"What 'being vulnerable' actually means" - Simon Sinek

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  • Опубликовано: 9 янв 2025

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  • @ThinkItThroughOfficial
    @ThinkItThroughOfficial  Год назад +3

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  • @DaisyPeel
    @DaisyPeel 2 года назад +323

    This. People don't seem to know how to have real conversations in person anymore

    • @ccook92
      @ccook92 Год назад +2

      Some people. Most do, our kids won’t though

    • @piamoltzau4382
      @piamoltzau4382 Год назад +1

      true. i am not able to have a real conversation

    • @jenninemorel7693
      @jenninemorel7693 Год назад

      Exactly

    • @paulgreengod
      @paulgreengod Год назад +1

      Yeah plenty of us do. Just get offline.

    • @r011ing_thunder6
      @r011ing_thunder6 Год назад

      Im not gonna be vulnerable if 1. They are going to judge me laugh at me etc
      And 2. They dont open up back

  • @pappyg76
    @pappyg76 Год назад +77

    Humility is an intelligent virtue

  • @justkeepmovingforward.3888
    @justkeepmovingforward.3888 Год назад +15

    Vulnerability is showing your bare unprotected self to someone else. It takes courage to be vulnerable, it's not a weak act by any means. It takes strength so strong and noble to do that , because the ego doesn't agree with vulnerability, its job is to protect the self you are so courageously showing to another entity other than you. To be vulnerable is to have faith , and to have faith is to surrender to something else.

    • @kimba7567
      @kimba7567 11 месяцев назад

      I did…. My heart 💔. I fell hard!! Men are stupid.

  • @LK-pb4no
    @LK-pb4no Год назад +25

    This guy just takes my breath away! I absolutely love Simon Sinek!

  • @bluelightglass8209
    @bluelightglass8209 2 года назад +12

    You're so right!
    The meaningful and effective interpersonal communication is a lost art these days! Some can't even hold the eye contact long enough, or to make one at all.

  • @Inprogress_of_newbeginings
    @Inprogress_of_newbeginings Год назад +1

    Although in a world that doesn't show vulnerability, it is a start.

  • @sodapop83
    @sodapop83 Год назад +1

    it's not difficult for me to apologize but it doesn't matter to others

  • @slchance8839
    @slchance8839 Год назад +5

    never thought of it this way. good point: that's not real vulnerability: you're safe in your own home.

  • @kimba7567
    @kimba7567 11 месяцев назад +1

    I did 😢in his arms I cried. Accepted accountability, still didn’t work out. Turned really toxic. Sometimes 🚶‍♀️🚶‍♀️🚶‍♀️

  • @RatPfink66
    @RatPfink66 Год назад +3

    "Practice" in face to face vulnerability involves remaining open to the other person's negativity and ill-feeling. They have the right to be cruel, manipulative, and absolutely unforgiving - to hit you with everything they've got! And you have to go in there with no shields up and let it happen.
    The only consolation you can allow yourself is that, _in that moment alone,_ you were being more honest with them than they were with you. It doesn't forgive anything you may have done before. Only they can do that, and they have every right not to.

  • @racaciaruth4460
    @racaciaruth4460 Год назад

    Ot takes guts and courage and kindness to actually have that face to face conversation.

  • @benjaminortiz4857
    @benjaminortiz4857 Год назад +5

    I tell the same thing to ppl who are asking jebus for forgiveness.. Try calling the ppl you hurt and actually apologize to them

  • @kokomp
    @kokomp Год назад +2

    Social media has single handedly ruined human's ability to socialize, interact and connect. People will straight up have disputes through tweets and back and forth videos.

    • @RatPfink66
      @RatPfink66 Год назад

      They're saying things they shouldn't THINK, let alone type out. Human life is too brief and full of obligations to be a forum for in-depth discussion. You spare people's feelings and time, and what you don't get to talk out, doesn't get talked out.

  • @arindammukherjee429
    @arindammukherjee429 Год назад

    How much I love and respect this man ❤️

  • @shychode7510
    @shychode7510 Год назад +1

    The only problem is that there are no likes when you apologize in person.......

  • @leebackus9875
    @leebackus9875 2 года назад +30

    The way people use the phone is really ruining personal contact in more ways than we realize.

  • @kingquis8464
    @kingquis8464 2 года назад

    He ain't lying!

  • @estrolover7628
    @estrolover7628 Год назад

    I love this man ❤

  • @WubiWatkins
    @WubiWatkins Год назад +10

    When people stop trying to act like movie stars and the shows they see them on, we can all get back to normal

  • @being5013
    @being5013 2 года назад +2

    Its not easy to share if it hurts, think about that when you talk to someone in person.

