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I have had this problem for 2 years. slowly realised it was time to move on and that i cant change them, just because i am changeing. I guess we all have different preferenses and lifestyles, and that we are all constantly changeing. have a great day
Yes. When you get to know people and you hide your true feelings to get them to like you, is when you're lying to yourself. You're just describing making friends with people who are also lying to themselves and wearing a mask. People like this are either being controlled by a toxic partner, friend, or family member, or they're toxic themselves. If you find you can't just move on from people like that, then you're lying to yourself.
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well to me sometimes I may lie to myself becuase the thing that I am thinking of is bad like jealousy sometimes I may be jealous of my friend cuz she is playing with another but I lie to myslef to stop that how can we stop that I hope u upload a vidoe about that
I keeeeep on justifying people's toxic behavior because I want to see the best in people and keep hoping they didn't mean to hurt me. Thinking like this has hurt me more than anything
I test them to see if they ever have a Moral awareness of what they do but ... Im just more surprised EVERYDAY and yes... im just feeling more hurt at the Point I dont feel it . But nobody knows anyway. ... how do I get out of this ..
1: Your emotions don’t match your words 2: You keep justifying other people’s behaviors 3: You keep justifying your behavior 4: You don’t like listening to other peoples advice 5: You feel inauthentic 6: You make extreme statements 7 You are anxious for no apparent reason
You know what I've started doing? Every time I think "I'll do it tomorrow", I instantly stop myself and say "No, actually I'll do it now". And I force myself to do it. Because I can do it today or tomorrow. 24 hours will still have passed either way, whether I do it or not, so I may as well do it now.
It's kinda funny, I lie to myself all the time. I dont react to anything I just am like this is fine it's ok. It's all in your head. Then I suppress all of my emotions. Haha anyway thanks for the amazing content
Same, but in a more positive way for me. I say that its ok because I know that I'm going to solve the problem eventually. But before I lied a lot to myself lol
@@lexlovesblondsz I’m terrified of being in denial, or even somewhat exaggerating. I can’t bare the thought so I just sort of leave my emotions disregarded and move on..
1. Your emotions don't match your words 0:56 2. You keep justifying other people's behaviours 1:28 3. You keep justifying your behaviour 1:58 4. You don't like listening to other people's advice 2:29 5. You feel inauthentic 3:00 6. You make extreme statements 3:32 7. You're anxious for no apparent reason 4:00 bonus: at 2:10 look at the monitor :) I hope I could help! :D
This might help you guys 1.Your emotion dont match your word 2.You keep justifying other peoples behavior 3.you keep justifying your behavior 4.You dont like listening to other peoples advice 5.you feel inauthentic 6.you make extreme statements 7.you are anxious for no apparent reason your welcome c: edit: thx you for the like TuT
You gotta remember that these videos arent a substitute for curing your mental problems(as mentioned in almost every video) but are a way to shed light and to get to know yourself a bit more, since knowing the problem is the first step to fixing yourself and truly finding yourself and to grow into a better person
Yes, in the past I entered med university and I was so miserable... I kept lying to myself until I reached the point of wishing a car accident just so I don't have to continue. In the end, I burst out the tears and dropped out without caring what others think, I went to a different university and majored in something that I love and work for right now
See, I’m struggling with online school and lying to myself about it really isn’t helping... how does this channel manage to release videos about the things I’m struggling with at the times when I need them?? You know what, I don’t care, I’m grateful for it anyways
Being honest with ourselves is one of the things we can do to understand and love ourselves. I know, it is easier say than done. But we can, if we give the chance to ourselves.
Yes, this was me up until recently when I found out in therapy my Dad had Narcissistic Personality Disorder. I went no contact with him and now realize I cared more about fitting in amongst my own family, than I did about my own needs and being my authentic self. I feel free and stronger now and am building a new support system for myself. Your channel has also helped so much in this process. Thanks Psych2Go 😊❤️
I've been trying to find what's wrong with me for so long. I've been lost for past couple of years I just don't know what I want or how I feel. And recently I was starting to realize that lately when I often say that I want something I tend to just run from engaging with that subject. I think this helped, thank you.
