Ex-Lover of Wannabe Pilot Obsessed with Gabby Petito Goes Missing | Maddi Kingsbury Case Analysis
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- Опубликовано: 9 май 2024
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Do not EVER accept physical violence in your relationships.
You CANNOT fix them.
amen.
That goes for BOTH sexes.
@@chrisjones6496 of course
@@chrisjones6496obviously. Why even mention this?
@@elianazuniga6541 Actually the top comment should read both physical AND verbal abuse should not be tolerated at all. I mention both sexes because a lot of men (especially young ones) are embarrassed to speak up or leave a toxic relationship because they think it makes them look weak. It’s obviously a huge sign of strength to get out of a bad situation. I find domestic violence extremely disgusting and cowardly and therefore all the comments here obvious. However perhaps some might need some reinforcement knowing it’s ok to be a man and seek help and that it’s not a sign of weakness. In fact for anyone leaving a toxic relationship they should be praised and admired for their strength. What’s obvious to you might not be obvious to another person. Obviously.
You know the killer f'ed up when Dr. Grande says "that's pretty much it for exculpatory evidence." 😂
Yup.
Grande is right about this one.
be critical towards everyone, some people are flat and without emotions :/ …
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Very true 😂
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Never tell them they should not hit you again, just leave.
yep!!! Mental abuse too, so hard to spot if your young.
Agree. She failed to recognize
or at least believe real danger signals unfortunately, but Dr. Grande being a professional did see them. 😢
I couldn’t like this comment enough.
Also don’t do a dramatic confrontation. If ever there was an appropriate time to ghost your ex, this is it
@@jackiekjono it is tempting to telll them you have won but actions are better and safer by leaving.
Never tell them! Get out when they go to work. Or won’t be home. Tell no one!!
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Or you could just not murder people
You can't Trace a Vendetta. It's Nature for a Beast
Totally, I helped a friend bolt over a weekend once. Just a few close friends helped out.
@@1stdebunker not true! I’ve done it!
_Never_ stay with someone who lays a hand on you.
NEVER!!!
Yep if you stay it means you welcome the next time it happens.
@@Itsjcold0
It does not. Stop putting the responsibility on the victim.
@@Itsjcold0what year where you born
@@ilonakarlsson537who has the responsibility to leave an abusive relationship then? The abuser sure isn't going anywhere. Putting the responsibility to leave on the person being abused isn't a form victim blaming. People have to be responsible for protecting themselves. No one else will protect you.
Thank you so much for being so empathetic to Maddie. The only safe way to leave someone who has put their hands on you is either with no warning or in a group setting. Like "only go back to get your stuff with a police escort" group setting. She cared for him so much that she wanted to be honest with him that she was leaving, and now their two kids won't have either parent around anymore.
Even then they can still come get you if they know where you are
The "technology expert" rips the cameras out of the drywall to remove the SD cards . . .
And he thought turning off location services would do the trick as well.
If I disappear, my spouse killed me. Like, that's the kind of a hunch that you should listen to 😵💫
I always wonder why they risk going back to a clear and present danger. we are flawed us humans.
@@ShraddaNichesome are afraid to leave. It does trigger many abusers when they get abandoned.
@@ShraddaNiche humans love the drama
@@geraldfriend256staying clearly didn't work either
@@geraldfriend256I see many comments like the above and get annoyed at how much they just don’t get it. These men are misogynistic murderers. She DID leave. That’s WHY she’s dead. Like Nicole Simpson and I’ve always thought that Gabby Petito must’ve finally told Laundry it was over ….
Oh Lord. These dark relationships are so sad. Narcissism is really running amok in the world 😢
Yes untreated mental illness
Instead of pathologising 'the world' with narcissism, it'd be more helpful to acknowledge that there just isn't enough mental health services available to support people with psychological issues that prevent them from being able to have functional relationships.
It’s been like this since dawn of times. Glad we all are waking up and confronting
people also need to be held accountable for not wanting to self improve or look towards supports when offered.
