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Yea lol and also.. Imagine that, theres a person asking to a introverts person, "why are you so quiet?" but they also ask to a extroverts person, "why are you so talkative?" and both of them notice and just be like.. "Is everything wrong? So we can do NOTHING?"
For anyone who's in hurry. 6 things introverts wants others to know. 1. You are not depressed, and you're not mad at them. 2. You do enjoy company. 3. Just because you are quiet, doesn’t mean you are shy. 4. You aren't always insecure. 5. Many introverts are successful. 6. Introverts do like to have fun.
@@luwidji My mom wants me to be extroverted and forces me to talk to people because she always brings me up and convinces others to talk to me. My mom knows I’m an introvert possibly close to extreme so I like to be alone but others like my mom doesn’t know that and says being alone is boring while it enables me to live out in my mind a rich inner world that I enjoy away from sadness that is real life
@@luwidji Also I really do hope someday that people totally understand you and your perspective on things in your own life. I feel like I can understand you possibly
To all the extroverts out there, no, we don't like being lonely. Of course we love staying alone for days to come, but not lonely. We are human beings too, and humans are social creatures. As it was said in the video, we don't like small talks about our day-to-day life. We like having bigger conversations about things we love. And because most extroverted minds tend to lose patience, they cannot tolerate our discussion. And then leave us. And this is exactly why we don't want to make friends with just any random person. And usually tend to stay alone and think to ourselves about the things we love. We can freely talk to people. Yes, we have a lot of confidence. But, it is just that, our brains were designed in a way where we don't like small talk with people. Also, please, a big request, please don't ever ask "Why are you so quite?" It is is similar to asking an extrovert "Why are you so talkative?"
Facts . I don't have a big friend circle (I have only 1 close friend ) . I have friends but not close ones and I don't like talking to people a lot unless I have to or want to . Once a girl asked me if I'm an introvert or extrovert . I said I'm an introvert . "But why , why don't you introverts like to talk?" And I was like 😶😶. Yeah , she was an extrovert .
Yeah, I'm very introverts with ppl out there. And if they ask "why are you always quiet?" i just.. Idk.. I prob just say "nothing" and also whenever someone else (except my fam) talk to me, i just got very nervous and also sometimes my classmates misunderstand me for being quiet and also why i only call them classmates is bc yeah, they not my friends
As an introvert, it is hard living in an extroverted world. You get pushed into situations you don't want to be in. You can get bullied just for being quiet. It sucks, but all you extroverts just got to chill out a bit and be patient. If you do, introverts will be some of the best friends you will ever have.
That last part on #3 was soooo accurate. I always find myself praying that people stop talking about one-sided topics and change the subject to something we can both go into deeper detail with.
Signs you might be an introvert👍 Need quiet to concentrate. Are reflective. Are self-aware. Take time making decisions. Feel comfortable being alone. Don't like group work. Prefer to write rather than talk. Feel tired after being in a crowd.
SO TRUE...I always feel comfy and safe alone and IDK why but my dad thinks that something is not right but that's not true I just like being alone it helps me think deep...
This is a situation where I would take my anger out on the adults for not understanding and being so ignorant to not notice they're rubbing salt on a wound
Yeah ikr, i mean, i do understand that my parents want me to have friends, but like.. Listen, i can't control it.. Its not like i dont wanna have friends, ofc i wanted to, i dont wanna be lonely, but i can't change. I am an introverts and i cant really change it. I try to talk to ppl but i cant. Sometimes it kinda feel pressured when everyone keep telling you to do so. I mean, they should understand, we are an introverts, and we do want friends, but its not easy to do that. And also, ppl in my country arent really nice and careless about others, they were very picky of ppl, that was one of the reason i dont have friends. I was quiet so they dont wanna be friends with me. Again, its not easy for introverts to just talk to ppl normally like extroverts, i wish they understand.
fricc yeah I got a foam cover for my bed, I got a lil desk to do work and stuff at, I got a neat lil wardrobe with a good organization of comfy clothes in one drawer and social stuff in another, and a ton of other stuff. I spend nearly every day in here for multiple hours, may as well make it nice to live in and see the full beauty of. Simplistic in design, very late 90's to early 2000's-ish, very... soft, I guess you could say. iss just a lil comfy room with all the necessities, and the only space I can safely call home.
Whenever I take some time and space to be alone everyone goes on their assumption that I have some kind of problems, I try hard to not look as introverted as I am but I really enjoyed spending the time I have with myself away from people,even tho I LOVE those in my life I just do not see it as a necessity to keep in touch all the time.
But the flip side is, there's NO NEED to make friends -- you can have just ONE person of the opposite sex, preferably one just as introverted as you, to be BOTH your lover AND your only close friend, and interact with everyone else on a purely transactional basis! Nice, huh?
"I don't see how you can stand being quiet all the time." Silence is only as awkward as you make it. If I don't have anything to talk about with somebody, I just simply don't talk to them because what's the point? It's nothing personal against them. I just don't see the reason in talking to somebody when there isn't anything to talk about with them.
I have the sense that people who are uncomfortable with silence or being alone have more issues to work out than people who aren't. It's called contentment. It's being comfortable in my own skin, my own space, and my own company. When people come to my house, the most common remark is the level of comfort here. You really can just relax. No feeling like you need to entertain me or be entertained by me. Let's just chill.. take a nap if you want.
Yes. One girl asked me" why don't you talk ?" I replied " I have nothing to talk about with you" Also if you don't like silence just start talking yourself , I'll just listen.
