7 Types of Love But Only One Lasts a Lifetime

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  • Опубликовано: 22 авг 2024

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  • @AutomaticDuck300
    @AutomaticDuck300 3 года назад +9870

    Self love is the only real love that lasts a lifetime.

    • @unpseudototalementnormal517
      @unpseudototalementnormal517 3 года назад +922

      So, self hate also last a lifetime ? :D

    • @Charlotte66666
      @Charlotte66666 3 года назад +93

      This.

    • @mariajin5214
      @mariajin5214 3 года назад +201

      Yeah. Love yourself, speak yourself.

    • @Palikawii
      @Palikawii 3 года назад +110

      Well said friend, let’s go help the people who don’t have self love and give them some

    • @ihatemice_elf
      @ihatemice_elf 3 года назад +99

      What if I hate myself 🤠

  • @jsmn_luv
    @jsmn_luv 3 года назад +3307

    Me: *single*
    I'll take note, just in case

    • @0_Chérie_0
      @0_Chérie_0 3 года назад +33

      Same

    • @givemeyoursocks915
      @givemeyoursocks915 3 года назад +82

      *Gotta start somewhere*

    • @aaoo25
      @aaoo25 3 года назад +10

      same lol

    • @triplekids3
      @triplekids3 3 года назад +12

      I been single for 4 months now at 56 and I’m going to say that way

    • @tsd925
      @tsd925 3 года назад +6

      yeah, same lol

  • @ICEcoldJT
    @ICEcoldJT 3 года назад +1959

    “Real attraction is spiritual, mental, and physical. Not just one of the 3.”

  • @thatguywithachainsaw5703
    @thatguywithachainsaw5703 3 года назад +1740

    Late but here’s the complete summary
    Love comprises 3 main components
    - *Intimacy* : closeness and connectedness
    - *Passion* : romance
    - *Commitment* : Conscious decision to love
    _1 component love types:_
    1. *Infatuation (Passion)*
    You aren’t necessarily compatible or have much in common
    2. *Liking/Friendship (Intimacy)*
    You’re very at ease with one another can be yourself around them
    3. *Empty love (Commitment)*
    Romance and closeness aren’t strong. You focus on being together
    _2 components love types_
    4. *Romantic love (Passion + Intimacy)*
    You desire for one other and are very intimate with each other
    Can be seen in affairs
    5. *Companionate love (Intimacy + Commitment)*
    This love is built from strong trust, devotion and emotional closeness. There is no romance and it can be platonic.
    Can be seen in close friends, family and married couples
    6. *Fatuous love (Passion + Commitment)*
    This love is filled with Passion and part Commitment but lack Intimacy
    Can be seen in courtship and arranged marriage
    _3 components love type (the ultimate)_
    7. *Consummate love (Passion + Intimacy + Commitment)*
    Couple can have great sex long after marriage
    Are happy to be with each others company
    Can’t imagine being with anyone else
    *Important:* Without communication, even the strongest of love will die

    • @kevinjacob2652
      @kevinjacob2652 3 года назад +22

      when you said 'the ultimate'
      i felt like some agent in val had their ult ready
      it's true tho, that kind of love is the greatest one amoungst them all

    • @fleursdecherisier
      @fleursdecherisier 3 года назад +12

      Ours was consumate but it still died.

    • @Amreva
      @Amreva 3 года назад +4

      Bruh thanks

    • @Amreva
      @Amreva 3 года назад +3

      Now... only if I could copy and paste

    • @Amreva
      @Amreva 3 года назад +1

      SOMEONE @ ME

  • @panssage
    @panssage 3 года назад +834

    Here is a reason you don't ship real people:
    My friends were shipping me with this person and they said things like 'you obviously like them' and stuff like that. This made me believe I did, when I didn't. They asked me out the next day and I said yes, but three days later I realised I never actually liked them, which put both of us in an awkward situation. It caused a lot of stress for the both of us.
    Conclusion: don't ship real people

    • @despinag.2461
      @despinag.2461 3 года назад +59

      Been there too, things went really bad and I can never go back to what I had with these people (both shippers and the "love interest"). Not that I actually want to but you get the point 😂
      Also matchmaking is a trap, a big bad one😵

    • @user-dl3vn8ze9n
      @user-dl3vn8ze9n 3 года назад +22

      *loads gun* I JUST WANNA TALK TO THEM, I SWEAR!

    • @throwawaychannel7612
      @throwawaychannel7612 3 года назад +29

      same. being shipped irl really sucks lol

    • @annj2252
      @annj2252 3 года назад +19

      Same thing happened to me but I was stuck in that shit for a very long time and everything went wrong. Now I really want to fall in love but that seems impossible. Shipping real people is the worst thing ....

    • @betterapproachtolife.motiv3265
      @betterapproachtolife.motiv3265 3 года назад +33

      Love should happen naturally .. being aware is important ..

  • @vivyash3851
    @vivyash3851 3 года назад +663

    The narrators voice is so soothing

  • @kaitlynrussell3769
    @kaitlynrussell3769 3 года назад +712

    BONJOUR MADAME I WOULD LIKE TO INFORM YOU THAT YOUR VOICE MAKES ME FEEL LIKE I AM IN A BLANKET BURRITO THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME

  • @pixxL_
    @pixxL_ 3 года назад +589

    Psych2Go: Here's 7 types of ways you can love your partner!
    Me: **laughs in alone**

  • @bonitabonita3431
    @bonitabonita3431 3 года назад +797

    1-Infatuation
    2-Liking/Friendship Love
    3-Empty Love
    4-Romantic Love
    5-Companionic Love
    6-Fatuous Love
    7-Consumic Love

    • @Missa92215
      @Missa92215 3 года назад +7

      Which one lasts a lifetime?

    • @alimunnaharsetu9415
      @alimunnaharsetu9415 3 года назад +21

      @@Missa92215 --- Consumic Love.

    • @bunille
      @bunille 3 года назад +9

      I prefer companionic love.