The only types of people who entertain narcissists are those with unresolved issues and toxicity themselves.
Narcissism may be running amok, but there are always fools that will bend over for them & create offspring with them who will more than likely become narcissists or suffer from other psych issues.
The cycle never stops and that's because many adults rather become victims or play the victim than do the work to become a healthy adult and choose better partners & father's/mothers for their innocent kids.
How sad. Those poor little children Lost both their parents ! May she Rest Easy 🙏
They lost their mother, a father like him is better not to have in the first place.
I'm sure they are better off without their father and I hope a member of Maddie's family will get custody of the children.
When one parent is a possessive, abusive, murderous monster, it's never sad that the children lost both parents, only sad that they lost the parent who was the victim.
@roya340 She picked him to be their father. She had a hand in bringing this male into their lives.
The decisions and actions of two toxic adults led to offspring and then led to them not having stability nor parents. The only victims are the kids.
@@alexialira3839 I agree,🙏🙏
This is so sad 😢 the poor lady and kids.
She seems like a really nice person that's smart and conscientious. She cared too much for this loser.
@@Kinann smart?
@@mikehunt6160 Yeah. Smarter than him. SHE was the breadwinner. He couldn't be bothered.
"He keeps telling me to shut up..." ~ Gabby Petito
This is heartbreaking!
@@bthomson heartbreaking and haunting I can't ever unhear that😔
They were both toxic people. That's why they got together and stayed together.
Not sure why people gloss over the fact that she'd abuse him frequently too.
Neither should have been with the other nor with anyone else until they got mental help or at least matured. But they did and look how it ended.
I don't see either as a victim of the other. They were both crazies.
Which is crazy cause one of them was the victim of MURDER.@@alexialira3839
@alexialira3839 So that makes it okay that he murdered her?
More children left without parents now 🥺😡
I'm sure they'll miss their father of the year
Right and people wonder why "this generation blah blah blah"
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Boy, that last sentence sums up the last chapter of their relationship. It’s very sad when women can’t see evil in an ex even when it right in front of them. If they put their hands around your neck, it’s only a matter of time. That’s the one common theme on killer spouses’ news shows.
Women can't even see evil in the men they choose. All that gets em wet is the sight of a tall rich heartthrob. Blind and dumb!
Adam is a dim bulb if he would be oblivious to the fact that he would be suspect #1 and put under a microscope
I don’t think he cared, some guys see it as “if I can’t have her nobody can”
@@ingwopwetrustThat’s very true. There are also guys that believe they can outsmart everyone and get away with murder, literally.
And he truly thought his statement about Petito would fly as a “joke”.
I fail to see any humor in his statement, it sounds like someone who gets in trouble for something they said and try to cover by saying “it was only a joke”.
Even with traceable electronics CCTV. People think they are smarter than the devices. I get early 00s. But these days its downright stupid.
What was gained?
Mourning family and children with neither parent.
Poor lady could not escape this treacherous beast.
Except in the Missy Bevers & Liz Barazza cases… still unsolved and both had tons of video footage
People need to quit harming one another. It's a shame.
From personal experience with a sociopathic malignant narcissist (formally diagnosed in 2005), she did NOT willingly "tell" him that she was in another relationship. I guarantee you that he got in her face and FORCED it out of her ... then became full of rage and planned her elimination. I experienced this myself, and it was only AFTER hours of demanding interrogation that I told him (now ex) I wanted out permanently. We have 4 children together ... and he still threatens to kill me to this day (10+ years after our separation). I don't believe for one minute that she told him to rub it in his face .... absolutely no way!!!
You're right! She definitely wasn't like, "honey, sit down, I have something to tell you...."
That or he was tracking her, stalking her, going thru her stuff and he put it together himself. Been there too. Even when you’ve never cheated, you’re always a cheater, always the one needing checked up on. It’s torture.
You found this out after having 4 kids with him? Maybw more women should use birth control and leave sooner so there’s no “forcing info out”. Bc you’re just gone.