90% Of points said in the video apply to me..I already know that I am lying to myself ...everysingle day ..even to the people I love and trust the most .. because of fear,irrational thoughts etc ..Now I have gotten so much worse that I don't know what to do about it .. Like I kind of gaveup on it..I want to be same ,normal self again ,,But I feel like I am loosing myself
i discovered this channel a month ago and i seriously love everything about you guys, the animation quality and artstyle, the narrator's voice is so calm and in general i learn new things with every new video, keep up the good work guys
I relate to #5 all too well... I've been questioning who I am, where I want to be, & what I want to be. It more relates to a mutual breakup with someone I felt like was my soulmate after years of dating & starting to live together. This coupled with being stuck as a cashier no matter where I go, though I want to be a graphics/web/art designer with absolutely no opportunities emerging in front of me. Now I don't know who I am or where I want to be.
In the emotional part of me, I am fine, but these days it's going to 25 years of bad job choices. I sometimes justified myself at my old job for weird situations. Thanks for this video.
i had the same problem , in fact im struggling with that time to time but one thing that helped me out its a personality test i took on google the web is called 16personalites test really hope it helps you out 🙌
I personally like the animation styles in the videos: ▫️10 things you should never do while lucid dreaming ▫️What your favourite colour says about you ▫️ things that say a lot about you're personality But the animation in this video is really cute as well☺after all its the content that matters😜
But we all have to remember that whenever we lie to ourselves, we gaslight ourselves by saying our own needs, wants and feelings is not important as others. Gaslighting is a form of mental and emotional abuse we aren't aware that it can also be done by our own mind. And these behavior also rooted from childhood trauma, especially when our parents did not believe us whenever we tell a story when we were young or people back then invalidated our feelings for many times or when told us we aren't important enough that we need to keep our light dim. So lying to ourselves really becomes a habit for many of us as we grow but we just need to be aware in order to finally escape this deep rooted loop that destroying our sense of self.
Things I have checked off, mental illness-wise: Imposter Syndrome Anxiety Lying to myself Edit: Sorry, should have clarified! I am due to talk to a Doctor, I meant that they are the things my symptoms match up to, I have not talked to anyone yet, but I haven’t confirmed them yet either. They are just what symptoms match up with mine. I should have clarified this, sorry :(
Have you been to a doctor or a therapist about these? And if so have they officially diagnosed you? I'm not saying you did, but if they didn't then please don't self diagnose
@@btcxwxy Sorry, should have clarified! I am due to talk to a Doctor, I meant that they are the things my symptoms match up to, I have not talked to anyone yet, but I haven’t confirmed them yet either. They are just what symptoms match up with mine. I should have clarified this, sorry :(
@@martinblackwoodscuppety if anyone in our country went to a doctor for psychological , people would call them crazy. Not my words. They do. It's proved . And yeah, I am from Bangladesh, that's why it's like that..
Believe it or not I watched a lot of your videos again today, I do that everyday because it helps me a lot but this isn't about it but to thank you a lot because I had many days that I was burned out that I didn't do any new art design and you gave me the motivation to try a new idea 💡 it isn't perfect but with work it will be thank you so much ❤️
6 and 7 really describes me Especially these days I feel fake to everyone I feel everything I do is fake mostly the good deeds I do but I don't wanna be a bad person... I feel so confused inside And lastly being anxious like heck even on exams or recitation even tho I study so hard my mind can't process much when anxiety kicks in.
I could relate to 2 points here I feel inauthentic because I am trying to copy people, sometimes I am doing things that's just not me and when I am doing a thing that I really want to and love every now and then doubts pop up like am I doing the right thing? should I ask anybody, should U do what the other is doing etc, etc and the other is I justify my actions, I always once a week take a no needed break from study and tell myself that I have studied enough which is such a lie, and when I am not done with things I say I am stressed out but at least I have accepted the truth I will work on being more of myself and work more to achieve what I want, thanks a lot for helping me
When your emotions do not match how you say or think you feel there's a good chance that you are lying to yourself. ... Acknowledge how you really feel and express those feelings constructively. If you're hurt don't be afraid to say you're hurt. Honesty is where true healing or resolution comes from.
The harsh reality of life is that nobody really gets what you think they deserve and nobody really deserves anything. Being a "good person" is no guarantee that you will succeed in life. You need a winning strategy. It's all about which strategies work and which don't. A terrible person might have everything they want in life; a great car, a nice house, a loving partner, a high paying job that they enjoy, and so on. You might say that they don't deserve it and you might be right. But if they have a winning strategy, that's how it goes. And you don't be a good person to get some unspecified reward somewhere down the line. You do it because you want yourself and other people to feel better and to feel good in general.
