Develop & Unlock Your Feminine Privilege! | The Feminine Universe
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- Опубликовано: 16 июл 2024
- We’re going to discuss a lesser known privilege, that may be even more powerful than pretty privilege. Feminine privilege.
Sometimes it is knowingly or unknowingly is the secret to how so called "Plain Janes" can run circles around the most gorgeous women. Because in the long run, nothing beats being well balanced.
I think feminine privilege is so powerful because it’s something we are in control of. We’ll get into the exact formula and the importance of each component.
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I have always known how to maximize my "prettyness" but, living in the inner cities where brutal attacks on women were and still are very rampant just for rejecting a guy, I just hid behind a hair scarf and jeans so I wouldn't draw attention to myself. I feel like many melenated women have had to deal with this dilemma a time or two before. The key to even beginning a journey like this would require an environment that SUPPORTS it. So I HAD to move...and let's just say, I'm a BRAND NEW WOMEN🤗💕🥰
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When you are living in poverty, you dim your shine to not stick out and become a target. After a while, that ordinary look becomes your style. I didnt wear heels or dress well because I was always taking the bus, now that I'm older, I have to learn the things I never did.
@@regularity2556 Precisely! I knew I had to make a change when something as small as leaving the house with my hair curled nice made me uncomfortable.
This speaks volumes. I definitely relate to this, I try to cover my body so I don’t attract negative attention. Happy to hear you’re in a safe place being your best self! 💕
@@christinegabrielle1665 Yes! We as women have to be very strategic with how we move, especially while everyone literally sees the changes happening with more women setting their standards higher
You hit the nail on the head with this! You are so right!
I'm in tears.. when she said some of the trends that are out here today are about intentionally looking distressed.. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Me too!😂
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I didn’t hit the genetic lottery. I’ve been called ugly my entire life and struggle with weight due to PCOS. BUT my clothes look good for my body type, I keep excellent hygiene, am very intelligent and carry myself well. I’m constantly offered perks and benefits in several respects. I give all credit to God that people look at me with favor, but the advice in this video is pure gold and very true!
I think you are beautiful, and you just can't see it ? Sometimes we get too used to our own features, we think they are basic, when it's the total opposit !
@@hibaimene9684 yaaaaaaas u said a mouth full! I love the support here!
Love that for you💕
I have PCOS as well!
This can also be very enlightening for survivors of abuse + trauma, combined with therapy, self-care, journaling this type of system of keeping ones Self Up, as Worthy, as better than whatever situation one is coming out of ~ so powerful 🙏 prayers and love to everyone.
And just an FYI - i work in construction. Like actual construction sites across NYC - i used to dress as a tomboy, no makeup, baggy clothing to not draw attention to my body (also
*Trigger Warning* ⚠️
I am a survivor of sexual abuse and neglect from when i was a child
So to say my confidence, self esteem, n body image always felt ‘impaired’ on these job sites - surrounded by men- never felt competent enough either
But i promise :
To anyone reading this,
When you get help, get therapy, climb your way out of the Shit
Build back into your life
Pray, even, to your God, for your Self
And mix in the concept of Feminine Privilege ~
Yo, ain’t nothing you can’t do;
Literally nothing petty outside of you will affect you
and nothing no one can say or try to do, even friends n family, will drag you back into that place..
You deserve Life 🙏 Completely.
The world is yours Stranger ~ We love you
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*Say it with me:*
🗣 1.Max out Pretty, 2.Achieve Refinement, 3.Feminine Behavior
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I see you understood the assignment, queen 😉💕
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The softness and cadence of her voice is the essence of the words she shared. That was more powerful than anticipated. 💕
You're so kind! Thank you. I'm so glad you enjoyed it 💕
@@TheFeminineUniverse Yes! I’m a new subscriber and I’ve truly been enjoying your prospective, frankly it’s refreshing and I’m inspired. Keep up the great work 💕
I know she sounds so Devine and her advice is so effective love it ❤
Feminine privilege is so real. I have to beg my guy friends to allow me to even open a door for myself. It does matter the race or age or even social status, guys just want to be gentle with me and they like when I allow them to be.
When I was more insecure and didn’t unlock my full femininity, I didn’t get even half the special treatment I get now and I wasn’t allowing myself to receive in.
Yes! My guy gets mad when I open doors for myself, and I’m realizing that is a small part of femininity as a whole that I have to learn and embrace in order to complement his masculinity.