I’ve been telling my friend for 2 months now that I like the quiet and silence doesn’t bother me. If I have nothing to say then I just won’t say anything. But whenever there’s silence of more than 3 seconds he’s like “You’re quiet all of a sudden” and this happens multiple times a day. It’s so frustrating. He says he’s uncomfortable with silence and I told him “well I’m not just gonna think of anything to say if I have nothing.” I wish he would just respect that. He has a lot of issues too and doesn’t like to be alone. I like him, I like talking to him, but sometimes he’s seriously draining, especially because we talk every single day
I walk with my friend to school everyday and it's so awkward when I don't have anything to talk about with her and she's not saying anything either. I would love to talk with her about things but I just don't know how to start a conversasion. She always says that I should talk more (she means it in a good way, she just doesn't know how I feel) but I just don't know what to talk about :(
@@mysteryhatter you see, you can't understand someone until you feel their pain and know about their past, that is just the basics that people don't know because they can't unnecessary stop being b*****
My parents don’t like the fact that i stay in my room for a long time each day, but when I sit with them it feels boring, they don’t chat about anything important (like they only do small talk) i also get really tired from crowds and stuff and my parents notice that but i don’t know if they understand. Like its not like I don’t wanna be there, its just I know i’m gonna crash from spending time with so many people
The "shy is not the same as introversion" really hits me hard. I just got my first job a few days ago and I'm working as a waiter. And my mom was surprised when I was able to talk to customers. For some reason she thinks I'm shy because I don't always talk. No matter how many times I tell her that I'm not shy, she'll always go back to me being shy
@@Shushkin that was rude but say what you willing, I'm to an introvert but being different doesn't give you permission to be an ass hole. Extroverts are more talkative because that's just how they are and we have to accept them for that and they have to accept us for being quiet. It's all about respect
I’m kind of an in between. I can make myself seem like an extrovert at times but other times I rarely talk and keep to myself. I usually only mention something if it truly bothers me or I find it interesting. Actually small quick edit: I spend a lot of time with my friends(mostly through Xbox or other forms) and I love talking to them, just sometimes I feel like quieting down and letting others take the wheel at the conversation. Sometimes I just stay silent because I know there’s not much I can contribute to the conversation. Yes yes I know.. two edits in under an hour... Edit 2: I’ve known for a while now I never always had an introverted side. I was kind forced into being one. By my own self, actually. When I was in elementary school I was constantly bullied but at my young age I never really understood what they meant and just forgot about it(I’m autistic which probably added to why I didn’t understand) and when I got older I started thinking about it and then I realized it. I knew what they meant. And it stuck with me, eating away at me and I never told anyone. Until 1 friend that I owe my life too. I’m still suffering from it but I know I have people that truly care for me.
as an introvert, I can say that my life didn't change in the slightest because of corona, before the outbreak I sat in my room all day by myself anyway and that is still the case lol
Same. I literally didn't want quarantine to end cz I got so much time to do things I like without having to stress over daily life and school. Now school has opened and my anxiety is back again. And people can chat or video call online. It's not like they have no means of communication 😬extroverts in my class were acting like they were dying so they requested teachers to open school during quarantine.
The struggle is when you are an introvert, shy and have social anxiety. Sometimes not even I can really tell the difference if I just wanna be alone for myself or because I'm scared of people. I am in therapy and it works, but I still have a long way to conquer my anxiety in many situations. Can relate to all the points ♥
@@fewbronzegames That's pretty much it. People who aren't happy when they're alone just don't get how someone could be happy when they are. Not everyone's the same but in general as a species we're not good at seeing things from someone else's point of view.
This helped me so much and your voice is so calm and relaxing 😊 introvert here and I don't know if it's only me but when I'm asked something I keep it short and straight to the point and I struggle to speak up a lot. So much so that I was for a while mistaken for being mute
One thing I love about being introverted: I get all the time in the world to reflect and daydream. 😄✨✨✨ One thing I dislike about being introverted: Seeing how well extroverts shine without seeming to even try. When times get hard and I need allies, those can be hard to find.
Random church leader deciding to talk to me bc I’m by myself and looking lonely: 😁🥰🤗 Me just getting anxious and uncomfortable: 🧚♀️✨💀😔😣😖 That one girl who decides to force me to smile and hugs me bc I looks sad: 🥰😁 PEOPLE NEED TO UNDERSTAND IM NOT SAD IM JUST IN MY OWN LITTLE WORLD GET AWAY OR I JUST READ A SAD FANFIC I STILL DONT NEED YIUR HELP WITH THAT. AND IM BY MYSELF I CAN GO TALK TO OTHER PEOPLE DONT TALK TO ME I CLEARLY DONT WANAN TALK TO PEOPLE RN
That's a nice teacher you had... But some of my teachers were/are just as other kids. "Where are your friends? Why are you so quiet? (the classical one's in class:You know you need to learn to say your own opinion and what's on your mind. Because you clearly are too quiet and shy.)" Me thinking: I can't tell you what's on my mind, because I would roast everyone and you would kick me out. How's that. xd
Your voice gives me positive chills, like I am so chilled and kalm right know. I love watching the videos and doing some breathing sessions. I see this channel as a good podcast. I don't mean your litte cute pictures are bad, you just have a difference to other channels that you teach things and I love to listen. Someday I would love to support you, when I get money. Wish you a nice time❤
I'm always asked, "why are you quiet?" And I hate it. I also hate it when people tell me to smile because my resting face isn't a smile as most people's aren’t I would assume. I relate to the whole list in the video.
People sometimes get surprised when I talk. I’m not necessarily sad when I’m alone, I just like to be alone to recharge, and then I will talk to my friends.
Me too, my classmates sometimes get surprised when i talk, and when i do something that they normally do, they were just staring at me weirdly. And also, i feel embarrassed easily. So i cant really forget or not feel embarrassed when they do that.
I’m kind of an ambivert but I was a huge introvert when I was in elementary. So much that teachers would clap for me whenever I would answer a question. I hated that
I needed this video. Not that I am an introvert but I have an introvert friend that I really want to understand and be available. She's been stressed out these days and lots of the things in this video are things she does
1. You're not depressed, and you're not mad at them 0:45 2. You do enjoy company 1:13 3. Just because you are quite, doesn't mean your shy 1:33 4. You aren't always insecure 2:06 5. Many introverts are successful 2:34 6. Introverts do like to have fun 3:28 Reply if you're an introvert, because I am!
When I say that I need to be alone, that means to actually go away, not attempt to make me laugh or further invade my personal space. Get the hell away from me.
I never meant to invade your personal space sis. You have your privacy...chile.... Also you gotta realize some of us are super self conscious and we think y’all hate us! We also put ourselves down for just being the way we are! So great to be an extrovert right it must be so easy 😀
They don’t know you. Don’t get hung-up on the opinions of strangers who aren’t even trying to understand you. It’s not worth your time and neither are they (unless you vibe otherwise or have some sort of connection with them).
