I never understood why people turn a disagreement into “ ooh there must be tension backstage “ ... there is no reason for grown ass women to fight... this isn’t Love & Hip Hop , Basketball Wives or Real Housewives... this is a talk show where real conversations can be had and they are Abel to agree to disagree on a segment and laugh together about something else during the break before the next one... and tbh that’s what real friends and adults do.... we can agree to disagree and move on with life... it’s never that serious !
It's because people are immature, ignorant, and never learned that a disagreement in a conversation shouldn't taint someones character. A lot of people are just miserable and have nothing to do better with there lives. lol
People should have the right to disagree or agree without people assuming that there's confusion going on, that's why God gave us each individual minds so we can think for ourselves, so I definitely agree with your comment.
@randomness. They do, and that's a shame, because a person should have the right to disagree or agree with someone without anyone assuming there's confusion and drama that's why God gave us individual minds to think for ourselves, so I definitely agree with your comment
Whew Lawd..Amanda is preaching. I never really experienced the "Angry Black Woman" title until working in corporate america. I am one of the few minorities on my team and immediatly felt the "frustration" people have with me anytime I disagree or express my opinon on a subject matter, process or project. While my counterparts are able to do so all the time with no issue. Sometimes I even feel the delivery of my peers are agressive or disrespectful, but it is never taken that way. Let me have one disagreement and it gets tense. It is exhausting at times
@@DM-wu9jk So you're basically admitting it's because of people's perception of your personality, rather than your skin color? Because that's basically what you just said... Look, I'm white and talk like a degenerate in my personal life. Doesn't mean I don't censor myself when I need to be professional. I shouldn't have to, and you shouldn't have to. But to say it's all about race specifically? Amanda Seales is dead wrong on that.
Absolutely! Let one of my coworkers get heated. She’s spicy or fiery. Let me insist that I’m heard and everyone is fearful! I’m hostile and difficult to get along with 🙄 I’m like Susan was late, interrupted you and scrolled during the meeting. I voice an opinion and pearls are clutched
@Dswizzle90 Maybe. Or the cop could have just been an asshole. I passed a cop pulling someone over and literally could not move over so I slowed down, which is exactly what my state law allows for when moving over is not possible. Still was cited for it. Basically, "you didn't put a signal on so you had no intent to try to move over." "Of course I didn't have intent to move over. After checking for safety, moving over was impossible. So you'd have rather I caused a 10 car pileup than slow down as per state law. That's what you're telling me right now." I got the same nonsense. The officer loudly responds with an attitude of his own, saying "Sir, it's cold outside, I'm not going to deal with your attitude. Either pay the ticket or go to court. Goodbye. Thankfully I was able to get it thrown out. But the fact was... It wasn't because I was white. No, these cops were daisy chaining tickets from each others' stops. And he was an asshole. I've been in other situations where I was warned for an honest mistake and left without a ticket. Could the cop have treated you that way based on race? It definitely COULD be. But could it just be that he was an asshole and trying to make a quota and wanted to be technical on something petty and stupid? Also yes.
@@XtremeConditions Or black women have a different experience in this country that you dont understand. Even you are dismissing something you have no way of relating to. It is very real. I have times when I try to explain something and I'm told to "calm down" even speaking in a calm tone. If I am direct about something I'm combative or aggressive. I have been at several companies and experienced the same thing. My peers of all other races have gotten to a point where they crossthe line in myeyes as they get "aggressive" when expressing concerns at work out of frustration, to the point that I cringe. It is interesting, I hear they get resonses like" I understand your frustration, we'll look into it". In the same meeting, I could ask about a goal that we have and ask for more clarity onn how it is measured and get tension, an eye rol (Real experience recently)l. But if I never say anything, we are great!. Anytime I speak up, I get this tension. If I dont get tension, I am outright ignored OR my question is overly simplified and not related to my actual question. Same thing happens everytime
And the part where she says like it’s ok to speak passionately. Sometimes when I speak passionately people think I’m mad when I’m not. Also!...it’s ok to be angry. As long as you’re not abusively screaming at someone but yeah anger is just an emotion...and it’s fine to feel it.
I like her and Michelle Williams too. Either of them would be a great addition. My favorite guest host is Yvette Nicole Brown but this is a show for a younger demographic.
It is okay to disagree, and still get along with one another. All people are entitled to their own opinion. Even politically. No one should be hostile or physical toward another because of their views. What's happening now politically is insane. Sis V
Lol I think we all remember that episode where Tamera rolled her eyes and reacted with attitude toward Jeannie. It wasn't just the eye roll, it was how she said it. I was actually shocked by Tamera when I saw that. She never spoke like that before on the show and she hasn't since.