    • @1leadvocal
      @1leadvocal 3 года назад +10

      @@Missa92215 A parent's love

    • @witchhunter7652
      @witchhunter7652 3 года назад +19

      @@1leadvocal i can from experience that is not true

  • @confused_shark2537
    @confused_shark2537 3 года назад +1779

    Can we all agree the title sounds like something a guy would say in a commercial for relationship counseling?
    edit: You thought this was an edit thanking everyone for the likes, but it was me, ZA WARUDA!

  • @eliskadvorakova1717
    @eliskadvorakova1717 2 года назад +75

    My grandparents reached the ultimate lvl. Over 50 years together, still holding hands. They love to spend time with us, but when everyone leaves... I think that's when they feel happiest. They were getting frisky - well - till my pops had his hip replacement earlier this year... And honestly, how great is it knowing that when u turn 80 there's still a chance! I think it's both adorable and admirable... Sadly it's the only marriage to *last* in my entire family so far.

    • @willfeen
      @willfeen 2 года назад +10

      My grandparents, too. Married 77 years. He just passed away at 101. I think she cannot fully comprehend the world without him anymore but we still feel his love.
      It is my dream too. I have someone in mind :')

    • @Spiteeee_
      @Spiteeee_ 2 года назад +5

      Personally I found my love when I was 8 and 13 years later we’re still together I feel like I got lucky in my search for love

    • @Spiteeee_
      @Spiteeee_ 2 года назад +3

      @Will Francesco F my grandparents were the same way they both lived with eachother for there whole live since high school and they were always together happy

    • @willfeen
      @willfeen 2 года назад +2

      @@Spiteeee_ I wonder what I am missing.. or what they were missing.. either way, their happiness and legacy lives on and it seems a good role model for my life

    • @Spiteeee_
      @Spiteeee_ 2 года назад +3

      @@willfeen there legacy’s good to model off of but remember to create your own in the process your love won’t always be what you pictured but if it the right person it doesn’t have to be perfect

  • @eloquentornot
    @eloquentornot 3 года назад +100

    I'm really fed up with this constant assumption that friendship is inferior to romance. I'm aroace and I have no interest in ever "finding a partner", but I love my friends and family.

    • @Ace-jd2ty
      @Ace-jd2ty 3 года назад +15

      Same, though I'm just ace and not aro but friendship is definitely better than being in a romantic relationship with someone

    • @Kabbaway
      @Kabbaway 3 года назад +19

      I’m with you there. I’m demi and up until I fell in love with my best friend (now my fiancée) I didn’t think I was capable of romantic and/or sexual attraction. I do find the very mono-amorous bias a bit annoying, because it assumes that people should just be happy in a single relationship when in reality some people need multiple relationships to satisfy their needs otherwise they just fall into that “empty love”. “Consummate love” isn’t the ultimate kind of love - every type of love is valid and there shouldn’t be this great shame about you being content in your current relationship but wanting to develop romantic/sexual relationships with other people. I’ve found a partner who I’m very passionate, intimate and committed to, but we don’t hold ourselves to the highly rigid standard that we should never think about also being with anyone else. The presentation of consummate love is stated to be obtainable, but honestly it isn’t for everyone and other types of love shouldn’t be invalidated just because they don’t fit society’s rigidly monogamous standards.

    • @Kabbaway
      @Kabbaway 3 года назад +4

      I’m with you there. I’m demi and up until I fell in love with my best friend (now my fiancée) I didn’t think I was capable of romantic and/or sexual attraction. I do find the very mono-amorous bias a bit annoying, because it assumes that people should just be happy in a single relationship when in reality some people need multiple relationships to satisfy their needs otherwise they just fall into that “empty love”. “Consummate love” isn’t the ultimate kind of love - every type of love is valid and there shouldn’t be this great shame about you being content in your current relationship but wanting to develop romantic/sexual relationships with other people. I’ve found a partner who I’m very passionate, intimate and committed to, but we don’t hold ourselves to the highly rigid standard that we should never think about also being with anyone else. The presentation of consummate love is stated to be obtainable, but honestly it isn’t for everyone and other types of love shouldn’t be invalidated just because they don’t fit society’s rigidly monogamous standards.

    • @bonthebunnycat667
      @bonthebunnycat667 3 года назад +2

      Y e s
      I'm demiromantic and it's r e a l l y hard for me to fall in love with someone, I can have a really good time with friends without wanting to expand it into a relationship, but because I'm demiro, my relationships will always be like an expansion of my friendship with them, I would not say like "the next step" because that makes it sound like the friendship was inferior, it's the same but with more things, like more physical contact and all the stuff you do with your partner lmao

  • @vAqeii
    @vAqeii 3 года назад +625

    Type 1: Minecraft love will always last forever

  • @nicoleonfeels
    @nicoleonfeels 3 года назад +172

    Love for others enriches life, but love for the self is paramount.

    • @imhung8472
      @imhung8472 3 года назад +2

      I don’t know how to love myself, or even what it means...

    • @Trisof88
      @Trisof88 3 года назад +5

      @@imhung8472 it means taking care of yourself mentally, physically, spiritually and emotionally, understanding who you are and the things you like, enjoy and have passion for and then using such to find what your purpose in this life is.

  • @potatoyoutube9225
    @potatoyoutube9225 3 года назад +120

    THE ANIMATION AHHHHHHH IM DYING FROM CUTENESS N O

    • @sweetangel634
      @sweetangel634 3 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/02fIIYQYz_E/видео.html
      .................................................

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 года назад +17

      Thank you!!! Is this your favorite one so far?

    • @potatoyoutube9225
      @potatoyoutube9225 3 года назад +9

      @@Psych2go I LOVE every animation style you guys do🥰💕❤️ But something about this style brings out my happy emotions idk why🤔🤨☺️😊 but ahhhhhh, finally I have been noticed, because almost every video with this animation style, I comment about how I love it hahahahha 😅😂 HAPPY NEW YEAR🤩🥳💕😍🥰😘❤️

    • @lrchahaha9642
      @lrchahaha9642 3 года назад +1

      @@Psych2go It is mine!!! I really hope you guys stay with this one!!