I am a real introvert and I really relate to this video. So, thanks. I wish people could understand all these things because really often I feel misunderstood. I'm happy this channel exists. ❤️
Parents: We'd like to see more of your face, you spend so much time alone in your room! Me, in my head: Well yes it is a safe space with music and books and Animal Crossing how could you not want to be in your room 24/7, this family stresses me out big time Me, out loud: ...ok *runs back into room*
One time my mom told me to keep my door open more often and I didn’t so she taped a large laminated picture of my school photo onto my door :’). This comment is getting a little too close to home-
My bf is an introvert while I'm an extravert through and through. At times we have quite different needs. But there is a lot we can learn from each other, allowing us both to grow. This video made me reflect on those things and genuinely gave me some new insights to understand him better.
I'm so glad this video exists ^v^ To be honest I couldn't quite figure out why I did these things myself.. I thought I was depressed and got all confused but this video helped me a lot! Thank You!
@Saly Adel I do write! It does help me feel a lot better to get my feeling and experiences on paper or to project them onto a character in my stories. Thank you for the kind words! I have a friend group of people with many different interests do opinions so I can share certain things with different people, it’s just I have some things I can’t share with anyone and even the things I do share I wish I could be more open about. It’s really nice to know that someone ours there cares and understands, I hope you have a wonderful day! 😊❤️
I'm sorry about that dear. I recommend therapy and to find some coping mechanisms. You can journal, listen to music, or use some object you can squish or touch. I hope it gets better for you
I can relate to this video forever. In the breaks at school i usually sit alone in a corner and draw and everyone thinks I'm mad or sad or I don't have friends. An other thing is that I don't talk enough so people think I'm shy or something but I just don't want to talk so much and a lot of these times I'm just thinking something. Gosh, I'm tired of these things.Why can't people understand that I want to spend time with myself:/. Sometimes I think the only ones that understand me are my friends,the internet,or people like you. :)
I can relate to evrey of this behaviors so i think i might be a bit introverted. My parents often think im depresst when I`m in my room or somewhere outdoors while visiting them. This Video makes me really happy because now i may be able to explain me a little more. I Thank u verry much. I love ur channel.
Tq so much!🥰 This is what we really need others to know! A lot of ppl thought I am mad when I suddenly quiet. I just want some personal space😂😂 I m tired emotionally haha
if you havent gotten a comment like this yet you have the most calming voice ive ever heard. ive felt anxious amd watched one fo your videos and it just helped massively
Your so wright... I love being alone. And it's so much harder to be with narcistic people. They really can make me mad.... I don't like to be told everytime the same bad thing. There is always something wrong with me!!!! That drains me like instant. And then these people are mad that I want to talk about it and then they say I'm getting loud. That is a bond breaker and the hardest for us to be around
The thing is, I’m not really an introvert, well kinda in between Yes i am overwhelmed when given too much attention. But it doesn’t mean I hate it. I am shy, just don’t force me to talk, that’s the only time I’m timid.
It's so odd and provoking, when my parents and siblings force me to come out of my room. It's also irritating no one knows, what I feel, like being tired.
I like being alone, but online im a social butterfly. A stark contrast to how i actually am. I usually prefer being around my pets and family rather than with crowds of people i don't know. Ive always had trouble socializing and especially making eye contact.
I'm an introvert and I often feel like nobody understands me. What hurts me the most is that my best friend is the one who's always pushing me to be "better" by telling me that I should talk or go out more. Many times I felt like there was something wrong with me, but you know what? I love who I am and I'll never let anyone change me just because I'm not as they wish I were. I'm not afraid to lose the ones I love if that's the consequence for loving myself. I love my friends and I always try to understand them when they do something I don't like, but I feel like they're not willing to do the same...this sucks
I am a more introverted person, and I have social anxiety. My family likes to go places solely to socialize but even though I am almost a teenager I still just choose to hide behind my parents. I’ve had a lot of traumatic experiences in life, and this made me mature much faster. The adults at the parties we attend always drunkenly tell me “go play with the other kids” I’m thankful that my parents get it and they defend me. They understand I will socialize when I want to. And then there are the other times , where it’s kids I know. And when I am especially anxious, I don’t feel good about talking to them. They say “do you hate me now or something?!?!?” I don’t. Then I feel bad so I try to socialize but then that makes me anxious so I try to hide myself anywhere then the adults say “stop hiding. You are being so weird just go play” which makes me even MORE anxious and then eventually I start crying and hiding and then of course EVERYBODY in the room is looking at me and pause the tv or whatever to just look. That is when I feel so horrible. This did happen by the way. Because I’m crying I yell “PLEASE JUST FORGET IM HERE!!! PRETEND I DIED!!!!!” And then I immediately feel bad for yelling. I can’t win. Sorry for rambling, I know most couldn’t care less about my story but I hope some who relate find solitude in the fact that they aren’t weird, and they aren’t the only one that feels this way… good day I guess. Don’t know why I wrote this.
I don’t even bother watching these videos unless it’s her (or someone with a similar manner of speaking). They should not be putting 11-year-old girls on to do voice-overs (on the contrary).
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We love being alone, but not lonely
yes!
indeed...
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RT!!!!
100% 💯 right
People always asking me "why are you so quiet?"
Bruh
But i ask you
"Wai ar yoo geh?"
I frickin hate that
@@justsomepandawithinternet Lmao
Same thing happened to me too
Like always
Extroverts be like: "Why u so quite?"
Introverts: "No, time for stupid things"
Yeah
You meant "quiet" there no need to change it again
Yea lol and also.. Imagine that, theres a person asking to a introverts person, "why are you so quiet?" but they also ask to a extroverts person, "why are you so talkative?" and both of them notice and just be like.. "Is everything wrong? So we can do NOTHING?"
introverts be like:I just need to recharge the energy I've used lol.
Fr, unnecessary shit lmfao
For anyone who's in hurry.
6 things introverts wants others to know.