Yes I remember that and it shocked me because Tam has never come across as bitchy. Its why it shocked a lot of people to see how she reacted towards Jeannie. I know they are cool and I am happy they are friends but that day she was just off and really rude.
I remember that episode. I think they were discussing children and Sesame Street. Idk why she’s down playing it as an eye roll. Her whole attitude was rude and unnecessary in that moment.
This clip and others is proof that Amanda is the PERFECT 5th addition to show, not that they NEED to, but adding her to the panel permanently would take this show’s conversations even higher. I love their dynamic all together. And Amanda always keeps it REAL!!!
I know ur comment was 2 years ago but I think this was the reason that the show ended. I think Amanda was the seed that had the ability to grow the show (& the conversations) but she was too real for The Real. I think The Real’s audience was growing and with this show being a panel of WOC and the viewers are majority WOC, they kept it too yt. Amanda was never scared to get real abt issues POC face and hold folks accountable and talk abt violence and injustice in black and brown communities. When Amanda was on the show, I felt like they had the deepest and best conversations and were the ones where I personally learned from the most. After she left, they went back to their old conversation style, leaving viewers complacent. Idk maybe it’s just me..
Amanda has a such a way of articulating her words and talk with so much facts and real ness. By far my favourite guest host, I want her as a permanent host
Well Lonnie is the least articulate one of them and she's such a sluggish slow acting host, usually has hardly anything to say, but I've noticed she's been trying to pick it up lately because I think they've said something to her, but she better watch out It will be one of those four little cute girls there in a minute instead of her
Like Keke when she was on the show taking somebody's place for a second she was so articulate they had to make a space for her Michael Sarah and Keke she's another one that's super articulate
I think in media in our minds subconsciously when we see the way someone talks to someone we see it as the, hating , as them disliking the person and to me in friendships you get COMFORTABLE and you act normal and soon get attracted to that persons vibe and personalities mesh and sometimes when speaking on certain thing they might clash but that doesn’t make either of you a bad person or not friends , that just makes it a conversation with different opinions ! Yesterday’s girl chat is a wonderful example of that !
But the thing is Tamara, when you were rolling your eyes at Jeannie, you were actually getting an attitude with her for no reason. It's not like you were playfully doing it. You were just out right being rude because she was explaining her opposite point of view about something and you were interrupting her and she asked to finish. It was really uncalled for and people just simply called u out on it. That's all it was. You started your own headlines with your unnecessary attitude.
Yes! I actually just made a comment about this. It wasn't just rolling eyes. It was the attitude and tone. Jeannie actually asked to finish nicely and calmly. If I remember correctly, I think she even touched Tamera's shoulder or hand as her "sorry." Jeannie usually allow people to cut her off sadly. The ladies always cut her off but that day she was really in deep thoughts and wanted to finish what she was saying.
I dont think it was for no reason. Jeannie made a stupid claim that isnt even scientifically correct. Kids dont have sexual thoughts and they dont look at two people and go oooh a couple. Kids are innocent and remain as such until they hit puberty when their sexuality shows (if they were born asexual then this never changes, but the other sexualities do).
Tam just knows that you don't have to act like Amanda to get things done and doesn't like the stereotype of the angry black woman. Tam posesses elegance and eloquence. That's why she's not feeling Amanda.
Pham You’re exactly the type of person this discussion was about. Smh. Just because Amanda is more outspoken doesn’t give her the “angry Black woman” stereotype, WHICH itself....is bullshit to begin with....
YoungBlunt &Mizguided she may not relate to the black female experience but can relate to similar experiences just because she has a black mother... what I mean by that is she has stated she hasn’t necessarily experienced racism but she has experienced a form of prejudice... she was little and another girl in class stopped being her friend once they found out she was black / mixed and called her the n word... so I think it depends on what the woman would consider the “black female experience “
I love that the ladies are explaining this because social media has made people really believe any and everything they read. I always have to ask people in these comments do they know these women, because the things people say you’d really believe that they actually hang out with them or just got off the phone with them so they “know” whats really going on 🙄
The funny thing is if you only watch the clips on RUclips of the disagreements and don't follow their social media accounts then of course you'll assume they don't "like" each other. But what I've seen is during the show they may get passionate about their point of view and have a "stand off" but by the end it's forgotten about and everything's cool. I don't know about everybody else but my girls and I debate at several volumes with a variety of body language looking like it's about that time...but we still love, respect and support each other when it comes down being real. For me personally it makes life more interesting and fun, I'd be so bored if my girls all agreed, all the time 🙄😂🤷🏾♀️
@@Prizzilla I agree although I do sometimes I catch full episodes I mostly rely on RUclips clips and Instagram posts where sometimes I misinterpret the context of the conversations. Hopefully in the near future they'll be able to show Girl Chat in full.
