My dad is ENTP (I'm INTJ) and you described our usual antics perfectly. He'll just troll people he's known his entire life and they fall for it every time. Then he turns to me and smirks because I'm the only one who has noticed he's just trying to rile them up for entertainment purposes.
I've seen INTJ's open up to me like they have never done and never do to other types. Sometimes they even seem like extroverts, while to other people they are completely silent. We are really such a good duo and our conversations will never get boring. - ENTP
I enjoyed the video! My husband is an ENTP and I'm an INTJ and this helped me understand him better, we've been married 20 years and he keeps me interested, it's a good match, but he does annoy me, then he complains all of my being annoyed noises! You are so accurate, he makes sense (usually)to me, but often not to others. He is super smart, but I've found I can win any argument if I really want to as I can get into his weak spots very easily, but for a good marriage, I stopped doing that years ago, I let him think he wins alot because I love him.
I know! Although today, I wasn't as benevolent as usual. I lost it when putting up the Christmas tree, we always get a very tall one 14' and his logistics (once again) for how to best get it tied to the wall, sucked. I was recovering from a migraine and was way behind in work, so I was crabby and had minimal time to spend on securing the tree. Let's just say I could have been a little nicer, but when an INTJ needs to win, aka, get it done, we do. For an INTJ it isn't about winning, it's about being fed when someone is wasting our time and we have very little extra. I think that might be why we can cut to someone's core very quickly and matter of fact, our frustration and response to it isn't based on a desire to win, it's based on a desire to get this sh*t done with so we can move on to something more valuable.
As an INTJ, this video is reminding me of how much I miss my old ENTP friend. We aren't friends anymore, but while it lasted, it was a great time. I don't think I've ever laughed as much in any other period of my life.
ENTP female and I'll keep this texf short which is pretty unusual for us the typical ENTP s lol. GOD I LOVED the speed of your speech so much! I was able to follow you all the way through with joy since I did not get bored a single sec, i was learning and also getting entertained. Hahaha, we do love you and appreciate you intjs! I at least always get the chance to learn from you something and that satisfies me in such a meaningful way! Great video!
All my heroes have been ENTP’s (Ben Franklin, Voltaire, Bugs Bunny). At first I was so disappointed I tested as an INTJ and not ENTP. Not anymore, but I still love them.
I can relate my brother is an ENTP and just loves my company, keeps saying he loves my logic and how I understand things and much more. Keep it up bruh your videos are getting better and better👍
Hey, ENTP here. I love INTJs. If we're going to go by the stereotypes, INTJs, along with INTPs, tend to be the only types that ENTPs see as their potential intellectual superiors. Now, of course, that's a huge generality and will drastically vary. I tend to be a somewhat extreme example of the function axes. I'm not really centered, i tend to be on one pole or the other. So I do see at least *some* truth to this generality. Again, I'm fully aware that I'm nowhere near as smart as I think i am. I just have to remind myself of that... often...
Aristole has a quote that always reminds me of ENTPs and how truly intelligent you guys are because normal people go to school to learn something you guys do naturally. "It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it."
I want their brain and charisma ! ENTP say what INTJ have in mind and never dare say, that's in part why I love them. We are the unconscious side of each other, like the other N dom, they have this weird effect, I can be myself and weird without being judged. We agree, support, believe and understand each other, whereas the majority of people don't believe us. We instant connect, or rather they instant connect with us.
It really is nice to have a mind-mate! It's also funny too whenever I see my ENTP side come out and my ENTP friend is there watching me. He always gives me this look of approval 😅
Don't know about others, but I am appreciating every single video of yours in this series. I started diving deeper into MBTI a few months back and it has kinda saved me from an imminent identity crisis. I started finding it so helpful that I decided to use it as an alternative to going to therapy since I can't afford that 😂 I have a hard time connecting with people. Therefore MBTI works as a roadmap too. And I nowadays prefer your videos over RUclips to anyone else after getting to know you, because obviously, you are an INTJ first of all, and secondly, your videos are insightful, factual and honest. So please finish the series. I'm waiting to watch all of the personalities. And keep making more videos using your self-awareness to help other people. Best wishes and regards ❤
I'm always happy to hear that I'm making an impact with this channel! There are usually ways to get free/reduced-cost therapy if you search hard enough and they're usually localized if you feel like you really need it. Keep shining INTJ Queen, your community is here if you ever need us ✊
One of my favorite things about ENTPs is that they allow for the dark humor side of things to be experienced without me feeling like I'm the only jackass in the room for thinking such a joke. Your mileage may vary based on life experience, but I've always been the person who could see a situation that went bad, see how it could have gone infinitely worse, and turned that into a joke because I genuinely found the hyperbole and level of absurdity for how much would have to go wrong for that result to happen to be hilarious, and my ENTP friend (probably one of my closest personal friends at this point in my life) will be right there seeing it as well, but somehow he can get away with saying it, where I know people would think I'm being a jerk. I remember when we both used to do phone support calls and I would hear him say some of the most outlandish things to try and help a person understand an issue, and he would just breeze through that conversation like it was nothing while I'm sitting there like, "I could never say that to a customer... I'd be fired the next day if not sooner 😆." And in true INTJ x ENTP fashion, when we've had debates about a subject, I know I can always absolutely tell when I've already proven my point and now he's just fishing to try and make a comeback. Mostly cause he'll take the most incorrect aspect about his argument and try to double/triple/quadruple down in the hopes of just getting me upset. It only worked once, and that was almost 20 years ago when we first met. Funny enough it took 10 for him to admit that even during that time he knew I was right, and realized it pretty quickly (because we were arguing about a video game and we were both SUPER video game nerds with nothing better going on at that time ) and admitted his move at that moment was, "Just double down, and keep doing it until you doubted yourself and folded." But that instance led to what's been an almost 20yr long friendship now.
Unstoppable force meeting an immovable object! I've instinctively learned that when the ENTP starts doubling down that I just go with absurdity. If they're going to say stuff they really care about, I'm going to say stuff that doesn't make sense to see how they'll with it. It usually ends with us laughing at the end 😂
@@justcallmejon22 True enough brother. When we both just decide to go super absurd, we can get deep until one of us says something and both kind of look at each other and agree, "Maybe a step too far..." laughing the whole time
@@epyon02alpha42 I love taking yet another step further than when the INTJ thinks we’ve already gone too far🤘💃🏻🤘 Am entp with intj parent, multiple relationships, close friends and death metal bandmate😁… intjs all over my life!
I am entp who got a crush on intj and I'm pretty sure he like me back until he saw me doing 0:45 to other people and then he hates me from bottom of his heart 😅 this video really reminds me of him, too bad we're not talking anymore 😔
As ENTPs, we need an audience, we see ourselves through the mirror reflected by the reactions. We bow down before the god named Reaction. So it's always fun to be around someone who's a good audience. That's how connection grows
@@justcallmejon22 Yes for a lot of things, a big part of the incentive is anticipation of a reaction/response. There's a lot of energy in that. A good example for me is that I have a lot of tattoos, and they are all in highly visible areas like my arms, because what's the point in having tattoos that nobody can see? I probably would never have got tattoos if it weren't about cultivating a specific image of how I want to be perceived by others. Regarding the question about if it's not enjoyable if there's no reaction? I'd say that a lack of reaction or response response leaves a degree of ambiguity that is very uncomfortable to me. I think it ties into the Fe function being in third place and a bit underdeveloped, so I struggle to understand where I stand with people and how I fit in the absense of feedback. So for me it's not so much about taking enjoyment in reactions per se, more about reactions/responses clearing up ambiguity for a function that I have a lot of uncertainty and insecurity around. I feel safer and more confident when I know explicitly whete I fit in with a person or group of people. There def is an element of it that is for enjoyment, but it's a form of play on a surface level, but serves a deeper purpose than just the play.
We as ENTP's don't have FI at all. Not because it's not in our stack or because we favor Ti, but because of our Shadow type amongst the 4 sides to the mind. We have Fi Trickster meaning blindspot. So we quite literally HAVE 0 Fi. I 100% about not necessarily knowing how I feel or the moral parts of Fi.
@justcallmejon22 LOL. I'm that female ENTP that wrote up there. I'm here again to say that you are increeeeedibly funny and entertaining too, I sat down and read all the comments to also see what you replied to them and they had me cracking up all the time😅I just love your directness and authenticity dear intjs , not just the intellectual part! You say it as it is and this directness and bunt replies sometimes really really are very attractive to us 😁 my best conversational buddies are intjs, out of all, by far, you sit there and listen to us, you get us, we ramble on just about anything sometimes and you organize the chaotic Brainstorming we display at times and keep us on track and calm. Also you are one of the veery few types I really respect to listen to and take your opinions very much into accountabilty , something I don't like to admit, lol. I wish you all the best in life! We appreciate your existence here in the YT world very much, you are quick, extremely informative,funny, hell cute and entertaining too. I so enjoy your talk speed. Cheers!
