I lived in Turkey for 5 years as a student , I had many Turkish men that were interested in me. I just couldn’t see my self with one of them. I am marrying a muslim Nigerian man soon inshaAllah. He seems like a good man and my family are opened minded so they accept him so easily. I am Somali btw.
You live in turkey as a student. Ur not either in Nigeria or somalia unless u have turkish citizenship. Just like that somali girl who got married to a pakistani guy who live in saudi arabia and then he went to Pakistan and never come back. Later saudi arabia deported her to somalia . She was in somalia homeless with 3 half somali kids that don't look alike somalis. I gave her 200 dollar and now I don't know about her. I think turkish are better bcz u live in their country and get citizenship once u engaged
@@blessingchanne1866 I said , I lived it is in the past and now I live in a western country where I am a citizen and he is too. I know how to take care of myself, very capable of Alhamdulilah, and Allah is always with me so don’t be concerned.
East african (eritrean ethiopian and somalia) are very racist. I know cuz I am from there. I even get shocked when some of my family talking about dark skin ppl. They don't think they are black.
Yeah but not East African Unfortunately most of us we're racist you can see if you go out of your culture how racist human thy are May Allah guide us to unite and know we're all human from Eden
Sister I’m from Djibouti and the best thing about being Somali Djiboutian it’s that our people are very open minded as long as their Muslim people Alhamdoulilah we don’t like things about tribe ect we’re all Muslim brothers and sisters from the ummah
Fatma sister, our culture is so messed up sometimes!!! Also I married a Kenyan Muslim born man. Who cares!!! Marry someone who is Muslim and Allah knows best!!
We are minority in kenya and we don't want to assimilate in to other cultures .somalis have o preserve their culture and gene. There somali proverb biiyo ka badaaan iyo daad kabadaan weey kuqadaan. Even in white men countries they're so racist bcz they don't want immigrant to change their culture, gene , colour and dominate them
Being a Revert Muslim with ancestry from 4 different continents, and travelled to many countries, the most important thing is Love for ALLAH and His messenger (SAW). Trust ME. For any other reason, a person is fooling themselves.
Abu Hurayrah narrates that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, “No child is born except on the Fitrah and then his parents make him Jewish, Christian or Magian. Just as an animal produces a perfect young animal: do you see any part of its body amputated?”
@@aminath92 that doesn't make sense. My Afrikan Ancestors were practising Afrikan Spirituality long before the Arabs set foot in Afrika. Islam is not indigenous to Afrika.
Somali is Somali doesn’t matter where you were born. I was born in Arab country but I will always say am Somali. When it comes to marriage I don’t see myself with another race love my Somalis doesn’t matter the qabiil❤
I heard many Somalis that say that they can't marry JAREER people The HARD HAIR people And if a person married a non Somali they curse him or her , that jareer jareer, so they should fear Allah
Marriage isn't show off .honestly marrying from outside my somali community is something i have never thought about. Every community has unique culture that is hard to forgo. marrying someone with opposite culture the chances of separation is higher because what seems right with you may not seem right on the other side of the coin that results misunderstanding. Religion is key too here. If i marry a Christian woman and my kids become Christians i will be held accountable by God. I aslo want my kids to get along with somali people very easily and know more about their culture and religion so that when i die tomorrow it will be hard for them to be brainwashed.
You marry a soul, not a nation or race. When we leave this world we want our partners to be our best friends, so we can continue our union in the next world. If someone is a sweet soul who touches you deeply, it doesn’t matter their race or nationality. It’s all about the spirit of a person. But, I agree with you: first step is attraction! No dogs allowed!
Fatma you are a very beautiful and good hearted woman,may Allah bless you with a righteous spouse I have a feeling your prayers will come true don’t give up sister ❤
Kenyan Somalis are Kenyan by ethnicity and origin. Kenyan Bantus and Nilotes think they are the only ones that existed there before the British Protectorate. But Northeastern Kenya was always inhabited by Somalis as well as other cushites and they are native to that land. It was part of Somalia before the British mapped Somalis as Kenyans and it was one of the reasons there was an uprising during the late 1950s where many Kenyan Somalis were imprisoned for protesting against their land being included in the Kenyan Protectorate as well as protesting the idea of a Kikuyu president ruling over their land. In hindsight, modern day Kenyan Somalis are Kenyan by Nationality, by origin and by ethnicity. Modern day Somalis from Somalia are Somalis from Somalia and that is very different. Yes we are close relatives and cousins, we also have a shared language and religion but be sure our culture is not all the same. If you're Kenyan, you are Kenyan ...it is what it is...that's how I see it. Being Sujuu comes from the Swahili word sijui..which translates to "I don't know" lol...I don't think that's right...I think we do know who are as Kenyans and as much as there is xenophobia from other language groups...we also have a shared understanding and I suppose love for the nation too
Greatly put. Who defines what is Kenyan? Why are Bantus, Kikuyu and Nilotes so easily accepted and Kenyan Somalis not? Im not from Kenya, I'm from UK and as a Somali I saw the same thing with the "black" discourse that used to happen here, where West African British defined and were the gatekeepers of British Blackness. This reminds me of the same thing. You are as much Kenyan as the other ethnic groups. Kenya is a colonial country, and as residents from its founding and part of it when it was constructed, Somalia is a distant parent, but Kenya is your motherland.