@@AutomaticDuck300 I agree that that's how things are in the U.S., but in the 50+ years I've been wandering around, I've never heard of a life strategy that ALWAYS results in material/monetary security. I've been taught things like, "The secret of success is: keep showing up, keep doing the best you can do. Eventually others will notice & you'll be rewarded" or "Do what you love & the money will follow"; etc.. but it in reality it's mostly about luck, family money &/or knowing the right people. Most of the time, the thing a person is best at is not how they make a living. People have to just do whatever job they can earn enough money at; the things we're truly good at become hobbies, or maybe a little side income. In every way possible, we're discouraged from creating a way to earn money doing what we're good at.
I'm not sure if I'm lying to myself, I'm just not letting myself show how I truly feel about things, and trying my best to stay "happy" when I'm really not, worst part is, I dont remember why I'm angry or depressed anymore, it's just become part of who I am now
Not that I can detect. I find the whole concept of lying to yourself weird and how can you not know it? Maybe I still am guilty of it and just really good at lying to myself, but I genuinely dont think so. As a kid I did actually lie so I believed it myself and for no good reason, just making up a bunch of stuff.
Either to self or others or not at all and live honestly at the cost of others which reserts it back to lying to self cause hurting others is not honorable nor modest which defines what it is to be honest. Just kidding not everyone lies 😂
i’m lying so much to myself, I don’t even know who i truly am. Because the me when i’m with my friends is not the same with my family or when i’m with strangers or when i’m alone. I’m always different and adapt to the people i am with. Which makes it difficult for me for having a real personality. I don’t know what I like or love, I don’t even know what’s my favourite colour. I am constantly changing to be better but it’s actually destroying me
Lying to myself turned into a habit, and I often think I'm just a robot with feelings, and thinking about it too much drives me crazy and leads to attempting suicide..
@@Aiaaaya Not doing it is a really brave decision, the only way to make the pain go away is to keep fighting, even if I don't know you I believe in your strenght ^^
This is the hustle of the mental health. Say just enough to keep a person coming back. People who lie to themselves needs to be confronted clearly and detailed.
Well done Rina C, dang that art style is so frigging precious. Yeah my mind boggles me and I don't know what I want except not being remembered. That thought terrifies me. So I hate listening to people's advise, I compare myself way too much to other people and all that shizz. I adore pure fluff or indescribable cringe that's all I know really what I truly enjoy.
Yes, I do love the new animation! I love that you guys seem to be REALLY thriving these past few weeks. The effort is really there, and we appreciate it. You really do make important content like these accessible to everyone. I appreciate it! I get through the week with every upload 🤣and the comment section makes me feel like I have friends I can finally relate to. Anyway, I can’t wait for some more vids! ✨
I started watching phsyc2go videos when I was in a really confused place bcz I didn't understad wth is going on with ny emotions, and they made me genuinely interested in psycology and now I'm going to study it as a suject in college ^_^
Just wanted to thank Psych2Go for helping me understand lots of new things about myself! Your content is so great and educational!! Thank you soo soo soo much!
yeah that's me. What can i do about this now :/ i'm constantly affected by other's opinions and actions because i feel like i lost my core identity and now all i do is copy people's
@@arpitkumar4525 but Im just a fan of jungkook.the boy I'm talking about is in my high school. He has a lot of fans too so... I though I'm invincible to him but even he knows that I like him. Atleast now I don't need to see him because of quarantine 😆👀
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The plant hats are adorable! :D
yep!
yeah...
yess every animation style you have always turns out to be so satisfying
I really like this new artstyle :D but ofc i like all of them :3 you're channel really helped me so i always would like to watch more videos 💝
The thumbnail is everything-
And your profile pic is everything
This whole thing is everything
Ikr
Everything is everything
Everything is everything
One side of the mind: "This is not true, I am perfectly fine"
The other side of the mind: " *Oh...* oh... this is... not fine."