    • @gilbertkadilo2774
      @gilbertkadilo2774 2 года назад

      Your animations are always lovely though this one is just so adorable

  • @arielklay23
    @arielklay23 3 года назад +64

    I was *very* blessed to experience consummate love with my late husband, Tim. We only had a short time together, but we were the best of friends *and* lovers! I find myself in love with him to this very day, even though he's been dead over 25 years. It's been painful at times, but totally worth it!

    • @bonthebunnycat667
      @bonthebunnycat667 3 года назад +16

      😭 I'm so sorry, but I'm happy that both of you had the best of times together

    • @Blast3x
      @Blast3x 2 года назад +9

      This made me tear up.

  • @trinityrichards8729
    @trinityrichards8729 3 года назад +51

    7 Types of Love 💖 :
    1. Infatuation - passion
    2. Liking/Friendship - intimacy
    3. Empty - commitment
    4. Romantic - passion, intimacy
    5. Fatous - passion, commitment
    6. Companionate - intimacy, commitment
    7. Consumate - intimacy, passion, commitment
    This is a whole new love triangle :)

  • @k31_444
    @k31_444 3 года назад +126

    This wasn't mentioned in the video (i think) but i feel like Platonic love would last longer than romantic love, you can fall out of love fairly quick in a romantic love unlike platonic love where, yeah you can break a friendship, but it'll be more painful, just my opinion tho...

    • @aaaaaaaafjjdjs
      @aaaaaaaafjjdjs 3 года назад +4

      yeah same :/

    • @LimeLivesMatter
      @LimeLivesMatter 3 года назад +3

      I hate platonic love, it's the same with Friendzone

    • @user-dl3vn8ze9n
      @user-dl3vn8ze9n 3 года назад +1

      Ikr

    • @user-dl3vn8ze9n
      @user-dl3vn8ze9n 3 года назад +19

      @@LimeLivesMatter bro platonic is pretty much just extra intimate friendship. Ya hate friendship?

    • @ferdinandmarcos8214
      @ferdinandmarcos8214 3 года назад +12

      Yeah! I believe Platonic love is much more linked to unconditional love. I want to experience this kind of love from friends. But it seems the people around me are not that the people I seem to have this kind of love with. They are good but sometimes I can't feel that we have the same values so I cannot connect with them deeply on a soul to soul basis. 😢
      My twin, soulmate, not necessarily a lover, I hope to find you someday.

  • @somesandman8328
    @somesandman8328 3 года назад +27

    Hey y’all,
    I just wanted to drive your attention to how much the quality of these videos have jumped, whether it’s the animation, color choice, the changes in the VA’s tone and word choice, and or the change in how the characters look!
    It’s awesome! Comparing these videos to videos from 2 months ago is night and day, great job!

  • @chaii8337
    @chaii8337 3 года назад +23

    *Summary*
    > 2:00 - Infatuation
    > 3:32 - Liking or friendship
    > 3:57 - Empty love
    > 4:28 - Romantic love
    > 4:51 - Companionate love
    > 5:29 - Fatous love
    > 5:54 - Consumate love
    Hope this helps ☺️

  • @dailydoseofmedicinee
    @dailydoseofmedicinee 3 года назад +72

    According to experts, mature love is the best kind
    It is imbued with security and serenity, which everyone needs. The emotional health of adult love is much more fruitful. It has benefits at the emotional, individual, and relationship level.👍

    • @sweetangel634
      @sweetangel634 3 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/02fIIYQYz_E/видео.html

    • @nadz7852
      @nadz7852 3 года назад

      ♥️

    • @ranterredhead5005
      @ranterredhead5005 3 года назад

      Encompasses all of the above throughout time.

  • @Dog-Lover36
    @Dog-Lover36 3 года назад +57

    According to Wikipedia, Robert Sternberg is still alive. He was born during the end of 1949, which would make him 71 years old.

  • @LetArtsLive
    @LetArtsLive 3 года назад +63

    A person who doesn't lie and has my back and I have their back and I don't lie and we lived happily ever after that would be nice.

    • @betterapproachtolife.motiv3265
      @betterapproachtolife.motiv3265 3 года назад +2

      Honesty (truth) can create a wonderful bond .. some who are romantic and tender are doing that to control the other later .. in other words they have an ulterior motive .. the hard part os working that out .. who is genuine? ..see my vid

    • @limitless7807
      @limitless7807 3 года назад

      Soulmate goals ♥

    • @nadz7852
      @nadz7852 3 года назад

      ♥️

  • @supercoolkid114
    @supercoolkid114 3 года назад +318

    “Only one lasts a lifetime”
    oH oK

    • @Limbogummy
      @Limbogummy 3 года назад +11

      Sad :(

    • @unknowns78
      @unknowns78 3 года назад +10

      Kinda overreaction

    • @recoveringsoul755
      @recoveringsoul755 3 года назад +6

      Love between a parent and child should be in there (without the sex)

    • @apackman1822
      @apackman1822 3 года назад +13

      @@recoveringsoul755 its fatous love or empty love(unconditional love). I don't know why people always say love has to have sex... did people really think that love only applies to Intercourse. if people don't understand this applies to friends too ((Intimacy= likes spending doing things with them) (commitment= dedicating time to them or for them) Intimacy+commitment= friends)), this whole thing can be applied to any Relationship *face palm*.
      Relationship:
      1: the state of being related or connected
      3 : the state of interaction between two or more people, groups, or countries
      I got rid of 2 because it was Redundant
      2 : connection by common ancestry or marriage

    • @recoveringsoul755
      @recoveringsoul755 3 года назад +2

      @@apackman1822 this video makes it seem like they are talking about "lets grow old together" kind of love

  • @loaf41
    @loaf41 3 года назад +131

    But he's a fictional character-
    ;-;

    • @sweetangel634
      @sweetangel634 3 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/02fIIYQYz_E/видео.html

    • @MEOWMIX3DS
      @MEOWMIX3DS 3 года назад +2

      WNAHAHAH

    • @MEOWMIX3DS
      @MEOWMIX3DS 3 года назад +2

      SAME

    • @redemptivememelord6283
      @redemptivememelord6283 3 года назад +5

      My waifu is imaginary; we are in a long term relationship, we have no problem with that. We just use whatever is available to us, which happens to be my brain's ability to emulate her.