No way I will marry outside Somali culture. East and West home is the Best. Different culture always have problem And majority that marriage don't last. I have several case studies to that
@@filsanmohamud9774 Sister i don't have written studies majority were eye witness and Also videos from social Media but I can send you the video's. Meanwhile due diligence is very important because the person you are going to Marry will have a lot of impact in your life so you have to choose well.
i don't know why somali women come on public when they have Affection in Jereers/Cadans,just take the step & marry them, y'all don't need validation to do so,your life is yours go & blend with others none of somali business 100%
Ah, kwani are you going to stop us 🤭🤣 exactly, my life is mine and I can marry whoever I want 😎 And this RUclips channel is mine, I can share whatever I want 💅🏿
I have and I will. Allah made us in different colours to get to know one another. As long as the person trusts the Almighty Allah the Creator of this earth. Btw I’m from beautiful Zanzibar.
I hope you are doing well. I wanted to express my admiration for you and your incredible journey. Your energy and passion are truly inspiring, and I am moved by the entrepreneurial mindset you display in everything you do. If only I were younger, I would marry and care for you without hesitation. At 55, living in Sweden, I find myself captivated by your rare combination of beauty, intelligence, and drive. It's not just your outward beauty that impresses me but also the vibrant energy and determination you bring to every endeavor. Please do not give up on Somali men. I know they can be difficult at times. Watching you excel and create positive change in the world is a privilege, and I deeply admire your dedication to your goals. You are a true example of what a strong, ambitious woman can achieve, and I have no doubt that you will continue to make a significant impact. Please know that I hold you in the highest regard and support you in all your endeavors. Thank you for being such a remarkable person and for inspiring those of us who are fortunate enough to witness your journey. Wishing you continued success and happiness in all that you do. Warm regards,
🥹🥹🥹 thank you soo much for this beautiful and encouraging comment. In Sha Allah, I pray Allah blesses each of us in anything that we are seeking to fulfil our lives 🤲🏾. Am glad that you are rooting for me and praying for me, it means a lot so thank you and I hope you will enjoy watching my journey in this life 🤗💕
Sister Fatima , I am your brother in Allah from Ethiopia. I hope you health is going well. I pray Allah to give you back your health . As a father of daughters I keen to see you get married soon . I wish you a good protective , that fears Allah and loving husband.
I agree, I am half Somali, and my hubby is somali, but i can say they are very racist even here in the US. Its sad 😔 they have a good heart, though, but they just something else
So , years ago I was on a marriage app, and a somali man talked to me, he was divorced and had a daughter, he lived in the UK. We kept talking on instagram, about marriage of course. Then one day, a girl from my country sent me a message on instagram asking me about him. I told her that I met him on the app... she said that she met him there too and that he is planning to come to our country to propose to her and meet her family 😂😂 so we both blocked him. End of story. That's my only experience with somali people.
Who told you Somali people married only their clans. Other than living huge cities which 90% belong a same clan and your chance of finding other clan are rare. Those who love eachother don't care what clan their lover belong that is the truth. You can make your own research that isn't true. Yes, Somalis have clan segregation and political disunity; however, clan intermarriage is the section didn't affected by Somali civil conflict. This may change now. My favour clan to marry from was Isaq and now that is changing since we have political problems between us. I revisited my dream of finding partner from either Darood and other Dir. Somali Kenyan maybe the right man for you not for the clan but the location and Somali subculture in Kenya. He would be more likely to understand you than myself who lived far from you in Adelstate near Djibout.
Asalaamu Aleykum I lived Kenya Barwa Camp in Bambuuri Mumbaasa area left 1997 i know why they name Sijuuyi First of all sijuuyi means I don’t know 90s people when they see Somali they talk to them af Soomaali they said Sijuuyi what we mean that time he didn’t know Somali language but we don’t mean he she not Soomaali now I don’t know if terminology change also come from south Jubba we consider we get divided we are same family.
The problem is in somali the culture and clan can make you free insurance even if something hapen to you but if you mariade a stranger you have to walk alone. In kenya even indian only intermay each other and they dont dilute.
I just watched a few minutes of one of your previous videos titled "Why I Am Not Married at the Age of 38." Honestly, you don't look like you're over 38 years old. I'm wondering what you do to maintain your youthful appearance. I'm 26 and I look horrible, haha. Keep up the good work, and Insha'Allah, you will soon find your soulmate regardless what ethnicity or cultural background he is from. Not all marriages are good, but the one where you find peace and happiness is the one you will truly enjoy insha Allah.
I want to marry an open minded Somali who isn’t racist, tribalism, too cultural, too religious … just moderate in all aspects. I’ve wanted to marry out for a long time but I think it would be a disaster for my future kids. Most marriages end in divorce and I don’t want to raise half Somali kids as a single mum, unable to teach them about their identity. It’s such a risk and I haven’t seen it work that well. I’m yet to meet an older mixed Somali couple with teen kids for example.