“Would you say that your body looks like an amalgamation of good choices?”
The self-deprecating laugh that I just had from that one! 😂
I'm so obsessed with this content!💓 No bad vibes, positivity all through ✔️
Me too...just at the right time
Me too
Same! Content here is like water 💦 quenching a thirst 👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽🙌🏽
Thank you, Deidre! That's the goal! If it's not positive, or at least constructive, what's the point? I appreciate all of you ladies 💕
@@TheFeminineUniverse oh my gosh!! Right!!!!! This is literally the page I've always been looking for!💓
I'm 60 years old and I already knew most of these things, but a few I didn't. I'd like to thank you for the new knowledge I've gained. You are awesome 😎.
Welcome the TFU family, Eve! I'm happy to have you here! So glad you are enjoying the channel. Looking forward to seeing you in the comments💕
I agree with the person who made a comment about your "prettyness' and your environment. I live in inner city London and I travel using the bus and underground train. You want to look good but not too good where you draw unnecessary attention or seen as a target. It would be silly of me to leave the house in 6 inch heels without flats to catch the bus or be clicky clacking down the street at night. You do have to practise common sense when getting dressed. My femininity journey really moved in leaps and bounds when I got a corporate job and worked on my financial education. That's not to say you cant begin to work on the mental/emotional/behavioural side of femininity.
Such a beautiful voice !
Thank you very much! 💕
Right💁❤️
She sounds so much like yara from grownish
Hi ! New subscriber here 😊 I've always been the ''masculine'' woman without knowing. I always feel like I have to take care of everything, trying to impress and control the relationship, and men tend to step back and do the minimum effort to seduce or keep me 🤦 I struggled with that for many years, wondering what was the ''secret code'', how other women are treated like queen's without even trying... Now I believe I can enhance myself and learn how to fall into my feminine energy 🥰 Thank you sis' you're so soothing and welcoming.
Welcome to the TFU family, Ana! Thrilled to have you here. So happy you're embracing your femininity to get the life and treatment you prefer. It really does make a big difference. I'd love for you to keep us posted on your journey and how things change for you! Cheers to you 🥂💕
How is it going?
My goodness this is sooo me 😊
I never noticed until recently that I’ve received so much feminine privilege, and it’s always when I am in my most feminine self (dressed well and in clothes that make me feel pretty and soft). Men have offered to help me carry groceries out of the store or have given me free things. I try to pay kindness back when I can which I think is part of the goal.
Strategize, be conscious, purposeful and as perfect as you can be so that when ppl see less flaws they see you as attractive
Ooh and there’s one more: personality! When I just do three, it doesn’t hit as much as the four: pretty, refined, feminine, and personality.
I just turned 18 this year, and me and my mom were never cool like that and she didn't know any of these things her self. I was wondering if you could make a video on feminine behavior
Happy belated birthday, Kamelle! I'm sorry to hear about your relationship with your mom. Sometimes moms have dealt with so much we don't know about, that has affected them in ways we could never understand. So, we do our best to give them grace and try to do better for ourselves and our future families. I will absolutely be making more videos on feminine behavior. Start with this one if you haven't seen it yet: How to Be More Feminine
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Another excellent video. 🥰 It’s so uplifting and encouraging. A lot of negative people try to make women feel like once they are a certain age they should give up and go somewhere and hide but just like you said in your video, feminine privilege is and it is something that a woman can use all of her life. ❤️
Till the brakes fall off.
So true! That's why I think this is so powerful, it unlocks a lifetime of privilege 💕
I absolutely love your channel!!
Tapping into my femininity changed my world! From relationships to self love.. All drastically improved! I love me and totally love being utterly feminine.. 🥰
Thank you for showing the picture of the older lady!!! Love it
I'm glad you enjoyed that! Thanks for respectfully pointing that out to me as one of my blind spots previously!
The music,the message and the messenger.... i give it a chef's kiss.☺️☺️This is very,very fresh, unique and it intrigues my mind that I keep repeating your context on loop. Thank you. Please do the archetypes of femininity.
What an absolutely lovely comment to find! I appreciate your kind words Silvia. We will be doing a deep dive into the feminine archetypes soon!
Thank you 😊. Keep up the good work.
About more than 6 months ago, something just clicked and I've finally realized what was missing that made all other things missing or only half-fulfilled. You can't be whole if you are not whole. Neither will the other things and people come to you, recognize you.
