The Reason I Felt UGLY
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That's sad, people don't realize how sharp and damaging their words could be.
Yes I agree, if we were all kinder to each other especially on social media the world would be a better place. I think people don’t realise that all people celebrity, high profile or anonymous are human and have feelings. I think the word ugly is such a loaded term and so damaging. I must admit I fall into the trap as well but I working on it take care
Omg this hit home for me. My parents never said/say things that lead me to internalize beauty being equal to self worth, but it was definitely just a bunch of random instances. Boys at school were nicer to girls they found attractive. One of my friends would always jokingly call me and herself the “ugly ones” in our friend group, and once told me “we’re both going to end up getting married later in life because guys just don’t like women who look like us.” It took me a long time to unlearn all this junk but Alhamdulillah, I find so much beauty in myself that is both related and unrelated to my appearance. Thanks for making this🥺
People that do that irks me. How dare she include you in the ugly ones like… 🖕
Omg I relate!
I found it really odd when my friend said that too. And there’s actually been multiple instances where she has said basically exactly the same thing as ur friend. I don’t think it came from a bad place - but perhaps an insecure place. But I would be lying if I said it didn’t hurt me a little bit because I was being called ugly. And it also didn’t feel right that she perceived herself that way. I would never call her ugly and I also am not a fan of self deprecating jokes. It did take me a while to get over that! But like u said we need to find the beauty within us and we know ourselves better than anyone else!
Just ask the men to rate you and you'll get an objective review
I am sorry that this is what you went through. Yes, I went through similar things growing up. It’s so hard, but looking back I wish I did not take it so personally, but I guess when this message gets reinforced and there is no one to counter the message that you are “ugly” when you are young and impressionable this is what resonates. Try to find your own beauty standards, for we all can find this within ourselves. Do what makes you feel good, take care
Omggg tazzzy why are you so good!!! I love everything you say it’s so on point and how in the world the edits you add are like so right! Loved the old pics. You are beautiful and it’s fun to know who is trash from the get go. Saves time!
my first impression of you was "wow what a funny, intelligent, gorgeous woman". I am not muslim myself, yet watching your videos has always made me feel inspired and SO HAPPY, and has made me reflect on how my spirituality is in line with other religions/spiritualities. I have also been burned by fake hippies. Keep going, you are amazing!
also, these topics are NOT superficial. WOMEN DESERVE TO EXPRESS THEIR EXPERIENCES, and have commentary of their experience in relation to social expectations (from American culture but also from family/Religion culture)
Its shocking for me that Tazzy felt ugly because in my eyes she is very beautiful both internally and externally. Sad how society makes all women feel incomplete and ugly at one point of their life. I hope yall queens are taking care of yourself♡♡
Couldn't have said it better myself. Thank you for this comment ❤
Great video ❤️
WHOLESOME!!!!!! just wholesome
Everything you said actually shocked me because i think you're a natural beauty mashAllah lol as an asian woman myself i understand everything you said tho. People are cruel for no reason smh i remember being bullied by a girl about my acne when she herself had acne but hers was less? Its like they try to kick others down before someone else can do it to them? God i hate people lol
It reminds me of white people laughing at our body hair. I remember being bullied as a child by white Dutch girls who yelled that I had hair on my arms. I was surprised, I never noticed it. But during lunchbreak we were all outside and in the sunlight those same white Dutch girls had entire woods of thick blond hair on their own arms. One of them even had thick blond hair on her cheeks. I don't have that much hair on my body and even if I did, it should not be okay to bully me or anyone over something like that. I never said anything about their own body hair, because I didn't like arguments. Now I think I should have said something so they would realise how ridicilous their bullying was.
My son also gets remarks over his body hair. Even some of his friends do this. He once pointed out that they had the same amount of body hair as he. They replied:"Yes, but your hair is dark so it is ugly and ours is blond." I will never understand the "logic" of racist bullies.
@@Ksahdia wow! That’s sad :/
Gosh why can’t everyone just be nice
@@Ksahdia I'm so sorry you went through that. I'm Dutch but somehow don't look Dutch at all (dark wavy hair, thick eyebrows, mustache, you know the deal haha) and I felt the same way growing up. When I was 11 the whole class was laughing about a guy breaking up with my friend because her arms were too hairy?? That made me worried because my arms were 'even worse', and I remember going home and asking my mom how on earth I could get rid of my arm hair so the same thing wouldn't happen to me. I've been waxing my arms ever since 😅 The thing is I'm not even THAT hairy, but growing up with all these blonde kids made me feel so weird about my dark hair
@@noodlesmetzout Isn't it terrible how cruel even children can be towards each other over something like body hair? I often heard racist people say that only Turkish females or only Indian females are hairy, sometimes they mention Greeks or Italian females too. But everyone has body hair. And if someone has more hair or has black body hair, why they feel the need to put that person down is beyond me. You and your friend didn't commit any crimes, you just have hair on your body like most females on the planet.