@@KojLok-dy6gp Well that's rude lol I assume you're "religious". There's nothing wrong with me, but I'm not religious and I don't pretend to be either. I don't wear hijab and I wouldn't want someone who forces me to wear it. It's called being logical and mature, try it sometime.
@@Menooy22 why should someone Force you And hijab is a commandment from Allah.. sister this world is too short. We will leave this world And be accounted in front of Allah. Try to Wear you hijab for your own benefit
Sister please talk about posative side in somalia as somlians we have been struggling tribalism long time but now we are recovering everything is different how you talk however you born kenya and you grew up but your originaly country is somalia where ever you are please proud it dont disrespect our beloved country and even say when they people ask you where are yiu from say im from kenya but originaly im somlia that's it and dont tell somali men something that is not true Your did alot exaggrate when you talk somalia You are not seems somalian person 😮
Jazaki-Allah khairan sister Fatimah. You said you can marry a Nigerian. You know Nigeria is very very diverse. Please may I ask you whiich part of Nigeria?
Thank you so much Fatima for sharing us your opinion. I think that the best way to get married, to choose your nationality because you share the same culture, tradition, ethnical group, country even region, and then your children will be proud of their parents and their country. Your couple will be understandable... The another way also are not bad but I don't prefer. I wish and pray for you to get married a good Somali man. I read one book written by somali girl emigrated in western countries( name of author waris Diri: flower of desert" title) she was talking about shotgun marriage at younger age and excision because of that she run 🏃♀️ away from Somalia 🇸🇴 to UK 🇬🇧 Finaly she got married non muslim guy from America(Singer and black man) how can you imagine that 😢😢 Even in my community we don't get married outside. Today look at yourself your parents were coming from same country even same ethnical group that is so strong and powerful 💪 If your will get a time check it to Google and read this book so interesting I am a francophone my English so bad.
You were educated at USIU, and you're still bound by backward traditions, USIU teaches you to be a global citizen, honestly today you've let me down, Fatma
Asalaamu Aleykum Qabiil Every nation has its own problems go around the world see deep inside what’s happening among were I live in segregated each nation Arab Latin Europe AfricanAmerican white African and ETC. Each has problems among other inside themselves Let me come to Soomaali Qabiil Tribe Soomaali compare to other countries we can say alhamdullillaah example we say no in the beginning when reality comes we are okay just before the marriage they will give you issues and after the marriage no one will give you problems remember this practice is not all Soomaali. We are mixed nation in southern Somali everything changed after the war 1990 when northern somali tribes started coming to southern part Somali that’s when the situation changed. Note to know your tribe is not the problem what is problem here is to put down one another remember this problem not only Somali people this issue is all of the world. I am still learning my tribe some people they memorized before in south Somali no one care about tribe now is different every thing change the best is what Quran tells us to know each other not to make problem one another. Best is to go back to the Deen Quran and Sunnah this issue will be gone. Thank you
This is a problem specifically because you are Muslims and not Somalis alone. So it's more a religious command than a cultural separation. This is not a problem amongst Africans in general. It's a problem amongst Muslims on the continent. I have equally seen problems when it comes to black Muslims marrying Arabs. It's more like black Muslims should should keep to themselves and Arabic Muslims are not allowed to marry a black man or woman. Muslim or not. The cultural difference is simply an excuse. Somalis have issues also because they try to Claim that they are not africans but arabs. So it's not strange that you facing challenges in Kenya. Personally I simply tell someone to keep their religious beliefs to themselves whether they are Christians or Muslims. If that's a problem,than we go our separate ways.
@@Araweelo It's well and good if that's the case, but the guys I have met claimed otherwise. It might be that it's a minority among Somalians who confused about their identity because they want to feel special. It's just strange to me that we are caught up in identity discussions when we respectively and together face huge challenges as African's. Religious beliefs have added another layer of confusion and certain ones believe it's the only thing that matters and can't think for themselves. Anyway, thanks for the response and prosperity to you wherever you are.
@@abduljabbarmohammed4188 who said people from mandera and wajir can't speak that English Do you know in North Eastern they speak English more than those in Eastleigh
Don’t lie, we are not racist but they want protect their children and they want to let them merry people they know. No somali want to let their daughter merry other cultures bc we don’t know who they are and where they are gonna take. So stop making those nonsense statements about Somali. Stay single forever or merry. But don’t come here and complain about Somali being protecting their children is something bad.
prophet usuf was a slave prophet ibriham wife hajara is gifty and prophet lineage came from that woman,zaid iben harita was a slave,amar iben yasar was a slave bilali iben rabaha was a slave black from habasha ethiopia,somalians fear allaha and follow with prophet way,racis is not musilum
Why you didn’t mention, Sudan, ethiopia, Eritrea, Kenya bajuni community, rather thank jumping to Nigerian , because Nigerian know how to approach women, they don’t care, what you said, just they tried, try from those countries that I mentioned about please Thank you
Asalaamu Aleykum Maasha Allaah please listen your family. This days I recommend to you marry to Soomaali because you are already talked about if any issues Somali man will not take your children remember today’s world are separate so many fitnah you don’t know who is who say you marry out side man you have problems you go his country court likewise you will be loosing the case so many ways Mukulaal mininkeeda joogto mici libaax ayey leedahay No Muslim state sister Muslims not united if was united all Muslim yes but now scary. Your choice remember what Allaah provided for you there.