  • @recuerdos2457
    @recuerdos2457 2 года назад +81

    I don’t think it’s good to tell the world how you feel or cry in front of people you don’t even know… it won’t build strength let alone character!! And it s surely a bad habit to expect others to sympathize or feel sad about you.

    • @JohnDoe-oj8bd
      @JohnDoe-oj8bd Год назад

      exactly they are looking for reassurance. its selfish and they just want attention.

  • @zeynand4039
    @zeynand4039 Год назад

    Yes. It leaves people underdeveloped.

  • @ShivaSolentei
    @ShivaSolentei Год назад

    Some people avoid it because it is difficult. But remember there are people that know exactly what they are doing trying to garner sympathy for themselves while in reality they are void of empathy.

  • @gosiaemilia5175
    @gosiaemilia5175 Год назад +1

    i think the other reason is many people are just lonely. It would be better to share their feelings with loved ones, but meanwhile people online, especially online communities, give them any sense of not being do alone and a place to share their feelings.

  • @angelaaldas5591
    @angelaaldas5591 Год назад

    A real man would do that, telling in my eyes what he did wrongly. ❣️🙏❤️✝️

  • @RedRegina
    @RedRegina 2 года назад +25

    Facts

  • @kauffrau6764
    @kauffrau6764 Год назад +32

    People are not having face to face interactions, they don't know how to communicate with others, it's sad.

    • @mkwhole
      @mkwhole Год назад +1

      Yup ex broke up over a phone call and refused to meet in person like a decent human being would do... so sad

    • @RatPfink66
      @RatPfink66 Год назад

      No it's not sad. They don't deserve it. They've done nothing in life to merit that level of human interaction.

    • @kauffrau6764
      @kauffrau6764 Год назад

      @@mkwhole Coward. So sorry.

  • @thecultleadersthoughts2519
    @thecultleadersthoughts2519 Год назад

    This is what you think almost exactly when it's too late after you've lost somebody u love

  • @FloridaRaider
    @FloridaRaider Год назад +7

    Pain isn't an impediment, but the pathway.

    • @RatPfink66
      @RatPfink66 Год назад

      This bunch coming up is going to have a lot of catching up to do to experience enough pain to understand that.
      Maybe older folks should make things as miserable as we can for them, just for their own good.

  • @mimihs420
    @mimihs420 Год назад

    I cried once because one off my friends rejected me she didn’t invite me on her party which ridiculously hurts me, and she phoned me and apologized.. It took me courage to answer her call and I was crying like shit while she was trying to justify her action… apparently she didn’t invited me because I was too introverted, I’ve ended up feeling that was my fault and something wrong with me, after her call I felt so miserable and vulnerable 😭

  • @faustinembeh
    @faustinembeh 2 года назад +2

    Thank you Seur!🙏🙏🙏🙏😘😘😘

  • @highfrequency1483
    @highfrequency1483 Год назад

    Finally they catching up this "social" media and phones has destroy real human connections

  • @KR-ki9hw
    @KR-ki9hw Год назад

    This is a great clip. Most of us who would watch a video of vulnerabity are not going to relate.

  • @wordsculpt
    @wordsculpt Год назад

    Absolutely on target.
    And he doesn't point out the selfish "it's about me " part of the equation.

  • @IExpectedBSJustNotThisMuchBS
    @IExpectedBSJustNotThisMuchBS Год назад

    Okay, the point about taking risk in relationship I get. However, a person does make themselves vulnerable when they post online. Now, once they get used to that behavior, they likely get used to it. The same can be true in apologizing to people in real life. Try it. Long ago I learned it doesn’t kill you to be accountable. It’s actually freeing.

  • @Sad.vocate
    @Sad.vocate Год назад

    The harder it is the more it is needed...

  • @postscriptum9824
    @postscriptum9824 Год назад +1

    People just want a witness of their life. Yes, also that way. The latter is more difficult. But also even more lonely to go trough. Can I say, that the broadcasting is the step one moment and the realness of the second option he mentioned, for me the graduation of that process?

  • @Lightrim706
    @Lightrim706 Год назад

    im more concerned about the fact that one has to literally cry online, as much as it's weak and pathetic, it does show that one doesn't have anyone to look towards with their problems

  • @LETBej
    @LETBej Год назад +1

    Sometimes there are problems that don't allow you to confront someone in person. Third persons who get involved, and other issues. So you do poetry online. 😅 It's not so bad.