Great Words Tamera! I just said that a few weeks ago to my family! So many families break up bc they can't respect or receive differences. And that is supposed to make you strong as a unit. 💜
I’ve had customers give attitude and cuss me out cuz I told them they couldn’t reach over serve they food themselves and I’d be right there with them. You don’t go to Panda Express and start fixing your plate. That’s all I would say, and they start yelling at me, report me to the manager but I’d never get in trouble because they don’t understand my manager is black woman from Jamaica and she already knew what was really going on.
I think Tamera resents the notion that the public regards her as less black and conscious because she may take a different approach to addressing issues. There is the calm and there is the storm and both were necessary to appeal to the consciousness of our oppressors during the civil rights movement to incite change.
Guess co-hosts are fun to add a little extra spice to Girl Chat every now and then but they DON'T NEED a 4th co-host. The four of them are strong together and earned themselves those Daytime Emmy nominations and awards without a 5th co-host. 5 hosts is just too much and not everyone gets enough time to speak their opinions. I believe they need to keep guest co-hosts as GUESTS and that's it. Tamera, Jeannie, Loni, and Adrienne have a perfect dynamic and flow with just the 4 oh them. Let's not try to "fix" something that's clearly not "broken".
Yess! Ladies. Own it and let em know! I love the individuality, strength and honesty at the table in this segment. Put that monster to sleep! 😁 I loove the clarity, the confidence the peace. Everybody preaching today. I'm here for all of it. #grownfolk chat
The key thing that can make or break a debate or the difference in opinion.. is first.. respecting the other person’s opinion & views.. A lot of people automatically start dissing & disrespecting the other person’s opinion/views/ choices if they don’t aline with theirs.. This way alone has ruined a lot of relationships.. from friendships, marriages, even siblings..
Designed Forward I think they’re just referring to the fact that in America black women are stereotyped to have negative attitudes and to not be agreeable. Therefore, when a black woman is in a space that is predominantly non-black, there is that double standard where people may just brush you off and say you’re having an attitude problem, when in fact you have a right to be upset about the situation, but when a woman of a different background expresses herself people may take her more seriously. It just puts black women in uncomfortable situations trying to please everyone, because you do not want to be portrayed that way.
Oooooooo I ❤❤❤❤❤ AMANDA .... and she put that so well because that happens to me all the time I have to get exactly like she just said in order for people to act like they have some sense. But I love the way she put it it was good to hear and good to know I'm going to love her being on this show cuz I stopped watching it
It seems that we can't function in society as regular human beings who are allowed to exhibit all human emotions. Everything we say and do seems to be a "problem.". Lots of stress living as a black woman in this world.
I agree with everyone..but like Tamara says is not what you say but how you say it..and loni has s point sometimes you gotta hear yourself and maybe you'll see what people see..
@@BobbiHustles Amanda is not for everyone ( I do not agree with her sometimes) but she isn't afraid to address all topics. People say she hates white people. She never made racist remarks...so I do not get that. It is remarkable that almost all the people who do not like her are non-black people. Why is that do you think? This is a honest question.
Tamera knows that disagreement went beyond an eye roll lol. I love me some Tam, but she was rudeee that day. She thought Jeannie was shading her parenting skills, and she got defensive.
You can see Amanda NEVER makes eye contact w Tamera once. She only looks at Loni or Jeannie unless Tamera is speaking. And you can see how Tamera looks when Amanda talks.