I miss it. On a journey to rediscover femininity and what it truly is and means.
Yesterday, I went to get a haircut, dye my hair and get my nails done. Kind of failure to what I actually wanted. I cried because of the end result. I mean it's not bad. It's just not it either. What should've been. At least, in my mind. And so I cried because I felt like once again something took something away from my femininity again. But... it's a journey. And becoming pretty, feminine and behaving naturally because you feel like it - patience.
Rediscover what it truly is, what it means, what's supposed to feel like, to look like to myself and the world.
If you ask me what I miss most in the world these days, it's two things - well, one thing and one person.
It's a journey - which strangely currently feels like far away and at the same time - less than a year away. I wonder why is that.
Towards discovering my true feminine self! Towards discovering our true selves!
Yes! Your journey is absolutely in your hands, Anna! It's totally normal to get into your emotions when things don't go your way, especially when it feels like it's just one more thing out of your control. But then we shake it off and realize it's not even a page in our book, just a paragraph or maybe just a sentence. Cheers to discovering your true feminine self🥂
Your content is extremely valuable - I’ve been bingeing them since yesterday while I work! This video especially prompted me to comment because it explains why although I’m not in my best form at the moment, I receive preferential treatment from people despite not being taught the ways growing up. I’m currently working to maximise my feminine privilege so this truly gives me areas to focus and hone in on. Thank you, and I look forward to seeing more of what you have in store!
I love that you're experiencing the power of feminine privilege even with the things you mentioned! Goes to show it's more than the just the physical. It's great that you are taking control and focusing on the areas you want to work on! So glad you're enjoying the content!
More to come😘
I love your approach to this. Great video!
Thank you! Glad you enjoyed this approach, Whitney😊
This is so true. I figured if I lost weight I'd be happy and be able to dress the way I want, be a better wife, more sexual, etc. No girl!! It's the COMBINATION. Quality management is involved. 👌 I'm learning more about myself starting from reflecting on my most innocent time, my childhood. I'm reflecting on who I came from. The who meaning me because who I was is not who I am now. There's things in the works for me for sure.
Ma'am you hit the nail on the head! The combination is the most important thing - in femininity and in life. Finding that balance physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually is the only way to really show up as your highest self! Keep shining, Rachel ✨💕
I love how you phrase things.
Thank you! Glad it clicks for you 😊
Hi I'm 14 and this has helped me so much! I really want to be like you when im all grown up. I'm a big fan of you and thanks for the tips and advice!
You are so welcome, my love! Some of this advice will be useful now and some will need be stored in your mind for the future. You have it in you to blossom into a smart, happy, effective young woman! 🥂💕
I’m so happy your video popped up on my feed. I’m learning how to evolve as a woman and how to build upon my femininity, and your videos give me so much help in doing so. Thank you sis!
Yay! I'm so happy to have you here and to know these videos are helping you on your journey. Reach out any time, love 💕
I LOVE all of your videos. So relaxing and aesthetically pleasing. Not to mention they are such a good guide for me as a young girl to figure out my style and how I want to be as a woman in the future!💕🥺
I'm so glad you're finding the videos/channel, Maddy! I hope this continues to be a great resource for you throughout your journey 💕🥂
I am so happy I found this channel 🥰🥰🥰 I needed this and love your voice ❣️❣️❣️
I'm so happy to have you here, love! Thank you for the kind words. Welcome to the TFU, family 💕
Thank you so much for all of your content. Development is so exciting to me. This is all so informational. I have always been on the more masculine side of the coin. Changing my mindset, how I dress, and act all around has helped tremendously. In my relationship, career, and other aspects of my life. Choosing to be more feminine has truly changed my outlook.
Thank you 🌸
This woman! And her annunciation of pure thoughts/putting words to these ideas! A true gift! Love you sister!
This just called me out with the pretty privilege part of the end of the video. That’s exactly how so many of my friendships go. It’s easy for me to draw people in, but it’s hard to keep them. I always feel so alone. And I’m not saying this is just about pretty privilege, I am a huge perfectionist in everything I do. And I guess because of it, it makes me appear stereotypical. Because (I’m a musical theatre actress whose blonde), everyone tells me I should play Karen from Mean Girls. They mean it as a compliment, but what’s being implied, is that I’m the dumb hot blonde. Lol
I feel like im lucky finding this channel while its so new. this is so on point, thank you!!