AND creeping up in the "backside" of the mind : "What do you mean? This is a bloody catastrophe! WE'RE ALL SCREWED!!!" ;o)
gnarth d'arkanen lol
@@Endmoonyearsago ;o)
Then there is that one brain cell: you are lying to yourself which means you are a natural at lying
I definitely fight with myself, constant fight. I literally feel terrible and yell at myself that I’m fine but I know I’m not 😂 I’m ok I promise
me before watching the video: "nO i'M nOt LyInG tO mYsElF"
me: *click on the video*
me: *correspond to all the signs*
me: "oh."
ikr
So relatable
"Nah its just a coincidence"
Well... that sucks
I realise,i lie to myself......
What should i do now?
How can i face the truth and fight my evil without tearing myself apart?
“You’re friends with people you don’t really like”. That’s just cause people slowly start to reveal who they are and it’s hard to decipher right away.
I have had this problem for 2 years. slowly realised it was time to move on and that i cant change them, just because i am changeing. I guess we all have different preferenses and lifestyles, and that we are all constantly changeing. have a great day
Yes. When you get to know people and you hide your true feelings to get them to like you, is when you're lying to yourself. You're just describing making friends with people who are also lying to themselves and wearing a mask. People like this are either being controlled by a toxic partner, friend, or family member, or they're toxic themselves. If you find you can't just move on from people like that, then you're lying to yourself.
And thats because they lie to themselves too
@@Ikaros23 same i have like 30 friends and i like none of them
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Please make a video on how to move on from somebody!
well to me sometimes I may lie to myself becuase the thing that I am thinking of is bad like jealousy sometimes I may be jealous of my friend cuz she is playing with another but I lie to myslef to stop that how can we stop that I hope u upload a vidoe about that
omg yes, i actually blushed for some reason.
I love the animation, it's so cute!!!!!
Yes I do
BRO OMG THAT ARTSTYLE HIM LIL GREEN CHEEKS IM GONNA CRY
edit: the art style is also juicy af omg
It's adorable 🥺
Juicy like a Starburst
@@ChristinaMoralesMindfuqed ✨y e s✨
JUICY AF HAHAHA IKR
@@ChristinaMoralesMindfuqed flavour is immaculate
I keeeeep on justifying people's toxic behavior because I want to see the best in people and keep hoping they didn't mean to hurt me. Thinking like this has hurt me more than anything
@Silent Wanderer :( we have to stop giving people many chances when they show their true colors sigh
I test them to see if they ever have a Moral awareness of what they do but ... Im just more surprised EVERYDAY and yes... im just feeling more hurt at the Point I dont feel it . But nobody knows anyway. ... how do I get out of this ..
1: Your emotions don’t match your words
2: You keep justifying other people’s behaviors
3: You keep justifying your behavior
4: You don’t like listening to other peoples advice
5: You feel inauthentic
6: You make extreme statements
7 You are anxious for no apparent reason
"I'll clean my room tomorrow" and such is a lie.
same with me telling myself I'll fix my sleep schedule
You know what I've started doing? Every time I think "I'll do it tomorrow", I instantly stop myself and say "No, actually I'll do it now". And I force myself to do it.
Because I can do it today or tomorrow. 24 hours will still have passed either way, whether I do it or not, so I may as well do it now.
Omg sameee😂😂😂
Also same as "I'll study harder later"
@@AutomaticDuck300 i should do that as well, thxs for sharing
@@AutomaticDuck300 i have started doing This now too i helps you to stop wasting time and start doing things
It's kinda funny, I lie to myself all the time. I dont react to anything I just am like this is fine it's ok. It's all in your head. Then I suppress all of my emotions. Haha anyway thanks for the amazing content
I was the same as well, until the glass broke. Now I'm a fiery mess.
Same, but in a more positive way for me. I say that its ok because I know that I'm going to solve the problem eventually. But before I lied a lot to myself lol
How do I stop this cycle? How do I know whether it is all in my head?
@@EtherealWhispers0 I don't know either. You kind of just _snap_
@@lexlovesblondsz I’m terrified of being in denial, or even somewhat exaggerating. I can’t bare the thought so I just sort of leave my emotions disregarded and move on..
1. Your emotions don't match your words 0:56
2. You keep justifying other people's behaviours 1:28
3. You keep justifying your behaviour 1:58
4. You don't like listening to other people's advice 2:29
5. You feel inauthentic 3:00
6. You make extreme statements 3:32
7. You're anxious for no apparent reason 4:00
bonus: at 2:10 look at the monitor :)
I hope I could help! :D
How are you one day ago!?