Best talk show hosts ever... Adrienne ....tamtam......Ms. mai......loni....and go on with your bad self Ms Amanda ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹 love you guys @thereal
Passive aggressiveness between women is always encouraged by toxic patriarchy culture. These women can disagree, speak in strong affirming tones, speak powerfully one day, softly the next, they can speak with annoyance, with irritability, with frustration , and still be loving kind-hearted women who uplift respect and honour one another. Do not like seeing women need to pretend don’t understand the patriarchy and racism (Tamera) and women feeling the need to people please and play nice validating girl 24/7 (Jeannie), and women speaking up and then having to semi-apologize and explain they are kind and sweet when everyone can see their kind sweet hearts (Loni). The women in these comment sections who analyze these women’s behaviours rather than their intellectual opinions, are examples of toxic oppressive patriarchy culture. Frustrating. Public speaking is an art and I’m so happy they have such a talented, articulate, self-affirming, powerful, dynamic, sensitive woman like Amanda Seals to address racism and sexism. We all fight micro-aggressions daily and people wait on their seat edges like some of the women in these comment sections to point out the ways you fall beneath perfection when defending yourself. Black women get abused , and people comment more about how they protect themselves vs them being abused. Women are raped and people debate if they deserve peace vs their abuser . Discrimination won’t ever fully go away (in groups and out groups are inherent human tendencies), yet we can call out
I never understood why people turn a disagreement into “ ooh there must be tension backstage “ ... there is no reason for grown ass women to fight... this isn’t Love & Hip Hop , Basketball Wives or Real Housewives... this is a talk show where real conversations can be had and they are Abel to agree to disagree on a segment and laugh together about something else during the break before the next one... and tbh that’s what real friends and adults do.... we can agree to disagree and move on with life... it’s never that serious !
Myronn Coleman couldnt have say better. 👏
It's because people are immature, ignorant, and never learned that a disagreement in a conversation shouldn't taint someones character. A lot of people are just miserable and have nothing to do better with there lives. lol
They agree to disagree...the view on the other hand...those bitches hate each other and try to play like they are friends 🙄
People should have the right to disagree or agree without people assuming that there's confusion going on, that's why God gave us each individual minds so we can think for ourselves, so I definitely agree with your comment.
@randomness. They do, and that's a shame, because a person should have the right to disagree or agree with someone without anyone assuming there's confusion and drama that's why God gave us individual minds to think for ourselves, so I definitely agree with your comment
Whew Lawd..Amanda is preaching. I never really experienced the "Angry Black Woman" title until working in corporate america. I am one of the few minorities on my team and immediatly felt the "frustration" people have with me anytime I disagree or express my opinon on a subject matter, process or project. While my counterparts are able to do so all the time with no issue. Sometimes I even feel the delivery of my peers are agressive or disrespectful, but it is never taken that way. Let me have one disagreement and it gets tense. It is exhausting at times
👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿...going through it right now..its so exhausting and frustrating..the feeling of having to adjust yourself to make others feel at ease..smh
@@DM-wu9jk So you're basically admitting it's because of people's perception of your personality, rather than your skin color? Because that's basically what you just said... Look, I'm white and talk like a degenerate in my personal life. Doesn't mean I don't censor myself when I need to be professional. I shouldn't have to, and you shouldn't have to. But to say it's all about race specifically? Amanda Seales is dead wrong on that.
Absolutely! Let one of my coworkers get heated. She’s spicy or fiery. Let me insist that I’m heard and everyone is fearful! I’m hostile and difficult to get along with 🙄 I’m like Susan was late, interrupted you and scrolled during the meeting. I voice an opinion and pearls are clutched
@Dswizzle90 Maybe. Or the cop could have just been an asshole. I passed a cop pulling someone over and literally could not move over so I slowed down, which is exactly what my state law allows for when moving over is not possible. Still was cited for it. Basically, "you didn't put a signal on so you had no intent to try to move over."
"Of course I didn't have intent to move over. After checking for safety, moving over was impossible. So you'd have rather I caused a 10 car pileup than slow down as per state law. That's what you're telling me right now."
I got the same nonsense. The officer loudly responds with an attitude of his own, saying "Sir, it's cold outside, I'm not going to deal with your attitude. Either pay the ticket or go to court. Goodbye.
Thankfully I was able to get it thrown out. But the fact was... It wasn't because I was white. No, these cops were daisy chaining tickets from each others' stops. And he was an asshole. I've been in other situations where I was warned for an honest mistake and left without a ticket.
Could the cop have treated you that way based on race? It definitely COULD be. But could it just be that he was an asshole and trying to make a quota and wanted to be technical on something petty and stupid? Also yes.