@user-fi6dc8dw9f yes ... we went to years of counseling after baby #2, and that's when I found out what a malignant narcissist was for the first time. I thought I could help him change because I was young and ... dumb honestly. Narcissists will never change because it's part of their personality. Also, I learned in counseling to never blame a victim for not leaving soon enough ... clearly, you've never been in that position. Good for you.
@@yonikki'young & dumb' is used over & over again
That licensed plate dodge says it all!
Dr Grande your consistency can’t be overstated & your dry humor is so enjoyably understated - The perfect daily dose.
You’ll have my children and you will be a loyal partner
I don’t care what plans you had - you dedicating yourself to our children
Now
@@Legendary_ArchfiendI think you should take your meds
Yes,but who are supporters of this killer?
Very hard to move far enough away when you have kids and a job without the abuser getting wind of it. So sad she didnt escape this predatory monster. Poor children too!
I just don't get people who want to constantly track someone and always have to know exactly where someone is and who they are talking to. Seems incredibly exhausting. I could see doing it for a week if you think you are being cheated on and have children, but constantly, no. It's time to go. Rip Maddi. God bless her child and family.
Control is the name of the game for abusers .. always trying to control others while having very little self control
I agree. Just break up and move on, there are billions of people in the world.
@@Jess-kn8vl Sometimes it's very difficult if there is financial abuse and children involved. They are going to smear you and make you look crazy. CPS is going to believe them. Especially if the narc is the mother.
That is because they are up to no good and get paranoid that you're doing the same thing. Self-righteousness can really make a person twisted. Double standards are a common issue as well.
I'm still laughing at "Squirt Monsters 2" 😂
Same😂
Yep 😂😂😂😂
Same👍👍👍👍👍
Yeah I paused it and went to a website where I could get a more, ahem, in depth view of the person under discussion.
The judge must have watched and enjoyed squirt monsters 2 to give that demon lady 10 years for what she did
Dr Grande is like the father I never had 😅
❤ true that. If you ever saw him and his wife, you would want them to be your parents.
He won't diagnose you, but he will speculate who your mother was!
I'm just waiting for mine to come home from the shops with the milk. The waiting line must be crazy, it's been 15 years!
Any day now...
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I wanna thank you guys for generating an interesting dialogue ☺️
Poor Maddie had to be just Terrified! And her Innocent Children have lost their Mother, because of their Father!! Heartbreaking!🥀🥀🥀🙏🙏🙏💔💔💔🕊️🕊️🕊️
She picked him😂😅😝
Father??? Sperm supplier only!!
@@HiNickCares Yes us human being aren't perfect. He doesn't have the right to murder her which is why he was arrested.
@@jackieblue1267 Uh, pick a non-murderer to be your boyfriend!
@@HiNickCares Well she didn't know he was a murderer did she? If everyone could avoid evil people we wouldn't be reading about this type of thing.
He was so lazy he couldn't even dig a hole.
I was thinking about this watching true crime with bm killing bw. The black men never ever buried the body. Heck they don’t even move the body, lol, they just leave the dead body.
One coward being the idol of another... sad!
I appreciate your analysis, Dr. Grande!
Hi everyone, Dr. grande is great !!! even giving us something on a Sunday
He uploads everyday of the week, and we look forward to it. Have A Wonderful Weekend ✌️
I'm angry that the authorities had so many chances to put this man away, and failed. The same goes for Brian Laundrie. Two women would still be alive if only the law took DV seriously. But no, they don't do anything until it's far too late.
same happened with Nicole Brown Simpson , useless authorities did nothing even with all her evidence of abuse , we all know how it ended with that psycho o j
Very sad case! It's unfortunate Maddi couldn't escape from the abusive relationship.
She chose not to leave, women need to stop rewarding these despicable men's behaviour.
Dr. Grande,
Can you do a video analyzing people who feel the need to reply “First!” on RUclips vids?