Sorry to hear all this. People are awful. Let us teach our children better so they don't have to suffer like we did 💪
That sabar pic in the background is all that you need.... love your content:)
Women's worth is beyond what we look like. People are rude and nasty and superficial.
Tasneem you've only gotten more beautiful after marriage, because your happiness makes you glow. That is what matters, your happiness
it is so sad that a beautiful person from the inside and out is saying this. i have been watching your videos for a while and of course that doesn't make me know you 100% but what i see is a wonderful, beautiful and caring person. 💞💞💞
I love your face btw
Your eyes are lovely and so expressive
just as a start
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You’re part of an ethnic and religious minority, you had no chance from the get go as you didn’t fit with their beauty standards while in Pakistan, you would be beautiful. It’s even more sad when people from your own community won’t see you as beautiful from internalized racism and colorism. As someone said, I’m not ugly, I’m just born in the wrong country. 😁 I thank god I had very loving parents who taught me I’m beautiful and my culture is something I should be proud of. If I depended on society for that, I would have never learned to love myself. 🇩🇿❤️🇵🇰
Why did she say that she looks like Elizabeth Moss or Ellen de Generes? She looks ethnic like Iranian and Arab or Pakistan but chooses Europeans as her lookalike, isn't that strange? She should be proud of her ethnicity instead of doing that.
@@user-lv4ov5rp6d because the people that she was having the meeting don't know Arab/iranian/pakistani celebrities
This comment right here, is pure facts.
@@user-lv4ov5rp6d she looks like a Syrian. If I had to guess her origins. Interesting how Pakistanis look very west Asian.
@@taka-taktak honestly I’m Pakistani and look straight up Pakistani. I think it’s just tasnim who looks very west Asian
tbh this is a huge reason why I would love to wear a niqab sometimes. Just not giving anyone the oppurtunity to look at my face - even if it is just my face - and not letting them rate it, define it for themselves as what they personally perceive as pretty or ugly. Isn't this ridiculous? For a woman it doesn't even need to be about the body, even just her face is enough for someone to treat you in a different way depending on what you look like (not just when 'ugly', but there is also pretty privilege) or change the way you think about yourself and make you throw what the closest people around you, who love you think about you in the trash for an opinion of a stranger that has seen nothing of your soul. It's really ridiculous to me. Even with only my face and hands showing people comment about my looks and treat me differently without even knowing me or waiting to get to know me, and every woman is familiar with this. I can't speak for men, but isn't it amazing (in a negative way) how for a woman even if it's just the face they can see and rate, it immediately becomes the representation of her whole being?
Thanks, girl for making this video and raising some important questions❤
Yes true. Thanks for the thought provoking comment. The problem is once you wear niqab in a culture where that isn’t the norm, people are going to bring a whole ton of prejudicial assumptions to the interaction before you even open your mouth to speak. So for me it would be totally counterproductive. In the age of COVID though you can wear a mask and achieve the same effect without the baggage that comes with niqab.
Yes I agree, there is too much judgement placed on your appearance, in fact sometimes it is the assumptions that people make that hurt the most. I can understand where you are coming from
Wouldn't a niqab have the same effect as your face like you'll be judged anyways but it would shift on this ? Even outside of racist reasons you would be evaluated not on your face but the fabric you put in front of it ? Idk if people judge your face i don't see how they wouldn't judge a niqab too regardless of if they see it as a positive or negative ?