@@XtremeConditions Or black women have a different experience in this country that you dont understand. Even you are dismissing something you have no way of relating to. It is very real. I have times when I try to explain something and I'm told to "calm down" even speaking in a calm tone. If I am direct about something I'm combative or aggressive. I have been at several companies and experienced the same thing. My peers of all other races have gotten to a point where they crossthe line in myeyes as they get "aggressive" when expressing concerns at work out of frustration, to the point that I cringe. It is interesting, I hear they get resonses like" I understand your frustration, we'll look into it". In the same meeting, I could ask about a goal that we have and ask for more clarity onn how it is measured and get tension, an eye rol (Real experience recently)l. But if I never say anything, we are great!. Anytime I speak up, I get this tension. If I dont get tension, I am outright ignored OR my question is overly simplified and not related to my actual question. Same thing happens everytime
Amanda is by far my favorite guest to ever come to this show.
And the part where she says like it’s ok to speak passionately. Sometimes when I speak passionately people think I’m mad when I’m not. Also!...it’s ok to be angry. As long as you’re not abusively screaming at someone but yeah anger is just an emotion...and it’s fine to feel it.
She fits in so perfectly
I like her and Michelle Williams too. Either of them would be a great addition. My favorite guest host is Yvette Nicole Brown but this is a show for a younger demographic.
Your wack asf like her
@@julielopez8080 Uh, you okay?
Loni admiring Amanda like a proud auntie!
Older sis.
Amanda needs to go!
I noticed that too so cute 😘🥰
It is okay to disagree, and still get along with one another. All people are entitled to their own opinion. Even politically. No one should be hostile or physical toward another because of their views. What's happening now politically is insane.
Sis V
That part sis!
Especially politically
Lol I think we all remember that episode where Tamera rolled her eyes and reacted with attitude toward Jeannie. It wasn't just the eye roll, it was how she said it. I was actually shocked by Tamera when I saw that. She never spoke like that before on the show and she hasn't since.
Yes I remember that and it shocked me because Tam has never come across as bitchy. Its why it shocked a lot of people to see how she reacted towards Jeannie. I know they are cool and I am happy they are friends but that day she was just off and really rude.
Mandy S what video is this in?
Maria Peters ruclips.net/video/G3GkzCev7EA/видео.html
Mandy S Agreed!
I remember that episode. I think they were discussing children and Sesame Street. Idk why she’s down playing it as an eye roll. Her whole attitude was rude and unnecessary in that moment.
I love her as a cohost!
This clip and others is proof that Amanda is the PERFECT 5th addition to show, not that they NEED to, but adding her to the panel permanently would take this show’s conversations even higher. I love their dynamic all together. And Amanda always keeps it REAL!!!
I know ur comment was 2 years ago but I think this was the reason that the show ended. I think Amanda was the seed that had the ability to grow the show (& the conversations) but she was too real for The Real. I think The Real’s audience was growing and with this show being a panel of WOC and the viewers are majority WOC, they kept it too yt. Amanda was never scared to get real abt issues POC face and hold folks accountable and talk abt violence and injustice in black and brown communities. When Amanda was on the show, I felt like they had the deepest and best conversations and were the ones where I personally learned from the most. After she left, they went back to their old conversation style, leaving viewers complacent. Idk maybe it’s just me..
Amanda has a such a way of articulating her words and talk with so much facts and real ness. By far my favourite guest host, I want her as a permanent host
Well Lonnie is the least articulate one of them and she's such a sluggish slow acting host, usually has hardly anything to say, but I've noticed she's been trying to pick it up lately because I think they've said something to her, but she better watch out It will be one of those four little cute girls there in a minute instead of her
@@pacificocean7361 Wow, did all that hate make you feel better about yourself?
Lol When Amanda switch from her fake voice to her real voice 😂😂😂😂😂I like her real voice better it shows that she don’t play no games PERIODT 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🔥🔥🔥
Am I the only one that feels like Amands might join The Real panel?
yellow diamond it would be sooooo good if she did!! I love her energy and how she vibes with the rest of the girls
@@bishokhan8926 totally agree
Like Keke when she was on the show taking somebody's place for a second she was so articulate they had to make a space for her Michael Sarah and Keke she's another one that's super articulate
That's what I thought too. To join or replace lol 🤣
I really hope she does, I admire another intellectual perspective on the panel besides Loni
yaaazzz preacher seales! “you can still be angry, but don’t let that anger take your joy!” 💖🙌🏼✨
I love Amanda on this show! Her opinion nearly ALWAYS align with mine its crazy!
I love her! She should be a regular on this show, she is so well spoken and so inteligent. I love hearing her opinions. Please make this happen
I think in media in our minds subconsciously when we see the way someone talks to someone we see it as the, hating , as them disliking the person and to me in friendships you get COMFORTABLE and you act normal and soon get attracted to that persons vibe and personalities mesh and sometimes when speaking on certain thing they might clash but that doesn’t make either of you a bad person or not friends , that just makes it a conversation with different opinions ! Yesterday’s girl chat is a wonderful example of that !
