A urologist explains the difference between SHOWERS vs GROWERS!

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  • Опубликовано: 2 авг 2024
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    Everybody knows the age-old debate between guys, "Growers vs Showers". And while there may be some personal merit to belonging to either of the two groups, is there an actual health factor as to how and why you would be in team Grower or team Shower? Be sure to watch until the end to learn if it might even affect your fertility or not!
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    0:30 What's the difference between a "Grower" and a "Shower"?
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  • @22trem
    @22trem 2 года назад +12965

    Grower or shower, regardless.....need to find a blower.....

  • @kez850
    @kez850 Год назад +9310

    I’m a grower and one of my worst fears is getting in an accident and having my clothes cut off while not being at my full potential

  • @dahoodie3158
    @dahoodie3158 Год назад +1020

    Being a grower is honestly a blessing we got all the room we need and don't matter what the girl thinks her mind will change when it's time🤣💯

    • @zi326
      @zi326 Год назад +1

      A blessing to look like a little boy, yeah ok. It's alot more manlier to have a shower between your legs than a grower

    • @verymen104
      @verymen104 Год назад +9

      true , true

    • @zhou_sei
      @zhou_sei 8 месяцев назад +26

      you can show a woman your penis without it being erect? that's amazing to me.

    • @gimygaming8655
      @gimygaming8655 7 месяцев назад

      Honestly, I love growers more. I like how I can FEEL it grow in my mouth. Definitely different feeling from a shower

    • @LKS-M9323
      @LKS-M9323 3 месяца назад +7

      Lol I tell em call me Mr. Fantastic 😂😂😂

  • @smashy_smasherton
    @smashy_smasherton Год назад +1802

    I was having a surgery on my leg once in China (local anesthesia) and my Willy was hanging out in the freezing cold operating room. The doctors were discussing my surgery in Chinese, not knowing that I also speak Chinese. One of them commented on my chilly Willy, “They’re not that big.”
    I asked him in Chinese how big his was when it was cold. He was really embarrassed and apologized. The other one thought it was pretty funny.

    • @bauer_
      @bauer_ 11 месяцев назад +27

      funny

    • @wescald
      @wescald 10 месяцев назад +18

      Small guy huh

    • @everlastinglife5978
      @everlastinglife5978 10 месяцев назад +61

      Sounds like a totally real and not made up story.

    • @smashy_smasherton
      @smashy_smasherton 10 месяцев назад +97

      @@everlastinglife5978 it’s real! Why would I garner attention to my chilly little Willy?

    • @rleriche5044
      @rleriche5044 10 месяцев назад +25

      @@wescald weird response

  • @beyourownvibe6638
    @beyourownvibe6638 2 года назад +9122

    Growers assemble!! Stand united fellow brother's! ✊🏽

  • @Adam.P
    @Adam.P 3 года назад +11449

    I'm definitely a grower since it doubles in size . From 1 inch to almost 2 inches.😮

    • @saulpaul7263
      @saulpaul7263 3 года назад +501

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @stopit9280
      @stopit9280 3 года назад +904

      I've got you beat. I go from 0.5 inch to 2 inches. I QUADRUPLE in size. Beat that.

    • @eduardomartinez7648
      @eduardomartinez7648 3 года назад +97

      Fax😂😂😊

    • @nastyonekenoby
      @nastyonekenoby 3 года назад +171

      I grow to 2 inches of furry! 💪💪💪

    • @glendelong1023
      @glendelong1023 3 года назад +66

      braggart

  • @bohican77
    @bohican77 4 месяца назад +261

    No idea why this video popped up on my feed, but I applaud your ability to get through the video using strictly clinical terms and avoiding any euphemisms.

    • @SheldonDarianRoach
      @SheldonDarianRoach 3 месяца назад +5

      Lol same. Went from watching Anime fights to this random clip

    • @danfromthesouth5352
      @danfromthesouth5352 3 месяца назад +5

      Me too. Was watching gun stuff and 2A stuff, and BOOM 😂

    • @robbymounce5764
      @robbymounce5764 2 месяца назад +2

      It’s EDUCATIONAL! 🧐 🤨

    • @alexpope437
      @alexpope437 Месяц назад

      ​@@danfromthesouth5352what is 2a?

  • @HoodXFlocktv
    @HoodXFlocktv 3 месяца назад +78

    Being a grower has always been a blessing they giggle then soon as I insert this they face every time 😮🥴

    • @jakerojas4756
      @jakerojas4756 2 месяца назад +14

      Bro... it's literally a gift from Jah to be a grower

    • @HoodXFlocktv
      @HoodXFlocktv 2 месяца назад

      @@jakerojas4756 facts

    • @corruptuchi
      @corruptuchi 2 месяца назад

      @@jakerojas4756Jah?

  • @graymatters7584
    @graymatters7584 2 года назад +5317

    It’s like a retractable telescope: small and easy to carry around, but folds out when you need it. A miracle of evolution.

    • @fryloc359
      @fryloc359 2 года назад +95

      It's like halloween candy: fun size.

    • @fusion451
      @fusion451 2 года назад +31

      Meanwhile ur wife is dreaming about the Saturn 5

    • @graymatters7584
      @graymatters7584 2 года назад +132

      @@fusion451 Meanwhile I’m dreaming of Pershing missile t!ts and a narrow waist. We’re all a disappointment to somebody.

