6 Mistakes Men Make When They GO DOWN on Her

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  • @tedsanders8514
    @tedsanders8514 Год назад +35

    Thanks for being so open and honest, on this subject. I have not heard anyone really help us understand this before.
    Love and Light to you

  • @davethompson2038
    @davethompson2038 Год назад +59

    Magda this is the first time I've come across you on RUclips, what a find. Your information is so down to earth, easy to understand and really helpful. You're obviously very knowledgeable on this subject, and with your delivery style and personality, manage to convey the information in a non threatening way. Thank you.

    • @xxxYYZxxx
      @xxxYYZxxx 7 месяцев назад +1

      "... I've come across you...." 🤣

    • @neveragetv
      @neveragetv 6 месяцев назад +1

      Positive

    • @LumpyGravy-wh8vi
      @LumpyGravy-wh8vi 4 месяца назад

      24

    • @bobwhitehill
      @bobwhitehill Месяц назад +1

      Yes! Agreed. Great comment. I found this YT presentation very helpful, and wonderfully clear. Thanks again.

    • @JonathanGillies
      @JonathanGillies Месяц назад

      @@xxxYYZxxx What is funny about that?

  • @richardj.scottjr.4928
    @richardj.scottjr.4928 5 месяцев назад +27

    Don't really listen to these kinds of subjects or podcasts, but for some reason, I coincidentally touched the play button on this one and found it very educational and humane. Shot out to you.

  • @kennethcutlip7081
    @kennethcutlip7081 4 месяца назад +12

    I thought to take a quick look just to see what Magda had to share....thinking I would watch for a minute or two and move on....but this woman has amazing insight and knowledge that she shares in a very down to earth informative manner.....very impressive, I watched the entire video. Kudos to Magda K

  • @drsrisaisarvesh4603
    @drsrisaisarvesh4603 11 месяцев назад +51

    A wonderful candid insight into the feminine psychology and physiology of sex which most men are unaware of, to the disadvantage of both the woman and the man.

  • @vintagevettesllc4533
    @vintagevettesllc4533 Год назад +7

    Love how you just talk casually about this highly important topic. Keep beinging this content

  • @donwilliams2858
    @donwilliams2858 8 месяцев назад +4

    You're helpful every step of the way. I like how you go on offering us details, images, and a feeling language to ease us into new experiences. Thank you - I'm grateful for what you've provided us.

  • @markrob777
    @markrob777 5 месяцев назад +24

    This is an engaging video that tells it like it is. No-one has done this before in such a direct, full and cogent way. Congratulations to you. It will (hopefully) change many lives, for the better.

    • @JonathanGillies
      @JonathanGillies Месяц назад +2

      You're one knowledgeable guy......... :0

  • @Jeseppi-Lyre
    @Jeseppi-Lyre 8 месяцев назад +48

    You have a profound sense of the beauty of our differences. May males who seek higher consciousness and spiritual purpose pay close attention to what you are saying and struggle to understand what part they can play to bring wholeness and healing into their relationships and families. Just the other day I published a song with my Greek Lyre entitled, "Intimacy". ... Stay strong, Magda, the world really needs you!

    • @stinkycheese804
      @stinkycheese804 5 месяцев назад +6

      Or the opposite, rejecting everything she stated and listening to a male tell women how to act, makes just as much sense. Don't ever pretend that one way or the other is a higher consciousness or spiritual purpose. That's just ignorant foolishness.

    • @arthurcutaiar9994
      @arthurcutaiar9994 3 месяца назад

      Yupp.​@@stinkycheese804

    • @arthurcutaiar9994
      @arthurcutaiar9994 3 месяца назад

      I like the other posters response, go in like a thirsty great dane in the desert. Shes a horney italian gal. She always, I mean anything, always.

    • @Mike-de3gy
      @Mike-de3gy Месяц назад +2

      Howmany times have u ever went down on a women ?

    • @JonathanGillies
      @JonathanGillies Месяц назад

      @@stinkycheese804 So what you're basically saying is that not caring about a woman's feelings is just as virtuous as caring about them?

  • @Buckskin40
    @Buckskin40 11 месяцев назад +37

    Thank you Magda! That was the best advice I have ever heard on such a sensitive topic. I appreciate it coming from a woman who knows what she is talking about!