So good, such a good conversation.
But the thing is Tamara, when you were rolling your eyes at Jeannie, you were actually getting an attitude with her for no reason. It's not like you were playfully doing it. You were just out right being rude because she was explaining her opposite point of view about something and you were interrupting her and she asked to finish. It was really uncalled for and people just simply called u out on it. That's all it was. You started your own headlines with your unnecessary attitude.
Yes! I actually just made a comment about this. It wasn't just rolling eyes. It was the attitude and tone. Jeannie actually asked to finish nicely and calmly. If I remember correctly, I think she even touched Tamera's shoulder or hand as her "sorry." Jeannie usually allow people to cut her off sadly. The ladies always cut her off but that day she was really in deep thoughts and wanted to finish what she was saying.
What video was this??
Christina Le ruclips.net/video/G3GkzCev7EA/видео.html
I dont think it was for no reason. Jeannie made a stupid claim that isnt even scientifically correct. Kids dont have sexual thoughts and they dont look at two people and go oooh a couple. Kids are innocent and remain as such until they hit puberty when their sexuality shows (if they were born asexual then this never changes, but the other sexualities do).
I love Amanda on the show because a lot of the time I connect with her views! Please come back!
Tam ain't feeling Amanda's thoughts or conversations from the way she looks at her hahaha.
Amanda is outspoken and unapologetically black...Tam can't relate.
Tam just knows that you don't have to act like Amanda to get things done and doesn't like the stereotype of the angry black woman. Tam posesses elegance and eloquence. That's why she's not feeling Amanda.
Pham You’re exactly the type of person this discussion was about. Smh. Just because Amanda is more outspoken doesn’t give her the “angry Black woman” stereotype, WHICH itself....is bullshit to begin with....
@@BonsaiBabyy boom! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
« You still have to be angry but don’t let that anger take away your joy ».. I like that. Thanks Amanda
Don’t let that anger take your joy 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽❤️
Bring Amanda on permanently!!
I wonder if Tamera feels like she can relate to the Black female experience..
i wonder too
YoungBlunt &Mizguided she may not relate to the black female experience but can relate to similar experiences just because she has a black mother... what I mean by that is she has stated she hasn’t necessarily experienced racism but she has experienced a form of prejudice... she was little and another girl in class stopped being her friend once they found out she was black / mixed and called her the n word... so I think it depends on what the woman would consider the “black female experience “
I love that the ladies are explaining this because social media has made people really believe any and everything they read. I always have to ask people in these comments do they know these women, because the things people say you’d really believe that they actually hang out with them or just got off the phone with them so they “know” whats really going on 🙄
I know what she means with the voice thing... i do the same haha
I loooooove Amanda
I FEEL TRIGGERED. lol
LOVE Amanda!! her book is awesome
I LOVEEE the unity and love amongst these women💜
This makes me think of how they treat OG on basketball wives labelling her aggressive and angry cuz she speaks her mind and uses her words
Come on Jeannie 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
The funny thing is if you only watch the clips on RUclips of the disagreements and don't follow their social media accounts then of course you'll assume they don't "like" each other. But what I've seen is during the show they may get passionate about their point of view and have a "stand off" but by the end it's forgotten about and everything's cool. I don't know about everybody else but my girls and I debate at several volumes with a variety of body language looking like it's about that time...but we still love, respect and support each other when it comes down being real. For me personally it makes life more interesting and fun, I'd be so bored if my girls all agreed, all the time 🙄😂🤷🏾♀️
Adele Smith if only this show was available on Hulu or any place other than actual cable, because I would like to see a full episode.
@@Prizzilla I agree although I do sometimes I catch full episodes I mostly rely on RUclips clips and Instagram posts where sometimes I misinterpret the context of the conversations. Hopefully in the near future they'll be able to show Girl Chat in full.
Honestly she's the best guest ever, she's very intelligent and funny. I love her have her two days every week of yall wont hire her lol
Just add her to the cast already
Angel Saturn what did amanda do to you? 😂 you’re under every comment with the saltiness...
@@GlendaTheGW
😂....don't be salty Angel.
i LOVE Amanda. She adds so much value to this show. She MUST stay.
Yes Yes yes Amanda. I love your intelligence. Refreshing.
