The Situation is Getting Worse: Height in Dating and Society
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Social media ruined everything. The only reason so many women started becoming so picky is because they learned other Women have these unrealistic standards, and so they raised their standards because the message being spread is that its OK to have these standards.
100% agree
Social media is dehumanizing, before social media you would meet people in person, and you would talk in person, and see if you like them, now its just about numbers. No organic interaction, just numbers!
Bro said its not a bp video and dropped the most brutal graphs the next minute
u right it does have that blackpill feel to it
Last side of your presentation is motivating
Really loved that
Thanks
Thanks brother! I've found that thinking for myself and trying things is the best way to find out the truth.
"Avg president was 5'11, but very rarely do you see one under 6ft" bruh what😂
Well, 21/46 of them were under 6ft tall, which is actually quite a lot. So I understand where you're coming from.
But the point was that being taller gives you the upper hand when running for a position of power, simply bc of how societal bias and perceptions of leadership work nowadays.
@@cyzz_lifeBear in mind that more than 50% of US presidents lived over 100 years ago. The average height as changed a lot since then.
It's safe to say that almost every US president was considered a tall person for their era.
But Abe Lincoln was just a mogger bro. 6'4 in an era where they average height was about 5'6. He would've been about 7ft by todays standards.
@@paradise9151 hella facts. I considered bringing this up, bc Madison was 5'4 but that was avg for his time in the early 1800s. Very good point
The hat comes with so Lincoln actually like 6'11" (thanks for ruining the curve for everyone else ABE)
My fault gang, lemme update the chart rq
Height does matter but I won’t ever be envious of someone who is tall, I accept that truth and strive to grow taller
The bottom line is, being short has no benefits at all. No amount of money, plastic surgery and jester behaviour is going to change that either. I dont care about outliers because they are bad examples.
I call it how it is.
I absolutely agree with you. I sugarcoated it a bit with the "height doesn't matter if you have these" section.
Unless you trans and wanna be a girl then only short stature matters
Great video bro, love the format and the seriousness. looking foward to see more of this
Thanks brother!
I was already depressed. Now u made me even more depressed
Not my intention. Not your fault either. Just the truth.
Bro I'm 20 as well and I'm starting from to day I'm 5'4" goal 6'2" you're not alone let's do it we can do it we will do it
Hell yeah brother, let's get it done 💪
@@cyzz_lifeYou know damn well that this guy is not going to gain 25 cm in height after puberty, it’s not even possible with limb lengthening. Why are you lying to him?
Rustam Akhmetov grew 21 cm in 3 years at the age of 20. I’m growing 1 cm per month at the age of 20. You’re sorely mistaken. If you don’t want to believe, that’s fine. But NEVER put others down. That’s beta asf
@@cyzz_life I think it’s shameless to tell a guy that he can grow 25 cm after puberty😂
@@issiwest2383 yeah what am I reading? Seriously man some videos should be taken down. You do not grow after puberty wth.
I'm 6'5 with a decent physique and still hopeless with girls. Don't overestimate the necessity of height in dating. Girls who only care about height aren't the ones you want.
If you’re 6ft5 with a decent physical and you can’t get woman you are actually mentally challenged. Cmon brother lmao.
@@venway5465Ikr 😂😂😂. Or he's just coping and is a fat 5'6er.
Imo height only affects men in dating when they become below average in their country. And there are many ways to get a few inches extra in height, even shoe lifts are a viable option
Sorry to hear that, brother. It's not every day I hear about a situation like yours. Standalone, height isn't very impressive, but stacked alongside a decent face, physique and money, whew that's a hard combo to beat in the dating world.
@@cyzz_life I've also got a pretty good physique (on the skinny but strong side), lots of money (earn $120k+ aud per year) and wouldn't say I'm terribly unattractive - maybe, like, 6/10 - I'm actually not sure. I've basically got everything that blackpill shows claim you need to be successful in dating. Yet, I struggle attract genuine girls. Yes, there are some gold diggers who will actually text me back after a first date, but I can immediately tell there's no spark, no real attraction, etc.