    • @Mickey_Grange831
      @Mickey_Grange831 7 месяцев назад

      You say this' like you've got the chance... ' to have' or even had the opportunity too do this too a women.... Creepy bloke 😊

  • @dimik3855
    @dimik3855 5 месяцев назад +7

    Thank you Magda. These are very important aspects for women who love men and men who love women. One important point of making love I can appreciate in all this is to not let porn dictate how physical love should be used to make our partner feel intimate satisfaction.

    • @user-kq1ou9xl4t
      @user-kq1ou9xl4t Месяц назад

      Yeah, I'm old and I like porn since wife is just over it all now. But porn is so full of bullshit and maintaining old myths and lies.. and just bullshit. It is not to be taken as an example of how to get it on. Just the opposite!

  • @shawnbentley1369
    @shawnbentley1369 Месяц назад +1

    Amazing. Thank you for taking the time to explain. The point about foreplay being before going down is huge for me. Never thought about it before but, will take this guidance going forward. As well as the moving of energy, hand placement etc. awesome stuff.

  • @zerozeroseven2591
    @zerozeroseven2591 11 месяцев назад +10

    Omg😮! A talk EVERYONE needs to hear… the earlier on in life the better…😊The presenter is a 💯-plus and beyond!👏

  • @ndlsumr
    @ndlsumr Год назад +187

    I happened upon this video by accident and decided to watch it because this is one of my favorite...subjects. I'm glad I watched the whole video because of what you said about many women (still) being somewhat inhibited with their sexuality, and how to communicate with them about
    it. It resonated with me because it would also increase intimacy and trust considerably, which is a priority for me. VERY helpful information, Magda! Grazie mille!

  • @freddykagin
    @freddykagin 7 месяцев назад +3

    It’s good to take time I have been thinking about this. You are right. I have been through many things in my life, and now I am seeing things differently. ❤

  • @kennytelesco
    @kennytelesco 4 месяца назад +4

    Thanks for the lovely and informative tips Magda Kay. Very well presented.

  • @alexandertelehin3425
    @alexandertelehin3425 8 месяцев назад +17

    Thank you Magda for your presentation. You have explained enough information that all men need to know and if they are able to put into practise for the stimulation and enjoyment of both. Wish I knew most of this information 55 years ago.

  • @bluestrings8829
    @bluestrings8829 Год назад +40

    For myself, I've had to just learn with my partner and RUclips nowadays. . 21 years married. However, I do not see how a woman would enjoy you saying "this is something I've tried with other women, and they liked it". And definitely not in my case! 🤣😂🤷‍♂️ good thing I learn from videos such as this. Thankful for RUclips once again! 👌

  • @16nowhereman
    @16nowhereman 7 месяцев назад +4

    Magda, you are right on with what you are saying. Number one, I learned through experience. Women actually told me this.

  • @Matpara411
    @Matpara411 6 месяцев назад +4

    Thank you for the excellent knowledge Magda. I just stumbled on this video and I'm very glad I did, while there were some things I already knew, there was a lot more that has added on how to please future partners. I think what I will remember the strongest is talking and asking a woman if she finds pleasure in what I am doing.
    Also the topic discussed during the 'Cutting the lips' section is a type of plastic surgery called labiaplasty.

  • @fringedweller221
    @fringedweller221 Год назад +60

    A "Best Video Guide" award has to be given to this one. Like many men my age that came up in the Plaboy era, this kind of guide was not available in any form back then. It took some years to arrive at the conclusion that male and female sexuality are completely different languages. To any young guy in their 20's or 30's this video is extremely valuable in getting you way ahead in the game of becoming an accomplished lover that women will want to revisit arther than ghosting you. 4 thumbs up to you Magda !!

    • @MagdaKay
      @MagdaKay  Год назад +15

      thank you! and im really happy to hear you found it useful (happily accepting the award for the best video guid :P)

    • @chiewsoonui4181
      @chiewsoonui4181 Год назад +3

      @@MagdaKay u678

    • @kevinireland8020
      @kevinireland8020 7 месяцев назад +2

      Obviously you did not read the articles. This was often in the text of many a Playboy article and letters.

    • @ernestoberger7589
      @ernestoberger7589 3 месяца назад

      @@kevinireland8020 Exactly. How come people don't know about these clichés? They are useless by the way. But not knowing about it, is truly ridiculous.

    • @user-kq1ou9xl4t
      @user-kq1ou9xl4t Месяц назад

      @@kevinireland8020 Holy Toledo! You mean Playboy had articles??