I am ENTP and have a deep bound of romantice relationship with INTJ. It's as u said. He is like that and i am like that lolol. I enjoy ur contents. Thanks for making this.
i can't say my experiences with ENTP's is great. my ex best friend is an ENTP. I've been struggling to understand/ place if I'm an INTJ or an ENTJ. so not really sure on the compatibility🤔 He's an unhealthy ENTP so he's very aggressive. I have a strong growth-oriented mindset and feel as if we're to different now. characteristics that make me believe he's unhealthy are: constantly ignoring rules, being harsh insensitive and cruel, argues for the sake of arguing, having a superiority complex & whenever he gets any kind of advice/ constructive criticism on his action behavior or words playing victim believing the world is out to get him. you can see why my options of this type may not be favorable. I wish I knew more ENTP's so I'd have the idea of what a healthy one is like. so, I'll take your word for it when say these things about the ENTP personality. i also curious as to when ENTP's think about the INTJ/ENTJ personalities. 🤔
Everyone needs time to grow and everyone needs to be put in their place sometimes. I hope your ENTP friend has his moments soon so that your friendship is salvagable ✊
For the last 5yrs, my closest friend has been an intj. I've come to trust my intj friend just as much as my brother and sister, and is one of two people I would trust enough to bury a body together with. There's an episode of " Comedians in the Car Getting Coffee" with Steve Martin. It's pretty funny to see the similarities between those two and us.
as an INTJ, I whole-heartedly agree with the title. smiling throughout the video. my little sibling is an ENTP and we're like partners in crime in every little thing. though, I'd like to know where I can meet more ENTPs my age, preferrably in real life. any tips? thanks man
@@justcallmejon22 that's true, and we gotta love that convenience. then again, I'm trying to go outside more to meet and understand new peeps (hoping i'd come across an ENTP somehow.) also, if the INTJ x ENTP pair works like a charm in almost any type of relationship, then it would be fine to want them as a romantic partner in life? especially if both are matured. personally, I prefer being with someone who understands my wants and viewpoints in life, and I can offer the same thing to someone who thinks of the same. i'd like us to be partners-in-crime, achieving our separate and combined goals, being comfortable with each other's true character, living life the way we want that breaks the tradition, stereotypes, and bs standards society has made about romantic relationships.
1.21 No, baby! We don't like INTJ beause we want an audience. We want INTJ because they see us better than other people tend to and if they can get past their strange belief that what we are doing is all about our own ego, and realize that we are just what we are and we happen to be very loving and very loyal and love intelligence and honesty, that makes them very good partners. Especially because we can inspire and support each other to get stuff done. Getting stuff done is important. People randomly falling in "love" with us gets in the way of that. If an INTJ loves you, it means something more real. As long as they are not mistyped, anyway.
Intjs do see ENTPs for who you are! and I guess I did a poor job explaining that entertainment is not the only reasons why we pair so well together. You guys really do ensure us with all your antics and it's fun watching it happen 😅
Same reason we love ENTJs. We, ENTPs, really really value loyalty. I know that sounds like utter bullshit. We are cynical, we take nothing seriously, rules are guidelines....ect. No, I crave loyalty. I crave a group that always has my back. And being so confrontational makes our pool that much smaller. And with deep apathy, people are the last real frontier. And real talk, ENTJs are SUPER loyal...and INTJs....just gotta scale your castle walls. And yes, I have no Fi...just Fe with lots of Ne duct tape. It mimics Fi. But it's not. And I really don't give a fuck. So long as it fools everyone else. Because I barely give a fuck what you think. So there. I present some Fe that looks like Fi if you don't squint.
The easiest way to an INTJs heart is to just be yourself and doing it through Fe is just as fair. As long as we know who you truly are, whether you accept that you know who you are (or you don't), that's okay, because then it won't feel like we're being lied to. ENTPs are great people and we do admire you guys so keep doing you and we'll be your biggest and most loyal ally ✊
Bro you gonna have a total of 4.2k+ subscribers by end of this month(if you post more consistently you could go 5k aur at best possible outcome 7k+ sucscribers), and that color of light looks fantastic 🤩🥳
Naruto is entp and sasuke intj 😜 As an intj most of my Best friends were entp. It is way easier for me to communicate to an entp than to any other type.
Naruto is a cartoon character so he can be anything but he follows his Fi to the ends of the world so I stand by my typing of him being ENFP. Congrats on finding ENTPs, they really are great people to be around ❤
As an INTP I called out an ENTP because of their caviler attitude he got angry and severed ties I would of thought he would ask me questions as to why I would say that but instead of doing that this person just got offended . So don't call them out they will get offended .
It sounds like you might've attacked the ENTP's Fi and made him feel dumb. I learned from my lifelong INTP friend never to question an xNTP's intelligence. Yeah, it's okay to debate the topic but any attack on their intelligence is a no-no. I hope you two rekindle things if he was a good friend at one point ✊
This ENTP was fine being the reason to get a person's boyfriend jealous that rubbed me the wrong way as an INTP I have principals I stand by and I'm religious too your playing with fire when you mess with a person's boyfriend and girlfriend relationship it's wrong bottom line . @@justcallmejon22
as an INTJ with an ENTP sister, i love this video sm!!! makes me remember all the memories we've had together ^^ Edit: my best friend is ENTP too!! hehehe
As an INTP we are the introverted ENTP we have the same functions just in different slots so we as INTP's are 10 steps a head of them since we have the same functions we get each other's logic and we strip away things with Ti right to the bone So I get their reasoning and the ridicules' things they say lol! .
Listen here buddy. As an ENTP I must clarify that just because I claim that not having an opinion is about honest as that stripper in the back claiming your special while taking your wallet does not mean I'm all over the place. There is no place. I'm homeless
I have an INTJ neighbor with whom i just click! He is older than me and he respects me and i respect him. It seems like respect flows equally between us two.
I've been trying to figure out which type I am for a while now, always balancing between ENTP and INTJ. At somw point of time I started thinking I am an ENTP but then I've watched a great deal if your videos (they are great btw, big thanks for what youre doing) and the doubts returned. I can say I can relate pretty often but not all the time. But what you said about reasons why ENTP's sad... It's been always PEOPLE to me. I guess I finally have my answer. Well, until I start doubting it again 😂
I think one of the biggest tell is that as an Fi-user, INTJs don't really have to question what type we are, I tend to see it happen more with types that have Fi in their bottom 5-8th stack. But regardless, enjoy the journey of self-discovery, my friend ✊
I’m an entp and omg I definitely have some things you got wrong but I’m working on being nicer so good job I’m literally in love with all y’all intjs I love sitting there and rattling about all the shit that’s wrong with the world and y’all just smiling and add feedback without talking the attention off me
The best things about intjs, they understand me easily. I don't have to explain myself. It is so smooth. They accept different opinions and sarcasm They don't get offended easily. It is like they see through us.
(Entp me) trying to hate an intj (yes only intj in my life) found 1000% charisma and 100% hate some how, sometimes forget the hate though, he is the only guy who can understand my obstruct question. But felt so sorry that in my fe no one likes him or actually fear him but dont say, but entp in front of intj become an intj in my case, and he just became entp chameleon thats cute though, but i just said his deep quirk that nobody knows and that surprised him and proud he reaction was pure🎉
I guess that I'm not the only one thinking/feeling that way: a part of the rivalry and obsession is based on envy. An INTJ can plan the entire week ahead, but his frustration is immense when his boss comes along and gives him a priority task that throws all plans out of the window and requires emergency rescheduling in order to minimize damages... Rolling with the punches is not really our strength and that's something we'd love to have and envy from ENTP and ESTP... Acting like them can be a lot of fun and therapeutic at times, but in the end, it's an act and unlike the real persona it will cause fatigue. Of course, in the case of ENTP, there are two other factors: We'd love to have their people skills and as you mentioned, engaging in deep conversations is important to us. BTW: I had a colleague at work and I can't really tell if she was an ENTP, but I'm very sure that she was a rare female psychopath. She was fun to hang out with and talk to and I can barely put into words how I felt observing her. It was both amazing and creepy seeing that she displayed a personality that was tailor-made for the person she was interacting with (and seeing her change was very creepy). She was amazing at cold-reading, lying, and manipulating. It was like meeting Michelangelo and being able to watch him work. We did have a it of this ENTP-INTJ dynamic and I half-jokingly admired her psychopathic traits. She obviously knew that I knew and she didn't care... Normal people would be offended, or try to deny it. Perhaps you'd expect her to threaten me. Nothing of that sort. She was confident in the fact that people would believe her lies more than my truths...
As an ENTP, Fi freaks me out, and I always think of the worst. I tend to believe that people with dominant Fi are more likely to be depressed, etc. I don't even let things like the word depression exist in my reality. I'm still new to MBTI, so I’m probably wrong. In a way, I'm glad I don't have it. I like the idea of looking at society from outside the box.
The grass always seems greener on the other side but as an Fi user myself, Fi isn't that bad. Emotions comes and goes easier now that I'm more aware of them and I'm more empathetic as a result 🙂
That person is liked. We just don't care about them ... more than any other liked person. We like people. Can't date or marry them all, you know? I used to have so many guys chasing me, telling me "But, but .. I love you." They didn't know me. "We get along. I think you're special." I told them to get in line with everyone else that said that. "Why won't you ... (sleep with me, marry me, have my baby, etc?)" Because, you've done nothing to distinguish yourself from all the other people that ask the same thing and there is not enough of me to give that much to so many. So I need someone that actually knows me, is attracted to the person I am not the current display of some small parts of me that they see, and who isn't going to try to force me to fit into their terribly tiny and boring mold of who I should be. But, we like you, in general.