    • @jasonnorthcutt4008
      @jasonnorthcutt4008 2 года назад +50

      And it's definitely not the member you won't froze off or frostbitten. Being retractable could definitely be an asset of evolution.

    • @fryloc359
      @fryloc359 2 года назад +164

      @@jasonnorthcutt4008 If you think about being a caveman, running through the woods trying to catch some food, or escape from being food, you probably don't want your dong flopping around and hitting everything.

  • @roadrunner7441
    @roadrunner7441 Год назад +3325

    I'm a grower and women are surprised once it's up I'm proud of myself 😂

    • @lboogie83
      @lboogie83 Год назад +181

      I've experienced the same ish 😂😂😂😂. She said WHEW 🙄🙄🙄🙄😭😭😭😭

    • @ramielkady938
      @ramielkady938 Год назад +187

      I hear you brother ... Even my wife the other day was like: baby you got bigger ... And I am like Naah ... It is just so cold these days honey ... That is what you have been served for the last 10 years sweetheart ... Lol ...

    • @makegeorgeorwellfictionaga9268
      @makegeorgeorwellfictionaga9268 Год назад +4

      Yes

    • @deco_genji
      @deco_genji Год назад +8

      ​@@lboogie83 dam🤣

    • @ramielkady938
      @ramielkady938 Год назад +54

      @GSP UFC and stuff
      I know ... Your m.o.m was even more confused about my junk ... She rode it like a good girl though 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @CryptoMiningChannel
    @CryptoMiningChannel 4 месяца назад +74

    I just came here to read the comments and it made my day!

  • @kevinadams1249
    @kevinadams1249 Год назад +253

    This was very helpful and nice to know I’m not alone in this area
    Being a grower in a locker room scenario really affected my self esteem more than I ever imagined when others commented and wish this was discussed more in education classes.
    Thank you
    Being a grower made me extremely self conscious growing up and even into my 40’s
    I know it’s psychological but even then it still concerns me, however I’ve often been told by partners that it’s decent size at around 7” and thicker than the average so the females have told me , so it’s something I just need to get my head around

    • @RustyDust101
      @RustyDust101 10 месяцев назад +41

      Nope, you need to get your partner's head around it. 😂😂

    • @unknowmysteries5925
      @unknowmysteries5925 10 месяцев назад +8

      The locker room is the weirdest part. Strange thing is. Mostly straight guys like to compare and sneak around to get a peak and then either shame you or who knows what. I remember being in a fight. In boxers because they were trying to peak. Granted back then it was pretty well you know… anyways, straight dudes acting big and macho looking at each other wants is the craziest thing.

    • @keirhardy3457
      @keirhardy3457 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@unknowmysteries5925What I find the weirdest about the shower vs grower thing is who cares about the size of a flaccid dick, surely it's only the erect size that matters since you don't have sex with a flaccid dick anyway? 😂

    • @ACommenterOnYouTube
      @ACommenterOnYouTube 9 месяцев назад +18

      My flacid length is anywhere from 1 inch to 4 inches, then grows to almost 6 inches.
      So yea i can understand what you mean.

    • @AmericanClass1776
      @AmericanClass1776 8 месяцев назад +3

      A decent size is a nice way of saying it's small lol!

  • @MrJ_FC3
    @MrJ_FC3 2 года назад +2423

    Being a grower is awesome. The "how do you go from that to this!?" Along with the look on their face is a nice feeling.

    • @midwestkrazy83turner50
      @midwestkrazy83turner50 2 года назад +52

      💯

    • @eddylorenzo5033
      @eddylorenzo5033 2 года назад +110

      Lmfaooo reading all these comments has me rolling

    • @ericmorel6557
      @ericmorel6557 2 года назад +14

      FACTS!!!!!!!

    • @RichVegas777
      @RichVegas777 2 года назад +187

      Yeah hated being a grower when I was young, now I realize it has its benefits. Hard to sleep when it's hard. Plus carrying it around small and it getting big when needed is prob just more comfortable.

    • @goshko102
      @goshko102 2 года назад +47

      @@RichVegas777 God knows his job, mate :D

  • @RojinofRiron
    @RojinofRiron 3 года назад +4348

    Grower hardships are real. We can't enjoy the privilege of making them drool by wearing "grey sweatpant". But I do enjoy the surprise they have when they see the "salute". Lololololol.

    • @robertdevoy3119
      @robertdevoy3119 2 года назад +306

      Very true. Most women believe that in order to be big it has to start big. They often don't see the D for the first time until it is already erect and visually impressive.

    • @Groteskfull
      @Groteskfull 2 года назад +49

      @The Gereral I must ask, is it really comfortable? From the pics I've seen on the internet, it doesn't seem like something I'd want to wear throughout the day... restricting blood circulation an' all.

    • @SMiLEY4370
      @SMiLEY4370 2 года назад +1

      @@robertdevoy3119 i

    • @dezotfn123
      @dezotfn123 2 года назад +49

      Well said, from one grower to another...

    • @starfox1340
      @starfox1340 2 года назад +12

      Use a hydro pump !

  • @roninmantis7584
    @roninmantis7584 11 месяцев назад +19

    Interesting to know the study behind it. It's good to see factual videos from qualified individuals.

  • @Frank_and_outright
    @Frank_and_outright 4 месяца назад +5

    Happy to see you and listen to your speech ❤

  • @chrisbenavides7696
    @chrisbenavides7696 3 года назад +1706

    This isn't even my final form!

    • @higiniomorales459
      @higiniomorales459 3 года назад +87

      Calm down Frieza, we all know you got a long tail.