Men carry the name of the community, we will have a real problem when men start marrying ajnabi women in large numbers. Otherwise we have no problem girls marrying ajnabi
I lived in Turkey for 5 years as a student , I had many Turkish men that were interested in me. I just couldn’t see my self with one of them. I am marrying a muslim Nigerian man soon inshaAllah. He seems like a good man and my family are opened minded so they accept him so easily. I am Somali btw.
All the best! In Shaa Allah a blessed marriage! I married a Muslim Kenyan man.
😂😂😂😂
You live in turkey as a student. Ur not either in Nigeria or somalia unless u have turkish citizenship. Just like that somali girl who got married to a pakistani guy who live in saudi arabia and then he went to Pakistan and never come back. Later saudi arabia deported her to somalia . She was in somalia homeless with 3 half somali kids that don't look alike somalis. I gave her 200 dollar and now I don't know about her. I think turkish are better bcz u live in their country and get citizenship once u engaged
@@blessingchanne1866 I said , I lived it is in the past and now I live in a western country where I am a citizen and he is too. I know how to take care of myself, very capable of Alhamdulilah, and Allah is always with me so don’t be concerned.
@@D-Dollie Thank you sis and may Allah bless you too.
East african (eritrean ethiopian and somalia) are very racist. I know cuz I am from there. I even get shocked when some of my family talking about dark skin ppl. They don't think they are black.
No they are not racist. They just want have people they know around them. And most Eastern Africa are Muslims.
Yeah but not East African
Unfortunately most of us we're racist you can see if you go out of your culture how racist human thy are
May Allah guide us to unite and know we're all human from Eden
You are rigth
Yes u're right those 3 Nationalities sucks for really they think they're Arabs😢
Sister I’m from Djibouti and the best thing about being Somali Djiboutian it’s that our people are very open minded as long as their Muslim people Alhamdoulilah we don’t like things about tribe ect we’re all Muslim brothers and sisters from the ummah
marry within your culture
@@aryub5851
Why
Fatma sister, our culture is so messed up sometimes!!! Also I married a Kenyan Muslim born man. Who cares!!! Marry someone who is Muslim and Allah knows best!!
We are minority in kenya and we don't want to assimilate in to other cultures .somalis have o preserve their culture and gene. There somali proverb biiyo ka badaaan iyo daad kabadaan weey kuqadaan. Even in white men countries they're so racist bcz they don't want immigrant to change their culture, gene , colour and dominate them
Am sure you must be in shit,so don't drug her to the he'll you are experiencing.
"Our culture "😂
Hopefully u doing well wth yr " Kenyan muslim born man"
@@mohsen6878Islam comes before culture
@@neverlookback1244
That's what u say not what you do
قال تعالى" يأيها الناس إنا خلقناكم من ذكر وأنثى وجعلناكم شعوبا وقبائل لتعارفوا إن أكرمكم عند الله أتقاكم "
I make duaa you marry a good husband with a beautiful character ❤❤❤
Being a Revert Muslim with ancestry from 4 different continents, and travelled to many countries, the most important thing is Love for ALLAH and His messenger (SAW). Trust ME. For any other reason, a person is fooling themselves.
What is a revert? We're you a former Muslim?
@@amandamilo3454everyone is born Muslim (على الفطرة), so when someone "converts" to Islam, he is a revert, going back to what he was born as.
Abu Hurayrah narrates that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said,
“No child is born except on the Fitrah and then his parents make him Jewish, Christian or Magian. Just as an animal produces a perfect young animal: do you see any part of its body amputated?”
@@aminath92 that doesn't make sense. My Afrikan Ancestors were practising Afrikan Spirituality long before the Arabs set foot in Afrika. Islam is not indigenous to Afrika.
@@aminath92 I respectfully disagree. That is an insult to my Afrikan Ancestors. They were neither Muslim, nor Christian.
Somali is Somali doesn’t matter where you were born. I was born in Arab country but I will always say am Somali. When it comes to marriage I don’t see myself with another race love my Somalis doesn’t matter the qabiil❤
I heard many Somalis that say that they can't marry JAREER people
The HARD HAIR people
And if a person married a non Somali they curse him or her , that jareer jareer, so they should fear Allah
That’s ridiculous! But I have heard something similar.
The Jareer clan are not ethnically Somali. But people need to definitely fear Allah.
@@kkahin3557Even the people of outside Somali, the outsiders from other countries with hard hair they call them JAREER Too
@@kkahin3557 Even the people of outside Somali, the outsiders from other countries, with hard hair, they call them JAREER
Yeah is sth bad in our culture may Allah guide us all to the right path
Marriage isn't show off .honestly marrying from outside my somali community is something i have never thought about.
Every community has unique culture that is hard to forgo. marrying someone with opposite culture the chances of separation is higher because what seems right with you may not seem right on the other side of the coin that results misunderstanding.