@@watanabiakari4937 WHAT
@@watanabiakari4937 omg time travellers
@@watanabiakari4937 They’re a patreon so they get early access to videos
When the freak did you comment this!?!?? XD
I'm a normal person, neither a time-traveler, nor a member. Nothing weird. All fine.
Anyway, this animation style is cute!
ONE DAY AGO?! WHEN IT WAS POSTED TODAY? YT NEEDS HELP
Hol up
man youtube really do be fucking with the algorithm
@Pink Unicorn Ohhhh thx now I get it 🤠(yee haw bc why not)
Wait hold up
So many people can time travel these days 👀
VSOWWIWGWU AND YOU?!
@@articcats701 I can't...too dumb for that😂
@@adrija2726 ExCuSe mE sIr dIdn'T yOu jUst tImEtRavEl
@@articcats701 No I didn't😂 And it's ma'am, not sir👀
@@adrija2726 ah.. I see you're a woman of culture as well. But bro look when the vid was uploaded and yer comment
This might help you guys
1.Your emotion dont match your word
2.You keep justifying other peoples behavior
3.you keep justifying your behavior
4.You dont like listening to other peoples advice
5.you feel inauthentic
6.you make extreme statements
7.you are anxious for no apparent reason
your welcome c:
edit: thx you for the like TuT
Thank you so much 🤗💜💖💙💚💛
♥️🤣😎🏴
Thankyou 😁❤️
Is it bad that I have all of those things
Thank 6ou so much!♡♡♡
You gotta remember that these videos arent a substitute for curing your mental problems(as mentioned in almost every video) but are a way to shed light and to get to know yourself a bit more, since knowing the problem is the first step to fixing yourself and truly finding yourself and to grow into a better person
Yes, in the past I entered med university and I was so miserable...
I kept lying to myself until I reached the point of wishing a car accident just so I don't have to continue.
In the end, I burst out the tears and dropped out without caring what others think, I went to a different university and majored in something that I love and work for right now
Why hello there fellow timetraveler 🙂
H-huh?!!!??!??!??!!?!!?
Homan :D hello I understand what you mean :)
Hey
Wahhh
What
See, I’m struggling with online school and lying to myself about it really isn’t helping... how does this channel manage to release videos about the things I’m struggling with at the times when I need them??
You know what, I don’t care, I’m grateful for it anyways
Unfortunately lying to ourselves is actually becoming a norm :(
Being honest with ourselves is one of the things we can do to understand and love ourselves. I know, it is easier say than done. But we can, if we give the chance to ourselves.
Yes, this was me up until recently when I found out in therapy my Dad had Narcissistic Personality Disorder. I went no contact with him and now realize I cared more about fitting in amongst my own family, than I did about my own needs and being my authentic self. I feel free and stronger now and am building a new support system for myself. Your channel has also helped so much in this process. Thanks Psych2Go 😊❤️
I swear if I watch your videos late at night while my eyes are closed and just listening to your calming voice, I almost always fall asleep
I've been trying to find what's wrong with me for so long.
I've been lost for past couple of years I just don't know what I want or how I feel.
And recently I was starting to realize that lately when I often say that I want something I tend to just run from engaging with that subject.
I think this helped, thank you.
At first I wasn’t sure if I was lying to my self but this video really cleared things up for me
I think I’ve gotten to the point the alternative to lying is worse than the lying itself
‘When people choose a career they don’t like at all’
School in a nutshell
??? Are you referring college? Because you can't really choose to NOT go to school...
@@RosheenQuynh yes you can unless you want to become a lawyer, a doctor or a scientist which requires a degree.
@@dynipjohn485 I'm pretty sure it's illegal to not go to school. At least in some places, anyway.
@@RosheenQuynh no its not illegal to not to go to school.
@@dynipjohn485 Then why do truant officers exist?
This video should be shown to everyone in world this will help solving depression.
90% Of points said in the video apply to me..I already know that I am lying to myself ...everysingle day ..even to the people I love and trust the most .. because of fear,irrational thoughts etc ..Now I have gotten so much worse that I don't know what to do about it .. Like I kind of gaveup on it..I want to be same ,normal self again ,,But I feel like I am loosing myself
I love how I can depend on all your videos to be concise and brief
THIS ANIMATOR IS EVERYTHING I LOVE THEM
I didn't expect it, but... every single thing in this video matches everything. I do these way too often.
i discovered this channel a month ago and i seriously love everything about you guys, the animation quality and artstyle, the narrator's voice is so calm and in general i learn new things with every new video, keep up the good work guys
The number 5 is what I'm actually struggling with for a long time... thanks for the content! Now I know why I feel that way
I think I’m just a procrastinator but thank you for the help because my sibling has done multiple of these and I never thought much of it
I relate to #5 all too well... I've been questioning who I am, where I want to be, & what I want to be.