    • @peaceonearth8693
      @peaceonearth8693 3 года назад +23

      Suddenly there is a whole nother story line for another Transformer movie.

    • @kindofabigdeal7284
      @kindofabigdeal7284 2 года назад +6

      Lol!!!!!

    • @orionburton3829
      @orionburton3829 2 года назад +3

      @@higiniomorales459 jajajajajaajjaaha

    • @WM-mu8ep
      @WM-mu8ep 2 года назад +26

      Nice to know fellow dragon ball fans clicked on this 🤣🤣🤣

  • @ryanmarshall4204
    @ryanmarshall4204 2 года назад +3609

    "I'm a grower not a shower but when it's time to grow, I show"
    Frank Gallagher
    🤣🤣🤣

  • @ultraspectrum9504
    @ultraspectrum9504 Год назад +3

    Big salute to Dr Malik, she is funny at the same time very intelligent and an excellent presenter - definitely rare people knows shower and grower

  • @MikeScott55
    @MikeScott55 10 месяцев назад +50

    “I was in the pool! I was in the pool!” 😂. Damn this channel is just wildly fascinating. So glad I watched that Huberman discussion with you. Really enjoying the content. 😊

  • @sSOLDIERrr
    @sSOLDIERrr 2 года назад +335

    I'm glad I'm a grower. I don't need to be swinging around all day, especially when I'm cold, running, swimming, dancing etc. It activates when I need it.

    • @alfredohernandez3120
      @alfredohernandez3120 2 года назад +60

      Kind of like a lightsaber

    • @TheRealistBritishIndian
      @TheRealistBritishIndian 2 года назад +42

      Lightsaber!!! Comes out when needed!!! A quality weapon for a civilised age…

    • @nicholashaas4526
      @nicholashaas4526 2 года назад

      Joseph likes to be a shower?? Haha wtf

    • @direwolf7491
      @direwolf7491 2 года назад +2

      Lucky you

    • @kevinp8108
      @kevinp8108 2 года назад

      I'm a grower but I've always wanted to be a grower. I've always wanted to drag my penis across the fitness center shower floor with a big grin on my face.

  • @AllHandlesRTaken
    @AllHandlesRTaken Год назад +661

    She smiled through the whole video.

    • @LSGBOOGIE
      @LSGBOOGIE Год назад +39

      😂😂😂😂

    • @bosefuss100
      @bosefuss100 Год назад

      She may be a blower.

    • @Brandon-br7tc
      @Brandon-br7tc Год назад +42

      They can barely hold their inner laugh.

    • @srico7313
      @srico7313 Год назад

      She's had both in both 🥪😋😋 🌭🍔🌭🍔🍑

    • @peacecrewproducts
      @peacecrewproducts Год назад

      That's because she is a blower LOL 😂😂🤣🤣

  • @raphaeldag168
    @raphaeldag168 Год назад +15

    I love this lady!!! Thank you Doc for all the knowledge you keep posting up.

  • @joshuaforester
    @joshuaforester 11 месяцев назад +11

    Useful video. Lots of boys, teens, men need to hear this.

  • @IPlayOneOnT.V.
    @IPlayOneOnT.V. 3 года назад +735

    "I was in the pool! I was in the pool!" - George Costanza

    • @Frodohotep
      @Frodohotep 2 года назад +37

      George: “Do you think she knows about shrinkage?”
      Jerry: “I dunno, sure, everyone knows about shrinkage. Don’t worry about it.”
      Elaine: “Shrinkage? What are you talking about?”
      George: explains.
      Elaine: “Really? That happens? Honestly, I don’t know how you guys walk around with those things.”

    • @cutup1
      @cutup1 2 года назад

      😆😆😆

    • @benspangler9550
      @benspangler9550 2 года назад +16

      It shrinks?
      Like a freightened turtle!!!
      Lmao

    • @ldchappell1
      @ldchappell1 2 года назад +6

      Significant shrinkage.

    • @simpleman2004
      @simpleman2004 2 года назад +2

      @@Frodohotep I loved that show,

  • @markkirk2129
    @markkirk2129 3 года назад +282

    An honest urologist that actually talking fully about male or female issues instead of leaving you in the dark.

  • @babiboib7
    @babiboib7 Год назад

    I concur, thank you Dr. Malik 🙏

  • @nomnomnooma
    @nomnomnooma Год назад +3

    I have no idea why this was in my feed and who sent this to me but subscribed after looking through her channel lol 😊

  • @david894
    @david894 2 года назад +2352

    Thank you for this video. I am a grower. When erect I'm average length, about 6 inches. But flaccid it's very small, about 2 inches. So in the locker room I always felt self-conscious about it. I've gotten used to it so it doesn't matter now, but seeing that most guys were not as small as me flaccid did make me feel uncomfortable when I was young. I would even show my girlfriends how much it would grow from flacid to fully erect and they would be surprised. Oh well. Just adding to the conversation. Thanks for the video doctor, very interesting info.

    • @shivmirani748
      @shivmirani748 2 года назад +204

      Ngl I’m the same way

    • @FriarJoe66
      @FriarJoe66 2 года назад +250

      This is why I always stay erect in the locker room, now nobody will think I’m small

    • @RyuuseiBlizzard
      @RyuuseiBlizzard 2 года назад +101

      @@FriarJoe66 🤨🤨

    • @marcoleon6962
      @marcoleon6962 2 года назад +268

      Especially when its cold, it could get way smaller

    • @shanemc5136
      @shanemc5136 2 года назад +24

      @@FriarJoe66 that's not good.