Religion is key too here.
If i marry a Christian woman and my kids become Christians i will be held accountable by God.
I aslo want my kids to get along with somali people very easily and know more about their culture and religion so that when i die tomorrow it will be hard for them to be brainwashed.
conquest of makka prophet mentioned habshasinyans who ethiopians
You marry a soul, not a nation or race. When we leave this world we want our partners to be our best friends, so we can continue our union in the next world. If someone is a sweet soul who touches you deeply, it doesn’t matter their race or nationality. It’s all about the spirit of a person. But, I agree with you: first step is attraction! No dogs allowed!
Fatma you are a very beautiful and good hearted woman,may Allah bless you with a righteous spouse I have a feeling your prayers will come true don’t give up sister ❤
Love hearing your thoughts! Always interesting & entertaining too
Thank you Sarah 💕
@@FatmaOdyssey marry with whoever you like,out come nobody knws except god
Would you marry a married man? Would you consider to become a second wife? What are your thoughts on polygamy?
Fati, on those blessed days I’ll keep u in my duas and I’ll pray you find ur soulmate and endless happiness
Greetings from Kenya!
That "excuse me" with the accompanying attitude is sooo Kenyan😂
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Kenyan Somalis are Kenyan by ethnicity and origin. Kenyan Bantus and Nilotes think they are the only ones that existed there before the British Protectorate. But Northeastern Kenya was always inhabited by Somalis as well as other cushites and they are native to that land. It was part of Somalia before the British mapped Somalis as Kenyans and it was one of the reasons there was an uprising during the late 1950s where many Kenyan Somalis were imprisoned for protesting against their land being included in the Kenyan Protectorate as well as protesting the idea of a Kikuyu president ruling over their land. In hindsight, modern day Kenyan Somalis are Kenyan by Nationality, by origin and by ethnicity. Modern day Somalis from Somalia are Somalis from Somalia and that is very different. Yes we are close relatives and cousins, we also have a shared language and religion but be sure our culture is not all the same. If you're Kenyan, you are Kenyan ...it is what it is...that's how I see it. Being Sujuu comes from the Swahili word sijui..which translates to "I don't know" lol...I don't think that's right...I think we do know who are as Kenyans and as much as there is xenophobia from other language groups...we also have a shared understanding and I suppose love for the nation too
Greatly put. Who defines what is Kenyan? Why are Bantus, Kikuyu and Nilotes so easily accepted and Kenyan Somalis not? Im not from Kenya, I'm from UK and as a Somali I saw the same thing with the "black" discourse that used to happen here, where West African British defined and were the gatekeepers of British Blackness. This reminds me of the same thing. You are as much Kenyan as the other ethnic groups. Kenya is a colonial country, and as residents from its founding and part of it when it was constructed, Somalia is a distant parent, but Kenya is your motherland.
Always enjoying this from my sister ❤..
Ngoja nisengenye na swahili. Tafadhali ukija usisahau the matching prayer gown for me
In Sha Allah, sitasahau. 💕
As-salam alaykom,
We should follow our religion and marry someone who is practicing muslim. Culture and ethnicity should not matter.
Marry someone who supports, encourages, and celebrates you.
No way I will marry outside Somali culture. East and West home is the Best. Different culture always have problem And majority that marriage don't last. I have several case studies to that
Can u send links to those studies please?
No study required get marry find out the difference
@@abdulciise6989 😂😂I rather do my due dillegence before getting married. You do you.
@@filsanmohamud9774just check from within your family and friends who married out
@@filsanmohamud9774 Sister i don't have written studies majority were eye witness and Also videos from social Media but I can send you the video's. Meanwhile due diligence is very important because the person you are going to Marry will have a lot of impact in your life so you have to choose well.
Ur right siz we luv u I'm Somali from Kenya married in Seychelles
i don't know why somali women come on public when they have Affection in Jereers/Cadans,just take the step & marry them, y'all don't need validation to do so,your life is yours go & blend with others none of somali business 100%
Ah, kwani are you going to stop us 🤭🤣
exactly, my life is mine and I can marry whoever I want 😎
And this RUclips channel is mine, I can share whatever I want 💅🏿
I have and I will. Allah made us in different colours to get to know one another. As long as the person trusts the Almighty Allah the Creator of this earth. Btw I’m from beautiful Zanzibar.