    • @RatPfink66
      @RatPfink66 Год назад +1

      If it's not so bad, you don't grow much.

  • @bettylafea9944
    @bettylafea9944 Год назад

    A few years ago I have a best friend (L) and I think I really hurt her I went to the house of his employer. I say sorry and I cried and I was apologized her even though there's a CCTV camera over there I sincerely apologize her but in the end. He avoided me and because he listened to.those gossiper around her ... I apologize even it's not my mistake I apologize because. I don't like to lose her it was my first time done. that kind of valnureability .. now we forgive each other. i wish her all the best.Just sharing ♥️

  • @edwardlewis1963
    @edwardlewis1963 2 года назад +3

    "look them in the eye and say that exact same "
    then they emotionally react and interrupt.
    often people don't get a chance to finish a sentence, much less a paragraph.
    sometimes the only way to tell somebody something and get it out successfully is to write it down or record it.

    • @rosemarietolentino3218
      @rosemarietolentino3218 Год назад +3

      People lost the art of listening to the person you are talking to and really hear what they are saying!

  • @Moski369
    @Moski369 2 года назад

    Ouuuf deep AF

  • @mandralliance
    @mandralliance Год назад +2

    What song and version is this

  • @bekahraymond9285
    @bekahraymond9285 Год назад

    Agree 100%

  • @urthiaeirletherail7277
    @urthiaeirletherail7277 2 года назад +2

    Preach

  • @georgewawman9649
    @georgewawman9649 Год назад +1

    Don't do anything he has just said.
    Absolutely nothing good will come out of doing it. The odds are much higher that something really bad will happen.

  • @justusbowman
    @justusbowman Год назад +1

    This dude likely makes some good points, but my god, I wish more videos with him had no music or music that wasn't designed to evoke certain emotions. I usually end up just bailing partway through. lol

  • @julia_goddess3
    @julia_goddess3 Год назад

    I understand them ,family and friends don't care . People online is where you get the most support ever.

    • @wordsculpt
      @wordsculpt Год назад

      People online care about themselves, and their own opinions ; they don't know or care about strangers whose post they respond to.

  • @kshiteeghorpade9051
    @kshiteeghorpade9051 2 года назад +2

    Lack of understanding of the other person can make it even worse.

  • @trusailietazperlinski4717
    @trusailietazperlinski4717 10 месяцев назад

    It is, by definition in ways..but not as much as the full actions of full on vulnerability for the entire world to see. Humiliation, and vulnerability are completely different thinks.

  • @lukeduke51
    @lukeduke51 Год назад

    Amen my friend❤😢😎

  • @Lawreformisneeded
    @Lawreformisneeded Год назад +6

    We are living in the movie called, 'Idiocracy'.

    • @nbee2724
      @nbee2724 Год назад

      Yes! I’ve seen it a million times. We are on the verge!

  • @jagmansekhon
    @jagmansekhon Год назад

    The truth!

  • @tomwang4237
    @tomwang4237 Год назад

    Some real talk

  • @JoseRRodriguez
    @JoseRRodriguez Год назад +1

    Real vulnerability vs Virtue signalling

  • @jkwilson6144
    @jkwilson6144 Год назад

    I never understand people recording themselves crying over relationships....

  • @joh9421
    @joh9421 Год назад

    Loved this guy on Xena

  • @JoyWinnerWins
    @JoyWinnerWins Год назад

    Took the words out of my situation.. hiding behind a phone/camera is this generation

  • @kristinareed6656
    @kristinareed6656 Год назад

    It feels fkng great though! I don't like cameras & bs.. humans matter internet doesn't

  • @tobyyy9385
    @tobyyy9385 2 года назад +2

    Definitely

  • @lorrainedonlon445
    @lorrainedonlon445 Год назад

    Truth

  • @markoperic5023
    @markoperic5023 Год назад

    What if the other person doesnt want you to apologize in person. Even thought you want to do it.

  • @Endless_Jaguar
    @Endless_Jaguar 2 года назад +3

    I find it interesting that the Generations that taught us everything we know, now find fault in everything we do.

  • @jenniferhergert4447
    @jenniferhergert4447 Год назад +1

    I disagree. Social media and meeting in person are obviously two different things, but you can be vulnerable on social media is well. It depends on your inner stance, whether or not you are showing something of your self that you are maybe scared to share.

  • @cheripitout3273
    @cheripitout3273 Год назад

    Jip, I have not been vonreble one day in my life. I hate showing my feelings, I rather be alone then burdening someone.

