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When I was with my children's father, my looks declined. I could barely recognize myself. I look younger now than when we were together. Once I left, they improved! Some of these men will drain the life and youth out of you.
thx for sharing. I always believed in bettering myself even in a long-term relationship. You will never lose if you put effort in and focus on yourself
@maryamadedeji24 Facts!!!! Some things we learn the hard way and that was a hard lesson.
Facts
I started looking way better when I left my wife and start focusing on myself ! Stay away from energy drainers
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STAY READY LADIES....so you do not have to get ready.
I always look and feel better when I'm not in a relationship.
wow , you must have been with some men that weren’t good for you. Your husband is suppose to make you better…
My husband is into style so he definitely made me tap into fashion. He motivates me to want to look better cause he’s successful and handsome.
@@Shesomajor25-u3o not everyone wants to be married.
@@Shesomajor25-u3o good for you
Same 😂
I looked a MESS in that marriage. He stole so much of my light. 10 yrs later I’m JUST getting back to myself. 😩
I can totally relate. The shake back was exhausting and hard. Just getting your mental faculties back up and running is a chore. However, you can't tell me nothing now!
@ that part! We fine fine! 🥂
The opening dialogue is important and facts!
Stay leveled up and you never have to start over. I’ve had to start over my glow up multiple times but now I’ve made a lot of progress and pushing to keep going.
Really could have used you 20 yrs ago when I was in my twenties. She’s 32 and just now finding love. She’s prob extra scared to lose him, and insecurity is now running amok. Great advice, Ashley!
After 20 years of marriage 💍 I can gladly say I look better! 🥰
Congrats!
Stay ready so you don’t have to get ready.
I noticed women that don’t have kids look younger even in their later years
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That’s easy! When you are a mother you are literally giving your life force to your child/children. Since conception until death they will need from you. 😂😂
Yep women who don't have kids look a lot younger. It's still possible to look younger as long as you prioritize self care good eating.
Hmm not true in my opinion having kids isn’t a factor in aging. I’m 34 and have two lively children and I always get told I look 20 so black don’t crack applies to me. To each their own women who don’t have kids can also be stressed out and overweight. Life doesn’t stop just because you don’t have kids period bills still have to be paid and you still have to survive.
Weird comparison.
Mothers give life and keep the world going…
0:11 happy to say I had a whole glow up in my relationship, we've been together for 5 years and I feel like I keep getting hotter😭
Congrats!
Im looking better! I met my husband when I was 23yo, 11 years, and 3 kids later still looking good. People always think I'm 23-27yrs old. I eat healthy, drink water, prioritize sleep, exercise and keep my life drama free.
I don’t ever want to get so lost in my feelings for a man that I end up losing myself! I can see your point when you say that when you stop putting in effort like you used to that you start getting insecure when you and your SO go out because you’ll really end up wondering and assuming that he’s looking at other women.
Declined significantly, I was a married single mother dealing with emotional and verbal abuse! It was HORRIBLE! There was no way I was focused on myself like I should have. Divorced now trying to restore myself.
Ashley is always on point with her advice 🙌🏾.
I look so much better. Both my physical looks and my quality of life is so much better. I look like 2 totally different people. That tip about the first 10 pounds was gold. I’m at 5 now and I’m definitely getting ahead of it.
Yesss! You better be ready like lil Cesar’s!😂 cause there are no guarantees. There is nothing worse than being single again and having to start over
Sending prayers of healing to the young lady with the heart monitor. Heart 💔break can feel like a slow death but the devil is a liar!! We speak healing, health, and happiness with self over here🙏🏾You got this Momma! 🙌🏾🤎
The 2nd girl can literally start a whole RUclips/TikTok account journaling her healing journey. Getting it together as a single mom. Heart monitor, learning make up, exercising… she better go turn lemons into lemonade
This lady is already reflecting her fears - she needs to work on her self concept and invest in herself. Been there- never again. YOU YOU YOU. Do YOU!
Exactly it’s speaking volumes without her even speaking
Great tips on leveling up 🙌🏾🙌🏾
Ashley is bringing up a great topic.
Love me some Ash babyyy❤️ that first clip ma’am 🗣️🗣️
Love you Ashley!!! I stay Ready👀! And he knows it!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾💞🤗💋💋💋
@6:24- 8:54 is amazing advice. I’ve been in this situation more than once. Staying leveled up is the move.
I look better my skin is glowing and I look younger 🎉❤
Declined. My child’s father has drained the life out of me and I’m finally done with the narcissist
Im going through the same thing! ❤ Im listening to meditation videos at night and doing self love techniques during the daytime. We will be fine girl!
I really enjoyed this episode, Ashley! ❤
Thank you for being respectful yet firm with your advice. Refreshing!
Wow you understand!!! She said don’t ruminate❤❤ I love it sis. This is exactly why I subscribed when I first came across your video 😂
LOVE this look, Ashley!
Needed this, been lazy and obsessed with my man, but losing myself, therefore I need to be more focused on my goal and gym etc
Thank Ashley! This is gold.
I look horrible. I have lost 62 pounds because I want my health back. But my face looks different and I'm so sad. I'm hoping that after I move out I'll physically recover.
I needed to HEAR THAT 👂❤
Worse! I should've it's my greatest regret. I'm divorced now and looking pretty good. Free from worrying, been walking 1 - 2 hours a day my entire body is slimming down. I'm happy and doing well.
Talk that talk Ashley!!
This was a good 💞 poor ladies, I hope she works it out with her children's father. Idk why women let men impregnate them and the men are not even committed and he be on to the next. 😢 I know divorce happens but at least a marriage ( unforced upon him) shows that the man is serious and cherishes you 🏡 🐥🍼
Great advice!!! ❤️❤️❤️
Be ready for the show!!!!
Whenever I'm in a relationship my looks always decline 🤔... I'm getting on ready now
I feel most women look worse and older . The ones who look better are not many at all
I love your advice
I think the word is reminisce
Your hair 😍
Unfortunately, I look worse and i hate that because i work so hard to be at where i was and now im worse off at this point.
I look a fat mess!
I think I look a lot better 100%
When do you go live?. I would like to join
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I can't - wigs are giving girls super powers. Don't you believe everything you heard. Sweetie nothing you do can keep a boy interests and I repeat a boy. Be blessed, not a hot ghetto mess.
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Wow the chick in the pink
Wow
I would never look the way I did 12 years ago. That’s not how aging works. Now do I keep myself up the same, no. Up keep is expensive and time consuming. Plus my hubby prefers no makeup and natural hair. Thing is, I look good without makeup and I have what blk people call “good hair” .
Oh boy!😅
Hit dogs holler, and I usually write off anyone having any type of authority or moral responsibility once they utter the words “good hair”.
Girl….. it’s not too late to delete this comment. It’s so problematic😂 tf you mean “good hair”? All hair is good hair when it’s healthy and not breaking off every time you comb through it. We left that term back in the years before this one.
girl bye
@@fulltimesuperstar1 😃
Omggg ashhhh I LOVEEE THIS ONE!!!