Yay! So glad you found me. Happy to have you here 💕
I love this and I agree I have become privileged as I age because I add my femininity. Glad you are sharing this.
Yes, Sharon! That's what I like to hear! Thanks for confirming this😊
I know this was helpful. I know i will learn to manifest the looks and desires i want. I want to look good, smell good, and create the beauty that people wanna look at me and give me the life i want and desire. And i been slacking. I start and then stop. Def gonna look into coaching to help me.
Your final points on strategy are so on point - thank you for this distinct take on feminine privilege!
You're welcome, love! Glad that these points clicked for you 💕
You are so right about the Plain Jane example!! I preach this to all my girlfriends all the time 🙏🏼
I LOVE these series and I love that it’s so anonymous, also seeing all these gorgeous women of color ♥️♥️♥️I really feel everything you say,it just clicks ✨
Thank you! I love having you here! And I love that you're enjoying the channel💕
Have been binge watching your videos lately and really love this channel so much! Especially the diversity of women you show to illustrate your points on femininity. Keep up the good work!
Thank you, MJ! Welcome to the TFU family 💕
I love that too! I really appreciate you showing women in hijab 🧕 as one myself I feel included, thank you ( I’m also binge watching your videos as a new subscriber) ❤
You are so refreshing. Your videos always leave me feeling inspired and ready to level up the way I present myself in all aspects. Thanks for all you do! 💕
Thank YOU for the appreciation, Ninie! I love hearing that you feel so positively, after watching. Go get 'em, girl! 😊
That was great! Thanks for seeing how these "componants" fit together. I lumped them all together before, doing some things from some areas. I suppose we all do! Your descriptions and the way you describe this process of existing as a fully Feminine woman are very freeing and helpful. Thank you! Hidden information that helps all. I'd love to know more from your perspective of how to grow some of the Feminine qualities....incorporating softness, acceptance/receiving, changing our walk, sitting, moving through tasks/chores throughout the day. Ballet helped me, quite a bit, I'm just realizing, even though I'm not a dancer.
You got it, Kate! The hidden step is that all three parts need to be used together. We will absolutely get more into developing more of the feminine qualities. I totally get how ballet could help you. Ballet is such a good metaphor for femininity. Graceful and flowing in execution, hard work, persistence and lots of practice behind the scenes!
@@TheFeminineUniverse That is lovely to hear. Thank you so much for sharing your opinions on this very interesting and elusive topic!
This is one of the best videos I've seen about femininity. And I've been binging across various channels for about a year now.
I’m so obsessed with your channel! Your voice is so feminine 💕 and calming. Watching your videos is my type of self-love. Btw I love the women images and short clips you include. It’s inspiring and just so relatable making it easy to understand the message you are conveying
This is SUCH a wonderful video, thank you for the reminder of these three areas. I love all your content, you have a wonderful way of speaking and the information is always valuable.
Thank you so much! I'm really glad my content resonates with you 💕
OMG, I just discovered your channel and absolutely love it! Thanks
Love this channel it’s pure GOLD 🙏🏽
I can say how true this is because i have experienced this wherever I’m planted and I may not be the most attractive but so many are drawn to my feminine energy, honestly it’s just who I am.
I've found that I've been maxing out refinement & feminine mindset, so people tend to treat me like an older sister figure (which is a good thing, but I want to reap all the benefits of feminine privilege). I didn't care about looking "presentable" until recently, so I'm going to work on that next!
Brilliant yet again, your voice is so relaxing as well!!!
Thank you, Jess! You're too kind 💕
All your vids are A1 keep them coming !!
Thank you, Joy! 💕
I'm glad i found your channel ❤
I never knew about femininity,,,23 yrs old,,am glad coz I understand what it entails,,,I have been in muscline energy most of the times,,
You're so welcome here, Beth! 23 is a great age to start your journey. Hope you find a few good pointers here to help you get in touch with your feminine energy 💕 Watch this if you're interested:
How to Be More Feminine
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Good day!
I would love a full length video on improving/working on the knowledge part or bring intellectually smart part like being aware of the current affairs.. self studying.. etc
Thanks :)
Yeeeees! I was waiting for more videos T^T Love this one too💗
Thanks, Alejandra! More to come, love 💕
I love this so much!! So many gems dropped on one video
So glad you enjoyed this one, Sandra! The combination is key 😉
This channel is truly a life saver!!!!