Perhaps you could do a humorous video with a bunch of short answers to oddball requests you get
My favorites are those people who are so overzealous that they post the typo "Frist!"
I miss Dr. G’s RUclips shorts
I love these ideas 😂
@@dicedrice7216😂🤣😅
I'm FIRST!! 😅🤣😂
What a pleasant surprise to find a new video from Dr. Grande. Excellant, as usual.
Yes indeed. Clever analysis!
Ummm, surprised? Were you being ironic?
Dr Grande puts out a new video every single day without fail, and has done so for many years.
He is as dependable as his daily video release is predictable, and good on him for being one of the hardest working youtubers out there!
@@piotrekszczepanski5125 Yes, I was being ironic. 🙂 I look forward to his frequent uploads.
Apologies for my comment then.
More and more people online don't seem to understand the concept of irony, I'm glad that we both do. 😁
@@piotrekszczepanski5125You're so kind dear👌🏻❗
Dr. Grande, I learn a lot from your Analysis, every time! And I love that shirt!
I think you might need to see a psychologist about that cactus obsession you got, doc.
So dry 🙃
Doc, thank you for another fascinating video! As one of your #1 fans for years; I have a request. I sometimes think about the short you made with your wife where you wished her a happy birthday and wedding anniversary and said, "long term relationships may be a lot of work, but they pay high dividends". If at all possible, could you please, Pleeaasse make a video speculating, of course, 😊what makes a long-term relationship successful? Is it similar interests and personalities? Can two people really just naturally be a great fit for one another? What is the key to a successful relationship/marriage? I know so many people who are divorced, unhappy with their partners, and have often been told, nothing lasts. I would love to know your thoughts on this topic. Thank you doctor Grande and congratulations on all your success !❤❤❤
As someone from southern Minnesota.. I haven’t heard most of this information. I think parents are hiding a lot.
I followed this from Iowa when it popped on the news. She seems like such a nice person, sorry to see she couldn’t walk away soon enough. This dude is a real pos.
Dr. Grande, I am interested in your analysis of Max Azzarello. He was the man that self immoalted outside of the courthouse.
Another very sad case. Excellent analysis, quips, lessons. Too bad some people can't get away sooner from an abusive partnership. Thanks Dr G😊💙💙
I just watched a 48 hours here on RUclips yesterday about this case. So sad. So senseless. Thanks for doing this one Dr Grande! ❤ Blessings to you from Texas
I did too.
I couldn’t believe some of the things I heard on it.
I get so tired of the prevaricating family members who make dumb and uninformed excuses for deadly relations. Better are the people who value decency of morality and justice for the victims rather than trying to uphold the "family name".
Adam is obviously another sad horrendous domestic partner who has to have his way, even if it literally ruins lives.
Thanks for another supremely informative segment, Doc!
Hope folks can learn from you before they may make some tragic life altering mistake.
But I bet none of your fans and viewers would ever be in that designated group of villains!
You spelled pretentious wrong
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@@peps1943Prevaricating, people, partner - those are the only three p words in his entire post, how could he have misspelled pretentious?
*me, moments before I flawlessly explain precisely what happened in exquisite detail* "This is just a theory. My opinion."
I refreshed a bunch of times to see if there is a new video already today!
As always, so interesting! Thank you dr grande😊
Thank you for the information and your analysis.
Thank you so much for this video. Just what I needed after working all weekend!❤
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Thanks Dr Grande for another great analysis! Love from New Zealand 🇳🇿
Another really great analysis, thank you Dr. Grande! I started following the channel since about two years ago, and have never missed a day in watching your daily uploads. I am simultaneously amazed at your ability to produce high quality content everyday, and worried that you will burn out and then leave us with no videos. Take care and do the work you love on the schedule that suits you, and not the algorithm.
Always interesting
Thank you❤
Thanks, Doc!
Excellent analysis
Good 🌆 evening, Dr. Grande! I hope you're doing well! Thank You!
The profundity of that last sentence Doc! Salute🔥
Thank you dr grande this was a good summary
Best Storyteller in my feed.