  • @vidyanandmishra5547
    @vidyanandmishra5547 Год назад +24

    The way you have elucidated this sensitive and extremely important aspect of human behaviour is really excellent. Hats off to you. We pay you a great respect from the land of Kamasutra !🙏

  • @stefanursu1713
    @stefanursu1713 4 месяца назад

    I love you! So much good info! Can’t wait to apply the principles you outline! You’ve just unlocked bonus stage:)

  • @thorenjohn
    @thorenjohn 6 месяцев назад +2

    Wonderful thoughts and advice. I wish I'd come across this 40 years ago, but I really appreciate it even now.

  • @davetaylor890
    @davetaylor890 8 месяцев назад +5

    Delightful person and great new/reinforcing info for all us guys who really really love to give oral. We have learned it is about the best gift we can give, and these fine tunings will help all of us connect better and make her more fulfilled. Awesome job!!

  • @engnate
    @engnate Год назад +15

    Great job! Have 40+ years prior experience with the topic and you definitely added knowledge to it.

  • @andyanderson8881
    @andyanderson8881 6 месяцев назад +7

    Beautifully done, and very informative video--well informed--and explained in an easy to follow way--from the womans' perspective--thank you

  • @waburden
    @waburden 6 месяцев назад +8

    Not the type of video I usually watch but I was impressed by the message of respectful negotiation which I think offers the best chance for a very pleasurable experience by BOTH parties.

  • @raymocopo7340
    @raymocopo7340 11 месяцев назад +4

    Dear Magda, Your energy, enthusiasm, clarity and direct speaking is engaging and helpful. I'm pretty darn sure my wife will enjoy the results.

  • @jamesclemons7022
    @jamesclemons7022 Год назад +41

    This is the first time I've seen one of your videos. Thank you so much for taking your time to help us with all of this! I for one appreciate it very much!

    • @MagdaKay
      @MagdaKay  Год назад +3

      Hi James! It's lovely to have you here. Welcome!

  • @medfordmystic1961
    @medfordmystic1961 7 месяцев назад +46

    Dear Magda,
    I appreciate you sharing your insights with me. As I approach my 63rd birthday, I am grateful that my partner and I are still sexually active, just like we were in our younger days. During puberty, testosterone played a crucial role in my sexual development, and now, making love to my partner is of the utmost importance to me. I am motivated to please her because she means the world to me, and let's face it, we all want to be great lovers. I am heartened to know that I already practice many of the techniques you shared, as my experiences have taught me a lot.
    Thank you once again for your valuable insights.

    • @short5stick
      @short5stick 7 месяцев назад

      You must be a skinny and attractive 63 year old and most women at this age are sea cows and hate sex.

    • @johnroberts5992
      @johnroberts5992 6 месяцев назад +4

      This was the most I have ever learned about what the other might feeling. Thank you!

    • @user-kq1ou9xl4t
      @user-kq1ou9xl4t Месяц назад

      But now, isn't it nice how she validated the hell out of your style!?! Like you're the sho' nuff man, and you are!

    • @user-mu8ty7vc3y
      @user-mu8ty7vc3y 8 дней назад

      You need therapy bro

  • @antonanon
    @antonanon 4 месяца назад +1

    Thank you Magda, this was really informative. I can’t wait to put your advice to practice. X

  • @WACKENHUT234
    @WACKENHUT234 Год назад +6

    You are fantastic! I am an older man but I learned a few important things here from you! Thank you so much! You are amazing Magda!🙂

  • @simonelsinger8827
    @simonelsinger8827 Год назад +24

    Appreciate soooo much this topic as can not get this valuable information elsewhere. Can't wait to adjust my love making techniques. Thank you and hugs magda 🙂

  • @waynecollins9398
    @waynecollins9398 6 месяцев назад +10

    OMG!!!! I HAD NO idea how ignorant I have been with my wife of 40 years!! Thank you, Thank you for opening my eyes (mind) to having much more consideration for my wife in these matters. YOU are beautiful! I've been so wrong for so long but not to Late to fix.. Bless you!

    • @MegaPouni
      @MegaPouni 5 месяцев назад +3

      She should learn to express herself, then

    • @Noqqin
      @Noqqin 4 месяца назад +2

      @@MegaPouni I'm sure she's been quite expressive physically, vocally and verbally with other men whenever he isn't around.