This is very true. I often wonder and struggle with boundaries when it comes to attention to give to others. especially with the opposite sex, I don’t like how I’m coming off as easy enough for them to propose things like you have said. while also being prudish and thinking “ew how can you really think you know me?”. I expect a deeper connection
@justcallmejon22 Hi ENTP here! I enjoy your mbti content so much. I have a sister who is an INFJ and she is the one who introduced me to mbti and shows me a lot of content made by INFJ youtubers that I couldn't follow because of their slow speed (I didn't tell her because I don't want to hurt her Fe). But I literally finished this video without pressing the pause button even once. I was thinking about my intj friend from 11th grade and your video just brought back all the lovely moments I spent with him back then. I miss him so much. My classmates literally did not understand why we were so close and ask me how do I even talk to him. But honestly I don't know, I just talk! All I want to say to him is "You were great, thank you so much for getting me!"
@@justcallmejon22 I don't know how to go about with that, it's been 2 years and we are not that close, just friends and I don't know what he will reply...Maybe he will think Iam weird....🤷
Why and how do most people already have close-to-perfect friends or good friends? No. Why do people have friends like they're collecting pokemon while I struggle to communicate with people both online and in the real world? I can't even communicate properly with the people inside my mind 🤚🤚🤚
Not with that attitude! I personally lucked out because I was raised around Fe and community has been instilled into me since birth. If people don't like you, then you need to work on yourself and practice, practice, practice. Don't forget that to get something you never had, you have to do things you've never done. You'll get there if you put in the effort INTJ ✊
@@justcallmejon22 True! Same goes for me (the Fe part) But may I have a suggestion from you Sir? On how to face such people/situations and how to avoid constant Se grip? Context: I don't really care whether people like me, I just don't want to be misunderstood every time I talk. I've noticed that people around me tend to quickly judge and jump to conclusions without further thinking or respect. When I try to clarify, they either cut me off or continue with their lives, seemingly with their ears tightly closed. I feel like there's a side of me desperate for friends and to develop meaningful connections (since that's my everyday view, but most of them are not meaningful). But, on the other side, something inside me is pulling me away from trying to make friends or genuinely doing so, it wants me to focus on self development and goals. And a loop has started. At some point in life, I experienced many Se grips and developed an ESXP personality for survival, despite having social anxiety. But when I manage to get out of Se grip again, and resist using the EXSP persona just to fit in and function, I'm able to be in my correct mind and use NiTe at the fullest. But all my social skills suddenly gone and my social anxiety rise again. My memory about my EXSP personality would fade, like having amnesia.
Who needs Te when one has developed a fully consistent Ti? Ahaha yeah there are always some bigger problems we can’t fully solve alone with internal frameworks as you mentioned. For now 🤣 Great video 👏
As an INFP with an ENTP best fren, it is quite exhausting but their good traits such as loyalty eccentricity and much more overweighs them. AND if u r like still in sch or smth, sitting beside them is entertaining bcs they r normally the ones being called out by the teachers cuz if their antics. I get entertained by them all the time
@@justcallmejon22 oso right, i hv a crush on an INTJ n asked “wuh if we dated”. She replied with “Ahh? It wont happen tho cuz gna be awk asf” cuz she’s scared of her frens’ opinion cuz they heavily ship us. I was devastated
Real story, an entp I was talking to just randomly said hit ler was right. I quipped back about Germany's advances in the sciences during that time and how a lot of our technology is based on stuff we stole from them. They gave that troll smile and said it was a shame about the unalive people. Although it pisses me off when entp argue points they don't agree with just to bs. This comment is such a RUclips.
We take the perspectives from fe people which is basically te and installed them in our ti framework, actually 50% of them we applied in the life which is basically collective thinking mashing up into 10-15 ideas And intjs brain omg Our ne ti big talk 2 minutes even the abstract question....intj answered that just in a few seconds casually...(i didnt know how) I think entp who dont even half master their intj always will be in this Ti problem
@@justcallmejon22 yes, but 50% of time even intj had to do the work by pseudo esfp mode and we had to do our work by psudo isfj mode....fe is the energy here basically we had to do this if the work or data can not make sense or could not take up by our speedy ne ti (expl even ne ti false things i could took up so fast and wrote that but cant say...so has this viva problem, no one know how i can do this until i found mbti) Intj struggles the same...did the work 2x faster than me...but low (se-si) hampered i think But for entp even at last moment mastermind intj(shadow) helped us for short period of time... Just ni te did the work... Being robotic just took the data did nt want to do any si work (blast first called recently known) So I kind of half know now how much anxiety intj guys felt (i dont even envy for the intj iq) Dont knew that" my shadow is the best" lol Dont know how the hell our goal is somehow so same lol
As for intj he could absorb data that was not accurate i guess, so intj need to met with people for asking ti question for "te absorbing inspiration" i guess... but entp me not only gave ti but also ne ti (thats when intjs eye sparked and i found that beautiful.... I dont need appreciation.... I need some one who values my ne ti (and no one values my data like intj ❤️) And i need te for present and future actually Intj not only gave me te but also ni te explanation, lol I didnt throw away intjs ni te btw ❤️❤️ & entp things They sometimes failed and make it their advantage somehow (like joker..... there are always a plan for plan or iron man making a extra gauntlet) Fi absent advantage (we do not need fi appreciation and others found that humble lol,) Entp -- visionary multitasking or very good at real estate or ne fe people or making things that people wants but dont know Intj-- 3x more intuition power but one will with many te plan so has high anxiety... doing work with less effort but perfect step by step i guess
Idk but I've had the worst relationship with every ENTP I've met. I can deal with every other intuitive type. But not them. Especially my ENTP ex cheated me when I was at the lowest point in my life and my Fi was in a completely shattered state.
It sucks to hear that you've been cheated on, I feel your pain because I've been through it as well. What I do want to point out is that there was a point where you decided to date the ENTP. So regardless of the outcome, you saw something in this person that attracted you but in the end...F*** that ho!
3:48 So true... now I can nail down a new friend's personality type that I suppose to be mistyped (from ENTP to INTJ) according to online assessment. This guy told nonstop, filling up over 90% of conversation, which truly amazed me that it's the first time I met someone who is more talkative and abstract than me. He expressed his humble hope if I could narrow down topics, otherwise he would get overwhelmed, which really puzzled me, for he was the one who expanded topics infinitely and told endlessly even after I reminded him that we should halt to go back to real life (~3 hours till midnight). After he finally hanged up the phone, he switched to social media to continue his invigorating brainstorm, and gave me 'hug' text as an ending that gave me goosebumps.
I just bought the same car as my brother in law even down to the colour. Why? I dunno maybe it’s because he has to be the best at everything and maybe because I want to watch him watch his baby sister drive the same car as him. I am an ENTP whilst I love a little trolling, I am actually most looking forward to when my INTP son figures out the joke. XD
I have a 17 year old ENTP son. He was already 9 when I met his mother. Our relationship rocked before the marriage - when I wasn't seen as a parental authority. Now a combination of teenage and ENTP rebellion are directly at odds with ... well the world. There's no discussion on anything. Just nonstop Ne blasting Ti facts about how stupid everything is. He is personification of the stereotypical teen thinking they know everything because they consumed a theory in class, online or from a book. Basically, he hasn't had the life experience to build an adequate database of Si. (We all overcompensate with our savior/hero functions.) There's nothing as fun as having my Fi/Se directly attacked because things I experienced in life are WRONG due to his secondhand consumption of some knowledge that was different. It's like having my very existence challenged. Dude, don't attack my lesser functions. They aren't as mature, and they will fight or flight you.
I experience very similar things with younger INTPs, as well. They think they know everything, yet haven't left their room longer than 10 minutes on a daily basis and thats just so they can quickly grab food before running back onto their computer and browsing wikipedia and chat forums. With more life experience, both types quell their ego a bit, once they realize that life is nothing like what they've read online. They need a little "worldview shattering" to really come into their own. I'd say ENTPs are much more passionate and headstrong, though. Which, I actually quite admire and enjoy, since I am very similar. Just less outwardly dramatic (child Fe vs child Fi dynamic). My advice? Give it some time and allow your son the space to fall on his face a few times. We all need a little struggle to mature and learn and grow.
I'm saddened to hear that you're having a tough time with your ENTP son. Teenagers just suck in general, I've had to tell my nieces and nephews to shut up so many times in my life because they were being disrespectful to their parents. I'm sure my parents felt the same way about me when I was growing up and I didn't leave my room much either because I had the internet and felt like the smartest person in the room. I don't have any wise words to end this comment but I see your pain. Hopefully, you two find a happy medium soon and if not, kids usually start respecting their parents when they become an adult themselves. Chin up INTJ, you got this ✊
@@justcallmejon22 Thank you. I'm really fine. I was a jerk at his age - and still am in many ways. He just needs to get his but kicked by life a bit. He's off to college next year, and even if he goes somewhere close, he's not staying at home. The push and pull of living in a confined space with roommates is going to do wonders. The main goal right now is to not do anything so rash before he moves out that we hold a grudge against each other down the road.