    • @MEOWMIX3DS
      @MEOWMIX3DS 3 года назад +7

      @@redemptivememelord6283 depressing but i understand, man

  • @Palikawii
    @Palikawii 3 года назад +54

    To all of those people being negative and saying they hate themselves, I love you, I want you to be happy, I want you to smile, I want you to love yourself, I want you to feel loved ❤️

    • @joshy2joshy
      @joshy2joshy 3 года назад +14

      Palikawii I hope you don't take what I'm about to say as something as negative but I would like to add my two cents if you would be so kind to listen. While I appreciate what you have tried to do here, like so many other comments where I have seen the same. I do not believe it to be highly effective in the long term. I am not going to say you are wrong for trying to be kind and loving to strangers on the internet but, I certainly don't feel loved by a comment that anyone can read.
      I have a message for those who think the same as me.
      This message is more something I tell others; but in fact is something I need to keep telling myself.
      Try to find validation in yourself in whatever way you can. You might think you hate yourself, but if that's the case; you can certainly make a list on the things you hate about yourself that you want to improve/change. Be realistic, you can't change everything so easily. What you can improve? Make a list and work on them overtime. I will be honest and tell you that I jump back into the loop sometimes and I have been riddled with guilt and regret in the past. Don't get your all of validation from RUclips comments guys, support each other of course and try to give each other something to aspire to. Find in yourself what you want to find in others, and others shall follow.

    • @miztachow1527
      @miztachow1527 3 года назад +1

      @@joshy2joshy Wow. Just wow.

    • @Palikawii
      @Palikawii 3 года назад +2

      @@joshy2joshy yes, i understand what you mean and I’m sorry i didn’t think of this sooner, I hope you have a good day 😊

    • @despinag.2461
      @despinag.2461 3 года назад +4

      @@joshy2joshy you are totally right- about sharing with us how valuing our situation and making change within us and around us to improve ourselves as the best way to make things better 😗👌. I still like the encouraging messages from random people though! They remind me I have value even for a stranger. It's a unique feeling I get, however stupid it may sound.
      So I'm thankful for both of your comments 😊

    • @joshy2joshy
      @joshy2joshy 3 года назад +1

      @@Palikawii You too! I hope I didn't come across too negative there. Thank you for reading!

  • @mariapazgonzalezlesme
    @mariapazgonzalezlesme 3 года назад +204

    Does the adorable little dude with leaf hair have a name? They are so adorable _!!_

  • @Talkinglife
    @Talkinglife 3 года назад +77

    Philia - Affectionate Love. Philia is love without romantic attraction and occurs between friends or family members. ...
    Pragma - Enduring Love. ...
    Storge - Familiar Love. ...
    Eros - Romantic Love. ...
    Ludus - Playful Love. ...
    Mania - Obsessive Love. ...
    Philautia - Self Love. ...
    Agape - Selfless Love.

    • @multifandomfangirl9664
      @multifandomfangirl9664 3 года назад +3

      Got this video after playing SPM,
      Perfection :')
      Since the game a big theme around love.

  • @superstar-lr3un
    @superstar-lr3un 3 года назад +9

    as a psychology student, I really love your channel! I havent seen yet theses 7 types of love and it was really interesting thank you!!

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 года назад +1

      Thank you so much! Glad you found it interesting! Did you relate to any of these types mentioned?

  • @elasuchbae6501
    @elasuchbae6501 3 года назад +222

    Wait Stop scrolling.
    Your special. Let nobody tell you your not.

    • @charmaine7781
      @charmaine7781 3 года назад +4

      Thank you

    • @sophiexxx455
      @sophiexxx455 3 года назад +6

    • @nyctoverse5036
      @nyctoverse5036 3 года назад +5

      nah

    • @janarankovic8742
      @janarankovic8742 3 года назад +5

      ok first u say stop scrolling then u make us scroll to read ur message gurl ur so indecisive 😤 this kind of behaviour is unacceptable!

    • @cubesolver2564
      @cubesolver2564 3 года назад

      "Being special isn't always good."
      That quote affects me, and that's getting me nowhere, so if that quote is in your mind, remind yourself that being special is *often* good.

  • @00imz
    @00imz 3 года назад +8

    I want the kind of love that’s like 5) platonic but has intimacy..like those friendships in movies/shows where they hug/cuddle, sleep in the same bed and are always at each others houses, go everywhere together and have a close bond.

    • @lullabysorrow5746
      @lullabysorrow5746 3 года назад +4

      I just want a friend that's better than family for me, (my family relationship isn't really deep)
      Just a partner in crime, where it feels like we are on the same wavelength and we actually understand another. And don't got to pull teeth just to text, or hangout. The ones who know everything but keep it just between us two. But that is rare as hell. At least with romantic relationships you got that first month where everything is nice and happy.
      Most friendships feel like a missed target where you just motivate yourself to react with them.

    • @T_i_n_c_a_n
      @T_i_n_c_a_n Год назад +1

      I definetly think that friendships are too overlooked in today's age

    • @The_Queen_of_Hell
      @The_Queen_of_Hell Год назад

      @@lullabysorrow5746 I have found a person like this in my life. We're more platonic than romantic but we have a lot of intimacy

  • @user-jg9kz5yv9c
    @user-jg9kz5yv9c 3 года назад +97

    Type 8 : my love for fictional characters, that will never die

  • @nexela
    @nexela 3 года назад +48

    6:52 I JUST NOTICED THIS LITTLE TECHNOBLADE UNDER THE BED AND WILBUR ON THE SHELF OH MY GOD

    • @bookdragon9667
      @bookdragon9667 3 года назад +10

      And a little schlatt and fundy at 3:47
      Dream smp GOOO!😂

  • @BellTale9
    @BellTale9 3 года назад +8

    omg. who else here has a friend that you wish could be your girlfriend/ boyfriend, but you have no idea whether they like you or they find you awkward and dont like you? Its so hard isnt it? sometimes they get really close to your heart in a conversation and you think they like you, and other times they act like they're doing something else and dont have time to text or call you because they may find you annoying. not being able to tell if someone likes you or doesnt is so frustrating. you dont know what your doing wrong!!