    • @ruckdafaiders
      @ruckdafaiders 4 месяца назад +2

      That’s a great thing, I’ve had a similar experience to yours. Ignore the dmb azz comments from the JV peanut gallery. Obviously they are too personally unhappy to be able to be happy for you. Pity them, celebrate us! 😂

    • @user-kq1ou9xl4t
      @user-kq1ou9xl4t Месяц назад +1

      And yet, ignorant as you were she still stayed with you. Makes me wonder why she never said anything about it to you. Too shy?

    • @user-mu8ty7vc3y
      @user-mu8ty7vc3y 8 дней назад

      Sucks your wife never told you

  • @johnbrockafeller
    @johnbrockafeller 5 месяцев назад +3

    WOW, You are such a PLEASURE to listen to. I'm a 1st time viewer. I'm subscribing NOW!!! You have a great way of playfully talking about a subject that too many men - have a problem talking about. Especially with or from a woman. Cuz as you know, MEN KNOW EVERYTHING-🙄 Speaking as a man, who is probably more than twice your age Magda, I've been keenly aware of what you are relaying to us. I pride myself on being very giving and attentive to a womans FULL pleasure. Sadly too many men, especially younger fellas in they're 20's and 30's, are all about getting the job done. All testosterone driven lust and satisfying themselves. And if they are going down on a lady, It's alot like you relay in this vid. The way you share your knowledge is so open and freeing. I agree with EVERYTHING you said. It's taken a lifetime of listening and truly careing about a womans pleasure needs, to be confident in saying that. Keep up the good work. We NEED women such as YOU, taking these subjects head on. Talking frankly but in a fun and accepting-playful way. We had such a movement in the late 1960's and 70's. But something happened in the last 25 yrs that just stunted that progress in equal sexuality. It's SAD. I will check out more that you have to share. THANK YOU ! JOHN R.

  • @jerrylewis4898
    @jerrylewis4898 11 месяцев назад +6

    That was so informative, thank you, I wish I’d seen this sooner, now I realize where I went wrong with the last woman in my life and I honestly liked her, I thought I was doing what had always worked previously.

  • @ignboss162
    @ignboss162 Год назад +22

    Thank you very much, you put it all into one package! I will be practicing more to improve my experience and to elevate hers..🙏

  • @TheBlueskyson
    @TheBlueskyson 5 месяцев назад

    thanks Mags. I learnt something here, especially around the 8 minute area. I went on to listen till the end. Some brilliant tips here. Thanks again and merry xmas. x

  • @user-zv8si3kr7y
    @user-zv8si3kr7y 7 месяцев назад +3

    Very clear, informative and educative. Thank you so much.

  • @SparkleinSac
    @SparkleinSac 11 месяцев назад +57

    I watched this out of curiosity as a woman, and there are a lot of true points here. Thanks for making this video.

    • @billman6364
      @billman6364 11 месяцев назад +4

      so if I dont touch her left hand it wont be in the act?lol

    • @chrissparks8560
      @chrissparks8560 7 месяцев назад +5

      If you say so..
      I'll take this beautiful woman's advice

    • @neveragetv
      @neveragetv 6 месяцев назад +4

      Me too

    • @bethbasilone5927
      @bethbasilone5927 5 месяцев назад +5

      So did I. Well done! Guys...pay attention to what this woman has just shared with you! If you do you'll make your lady verrry happy!

  • @dariendukes4875
    @dariendukes4875 Год назад +98

    Thank you for enlightening us men about things that we've never been actually told in a constructive way. Keep up the good work 👏

  • @istra70
    @istra70 8 месяцев назад +2

    I can only confirm what you said is 100 % correct. Very well explained and for the newbies highly educational......

  • @chucke756
    @chucke756 5 месяцев назад

    I’m an older guy and love enjoying the female anatomy!! I think I’m quite skilled at it and most women I have been with love my skills - I’m very patient and love to hear the joy coming from my partner!!😊

  • @brucebrookshaw3401
    @brucebrookshaw3401 8 месяцев назад +18

    An amazing clear-cut presentation from an expert in this field. I am breathless to say the least to learn what connects a womans awareness of herself.

    • @larrylong9367
      @larrylong9367 2 месяца назад

      Yeah, good sh*t...

    • @OB.777
      @OB.777 Месяц назад

      To much work to figure out how to get it to work

  • @ostarjohn
    @ostarjohn Год назад +30

    This is what we all need to listen to. ❤ it will make us better lovers. Better appreciated, and certainly win us brownie points which will pay us back heaps in our relationships. THANK YOU MAGDA! (My first time watching your Chanel too, now signed up for more!!)