  • @batrob1939
    @batrob1939 Год назад +487

    I'm definitely a grower. Another great tidbit information thank you Dr. Malik

    • @batrob1939
      @batrob1939 Год назад +4

      @GSP UFC and stuff Hey don't be asking another man that question?
      And 2nd of all of I'm a straight man, I'm not a homosexual if you are that's your choice.
      Only females should be asking that type of question to me. It makes me uneasy and uncomfortable when another man asks questions like that. Understood?? Good day sir!

    • @slakeNsurge
      @slakeNsurge Год назад +11

      @@batrob1939it was a joke, my dude. 👍

    • @taijonayrow7419
      @taijonayrow7419 Год назад

      Lmao

    • @slashroar
      @slashroar Год назад

      @@batrob1939 I don't think it was a question

    • @hamishanderson6738
      @hamishanderson6738 10 месяцев назад

      Grower & shower here!😉

  • @ScottKHardy
    @ScottKHardy 8 месяцев назад +1

    I was really hoping Dr Rena would reveal what I've wanted to know for years; the scientic, or medical, term for shower and grower...

  • @casa5104
    @casa5104 9 месяцев назад

    Amazing information and awareness and knowledge

  • @marcustherealius7884
    @marcustherealius7884 Год назад +308

    A girl I used to date used to call me transformer. Didn’t really know how to take this back then😂

    • @letsgobrawndo7899
      @letsgobrawndo7899 Год назад +73

      🎵 “Transformers….growers in disguise…” 🎵

    • @FlavurbyK
      @FlavurbyK Год назад

      I’m unicron in the cooch

    • @afriend9428
      @afriend9428 Год назад +30

      *One will rise and one will fall* 😆

    • @609mandingowarrior6
      @609mandingowarrior6 Год назад

      Bruhhh I'm dead ctfu 🤣🤣 I used to date a Asian (Korean) cougar and she called me super scary monster when I transformed to super saiyan God mode lmao 💀💀💀🍆🍆🍆🤷🏿‍♂️😏😏😎

    • @marvelousmrjohn
      @marvelousmrjohn Год назад +5

      That would've been an automatic "leave."

  • @KiLLED5639
    @KiLLED5639 2 года назад +18

    I used to always wonder about this without knowing how to verbalize it. Thank you ma'am.

  • @wildmappingbug9594
    @wildmappingbug9594 Год назад +29

    I am into fascinating medical stuff. I hope you can also discuss some not so common illness within our genitals like penis clog, fractures etc. Thanks and More power to the channel.

  • @briankgarland
    @briankgarland 9 месяцев назад +1

    Happy to report I'm a grower, and by much more than the average grower in this study. But not nearly as much now that I am no longer a youngster.

  • @KpxUrz5745
    @KpxUrz5745 2 года назад +324

    Kudos to Dr Malik for normalizing these topics and for so comfortably providing this type of medical information. Great channel.

    • @danko5866
      @danko5866 Год назад

      True, I believe the taboo will be eradicated completely by next generation

  • @andykedziora2898
    @andykedziora2898 2 года назад +43

    Being a grower show's your partner they are turning you on when you start to grow. Happy growing everyone.

  • @xalynkx
    @xalynkx 8 месяцев назад +1

    I'm a grower👍🏽... kinda sad that i lost 1 of my testes 😩, i haven't been reaching the lengths i could reach📈 but i'm still reaching lengths that puts me as average, for that i am grateful 🙆‍♂️

  • @johncafiero9636
    @johncafiero9636 Год назад

    Thank you for all your knowledge

  • @melvinlovejones9722
    @melvinlovejones9722 3 года назад +109

    I've been fascinated by this subject for years, but ultimately came to an understanding that it all about taking care of oneself. As long as it works, you're good! It's all about creativity with the right person.

  • @johnherman3261
    @johnherman3261 2 года назад +94

    Rena; What a great informational channel. I’ve worked with urologist for twenty eight years and none of them explains urological Issues as well as you. Hoping for future success with your Chanel and career.

  • @user-uf5vj6zk7m
    @user-uf5vj6zk7m 4 месяца назад

    Very educative Thank-you

  • @bigwangmark
    @bigwangmark Год назад +93

    I think a lot of men feel embarrassed when they are a grower vs a shower and I know I was but as I got older I realized many showers really did not have big ones when erect vs growers that where bigger and thicker when erect. So if you are a grower be happy knowing you are more than likely to be bigger than the showers that like to show off.

    • @RM.....
      @RM..... Год назад +8

      Everyday life is much easier being a grower.

    • @jerrydamouse4127
      @jerrydamouse4127 Год назад +5

      It's actually opposite for myself. Call it the underdog complex. I'm expecting to be underestimated.

    • @zi326
      @zi326 Год назад

      @@RM..... Except public shower I imagine🤣. Must be pretty embarrasing being an adult but looking like a little child between your legs lol

    • @Black111149
      @Black111149 9 месяцев назад

      Being a shower is not bad although a grower sounds like it would be kool for a woman to see that growth. Lol

  • @frankpalermo9307
    @frankpalermo9307 3 года назад +13

    Love your channel. Well done on covering topics men are afraid to ask.