I just wonder how that would really be different in the end... I feel like we can hide anything we want, live by any external pressures too and that it would never be enough and that sometimes the only solution is to resist and state your limits or ignore other people's judgment i guess. But we don't have the same background and experiences so that's easy to say i guess
Your gorgeous! Jealous ppl are going to hate
Girl, you have beauty and brain! You are super talented! I remember watching your videos like 6 or 7 years ago, and I was like ‘man why can't I be like her?’ those people who called you names are jealous!
agreed💓💓💓
your feelings are wrong ,you're not ugly.
i recently watched a video by stephco on pretty privilege and it really hit home for me. especially about how even if i put in effort into my clothes or makeup, im still not anywhere near conventional beauty standards. being taller than the average woman (5'11) and now leaning towards the plus size section after quarantine weight gain has really been messing with my head. i even feel dysmorphic sometimes when i look in a mirror, like the image of myself i have in my head doesn't match what i see in the mirror anymore and i always get taken aback. now that we are reintegrating and having more social events with friends, feeling ugly in my body seems inevitable especially when im surrounded by other women that are effortlessly beautiful and fashionable. so yeah you're not alone :)
As a five foot woman, let me tell u I’m a little envious of that height. And I find it very beautiful! What I mean to say is - u may perceive certain things as “unconventional” but it may still very well be beautiful. Embrace urself , ur height, and every other part of u. I know that’s def easier said than done, but keep at it!
@@livelovelaugh6405 thanks i appreciate it :)
This really resonated with me. I recently found out that my MIL thinks I'm ugly and it was so mortifying. I wouldn't mind if she thought I was average but ugly is such a harsh word. She always wanted someone white passing for her son (tall, straight hair, fair skinned) and while I'm not dark, I look very 'ethnic' and have curly hair. I always thought I was at least average so this has made me feel exactly as you did, as though I never saw reality clearly.
; - ; that is so sad. I can't believe that someone this close to you thinks that way. Sometimes, it is also an internalised hatred for one's own race/ethnic features. I believe more ethnic features should be considered beautiful too ;n;
Thank you for being so open about your insecurities. That's very brave of you. You are beautiful. I love your almond shaped eyes and them eyebrows be on fleek. For real.. if I don't draw in my eyebrows I look expressionless. Thank you for your videos! Love you girl!
it breaks my heart to hear that the comments of that collab brought that kinda hurt in your life :/ its where i first saw you and then subbed to you!! cuz i thought you were so pretty and funny
GIRL...your'e freaking pretty . Im not even lying . ❤❤❤ great video btw .
Thank you for keeping it real as always. As a teenager I also truly believed that I was ugly, and that therefore I had no use as a person. I believed that I was disgusting just because of how I looked. This idea came from only a couple of bullies but I just did not have the self esteem to disagree.
In hind sight, the thing that upsets me most is how attractiveness is somehow equated to worth as a person just like you pointed out. On the bright side, I do get the idea that this notion is slowly starting to change in society.
I’ve always felt ugly as much as people have said otherwise. Sometimes I think if it’s if I’m so ugly people just tell me that to comfort me. But I started to think why the hell does it matter. Why do I care if I’m pretty or ugly it might be on other peoples agenda some ppl only like pretty people pretty provelage etc but that’s on them. If they judge people on appearance that’s their problem. And being ugly wonts stop me from pursuing my dreams, being ugly won’t make my life shorter or the air I breathe more polluted but rather instilling an insatiable desire to be pretty will pollute my head. I’ve come to the conclusion I look ok and I don’t need to be pretty to be kind or pretty or smart. Yes it’s difficult and I’m not positive about it 24/7 but you know what who cares.
@@laylaturner8887 I'm so proud of you. Everyone has some good features. Some people are immensely beautiful, some people are immensely smart, some people are immensely good at fixing things, some people are immensely funny, some people are immensely good at talking convincingly, some people are immensely adorable (not the appearance; it is their character. Once, they start talking, love for them pours out of your soul and you do not know how to express your love for them), some people are immensely good at understanding other people and what goes through their head etc. Everyone has something great about themselves. The thing is that the media pushed those immensely beautiful into the center and the other good features others have seemed to be less relevant. Everyone started to get plastic surgery or makeup to the point that you, as a normal person, started to appear ugly. Allah is al-Jamal and Allah shows its name in everything. By society standards, you may not be beautiful, but for Allah you definitely are and as your muslim sister, you are beautiful in my eyes too. Look at the woman now who changed themselves. Same nose, same lips, same boobs, same butt, same clothes, but you refused to be like them and you chose uniqueness. Haha and tbh, you know what? While everyone will look trash and disgusting when they get older, you will still appear normal, innocent and young, because you didn't damage your face and body as much as they did.
And don't you think that those natural grannies look much more sweeter and wiser than those grandmas with a full botoxed face and makeup?
Your comment was so sweet and honestly made my day. Jazakallah for your comment.