It more relates to a mutual breakup with someone I felt like was my soulmate after years of dating & starting to live together. This coupled with being stuck as a cashier no matter where I go, though I want to be a graphics/web/art designer with absolutely no opportunities emerging in front of me.
Now I don't know who I am or where I want to be.
I'm a person who constantly second guesses. Its hard to know where second guessing and reassuring yourself stops and lying to yourself begins
omg the animation is so cute 🥺🥺 i love this style!!!
In the emotional part of me, I am fine, but these days it's going to 25 years of bad job choices.
I sometimes justified myself at my old job for weird situations. Thanks for this video.
Ever since I discovered your channel, your videos have been a part of my daily routine. Keep them coming. 😊
Im guilty of number 3, but im working on changing that behavior. Therapy has been really helpful for that😊
could you make a video about how to find out how you really are? i have a problem with that.. i dont know what my real personality is or who i am
i had the same problem , in fact im struggling with that time to time but one thing that helped me out its a personality test i took on google the web is called 16personalites test really hope it helps you out 🙌
@@durimleci9934 aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaand dislike.
@@Alex_Mercer_ whaaaaaaaateveeeer
Ugh same
@@durimleci9934 thanks 🙏🏻
Thank you, this video reassured me that I am not lying to myself. Recently dumped a narcissist and was having difficulty trusting myself
I'm so proud of you for dumping them! You are worth so much. Keep fighting!
@@lunarmoon8965 Thank you, this means so much to me
@@vanessad5269 of course!
This was me up until 6 years ago when I did some deep digging inwards. I no longer lie to myself, I hurt myself too much by doing so.
Good job!!!
I personally like the animation styles in the videos:
▫️10 things you should never do while lucid dreaming
▫️What your favourite colour says about you
▫️ things that say a lot about you're personality
But the animation in this video is really cute as well☺after all its the content that matters😜
Psi and it's friends dancing in the end is the cutest thing💙
Yup
But we all have to remember that whenever we lie to ourselves, we gaslight ourselves by saying our own needs, wants and feelings is not important as others. Gaslighting is a form of mental and emotional abuse we aren't aware that it can also be done by our own mind. And these behavior also rooted from childhood trauma, especially when our parents did not believe us whenever we tell a story when we were young or people back then invalidated our feelings for many times or when told us we aren't important enough that we need to keep our light dim. So lying to ourselves really becomes a habit for many of us as we grow but we just need to be aware in order to finally escape this deep rooted loop that destroying our sense of self.
Things I have checked off, mental illness-wise:
Imposter Syndrome
Anxiety
Lying to myself
Edit: Sorry, should have clarified! I am due to talk to a Doctor, I meant that they are the things my symptoms match up to, I have not talked to anyone yet, but I haven’t confirmed them yet either. They are just what symptoms match up with mine. I should have clarified this, sorry :(
Have you been to a doctor or a therapist about these? And if so have they officially diagnosed you? I'm not saying you did, but if they didn't then please don't self diagnose
@@btcxwxy true dat
@@btcxwxy Sorry, should have clarified! I am due to talk to a Doctor, I meant that they are the things my symptoms match up to, I have not talked to anyone yet, but I haven’t confirmed them yet either. They are just what symptoms match up with mine. I should have clarified this, sorry :(
@@martinblackwoodscuppety if anyone in our country went to a doctor for psychological , people would call them crazy. Not my words. They do. It's proved . And yeah, I am from Bangladesh, that's why it's like that..
@@existance143 I’m really sorry that happens! :(
This is so relatable. Especially the career example
Can we take a moment to appreciate the animations in this video? It looks so cute!