    • @PureAmourr
      @PureAmourr 3 года назад +1

      OH MY GOD I DO

    • @PureAmourr
      @PureAmourr 3 года назад +1

      THIS IS SUCH A POV

    • @lilaavila3513
      @lilaavila3513 2 года назад

      Yes, but It should never feel forced , if it’s real 😊

  • @SamElle
    @SamElle 3 года назад +17

    i have companionate love with a lot of my friends and even though we have that connection, because we miss the passion, its hard to move it a step further into anything more than friends

    • @sweetangel634
      @sweetangel634 3 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/02fIIYQYz_E/видео.html
      .................................................

  • @Palikawii
    @Palikawii 3 года назад +9

    My life has gotten better thanks to this channel, I can’t thank you enough Psych2go

  • @alysxa_8285
    @alysxa_8285 3 года назад +21

    I really like the art style it's so cute it cheer's me up ^^

  • @ninascorner11
    @ninascorner11 3 года назад +14

    Me and my S.O. went from infatuation to fatous love to consumate! Idk if that's the way it should go but it took a while for us to actually because intimate and friends with one another. Trust was a big issue since he had dealt with a very abusive GF before me and I had dealt with a very abusive BF before him. Things have gotten so much better with all three however! He feels like home

  • @saliadel5238
    @saliadel5238 3 года назад +53

    Who else is watching this in the bed before sleep

    • @pixxL_
      @pixxL_ 3 года назад +1

      Nope it's 12:22 pm in my timezone

    • @ahmedatty3516
      @ahmedatty3516 3 года назад

      don't say you are Arabian

    • @saliadel5238
      @saliadel5238 3 года назад

      I'm not

  • @arpitkumar4525
    @arpitkumar4525 3 года назад +11

    Why are love and sex so synonymous? I don't see any link between these 2.

    • @justicecountryman4060
      @justicecountryman4060 3 года назад +1

      Your probably thinking of platonic love vs romantic love

    • @bonthebunnycat667
      @bonthebunnycat667 3 года назад +5

      Ikr, people can understand that there is sex without love, but can't understand that there is love without sex, everyone expects and pressures couples to be sexual.
      Or people think that because they have sexual chemistry, it's love

  • @ItsMeFern2019
    @ItsMeFern2019 3 года назад +37

    I'm no psychologist but I'm gonna have to disagree man. I believe most kinds of love can last a lifetime if done right. All love, even self-love requires work and commitment. ♥️ None is 100% definite nor 100% guaranteed to fail. :>

    • @sweetangel634
      @sweetangel634 3 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/02fIIYQYz_E/видео.html
      .................................................

    • @lullabysorrow5746
      @lullabysorrow5746 3 года назад +7

      Nah, sometimes things just fade. Just depends, could of been situational love (or friends) . Or just you two don't have enough in common anymore. Or one of you just changed or both. At one point you're just forcing it because either you don't want to be alone or because they didn't do anything wrong so just leaving them would just feel weird.

  • @triplekids3
    @triplekids3 3 года назад +7

    At 56 I’m finally leaning to love myself and first had to leave toxic people in my life

  • @bogart7076
    @bogart7076 3 года назад +11

    "consummate love...the ultimate form of love that is said to last a lifetime"
    uhhhhhh i was expecting self love but i guess this is pretty great too

    • @limitless7807
      @limitless7807 3 года назад +3

      Love is the purest feeling that stems from the soul 💜
      learn to love yourself, your soulmate will come.

    • @shatteredscry
      @shatteredscry 3 года назад +1

      Self love is the most beautiful thing I discovered. You can love yourself with no boundaries and as much as humanly possible without it being toxic.

  • @makaylaabruzzo4072
    @makaylaabruzzo4072 2 года назад +2

    I love how your sponsor has a natural flow into it. Seriously, no shade, but actual respect. 😊 I actually listened instead of skipped it AND showed my bf because I thought it had a good introduction. :) Keep up all your hard work in your videos!

  • @philrei2797
    @philrei2797 2 года назад +4

    Maybe I'm just naive, but I strongly believe my deep friendship can last forever

  • @twigsspars6259
    @twigsspars6259 3 года назад +21

    i would like to say, whoever animated this: above god level talent right there

  • @miickey519
    @miickey519 2 года назад +2

    Your voice is so calming, you’d do really well making guided meditations, 10/10 would listen

  • @JustRaven00
    @JustRaven00 3 года назад +75

    I am in a committed relationship with chili fries.

    • @betterapproachtolife.motiv3265
      @betterapproachtolife.motiv3265 3 года назад +4

      Mine is chocolate ... chocolate is faithful 😳

    • @limitless7807
      @limitless7807 3 года назад +2

      Love is the purest feeling that stems from the soul 💜
      learn to love yourself, your soulmate will come.

    • @x.lillian
      @x.lillian 3 года назад +1

      Lol

  • @iranoutofnames9985
    @iranoutofnames9985 3 года назад +58

    So, how do you love your partner?
    Me: I dont have one T^T

  • @daughteroftheking721
    @daughteroftheking721 3 года назад +8

    Gods love is the only love that last a life time and forever more . ✨❤️✨

  • @nathanperez3993
    @nathanperez3993 3 года назад +1

    BRO that sponsorship was CLEAN. i didnt even know until the name was said.

  • @oliverfulcher3532
    @oliverfulcher3532 3 года назад +1

    I will be making use by sharing this information with everyone i know -
    As well as my already strong need to ward off threats associated with, or opposing it.
    Thank you.
    Saved.

  • @boostmobile9249
    @boostmobile9249 2 года назад +4

    Self-CARE SELF-RESPECT LAST A LIFETIME..

  • @pompompucha
    @pompompucha 3 года назад +49

    Is it possible that each individual in a relationship experience a different kind of love, or is it a pair that share the same love? It felt like the love I thought I had was perfect, but what she felt was lesser. Can 2 people in a relationship experience different forms of love?

