why you don't have a girlfriend (no fap)

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  • Опубликовано: 16 ноя 2024

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  • @boostaah
    @boostaah Год назад +36

    19 years old, been doing self improvement for 2 years now, lost over 40kg, got more healthy, got more energy, got better looks, got better style and guess what, still as depressed as I was before I started working on myself. no probably even more depressed, cause day by day I feel more lonely and useless, I know that the Line: „I think I never will feel love in my life“ often gets answered with „no bro just work on yourself“ but in my case I’m starting to believe that I‘ll actually will just life the rest of my life lonely. If I could just accept my fate, it would be fine, but I always get hopes and dreams, which then again make me more depressed.

    • @ares515films9
      @ares515films9 Год назад +5

      I keep my fingers crossed for you bro

    • @justanerd2941
      @justanerd2941 Год назад +2

      If you want to change your life you have to do it for you and not for others... I've been stuck in a situation pretty similar to yours for years; what's your situation with your parents or family? Have you planned your future? How do you see you in five years? Think about this and you will become a king in a few years

    • @carnizrediz8722
      @carnizrediz8722 Год назад +1

      Be more spontaneous. It would be boring for me to watch you.

    • @zebeeeeee1
      @zebeeeeee1 Год назад +4

      Now you need to fight your own mind, understand and overcome it. Look at carl jung books (its psychology) and keep fighting because it is the one and only man condition. Good luck.

    • @GmustangT96
      @GmustangT96 Год назад +1

      you list those achievements but let me ask you... do you feel proud of yourself? if not why? I mention feeling proud because in order to be proud, you usually have to have endured pain and suffering to become it. We aren't born proud of ourselves. All this depression you feel now is temporary. Better yet, this depression you feel might just be your inner self trying to tell you something. Think of it as that gut feeling telling you something is bad. you have to learn how to analyze your own life. keep studying material on self improvement because its always good to have outside perspective.
      You lost weight and all but how much more attractive have you become? do you have a 6 pack? How about your social skills? This ..... that. My point is you need to have many skills. Just because you've improved doesn't mean you have to stop. To succumb to your depression is to stop achieving. Don't let depression win.

  • @copingforever6093
    @copingforever6093 Год назад +18

    bro this is literally me ... I am 25 years old and I am on nofap for 4 months already ... I still dont have a girlfriend but videos like these give me hope

    • @ares515films9
      @ares515films9 Год назад +4

      I believe in you bro, you can do it

    • @Hxllxw00
      @Hxllxw00 Год назад +1

      This is cope but i wish you luck

    • @copythatcopycat
      @copythatcopycat Год назад +3

      Nofapped for 2 years, no porn for 4 years, it didn’t get me anywhere. Then I started all over again and I’ve become happier than before, because I started to get pleasure from this stuff how I used to do. If you are nofapping so that you get a girlfriend - it won’t get you anywhere, if you’re nofapping because it makes you feel better - then it’s definitely for you.

    • @liselilerindram9916
      @liselilerindram9916 Год назад +1

      @@copythatcopycat watching porn is bad for your brain. Quit it

    • @copythatcopycat
      @copythatcopycat Год назад +2

      @@liselilerindram9916 not a problem for a man who is not that attached to his own body

  • @Melin11
    @Melin11 Год назад +15

    You saved my life bruh ❤

  • @lexman8678
    @lexman8678 Год назад +17

    Once your in your 30s you realise that dating and meeting some low value woman is a big waste of time and effort solo mums and divorcees no thanks I'll stay by myself and focus on making more money

    • @EncourageLegacy
      @EncourageLegacy Год назад +1

      Then why not simply focus on the high value, devout woman?

    • @lexman8678
      @lexman8678 Год назад +6

      @EncourageLegacy those ones aren't even looking for average guys with average income they want the top 1% of guys why would I even bother with them??? That's like me walking into McLaren trying to be interested in a car I can't even afford

    • @EncourageLegacy
      @EncourageLegacy Год назад +3

      @@lexman8678 You've obviously never met a religious, faithful woman.
      Well. You'd have to treat here as a leading, honest man. Sincere and with passion.

    • @lexman8678
      @lexman8678 Год назад +2

      @EncourageLegacy well I don't want a religious woman as I'm not religious and don't really care for it at all what a dumb comment lol

    • @EncourageLegacy
      @EncourageLegacy Год назад +1

      @@lexman8678 Incel in a nutshell.
      Who cares if you are or are not. There's Truth in it, and it's to your own detriment you classify my comment as dumb.

  • @swaghustler7285
    @swaghustler7285 Год назад +3

    im 25 and virgin who never got a girlfriend just because i´m very high value men, the girls/women around me are to dumb, to ugly, just to fake/not theirselfes or vaxxed...I ever had big plans for my life, mostly based on money, but i don´t have rich parents, a father which got no interest in my life and my mother has two sons to carry about, so I have to be smart or sell my soul. I decided to use, what god has given me: my brain and my confidence...and I´m beautiful btw, I have had enough girls, who wanted me but I ever was to valuable/to expensive for them...because it´s not just about the person, it´s also about the human/the soul. I need a high value woman but the highest priority for me is safety, which is mostly based on money. After I got the necessary safety, I would allow myself, to start looking for a woman, to start investing my time, my energy and my money for her. But for now I have to focus on building this safety, to make myself happy first.