Ayyy Zanzibar….i can’t wait to visit in Sha Allah. Thank you 💕
I am somali and single. I don’t know about you but , you are my type ❤❤❤ masha’allah
She can be your mother in low. You are too young man.😂
Hhhhhh that's not lie
@@Yunit87 hhh don’t mess her morale she is young as well
Maxaa lacalaacalee makurabto
I hope you are doing well. I wanted to express my admiration for you and your incredible journey. Your energy and passion are truly inspiring, and I am moved by the entrepreneurial mindset you display in everything you do. If only I were younger, I would marry and care for you without hesitation. At 55, living in Sweden, I find myself captivated by your rare combination of beauty, intelligence, and drive. It's not just your outward beauty that impresses me but also the vibrant energy and determination you bring to every endeavor. Please do not give up on Somali men. I know they can be difficult at times. Watching you excel and create positive change in the world is a privilege, and I deeply admire your dedication to your goals. You are a true example of what a strong, ambitious woman can achieve, and I have no doubt that you will continue to make a significant impact. Please know that I hold you in the highest regard and support you in all your endeavors. Thank you for being such a remarkable person and for inspiring those of us who are fortunate enough to witness your journey. Wishing you continued success and happiness in all that you do. Warm regards,
🥹🥹🥹 thank you soo much for this beautiful and encouraging comment. In Sha Allah, I pray Allah blesses each of us in anything that we are seeking to fulfil our lives 🤲🏾. Am glad that you are rooting for me and praying for me, it means a lot so thank you and I hope you will enjoy watching my journey in this life 🤗💕
Somali sijui,we don't know about qabil, that's true.
I'm a Latina woman married to a Somali guy. I moved from the US to be in Germany with him.
Sister Fatima , I am your brother in Allah from Ethiopia.
I hope you health is going well.
I pray Allah to give you back your health . As a father of daughters I keen to see you get married soon .
I wish you a good protective , that fears Allah and loving husband.
Thank you so much 💕
You forgot to put the Kikuyu race on the list🫠
Allahumma bareek🥰
I love Somalis despite your thoughts
Siste the eyebrows is eyebrowing Masha llah 🤭🥰
Cold pressed castor oil every night on my eyebrows and lashes 🥳🥳🥳
You guys talking about been marriage foreigners but for me I even I a doubt if I’m going to even marry
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I agree, I am half Somali, and my hubby is somali, but i can say they are very racist even here in the US. Its sad 😔 they have a good heart, though, but they just something else
So , years ago I was on a marriage app, and a somali man talked to me, he was divorced and had a daughter, he lived in the UK. We kept talking on instagram, about marriage of course. Then one day, a girl from my country sent me a message on instagram asking me about him. I told her that I met him on the app... she said that she met him there too and that he is planning to come to our country to propose to her and meet her family 😂😂 so we both blocked him. End of story. That's my only experience with somali people.
Yoh 😭
Which country
@@abdiwadudmaalim38 from north africa
@@abdiwadudmaalim38 north Africa
@@abdiwadudmaalim38 why can't I see my reply?
Who told you Somali people married only their clans. Other than living huge cities which 90% belong a same clan and your chance of finding other clan are rare.
Those who love eachother don't care what clan their lover belong that is the truth.
You can make your own research that isn't true. Yes, Somalis have clan segregation and political disunity; however, clan intermarriage is the section didn't affected by Somali civil conflict. This may change now. My favour clan to marry from was Isaq and now that is changing since we have political problems between us. I revisited my dream of finding partner from either Darood and other Dir.
Somali Kenyan maybe the right man for you not for the clan but the location and Somali subculture in Kenya.
He would be more likely to understand you than myself who lived far from you in Adelstate near Djibout.
On behalf of the jareer community best to stay clear. Way too much going on they proper prefer non jareer types accepted more in somali community.
Asalaamu Aleykum
I lived Kenya Barwa Camp in Bambuuri Mumbaasa area left 1997 i know why they name Sijuuyi
First of all sijuuyi means I don’t know 90s people when they see Somali they talk to them af Soomaali they said Sijuuyi what we mean that time he didn’t know Somali language but we don’t mean he she not Soomaali now I don’t know if terminology change also come from south Jubba we consider we get divided we are same family.
The problem is in somali the culture and clan can make you free insurance even if something hapen to you but if you mariade a stranger you have to walk alone. In kenya even indian only intermay each other and they dont dilute.
Thanks for sharing. What about marrying to Latin Americans but living in Australia?
Keep going hapipty ❤
AM SOMALI DJIBOUTI 🇩🇯
I just watched a few minutes of one of your previous videos titled "Why I Am Not Married at the Age of 38." Honestly, you don't look like you're over 38 years old. I'm wondering what you do to maintain your youthful appearance. I'm 26 and I look horrible, haha. Keep up the good work, and Insha'Allah, you will soon find your soulmate regardless what ethnicity or cultural background he is from. Not all marriages are good, but the one where you find peace and happiness is the one you will truly enjoy insha Allah.
Thank you so much for your kind comment. Honestly it’s genes Alhamdulilah but I also work out and try to eat clean. Ameen ya Rabbi 💕
@FatmaOdyssey can we be in contact
ما شاء الله تبارك الله. فاطمة اوديسسي. من نيجيريا. NIGERIA 🇳🇬
I want to marry an open minded Somali who isn’t racist, tribalism, too cultural, too religious … just moderate in all aspects. I’ve wanted to marry out for a long time but I think it would be a disaster for my future kids. Most marriages end in divorce and I don’t want to raise half Somali kids as a single mum, unable to teach them about their identity. It’s such a risk and I haven’t seen it work that well. I’m yet to meet an older mixed Somali couple with teen kids for example.
Too religious? Subhanallah, this is what's wrong with people these days.
@@KojLok-dy6gp Well that's rude lol I assume you're "religious". There's nothing wrong with me, but I'm not religious and I don't pretend to be either. I don't wear hijab and I wouldn't want someone who forces me to wear it. It's called being logical and mature, try it sometime.