  • @kebah11
    @kebah11 2 года назад +2

    I feel like companionate love can also last a lifetime! Maybe or maybe not as a romantic relationship idk, but as close friends that almost seem like family? Heck yeah that can last a lifetime

  • @recycledgdev1950
    @recycledgdev1950 3 года назад +2

    Nice video,as always. But will there be a video which will teach us how we xan show how much we care for a person cuz I am in a place where I really need it

  • @PansyPops
    @PansyPops 3 года назад +49

    Seven types of love, one lasts forever, non I will experience.

    • @biggaylol5438
      @biggaylol5438 3 года назад +7

      I’m sure you’ll find somebody! Unless you’re aro, in which case i hope you find someone/people you love platonically!

    • @PansyPops
      @PansyPops 3 года назад +2

      @@biggaylol5438 same goes for you mate. ♥️

    • @haajto
      @haajto 3 года назад +1

      @@biggaylol5438 what means aro lol

    • @geryz7549
      @geryz7549 3 года назад +4

      @@haajto aromantic, like asexual but for romance (I think)

    • @nolife4588
      @nolife4588 3 года назад +1

      Unfortunately, same man.Cheers

  • @LittleCrazyGamer
    @LittleCrazyGamer 3 года назад +4

    I think "Liking or Friendship" doesn't cover familial love and the original platonic love (the love one has for their students). They are incredibly important kinds of love and definitely should not be overlooked.

  • @13vatra
    @13vatra 3 года назад +1

    That ad was smooth. I didn't realize it was an ad until about half way through. I was thinking "oh is one of the types of love much more likely to get into danger online?"

  • @___solar___
    @___solar___ 2 года назад +2

    Love thyself, so you can project that out onto your long term significant other. If both do that, then the forms of love are easier to attain. My friends, love yourselves.

  • @milkyturtle5347
    @milkyturtle5347 3 года назад +46

    Its 4 am here. And im still thinking bout her. Cant ever let go of her. Even after getting rejected.

    • @djphyre9388
      @djphyre9388 3 года назад +10

      Do you wanna talk about it man?

    • @ellen_kiffiany2607
      @ellen_kiffiany2607 3 года назад +7

      PLEASE TELL USSS

    • @bradShank
      @bradShank 3 года назад +10

      *Paul Rudd*
      "What the hell happened here?"

    • @OliviaMorning
      @OliviaMorning 3 года назад +7

      Sorry that happened😔

    • @milkyturtle5347
      @milkyturtle5347 3 года назад +14

      I liked another girl, she kinda helped me with that, but the other girl rejected me. Then after a while, I realized that she was really keen on helping me like, she really like tried to like tell me that "she ain't worth it". Then after a while, I confessed to her, she said that ,she really appreciate it, but she just didn't want to be in a relationship. We are still really close friend, but it gets at awkward sometimes

  • @davidmunro4653
    @davidmunro4653 3 года назад +17

    The love of chocolate lasts forever.

  • @kimsherlock8969
    @kimsherlock8969 3 года назад +1

    "LOVE IS ..." Was a cartoon in 1970s Newspaper cartoons, in NZ.
    I viewed them and derived..Love is the one whom has your back will stand with you,
    defend ones honesty and not become to the outside eyes a Mater with a burden.

  • @OriginalSuschi
    @OriginalSuschi 3 года назад +1

    I’ve already read about the seven types of love but together with these animations, I don’t mind at all to watch this video.

  • @user-oj3vv1yz5w
    @user-oj3vv1yz5w 3 года назад +4

    Just saw my ex from high school last night. I’ve known her since I was 12 and had a crush on her immediately. I dated her from 15 to 19 and treated her poorly before breaking up with her. We started talking during the pandemic. It had been 5 years since I had seen her last. We met at a bar and oh my god all the old feelings came rushing back. She has a boyfriend but that doesn’t bother me I was just happy to see her again. I think we had a good conversation and we were there from 10 to close. Tears flowed once or twice. I realized I’m probably still in love with her to some capacity. I’m really fucked up about this. She isn’t responding to my messages anymore. Idk what that means especially since she said text me whenever. Ugh.

    • @tren6893
      @tren6893 2 года назад

      Update?

    • @user-oj3vv1yz5w
      @user-oj3vv1yz5w 2 года назад +1

      @@tren6893 she texted me back a month later and we hit it off. Started just sending memes but in a short period of time she would end up calling me 3-4 times a day. Spending hours on the phone daily just confirmed it all in my mind. It made me all realize that I don’t have chemistry like that with anybody else I’ve ever met and I never wanted it to end. At the end of the day though we lived 6 hours away from each other and she was still living with her boyfriend. I could deal with it all because it meant that I still got to talk to her. She started sending me racy photos over snapchat and complaining about her boyfriend to me after 9 months of talking every day. I finally said we had to establish boundaries. That led to a 4 hour conversation about all the reasons it can’t work and that she felt betrayed that I loved her and kept up a facade of friendship. She said she was happy with where she was but then would justify all the shady stuff she was sending me (which I would ignore and never bring up that it made me uncomfortable) and her boyfriend being shitty to her. I told her that she was using me as a crutch to hold up her own relationship because their is no reason for her to be talking to an ex for 3 hours a day on average. She went from maybe we can talk once a day to once a week to once a month and I told her I don’t have any friends where I have to put limits on how much I can talk to them. We decided to not talk anymore. She snapped me the next week and I got upset. She got upset at me. We haven’t spoken in 6 months now. I think about her every day. I’ve dated someone since I stopped talking to her and it didn’t work. She said that her boyfriend proposed and she said no but they stayed together. That was extremely telling to me. Idk what happens now.

  • @nicopapaya
    @nicopapaya 3 года назад +6

    I’m in companionate Love with a friend and I’ve got the valor to tell her my feelings the next time we talk, I hope nothing wrongs happens... I don’t want to end our friendship cause of this. Tho I’m telling her that I LIKE her but she doesn’t have to feel the same way. Always looking for other’s better

    • @betterapproachtolife.motiv3265
      @betterapproachtolife.motiv3265 3 года назад

      Your being real with that ..

    • @anushkavm3335
      @anushkavm3335 3 года назад

      Will u share updates about this?

    • @nicopapaya
      @nicopapaya 3 года назад +1

      @@anushkavm3335 yeah

    • @anushkavm3335
      @anushkavm3335 3 года назад

      @@nicopapaya Ohk..
      I'll be waiting for updates then..