  • @havocmwf
    @havocmwf 11 месяцев назад +42

    I grew up terribly self consious about my penis size when flacid. This was mainly an issue if showering in male showers and some could be quite mean with their comments (early school years). I never had an issue around the ladies as I was erect and it was above average length. I never knew there was such a thing as a shower/grower distinction until my late fifties! Suffice to say I never had any complaints from the ladies and have two kids to prove all was well :)

    • @buysncharge
      @buysncharge 11 месяцев назад +5

      Should have called em out for looking

    • @ACommenterOnYouTube
      @ACommenterOnYouTube 9 месяцев назад

      I had a co-worker one day say, i may not be well endowed but it was long enough to make 2 kids ...
      I say the same thing, my penis may be only 5.5 inches long or 6 inches when she teases me before sex, but those 5.5 inches was long enough to make her pregnant 🤷🏽‍♂️

  • @gariyas
    @gariyas 5 месяцев назад

    Just as stress, anxiety, mood, cold water, cold weather, etc. can change such, ask why. Perhaps such causes physiological changes such as muscle contraction and other ; perhaps one's personality and temperament causes physiological changes and why few it seems may tend towards one or the other is because one's personality tends towards something and for many perhaps rarely changes.

  • @AC-cg4be
    @AC-cg4be 3 года назад +179

    These vids are awesome! There's a lot of BS about the whole pelvic area floating around and it's nice to have an actual doctor explain the stuff that's going on down there.

    • @Rhyskendall8
      @Rhyskendall8 2 года назад +3

      I've never heard of a pelvic area floating around, but I'm glad to hear it's BS. I was worried about my bollocks floating off

  • @Doogz101
    @Doogz101 2 года назад +81

    Just came across this video and I’m glad I did. I am a grower (didn’t even know about that term) and I’ve always felt insecure about my flaccid length.

  • @Jereciah137
    @Jereciah137 10 месяцев назад +6

    I am a grower, 4 in or less, but am always happy about the wows I get when it is fully up at 8 in😁

  • @Dan-cn3ei
    @Dan-cn3ei 5 месяцев назад +1

    Your the best 👌 Doc.❤

  • @goochfitness26
    @goochfitness26 2 года назад +22

    This video is very useful. I already know that being a grower ain’t a issue at all but her videos are always insightful. She got a sub from me💯💯😂

  • @nedugenas2659
    @nedugenas2659 2 года назад +265

    In all honesty, this video was incredibly fun and educational and the comment section is absolute gold! I would really love to see more studies done on this stuff and maybe a video on girth in the future👍🏽

    • @JesseGaming7593
      @JesseGaming7593 2 года назад +6

      69 likes

    • @kramnull8962
      @kramnull8962 Год назад

      Are you so sure you want to see it, or just listen to the results...

  • @_The_Worst_
    @_The_Worst_ Год назад +3

    These are heIIa interesting facts...🤘🏼💯✔️

  • @user-nh4tm6hh4j
    @user-nh4tm6hh4j 2 года назад +21

    Rena, you're the best. You did into those questions that are floating around out there but can be hard to discuss.

  • @noturaveragehermit6958
    @noturaveragehermit6958 2 года назад +4

    I think I tripped on this video just in time and thank you for this. I never thought in a million years a woman would talk about this with a straight face so on that much respect!. I mean dam I remember going to a hospital when I was barely in my twenties almost knocked out and hearing a doctor say poor guy was not blessed while putting a catheter in me then hearing the nurse laugh. When I woke up my brain was a little under stress. Now in my late 40's I am going into surgery for my knee and after watching this I think you have rested my soul a little bit. I remember when I was young as well and already had what appeared to be ed.But a nurse filled me in and said it was mental probably for many reasons.I believe she was right considering all the hoops dudes gotta jump through these days over time it does take a toll on ones mental state. Especially when I have to hear women say what is that? my ex was as big a red bull can limp and thats not really a turn on!. So these days I just stopped dating,sex,pretty much all of it.I was raised in a family that believed in marriage and love for me at age 46 I have seen none of that and it just got old. When I look back though I do remember a few girls nicknaming me turtle and say dam you always surprise me but I was pretty young then.Anyways thanks for resting the old mind a little.

  • @007psyren
    @007psyren 4 месяца назад

    Best analogy 😂🎉

  • @anthonybyrge8074
    @anthonybyrge8074 10 месяцев назад

    Yea ive always been grower not a shower. As a teen i was embarrassed untill i became active and i had a reputation from going from bruce banner to hulk smash or wreck it Ralp. Now im 39 like the dr said i have weight blood pressure and diabetes, but im still able to be very active and still go super saiyan with my grower.

  • @edweber6136
    @edweber6136 2 года назад +183

    Well, I'm glad to know I'm still a "grower" even though I'm 67 years old! Also, I watched your video on having to stop the urge to urinate at night and how to stop it with my Kegel muscles. It works!! Thank you!! I love listening to your knowledge and advice with your wonderful "bedside manner!!"

    • @Schaufelor
      @Schaufelor 2 года назад +4

      When she talked about age affecting your ability to grow i got a little worried. What is your experience? I don´t mean the ability to grow at all, but the erect size. thx

    • @klouisville8760
      @klouisville8760 2 года назад +3

      I thought guys that age could not maintain an erection

    • @TheYamahog12
      @TheYamahog12 2 года назад +4

      @@klouisville8760 A lot of that depends on the degree of attraction to your partner. Being married and faithful to the same woman for 30 years can become a little mundane. It’s just natural.

