@@nstar1372 She means over 2+ years she’s worn different braids, I don’t think back to back. And you can still wash and oil your scalp while it’s in braids at least.
0:34 Ashley.....You are so right. When mom or auntie says you look good, you really look good. Because these are the same people that will tell you when you look bad as well lol. My aunt flew out to visit me and the first thing she said was "oooh I dont remember you being this size the last time I seen you, You gained a lil weight didnt you. Needless to say...I went on a diet that same day. Two months pass and I was down 25 pounds... I made my business to send her a video update of my progress🤣🤣🤣🤣 I love Chi-chi she has me in tears, she has such a genuine spirit!
Chi Chi is such a vibe and I wish the best for her she have all the potential just toned up and be ultra feminine and the ball will be in your court girly
My fiance actually told me, I love your natural hair but straight hair looks so attractive on u. "I love just rubbing my hands thru your hair when straight " At first it hurt but when I finally relaxed my hair, OMG the attention I got not only from my my fiance but every high quality men. If only I knew sooner ❤❤❤
Ashley this WIG 😍 you serving us but in order for that woman to get a “different type of man” she’s gonna need to get rid of that voice it’s DEEP😂 💅🏽 plus leveling up is a mindset these women got to do the work inwardly for the outwardly to MATCH up ❤
I like chichi!! She got potential because she is receptive, honest and willing to learn. ❤️ Wish you all the best pretty lady. I enjoyed her clip. Shared a couple chuckle with you ladies.
If you can't afford to go get your nails done then get press on and watch some tutorial on RUclips. Invest about $45. You can get UV lamp, gel and press on. Dollar tree has some pretty press on.
Saying stuff like “c” white even if it’s the name will also have you attracting dudes that call you my niggah. I really feel like more black ladies should wear lipstick as opposed to just gloss or gloss and liner. A pigmented lip is a game changer and easy to do. I like her voice maybe talking slower could soften it and make her sound more alluring.
baby at 33 i do not do wifely duties and yes i’m single until marriage. However i’m still trying to navigate being celibate while dating and entering a long term relationship. Any wisdom that can be given from personal experiences is welcomed.
Hi Ashley, You mentioned that you kept your braids in for 6 months; could you kindly advise on how to maintain and care for braids, especially for those who workout?
@16:32 some of y’all don’t realize y’all Manz don’t like you thats why he co-sign you looking any kind of way. Hell he probably low-key hate you 🤷🏿♀️ respectfully saying ❤
@@megayummyrockstar Also a lot of men want their girlfriend looking good to be like their “secret”. They know how good she can look when done up and the attention she will attract.
Yeah a lot of women voices are getting deeper idk…I do know that my aunts voice is a LOT deeper than hers though. but I love the role play and the advice on this one ❤
Men especially black men loooooooooove straight hair for some strange reasons but I understand why. They are not impressed by kinky hair, braids nor locs (in general)
Have the women on this show never seen the women go are D1 athletes at Stanford, Duke, Barnard, etc? …There is a standard that 1% men are after. There will never be a D1 lacrosse player from Wellesley or Smith calling in asking how to attract wealthy men, never.
How do you know? Do you go or have you gone to one of these D1 schools? People at any age, no matter where they're from or what they do, should always level up. Times change and so do people.
@@UpgradeYourLifeRightNow Thank God 😂😂😂😂 girl don’t blame me I’m traumatized by these I didn’t wash my hair for six months videos loool I be imagining the smell child 😩
Ashely, you gave a sister the wrong advice. You told her not to do 'wife duties' as a girlfriend. When you're dating, you're essentially interviewing for a position, and that position is being a wife. I need to know you can do the job before you get hired for that wife role. What you should be telling these sisters is to let these brothers know from day one that they are dating with the intention of getting married, period. You need to filter out the brothers who are just trying to waste your time. My wife told me on our first date that she was only interested in becoming a wife, not just a girlfriend, and if I didn’t feel the same way, we could just be friends. It's been almost 25 years, so I guess that approach worked out just fine.
@@dmac5808 No one is “interviewing for a position”. Marriage is a commitment and union between two people. It’s a not a job it’s a relationship. Good for you that it works out, but I do divorces for a living working in the legal field I know first hand doing this will most likely end up in a divorce sooner or later. Men will waste your time whether or not youre doing “wife duties” or not. And so many women settle for men they truly can do better than simply because they are desperate to be married. Hoping thats not your wife…
@cestmoitoutI disagree. Most marriage minded & family oriented women don’t go for lust. They will vet quick with the values & principles through religion, family events etc The easiest aspects are not discussed that much (trips, restaurants etc). My wife & I got introduced to our families very quick. We’re muslims & west africans. Not in Usa.
My hair grew into my dream hair by wearing braids for 2 years+. My own hair is perfect now.
You wore braids for 2 years straight? How do you care your hair while it’s in braids?
@@nstar1372 She means over 2+ years she’s worn different braids, I don’t think back to back. And you can still wash and oil your scalp while it’s in braids at least.