@@laylaturner8887 Wa antum fa jazakum Allahu khayr ❤🤗
Calling people ugly just makes some people feel good about themselves. Being a beautiful human being is more important. you're all-natural and beautiful.
With all this unrealistic standards lately, it gets worse. Now genuinely loving your image is rare.
I really needed this video thanks.
this video made me cry because it hit so close home, but i’m so happy that i found someone that shares my thoughts
You are making my world even brighter Tasneem, thank you for existing ♥️ byeeee)))
Tasneem I’ve been following you for years and trust me when I say this: I have NEVER thought you were ugly. I’ve always looked at you a sometime who is witty, smart and funny. Who cares what losers have to say. You’re beautiful inside AND OUT ❤️
The point of this video is that sometimes sharing your struggles is what leads to that light bulb moment, either for yourself or for others, and I thank you without measure for sharing. In the words of Khalil Gibran, your pain is the breaking of the shell that encloses your understanding.
It's kind of a relief to know that we are not alone, that there are others who struggle with such issues just the same as you do, but I'm so angry that our self-imposed isolation in this suffering is so widespread. Why are we not taught to trust in the love that Allah has for us, and how to honour that love, for real? We have a duty to do better for our daughters and our daughters' daughters, to nourish their hearts as well as their bodies, to embody kindness but take no shit from anyone.
I really appreciate this video. I too think about the line between looking presentable and socially acceptable vs being too wrapped up in my appearance.
Tasneem, your vulnerability is your asset 💖
if you wrote a book i would read it
You are honestly so beautiful, you have the prettiest eyes msA. Not only are you beautiful but you are intelligent, humble, real, and very funny. I hope the years ahead have goodness in store for you, many blessings and ease, ameen.
YES! ELIZABETH MOSS EYES!
You do look like penelope cruz!!!!!!!!!!! (MashaAllah)
I love, love, love, love, love your videos. They resonate so much with me and I appreciate you being so frank.
i'm honestly so glad i found your channel, you're an absolutely beautiful person inside and out, super intelligent and funny and a delight to watch, please keep making videos as they're now my favourite 🥰
You radiate beauty! Thanks for sharing your experience with beauty standards and maintaining the ‘thin ideal’. You are brave and brilliant.
Fav youtuber! Your words are always on point ماشاء الله♥️♥️♥️
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Trust me you are beautiful!
People commented on my appearance, I had some that told me that I wasn't the prettiest girl when I was younger but at the same time some people told me that I was beautiful especially with my big curly hair. I am in my thirties now nothing can affect me. You don't have to be the most beautiful person to shine, it's your personality that attracts people
Tasneem I felt this esp because I think the place you were at in the past is really where I am at now. A 17 y/o girl who really hates so many of her ethic features. Thank you for putting this out, I really needed it
It's funny because the first time i've seen a thumbnail of yours my reaction was "she's so pretty". Idk if it's that superficial to care for our own looks but i would rather look at it like a potential waste of time. And by that i mean that everyone should be comfortable with putting the amount of time that they want/have towards it. F.a. i love fashion but i don't have time for make up or even more than a one step skin care and i don't care.
Wow yea I do see the p Cruz
Tazzy is so pretty please. Whoever thought she was ugly was just insecure. Drop the names, Tazzy. We'll handle them 😤
I know that me saying this might not have much value but I've always felt that you're gorgeous both inside and out so don't forget it... Also, really appreciate you talking about topics like this... I 100% relate to everything you said, and for me the judgements have moulded the low esteemed quiet person that I am today... I definitely care less and have started changing my thinking as well but I doubt that I'll ever be the louder or bubblier kid I once was even if I stop caring about other people's judgements
I can relate to everything you said. It took me a while to snap out of my insecurities. You are beautiful in and out. Stay strong.🙌🏼
Tasneem, thank you for this video!
hands down favourite youtuber
Thank you for being real Tazzy. You are beautiful, inside and out❤
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Dang girl you are absolutely beautiful. I feel like people are definitely projecting their insecurities onto you. Pay them no mind!!
OH MY GOD, I REMEMBER THAT SKIT WITH YOU, JAS, AND CODY. I REMEMBER SEEING AND WAS LIKE WOAH I WONDER IF SHE"S A RUclipsR AND NOW ALL THESE YEARS LATER I FIND OUT THAT WAS YOU. IM SPEECHLESS DAMN
YOU ARE VERY VERY VERY BEAUTIFUL. NOT A COMPLIMENT!