    • @mikebuchanan3532
      @mikebuchanan3532 2 года назад +2

      @@Schaufelor I lost some size when I developed Peyronies disease. It doesn’t get as hard as a skillet handle anymore, but the little blue pill handles that.

    • @TheWonderwiess
      @TheWonderwiess 2 года назад +1

      @@TheYamahog12 weird how the brain works.. when we get older and we see a young woman in her 20s mid 30s.. in some of us, the brain triggers a response of pleasing her will let to seem more masculine etc etc

  • @brutusbuk
    @brutusbuk 3 года назад +25

    Dr. Malik, I love how you don't shy away from any "icky" subject! I especially like how you discuss everyday, normal topics that a lot of people don't discuss in polite conversation!!!

    • @nileshghadge5016
      @nileshghadge5016 2 года назад +1

      That's literally her job 🤦🏻‍♂️🙄

    • @brutusbuk
      @brutusbuk 2 года назад

      @@nileshghadge5016 It is in her professional practice, but I am applauding her for putting it all out there on social media. That's a whole different arena and I am simply recognizing how she handles it with grace, professionalism, and accessibility. Not sure where your derision arises from, but it's not important.

  • @cesarmeza5331
    @cesarmeza5331 Год назад +2

    Their reaction when they see the transformation for the first is priceless, I had an ex call mine a "transformer"

  • @adavies1752
    @adavies1752 9 месяцев назад +1

    I'm a grower
    Very fit and active for 55
    Would go out of my way not to expose myself Infront of others
    Especially males
    Got asked to join in a full moon ceremony not knowing what to expect
    Everyone totally naked average gathering 13 males 13 female
    I'm naked every month as a celebration of life and time and the love of earth no embarrassment at all I've gone past caring when there so much love around you❤
    Love to all the growers and the showers

  • @JM1993951
    @JM1993951 2 года назад +33

    I remember there being an article about this in my sister’s Cosmo magazine. I was probably 8 or 9 when I read it, so, as a grower, it probably helped me subconsciously growing up.

  • @boomersD9CAT
    @boomersD9CAT 2 года назад +62

    I’ve never heard those terms used before, but as they say “your never too old to learn”…Good information that makes sense 😎👍

  • @tymaze2539
    @tymaze2539 9 месяцев назад

    Between you and Dr.Rachel. you to lady's are the best. Dr.Rachel is also on RUclips

  • @chimmichurri6940
    @chimmichurri6940 Год назад +1

    @Rena Malik, M.D. i have a question for you. With how much knowledge you have about male parts and how it works, and youve probably seen a lot of them. Does that detract being sexual with your partner? Ive wanted to ask a gynocologit this same question (if they are a male). Like, would it interfere with sex or wanting to have sex with your partner? genuinely curious because i knw some verygross things can happen to both males and females.

  • @racerx4evr
    @racerx4evr 3 года назад +37

    I dived into this section just to try and find some comments from Seinfeld, and I wasn’t disappointed. Lol. Awesome channel Rena, keep up the good work.

    • @ppatricktt
      @ppatricktt 2 года назад +1

      I was in the pool!!!

  • @Emiliano_5000
    @Emiliano_5000 3 года назад +8

    Hello Doc. As I'm a new subscriber (two weeks ago), I don't know if you already have made some surveys among your audience. If you don't, I think that you could collect a valuable information by using them (you could post a link in the video description).
    I love your channel. Very informative. Greetings from Venezuela. ✌🏾

  • @kiltr4p851
    @kiltr4p851 2 месяца назад

    This was a hilariously insightful video😂

  • @brianhylander4087
    @brianhylander4087 Месяц назад +1

    Came for the comments. Did not disappoint. Anyone else notice most comments are from ‘growers’? That algorithm knows you better than you think 😂

  • @rolling_heavy
    @rolling_heavy 2 года назад +787

    I enjoy being a grower. Nice and out of the way when not in use, and always a pleasant surprise when the situation arises...total sleeper weiner.

    • @Lukomeyan
      @Lukomeyan 2 года назад +36

      I don't enjoy it. Sometimes going to pee can be a real pain because of the (lack of) length. I'm even forced to sit and pee some times.

    • @djdj2231
      @djdj2231 2 года назад +1

      😬🥴 lol

    • @charlesselrachski34
      @charlesselrachski34 2 года назад +3

      I don't understand , I need her to check and tell me.

    • @Chadblake1
      @Chadblake1 2 года назад +12

      @@Lukomeyan haha! Seriously?

    • @Lukomeyan
      @Lukomeyan 2 года назад +13

      @@Chadblake1 Yes, I'm a grower so he's big enough when he needs to be, but otherwise it's actually a problem. Even washing him is a problem as I'm uncut.

  • @craigmahaney638
    @craigmahaney638 3 года назад +7

    This is way she's the best urolgist.Thanks doc.

  • @Gooody3shoes
    @Gooody3shoes 2 месяца назад

    I'M BOTH! I'M IN GREAT SHAPE I DON'T DRINK OR SMOKE! 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

  • @thecrazeecow1682
    @thecrazeecow1682 4 месяца назад +1

    First day of army basic training I’ve never done sports so was not ready for the open bay showers and damn I got mad at myself and my parents real quick

  • @gaufrid1956
    @gaufrid1956 2 года назад +488

    Even at age 65, I'm still a grower. There is a big difference between the length and width of my penis between flaccid and erect. I'm also happy that I often wake up with an erection because I understand that this means good cardiovascular health, important at my age. Thanks Doc for your video!