Personality, humour and confidence play such a huge role that many people don't understand. Yes, I'm sure height and other physical attributes may HELP, and dating may be incredibly hard when you don't meet certrain criteria, but the thing is, there seriously are girls out there who don't care about a man's height or income or anything like this. I think you'll find many (genuine) Christian girls are like this. And these are the women you want, yet they're the women you won't get with a mindset of "you need 6 figures, 6 foot, 6 pack", etc.
And I actually think you'll live a happier life if you stop thinking so hard about things like this. If you focus only on the shallow girls in society, you'll become depressed and gain the wrong mentality and image of who they are. If you stop focusing on what's wrong on the world you'll become a happier more down to earth person, and this will actually be more attractive to the girls you want.
Finally, don't accidentally become shallow yourself trying to attract shallow girls.
- Matt
Hey Matt, words to live by right there. But just realize that these genuine, feminine women are hard to come by nowadays, and this goes for all men, not just short or tall men. So it's understandable that even you will have a hard time finding them. To have the absolute best chance at attracting these women, height matters. In most cases, short and ugly guys will settle for anything, irregardless of how genuine she is.
Also, I don't think girls who care about height are shallow at all. If that's all that matters to her, sure. She's for the streets. But your height, looks, physique, and money will help you attract the woman that you will spend the rest of your life with. These are not shallow pursuits.
Why does your voice sounds hurt? Are you going through a tough time?
Im all good dw. I spent 4-5 iterations practicing the video beforehand, and by the time this one was filmed, my voice was so spent haha. I seriously feel for drill sergeants
Quick note if you want height just for the girls and you can't find them in this modernised world BC of height then my friend just to an local village and spend sometime with them if they are good stay and find an girl there I think they don't care about height that much just an opinion
It's called geomaxxing. It definitely works, and more and more men are doing it nowadays. It's the reason why the # of interracial couples is increasing.
If a woman has height requirements for men, then, she'll never find love. Love is when you accept another person, exactly as they are. Tall men get all the women, but they also get all the problems of women. Tall men make more money, but they also pay more taxes. Tall men get more respect and recognition, but they also have more responsibility expected from them. The nicest thing about being short, is how you're never harassed about how tall are you or do you play basketball
I like the sentiment of your message, but being tall in today's society is undeniably better. Doesn't matter what angle you look at it from: taxes, or basketball questions-- the cons you percieve are minor. This may seem like a superficial line of thinking. It is. But it's the same line of thinking that most in our society have been programmed to use, and from this, the rules of dating and day-to-day treatment originate.
I'm 17 and 6.2 and sometimes I feel like God gave me height and took all the social skills, charisma and charm and gave it to short people instead of height
All those things can be developed, brother. Keep your head up, you'll do just fine. All it takes is actively trying to make more memories, collecting that lore
"The study by Polish anthropologist Dr Boguslaw Pawlowski, to be published by the Royal Society, suggests we are programmed to choose partners according to this formula. According to Pawlowski's theory, a man would have to divide his own height by 1.09, and a woman multiply hers by the same figure, to find the ideal." This doesn't apply to online dating, but in real life interactions it holds true.
Yep online dating is seriously messed up. IMO looksmaxxing and increasing your charisma, then meeting women IRL, is the best way to go
15cm brutal
I’m 16 as of yesterday and 6’3 my dad is 5’10 my mom is 5’8 tallest person in my family is 6’4 uncle. My growth patterns: 11: 5’4 12: 5’7 13: 5’10 14: 6’0 15: 6’1.75 16: 6’3.
As you can see I was a bit of an early bloomer, though I was always extremely tall for my age as a child. Based off this, how tall should I end up?