@@justcallmejon22 In the vein of "Dang, I'm the problem!" there's an update. As I'm learning to type others, the student sometimes has to be the subject. Last month, it was my turn to be typed in the Objective Personality System by the founder's and online community of students. Seven of the thirty people typing me came up with the exact same 512 ENTP type (OPS has extra sublayers beyond the MBTI 16-types). Only one of the thirty found me to be any sort of INTJ. How we see ourslves and how the world sees us aren't necessarily congruent. So there it is. I relate to being an INTJ because deep down, I want to see myself that way. I see all my funcitons in order, but want to see the opposite extraverted/introvered energy in myself. Some of it may be that I'm older and have learned to be somewhat well-rounded. Some of it may be an intrinsic drive for balance. Some of it may be self-delusion. I'm still processing... Keep up the great content and rock on.
Can intjs take time to text back because im gettin the feeling that shes not interested even though she avoids unadding me or me unadding her.I jus feel that im being lead on
@@justcallmejon22 I already cut her off😭 this happened consistently so I just thought shes lying now.I want to add her back but I’ll look needy,I jus give too much which I should stop doing.should I add her back or just move on
@@Luca_683 dude, i literally had the very same experience, but i was the female intj in the story. I knew this guy for years and he was my classmate and I knew that he had a crush on me. i also have feelings for him but i haven't texted him back for 4 long years, because i felt like i wasn't ready and i also had severe social anxiety and deep insecurities about myself, so i planned to work on it before i can go back to him (oc nothing's guarantee cause we never tried to communicate properly, and he might already had a gf, who knows). I tried to text him yesterday and im glad that it all went well. i'm just sharing my perspective as a female intj struggling with relationship, hope this could be helpful, or not
I would much rather be with INTJ than INFJ. Reason being is INFJ is too secretive. And dark. Every time I talk to an INFJ for a while they always end up door slamming me. I hate that. It is super disrespectful. I had an INFJ walk away briskly from a conversation and avoid me from there on. An INTJ would never do that. If there are other ENTPs out there tell me if yall can relate. INTJs are awesome. I love you all
It sucks to hear about your negative experiences with INFJs but I assure you that it's a personal thing and not an INFJ thing because I know INTJs that will do the same things that you described your INFJs doing. I hope the best and that you find someone out there that you relate to that will allow you to be the true version of yourself ✊
I would actually advice to never trust an infj. They have got some agenda brewing inside. Something that might not even be obvious to them. Fe puts on appearances and you can’t fool us of the dark depths while using a mutual Fe function. Intj ni connection is trustworthy and loyal while infj is shifty
2min into the video I can tell I like watching you haha... I'm a 38y old ENTP, but Enneagram 8, so instead of just saying it, I would actually enjoy winning challenges and THEREBY trolling the annoyingly ambitious ENTJ. 😜 You do realize you talk a lot and fast yourself, though, right? The knife analogy OMG 🤣🤣🤣 Agree with the need for validation and with the Fi fallacy (I care a lot about people who I shouldn't care about), but usually I'm the one consolidating the information shared by other intellectual types, asking questions until I feel satisfied and distilling to the essence of "does it make sense what you're throwing at me (Ti) and what else is there tangentially to inquire about (Ne)?" I thought it was a Te - Ti relationship. I'm a little thrown by your observation. Can you tell me what I'm missing?
If you're anything like my ENTP friends, I'm sure we'd get along easily! I'm not really sure what you're asking but I want to know so that I can answer properly! Please rephrase the question as if I'm a 5 year old 🙂
@@justcallmejon22 basically, my Ti feeds on Te, Te provides me facts and popular opinions, tells me whose expert information makes sense to review and then Ti grinds it through my internal logical framework and spits out if it makes sense or doesn't. That's a game I love playing Te users. 😉 However, it sort of contradicts your observation. How's that?
@@justcallmejon22 thx uncle jon . I want to learn how se - si work . May from estj and esfj . Because we intj so inferior se . Develop se = intj home works 😁
I just relised im having a very similar reltionship to that entp +entj +Intj exampel you gave its Not an Entj in tmy case .but i started loughing when i relised. I know your game now friend. only a matter of time Till they will know that i relised. ( dang did i have Trubel typing this ).
I dont want to be my INTJ partners entertainment. I want to be important enough for a small amout of fe validation of my feelings. When i said "i wish you were here" It wasnt to pull him from his hyper focus. It just would have been comforting to hear "i know, i havent forgot about ya." Im focused, but i hear ya." He can send me a music video about grinding his focus, but cant acknowledge me for 30 seconds. 🤬
I hear you ENTP, and I've heard it throughout my dating life. Trust me when I say that the INTJ wouldn't be with you if they didn't see you as an equal. I'm not sure if you know this about INTJs but him sending you a music video is his way of expressing emotions and showing that he cares. INTJs feel very abstract, so we'll send a video that can better describe our emotions than we ever can. In regards to your emotional needs, might sound weird to you because you don't have Te but tell your INTJ that you want at least (x) comments/compliments per week and you'll get it. We don't throw out compliments like fortune cookies so you'll know that the INTJs mean every one of them. Good luck ENTP and please take care of my fellow INTJ ✊
@@justcallmejon22 But that's just how it is, Ni man, Yawhey, Jhehova, whatever you want to call him, is INTJ because he is Satan's shadow, and I know you know, Satan is entp af. Classic duo brother. We run the rest of these fools.
But if entp and intj are talking they both thinking themself as an villain that i could tell, cz just remove each others feelings some how ♨️(entp me not an extrovert with this experience)
My dad is ENTP (I'm INTJ) and you described our usual antics perfectly. He'll just troll people he's known his entire life and they fall for it every time. Then he turns to me and smirks because I'm the only one who has noticed he's just trying to rile them up for entertainment purposes.
It's always so entertaining 😂
it sounds so perfect
I've seen INTJ's open up to me like they have never done and never do to other types. Sometimes they even seem like extroverts, while to other people they are completely silent. We are really such a good duo and our conversations will never get boring. - ENTP
ENTPs are easily one of our favorite partners in crime ✊
I’m working on an INTJ now. Getting close to cracking the barrier
I enjoyed the video! My husband is an ENTP and I'm an INTJ and this helped me understand him better, we've been married 20 years and he keeps me interested, it's a good match, but he does annoy me, then he complains all of my being annoyed noises! You are so accurate, he makes sense (usually)to me, but often not to others. He is super smart, but I've found I can win any argument if I really want to as I can get into his weak spots very easily, but for a good marriage, I stopped doing that years ago, I let him think he wins alot because I love him.
Congrats on finding an ENTP! I swear ENTPs get an adrenaline kick from "winning' a debate against INTJs and you're a good partner to let him win 😅
I know! Although today, I wasn't as benevolent as usual. I lost it when putting up the Christmas tree, we always get a very tall one 14' and his logistics (once again) for how to best get it tied to the wall, sucked. I was recovering from a migraine and was way behind in work, so I was crabby and had minimal time to spend on securing the tree. Let's just say I could have been a little nicer, but when an INTJ needs to win, aka, get it done, we do. For an INTJ it isn't about winning, it's about being fed when someone is wasting our time and we have very little extra. I think that might be why we can cut to someone's core very quickly and matter of fact, our frustration and response to it isn't based on a desire to win, it's based on a desire to get this sh*t done with so we can move on to something more valuable.
As an INTJ, this video is reminding me of how much I miss my old ENTP friend. We aren't friends anymore, but while it lasted, it was a great time. I don't think I've ever laughed as much in any other period of my life.
ENTP female and I'll keep this texf short which is pretty unusual for us the typical ENTP s lol. GOD I LOVED the speed of your speech so much! I was able to follow you all the way through with joy since I did not get bored a single sec, i was learning and also getting entertained. Hahaha, we do love you and appreciate you intjs! I at least always get the chance to learn from you something and that satisfies me in such a meaningful way! Great video!
Thank you! I feel the same about ENTPs, you guys always give me something to ponder later 😅
All my heroes have been ENTP’s (Ben Franklin, Voltaire, Bugs Bunny). At first I was so disappointed I tested as an INTJ and not ENTP. Not anymore, but I still love them.
Same! My ISFJ sibling always looked at me strange when I told them my favorite characters were the ENTPs 😂
Bugs bunny?
@@cardboardking577
ENTP here. Buggs is my spirit animal. He's most certainly ENTP.
No way bad bonny I'm kms
Forget it I read it again
My best friend is an INTJ.
We are the most chaotic duo ever
(ENTP)
The nonsense that our pairing gets into is so entertaining 😂
I can relate my brother is an ENTP and just loves my company, keeps saying he loves my logic and how I understand things and much more. Keep it up bruh your videos are getting better and better👍
Keep your brother on track! They tend to lose vision of their goals often 😅
@@justcallmejon22 oh for sure I know that. It why I have to be hard with him at times.
Hey, ENTP here. I love INTJs. If we're going to go by the stereotypes, INTJs, along with INTPs, tend to be the only types that ENTPs see as their potential intellectual superiors.
Now, of course, that's a huge generality and will drastically vary. I tend to be a somewhat extreme example of the function axes. I'm not really centered, i tend to be on one pole or the other. So I do see at least *some* truth to this generality.
Again, I'm fully aware that I'm nowhere near as smart as I think i am. I just have to remind myself of that... often...
Aristole has a quote that always reminds me of ENTPs and how truly intelligent you guys are because normal people go to school to learn something you guys do naturally.
"It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it."
Me.. peoples favorite phrase towards me is "I'm not that stupid"/"yes cause y you know it all" spoiler I don't 😢
I want their brain and charisma ! ENTP say what INTJ have in mind and never dare say, that's in part why I love them.