1. You are not depressed, and you're not mad at them.
2. You do enjoy company.
3. Just because you are quiet, doesn’t mean you are shy.
4. You aren't always insecure.
5. Many introverts are successful.
6. Introverts do like to have fun.
accurate, I would like so much that they understand me without me having to say it 😪
@@luwidji My mom wants me to be extroverted and forces me to talk to people because she always brings me up and convinces others to talk to me. My mom knows I’m an introvert possibly close to extreme so I like to be alone but others like my mom doesn’t know that and says being alone is boring while it enables me to live out in my mind a rich inner world that I enjoy away from sadness that is real life
@@luwidji Also I really do hope someday that people totally understand you and your perspective on things in your own life. I feel like I can understand you possibly
"Just because you're quiet, doesn't mean you are shy"
ANY TRUERS!?!?!?
TRUEEEEEE!
Yes true
True.
Yes, but I am shy lmao
It's true.
As an introvert,
Introverts are misunderstood
I hear you. We are.
Absolutely
Me too, it hurts when many thought we're different
If you live in Asia depression and introvert dont exist
@@Atrexiaa same, I live in Asia too and my parents constantly bug me go out talk to people and always remain happy.
People need to understand the difference between loneliness and alone time. We're not all depressed 😫
"I saw you sitting by yourself and thought you looked lonely,"
I was actually fine by myself and wasn't really feeling all that lonely.
Inside my head: I wasn't lonely but I am irritated now
My mom ask why I look mad all the time. It’s literally just my face.
Same bro same
You'd think my parents would be used to my natural face by now but nOpE
Same. Even introverts can be misunderstood by parents. Nice lesson to be learned
It's called a 'resting b i t c h face'
same it gets on my nerves all the time
i look sad so everyone always asks me if i’m ok but no it’s just my resting face
i hate when people say "oh you talk??" 😀😀
I would just not talk and then bitch slap whoever say that then walk off
Same
omg bruhhh so me
Ik that’s the most annoying thing 🙄
🤣🤣
To all the extroverts out there, no, we don't like being lonely. Of course we love staying alone for days to come, but not lonely. We are human beings too, and humans are social creatures. As it was said in the video, we don't like small talks about our day-to-day life. We like having bigger conversations about things we love. And because most extroverted minds tend to lose patience, they cannot tolerate our discussion. And then leave us. And this is exactly why we don't want to make friends with just any random person. And usually tend to stay alone and think to ourselves about the things we love. We can freely talk to people. Yes, we have a lot of confidence. But, it is just that, our brains were designed in a way where we don't like small talk with people.
Also, please, a big request, please don't ever ask "Why are you so quite?"
It is is similar to asking an extrovert "Why are you so talkative?"
Facts . I don't have a big friend circle (I have only 1 close friend ) . I have friends but not close ones and I don't like talking to people a lot unless I have to or want to .
Once a girl asked me if I'm an introvert or extrovert . I said I'm an introvert .
"But why , why don't you introverts like to talk?" And I was like 😶😶.
Yeah , she was an extrovert .
Yes! I feel so judged by people who are extroverts when they say that. Its like i cant be myself
Yeah, I'm very introverts with ppl out there. And if they ask "why are you always quiet?" i just.. Idk.. I prob just say "nothing" and also whenever someone else (except my fam) talk to me, i just got very nervous and also sometimes my classmates misunderstand me for being quiet and also why i only call them classmates is bc yeah, they not my friends
@Ikerrad true! Just bc we're in the same class doesnt mean we're friends so
I like u!
“Being quiet is NOT the same as being shy!”
I ain’t never heard anything truer-
😌✌🏻
"Why are you so quiet?"
"Why are you so weird?"
"Why are you always alone?"
Will you just let me relax please?
People call me weird because i was listening a spanish song from an animated movie -.-
Just reply " why do you care so much ? Thanks for the attention but I don't need it "
I just usually ask them "Why do you talk so much?"
im an extrovert but I get knocked down for it lol
Answer WHY ARE YOU SO ANNOYING
As an introvert, it is hard living in an extroverted world. You get pushed into situations you don't want to be in. You can get bullied just for being quiet. It sucks, but all you extroverts just got to chill out a bit and be patient. If you do, introverts will be some of the best friends you will ever have.
Same here
So true man...and we often think its completely our fault that we r not able to keep up with this world
So damn true, I hate myself sometimes for this
yeah,
and you stay quiet because if you say something you will hurt their feelings
@@rxxalyz3071 yeah that's why we like to be quiet
That last part on #3 was soooo accurate. I always find myself praying that people stop talking about one-sided topics and change the subject to something we can both go into deeper detail with.
Me: I'm introvert.
Friend: Oh, you're just shy.
Me: *angry noises*
Signs you might be an introvert👍
Need quiet to concentrate.
Are reflective.
Are self-aware.
Take time making decisions.
Feel comfortable being alone.
Don't like group work.
Prefer to write rather than talk.
Feel tired after being in a crowd.
SO TRUE...I always feel comfy and safe alone and IDK why but my dad thinks that something is not right but that's not true I just like being alone it helps me think deep...
So true.
I prefer to Type and not to Call and I dont and I mean DONT like being in a group project
I am an ambivert, but I am more introvert type and I can relate to some✌🏻
As a social introvert, yes this is me
When you are shy and Introvert and have social anxiety all together
*P A T H E T I C*
I agree cause I have S.A.D too and I'm shy and introvert... it sucks.. I can't make friends...
@@plutodraws8523 poor soul hope for all the Introverts best luck including me lol :>
OMG....Me too....But whenever I feel shaky I remember that I am not alone :)
🙋🏾♀️🙋🏾♀️🙋🏾♀️
That hurts
I'm an extrovert and I'm glad I watched this because I always want to make sure I am not hurting the feelings or bothering any introverts🥰
Good.
I have crazy respect for you then- I relate to this video so much and I wish everyone would watch it.
I have crazy respect for you then- I relate to this video so much and I wish everyone would watch it.
Thank you for taking the time to understand us! It means a lot
I hate when my parents and friends make me make “friends” it’s so hard and I’m introvert WITH social anxiety:( it’s so stressful for me
I understand, same here
This is so true.