Believe it or not I watched a lot of your videos again today, I do that everyday because it helps me a lot but this isn't about it but to thank you a lot because I had many days that I was burned out that I didn't do any new art design and you gave me the motivation to try a new idea 💡 it isn't perfect but with work it will be thank you so much ❤️
This is the earliest I got :o
I love the new animation
6 and 7 really describes me
Especially these days I feel fake to everyone
I feel everything I do is fake mostly the good deeds I do but I don't wanna be a bad person... I feel so confused inside
And lastly being anxious like heck even on exams or recitation even tho I study so hard my mind can't process much when anxiety kicks in.
Me: *has all the signs*
Also me: *imma pretend I didn't see this*
I could relate to 2 points here I feel inauthentic because I am trying to copy people, sometimes I am doing things that's just not me and when I am doing a thing that I really want to and love every now and then doubts pop up like am I doing the right thing? should I ask anybody, should U do what the other is doing etc, etc and the other is I justify my actions, I always once a week take a no needed break from study and tell myself that I have studied enough which is such a lie, and when I am not done with things I say I am stressed out but at least I have accepted the truth I will work on being more of myself and work more to achieve what I want, thanks a lot for helping me
psych to go knows how to aim this strong points to people who needs it.
when number 6 rolled round, the fires out and our little bean is looks so SAD!!!
MY HEART!!!!
When your emotions do not match how you say or think you feel there's a good chance that you are lying to yourself. ... Acknowledge how you really feel and express those feelings constructively. If you're hurt don't be afraid to say you're hurt. Honesty is where true healing or resolution comes from.
The thumbnail is pretty spot on
Me: woke up, staring at the ceiling again thinking 'I deserve to, at least, have that ONE special person in my life.
Psych2Go:
The harsh reality of life is that nobody really gets what you think they deserve and nobody really deserves anything. Being a "good person" is no guarantee that you will succeed in life. You need a winning strategy. It's all about which strategies work and which don't.
A terrible person might have everything they want in life; a great car, a nice house, a loving partner, a high paying job that they enjoy, and so on. You might say that they don't deserve it and you might be right. But if they have a winning strategy, that's how it goes.
And you don't be a good person to get some unspecified reward somewhere down the line. You do it because you want yourself and other people to feel better and to feel good in general.
R.I.P your whole career.
@@AutomaticDuck300 i really enjoyed reading your reply. It made soo much sense. Thank you for your wisdom❤
@@AutomaticDuck300 I agree that that's how things are in the U.S., but in the 50+ years I've been wandering around, I've never heard of a life strategy that ALWAYS results in material/monetary security. I've been taught things like, "The secret of success is: keep showing up, keep doing the best you can do. Eventually others will notice & you'll be rewarded" or "Do what you love & the money will follow"; etc.. but it in reality it's mostly about luck, family money &/or knowing the right people. Most of the time, the thing a person is best at is not how they make a living. People have to just do whatever job they can earn enough money at; the things we're truly good at become hobbies, or maybe a little side income. In every way possible, we're discouraged from creating a way to earn money doing what we're good at.
@@greenbird777 you have to adapt your strategy as you go along, I suppose.
I'm not sure if I'm lying to myself, I'm just not letting myself show how I truly feel about things, and trying my best to stay "happy" when I'm really not, worst part is, I dont remember why I'm angry or depressed anymore, it's just become part of who I am now
I feel like everyone lies to themselves, right?
Not that I can detect. I find the whole concept of lying to yourself weird and how can you not know it? Maybe I still am guilty of it and just really good at lying to myself, but I genuinely dont think so. As a kid I did actually lie so I believed it myself and for no good reason, just making up a bunch of stuff.
Either to self or others or not at all and live honestly at the cost of others which reserts it back to lying to self cause hurting others is not honorable nor modest which defines what it is to be honest. Just kidding not everyone lies 😂
@@orafranc237
Hugh Laurie disagrees with your last use of the word "not". :P
At this point I dont even know. Is it fake? Is it real? Idk
Okay, everything else aside, the animation on this video is everything I- ✨✨
Love the art style! So cute and lively. Hoping to see more of artist Rina
i’m lying so much to myself, I don’t even know who i truly am. Because the me when i’m with my friends is not the same with my family or when i’m with strangers or when i’m alone. I’m always different and adapt to the people i am with. Which makes it difficult for me for having a real personality. I don’t know what I like or love, I don’t even know what’s my favourite colour. I am constantly changing to be better but it’s actually destroying me
Yup I knew I was a lier. I relate to all signs. To large extent with some signs and to small extent with other signs
Your videos are seriously helping me realize things I didn't want to tell myself were true. 😞♥️
I relate to these 7 signs...how do I help myself?