Incredibly sloppy murder. The only thing left he forgot to do was go to Home Depot.
Or Walmart
Well he could have queried Google "am I an idiot if I try switching license plates AND GET CAUGHT ON VIDEO doing it",, or "will someone find my wife's remains if I just leave the body unburied on a property I used to manage"...
@@micnorton9487Exactly
How could he be so clueless as not to know nowadays cameras are pretty much everywhere?!
@@RB01.10 I can only guess that people who resort to urder-May AREN'T very smart to begin with...
Dr. Grande does so well with a plethora of cases. How does he do it?
His dry wit at times is appreciated, although one has to be paying close attention.
His final thoughts remain the most interesting and clearly encompass ingenuity.
Can you analyze the suspects in the case related to Jordan DeMay’s death? I would like to see the mental health and personality factors surrounding this case.
As a person who was able to survive a similar relationship the only explanation I can give for continuing to stay in the relationship for so long is, hoping or believing that person would eventually change for the BETTER
Hellloo I am here early! Love from Jamaica!
Why do so many couples stay in "tumultuous" relationships and have kids together? Do they like the drama or even danger? Are they afraid of being single?
I’m going to guess you’re single and have no kids.
@l-train7876 Just because I question why so many people get into and stay in bad relationships? I hope you aren't one of them.
Never underestimate the power of a narcissist and how they manipulate, coerce and control good people.
@@gogreen7794 never married and no kids here.
@@l-train7876exactly. Once you have kids, it’s a whole other thing at that point. If that person takes their mask off…..you have to do whatever your and your children’s life depends on, not what “makes sense” or is “right” or “obvious” you have to survive until you get a safe chance. And those are rare when someone is so controlling.
Dr. Grande finds the most obscured cases ever took place. I don't know where he finds them
It was not obscure
Actually, not that obscure.... this case recently was featured in an episode of 48 Hours (CBS).
@allegrobrio968 yes, I was just going to say! Excellent episode.
@@allegrobrio968 sorry, I didn't make my comment clear enough, so I did not mean this case in particular, I was just speaking my mind, just in general, or more accurate, I should say, I was typing my mind 😉 ☺
@@allegrobrio968 yes. 48 hrs
Good to see you
Dr Grande is so sweet ❤
(It’s almost time for his snazzy spring fashion button-up shirts!)
I remember following this case from Australia. 😢
Thank you again Dr. Grande🙏
There were so many warning signs for this young lady. Unfortunately this is a common outcome in many cases.
Yes, you can analyze such case, Dr. Grande 😅Thanks
I agree Mr Grande. Good video!
Dr
Not mr
So sad. Condolences 😢
Why would he switch the license plates? I don't get the logic of that.
So the authorities would think it was someone else’s car since license plate didn’t match Maddie’s. So non-clever of him.
@@jacksgl777 The police would know what vehicle the plates should be on as soon as they ran the plates numbers. He is a stupid man.
@@jacksgl777 Yeah that "someone else's car" was *his* though. He used his own plates! Guy is beyond stupid. He may as well also left a business card on her body to "throw the police off"...using his own business card. It doesn't sound like he had a profession anyway, but yeah, that's the smarts of this guy.
That's because there *is* no logic to it, given that the plates are in his name. That's right up there with wearing contacts instead of glasses when robbing a bank so you won't be recognized.
I wonder what's the point of turning off tracking devices and switching license plates (for his own, ffs) and then leaving the body on the property of your own parents and even admitting you were there... was he thinking that police would assume that nobody is that stupid and that it therefore had to be arranged by someone else to point at him? :D
I'd like to see Dr Grande's opinion on the recent Cass report.
I saw a documentary about her last summer sometime.
I think that it would’ve been a good idea in high school to give some real life courses. History, literature math is traditional school courses, but students need a few real life courses in their last year of high school such as financial courses so they don’t get too much in debt and also relationship courses so they know how to steer clear of someone that might treat them badly.