I agree
I love Amanda so much and damn Tamera looking 🔥 af 🙌
After seeing this clip, I think that she will do well on the show!! Well wishes to her!
Can we keep her? Man I love the dynamic Amanda brings to the table .
I would like to see Amanda be the 5th co-host. She's great!
Amanda is officially being added as a 5th Co-host on the real.....and She. Is. PERFECT.
You're late.
I love Amanda! She is my kinda woke.
Amanda is my fav. She should be on the show permanently..
girl at 0.44, I see u, u cute lookin like u from kim possible or somin. I was getting Monique vibes
0:31 Amanda needs to take her own advice here.....
Oh yeah they for sure get in their feelings when they read the comments 😂
Didn't know they read the comments. But ppl need to stop reading into things fr fr
I love that Jeannie knows when she should sit back and listen.
Great Words Tamera! I just said that a few weeks ago to my family! So many families break up bc they can't respect or receive differences. And that is supposed to make you strong as a unit. 💜
I see Amanda on the real am closing my books and am watching and i just watch like 5 videos like really Amanda is bringing another kind of fire here
My love and admiration for Jeanie grows by the day!! She just gets it all and is SO knowledgable
please please please keep amanda on full time
I’ve had customers give attitude and cuss me out cuz I told them they couldn’t reach over serve they food themselves and I’d be right there with them. You don’t go to Panda Express and start fixing your plate. That’s all I would say, and they start yelling at me, report me to the manager but I’d never get in trouble because they don’t understand my manager is black woman from Jamaica and she already knew what was really going on.
Amanda has all kind of haters but I just fell in total love with everything she conveyed
I think Tamera resents the notion that the public regards her as less black and conscious because she may take a different approach to addressing issues. There is the calm and there is the storm and both were necessary to appeal to the consciousness of our oppressors during the civil rights movement to incite change.
Amanda is so great. Beautiful, intelligent, charismatic, entertaining, a powerhouse, humble and kind. Please keep her. I'm enjoying her on the show.
I'm still not really feeling Amanda... idk why..😭😭
Here here 👏🏼
Me neither.
Same
I like her... we need a real one like her! ✊🏽
Me too
The voice change is FACTS. We start off nice but then people get you twisted. Then you have to pause the BS and let them know this is not that.
This hit home. Ppl always misunderstand me.....
Straight up lying tamera. Im disappointed in you.
Guess co-hosts are fun to add a little extra spice to Girl Chat every now and then but they DON'T NEED a 4th co-host. The four of them are strong together and earned themselves those Daytime Emmy nominations and awards without a 5th co-host. 5 hosts is just too much and not everyone gets enough time to speak their opinions. I believe they need to keep guest co-hosts as GUESTS and that's it. Tamera, Jeannie, Loni, and Adrienne have a perfect dynamic and flow with just the 4 oh them. Let's not try to "fix" something that's clearly not "broken".
Yess! Ladies. Own it and let em know!
I love the individuality, strength and honesty at the table in this segment.
Put that monster to sleep! 😁
I loove the clarity, the confidence the peace. Everybody preaching today. I'm here for all of it. #grownfolk chat
I swear I hate that I just be passionate about a convo and people accuse me of being hostile like I’m not mad I’m just into the conversation
The key thing that can make or break a debate or the difference in opinion.. is first.. respecting the other person’s opinion & views.. A lot of people automatically start dissing & disrespecting the other person’s opinion/views/ choices if they don’t aline with theirs.. This way alone has ruined a lot of relationships.. from friendships, marriages, even siblings..
I love Amanda S., and Loni!
Tamera clashes with her
Pollerd - with who?
Yes because Amanda is conscious or “woke” about the Black community and Tamera is seen as being the opposite of that
Not just black women but men too
Facts 💯
The BS about this topic is I’ve seen non black women act a whole fool and it’s dismissed or looked over! She was just having a bad day 🙄🙄
Designed Forward I think they’re just referring to the fact that in America black women are stereotyped to have negative attitudes and to not be agreeable. Therefore, when a black woman is in a space that is predominantly non-black, there is that double standard where people may just brush you off and say you’re having an attitude problem, when in fact you have a right to be upset about the situation, but when a woman of a different background expresses herself people may take her more seriously. It just puts black women in uncomfortable situations trying to please everyone, because you do not want to be portrayed that way.
Star Feather I do understand 🤗 it’s just horrible and unfair. BW have to deal with too much. I digress 🥴😔.