This is a situation where I would take my anger out on the adults for not understanding and being so ignorant to not notice they're rubbing salt on a wound
Yeah same but atleast my friend knows.
Yeah ikr, i mean, i do understand that my parents want me to have friends, but like.. Listen, i can't control it.. Its not like i dont wanna have friends, ofc i wanted to, i dont wanna be lonely, but i can't change. I am an introverts and i cant really change it. I try to talk to ppl but i cant. Sometimes it kinda feel pressured when everyone keep telling you to do so. I mean, they should understand, we are an introverts, and we do want friends, but its not easy to do that. And also, ppl in my country arent really nice and careless about others, they were very picky of ppl, that was one of the reason i dont have friends. I was quiet so they dont wanna be friends with me. Again, its not easy for introverts to just talk to ppl normally like extroverts, i wish they understand.
Introverts are also very keen and observant, that’s why they were quiet while listening your blabbers
@Saly Adel same bro same
Oh true im always listening to others...
@Saly Adel Mhm!
@Saly Adel can't relate I always daydream
You don't know me but you know me-
"our bedroom are gosh darn cosy" YES! this is the truth!
Yessss
@@leovaldez3283 Percy Jackson
I am an extrovert, and I prefer my bedroom from a new place I dont know.
fricc yeah I got a foam cover for my bed, I got a lil desk to do work and stuff at, I got a neat lil wardrobe with a good organization of comfy clothes in one drawer and social stuff in another, and a ton of other stuff. I spend nearly every day in here for multiple hours, may as well make it nice to live in and see the full beauty of. Simplistic in design, very late 90's to early 2000's-ish, very... soft, I guess you could say. iss just a lil comfy room with all the necessities, and the only space I can safely call home.
@JubileeLineAbby yessss
Whenever I take some time and space to be alone everyone goes on their assumption that I have some kind of problems, I try hard to not look as introverted as I am but I really enjoyed spending the time I have with myself away from people,even tho I LOVE those in my life I just do not see it as a necessity to keep in touch all the time.
Same
“What is it like to be an introvert?”
Making friends is damn hard.
True🗿
But the flip side is, there's NO NEED to make friends -- you can have just ONE person of the opposite sex, preferably one just as introverted as you, to be BOTH your lover AND your only close friend, and interact with everyone else on a purely transactional basis! Nice, huh?
"I don't see how you can stand being quiet all the time."
Silence is only as awkward as you make it. If I don't have anything to talk about with somebody, I just simply don't talk to them because what's the point? It's nothing personal against them. I just don't see the reason in talking to somebody when there isn't anything to talk about with them.
For some reason I have the magical ability to create something to talk about when there’s nothing.
I have the sense that people who are uncomfortable with silence or being alone have more issues to work out than people who aren't. It's called contentment. It's being comfortable in my own skin, my own space, and my own company.
When people come to my house, the most common remark is the level of comfort here. You really can just relax. No feeling like you need to entertain me or be entertained by me. Let's just chill.. take a nap if you want.
Yes. One girl asked me" why don't you talk ?"
I replied " I have nothing to talk about with you"
Also if you don't like silence just start talking yourself , I'll just listen.
I’ve been telling my friend for 2 months now that I like the quiet and silence doesn’t bother me. If I have nothing to say then I just won’t say anything. But whenever there’s silence of more than 3 seconds he’s like “You’re quiet all of a sudden” and this happens multiple times a day. It’s so frustrating. He says he’s uncomfortable with silence and I told him “well I’m not just gonna think of anything to say if I have nothing.” I wish he would just respect that.
He has a lot of issues too and doesn’t like to be alone. I like him, I like talking to him, but sometimes he’s seriously draining, especially because we talk every single day
I walk with my friend to school everyday and it's so awkward when I don't have anything to talk about with her and she's not saying anything either. I would love to talk with her about things but I just don't know how to start a conversasion. She always says that I should talk more (she means it in a good way, she just doesn't know how I feel) but I just don't know what to talk about :(
Definitely something everyone should watch.
But they will never understand
@@Omega-jg4oq Literally Try to make extroverts understand introverts is like force dogs to eat cat food
@@mysteryhatter As an extrovert that’s accurate
@@mysteryhatter Its also the same for introverts understanding extroverts
@@mysteryhatter you see, you can't understand someone until you feel their pain and know about their past, that is just the basics that people don't know because they can't unnecessary stop being b*****
My parents don’t like the fact that i stay in my room for a long time each day, but when I sit with them it feels boring, they don’t chat about anything important (like they only do small talk) i also get really tired from crowds and stuff and my parents notice that but i don’t know if they understand. Like its not like I don’t wanna be there, its just I know i’m gonna crash from spending time with so many people
I understand how you feel
Same, they always blame me for staying in my room but i just like the peacefulness and comfort of my room.
@@xtoftef same
I'd rather read my favourite books than spending time crazily partying with drunk crowds or being in an awkward family gathering
@@oyshirahman897 Same here!
The "shy is not the same as introversion" really hits me hard. I just got my first job a few days ago and I'm working as a waiter. And my mom was surprised when I was able to talk to customers. For some reason she thinks I'm shy because I don't always talk. No matter how many times I tell her that I'm not shy, she'll always go back to me being shy
I am definitely an extrovert but always find introverts to be fascinating and endearing ♥️♥️♥️
Likewise! :)
@@Psych2go hi
@@Shushkin that was rude but say what you willing, I'm to an introvert but being different doesn't give you permission to be an ass hole. Extroverts are more talkative because that's just how they are and we have to accept them for that and they have to accept us for being quiet. It's all about respect
@@Shushkin Harsh, as I have an extrovert friend and their nosy but that’s what I like about them, they get my confidence up.
I’m kind of an in between. I can make myself seem like an extrovert at times but other times I rarely talk and keep to myself. I usually only mention something if it truly bothers me or I find it interesting.
Actually small quick edit:
I spend a lot of time with my friends(mostly through Xbox or other forms) and I love talking to them, just sometimes I feel like quieting down and letting others take the wheel at the conversation. Sometimes I just stay silent because I know there’s not much I can contribute to the conversation.