We are the unconscious side of each other, like the other N dom, they have this weird effect, I can be myself and weird without being judged.
We agree, support, believe and understand each other, whereas the majority of people don't believe us.
We instant connect, or rather they instant connect with us.
It really is nice to have a mind-mate! It's also funny too whenever I see my ENTP side come out and my ENTP friend is there watching me. He always gives me this look of approval 😅
Don't know about others, but I am appreciating every single video of yours in this series.
I started diving deeper into MBTI a few months back and it has kinda saved me from an imminent identity crisis. I started finding it so helpful that I decided to use it as an alternative to going to therapy since I can't afford that 😂
I have a hard time connecting with people. Therefore MBTI works as a roadmap too.
And I nowadays prefer your videos over RUclips to anyone else after getting to know you, because obviously, you are an INTJ first of all, and secondly, your videos are insightful, factual and honest.
So please finish the series. I'm waiting to watch all of the personalities. And keep making more videos using your self-awareness to help other people.
Best wishes and regards
❤
I'm always happy to hear that I'm making an impact with this channel! There are usually ways to get free/reduced-cost therapy if you search hard enough and they're usually localized if you feel like you really need it. Keep shining INTJ Queen, your community is here if you ever need us ✊
One of my favorite things about ENTPs is that they allow for the dark humor side of things to be experienced without me feeling like I'm the only jackass in the room for thinking such a joke. Your mileage may vary based on life experience, but I've always been the person who could see a situation that went bad, see how it could have gone infinitely worse, and turned that into a joke because I genuinely found the hyperbole and level of absurdity for how much would have to go wrong for that result to happen to be hilarious, and my ENTP friend (probably one of my closest personal friends at this point in my life) will be right there seeing it as well, but somehow he can get away with saying it, where I know people would think I'm being a jerk.
I remember when we both used to do phone support calls and I would hear him say some of the most outlandish things to try and help a person understand an issue, and he would just breeze through that conversation like it was nothing while I'm sitting there like, "I could never say that to a customer... I'd be fired the next day if not sooner 😆." And in true INTJ x ENTP fashion, when we've had debates about a subject, I know I can always absolutely tell when I've already proven my point and now he's just fishing to try and make a comeback. Mostly cause he'll take the most incorrect aspect about his argument and try to double/triple/quadruple down in the hopes of just getting me upset. It only worked once, and that was almost 20 years ago when we first met. Funny enough it took 10 for him to admit that even during that time he knew I was right, and realized it pretty quickly (because we were arguing about a video game and we were both SUPER video game nerds with nothing better going on at that time ) and admitted his move at that moment was, "Just double down, and keep doing it until you doubted yourself and folded." But that instance led to what's been an almost 20yr long friendship now.
Unstoppable force meeting an immovable object! I've instinctively learned that when the ENTP starts doubling down that I just go with absurdity. If they're going to say stuff they really care about, I'm going to say stuff that doesn't make sense to see how they'll with it. It usually ends with us laughing at the end 😂
@@justcallmejon22 True enough brother. When we both just decide to go super absurd, we can get deep until one of us says something and both kind of look at each other and agree, "Maybe a step too far..." laughing the whole time
@@epyon02alpha42 I love taking yet another step further than when the INTJ thinks we’ve already gone too far🤘💃🏻🤘
Am entp with intj parent, multiple relationships, close friends and death metal bandmate😁… intjs all over my life!
As an Intj, my best friend is an Entp. He’s the best!!
Me: *talking*
ENTP: 😦😲🥹😍☺️🤭
Me: Got'm
Easy peasy
Yes. I'm entp and my husband intj. ❤
Congrats on finding yourself an INTJ! Please take care of him for us 🙏
I am entp who got a crush on intj and I'm pretty sure he like me back until he saw me doing 0:45 to other people and then he hates me from bottom of his heart 😅 this video really reminds me of him, too bad we're not talking anymore 😔
I don't know if you did already but you should ask him how he feels. Good luck ENTP! 🙂
Awwww thanks buddy really warms my heart🥹
A sappy ENTP 😉
Dating an entp and it’s nice I feel like I process her thoughts and organize them for her sometimes. Also my profile pic is an INTJ ENTP couple (S;G)
Haven't dated and ENTP before but I see the appeal. Still waiting for one to enter my life 🙃
As ENTPs, we need an audience, we see ourselves through the mirror reflected by the reactions. We bow down before the god named Reaction. So it's always fun to be around someone who's a good audience. That's how connection grows
That's so interesting. Is it not enjoyable if there's no reaction? Does that de-incentivizes you not to do something if a person isn't there to react?
@@justcallmejon22 Yes for a lot of things, a big part of the incentive is anticipation of a reaction/response. There's a lot of energy in that. A good example for me is that I have a lot of tattoos, and they are all in highly visible areas like my arms, because what's the point in having tattoos that nobody can see? I probably would never have got tattoos if it weren't about cultivating a specific image of how I want to be perceived by others.
Regarding the question about if it's not enjoyable if there's no reaction? I'd say that a lack of reaction or response response leaves a degree of ambiguity that is very uncomfortable to me. I think it ties into the Fe function being in third place and a bit underdeveloped, so I struggle to understand where I stand with people and how I fit in the absense of feedback. So for me it's not so much about taking enjoyment in reactions per se, more about reactions/responses clearing up ambiguity for a function that I have a lot of uncertainty and insecurity around. I feel safer and more confident when I know explicitly whete I fit in with a person or group of people.
There def is an element of it that is for enjoyment, but it's a form of play on a surface level, but serves a deeper purpose than just the play.
ENTP here. This is so refreshing. Thank you. ❤️
I gotchu ✊
We as ENTP's don't have FI at all. Not because it's not in our stack or because we favor Ti, but because of our Shadow type amongst the 4 sides to the mind. We have Fi Trickster meaning blindspot. So we quite literally HAVE 0 Fi. I 100% about not necessarily knowing how I feel or the moral parts of Fi.
It's okay ENTP, that's what some of us are here for! You just gotta learn to trust us 😀
@justcallmejon22 LOL. I'm that female ENTP that wrote up there. I'm here again to say that you are increeeeedibly funny and entertaining too, I sat down and read all the comments to also see what you replied to them and they had me cracking up all the time😅I just love your directness and authenticity dear intjs , not just the intellectual part! You say it as it is and this directness and bunt replies sometimes really really are very attractive to us 😁 my best conversational buddies are intjs, out of all, by far, you sit there and listen to us, you get us, we ramble on just about anything sometimes and you organize the chaotic Brainstorming we display at times and keep us on track and calm. Also you are one of the veery few types I really respect to listen to and take your opinions very much into accountabilty , something I don't like to admit, lol. I wish you all the best in life! We appreciate your existence here in the YT world very much, you are quick, extremely informative,funny, hell cute and entertaining too. I so enjoy your talk speed. Cheers!
I am ENTP and have a deep bound of romantice relationship with INTJ. It's as u said. He is like that and i am like that lolol. I enjoy ur contents. Thanks for making this.
Happy to hear that you enjoyed it! Take care of your INTJ for us and don't cause him to have gray hair earlier than he needs to 🙃
And bro sound effects are getting better everytime 🥳🥳🥳 thats so cool 🤩🤩
i can't say my experiences with ENTP's is great. my ex best friend is an ENTP. I've been struggling to understand/ place if I'm an INTJ or an ENTJ. so not really sure on the compatibility🤔 He's an unhealthy ENTP so he's very aggressive. I have a strong growth-oriented mindset and feel as if we're to different now. characteristics that make me believe he's unhealthy are: constantly ignoring rules, being harsh insensitive and cruel, argues for the sake of arguing, having a superiority complex & whenever he gets any kind of advice/ constructive criticism on his action behavior or words playing victim believing the world is out to get him. you can see why my options of this type may not be favorable. I wish I knew more ENTP's so I'd have the idea of what a healthy one is like. so, I'll take your word for it when say these things about the ENTP personality. i also curious as to when ENTP's think about the INTJ/ENTJ personalities. 🤔
Everyone needs time to grow and everyone needs to be put in their place sometimes. I hope your ENTP friend has his moments soon so that your friendship is salvagable ✊
For the last 5yrs, my closest friend has been an intj. I've come to trust my intj friend just as much as my brother and sister, and is one of two people I would trust enough to bury a body together with.
There's an episode of " Comedians in the Car Getting Coffee" with Steve Martin. It's pretty funny to see the similarities between those two and us.
Plausible deniability 😉
as an INTJ, I whole-heartedly agree with the title. smiling throughout the video. my little sibling is an ENTP and we're like partners in crime in every little thing. though, I'd like to know where I can meet more ENTPs my age, preferrably in real life. any tips? thanks man
I think the internet is the best place to find ENTPs. Oddly enough, I think that's the best place to find us INTJs as well 😂
@@justcallmejon22 that's true, and we gotta love that convenience. then again, I'm trying to go outside more to meet and understand new peeps (hoping i'd come across an ENTP somehow.) also, if the INTJ x ENTP pair works like a charm in almost any type of relationship, then it would be fine to want them as a romantic partner in life? especially if both are matured. personally, I prefer being with someone who understands my wants and viewpoints in life, and I can offer the same thing to someone who thinks of the same. i'd like us to be partners-in-crime, achieving our separate and combined goals, being comfortable with each other's true character, living life the way we want that breaks the tradition, stereotypes, and bs standards society has made about romantic relationships.