    • @staytight6340
      @staytight6340 2 года назад

      What, you wake up fully erect?
      That's crazy,must be uncomfortable

    • @gaufrid1956
      @gaufrid1956 2 года назад +10

      @isitsafe Ha ha ha nah not always! But it is good to know that it still works! The joke here in Mindanao Cebuano is that it's a "banakon" ("king cobra") if erect and "itoy" ("puppy") if not. Tagalog speakers use the slang term "ibon" ("birdie"). Quite funny! There's even a 1997 comedy song called "Don't Touch My Birdie"!

    • @sameethfarhaan5214
      @sameethfarhaan5214 Год назад +36

      Bro u really talk like a 65 year old guy

    • @nav4688
      @nav4688 Год назад +1

      how long is it when erect sir Geoffrey? has there been a reduction in size at your age?

    • @gaufrid1956
      @gaufrid1956 Год назад +3

      @@nav4688 About 16 cm. No reduction in size.

  • @finnl6887
    @finnl6887 2 года назад +190

    Just to add to the discussion as well, I would be curious to see a study done about how happiness affects erections, because for me personally, when I'm depressed, my erections are a full quarter smaller than when I'm happy, all other factors being the same. It would open up a lot of questions about the relationship between happiness and body positivity and vice versa, that's for sure

    • @grendal113
      @grendal113 2 года назад +4

      I found nicotine patches cause Ed.

    • @Prometheus7272
      @Prometheus7272 2 года назад +29

      Higher testosterone may be the cause of your better mood and erection. Cortisol the stress hormone suppresses testosterone.

    • @phonkyfeel1
      @phonkyfeel1 2 года назад

      Do you regularly measure your penis? Enough to assert statistical analyses correlated with emotional influence?!

    • @Dante199006
      @Dante199006 2 года назад +18

      Lack of sleep also seems to effect it too.

    • @plack_benis382
      @plack_benis382 2 года назад +13

      Ive had this issue recently, im not sure if its a mental thing but thats my best guess. Because im young, and in good shape. But my head to head connection if you will has been a bit shaky recently. I can get hard no problem, but not fully. Even during sex, and during sex i lose even more erection if im in control. Hopefully its just a mental thing ill get past, because its affecting my sex life and drive atm

  • @TrymYoutubeMainChannel
    @TrymYoutubeMainChannel Год назад

    here is what I am worried about..
    growing up I used to get picked on and beated up and such which made my mental health WAY worse than it aleready was being a lonely guy with no friends as a teenager .. what made it worse was the beatings I survived was kicks, punches, stomps to groin area while also beated my face in black and blue ... what I am worried about would be .. could a injury from those times make my "friend" un able to grow futher during end of my teen years and early 20s ? cause I used to me a bit bigger from photographic memory when holding it in my hand as example

  • @joedarling5175
    @joedarling5175 10 месяцев назад +1

    Listen gentlemen...you're perfect the way you are. Don't be ashamed of the body you were born in.

  • @frankansah6173
    @frankansah6173 2 года назад +5

    This doctor is good educating us on so many men stuffs that we didn't know. Good stuff

  • @Wizhk
    @Wizhk 2 года назад +195

    Grower here. If I ever thought about becoming a nudist, it is this fact that kept me from being one. I didn't want to walk around all the showers looking like Papa Smurf only to become blatantly obvious around the pretty ladies. Who's with me?

    • @davidwadsworth8982
      @davidwadsworth8982 2 года назад +6

      Hooah!

    • @israeljuarez1800
      @israeljuarez1800 2 года назад +6

      Yeah same here... It sucks lol

    • @francom6230
      @francom6230 2 года назад +8

      As a long, long time nudist,, your "boner" is a really stupid thing to worry about bro... smh

    • @bige2012
      @bige2012 2 года назад +7

      @@francom6230 uhm, it’s not boner being worried about here- it’s the limp willie genius, as ya can’t walk around w/ full woody 24/7 to show whats really there.

    • @imgoodaswell9558
      @imgoodaswell9558 2 года назад +6

      @@bige2012 let him know! It’s our second belly button we are worried about. Lol

  • @BeefaloBart
    @BeefaloBart 10 месяцев назад

    At 55, and a grower, is using a vac pump to increase size worth the efforts? Did get one compliment on thickness but that woman had not experienced me prior to using the pump. Short term usages seem to appear larger but not sure if there will be good long term effects. (yes I did watch the video here on this topic)

  • @iamlegend5190
    @iamlegend5190 4 месяца назад +1

    I always thought going from 3 to 9 was embarrassing. I hated pool days. I used to try to chubb up a lil before exiting pool if any girls was around!

  • @fabulousrobert6607
    @fabulousrobert6607 2 года назад +83

    For me personally, I’m a grower.
    I’ve noticed that when I lose all my weight and get my 8 pack abs, It’s true, eating healthy and weight control gives you a lot of benefits to knowing how you hang. In hot, or hot humid weather is better for a natural hang compared to winter where you don’t. It’s like, hey! where did my friend go? 🤔

    • @fabulousrobert6607
      @fabulousrobert6607 2 года назад +2

      @Wayne Jorgensen
      Exactly. I’m sure you already know there is plenty of benefits to be fit and trim.
      You look and feel so much better, and you have more energy to do more things.
      I love women, and it definitely helps in that department. Good luck guy! 😃👍🏼

    • @freshdaddy69
      @freshdaddy69 Год назад

      😂😂😂 same

  • @franciscofrankfield5608
    @franciscofrankfield5608 2 года назад +8

    Thank you Rena! Your explanations are much clearer than some male urologists I have consulted. And because you are a woman, helps me to shape my self-esteem. In my opinion women, in general, could be better urologist than men. I'm a huge grower, my penis goes from average two inches to six. So is to comfortable to carry it and so surprising as well.