    • @OffGridInvestor
      @OffGridInvestor Год назад +1

      I notice that if you say who you are, they're not interested. When they know anything about your wealth, they suddenly are. You're not interested in me as a person, but only get interested when you hear about the wealth, then you're a shallow girl looking for someone to carry you. Basically theyre just leeches SO often. Literally tried experiments on dating sites where THE SAME girl wasn't interested in the real me, but EXTREMELY interested once she knew that I had wealth. Messages like "you haven't even given us a chance" and stuff like that. I told her I knew her in real life but she didn't realise who I was. She quit instantly.

    • @swaghustler7285
      @swaghustler7285 Год назад

      @@OffGridInvestor yeah when you are dressed like a poor, they don't notice you, maybe if you got a pretty face or muscles. But when you rock a roli and designer clothes, they think you are a hustler or rich from another origin. I like beeing clothed like a poor, because I don't want to stay poor by buying expensive stuff I don't need👍🏼

  • @Gladifine
    @Gladifine Год назад +6

    Holy, remember me? I am your 200th subscriber and you grew up by a year so fast. Congratulations on 15k! Your close to 16k!

    • @StandingChad
      @StandingChad  Год назад +1

      I do my brotha, hoping life is good for you~

  • @GrafBazooka
    @GrafBazooka Год назад +7

    i fit perfectly the description but started to improve my life months ago 😏 maybe tonight will be the night, wish me luck 💦

    • @sickranchez4742
      @sickranchez4742 Год назад +2

      Good luck bro! Good on you on trying to change. I'm in the same boat. We got this 💪

    • @EncourageLegacy
      @EncourageLegacy Год назад +1

      Keep in mind. Only nail the woman you actually want to imagine a future with. Everything else is not pleasure but long-term trouble with zero aim.

    • @GrafBazooka
      @GrafBazooka Год назад

      thanks for the reminder @@EncourageLegacy , it's just that my balls hurt >.

  • @RangerOfTheEast00
    @RangerOfTheEast00 11 месяцев назад

    I have been in that boat myself and have been on the self improvement journey for the past three years.

  • @lucadesanctis563
    @lucadesanctis563 Год назад +3

    This hits hard when u're 32 and thing is.. it's not the main problem

    • @OffGridInvestor
      @OffGridInvestor Год назад

      Wait til you're 42 and get attention. You don't care anymore because you don't want the mind games and have a full time job and trying to start 2 side businesses. After working in male dominated jobs I'm now in a place that's almost half women and I get attention from them but don't care. I lost the emotional energy years ago. And then you get a girl, and it won't last. There's not much logic and they only get serious when it's too late.

  • @kulvindersingh5764
    @kulvindersingh5764 Год назад +1

    Powerful stuff! Keep making great content.

  • @CyberHawk2024
    @CyberHawk2024 Год назад +1

    I’m 31, I feel the exact same way

  • @legenddrift6395
    @legenddrift6395 Год назад +1

    My no 1 best friend is standing chad i feel him like real friend

  • @JohnFitness234
    @JohnFitness234 Год назад +3

    "I am already 26". "Girls these days only want guys that are perfect". Damn, Wojak is blackpilled and got all the excuses in the world 😂

    • @OffGridInvestor
      @OffGridInvestor Год назад +4

      Trouble is, he's not entirely wrong. I got tired of the mind games. I get a lot of attention but no longer care. They're interested when I'm too worn out on their crap to care any more

  • @yashyadav2851
    @yashyadav2851 Год назад +3

    Thank you so much...I needed this.

  • @GardenerEarthGuy
    @GardenerEarthGuy Год назад +6

    Cosmetology class at the college....
    You will be in a class with all women, learning to cut hair.
    You will peel so many panties with this class, plus you'll have a barber license.

    • @nickvanderpool7434
      @nickvanderpool7434 Год назад +3

      On the same note, community theater, either acting or technical behind the scenes. The scene is mostly attractive women starving for attention. Try NOT getting some action...

    • @Cortesevasive
      @Cortesevasive Год назад +1

      fkin simp . Just focus on the grind.

  • @MAte925
    @MAte925 Год назад +2

    Should have told Chad to mind his own buisness!

  • @mizukarate
    @mizukarate Год назад +6

    The problem is that you consider being 26 is old. It is not.

    • @EncourageLegacy
      @EncourageLegacy Год назад +1

      It's high time.
      Who says it's "old"?
      As a matter of fact it's family age.
      Look what any of our ancestors did, pick any that you never even saw the face of and abstract where you come from.
      That's the Truth, a sacred meditation to delve into.
      Every single one of your ancestors reproduced. Successfully.
      No pressure. ;)
      If you can manage your life, look beyond yourself.
      Be blessed. You recognise your soul.

    • @mizukarate
      @mizukarate Год назад +1

      @@EncourageLegacy Im close to 50. I just keep going.

    • @Dinosz-pl4hr
      @Dinosz-pl4hr Год назад

      ​@@EncourageLegacyAverage Jordan Peterson fan be like:

  • @angeli23-.-61
    @angeli23-.-61 Год назад +3

  • @IsraelCruz-xy3gv
    @IsraelCruz-xy3gv 8 месяцев назад

    I dont watch porn but still dont got one

  • @marcell7406
    @marcell7406 Год назад

    nah

  • @ge33376
    @ge33376 Год назад +1

    The issue with Doomer is that he isn't even trying to improve himself. That should be goal number one. He has the freedom to pave his own success while he is single.