@@Menooy22May Allah soften your heart
@@Menooy22 why should someone Force you And hijab is a commandment from Allah.. sister this world is too short. We will leave this world And be accounted in front of Allah. Try to Wear you hijab for your own benefit
@@DekowMohamedofficial I know it is. I wore it for 15 years. I hope I wear it again.
Keep it melinated!!!!
Wow wonderful Kkkkk Identity Crisis I have seen so many somali kenyans saying That but anyway your vlogs are amazing
Waleykumn Salaam Raamattu'Allah
Usitiye wasiwasi sisi tutakupa mswahili, utaishi na raha
You can marry anyone as long he is Muslim.
Sister please talk about posative side in somalia as somlians we have been struggling tribalism long time but now we are recovering everything is different how you talk however you born kenya and you grew up but your originaly country is somalia where ever you are please proud it dont disrespect our beloved country and even say when they people ask you where are yiu from say im from kenya but originaly im somlia that's it and dont tell somali men something that is not true
Your did alot exaggrate when you talk somalia
You are not seems somalian person 😮
We missed u too❤❤❤
I love your videos
Thank you Luna 💕
Ani guurso quruxdana isla lee nahy and kind person 😂
Jazaki-Allah khairan sister Fatimah. You said you can marry a Nigerian. You know Nigeria is very very diverse. Please may I ask you whiich part of Nigeria?
How do you want her to understand where the heck she want merry Nigerian from? No one knows parts in Nigeria except Nigerians.
That's cool. But how can people reach out to you? Jazakum Allahu Khairr
You are doing now.
Can you marry an African American?😊
At age of 38+
Wll anigu gabadh dhafaar buuran ma guursan Karo , aan Kala raali ahaano😂😂
ما شاء الله تبارك الله. هده. بنت 🎉. جميله. جداا. من،نيجيريا 🎉😂. NIGERIA 🇳🇬
Am musilum majority of somalians living in bantu countries now look what god did
Lmao not true.
@@shafsteryellow majority of somalian refuged passed through narobi
@@shafsteryellow how many Somalia living in south África
Thank you so much Fatima for sharing us your opinion.
I think that the best way to get married, to choose your nationality because you share the same culture, tradition, ethnical group, country even region, and then your children will be proud of their parents and their country.
Your couple will be understandable...
The another way also are not bad but I don't prefer.
I wish and pray for you to get married a good Somali man.
I read one book written by somali girl emigrated in western countries( name of author waris Diri: flower of desert" title) she was talking about shotgun marriage at younger age and excision because of that she run 🏃♀️ away from Somalia 🇸🇴 to UK 🇬🇧
Finaly she got married non muslim guy from America(Singer and black man) how can you imagine that 😢😢
Even in my community we don't get married outside.
Today look at yourself your parents were coming from same country even same ethnical group that is so strong and powerful 💪
If your will get a time check it to Google and read this book so interesting
I am a francophone my English so bad.
You were educated at USIU, and you're still bound by backward traditions, USIU teaches you to be a global citizen, honestly today you've let me down, Fatma
lol…..🤣🤣🤣
Not good to married non somali pple
MY NEM SAHAL ABDI BOULALE. AM SOAMLI DJIBOUTI 🇩🇯 😅
Asalaamu Aleykum
Qabiil
Every nation has its own problems go around the world see deep inside what’s happening among were I live in segregated each nation Arab Latin Europe AfricanAmerican white African and ETC.
Each has problems among other inside themselves
Let me come to Soomaali Qabiil Tribe Soomaali compare to other countries we can say alhamdullillaah example we say no in the beginning when reality comes we are okay just before the marriage they will give you issues and after the marriage no one will give you problems remember this practice is not all Soomaali.
We are mixed nation in southern Somali everything changed after the war 1990 when northern somali tribes started coming to southern part Somali that’s when the situation changed.
Note to know your tribe is not the problem what is problem here is to put down one another remember this problem not only Somali people this issue is all of the world.
I am still learning my tribe some people they memorized before in south Somali no one care about tribe now is different every thing change the best is what Quran tells us to know each other not to make problem one another.
Best is to go back to the Deen Quran and Sunnah this issue will be gone.
Thank you
We can marry each other,,im from uganda ,,im Christian
No you can’t because your Christian
Did you watch the video?
I was born in Kenya l agree with you
This is a problem specifically because you are Muslims and not Somalis alone. So it's more a religious command than a cultural separation. This is not a problem amongst Africans in general. It's a problem amongst Muslims on the continent. I have equally seen problems when it comes to black Muslims marrying Arabs. It's more like black Muslims should should keep to themselves and Arabic Muslims are not allowed to marry a black man or woman.
Muslim or not. The cultural difference is simply an excuse. Somalis have issues also because they try to Claim that they are not africans but arabs. So it's not strange that you facing challenges in Kenya.
Personally I simply tell someone to keep their religious beliefs to themselves whether they are Christians or Muslims. If that's a problem,than we go our separate ways.