Girll you soo funny and honest. Love your channel and you are beautiful ❤️
This makes me so sad because I would watch you around that time and literally think you were so beautiful and I wish I could look like you 😭❤️
Thank you for making this video Tasneem. I dont feel so alone in what I feel anymore. You are incredibly beautiful Masha Allah.
your actually pretty
🙌🏾🙌🏾
Ok but you actually do look like Penelope Cruz 😳
I love where ur going with this. Ur beyond beautiful Tazzy. It really is all about perspective and how u see urself. Fuck what people think.
I think you are really pretty
Love these topics lately. Deep for thought
I'm surprised her headscarf hasn't came off yet
Can't believe how people are that horrible - you're very brave for putting yourself out there, not because of how you look, but because of those heartless people. It's harder, as you said, for women to distance ourselves from beauty standards - we don't have to be pretty, always, that's a fact. Thank you for your insight (and you're beautiful) !
Frankly, ehat attracted me to your vids first was how pleasant you looked.. and how you reminded me of a friend (not a celebrity 🤣) whom i think of as pretty too..
How ever, in the spirit of talking about ugliness, might I suggest that you wear warmer tones? Pastel green isn't great to olive skinned people lol. Bright pastels in general
This video hit deep! I loved it! And you are beautiful!! MashaAllah TabarakAllah ❤️❤️
Thanks for sharing this, may Allah make it easy for us all and allow us to see what is important in this life.
I have a lot of scars on my skin and I used to be insecure about it. I stopped wearing tons of make up to cover it all up. Now that i have kiddos i see myself differently. I love my children and would hate for them to hate the way they look. I see my self through the eyes of God or try to... and now I love my skin. It isn't perfect but it's mine. I feel my value is worth more than this temporary body.
Hey Tazzy, you're such a gem- I LOVE watching your videos and what you have to say. Its a perfect combination of funny, serious and VERY relatable content, I end up having a HUGE smile while watching your videos. Thank you for that
I love listening to you tazzy. Normally o don’t watch “long” videos but yours I love ❤️
And it takes so much courage to talk about this. And you address a topic that is present in my life as well. Thank you ❤️
Your videos are always so well articulated, thank you for voicing these thoughts.
I love your content , your humour, your perspective and your beauty ! I am so sorry there are low and evil people out there that made you feel less than. Masha Allah look at you now sis living your best life. Thank you for sharing your experiences.
This video is the most powerful one i've seen from you. I'm surprised and heartbroken...this world is so strange. I felt what you described before and it was one of the worst feelings i've felt in my entire life. Now what really surprised me is that YOU did too. I've always admired your wide eyes and your Pakistani features. The only thing i have to say now is الحمدلله that i'm where I am now and i wish you're out of that dark place too 💞 thank you
that instagram picture of yours you mention - my instinct reaction when it popped up was : wow, she looks so beautiful there.
You are not ugly
As my 2 year old niece would say, "You beau!" And not just because you have beautiful features (because you do, m'A) but because you are incredible and have come so far, Alhumdulillah.
I’m roughly the same age as tasneem and have been going through this exact same problem! (I too, have grown into my face lol) Tasneem, I appreciate you and this video alhumdulillah. I know there’s a lot of people out here who can relate. Keep doing what you’re doing ♥️
I love your channel. Keep up the great work!
I agree with everything you've said in this video and it's a very important issue. Because of social media women and men start questioning their looks and start to feel really insecure. I'm 2 months post partum and I've already heard the term "bounce back" or snap back like wtf does that even mean. Why is physical appearance the most important thing to focus on??? What about the child that the women just produced!!!! I remember that video you did where you talked about how ppl called you ugly in the comments and it made me soooo mad, like ppl don't have any sensitivity, they just say whatever the hell they want to on social media. Also, who is saying you gained weight??? You look beautiful!
It is interesting that even newborn babies have a perception of beauty. That's undeniable fact. But the truth is unfortunately we often get stuck in this primitive forms of beauty. We are ugly or beautiful for some standards.
But let me tell you how I see you;
Your conversation is beautiful
Your sense of humor is beautiful
Your contents are beautiful
You are already beautiful with your energy
And I am really glad to see your beauty😊
Thank you for sharing your experience ❤️
Amazing, poignant content as always Tazzy! You've always been beautiful Tazzy, inside and out. I've been following you for a looong while. People who say mean things are channeling their own insecurities.
Islam made you beautiful just like Islam made me beautiful alhamdulill'Allah
I'm soo happy to hear that you are in. Much better place..