  • @D.S24
    @D.S24 2 года назад

    I Agree 👊🏾

  • @mitaandtrishabhowmik1894
    @mitaandtrishabhowmik1894 6 дней назад

    But what if I can express myself better through writing?

  • @MiguelPlata26
    @MiguelPlata26 2 года назад

    Recording It and broadcasting It, adds a layer of superficiality and fakeness, just do the right thing and just be real without the reasurance and likes of strangers, that will make your apology authentic.

  • @E_Clip
    @E_Clip Год назад +1

    Its also a selfish thing to do because the only reason you're doing that is to get sympathy from others. Maybe people who are going to see your message are also having a rough time, what gives you the right to make it even worse for them?
    If you feel the need to be heard by someone even if its your best friend, the best way to go about it is to ask their permission first, because you've got no clue what the other person is going through or if they're ready to hear you out.

  • @tanishqsharma8765
    @tanishqsharma8765 Год назад

    The song??

  • @juhi4
    @juhi4 Год назад

    This!!

  • @helenbostock2350
    @helenbostock2350 Год назад

    True

  • @3Hose
    @3Hose Год назад +3

    The zoomers avoid anything that is hard, not just apologies.

  • @morenitascorp9246
    @morenitascorp9246 Год назад

    One way communication is not #justbeingvulnerable its #justbeingclusterB. #BPD #ASPD #NPD

  • @orgullosamentemexicana952
    @orgullosamentemexicana952 Год назад

    AMEN!

  • @louloumoon9365
    @louloumoon9365 Год назад

    It takes guts

  • @stoyanpetkov3853
    @stoyanpetkov3853 Год назад +1

    "There is nothing vulnerable about that. You are by yourself."
    You can tell this is coming from a person from a generation that has never had to grow up with cyber bullying and online abuse. It feels pretty vulerable when it can still cause real, emotional pain.

  • @diverstalent
    @diverstalent Год назад

    💜

  • @Shae_3
    @Shae_3 Год назад

    No when they record themselves and broadcast it…….that’s practice

  • @Monae629
    @Monae629 2 года назад

    What’s this song

    • @laenajuminer1556
      @laenajuminer1556 2 года назад +1

      Oceans by hillsong this one is a remix (Christian music group)

  • @luther2767
    @luther2767 Год назад

    Ohh hell yah lol I'm down with that lol

  • @truckdriver3737
    @truckdriver3737 Год назад

    👍👍👍👍👍

  • @rickys845
    @rickys845 Год назад

    Yep but would she ever say it NOPE

  • @chocolatesugar4434
    @chocolatesugar4434 Год назад

    💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

  • @rebekahsteeper
    @rebekahsteeper Год назад

    Yup

  • @debrarobey3749
    @debrarobey3749 Год назад

    media. ruined relationship s

  • @Faustinembeh_backup
    @Faustinembeh_backup 2 года назад

    Hello! 👌😘

  • @masetshabaleratomoroa9578
    @masetshabaleratomoroa9578 Год назад

    🤜🤚🎤

  • @misspriss2482
    @misspriss2482 Год назад

    Both things are vulnerable. You're putting yourself out there to be ridiculed and mocked. Of course talking to someone is more nerve wracking, but let's not discount telling the world either.

  • @elykalou
    @elykalou Год назад

    It's one of the saddest things about this generation, first of all no one cares about you crying in front of your camera , second of all yooy think your vulnerable but of what??? You can't control your mind and think that the world or someone is the worst.
    This type of people need to see through Life they don't know nothing.

  • @Aaaa-jm7ks
    @Aaaa-jm7ks Год назад

    🔥🔥🔥🔥💌

  • @chrisyoung1037
    @chrisyoung1037 2 года назад

    Ouch

  • @chrysteller7462
    @chrysteller7462 Год назад +1

    I buy my meat balls sandwich at Malone

  • @NewZoneFocus
    @NewZoneFocus Год назад

    Recording yourself crying is completely cringe and narcissistic/vain

  • @vjcarter4657
    @vjcarter4657 Год назад

    It requires balls

  • @RyanDaMannn
    @RyanDaMannn Год назад

    People do this?

  • @TheMarguritte
    @TheMarguritte Год назад

    It is worst, women at the age of 40× do the same. It is pathetic 😒

  • @Sandrica011BG
    @Sandrica011BG Год назад

    I'm not falling for performative crying on camera for clout and profit, it's ratchet 🤮🤢🤯🤢

  • @JustCause2
    @JustCause2 Год назад

    lol Prince Harry