I love ENTP they understand INTJ so well. When INTP stir the pot I don’t like it but I like it when ENTP. Favorite duo is iron man and Dr strange
I like listening to them both althought INTPs tend to be more hardheaded because they have Dom Ti instead of Aux Ti 😂
1.21 No, baby! We don't like INTJ beause we want an audience. We want INTJ because they see us better than other people tend to and if they can get past their strange belief that what we are doing is all about our own ego, and realize that we are just what we are and we happen to be very loving and very loyal and love intelligence and honesty, that makes them very good partners. Especially because we can inspire and support each other to get stuff done. Getting stuff done is important. People randomly falling in "love" with us gets in the way of that. If an INTJ loves you, it means something more real. As long as they are not mistyped, anyway.
Intjs do see ENTPs for who you are! and I guess I did a poor job explaining that entertainment is not the only reasons why we pair so well together. You guys really do ensure us with all your antics and it's fun watching it happen 😅
Same reason we love ENTJs. We, ENTPs, really really value loyalty. I know that sounds like utter bullshit. We are cynical, we take nothing seriously, rules are guidelines....ect. No, I crave loyalty. I crave a group that always has my back. And being so confrontational makes our pool that much smaller. And with deep apathy, people are the last real frontier. And real talk, ENTJs are SUPER loyal...and INTJs....just gotta scale your castle walls.
And yes, I have no Fi...just Fe with lots of Ne duct tape. It mimics Fi. But it's not. And I really don't give a fuck. So long as it fools everyone else. Because I barely give a fuck what you think. So there. I present some Fe that looks like Fi if you don't squint.
The easiest way to an INTJs heart is to just be yourself and doing it through Fe is just as fair. As long as we know who you truly are, whether you accept that you know who you are (or you don't), that's okay, because then it won't feel like we're being lied to. ENTPs are great people and we do admire you guys so keep doing you and we'll be your biggest and most loyal ally ✊
Bro you gonna have a total of 4.2k+ subscribers by end of this month(if you post more consistently you could go 5k aur at best possible outcome 7k+ sucscribers), and that color of light looks fantastic 🤩🥳
I appreciate the support brotha ✊
Naruto is entp and sasuke intj 😜
As an intj most of my Best friends were entp.
It is way easier for me to communicate to an entp than to any other type.
Naruto is a cartoon character so he can be anything but he follows his Fi to the ends of the world so I stand by my typing of him being ENFP. Congrats on finding ENTPs, they really are great people to be around ❤
As an INTP I called out an ENTP because of their caviler attitude he got angry and severed ties I would of thought he would ask me questions as to why I would say that but instead of doing that this person just got offended . So don't call them out they will get offended .
It sounds like you might've attacked the ENTP's Fi and made him feel dumb. I learned from my lifelong INTP friend never to question an xNTP's intelligence. Yeah, it's okay to debate the topic but any attack on their intelligence is a no-no. I hope you two rekindle things if he was a good friend at one point ✊
This ENTP was fine being the reason to get a person's boyfriend jealous that rubbed me the wrong way as an INTP I have principals I stand by and I'm religious too your playing with fire when you mess with a person's boyfriend and girlfriend relationship it's wrong bottom line . @@justcallmejon22
ento here, Agree
as an INTJ with an ENTP sister, i love this video sm!!! makes me remember all the memories we've had together ^^
Edit: my best friend is ENTP too!! hehehe
Sounds like a lot of shenanigans 😂
As an INTP we are the introverted ENTP we have the same functions just in different slots so we as INTP's are 10 steps a head of them since we have the same functions we get each other's logic and we strip away things with Ti right to the bone So I get their reasoning and the ridicules' things they say lol! .
Having personally been in situations with both the ENTP and INTPs, I can honestly say that you guys are some of the most innovated types that I know 😅
Listen here buddy. As an ENTP I must clarify that just because I claim that not having an opinion is about honest as that stripper in the back claiming your special while taking your wallet does not mean I'm all over the place. There is no place. I'm homeless
But...the dancer Crystal really does like me! I swear it! 🙃
I have an INTJ neighbor with whom i just click! He is older than me and he respects me and i respect him. It seems like respect flows equally between us two.
Kudos to you because it's really difficult to earn our respect ✊
I've been trying to figure out which type I am for a while now, always balancing between ENTP and INTJ. At somw point of time I started thinking I am an ENTP but then I've watched a great deal if your videos (they are great btw, big thanks for what youre doing) and the doubts returned. I can say I can relate pretty often but not all the time. But what you said about reasons why ENTP's sad... It's been always PEOPLE to me. I guess I finally have my answer. Well, until I start doubting it again 😂
I think one of the biggest tell is that as an Fi-user, INTJs don't really have to question what type we are, I tend to see it happen more with types that have Fi in their bottom 5-8th stack. But regardless, enjoy the journey of self-discovery, my friend ✊
Aww thanks pookie hhahha..bruh i came here... being like...what is he going to say..and u just gave me a bunch of complements...merci Mon amor
I don't know how to respond to this 😅
Omg ur adorable though
I’m an entp and omg I definitely have some things you got wrong but I’m working on being nicer so good job I’m literally in love with all y’all intjs I love sitting there and rattling about all the shit that’s wrong with the world and y’all just smiling and add feedback without talking the attention off me
Helping Ne compartmentalize your thoughts and allow you to arrive to your own conclusion is fun an Ni dom 😅
0:35 Nah, I like it when their Fi gets triggered, it's very stimulating
I guess, if you're about that life 😂
The best things about intjs, they understand me easily. I don't have to explain myself. It is so smooth. They accept different opinions and sarcasm They don't get offended easily. It is like they see through us.
It's always entertaining to see where the trolling goes 🙂
(Entp me) trying to hate an intj (yes only intj in my life) found 1000% charisma and 100% hate some how, sometimes forget the hate though, he is the only guy who can understand my obstruct question. But felt so sorry that in my fe no one likes him or actually fear him but dont say, but entp in front of intj become an intj in my case, and he just became entp chameleon thats cute though, but i just said his deep quirk that nobody knows and that surprised him and proud he reaction was pure🎉
Yup! It's both easy and fun to put on the ENTP personality when we're together 🤣
I guess that I'm not the only one thinking/feeling that way: a part of the rivalry and obsession is based on envy.
An INTJ can plan the entire week ahead, but his frustration is immense when his boss comes along and gives him a priority task that throws all plans out of the window and requires emergency rescheduling in order to minimize damages... Rolling with the punches is not really our strength and that's something we'd love to have and envy from ENTP and ESTP... Acting like them can be a lot of fun and therapeutic at times, but in the end, it's an act and unlike the real persona it will cause fatigue.
Of course, in the case of ENTP, there are two other factors: We'd love to have their people skills and as you mentioned, engaging in deep conversations is important to us.
BTW: I had a colleague at work and I can't really tell if she was an ENTP, but I'm very sure that she was a rare female psychopath. She was fun to hang out with and talk to and I can barely put into words how I felt observing her. It was both amazing and creepy seeing that she displayed a personality that was tailor-made for the person she was interacting with (and seeing her change was very creepy). She was amazing at cold-reading, lying, and manipulating. It was like meeting Michelangelo and being able to watch him work. We did have a it of this ENTP-INTJ dynamic and I half-jokingly admired her psychopathic traits. She obviously knew that I knew and she didn't care... Normal people would be offended, or try to deny it. Perhaps you'd expect her to threaten me. Nothing of that sort. She was confident in the fact that people would believe her lies more than my truths...
I guess my question is why can't INTJs enjoy the sensual life as well? We do have Se and the Se-grip is a commonly talked about term in the community.
I see what you did there at the end, lol.
😉
Yep, watch Butch Cassidy and the Sundance kid, And tell me Sundance isn't INTJ and Butch is an ENTP. Greatest depiction ever.
Flat nose is ESFP, he just loves reading his name in the paper, Butch. Logan is a classic ISTP asshole. (Was thinking on it the other day.)
News Carver, not flat nose I mean. I forget the movie. Now I remember. Watch the knife fight scene.
9:40 challenge accepted. ~ entp. Going all out on psychology
Do it 😉
As an ENTP, Fi freaks me out, and I always think of the worst. I tend to believe that people with dominant Fi are more likely to be depressed, etc. I don't even let things like the word depression exist in my reality. I'm still new to MBTI, so I’m probably wrong. In a way, I'm glad I don't have it. I like the idea of looking at society from outside the box.
The grass always seems greener on the other side but as an Fi user myself, Fi isn't that bad. Emotions comes and goes easier now that I'm more aware of them and I'm more empathetic as a result 🙂
I need to find me some INTJs.
We're everywhere! Just tone down the extravertedness around us a little; it scares our baby Se 😂
That person is liked. We just don't care about them ... more than any other liked person. We like people. Can't date or marry them all, you know? I used to have so many guys chasing me, telling me "But, but .. I love you." They didn't know me. "We get along. I think you're special." I told them to get in line with everyone else that said that. "Why won't you ... (sleep with me, marry me, have my baby, etc?)" Because, you've done nothing to distinguish yourself from all the other people that ask the same thing and there is not enough of me to give that much to so many. So I need someone that actually knows me, is attracted to the person I am not the current display of some small parts of me that they see, and who isn't going to try to force me to fit into their terribly tiny and boring mold of who I should be. But, we like you, in general.