Yes yes I know.. two edits in under an hour...
Edit 2:
I’ve known for a while now I never always had an introverted side. I was kind forced into being one. By my own self, actually. When I was in elementary school I was constantly bullied but at my young age I never really understood what they meant and just forgot about it(I’m autistic which probably added to why I didn’t understand) and when I got older I started thinking about it and then I realized it. I knew what they meant. And it stuck with me, eating away at me and I never told anyone. Until 1 friend that I owe my life too. I’m still suffering from it but I know I have people that truly care for me.
as an introvert, I can say that my life didn't change in the slightest because of corona, before the outbreak I sat in my room all day by myself anyway and that is still the case lol
Exactly what I am saying...Quarantine is the time in the Extroverted world when INTROVERTS ROCKK :)
lol me too. tbh it is better inside home not studying at all due to less useless syllabus😅😂😂😂
press (A): S A M E
My workplace was closed for 2 months. Everyone needed to stay at home and don't leave the house. Only for groceries. For me it was like heaven 😇👼🛌
it improved for me because now i dont have to go to school which means no more s o c i a l i n t e r a c t i o n s
Everyone else: 2020 was so bad, I was so bored
Me, inside reading: Wait, what’s the problem again?
Same. I literally didn't want quarantine to end cz I got so much time to do things I like without having to stress over daily life and school. Now school has opened and my anxiety is back again. And people can chat or video call online. It's not like they have no means of communication 😬extroverts in my class were acting like they were dying so they requested teachers to open school during quarantine.
i was so happy in lockdown...
@@peatama7002 me too
The struggle is when you are an introvert, shy and have social anxiety. Sometimes not even I can really tell the difference if I just wanna be alone for myself or because I'm scared of people. I am in therapy and it works, but I still have a long way to conquer my anxiety in many situations. Can relate to all the points ♥
“Introverts don’t have friends, they get adopted by extroverts”
?
Yup
Yep😔
sadly enough
* insert something about gatcha * (I'm just meming it up, ok)
i don't understand why people cant be happy being by themselves. Why do people think its so weird that I like being alone, like why cant u be alone.
our brains try and relate ourselves as much as possible and when it can't then if refuses to believe it
@@fewbronzegames That's pretty much it. People who aren't happy when they're alone just don't get how someone could be happy when they are. Not everyone's the same but in general as a species we're not good at seeing things from someone else's point of view.
@@supertuber120 mhm
It just depends. My sister loves being around people and finds it boring to be by herself and after a while she just feels lonely
I hate being alone, I need people to recharge. You need alone time to recharge.
"People may think you're feeling depressed because of how much time you spend alone with yourself."
me inside the room: *gaming*
Lol💀
This helped me so much and your voice is so calm and relaxing 😊 introvert here and I don't know if it's only me but when I'm asked something I keep it short and straight to the point and I struggle to speak up a lot. So much so that I was for a while mistaken for being mute
*When you're shy and an introvert*
*Amateur*
Amateur*
"Ametuer"
lmao same
And low self-esteeme
People noticing 'ametuer' but not noticing 'your'...
"yOu dOn't tAlk A lOt"
Well yes because I don't like to
Because only fools need to be yapping on about nothing for hours
I agree with both these statements
@@Shushkin That's not always the case tho...
🤣🤣🤣
For some reason, I like talking. I feel like I’m doing something productive, and enjoying it.
I want friends, I want company. As someone said in the comments " *I like being alone, but I don't like being lonely* "
@@squarohedron0664 I wish
I'd rather be lonely than have too much company!
"Do you relate to any of these?"
me: ALL of it
One thing I love about being introverted: I get all the time in the world to reflect and daydream. 😄✨✨✨
One thing I dislike about being introverted: Seeing how well extroverts shine without seeming to even try. When times get hard and I need allies, those can be hard to find.
@Ontonda Ndou same
damn so true. sadly you literally described my current daily life.
Me in fifth grade during break time: *casually drawing on my desk*
My teacher: Hey kids why don't you play with iris?
Also me: *triggered*
Random church leader deciding to talk to me bc I’m by myself and looking lonely: 😁🥰🤗
Me just getting anxious and uncomfortable: 🧚♀️✨💀😔😣😖
That one girl who decides to force me to smile and hugs me bc I looks sad: 🥰😁
PEOPLE NEED TO UNDERSTAND IM NOT SAD IM JUST IN MY OWN LITTLE WORLD GET AWAY OR I JUST READ A SAD FANFIC I STILL DONT NEED YIUR HELP WITH THAT. AND IM BY MYSELF I CAN GO TALK TO OTHER PEOPLE DONT TALK TO ME I CLEARLY DONT WANAN TALK TO PEOPLE RN
Cbdjsjshdhdidhfnddkkdididjdhdhdjdjshxjd i draw too but that was on my primary school
Same.
That's a nice teacher you had... But some of my teachers were/are just as other kids. "Where are your friends? Why are you so quiet? (the classical one's in class:You know you need to learn to say your own opinion and what's on your mind. Because you clearly are too quiet and shy.)" Me thinking: I can't tell you what's on my mind, because I would roast everyone and you would kick me out. How's that. xd
@@pissonmytoast I also have autism which makes me look pretty emotionless a lot of the time so people always see me as ungrateful or sad
I’m an introvert and am usually really calm and quite, but occasionally I’ll have a day when I’m really energetic and hyped up and loud.
Sm
Thanks for the video. I'll seriously tell my friends to watch it!
give psych2go a reward, as an introvert this vid is true
🥇🏅
To all y’all extroverts 😑
Being quiet doesn’t mean you’re depressed. There’s just nothing to talk about. Period. Point blank.
i knew
Your voice gives me positive chills, like I am so chilled and kalm right know. I love watching the videos and doing some breathing sessions. I see this channel as a good podcast. I don't mean your litte cute pictures are bad, you just have a difference to other channels that you teach things and I love to listen.
Someday I would love to support you, when I get money. Wish you a nice time❤
I'm always asked, "why are you quiet?" And I hate it. I also hate it when people tell me to smile because my resting face isn't a smile as most people's aren’t I would assume. I relate to the whole list in the video.