Happy birthday bro! Honestly, you can probably get to 6'8 if the pattern continues, but to do so you'll want to keep your growth plates open for as long as possible. Good luck!
Fucking hell you'll be alright, don't stress over some petty shit like this and just live your life you're only 16
@@undefined69 You don't even know this kid's story, his day-to-day, his dreams. I don't understand why you think it's petty to worry about height, especially since his future (dating, job security, confidence) will revolve around it. Superficiality only exists for those that can't see the full depth of a situation.
Kinda lowkey bad advice, he could quite easily as well just not grow anymore. I know loads of guys who maxed out at 16@@cyzz_life
@@TheEsotericProgrammerWho cares if its bad advice in this instance lmfao.
The kid is 6'3 at 16. Growing taller would probably have negative impacts on his life rather than positive, he's basically at peak male height.
Damn bro drop that neck training routine
Haha it’s just 50 neck curls forward, 50 backward every morning when I wake up. I use a stack of 4 eight lb plates, or 32 lbs total. Gets my grip pretty good too
I agree man but it depends on the woman not every woman wants a 6ft man I'm 5'11 and never had a problem getting women 🤷🏾.
Doing good, keep it up m8
Correct brother.👍
Thank you!
The fallacy on the first slide. Living alone: strength, speed, stamina matters. Living with cavemen: height matters, because you need to defend yourself and others... Because you do that with your height and not with your strength, speed, and stamina?
Ooh, that’s an interesting way to look at it. But they’re not mutually exclusive. You can be short, and also strong, fast, with a lot of stamina. Just take a look at boxers and UFC fighters. So no, I don’t think it’s a fallacy at all
Hey cyzz,how much you've grown as of now?
I'll do a vid on this soon. I don't measure often, but i've seen at least 1 cm of growth at the age of 20 (measured right b4 bed).
I am 5 foot 9 at 16, my mother is 5 foot 7 and my father is 6ft/5'11.5", Do you think its possible for me to reach 6'1"?
Definitely. Based on your parents heights, you should be exactly 6'0. But if you max out your sleep and HGH, you'll probably surpass that. 6'1, 6'2 are not out of the question, especially since you're 16. Keep going bro 💪
I'm 5'11 at 16, my mother is 5'9 and my dad is 5'10.
Just make sure you prioritise height at this age. We're both in the last stages of growth so we have to maximise it.
I've grown 2 inches in the last year, and i'm hoping to grow at least another 2 inches before i'm 18.
You should be able to do the same
@@paradise9151 ok thx
Thanks 😊
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Im 14 , i was 5"7' 20 days ago
I started stretching,sleeping,taking one supplement and etc now i am 5"9'.5 and i think i will make it till 6"4'
Hell yeah brother, that's what I like to hear! Keep it going 💪
How did u grow 2 inches in 20 days ur capping if not what stretches did u do bro pls im 5'2 at 15 haven't hit a growth spurt
My brother, he's 14. He's in puberty, and his hormones hit him like a truck. 2.5 inches in 20 days is not actually as crazy as you think
@@cyzz_lifeIt is. He's obviously not measuring himself properly.
2.5 inches of genuine height growth in less than a month is completely impossible outside of SERIOUS health conditions...
Even in a peak growth spurt you're only supposed to gain about 0.5-1 inch a month. And that is at the max.
This is definitely a measurement problem. Or just lies 😂
@@paradise9151 you could be right, absolutely. But I like to take every comment here seriously. If he said 8 inches in 1 month, then I would have a problem with it.
I looked it up online, and there are people who have grown 6 inches in 6 weeks, 5 inches in 2 months, etc. Some even as crazy as 11 inches in 1.5 months. Puberty is one crazy thing
i’m 16 5’8-5’9, my dad is 6’2 and my older brother is 6’5, idk if i will keep growing bro 😭
16?? You still have lots of time. Try to get your testosterone levels up (to delay growth plate fusion), and focus on HGH + sleep. You still have a lot of hope, so keep your head up.
