yeah almost all our struggles ,Alhamdulillah growing older also made me wonder why i thought i was ugly, but i realised it sth from a past, constantly being told off/bullied about your features.... then it sticks with you...
I was like you sister. I always thought I was the ugliest girl in my family until I start working ppl from work start telling me I was beatiful. The first few month I didn't believe them I was like are they seeing what my family see. Cuz my whole family kept telling me I don't look like them I look like my dad's family . I grew up with my moms family. The last 10 years my mom start hinting that I look good. Very weird to me not to tell the kids (the girls) in your family that the are beatiful. Cuz of how I was seen by my family I never thought any guy wil like me. It is funny when you said you were young and beatiful I agree with you I feel the same. Too bad we didnt feel like that when we were young. By the way you still beatiful sister. I think who ever tell anyone or make anyone feels ugly, they are ugly inside. Specifically ur family.
U are very gorgeous indeed missy MachaAllah. Perfect skin, very pretty forehead (i love east african queens' forehead) and you outray sunshine from the soul. May Allah grant you all your wishes
Hi Fatma. Thanks for the very candid video, I have noted your description of men is mostly negative. It seems subconscious, so just wondering if you've had positive experiences with men apart from your dad. It might be difficult building relationships with men if there's a part of you that expects only negativity from them.
😂😂😭 are u fr of course , most women are looking for a man Who is stable , there going be child u hv to think about that child future, I’m marrying to be take care lmao I would stay single if I can everything to myself 😂😂😂🤣 .
@@lean8342 AllahuAkbar, women like you would say such thing. Stay single and enjoy ur t°¥ which not permissible in Islam. Women like you always seem to be bending the religion to satisfy your desire. Remember that Allah Subha'nahuwaT'Allah is watching EVERYTHING. You first have to know how the mother of the believers ( Khadijah bint Kwueyet) was married to the Prophet PBUH before utter such statement. Woman like you wants a man that have more money, house, car, good-looking, and stable job. With those you might end up getting divorced because he might just married you for a part-time. Follow the religion and the previous generations because they were happy.
@@MusaSKeitathere is no correlation Btw wanted to get a stable man and deen that’s my standards if you just can’t be one of that men that women had in their mind just don’t make statement plus women is going to have kids she want her kids to have the best life if you can’t pay or can’t fulfill your responsibility just don’t get married
All our lives we keep hearing about how we must please men. While the men don't get thought how to please their women. In reality all we see are men misbehaving. This is why most of the warnings in the Quran were in fact durected at the men. Allah knew what they will do. So no we don't need your balance. It's not balance you seek because if it were, you would have known that she speaks about everything. The one with the most power will be the one with the most responsibilities, and unfortunately you are failing. Thankfully many women can now take care of themselves and the children abandoned by their fathers. By the way, I have a wonderful father.
I love when you said Allah doesn’t need us, we need Him
Hope you never stop posting, it’s so nice to hear you say the simplest things
You speak to my soul sis . Keep them coming . So relatable.
How bad it is that people's opinions can make us beautiful or ugly. It's all about feelings.
Fatma at 3:38: "maybe the last one because I thing I've spoken too much"
Me at starting the video: "oh no, only 14:40 Minutes".
To be honest, am really learning alot about Deen through you sister. ❤❤❤
This is so informational, thank you so much! I feel like my big sister is knocking some sense into me haha.
yeah almost all our struggles ,Alhamdulillah growing older also made me wonder why i thought i was ugly, but i realised it sth from a past, constantly being told off/bullied about your features.... then it sticks with you...
💯💯💯 but in Sha Allah we are growing and overcoming this ✊🏾
Thanks for sharing and keep up the good work. At list the straw is strawing this time😂😂😂.
Those old pics are so cute! Thanks for sharing.
Would you say you were “too nice” back then to potentials or just really firm on your boundaries?
I just love these videos!!! Your voice and sense of humor!!! And love for God/Allah
I was like you sister. I always thought I was the ugliest girl in my family until I start working ppl from work start telling me I was beatiful. The first few month I didn't believe them I was like are they seeing what my family see. Cuz my whole family kept telling me I don't look like them I look like my dad's family . I grew up with my moms family. The last 10 years my mom start hinting that I look good. Very weird to me not to tell the kids (the girls) in your family that the are beatiful. Cuz of how I was seen by my family I never thought any guy wil like me. It is funny when you said you were young and beatiful I agree with you I feel the same. Too bad we didnt feel like that when we were young. By the way you still beatiful sister. I think who ever tell anyone or make anyone feels ugly, they are ugly inside. Specifically ur family.
U are very gorgeous indeed missy MachaAllah. Perfect skin, very pretty forehead (i love east african queens' forehead) and you outray sunshine from the soul. May Allah grant you all your wishes
Yesterday I showed my mum your photo to guess your age،، guess what she said 18-20
She has an innocent face ❤
Fatma how can we contact you..we need to buy stocks from turkey
The auntie we need ❤
auntie? unless ur like 15, she's not an auntie 🤣
You were hustling for uni.
Asc fatma
Hi Fatma. Thanks for the very candid video, I have noted your description of men is mostly negative. It seems subconscious, so just wondering if you've had positive experiences with men apart from your dad. It might be difficult building relationships with men if there's a part of you that expects only negativity from them.
Girl can you please talk about how your scar disappeared.bcz now no one can notice until they are looking for it.
The problem is no lady wants to be higher in finance or credibility than her spouse. Most of the ladies now looking up to a higher man 👞 ♂️
😂😂😭 are u fr of course , most women are looking for a man Who is stable , there going be child u hv to think about that child future, I’m marrying to be take care lmao I would stay single if I can everything to myself 😂😂😂🤣 .
@@lean8342
AllahuAkbar, women like you would say such thing. Stay single and enjoy ur t°¥ which not permissible in Islam. Women like you always seem to be bending the religion to satisfy your desire. Remember that Allah Subha'nahuwaT'Allah is watching EVERYTHING.
You first have to know how the mother of the believers ( Khadijah bint Kwueyet) was married to the Prophet PBUH before utter such statement.
Woman like you wants a man that have more money, house, car, good-looking, and stable job. With those you might end up getting divorced because he might just married you for a part-time.
Follow the religion and the previous generations because they were happy.
@@MusaSKeitathere is no correlation Btw wanted to get a stable man and deen that’s my standards if you just can’t be one of that men that women had in their mind just don’t make statement plus women is going to have kids she want her kids to have the best life if you can’t pay or can’t fulfill your responsibility just don’t get married
@@MarwaAhmed-ni3tw You don't want a husband. You want a wealthy man 😜
Fact has to matter more than feeling my sister 😞
@@MusaSKeita well if that is the case I want wealthy husband of course
As ayoung married muslimaa dea Fatuma marriage is more than just a sanitary pads.
If someone can't buy small things like sanitary pads, how will you trust him with bigger things in marriage.
@@jayshaven6837periodt
You're eager to say men are disobedience to Allah in term of divorce, but ignore the wrong doing of modern days ladies.
This life no balance ♎⚖️
The majority of the home wreckers are man and the reason so many ladies get divorced
All our lives we keep hearing about how we must please men. While the men don't get thought how to please their women. In reality all we see are men misbehaving. This is why most of the warnings in the Quran were in fact durected at the men. Allah knew what they will do. So no we don't need your balance. It's not balance you seek because if it were, you would have known that she speaks about everything. The one with the most power will be the one with the most responsibilities, and unfortunately you are failing. Thankfully many women can now take care of themselves and the children abandoned by their fathers. By the way, I have a wonderful father.