  • @josertorres3302
    @josertorres3302 5 месяцев назад +1

    This is the biggest learning experience in my entire life.

  • @michaelcharles5273
    @michaelcharles5273 7 месяцев назад

    Thank you very much ❤️, I am 64 years old and this is excellent information and it let me know how many things I am doing wrong and helping me to open my mind and to take my time.

  • @garywanner7860
    @garywanner7860 11 месяцев назад +22

    I’m 67 years old, and you taught me something about how to please the love of my life! Thank you!

    • @user-jo6wn9sl1j
      @user-jo6wn9sl1j 8 месяцев назад +6

      Damn!.. I have to assume she is same age .. I can't imagine that's some old meat

    • @Noqqin
      @Noqqin 4 месяца назад +1

      Don't worry, she's been getting it from someone else this whole time. They all do.

    • @mjp96
      @mjp96 4 месяца назад +1

      @@Noqqin That's why I never even tried to marry. I couldn't handle a cheat. Would rather stay alone.

    • @Noqqin
      @Noqqin 4 месяца назад

      @@mjp96 I'm exactly the same.
      It broke my soul when I arrived to the realization that they'll all eventually betray you.
      But having witnessed what all men around me and all across the globe are going through because of women, I'm certain I made the right choice.
      They're not yours, brother, It's just your turn. You take care.

  • @GarySmithartist
    @GarySmithartist 11 месяцев назад +11

    Totally makes sense. Of course we need to be coached. We are different.

  • @johnsutherland168
    @johnsutherland168 7 месяцев назад +2

    Nice video. Thanks. I'm 80 years old now and realize how little about women I know. I wish I had seen this video or known about this information when I was much younger. But, that was then, and this is now. Again, this is a good video and thanks for creating it. ;-)

  • @donrooks9681
    @donrooks9681 7 месяцев назад +2

    Very good clear presentation, given with compassion for the listener. Bravo!

  • @lerkkweed
    @lerkkweed 11 месяцев назад +117

    Absolutely wonderful video. Treats sexuality with dignity, reuniting body and spirit, reminding us that sex is not a soulless biomechanical "score" but a potentially ecstatic union of two sentient beings.

    • @MagdaKay
      @MagdaKay  11 месяцев назад +17

      yes!

    • @user-hh6jr3ri6e
      @user-hh6jr3ri6e 9 месяцев назад +10

      ​@@MagdaKaySo fantastic so beautiful 💞 so kind thank you very much so 💋💖 nice very cute lady of knowledge

    • @grayeagle1000
      @grayeagle1000 7 месяцев назад +1

      No way too long.

    • @carlosluis1970
      @carlosluis1970 7 месяцев назад

      1. - there is no synchronicity of desire , never. fact!
      2. - we are animals, i dont understand how people still pretend they're not
      3.- there is no sexual relation : a) we are castrated, body/language separation, and b) what happens, if we are honest with ourselves, its a mutual masturbation.
      4.- since the late 18 century that, in western culture, the intimacy has been codified (novels, theatre, cinema, media), so, behaviours are not formed, but deformed.

    • @jhayTwistYrn-ox8qz
      @jhayTwistYrn-ox8qz 6 месяцев назад +2

      Absolutely wonderful video. Treats sexuality with dignity. Reuniting body and spirit . Reminding us that sex is not a soulless biomechanical score. But a potentially ecstatic union of two sentient beings

  • @lawrencecirillo3233
    @lawrencecirillo3233 10 месяцев назад +67

    Just stumbled onto this video Magda. Thank you so much for making it. There were many times I realized I was guilty of making some of the mistakes you were pointing out. I honestly feel thankful that I found this video. 🙏🏻

    • @MagdaKay
      @MagdaKay  8 месяцев назад +5

      Hi Lawrence! haappy to have you here

    • @lawrencecirillo3233
      @lawrencecirillo3233 8 месяцев назад +5

      @@MagdaKay thank you. Just wanted you to know that is guys appreciate your work as well.

    • @agt462
      @agt462 5 месяцев назад

      glad it helped you buddy. Nice and slowly, don`t be a savage no more.

    • @TheBlueskyson
      @TheBlueskyson 5 месяцев назад

      @@agt462you gotta combine both bro. Stay hard

    • @dancer_traveler
      @dancer_traveler 4 месяца назад

      He who seeks pleasure knowledge pleases the women

  • @peterrice5689
    @peterrice5689 7 месяцев назад

    Hi, it's nice to know I'm on the right track ! Enjoyed the subject content 😋 Regards Peter.