This is very true. I often wonder and struggle with boundaries when it comes to attention to give to others. especially with the opposite sex, I don’t like how I’m coming off as easy enough for them to propose things like you have said. while also being prudish and thinking “ew how can you really think you know me?”. I expect a deeper connection
Also, I think I can talk faster than you Mr. INTJ
I didn't realize how fast I talked until I started watching my videos. That's my normal speed when I'm talking about something I'm interested in 😂
The 3 minutes it takes an ENTP to know what and who they are, become obsolete, as we've already evolved.
What's the next stage of evolution? I always thought Charizard's overrated.
@@justcallmejon22 Mega Evolution xD
@justcallmejon22 Hi ENTP here! I enjoy your mbti content so much. I have a sister who is an INFJ and she is the one who introduced me to mbti and shows me a lot of content made by INFJ youtubers that I couldn't follow because of their slow speed (I didn't tell her because I don't want to hurt her Fe). But I literally finished this video without pressing the pause button even once.
I was thinking about my intj friend from 11th grade and your video just brought back all the lovely moments I spent with him back then.
I miss him so much. My classmates literally did not understand why we were so close and ask me how do I even talk to him.
But honestly I don't know, I just talk!
All I want to say to him is "You were great, thank you so much for getting me!"
You should text him what you just commented! INTJs appreciate authenticity and an authentic compliment is one of the best things to receive 🙂
@@justcallmejon22 I don't know how to go about with that, it's been 2 years and we are not that close, just friends and I don't know what he will reply...Maybe he will think Iam weird....🤷
Why and how do most people already have close-to-perfect friends or good friends? No. Why do people have friends like they're collecting pokemon while I struggle to communicate with people both online and in the real world? I can't even communicate properly with the people inside my mind 🤚🤚🤚
Not with that attitude! I personally lucked out because I was raised around Fe and community has been instilled into me since birth. If people don't like you, then you need to work on yourself and practice, practice, practice. Don't forget that to get something you never had, you have to do things you've never done. You'll get there if you put in the effort INTJ ✊
@@justcallmejon22 True! Same goes for me (the Fe part)
But may I have a suggestion from you Sir? On how to face such people/situations and how to avoid constant Se grip?
Context:
I don't really care whether people like me, I just don't want to be misunderstood every time I talk. I've noticed that people around me tend to quickly judge and jump to conclusions without further thinking or respect. When I try to clarify, they either cut me off or continue with their lives, seemingly with their ears tightly closed.
I feel like there's a side of me desperate for friends and to develop meaningful connections (since that's my everyday view, but most of them are not meaningful). But, on the other side, something inside me is pulling me away from trying to make friends or genuinely doing so, it wants me to focus on self development and goals. And a loop has started.
At some point in life, I experienced many Se grips and developed an ESXP personality for survival, despite having social anxiety.
But when I manage to get out of Se grip again, and resist using the EXSP persona just to fit in and function, I'm able to be in my correct mind and use NiTe at the fullest. But all my social skills suddenly gone and my social anxiety rise again. My memory about my EXSP personality would fade, like having amnesia.
Bro I'm INTJ and I feel the same :-/
Who needs Te when one has developed a fully consistent Ti? Ahaha yeah there are always some bigger problems we can’t fully solve alone with internal frameworks as you mentioned.
For now 🤣
Great video 👏
I appreciate it 🙏
I have yet to encounter an ENTP but from what I've heard they can be quite... exhausting.
As an INFP with an ENTP best fren, it is quite exhausting but their good traits such as loyalty eccentricity and much more overweighs them. AND if u r like still in sch or smth, sitting beside them is entertaining bcs they r normally the ones being called out by the teachers cuz if their antics. I get entertained by them all the time
Well..as an INTJ...everyone is exhausting eventually 😅
@@justcallmejon22 oso right, i hv a crush on an INTJ n asked “wuh if we dated”. She replied with “Ahh? It wont happen tho cuz gna be awk asf” cuz she’s scared of her frens’ opinion cuz they heavily ship us. I was devastated
i feel called out and it's uncomfortable....(regarding fe vs. fi)
Embrace your Fi!
Real story, an entp I was talking to just randomly said hit ler was right. I quipped back about Germany's advances in the sciences during that time and how a lot of our technology is based on stuff we stole from them. They gave that troll smile and said it was a shame about the unalive people.
Although it pisses me off when entp argue points they don't agree with just to bs.
This comment is such a RUclips.
I'm glad you didn't fall for the trap! ENTPs really are intelligent people even though they said some of the 'strangest' things 🙃
There’s something I don’t understand you uncle Jon. How do you have so many friends as an INTJ?
TBH, I lucked out. I happened to grow up close to an ESFP and ESFJ and they kept bringing people into the circle.
“Unless you attack someone’s Fi”
Muhahahahahaha all the biases must be destroyed regardless of how deeply held they are in someone’s mind 😈
I'm not going to stop you from doing it ENTP, but I'm also not going to coddle you when your feelings get hurt in the process 😂
It's obvious that the joker 🃏 is in love with batman, but do u think that batman loves him back?
I don't know if love is reciprocated because the ENTP is enjoying messing with Batman's Fi 😅
@@justcallmejon22 😢
We take the perspectives from fe people which is basically te and installed them in our ti framework, actually 50% of them we applied in the life which is basically collective thinking mashing up into 10-15 ideas
And intjs brain omg
Our ne ti big talk 2 minutes even the abstract question....intj answered that just in a few seconds casually...(i didnt know how)
I think entp who dont even half master their intj always will be in this Ti problem
lol at your second point about condensing information. It's all thanks to Mama Te and her need for efficiency 😅
@@justcallmejon22 yes, but 50% of time even intj had to do the work by pseudo esfp mode and we had to do our work by psudo isfj mode....fe is the energy here
basically we had to do this if the work or data can not make sense or could not take up by our speedy ne ti (expl even ne ti false things i could took up so fast and wrote that but cant say...so has this viva problem, no one know how i can do this until i found mbti)
Intj struggles the same...did the work 2x faster than me...but low (se-si) hampered i think
But for entp even at last moment mastermind intj(shadow) helped us for short period of time... Just ni te did the work... Being robotic just took the data did nt want to do any si work (blast first called recently known)
So I kind of half know now how much anxiety intj guys felt (i dont even envy for the intj iq)
Dont knew that" my shadow is the best" lol
Dont know how the hell our goal is somehow so same lol
As for intj he could absorb data that was not accurate i guess, so intj need to met with people for asking ti question for "te absorbing inspiration" i guess...
but entp me not only gave ti but also ne ti (thats when intjs eye sparked and i found that beautiful.... I dont need appreciation.... I need some one who values my ne ti (and no one values my data like intj ❤️)
And i need te for present and future actually
Intj not only gave me te but also ni te explanation, lol
I didnt throw away intjs ni te btw ❤️❤️
& entp things
They sometimes failed and make it their advantage somehow (like joker..... there are always a plan for plan
or iron man making a extra gauntlet)
Fi absent advantage (we do not need fi appreciation and others found that humble lol,)
Entp -- visionary multitasking or very good at real estate or ne fe people or making things that people wants but dont know
Intj-- 3x more intuition power but one will with many te plan so has high anxiety... doing work with less effort but perfect step by step i guess
Idk but I've had the worst relationship with every ENTP I've met. I can deal with every other intuitive type. But not them. Especially my ENTP ex cheated me when I was at the lowest point in my life and my Fi was in a completely shattered state.
It sucks to hear that you've been cheated on, I feel your pain because I've been through it as well. What I do want to point out is that there was a point where you decided to date the ENTP. So regardless of the outcome, you saw something in this person that attracted you but in the end...F*** that ho!
yeah
Yup
3:48 So true... now I can nail down a new friend's personality type that I suppose to be mistyped (from ENTP to INTJ) according to online assessment.
This guy told nonstop, filling up over 90% of conversation, which truly amazed me that it's the first time I met someone who is more talkative and abstract than me.
He expressed his humble hope if I could narrow down topics, otherwise he would get overwhelmed, which really puzzled me, for he was the one who expanded topics infinitely and told endlessly even after I reminded him that we should halt to go back to real life (~3 hours till midnight).
After he finally hanged up the phone, he switched to social media to continue his invigorating brainstorm, and gave me 'hug' text as an ending that gave me goosebumps.
That sounds like Ne for sure 😂, Enjoy their company INTJ!
I just bought the same car as my brother in law even down to the colour. Why? I dunno maybe it’s because he has to be the best at everything and maybe because I want to watch him watch his baby sister drive the same car as him. I am an ENTP whilst I love a little trolling, I am actually most looking forward to when my INTP son figures out the joke. XD
I don't even know what to say to this but you're playing the long game on this troll and I love it 😂
hmmm if u had a choice would u marry an ENTP or ENFJ
Iam an ENTP but i don't think myself smart even though my friend Istj tell me that iam 😂😅
Everyone is smart in their own way so I'm sure you are 😁
I have a 17 year old ENTP son. He was already 9 when I met his mother. Our relationship rocked before the marriage - when I wasn't seen as a parental authority. Now a combination of teenage and ENTP rebellion are directly at odds with ... well the world. There's no discussion on anything. Just nonstop Ne blasting Ti facts about how stupid everything is. He is personification of the stereotypical teen thinking they know everything because they consumed a theory in class, online or from a book. Basically, he hasn't had the life experience to build an adequate database of Si. (We all overcompensate with our savior/hero functions.)