You make extreme statements PLUS you get kind of angry when others don’t disagree with you, but also lash out when they do.
Thank you for this 😊
I love, love, love the colors and animation. Thanks.
Lying to myself turned into a habit, and I often think I'm just a robot with feelings, and thinking about it too much drives me crazy and leads to attempting suicide..
Like 9S from Nier:Automata
Oh, I get it I feel the same sometimes. But please don't do it, your feelings are valid and your life matters, always ^^ ✨
@@arpitkumar4525 what?
@@love_tangerine I would have but I can't, I'm too scared😐
@@Aiaaaya Not doing it is a really brave decision, the only way to make the pain go away is to keep fighting, even if I don't know you I believe in your strenght ^^
This is the hustle of the mental health. Say just enough to keep a person coming back. People who lie to themselves needs to be confronted clearly and detailed.
I love this animation style, so cute, vibrant and smooth :D
I'm glad that I got to read '1 min ago ' ... as soon as the i saw the notification 😃😊
Well done Rina C, dang that art style is so frigging precious. Yeah my mind boggles me and I don't know what I want except not being remembered. That thought terrifies me. So I hate listening to people's advise, I compare myself way too much to other people and all that shizz. I adore pure fluff or indescribable cringe that's all I know really what I truly enjoy.
Indeed! Hopefully, you will be able to see more of her work! :)
Me, a compulsive liar: 👁👄👁👍
I feel like this all the time, unfortunately, I can't tell people my problems without them getting extremely angry with me.
I am in love with this animation style. also I wish I had this a looong time ago lol.
The thumbnail made me chuckle :)
Yes, I do love the new animation! I love that you guys seem to be REALLY thriving these past few weeks. The effort is really there, and we appreciate it. You really do make important content like these accessible to everyone. I appreciate it! I get through the week with every upload 🤣and the comment section makes me feel like I have friends I can finally relate to.
Anyway, I can’t wait for some more vids! ✨
This channel continously calls me out and I don't know if I like or hate it.
Ah cute boi psi and calm voice! Much needed
I started watching phsyc2go videos when I was in a really confused place bcz I didn't understad wth is going on with ny emotions, and they made me genuinely interested in psycology and now I'm going to study it as a suject in college ^_^
Just wanted to thank Psych2Go for helping me understand lots of new things about myself! Your content is so great and educational!! Thank you soo soo soo much!
Think you for making this video , you're hard work is making us more knowledgeable about psychology and mental health
Thank you
yeah that's me. What can i do about this now :/ i'm constantly affected by other's opinions and actions because i feel like i lost my core identity and now all i do is copy people's
Yes, I don't listen to people's advice, every advice of people I talk to are the same and yet I AM taking my own advice which is not talking to them.
0:26 "you sure?"
*internal breakdowns*
Omg the art style and animation is amazing
I already know I lie to myself about a boy, I say that I don't like him to people but I know that my heart say otherwise
Yes. Cause you like Jungkook. You ain't lying
@@arpitkumar4525 but Im just a fan of jungkook.the boy I'm talking about is in my high school. He has a lot of fans too so... I though I'm invincible to him but even he knows that I like him. Atleast now I don't need to see him because of quarantine 😆👀
Lmao i had the reverse and i didnt even flinch when my "crush" ignored me and stopped talkint to me
I love lying to myself. It makes me feel better than the truth or even the uncertain.
I needed this video so much
Checked, that's another one for things I need to sort out list
I'm early!I love watching you guys!
This video has been memed excessively and I love it.
"I'll do the homework later"
1 week later
"I'll do it tomorrow"
I litteraly have 3 assignments due tomorrow 🙈 i had a week to do them and didnt. As an introvert im scared to get screamed at. 🥴
Yeah..assignments kept like this and yesterday I did 2 together. It took me my day, but I was given 7days to do them
Me until im failing all my classes and the deadline is 12 am and it's currently 11 pm
Yeah, I’ve been lying to myself for so long. I just tell people yeah I’m lying to myself but don’t know how to stop internalizing it into my behavior
Nobody:
Me scrolling through the comments trying to find a time traveler: 👁👄👁
Oh, I can relate to this. Yet I have left it unsolve.