@i .candy wow 😂🤦♀️
People sometimes get surprised when I talk. I’m not necessarily sad when I’m alone, I just like to be alone to recharge, and then I will talk to my friends.
@Saly Adel same! Art is my outlet, and I prefer to be alone when doing it
Me too, my classmates sometimes get surprised when i talk, and when i do something that they normally do, they were just staring at me weirdly. And also, i feel embarrassed easily. So i cant really forget or not feel embarrassed when they do that.
@@fxrsnxwz5113 same
@Saly Adel same
I’m kind of an ambivert but I was a huge introvert when I was in elementary. So much that teachers would clap for me whenever I would answer a question. I hated that
The quiet one is so true. I enjoy conversations but not when they’re useless. But then again, it depends on my mood.
In my opinion, no conversation is useless.
@@coquimapping8680 I get you.
@Saly Adel That’s not being an introvert, that’s just being a normal person.
@Saly Adel noone enjoys that.. not even an extrovert
@@coquimapping8680 yeah..
This is the first video I've watched from this channel and I really enjoyed it. I also enjoy listening to the narrator's voice.
I needed this video. Not that I am an introvert but I have an introvert friend that I really want to understand and be available. She's been stressed out these days and lots of the things in this video are things she does
1. You're not depressed, and you're not mad at them 0:45
2. You do enjoy company 1:13
3. Just because you are quite, doesn't mean your shy 1:33
4. You aren't always insecure 2:06
5. Many introverts are successful 2:34
6. Introverts do like to have fun 3:28
Reply if you're an introvert, because I am!
Yes introvert club 😄✌🏿
I'm an introvert, AND I confirm that the content of this video is totally true.
I’m an introvert
I'm an introvert hehe
But not online Tho ;P
Wassup introvert fam
When I say that I need to be alone, that means to actually go away, not attempt to make me laugh or further invade my personal space. Get the hell away from me.
"I need to be alone" would sound like something is up to anyone so how about you word it differently
Same!
That's some plain English. It can't get more simple than that.
@@banan9432 Any suggestions?
I never meant to invade your personal space sis. You have your privacy...chile.... Also you gotta realize some of us are super self conscious and we think y’all hate us! We also put ourselves down for just being the way we are! So great to be an extrovert right it must be so easy 😀
"why are you so quiet"
"stop being awkward"
"i can't hear you when you mumble"
leave me alone 😃
RELATEABLE THESE 3 i hear themmy whole life long
@@anne-lynngroen4814 SAME HELP 🥲🥲
They don’t know you. Don’t get hung-up on the opinions of strangers who aren’t even trying to understand you. It’s not worth your time and neither are they (unless you vibe otherwise or have some sort of connection with them).
People say we need to talk more and that being quiet will get you nowhere but they never tell the extroverts to shut up
THIS!! Somebody needs to tell this to my mom. I swear she's always pushing me to socialise it's so annoying
I am a real introvert and I really relate to this video. So, thanks. I wish people could understand all these things because really often I feel misunderstood. I'm happy this channel exists. ❤️
Parents: We'd like to see more of your face, you spend so much time alone in your room!
Me, in my head: Well yes it is a safe space with music and books and Animal Crossing how could you not want to be in your room 24/7, this family stresses me out big time
Me, out loud: ...ok *runs back into room*
One time my mom told me to keep my door open more often and I didn’t so she taped a large laminated picture of my school photo onto my door :’). This comment is getting a little too close to home-
Story of my life
@@pineapple423 This is true torture, I bet you looked ✨fabulous✨ though
@@raccoon4090
I actually looked like a ✨ 𝑣𝑒𝑟𝑦 𝑔𝑟𝑜𝑠𝑠 𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑡ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑖 𝑐𝑎𝑛𝑛𝑜𝑡 𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑛𝑘 𝑜𝑓 𝑎 𝑐𝑜𝑚𝑝𝑎𝑟𝑖𝑠𝑜𝑛 𝑡𝑜 𝑟𝑖𝑔ℎ𝑡 𝑛𝑜𝑤 ✨
@@pineapple423 hunny no I'm sure you look ✨stunning✨
mom: "why are you so quiet?"
me: "it's in the silence that my mind works"
These videos make realize things about myself in many ways, thank you for helping me in that way
I feel "You do enjoy company" on a spiritual level.
I appreciate your videos which help me understand introverts better.
My bf is an introvert while I'm an extravert through and through. At times we have quite different needs. But there is a lot we can learn from each other, allowing us both to grow. This video made me reflect on those things and genuinely gave me some new insights to understand him better.
"Yes Mother, I'm fine, I just need to recharge." Story of my life!
I love these vids just makes me really comfy and loved
Ikr lol
@@TheLuckyblockbro Her calm and warm voice is really relaxing. And the drawings are really lovely.
Thank you so much for this🥺now I can show everyone beside me what actually I feel❤
I'm so glad this video exists ^v^
To be honest I couldn't quite figure out why I did these things myself..
I thought I was depressed and got all confused but this video helped me a lot! Thank You!
When you’re an introvert with depression, social anxiety, and you hate yourself
@Saly Adel I do write! It does help me feel a lot better to get my feeling and experiences on paper or to project them onto a character in my stories.
Thank you for the kind words! I have a friend group of people with many different interests do opinions so I can share certain things with different people, it’s just I have some things I can’t share with anyone and even the things I do share I wish I could be more open about. It’s really nice to know that someone ours there cares and understands, I hope you have a wonderful day! 😊❤️
Ack I thought with was a different comment so just disregard the part about my friends
I’m working through my issues with my therapist! :)
Thank you! Also idk man maybe they just don’t understand how people can get so much energy from interacting when it’s the opposite for introverts
@@Fionacle mm I think they just pretend to be like you guys and think it’s cool. OR THEY NEED MENTAL HELP.
I'm sorry about that dear. I recommend therapy and to find some coping mechanisms. You can journal, listen to music, or use some object you can squish or touch. I hope it gets better for you
I am the only introvert in my school, and they think introvert is just an excuse to not hang out with them
Might as well use it
Send them the link of this video friend....
