IMPORTANT Things I Wish I Knew in My Early 20’s: Don’t Make the Same Mistakes I Did
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- Опубликовано: 8 июл 2024
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Age - 25
Camera - Sony ZV-E10
Editing - iMovie & CapCut
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Timestamps
0:00 - intro
00:36 - When you start to heal - the hard days will feel bad because you aren’t always in a state of disfunction
1:42 - Things don’t change unless you do
2:19 - The people you spend time with affect you more than you know
3:07 - You can recreate yourself as many times as you want
3:35 - Do things that speak to you and align with what you want to from life - always honor your journey
4:28 - We need Allah, Allah doest need us
5:01 - Learn about Islam and fall in love with it on your own
5:47 - Don’t do things because you are bored
6:32 - Learn how to be alone and bored - a lot of toxic situations happen because we don’t know how to do either
7:00 - Family is so important - make sure you treat your family as well as if not better than you treat other people in your life
7:37 - Don’t center your life around men
8:16 - Wear the hijab - it is hard but so many amazing things come from it
8:37 - Learn how to have heavy or uncomfortable conversations - don’t avoid conflict but always be respectful
9:06 - When you do things always make sure you have good intentions because the things we do for people expecting something back usually end up causing us pain
9:46 - Don’t expect to find yourself in other people - this will lead to disappointment
10:22 - Learn about yourself - you not only owe it to yourself but to the world to know yourself because if you don’t know who you are then you won’t be able to do the work you are put on this earth to do.
10:29 - Self care is so important - do little things for yourself whenever you get the chance
11:11 - Don’t make any decisions when you are desperate - grocery store when hungry analogy
11:46 - Friends are so important - they fill a part that family can’t fill
12:07 - Don’t get fixated so much on how you feel
13:05 - Be kind to people regardless of what they do because who you are shouldn’t be based on other people
13:38 - Don’t take anything personally - people are going through their own things, whatever someone did to you has nothing to do with you!
14:23 - Always do things with future you in mind
I’m reaching 40s and I’m glad u made this video. U are much more matured than my younger self. May this set a good example for all. Amin…
Knowledge comes in every age❤️
Omggggg I love the first point !! You are RIGHTTTT !! Thank you ❤
Thank u so much🥹 really needed that
Your advice is valuable, succinct but very effective!
Believe it or not, I can actually relate a lot to this vid! MashAllah! Valuable stuff! Keep pushing with the vids!
Asc. I'm currently 23 and love the advice you have given. I feel as though 9 and 10 sorta contradicts one another for me as I'm in a place where my family is mentally toxic and deciding whats best to move forward.
I'm 19 and I'm just realizing some of these things and thx for making this video because some topics you went over I never would have thought of. ❤
Mashalllah sister your advice is gold, i really needed advice like the ones you said from a muslin sister like you. my jaw literally dropped when i seen u don't have that many followers, your advice is exactly what a Muslim women needs to hear, keep grinding , love ya! may Allah answer all your duas and bless your soul amen.
This means so much to me my love! Thank you ❤I usually post on TikTok and just started posting here. Ameen InshAllah I'm going to keep going!
You're on fire, mashaa'Allah! You're so insightful and analytical. Your voice is VERY much needed. As a mom of very young children (been married five years now) this is sooo needed. The things I wish I could tell my younger self (your age now) now that I've become a married woman and a mom but then THIS! You just reminded me that I had a lot on my plate back then LOL. Some of the things you already came to understand, I have after having kids! So just know you're ahead of the game! You're building such a strong foundation for your future self which both your husband and future children will appreciate deeply as well. Please continue. May Allah protect you, you're so precious sister!
May Allah reward you with immense blessings for this ❤
Love this video, soo many valuable lessons 🤍
Omg amazing and relatable
I love this. wise and beautiful. ♡
Okay sis Ethiopian here too, pls keep these advice coming. Fresh out college and feeling lost and doubting myself 😢
Nashua allah ur advice is underrated
This was so real girl, thank you. May allah bless you
Mashallah sis keep going 🤲🏽
It my first time watching you and it was a serious talk felt like my older sister was advising me 😂
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this video was def helpful
I needed my life someone like u remind me good things making stronger keep going sister ❤ and keep posting videos like this we need and allaha bless you
Thanks abbaayo. ❤
Machallah sis, I love these points
Mashaa Allah thanks habo this is helpful advice for young generation. I really like it. keep going.❤❤❤❤❤
Mashallah, you did that! Very soft spoken too!
I like your mindset! And I will use your videos to learn english more😌, good luck..
I loveeee this video. May الله bless u and your loved ones sister this video did open my eyes.❤
I usually dont comment on YT videos but i just had to. The lessons learnt you shared hit home so hard. Every single point was relevant, enlightening and put excellently. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you so much sis! I really appreciate it! ❤
Jamilaa we need more ukhty❤
This was so informative, I have subscribed straight away 🫶🏼
beauty and brains 🤩 mashAllah sister, giving up music has been hard pray it gets easier for me! also, what mic do you use here?
Dude i love ur videos, u should totally start a podcast 🫶🏼
thank you so much, may Allah bless you with more wisdom sister.
You finish all life experience at one video 😊 though it is nice
this was a personal call out😪
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This is so beautiful and so are you love this for you All praise be to Allah!🫶🏾
🎉🎉🎉🎉 it's great that you know all this things now and not when 40 like me 😅
Even if I have learned all of these lessons I still mess up sometimes so this is as much of a reminder for me as it is for you guys!
well girl how old are you, cause you look early 20 to mee! Im 25 and this video was very relatable .
dis vid was calling my name😂
Mashallah dear...
This has really helped me...Am 24 and I recently started feeling like I need to get married......
Im married and im 24 , my 25 birthday is coming up and i stress about getting pregnant , i really want to have a child now while im Young , so i understand your anxiety :( its so hard to let go off your anxiety 😢❤
Beautiful young woman
Family ❤❤❤ is key 🔑
13:05 😭🥺
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WWWWW 1st
my name is jamila too i hardly see people with my name .,,, i know there are a lot of people with name i just dont come across much so it’s a bit awkward to see someone with my name 😂
9:06 😭
i love you so much
I love you more 💕
PLEASE MAKE A HOW TO BE ALONE VIDEO!!!!!
Salaam alaikum sister, I love you for the sake of Allah and that's why I don't want you to get your good deeds washed away nor get sins, but it's haram for sisters to post themselves in public where non mahram males can see you. JazakhAllah khair.
how old r you?
25
If this girl isn’t from New York idk who is
She is 32
The way you pronounced Allah sounds Ethiopian
I love how wise you are Allahummah barek, you should really write a book 🤍🤍