So glad you're consistently finding the channel helpful, Andrea! Hope you've been feeling well 💕
@@TheFeminineUniverse Thank you for your kind words. I appreciate it. In a video you commented about drinking apple cider vinegar tea. Would you please post the recipe for that.
This is a wonderful video, well put together and valuable points. Thank you ❤️
This is so thoughtful. I am lucky to find you. Love from Sri Lanka ❤️
I'm happy to have you here! Sending love back to Sri Lanka💕
Love this video, love how you put the information together . Had to rewatch it again and again. Thank you so much, a great video to learn and keep on studying with.
That's awesome, Yadi! I'm so happy you found this one helpful and useful to refer back to. Get it, girl! 😘
@@TheFeminineUniverse 💕
Love this channel!❤️
Loved this!!
Hey Remi! Happy you enjoyed this one, love 😊
I love that I saw pics of some of my favourite influencers like lovecass, edwidge and Kristen❤❤
Yay! Glad you spotted some of your faves. Always feel free to drop names and timestamps if you'd like! The ladies would probably love to know (so would I 😂)
👏 👏👏Thanks I'll have to play this video on a loop, just to let it sink in.
For having made all these mistakes at the end, this video is really good! I wished it was out there at the beginning of my journey… 👏🏾
You're here now, love! Your future is bright 😘
Your voice is so soothing and I loveee the content 🙌🏼🌸
Thank you, Celia! So glad you're enjoying! It's always great to hear from you.😊
@@TheFeminineUniverse you have big growth in your future love! Keep up the good work 😘🥂
Watching again, thank you so much.
Loving your inspiration ❤️
I've recently have been looking into feminine archetype, I would LOVE to see you do some content on these, perhaps an overarching and then deep analysis of each and how max out feminine power while staying aligned to there archetype..
The motivation in this video 🔥❤️
Love that this motivated you!!
This was an excellent video! Thanks sis! 🌹
You're very welcome, love 😊
Thank you so much for this video ❤️
You are so welcome, Tata 😘
This was amazing! Thank you!
Glad it was helpful! 😊
This is so refreshing ❤❤❤
Glad you think so, Sofie! 💕
Your enunciation and voice are just lovely.
Thank you, love!
Love this thank you for sharing
☺good one
Thanks, Eve! 💕
Thank you, I loved this video! 💕
So glad you enjoyed it!
This video is very helpful and informative.
So glad you think so!
Just wondering how smart the owner of this page can be🥺…I’m so happy to have found you
Aww! I'm happy you're here! Welcome to the family, love 💕
I want more content from u gurlllll ✨✨✨
On the way, love! Thanks for the motivation 💕
How did I get stuck into watching your videos is pure coincidence, youtube great jobbb yaa
Where do you find like-minded women like this ? I live in a city in Alabama where the women are hard and mean and nasty - in their demeanor, talk , acting, cursing every minute , not taking care of themselves such as taking a daily shower or getting their nails done or wearing nice clothes .I've been trying to look moe feminine and use it to my advantage, but , I only get called a " bougie b####" ) because I won't engage to talk to these sort of women or people.
Love your content .All the way from South Africa.
Happy to have you here! Sending love to SA💕
Love from SA too 💋
Thank you!!❤️
You are so welcome!
Thank you 💕
You're so welcome!
Obsessed with this channel 💕💋
Thank you! I'm really happy to have you here, love! 💕
This 'formula' is so interesting, can you speak more about waveing those principles together?
Great video! Subscribed ❤️
Welcome to the TFU family, Natalie! 💕💕
I love your channel ❤
Can’t wait to try this out!
Yesss, Christine! You'll have to let us know how it goes 💕
Bravo!! 👏🏾
Thank you!
I love this
Please do one on how to deal with rude people In a classy way!
I've got you, Jessi!
Love this! ❤️
Thank you, love!
Thank you love this
You are so welcome!
This was useful. Thank you. New subscriber
Happy to have you here, love! Welcome to the TFU family 💕
I had to laugh at the looks being geared to making you look intentionally distressed. Never thought of them this way!
Haha - glad that made you giggle! Had to be a little dramatic to make the point. But people really wear these things. It's very interesting, to want to look distressed 🤔
I am a big fan of The Cleaning Lady. ❤That show is something else. 😂🎉
Thank u for your videos
You're welcome!