Same! I just kept getting touch ups my hair is healthy & down my back
So how deal with the itchyness of the briads?
0:34 Ashley.....You are so right. When mom or auntie says you look good, you really look good. Because these are the same people that will tell you when you look bad as well lol. My aunt flew out to visit me and the first thing she said was "oooh I dont remember you being this size the last time I seen you, You gained a lil weight didnt you. Needless to say...I went on a diet that same day. Two months pass and I was down 25 pounds... I made my business to send her a video update of my progress🤣🤣🤣🤣 I love Chi-chi she has me in tears, she has such a genuine spirit!
the role playing with chichi was so cute 😂
Chi Chi is such a vibe and I wish the best for her she have all the potential just toned up and be ultra feminine and the ball will be in your court girly
A lot of us have money but we eat it in restaurants 😂 I’m one of them. I also am the queen of press-ons.
Chi chi is definitely gorgeous and has a ton of potential. She is conscious and willing to learn. She’s destined for greatness! ❤
Chi chi is on the right track, love it
She looks good
I think straight hair makes men think about running their fingers through it. It’s not necessarily self hate.
My fiance actually told me, I love your natural hair but straight hair looks so attractive on u. "I love just rubbing my hands thru your hair when straight " At first it hurt but when I finally relaxed my hair, OMG the attention I got not only from my my fiance but every high quality men. If only I knew sooner ❤❤❤
Exactly, men think of sex all day and flowing hair is port of it 🤷🏽♀️
True
Ashley this WIG 😍 you serving us but in order for that woman to get a “different type of man” she’s gonna need to get rid of that voice it’s DEEP😂 💅🏽 plus leveling up is a mindset these women got to do the work inwardly for the outwardly to MATCH up ❤
Yes, leveling up starts inwardly first!!❤
@@shanda01114 🫶🏽100% hun 💕
Ashley, the HAIRRRRR sis❤❤. Sending you some love from South Africa🇿🇦 🇿🇦 honeeey.
Sila🇿🇦.u Ashley ngimthanda udu❤
Chi chi seems sweeeeet 😭💕
👉🏽 Glad Ashley mentioned the voice situation for her to be more aware of it and make a conscious effort to soften it. 👏🏽👏🏽👌🏽😉
I like chichi!! She got potential because she is receptive, honest and willing to learn. ❤️ Wish you all the best pretty lady. I enjoyed her clip. Shared a couple chuckle with you ladies.
She gives great advice. Her voice is a big issue. She really eased into it. She is a great dating coach.
The hairrrrr is AMAZING
I love Chi Chi! I hope she finds her special someone! ❤
chi chi around 9:20 was good keep practicing chi chi and drink lots of tea with honey! your hair is pretty!
If you can't afford to go get your nails done then get press on and watch some tutorial on RUclips. Invest about $45. You can get UV lamp, gel and press on. Dollar tree has some pretty press on.
Shaped, smoothed, polished and _most important-- clean_ is beautiful and costs about _$5._
(Healthier, to some, as well.)
Saying stuff like “c” white even if it’s the name will also have you attracting dudes that call you my niggah. I really feel like more black ladies should wear lipstick as opposed to just gloss or gloss and liner. A pigmented lip is a game changer and easy to do. I like her voice maybe talking slower could soften it and make her sound more alluring.
She has an amazing voice but she need to train it , use it right
The braids were bomb on you!
Ashley looks fantastic in her new hairstyle.
Ashley I need this exact wig, length, color, layers, etc. 😂
Thanks!
Chi chi is a whole personality ❤
First Time on this Channel , 30 seconds in and I love it here .
Real
Nyla is cute and sweet. I am so glad that Ashley is talking to the young, college girls.
The voice OMG!! 😮
Scary 😂
@aminah761 Yes, Sis!! I was like, Oh my!!! Lol Happy Holidays, love!
Chichi is a vibe 😅
Love it 😍 your mom supports you ❤
I wasn't sure if that's what she said regarding that nail color!👀
Ash looks soo good
The second girl reminds me of Mona on the show Half n Half but with straight hair voice and all 😅
Thank you for these advice I myself am a 28-year-old woman who's so ready for this level up from these dusties.
The wig definitely gives off growing out the scalp for sure…
baby at 33 i do not do wifely duties and yes i’m single until marriage. However i’m still trying to navigate being celibate while dating and entering a long term relationship. Any wisdom that can be given from personal experiences is welcomed.
She's got the ladies becoming "dustbusters" 😄💙👑😉😘
Hi Ashley,
You mentioned that you kept your braids in for 6 months; could you kindly advise on how to maintain and care for braids, especially for those who workout?
Chichi is gorgeous
@16:32 some of y’all don’t realize y’all Manz don’t like you thats why he co-sign you looking any kind of way. Hell he probably low-key hate you 🤷🏿♀️ respectfully saying ❤
@@megayummyrockstar Also a lot of men want their girlfriend looking good to be like their “secret”. They know how good she can look when done up and the attention she will attract.