Somalis don’t claim Arab or black just Somali. Other Africans accuse them of claiming Arab we don’t even speak Arabic
@@Araweelo It's well and good if that's the case, but the guys I have met claimed otherwise. It might be that it's a minority among Somalians who confused about their identity because they want to feel special. It's just strange to me that we are caught up in identity discussions when we respectively and together face huge challenges as African's. Religious beliefs have added another layer of confusion and certain ones believe it's the only thing that matters and can't think for themselves.
Anyway, thanks for the response and prosperity to you wherever you are.
MY NEM. SAHAL ABDI BOULALE. AM ☪️. MUSLIM .MAN. DJIBOUTI 🇩🇯 🇩🇯 🇩🇯 🇩🇯 🇩🇯 🇩🇯 🇩🇯 🇩🇯 🇩🇯 🇩🇯 🇩🇯 🇩🇯 🇩🇯 🇩🇯 🇩🇯 🇩🇯 🇩🇯 🇩🇯 🇩🇯 🇩🇯. DJIBOUTI. COUNTRY 🎉
WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOF .FATIMA ODEEYSII. IN. NIGERIA 🇳🇬. THE
GIRILS MUSLIM ☪️ ❤️. COUNTRY. NIGERIA 🇳🇬 🇳🇬 🇳🇬 🇳🇬 🇳🇬 🇳🇬 🇳🇬 🇳🇬 🇳🇬 🇳🇬 🇳🇬 🇳🇬 🇳🇬 🇳🇬 🇳🇬
I like the fact that you have a big forehead like me😂
Would you marry someone who is in your father's age?
Iam from kenyan you can keep all the children
ما شاءالله تبارك الرحمن. فاطمة اوديسسي. من نيجيريا. جمليه 🎉. ومسلمه. مااااااااااااااااااااااااااااااااااااأااااا شاءالله. فاطمة. نيجيريا. 🎉 NIGERIA 🇳🇬 ♥️
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So many misinformation in here come on be kind to ur people
It's not must to marry from from your qabiil
But motherly advice marry from your race
Walashay you are somali sijui from which town in Kenya.
She is from Eastleigh
Mandera or wajir I guess .
@@blessingchanne1866 Thank you for your response but I don't think you are correct.
@@DekowMohamedofficial No I don't think so. With all that English.
@@abduljabbarmohammed4188 who said people from mandera and wajir can't speak that English
Do you know in North Eastern they speak English more than those in Eastleigh
Don’t lie, we are not racist but they want protect their children and they want to let them merry people they know. No somali want to let their daughter merry other cultures bc we don’t know who they are and where they are gonna take. So stop making those nonsense statements about Somali. Stay single forever or merry. But don’t come here and complain about Somali being protecting their children is something bad.
You marry who you want that somali culture is prison I don't believe it I was born and grew up in somalia
WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOF. FATIMA. ODEEYSII. NIGERIA 🇳🇬 😅❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Waraa caadi ayaad marooley u gashay sii caalami ah guurso cidaad doonto rabahada naga jooji walaashey somalida wey isguursataa dhexdooda intyar kuwa la heebsooco ka ehyn taasina waa laga ilbixi rabaa .
Cunsuriyaal dad xun sawir ah naga bixisay bulsho kasta caado weyleedahay gafka ummada ka jooji
I'm here dada
Hhh kawaran hadeynu inaga isku yaacno
Nin ajnabi ha guursan
prophet usuf was a slave prophet ibriham wife hajara is gifty and prophet lineage came from that woman,zaid iben harita was a slave,amar iben yasar was a slave bilali iben rabaha was a slave black from habasha ethiopia,somalians fear allaha and follow with prophet way,racis is not musilum
Would you agree to be 2nd, 3rd or fourth wife?
Manasheejee
Why you didn’t mention, Sudan, ethiopia, Eritrea, Kenya bajuni community, rather thank jumping to Nigerian , because Nigerian know how to approach women, they don’t care, what you said, just they tried, try from those countries that I mentioned about please
Thank you
Because they didn’t come to my mind when I was sharing my thoughts…🤷🏾♀️
Asalaamu Aleykum
Maasha Allaah please listen your family.
This days I recommend to you marry to Soomaali because you are already talked about if any issues Somali man will not take your children remember today’s world are separate so many fitnah you don’t know who is who say you marry out side man you have problems you go his country court likewise you will be loosing the case so many ways
Mukulaal mininkeeda joogto mici libaax ayey leedahay
No Muslim state sister Muslims not united if was united all Muslim yes but now scary.
Your choice remember what Allaah provided for you there.
Salam
Kkkkkkk 😂.
KKKKKKKKK 🎉😂😂😂😂😂😂
World over women marry outside their bloodlines. In Somali, we say "naag qabiil maleh".
And who gives birth to the people who carry qabil
And we say too "shishiya walagursadae lomaguriya"
"Wax aad taqana gursa wax aad taqana aad dhashid ee"
Men carry the name of the community, we will have a real problem when men start marrying ajnabi women in large numbers. Otherwise we have no problem girls marrying ajnabi
Don't do that
Somali people comes from Arab people.
😂,😂
No
Wllhi you have big problem