There's nothing as fun as having my Fi/Se directly attacked because things I experienced in life are WRONG due to his secondhand consumption of some knowledge that was different. It's like having my very existence challenged. Dude, don't attack my lesser functions. They aren't as mature, and they will fight or flight you.
I experience very similar things with younger INTPs, as well. They think they know everything, yet haven't left their room longer than 10 minutes on a daily basis and thats just so they can quickly grab food before running back onto their computer and browsing wikipedia and chat forums.
With more life experience, both types quell their ego a bit, once they realize that life is nothing like what they've read online. They need a little "worldview shattering" to really come into their own. I'd say ENTPs are much more passionate and headstrong, though. Which, I actually quite admire and enjoy, since I am very similar. Just less outwardly dramatic (child Fe vs child Fi dynamic).
My advice? Give it some time and allow your son the space to fall on his face a few times. We all need a little struggle to mature and learn and grow.
I'm saddened to hear that you're having a tough time with your ENTP son. Teenagers just suck in general, I've had to tell my nieces and nephews to shut up so many times in my life because they were being disrespectful to their parents. I'm sure my parents felt the same way about me when I was growing up and I didn't leave my room much either because I had the internet and felt like the smartest person in the room. I don't have any wise words to end this comment but I see your pain. Hopefully, you two find a happy medium soon and if not, kids usually start respecting their parents when they become an adult themselves. Chin up INTJ, you got this ✊
@@justcallmejon22 Thank you. I'm really fine. I was a jerk at his age - and still am in many ways. He just needs to get his but kicked by life a bit. He's off to college next year, and even if he goes somewhere close, he's not staying at home. The push and pull of living in a confined space with roommates is going to do wonders. The main goal right now is to not do anything so rash before he moves out that we hold a grudge against each other down the road.
@@justcallmejon22 In the vein of "Dang, I'm the problem!" there's an update. As I'm learning to type others, the student sometimes has to be the subject. Last month, it was my turn to be typed in the Objective Personality System by the founder's and online community of students. Seven of the thirty people typing me came up with the exact same 512 ENTP type (OPS has extra sublayers beyond the MBTI 16-types). Only one of the thirty found me to be any sort of INTJ.
How we see ourslves and how the world sees us aren't necessarily congruent.
So there it is. I relate to being an INTJ because deep down, I want to see myself that way. I see all my funcitons in order, but want to see the opposite extraverted/introvered energy in myself. Some of it may be that I'm older and have learned to be somewhat well-rounded. Some of it may be an intrinsic drive for balance. Some of it may be self-delusion. I'm still processing...
Keep up the great content and rock on.
Can intjs take time to text back because im gettin the feeling that shes not interested even though she avoids unadding me or me unadding her.I jus feel that im being lead on
We're horrible at texting because we lost track of time. Text your INTJ again, I promise it won't hurt unless you sound needy. Good luck my friend 🙂
@@justcallmejon22 I already cut her off😭 this happened consistently so I just thought shes lying now.I want to add her back but I’ll look needy,I jus give too much which I should stop doing.should I add her back or just move on
@@Luca_683 dude, i literally had the very same experience, but i was the female intj in the story. I knew this guy for years and he was my classmate and I knew that he had a crush on me. i also have feelings for him but i haven't texted him back for 4 long years, because i felt like i wasn't ready and i also had severe social anxiety and deep insecurities about myself, so i planned to work on it before i can go back to him (oc nothing's guarantee cause we never tried to communicate properly, and he might already had a gf, who knows). I tried to text him yesterday and im glad that it all went well. i'm just sharing my perspective as a female intj struggling with relationship, hope this could be helpful, or not
I would much rather be with INTJ than INFJ. Reason being is INFJ is too secretive. And dark. Every time I talk to an INFJ for a while they always end up door slamming me. I hate that. It is super disrespectful. I had an INFJ walk away briskly from a conversation and avoid me from there on. An INTJ would never do that. If there are other ENTPs out there tell me if yall can relate. INTJs are awesome. I love you all
It sucks to hear about your negative experiences with INFJs but I assure you that it's a personal thing and not an INFJ thing because I know INTJs that will do the same things that you described your INFJs doing. I hope the best and that you find someone out there that you relate to that will allow you to be the true version of yourself ✊
@@justcallmejon22 thank you
I would actually advice to never trust an infj. They have got some agenda brewing inside. Something that might not even be obvious to them. Fe puts on appearances and you can’t fool us of the dark depths while using a mutual Fe function. Intj ni connection is trustworthy and loyal while infj is shifty
2min into the video I can tell I like watching you haha... I'm a 38y old ENTP, but Enneagram 8, so instead of just saying it, I would actually enjoy winning challenges and THEREBY trolling the annoyingly ambitious ENTJ. 😜 You do realize you talk a lot and fast yourself, though, right? The knife analogy OMG 🤣🤣🤣 Agree with the need for validation and with the Fi fallacy (I care a lot about people who I shouldn't care about), but usually I'm the one consolidating the information shared by other intellectual types, asking questions until I feel satisfied and distilling to the essence of "does it make sense what you're throwing at me (Ti) and what else is there tangentially to inquire about (Ne)?" I thought it was a Te - Ti relationship. I'm a little thrown by your observation. Can you tell me what I'm missing?
If you're anything like my ENTP friends, I'm sure we'd get along easily! I'm not really sure what you're asking but I want to know so that I can answer properly! Please rephrase the question as if I'm a 5 year old 🙂
@@justcallmejon22 basically, my Ti feeds on Te, Te provides me facts and popular opinions, tells me whose expert information makes sense to review and then Ti grinds it through my internal logical framework and spits out if it makes sense or doesn't. That's a game I love playing Te users. 😉 However, it sort of contradicts your observation. How's that?
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I already made an INTJ/ENTJ video. I'm still not sure if I'm going to make videos for sensors since 97% of my audience are Intuitives.
@@justcallmejon22 thx uncle jon .
I want to learn how se - si work . May from estj and esfj . Because we intj so inferior se . Develop se = intj home works 😁
:)(: me & my ex duck...(I'm INTJ)
I just relised im having a very similar reltionship to that entp +entj +Intj exampel you gave its Not an Entj in tmy case .but i started loughing when i relised. I know your game now friend. only a matter of time Till they will know that i relised. ( dang did i have Trubel typing this ).
It's always a show with the ENTPs 😂
@@justcallmejon22 yeah its kinda my only interesting relationship in school.
It is definitly Entertainment .
I dont want to be my INTJ partners entertainment. I want to be important enough for a small amout of fe validation of my feelings. When i said "i wish you were here"
It wasnt to pull him from his hyper focus.
It just would have been comforting to hear "i know, i havent forgot about ya." Im focused, but i hear ya."
He can send me a music video about grinding his focus, but cant acknowledge me for 30 seconds. 🤬
I hear you ENTP, and I've heard it throughout my dating life. Trust me when I say that the INTJ wouldn't be with you if they didn't see you as an equal. I'm not sure if you know this about INTJs but him sending you a music video is his way of expressing emotions and showing that he cares. INTJs feel very abstract, so we'll send a video that can better describe our emotions than we ever can. In regards to your emotional needs, might sound weird to you because you don't have Te but tell your INTJ that you want at least (x) comments/compliments per week and you'll get it. We don't throw out compliments like fortune cookies so you'll know that the INTJs mean every one of them. Good luck ENTP and please take care of my fellow INTJ ✊
2:17 whats going on with INFJ in this Meme 😅😂WTH????! 😂😂😂
The question I have is why are INFJs always so worried when ENTJ gets upset at ENTP. They're both just being them 😂
So what I’m hearing is that you think ENTPs are annoying but you tried to remedy that with two sentences saying they are funny
As an INTJ, everyone and everything annoys me. ENTPs just happens to make me laugh along the way 😂
@@justcallmejon22 fabulous
internet is filled with "intj".. interesting
I guess 😅
Bro can you just do an ENTP video?😊
NGL, I'm a bit confused because I thought this video was it 😂
Been spending time with an INTJ 😍
Hold thumbs 😊
- ENTP
Congrats on finding an INTJ! Good luck ENTP, I'm rooting for you ✊
You're the god, man. God is INTJ. Satan is ENTP. That's the prominent example really, even more than Batman and The Joker.
I don't think INTJs want to be God. It sounds like a lot of work and he sounds very judgemental 😂
@@justcallmejon22 But that's just how it is, Ni man, Yawhey, Jhehova, whatever you want to call him, is INTJ because he is Satan's shadow, and I know you know, Satan is entp af. Classic duo brother. We run the rest of these fools.
@@DrDeathpwnsuI think that god is supposed to be infj
@@bella-ki7hj Bible God is INTJ. Jesus is ENFJ. Of course, to the religious, God is whatever type the person in question happens to be.
@@bella-ki7hj How many INFJs would flood the world or tell Abraham to kill his son just to show his obedience, etc etc etc? Nope.
But if entp and intj are talking they both thinking themself as an villain that i could tell, cz just remove each others feelings some how ♨️(entp me not an extrovert with this experience)
You're a bit tiring, sorry
Apology accepted 😅
Hahahah, can't help it, ISTJ here