  • @A_Hylian_Not_An_Elf
    @A_Hylian_Not_An_Elf 9 месяцев назад

    I for sure am a grower. I would never change in front of everyone else in the men’s locker room, because I was worried they would make fun of me.

  • @dahlizz99
    @dahlizz99 4 месяца назад +2

    Mine more than doubles.. which sucks because when I die or ever get seriously injured I'll show less than half of my real potential

  • @chuckhamilton1101
    @chuckhamilton1101 3 года назад +9

    Most interesting subject I have ever heard! Enjoyed very much!! I guess I am a grower. You are the best.

  • @rnorfor2002
    @rnorfor2002 Год назад +36

    I agree with you 100 percent

  • @Awfully_good
    @Awfully_good 2 месяца назад +4

    Funniest thing my wife asked me about this was “how does this work?” “It makes no sense, how does it get much bigger after?”
    Yea she had no idea she just complimented the hell out of me at that very moment when she asked while we were dating 🤣

  • @Lord_Mafus
    @Lord_Mafus Год назад +1

    It's funny - as a grower I once read that the normal growth of someone like that is like 1 or 2 times it's flaccid length. I was quite confused as I measured myself both times and it grew like 10+ times in length and almost 3 times in girth... that's not a flex as I am quite average down there at max. but its still pretty funny.

  • @Kyle77-_-
    @Kyle77-_- 4 месяца назад

    Hi doc have you ever came across calcium deposits in the scrotum veins ?

  • @taylormeyer671
    @taylormeyer671 2 года назад +5

    I think the best thing you can get from Dr. Rena Malik's video's is that you need to learn to have confidence in your self. Everybody is different and there is no one best person out there. I watch her videos out of pure interest in the world of people's sexual psychology toward themselves. If what you are seeking is better sex for your partner or your self, learn to be confident with what you have. You can't nor shouldn't try to change that. Each and every one of us is great

  • @alejandrovallejo4330
    @alejandrovallejo4330 2 года назад +18

    Definitely a grower and given a choice I would always chose to be grower, it’s just much more comfortable I think.

  • @Motorcycle_Man
    @Motorcycle_Man Год назад +2

    Grower here! I just hope I never accidentally reveal myself, if so I'll have to say "I promise there's more , I'm a grower!)

  • @danielankers-lg9vu
    @danielankers-lg9vu Год назад

    Whichever you are...just remember to be a mind blower

  • @BulletProofBallzPDX
    @BulletProofBallzPDX 2 года назад +29

    I'm 50, always have been a grower, and when not excited, I almost have a 2nd bellybutton, I lol at that too, I have been overweight most of my life, I have cut almost 1/3 my weight in the last 5 years, and to complete the thought, I grow as a very nice surprise. So I go from almost a inney to just shy of of 6" and thick as a womans wrist. So being a grower has never been a issue to me. Dont be ashamed of your package guys. Most women are happy you show up for the party.

  • @christophermzdenek
    @christophermzdenek 2 года назад +675

    As a grower, with a very significant difference, I've put quite a bit of thought in this. After all, thought experiment is the first step in a hypothosis. I've spoken to a few male friends about it, and while the sample size is only about a dozen, I have found some commonalities. The guys I asked that had genetic heratige to warm climates (Mediterranean, African, Iberian, Persian) tended to be "shower"s. Guys who called back to mostly cold climates (Russian, Scandanavian, Polish, Northern North American Natives) were universally "grower"s. The first thought I have is that natural selection may have played a part (sperm heat death vs. frostbite) and secondly, I realized just how diverse the group of geeks is that I hang out with. Small sample size, under hearsay protacols, but, maybe food for thought. Needless to say, I fall into the north climate group.

    • @BryanTorok
      @BryanTorok 2 года назад +62

      That all makes great sense. In cold weather and especially cold water things tend to shrink back up inside.

    • @juniortim33
      @juniortim33 2 года назад +67

      I have a genetic heritage to a warm climate and I’m definitely a grower

    • @watupevery1471
      @watupevery1471 2 года назад +69

      I'm BLACK , guess I would fall in the african heritage category and i'm NOT a shower. Still a cool statistic nonetheless and its great u have a nice diverse group of friends.

    • @dennisgoff4723
      @dennisgoff4723 2 года назад +11

      Hey Chris it’s nice to have a survey-type mind. And a cooperative group of geeks!! LoL

    • @Semiotichazey
      @Semiotichazey 2 года назад +3

      Interesting...

  • @invaderjoshua6280
    @invaderjoshua6280 4 месяца назад

    I’m a grower and love it. Compact when I don’t need it, large when I do. Convenient! lol.

  • @finnessejets4231
    @finnessejets4231 4 месяца назад

    Hey, as long as you know how to use it, thats all that matters.

  • @DaFergus
    @DaFergus 2 года назад +11

    Interesting, very interesting! This explains a lot of things. Guess i have to think myself as a supergrower (1/3 in rest mode)... this could explain kinda shyness in gim showers at school times. wish I knew...