    • @limitless7807
      @limitless7807 3 года назад

      Love is the purest feeling that stems from the soul 💜
      learn to love yourself, your soulmate will come.

  • @harneeldesai3818
    @harneeldesai3818 3 года назад +1

    That transition to ad was hella smooth tho, didn't even realise when the ad started

  • @gamedesign1
    @gamedesign1 3 года назад +2

    I think love is organic and is made up of parts of each type in different amounts. It also constantly changes back and forth. We are not emotionally fixed creatures.

  • @an_unpleasant_or_stupid_person
    @an_unpleasant_or_stupid_person 3 года назад +4

    The title of the video already hits hard.

    • @sweetangel634
      @sweetangel634 3 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/02fIIYQYz_E/видео.html
      .................................................

  • @legaru9790
    @legaru9790 3 года назад +5

    Meanwhile, empty love and I are just vibing in the back

  • @muhlestermoon6436
    @muhlestermoon6436 3 года назад

    This sponsorship was so slick ...it didn’t force me to shut down this RUclips tab.

  • @stephanieg3554
    @stephanieg3554 3 года назад +1

    This is my favourite Theory in Psych... its also taught me why it's called a "Love Triangle" people tend to focus on literal aspects in life missing out various and alternative perspectives as in most cases on word can have many meanings - context and content specific...

  • @wysteriaherr8306
    @wysteriaherr8306 3 года назад +10

    I just realized how deep my love for my ex husband is this weekend. His mother had to have emergency surgery, and I dropped everything, rearranged my work schedule to be there for him.

    • @betterapproachtolife.motiv3265
      @betterapproachtolife.motiv3265 3 года назад +1

      Shame it did not work out for you

    • @wysteriaherr8306
      @wysteriaherr8306 3 года назад +2

      @@betterapproachtolife.motiv3265 we are talking about things we both did wrong and what we could do to fix things if we try to get back together. Maybe our story isn't over yet....

    • @betterapproachtolife.motiv3265
      @betterapproachtolife.motiv3265 3 года назад +1

      @@wysteriaherr8306 wow .. that is encouraging .. i wish you both well .. and even if you are not back together .. you will have a great friendship

  • @misterwolf3817
    @misterwolf3817 3 года назад +9

    UH yes, love. Seems to be too complicated so far and unrewarded.
    Remind me when I will have enough time and the ability to love again.

    • @sweetangel634
      @sweetangel634 3 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/02fIIYQYz_E/видео.html

    • @stevoplex
      @stevoplex 3 года назад

      I've been searching for a heart
      Searching everyone.
      They say Love conquers all
      You can't start it like a car
      You can't stop it with a gun.
      (Warren Zevon)

  • @lullabysorrow5746
    @lullabysorrow5746 3 года назад +1

    You have a really good speaking voice, its just really calm and welcoming.

  • @fistzarsprottnik5533
    @fistzarsprottnik5533 3 года назад +2

    There are no different types of love; love is love. But there are different types of relationships, where love&other things are mixed in a own, special way. This is what makes those relationships all special.
    But love is love. One energy, one feeling; love itself is one single, own thing. A relationship with love in it can have different influences with varying intensity. But love in itself is just love, while lust is lust, etc. It's very own thing. They're different things. They don't change their very substance, their material, what they are. But they can mix with each other, among other ingredients.

    • @evaldasstankevicius2378
      @evaldasstankevicius2378 3 года назад +1

      As much as i heard lust and love are connected in some way sure they are different thing, but if we talking only about feelings then they are connected.

    • @fistzarsprottnik5533
      @fistzarsprottnik5533 3 года назад +2

      @@evaldasstankevicius2378 yes, it's just weird that "love" here in the video is kinda used as if it was a synonym of "relationship", which is not true

  • @rajkuification
    @rajkuification 3 года назад +7

    And then there is Mom-child love...which is a whole new kind of love.
    The difference is this love can't be cheated, no betrayal, no heart breaks, only unconditional love

    • @sweetangel634
      @sweetangel634 3 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/02fIIYQYz_E/видео.html
      .................................................

  • @Ciazi
    @Ciazi 3 года назад +4

    Exactly what I needed

    • @sweetangel634
      @sweetangel634 3 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/02fIIYQYz_E/видео.html
      ...............................................

  • @chriskendall451
    @chriskendall451 2 года назад +1

    I really like how you have gone into detail about everything and has made me truly try with those I love and my lose I've delt with

  • @rajiprabha6479
    @rajiprabha6479 3 года назад +2

    This is such a cute art style!!! You guys should include more of these in videos..... Also your voice Is Soo soothing....

  • @fistzarsprottnik5533
    @fistzarsprottnik5533 3 года назад +5

    When "companiate love" is defined by it's so special connection, intimacy&commitment, then how does it make sense to say that "romantic love" ("companiate love"+passion) likely becomes "companiate love" when intimacy gets lost. While having especially deep intimacy is a key point of "companiate love"? Because this kinda contradicts itself

    • @lullabysorrow5746
      @lullabysorrow5746 3 года назад

      Because you still respect and value them as a person, and even though it's not as intense as when it first started, you enjoy life with them anyways and you want to keep on living each day with them. Helping another both grow into even stronger versions of themselves, and life without them would defiantly be a more dull experience.
      Pretty much just think of this, that classic disney couple's love story where it's all nice and magical and then once that's over they just live happily ever after. I think the only one you really get to see that with is the Cinderella movies, the first one where she falls for the prince, and the 3rd one "A twist in time" where you can see how they live together, which is just a normal happy pair.

  • @ihatemice_elf
    @ihatemice_elf 3 года назад +27

    "and can continue to have great (oof) for 15 or more years"
    *frowns in ace*

    • @sebastianmaker6798
      @sebastianmaker6798 3 года назад +7

      Don't forget, passion is more than just physical intimacy and sex. Passion is also the excitement you get around the person- sex is just the most common way of explaining it. But blushing in excitement, giving little gifts, and going out to do things together can keep the passionate area of love alive and healthy.