I like Chi Chi!
6:49 😂😂😂 what white... I am done..❤❤❤
I hope that one day we can get a collab with Kendra g and Ashley
I think 😊 she gives the best advice😊
That's wonderful...My hair doesn't grow in braids...it breaks off. 😢
I wear bobs and short cuts which probably wouldn't attract a rich man but....
Yeah a lot of women voices are getting deeper idk…I do know that my aunts voice is a LOT deeper than hers though. but I love the role play and the advice on this one ❤
I read somewhere that a deep voice in women is a sign of trauma stored in the body, especially women in their masculine.
👉🏽 You have to be able to invest in your appearance. If you cannot afford to level-up, then why even call to ask for advice?! 🤷🏽♀️🙂
That's the perfect situation for advice because you don't have to spend a lot. Ashley talks a lot about thrufting, mixing fashions.
Ashley parting looks 👌 on you
This hair is too cute!!
Smokers voice
Ms. Jerri off Martin kept a man, lol.
@@opulence_prime😂😂😂😂😂
First chick needs to soften her voice
Sounds crazy
I love your hair like this, I like the least when you do your hair up like Honeycomb
I love the title lol
Men especially black men loooooooooove straight hair for some strange reasons but I understand why. They are not impressed by kinky hair, braids nor locs (in general)
That is not true lol
@@thequietstorm12 reason why I said in general. There are some who do. but the mass don't
So true!
Because straight hair is pushed as the standard all women should have, it also be self hate with a lot of them.
Bring ChiChi baaaack!!
Love chi chi❤
chichi is beautiful
I would like to see chichi with a long bang like the host and also a pinkier lip color
The 1st lady I believe she is a smoker
I hate wigs🤮🤮🤮
Same 😂😂😂
The 3rd woman seems like she is actually in tune with her gut/God.
I think her ex gaslit her as he couldn’t afford her
I’m only watching to know what not to do. I don’t wanna attract none of dem weirdos.
Love Chi Chi 🤗🤗🤗
The last young woman I would love to see a deep side part on her
Have the women on this show never seen the women go are D1 athletes at Stanford, Duke, Barnard, etc? …There is a standard that 1% men are after. There will never be a D1 lacrosse player from Wellesley or Smith calling in asking how to attract wealthy men, never.
How do you know? Do you go or have you gone to one of these D1 schools? People at any age, no matter where they're from or what they do, should always level up. Times change and so do people.
@@MsE711 Columbia University.
@@MsE711 Not that it should matter but yes I did. Columbia University.
Six months? That’s not very sanitary Ashley 😢
I got it redone every month and a half. You think I would walk around with 6 months of leave out 😂
@@UpgradeYourLifeRightNow Thank God 😂😂😂😂 girl don’t blame me I’m traumatized by these I didn’t wash my hair for six months videos loool I be imagining the smell child 😩
Ashely, you gave a sister the wrong advice. You told her not to do 'wife duties' as a girlfriend. When you're dating, you're essentially interviewing for a position, and that position is being a wife. I need to know you can do the job before you get hired for that wife role. What you should be telling these sisters is to let these brothers know from day one that they are dating with the intention of getting married, period. You need to filter out the brothers who are just trying to waste your time. My wife told me on our first date that she was only interested in becoming a wife, not just a girlfriend, and if I didn’t feel the same way, we could just be friends. It's been almost 25 years, so I guess that approach worked out just fine.
you've been out of the game for 25 years - glad it worked out for you and your wife - but stay out of single folk business
@@dmac5808 No one is “interviewing for a position”. Marriage is a commitment and union between two people. It’s a not a job it’s a relationship. Good for you that it works out, but I do divorces for a living working in the legal field I know first hand doing this will most likely end up in a divorce sooner or later. Men will waste your time whether or not youre doing “wife duties” or not. And so many women settle for men they truly can do better than simply because they are desperate to be married. Hoping thats not your wife…
@@DorothyPrince1lol facts
@cestmoitoutI disagree. Most marriage minded & family oriented women don’t go for lust. They will vet quick with the values & principles through religion, family events etc The easiest aspects are not discussed that much (trips, restaurants etc). My wife & I got introduced to our families very quick. We’re muslims & west africans. Not in Usa.
@@DorothyPrince1🤣🤣 what a read Dorothy damn girl you don’t hold back 🥰
All these insecure women, including Ashley!!! Is she even married?
There's no way you get insecure from Ashley, she is definitely not insecure but it sounds like you might be
Omg come on the show girl & tell us why u think that
@@thelmathomas9399 bye!!!
@@1120forevrr I said what I said!!!
@@thelmathomas9399right, sounds like projection lol
My hair grows soooo much under braids! It’s important to incorporate low manipulation styles 👏🏾🤍
The 3rd woman seems like she is actually in tune with her gut/God.
I think her ex gaslit her as he couldn’t afford her