Would love to see your reaction/analysis of the Watcher scandal.
The best thing about your content is the fact that watching it vs listening to it gives a particularly stereo-style appearance. Only when the two channels are combined does the content truly make sense and 'sound' the best.
❤ It seems to me, This young mother was quite Naive.
I'm so sorry for her children and her family.
Very sad
Adam is an evil man
No - you leave a man you had kids with
You get what you get
As it should be
@@Legendary_Archfiend no one deserves to die
@@Legendary_ArchfiendGrow up.
@@Legendary_ArchfiendVery harsh opinion and unjustifiable.
@@purrple.shadows you need need to justify what is just
“Harsh opinion”
Psh, no it’s a sacrament, if you break it you will suffer the consequences… you’re little condemnation means nothing
Hey Dr. Grande, been a fan for many years now. You should cover Kelly Ellard and her murder of Reena Virk at age 15. Kelly is now known as "Kerry Marie Sim". Very sad story with a lot of interest in Canada. Kelly Ellard has had further challenges since she was granted day parole including domestic violence against her ex-spouse.
He was obsessed with an incompetent murderer and then lived up to and exceeded those aspirations. This is a slam dunk case because the killer is an idiot.
Yeah even his goofy license plate ploy more SUNK him than helped him... BESIDES, if the vehicle WAS seen, which it was, the license plate DIDN'T MATCH the correct vehicle so this boner just screwed the pooch all the way around... Gotta figure though,, people who resort to urder-May AREN'T very smart to begin with...
The title grabbed my attention and so, here I am!
The title alone makes my head explode lol
how do i explain the scratches on my face? they'll look at my searches, so i'll search "are dog scratches on face dangerous?". maybe i should just ask if dog scratches are dangerous minus location? yeah, that would look less suspicious
What a moron
Much love to the children. Dr Grande, could you have a speculative glance at the Aussie case of Julian Buchwald and
Carolyn Watson, from 2008, please and thank you.
You'll adjust?" Wtf
So sad.
Actress Winona Ryder was born in Winona ,MN and named after the town. Nothing to do with the story, other than geography, but interesting tidbit nonetheless.
Wino
Dr. Grande could you do a video on Max Azzarello?
God bless this sweet precious young woman & her family 😞🙏 ... If you're in a similar relationship, LEAVE. IT ALWAYS ALWAYS ONLY GETS WORSE.
Never inform your abusive partner of your "new lover"
What a terrible tragedy . This lady just didn’t leave soon enough . When the hands encircled the throat .,. It was definitely time … and thanks so much Dr Grande
It is scary to me how often things like this happen. What a shame.
Can you make a video about the personality disorder of Matha Scott in the Baby Reindeer?
I agree she should’ve left when he first started abusing her and not told him she gone. I think it’s harder when you have children to leave and that you probably don’t wanna believe that your husband will do that again if he apologizes.
Also, it’s not a good idea to tell your ex or your spouse you’re leaving about sure new spouse, or new lover, just get out of there. and better to be fully separated and moved.
I grew up in southern MN although not near Mabel but people I know who have connections to that area always pronounced it like the woman's name Mabel, not May-belle. But Dr. G sure does his research on those Australian place names to get them right, impressive!
it’s always best to involve family , attorneys, counselors and courts when ending a marriage. This helps the other spouse accept reality and be realistic ending the relationship. Some people are so possessive they lose perspective
My heart bleeds for her kids, family and friends. As a severe DV survivor, why oh WHY did she share her relationship. It's a major teigger for monsters.
If you feel there is danger in that relationship. Get out fast and far. And always give others information on your movements. Bring someone you trust with you,when you’re making a move. And prepare yourself in the best possible way to defend yourself.
Woe…my spine tingled when Dr Grande said at the end… “when Maddie looked at Adam she did not see …” no spoilers.
They started search parties very fast to try and find her!! Another Minnesota story about murderers. There was really no other suspect. Sondra from St Paul,