Can #amandaseales be on the show permanently plssssss? I looooove her😘😘😘
Wowza Tamera is not feeling what Amanda was saying I think she felt the voice applied to her lol.
More chats like these! This is the real I want to see
I love the way they acknowledge that this is an issue that impacts women everywhere, but like so many other issues, its magnified for women of color.
Oooooooo I ❤❤❤❤❤ AMANDA .... and she put that so well because that happens to me all the time I have to get exactly like she just said in order for people to act like they have some sense. But I love the way she put it it was good to hear and good to know I'm going to love her being on this show cuz I stopped watching it
Who said Loni is a bully??? Let me give them a piece of my mind.
LONI IS BEAUTIFUL, INTELLIGENT, FUNNY & A SWEETHEART.
It seems that we can't function in society as regular human beings who are allowed to exhibit all human emotions. Everything we say and do seems to be a "problem.". Lots of stress living as a black woman in this world.
@@AltaicPride01 You would not ask this question if you could relate, and I am not going to spend time explaining it to you.
Amanda Swales is just amazing! Absolutely love her
I agree with everyone..but like Tamara says is not what you say but how you say it..and loni has s point sometimes you gotta hear yourself and maybe you'll see what people see..
I just love Amanda ! 😩 Can Adrienne, Amanda and I be best friends ?
Don't let that anger take your joy.. thanks Amanda needed that right now!!
it's Ok to desagree, let agree to desagree, Love this
Yeah,That last part.Because if you’re angry you never have fun,friends or a good life.And that’s just not true.
so happy to see Amanda here.
I’m ready for a new guest cohost
Amanda’s shirt!!!! I want it💕
I don't always like or agree with Amanda's perspective but she was on point with this💯
Loving Loni's look in this episode... So beautiful.
I felt this conversation!
Amanda hair is soooo cute right here
Its really weird to see that peoples’s comments about Amanda being a Co-host change from topic to topic.
Not even topic to topic... Lol part one to part two, it's crazy😂.
Yes there are some Black ppl that don’t like her for the show but I see majority of non-Black commenters saying they don’t like her.
@@BobbiHustles Amanda is not for everyone ( I do not agree with her sometimes) but she isn't afraid to address all topics. People say she hates white people. She never made racist remarks...so I do not get that. It is remarkable that almost all the people who do not like her are non-black people. Why is that do you think? This is a honest question.
Amanda is so beautiful and smart 😍
Beautiful women. Great conversation!
Wheres adrienne???
Tamera knows that disagreement went beyond an eye roll lol. I love me some Tam, but she was rudeee that day. She thought Jeannie was shading her parenting skills, and she got defensive.
Facts!
Yesssss my sisters!!!!
You can see Amanda NEVER makes eye contact w Tamera once. She only looks at Loni or Jeannie unless Tamera is speaking. And you can see how Tamera looks when Amanda talks.
Best talk show hosts ever... Adrienne ....tamtam......Ms. mai......loni....and go on with your bad self Ms Amanda ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹 love you guys @thereal
Thank You Girl & Girl !
Links wigs are on point!!!! 🔥
Are we keeping Amanda?
Passive aggressiveness between women is always encouraged by toxic patriarchy culture. These women can disagree, speak in strong affirming tones, speak powerfully one day, softly the next, they can speak with annoyance, with irritability, with frustration , and still be loving kind-hearted women who uplift respect and honour one another. Do not like seeing women need to pretend don’t understand the patriarchy and racism (Tamera) and women feeling the need to people please and play nice validating girl 24/7 (Jeannie), and women speaking up and then having to semi-apologize and explain they are kind and sweet when everyone can see their kind sweet hearts (Loni). The women in these comment sections who analyze these women’s behaviours rather than their intellectual opinions, are examples of toxic oppressive patriarchy culture. Frustrating. Public speaking is an art and I’m so happy they have such a talented, articulate, self-affirming, powerful, dynamic, sensitive woman like Amanda Seals to address racism and sexism. We all fight micro-aggressions daily and people wait on their seat edges like some of the women in these comment sections to point out the ways you fall beneath perfection when defending yourself. Black women get abused , and people comment more about how they protect themselves vs them being abused. Women are raped and people debate if they deserve peace vs their abuser . Discrimination won’t ever fully go away (in groups and out groups are inherent human tendencies), yet we can call out
As Amanda is speaking, the grin on Loni Love's face at the 0.38 mark, let's you know she so glad she has some help now
Please keep Amanda on the show!!
Amen !!!!