's always done what's right for her kids and family with little reward in return. Why didn't he take a job as a struggling actor to feed his kids? Some of the most famous people waited table or had low-paying jobs supporting themselves to make their dreams come true. But he didn't have to. And he clearly didn't want to. Because he knew his hard-working black lady would do what's right. If anything, he's the spiteful one - determined to teach her a lesson, determined to show her he's not gonna give her any cent, even getting a lower-paying job to prove a point. She might appear unreasonable, but he clearly is selfish and ungrateful.
yeah, I used to work for a child support processing center and A LOT of men work under the table or take lower paying jobs to spite the mother of their children. Everything you said was sooooo on point. These women discussed this topic with no empathy for her position.
Thank you!
She is not being spiteful, in my opinion. She is fighting for the kids right now. The children were born when there was money for a specific lifestyle. She is fighting to make sure that lifestyle is maintained within reason. Just because he cheated on her and left her does not mean the children should be deprived of where they live, go to school, etc if the funds are there to support them.
Everyone looks at child support like the custodial parent is trying to get over! Child care and babysitters would be a huge chunk of money to dole out so she could work.
The kid’s lives have been impacted by personal choices made by the adults caring for them, not unforeseen circumstances outside of their parents control.
Bottom line is he as the husband chose to betray and leave his wife. If he does not want to dole out money to her then he should spend money to fight for sole custody of his children and they can live a simple life below his means as a celebrity.
@@siantelove wow so you saw firsthand the length some men are willing to go...just to bail out on their responsibilities and duties...unbelievable. I mean I could tell it was Jesse's case as well and you're kind of confirming it. I don't get how the ladies can be so tonedeaf on this particular topic.
@@michellemoore4585 you're absolutely right! And he is indeed the one who broke his family and tryna get away with it...
@@diontankeita6650 Maybe the show was paid by his publicist to slant the convo in his favor??? If that's the case it definitely didn't work at all, because his moves are all too familiar to those who have dealt with these types of men.
He shouldn't of quit hahaha
That’s an awful lot of money. I don’t know the situation they are in but does she works. Come down South where the average for one child is 300.00 a month.
Loni does not make any sense, she says "be a woman take care of your kids...then she says you try to get as much money as you can...ok..that's what she is.... doing trying to get as much money as she can.,lol...this is how it works...when you ask for 50, you know you're probably going to get 25....talking like she knows the man's income...the judge will make that determination
Lol 40k is nothing in this context, this woman literally sacrificed her body, her time and her dreams for this ungrateful bastard. She risked her life(because birthing a child increases the chance of death) to give him immortality... what I mean by this is giving a man a child is akin to giving him the gift of immortality through the use of one’s womb and that shouldn’t be taken lightly. he broke his vows to her and took the best years of her life only to betray her in the worst way. So no, being a woman doesn’t only mean letting things go it also means standing up for yourself when you have been so completely and utterly wronged. Being a woman also means knowing that you deserve the best life has to offer and demanding reciprocity. Being a woman also means utilizing your dark energy to suit your purposes when appropriate...and in this context, it is more than appropriate for her to demand what she thinks she is worth.
You are absolutely right but at the same time who forced her? Why do some women keep playing themselves marrying potential and building men for what? ...his word
@@DreamsAreForWeaving i agrée, she shouldn’t have done that to begin with.
@@DreamsAreForWeaving he didn’t married her until after he had already became rich and famous. He started in greys in 2009 and he married her in 2012. Then she had his child in 2013 .
After what he did to her, i wouldn't be shocked if the thought passed through her mind that he could do something similar to his kids.
Also America is so expensive and their kids are really young, so she better get THAT money.
If he didn't want to pay he shouldn't have done her bad, especially after she supported him for him to accomplish his dream. That level of hurt is on another level.
He didn’t do anything to her
Loni's dress is very pretty and she looks beautiful in it! ❤🤗 Garcelle's dress is gorgeous too! Love that color!
She reminds me of my ex-sister-in-law (even though she's the one that wanted the divorce, but I digress). What the hell kind of "simple" life costs $40,000 a month?