@@anjithaa4521 ok
Aw thats so sad ☹️
My family thinks introverts are some kind of Psychiatric autistic people and they won't stop talking shit if i told them that i am an introvert
I can relate to this video forever.
In the breaks at school i usually sit alone in a corner and draw and everyone thinks I'm mad or sad or I don't have friends.
An other thing is that I don't talk enough so people think I'm shy or something but I just don't want to talk so much and a lot of these times I'm just thinking something.
Gosh, I'm tired of these things.Why can't people understand that I want to spend time with myself:/. Sometimes I think the only ones that understand me are my friends,the internet,or people like you. :)
Thank you so much for this 💓💓
Me just now trying to explain myself as an introvert to my family 👁 👄 👁
why do you make it feel as if being an introvert is changing genders?
Relatable. But I just don’t explain myself
@@aprilvismanos3016 what do you mean? That has nothing to do with this. I’m just saying I am an introvert lol
@@jamsya493 lol a lot of the time I don’t either
@@lilypierie9126 I think he means like your making it look more important than it is (but I’m not saying that, it’s just what I think he’s saying)
Introverts are mysterious
That's the point
dUh
Were not supposed to be understood so yes we are mysterious
I mean...yeah
extroverts make introverts hate themselves because of this exact statement so stop saying it please and thank you
I can relate to evrey of this behaviors so i think i might be a bit introverted.
My parents often think im depresst when I`m in my room or somewhere outdoors while visiting them.
This Video makes me really happy because now i may be able to explain me a little more.
I Thank u verry much. I love ur channel.
"Leave me alone"
-That's me asking for hugs and cuddles please. Force me into a hug.
Sometimes we do need someone to notice us and stand up for us, and we aren't good at asking without sounding needy.
I spend over 90% of life outside work alone and need it to recharge and avoid unnecessary tedious chat/gossip..💛
“why are u mad/sad?”
I’m not mad/sad! this is literally my normal expression 👁👅👁
Tq so much!🥰
This is what we really need others to know! A lot of ppl thought I am mad when I suddenly quiet. I just want some personal space😂😂 I m tired emotionally haha
People always say I'm shy, but I'm quiet, not shy.
At home I like to be alone but still have fun
I understand introverts, I'm one and so are some of my friends. •v•
Thanks for sharing! How many of these points did you relate to?
Gacha is cringe.
@@Psych2go most
if you havent gotten a comment like this yet you have the most calming voice ive ever heard. ive felt anxious amd watched one fo your videos and it just helped massively
Your so wright... I love being alone. And it's so much harder to be with narcistic people. They really can make me mad....
I don't like to be told everytime the same bad thing. There is always something wrong with me!!!! That drains me like instant.
And then these people are mad that I want to talk about it and then they say I'm getting loud. That is a bond breaker and the hardest for us to be around
The thing is, I’m not really an introvert, well kinda in between
Yes i am overwhelmed when given too much attention.
But it doesn’t mean I hate it.
I am shy, just don’t force me to talk, that’s the only time I’m timid.
Thanks a lot! Every extrovert should see this video. People think i am shy, they get surprised whenever i say something🤦🏻
mm I saw these vids but I don't think its um that bad to get shocked when a quiet person says soemthing, educate me
It's so odd and provoking, when my parents and siblings force me to come out of my room. It's also irritating no one knows, what I feel, like being tired.
Mhm, it’s different when it’s family. All they have are your best interests at heart. Maybe show them this video.
I like being alone, but online im a social butterfly. A stark contrast to how i actually am. I usually prefer being around my pets and family rather than with crowds of people i don't know. Ive always had trouble socializing and especially making eye contact.
Same
As an introvert i can relate to it
I'm an introvert and I often feel like nobody understands me. What hurts me the most is that my best friend is the one who's always pushing me to be "better" by telling me that I should talk or go out more. Many times I felt like there was something wrong with me, but you know what? I love who I am and I'll never let anyone change me just because I'm not as they wish I were. I'm not afraid to lose the ones I love if that's the consequence for loving myself. I love my friends and I always try to understand them when they do something I don't like, but I feel like they're not willing to do the same...this sucks
I am a more introverted person, and I have social anxiety. My family likes to go places solely to socialize but even though I am almost a teenager I still just choose to hide behind my parents. I’ve had a lot of traumatic experiences in life, and this made me mature much faster. The adults at the parties we attend always drunkenly tell me “go play with the other kids” I’m thankful that my parents get it and they defend me. They understand I will socialize when I want to. And then there are the other times , where it’s kids I know. And when I am especially anxious, I don’t feel good about talking to them. They say “do you hate me now or something?!?!?” I don’t. Then I feel bad so I try to socialize but then that makes me anxious so I try to hide myself anywhere then the adults say “stop hiding. You are being so weird just go play” which makes me even MORE anxious and then eventually I start crying and hiding and then of course EVERYBODY in the room is looking at me and pause the tv or whatever to just look. That is when I feel so horrible. This did happen by the way. Because I’m crying I yell “PLEASE JUST FORGET IM HERE!!! PRETEND I DIED!!!!!” And then I immediately feel bad for yelling. I can’t win. Sorry for rambling, I know most couldn’t care less about my story but I hope some who relate find solitude in the fact that they aren’t weird, and they aren’t the only one that feels this way… good day I guess. Don’t know why I wrote this.
Omg same! But still I'm really sorry to hear that. I hope you do well in the future.
Just my life.😂 Great work. Thank you so much. ❤️
I could literally fall asleep to Amanda’s voice, it’s just so relaxing :)
I don’t even bother watching these videos unless it’s her (or someone with a similar manner of speaking). They should not be putting 11-year-old girls on to do voice-overs (on the contrary).
Im an Introvert, i embrace it, and i love it!💛😌
did not expect this to resonate so deep !!
I learn more about myself with this channel every day !!
As an Introvert, my face lights up whenever you do content about us! Please make some more content on introverts! 😁
theres a difference between quiet and why as well
She did mention that in the video.
Thanks psy2go, you have helped me undertand more about my introvert personality.
I mean Psych2go.
Oh you just posted this on my birthday when I checked again ;)