    • @betterapproachtolife.motiv3265
      @betterapproachtolife.motiv3265 3 года назад

      A problem area

    • @artintheblood
      @artintheblood 3 года назад +1

      Same! That's exactly how I felt!

    • @bonthebunnycat667
      @bonthebunnycat667 3 года назад +2

      Everyone forgetting that not everyone wants to have sex with their partners smh
      Or that we ace people don't experience sexual attraction, we can have a libido, but that doesn't mean we look at someone and want to fuck or be fucked by them 😭
      Relationships without sex are as valid as relationships with sex

  • @abyssal_phoenix
    @abyssal_phoenix 3 года назад +2

    The true love with all the 3 forms of attraction is known by me.
    Its how I fall for someone,
    - they need to fall into the wide category of good looking (if they do they trigger sexual fantasies)
    - I need to have the gut feeling of her golden pink aura (If she has it i start to develop a crush on her)
    - and of course the last one is the hardest, cause I need to date them to get that, and I never came that far. But know how I would know I woukd have mental attraction: she would understand me and push me to my boundaries, force me to become a better person.
    But I all those 3 points kinda fit with the earth. I got a deep connection with her, I love her beauty, I am mentally dependent on her and it is the most spiritual place

  • @mekalaikannan7757
    @mekalaikannan7757 3 года назад +1

    I am sooooo grateful i found this channel!☺

  • @PumpkinSpiceCat
    @PumpkinSpiceCat 3 года назад +17

    I'm not really into someone but I would really appreciate someone hwo likes the stuff that I like, LIKE SNEKS!!!

    • @betterapproachtolife.motiv3265
      @betterapproachtolife.motiv3265 3 года назад

      The other person can like different things .. love lifts the other up ..

    • @PumpkinSpiceCat
      @PumpkinSpiceCat 3 года назад

      @@betterapproachtolife.motiv3265
      İ mean like, a friend would be nice but love?? İ really don't want to waste my time on that

    • @limitless7807
      @limitless7807 3 года назад

      Love is the purest feeling that stems from the soul 💜
      learn to love yourself, your soulmate will come.

  • @xero99999
    @xero99999 3 года назад +7

    I love my anime body pillow

    • @sweetangel634
      @sweetangel634 3 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/02fIIYQYz_E/видео.html

  • @walelarose
    @walelarose 3 года назад +2

    I love the videos from this channel! For some reason the "Ooh romance is in the air" line humored me quite a bit XD

  • @ivapeneva6272
    @ivapeneva6272 3 года назад +2

    I needed this video soo much,thank you,thank you,thank youyuuu🥺🥰💗💕

  • @brianavatar8160
    @brianavatar8160 3 года назад +4

    I love the narrator she's the best

    • @sweetangel634
      @sweetangel634 3 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/02fIIYQYz_E/видео.html
      ...............................................

  • @sarcasticzhaira486
    @sarcasticzhaira486 3 года назад +6

    Me who doesn't confess:
    Ok ok I gotta be ready ya know-

  • @tutsybassista
    @tutsybassista 2 года назад +2

    The ability to LOVE and BE LOVED is the universes' ultimate 🎁
    If REAL and attained in your lifetime, this love is ETERNAL. ❤️

  • @Baddrawingsbutyouloveit
    @Baddrawingsbutyouloveit 2 месяца назад +1

    That ad... subtle...good one psych2go

  • @SilentTrip
    @SilentTrip 3 года назад +7

    What about
    Fake Love?

    • @sweetangel634
      @sweetangel634 3 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/02fIIYQYz_E/видео.html
      .................................................

  • @Kalimabw
    @Kalimabw 3 года назад +4

    Be careful with this. You can do everything right and love the person with all your being, but you are not guaranteed they're being truthful honest or even love you in return. People will lie to get what they want and what it seems like a lot of people want is to treat others like crap and blame everything on them too. I don't date anymore because I'm sick of the game. It's a mean and cruel game people like to play because apparently we enjoy hurting others. Most relationships are toxic because we're such a sociopath species.

    • @limitless7807
      @limitless7807 3 года назад

      Love is the purest feeling that stems from the soul 💜
      learn to love yourself, your soulmate will come.

  • @oa_43
    @oa_43 3 года назад +1

    i've been like a ghost on the internet
    but only to the day i met my soulmate
    Now i'm loud, i've got things to say, share my wisdom
    I say soulmate and i mean it. The whole Package.
    It was not fatuate when we met, well for me. High confidence (I never had before 😅)
    Caring (Her happiness is my happiness)
    We relate Way more than you'd think (it's what we found out by chatting together on the 1st week)
    We are both INFJ (the perfect couple)

  • @Enderbobender
    @Enderbobender 2 года назад +1

    6:44 everything in the room is just - yes but THE MINI WILBUR-

  • @sarablais2744
    @sarablais2744 3 года назад +10

    3:48 Jshlatt ? Fundy ??
    6:35 Techno ? Wilbur ??
    Love the MCYTers dolls 😂😍😱

    • @cutevibez9142
      @cutevibez9142 3 года назад +2

      Y e s

    • @elieveuvu6823
      @elieveuvu6823 3 года назад +2

      I was looking for this comment 🙏

    • @sarablais2744
      @sarablais2744 3 года назад

      @@elieveuvu6823 Yes ! I scrolled through the comments, and no one mentioned it 😂

  • @mubeendewan2287
    @mubeendewan2287 3 года назад +5

    I love these videos but theres one problem I have with them
    The intro sounds like an alarm and terrifies me every time I click on a video

    • @voidsthread
      @voidsthread 3 года назад

      you can turn the volume down....

    • @sweetangel634
      @sweetangel634 3 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/02fIIYQYz_E/видео.html
      .................................................

  • @ThePolaris87
    @ThePolaris87 2 года назад

    I wil totally make use of this Triangle theory of types of love now! I definitely have almost fallen into "Empty Love" a couple of times when a previous passionate and intense relationship ended and I just wanted anything with better commitment. Thanks!

  • @katherinedrain6231
    @katherinedrain6231 3 года назад +1

    Hehe don’t think I didn’t notice all the DreamSMP references! Love the video! Keep up the good work!