@@cyzz_lifewhat if youre 17
If you're 17, this is right around the age that growth plates start to close. So you'll want to reduce your estrogen as much as possible to keep those plates open. Or start post-puberty methods.
hey bro did rustam akhmetav really increase 20cm height after growth plates closed should i do that much hardwork
Yes and yes. But be safe about it, and listen to your body
He did it before closure
@@user-eh9nq3xg3l Pretty sure that by 20, his growth plates were either almost closed, or already closed. Do you have a source that says otherwise?
@@cyzz_life hey buddy i followed you on insta why there is no message button how can i discuss with you
That's a good question, I am not sure. It's a new account, created for this YT. Maybe that's why? But feel free to throw out any questions in this thread.
I'm 5'9/5 at 14 and I'm pretty sure my puberty started 2-3 years ago will I keep growing
Ofc,don't worry you'll be 6footer
Yessir. At 14 you've still got quite a bit to go. Focus on sleep and boosting HGH. Those are the most important :) Best of luck!
@@cyzz_life Tysm hope i reach 6’0 dream height is 6’2
bro stop saying “could care less” it means the opposite of what ur trying to sau
I assume you're talking about the 2nd slide, when I say "I could care less" abt height if I lived in a log cabin, away from society. I meant that.
The whole concept of height is societal, and does not come from within. If you were the only person on earth, with nobody to impress, then height simply doesn't matter. But our current lifestyles and people we're surrounded by do care, the women we want do desire a taller guy, and so that's the motivation for this video and the height growth info on my channel.
father 180 cm and mother 168 cm
and i m just going to be 18 yesr old and i m currently 180cm
i m growing late what is my height potential i have tall family genetics 🧬
i want to play basketball i grew 10 cm from 17 -18
how much more will i grow 😅
I cannot say for sure. But keep up the bball, and if your growth plates are fused already, then you'll want to use post-puberty methods. I'm seeing ~1 cm / month of growth at 20
@@cyzz_life no bro i m growing
but slowly at beginning of 17 i was 173 and soon i will be 18 and i m 180 i m growing i m asking how can i boost my height growth it is very slow 😔
Bro im 16 and 5'2 my father is 5'7 and mother is 5'3 can I still grow do you think? i have been this height since june last year so a year ago..
Your parents are both short bro… you will definitely grow more by the time you’re 18 but don’t expect too much. Consider geomaxxing
@@lluqo bro i just lookedup geomaxxing 😂
Your genetic potential is 5'7.5 based on your parent's heights, and if you want to grow past that, you'll need to use post-puberty methods. For now, you're still young so focus on getting the absolute best sleep you can, and boosting HGH. Good luck!
@@cyzz_life alright cheers man appreciate it
i am 24 and 6 foot, its ok¿
At 6ft you're chilling haha. But it does depend on where you live. Ex: avg male height in China is 5'8, but in the Netherlands, it's a little over 6'0
@@cyzz_lifeNetherlands is 182cm barefoot average height, which is a little under 6ft.
The average is 184cm when men have shoes on.
Important to make this distinction
@@paradise9151 my b, thx for the correction bro
5’10-6’3 are the sweet spots
Depends on your geography. Under 6'0 in the Netherlands would be detrimental, but anything over 5'9 in China would be phenomenal
@@cyzz_life The average man globally is 5'7
Who cares just be confident
exactly
Confidence = being creepy when you're deemed unattractive. Confidence helps, but just like height, it's not very effective by itself-- you need to have the whole package. Or most of it
@@cyzz_life I see your point, but you really do need to be very FACIALLY unattractive for this to be a thing - like, WAYYYYY below average. And even then, a very unattractive guy who's very funny, say, or very conversational, genuine and confident, will still have an actual chance with girls who aren't shallow. And just because the majority of society is shallow, doesn't mean everyone is.
Glad we agree, brother