One things that is much better than beauty is confident..
Confident is sexy..
to add to this, i feel like desi aunties and family members also have a huge role to play in this sometimes. some of the catalysts for insecurity were comments made by an aunty or a family member. Comments on weight or nose shape or even dressing sense. its annoying and theres only so much you can handle until it starts to bother you.
I can totally agree my sister is more conventionally prettier than me ma’sha’Allah she is always praised for her looks and it really makes me feel insecure about mine (I’m 18) my family always mention her looks and it just makes it a little harder for me to ignore
Whaat, I always thought you're very attractive looking with big beautiful eyes and a symmetrical, photogenic face.
I love watching your videos, they always let me into a new way of seeing things and provide a much deeper understanding of societal norms. I think its important for everyone to recognise that we do indeed live in a superficial society because that's the first step to addressing the issue.
I think the first day I found your channel and I watched about 8-10 of your videos, I was like this girl is so cool and of course the definition of beauty depends on people’s levels of awareness of the world.
Nah don't let anyone put you down you beautiful Tazzy! MashAllah Allahumma baarik laha
I don't want to downgrade someone but people with these superficial standards are dumb shits themselves. They don't have half of your wit, humor, and intelligence. You have a personality that radiates, Taz. Even the prettiest will get old and no one will care how they look. Great personalities and habits transform the nations, they make societies. Beauty guarantees nothing. Not saying you are not beautiful but honestly, if you were fake or snooty, I wouldn't have come here. I am here because of your realness, no drama, no show-off. Only a genuine person💕
OmG not Elizabeth Moss. Penelope Cruz though. Yes you do
Wow, every one of my thoughts re this topic articulated better than I ever could - thank you for this Tasneem. Think this is my favourite video of yours!
Thank you for making this video. I think I indirectly needed this because I too growing up have had similar experiences but it was more implicit treatment due to colorism. What I have come to learn with time though is that the most important thing is self love. How I see myself is what matters most!! My beliefs and how I feel is what makes a difference. Learning to let go of individuals, experiences, and things who make you feel any type of way is crucial. Remove all negativity and free yourself. Hurt people hurt people and people always project onto others so in the end, take good care of yourself. You have to do what genuinely makes you feel good about yourself and focus on all that brings happiness to your heart. Beauty is internal and that blissful sense of self worth is found within. We must give that gift of self confidence to ourselves. ✨
You are beautiful, both from the inside and from the outside. Your eyes are pretty and your smile is lovely.
I think that people who aren't evil, have something extra beautiful in their appearance, even if their features might not be perfect according to the standards of their times. I've seen many evil people with perfect features, who still had something ugly. At first, I didn't understand why, but then I saw their nasty side and I realised that their evil character made them ugly. When you are a good person from the inside, you have extra beauty in your appearance. It makes you beautiful even if you might not have the perfect features and if you do have perfect features, your beautiful character only enhances those. Behaviour and intentions are linked to your looks and appearance..
I remember when you talked about this in the past. I'm so glad you are out of it. And btw, you are so beautiful❤️
i feel ugly wearing hijab but I know I should wear it for Allah
It's clear that you had quite the glow up throughout the years. But I mean like everybody else. I know that you certainly don't want to hear cheesy lines telling you that you're gorgeous no matter what people might say. But still I find you beautiful and it's mostly based on your personnality. Most important is that you do you. And gurl you're shining hard
Ducking wow, the first thing I thought when I saw you was “damnnnn, she’s insanely beautiful “. I hope you internalize this comment and not the negative ones. I’d kill for your big beautiful eyes and soft features
I have never been more insecure in my life then rn b/c of the shaadi scene. Rishtas coming in and not feeling confident is a big thing . Esp b/c the grooms mom is the one who sees the pics first. I , personally find it damaging to my mental health soooo I decided to just take a break from it all. I wonder if others feel the same
This really hit home for me recently. I never saw myself as pretty growing up but gradually, I accepted that I am beautiful the way I am bc Allah created me that way. However, I've gained weight for the past 7 years (after being relatively skinny throughout my adolescent years) and even more so since the pandemic started. I've now moved back home with my parents and with it, came out comments about how I'm now fat and wouldn't be able to find a boyfriend or husband smh. It really hurt my feelings seeing as these comments were coming from people I love. Years of learning to love my body and face felt like it was nothing. I wished I didn't care but I do anyway. And Tasneem, you are so beautiful inside and out mashaAllah
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