  • @user-zv8si3kr7y
    @user-zv8si3kr7y 7 месяцев назад

    Opened my eyes. You have made me more sensitive, considerate and seek approval.

  • @FilCanGil
    @FilCanGil 8 месяцев назад +4

    AMAZING……I learned so much from this video even though I believed that I was already very skillful in the knowledge of pleasuring women. Thank you Magda🙏🏼

  • @wongeebullard1382
    @wongeebullard1382 Год назад +13

    Excellent pointed discussion. A tutorial that all should see and heed.

    • @marcellogenesi6390
      @marcellogenesi6390 Год назад +5

      BY the time I would go through all that litany of sequences I would loose all interest, and leave.

    • @Noqqin
      @Noqqin 4 месяца назад

      @@marcellogenesi6390 Precisely.

  • @user-mu7jj7oc4z
    @user-mu7jj7oc4z 3 месяца назад

    Magda, you are absolutely lovely. This video is super informative. My only regret is that I am watching it too late. I'm 80 years old and it would have been fantastic to watch this 60 years ago.

  • @augustcalderaro3797
    @augustcalderaro3797 7 месяцев назад

    I did not realize how much I didn't know, a very informative and interesting topic. Thank you for sharing much appreciated 🙏

  • @paulmartingurnett2168
    @paulmartingurnett2168 Год назад +37

    We should all listen to this advice. Love not lust is the key.

  • @LyriCaLImageS4U
    @LyriCaLImageS4U 11 месяцев назад +8

    This Subject is So Important and Needed!! Men Need This Advice and Should Definitely Pay Attention!! Everything You're Saying is Absolutely True 💯💯💯💯 Every Woman is Different, But The Same In Many ways!! The Biggest Thing is Paying ATTENTION to her Words, Body language, Eyes, Breathing, Even her Silence!! It's Spiritual , Just As much as Physical!!

  • @user-og9dc8vn3s
    @user-og9dc8vn3s 5 месяцев назад

    This was SO interesting and helpful!! Learned a lot! You're a refreshing discovery! So glad I happened to stumble across this video! Thanks for doing this! I don't know a guy out there who doesn't need to hear this info! God Bless🙏

  • @shujoK
    @shujoK 6 дней назад

    Thank you, Magda K, you are doing a wonderful job. This is not only important for men, but also equally important for women. Thank you! Keep up the good work, wishing you all the best!

  • @1stSunset72
    @1stSunset72 Год назад +88

    I was killing some time and just happened across this video and your channel, obviously... Much of what you discussed I was aware of - but not all. Most importantly though, it made me realize I have become quite lazy. After being with my partner for several years, having had kids, etc., our sexual interaction has become more about time management. You know - we've got 15 minutes, go! Which clearly isn't a scenario that provides her with any sense of enjoyment. Your video has inspired me to reaccess my perspective and become more intentional in my actions in hopes of providing her the pleasure she deserves. Thank you.

    • @MagdaKay
      @MagdaKay  Год назад +8

      wow, i loved reading it!

    • @heimeschwartzbaum2037
      @heimeschwartzbaum2037 Год назад

      That’s because you’ve fall into the trap of the American liberal propaganda narrative that “women can have it all” in that men are somehow responsible for their happiness.

    • @robertomasbang6038
      @robertomasbang6038 Год назад +3

      Hi Magda..I enjoyed and learnt watching you..only I found it annoying your mannerism of always fixing your hair why not do something about it my dear..

    • @daniello9155
      @daniello9155 Год назад +9

      @@robertomasbang6038 I found it feminine.

    • @erwinbrubacker7488
      @erwinbrubacker7488 Год назад

      @@robertomasbang6038 how do you expect an aroused female to react, 😋

  • @ghgghgyuhkljjijijui
    @ghgghgyuhkljjijijui Год назад +9

    I love your emphasis on whole body experience!yeah!Thats how I feel intuitively.

  • @ffggddss
    @ffggddss 6 месяцев назад +7

    IMO this is packed with good information. One of the most important, confirming my own life-gathered knowledge, is that there are lots of differences between women (just as there are between men). Not all women want, or will receive pleasure from, the same things. That is where exchange of information becomes essential. And you've laid out ways to open that book.
    Another very important point is that both partners must focus on themselves and on each other, for the best possible experience. This involves some effort, but it is well worth the minimal 'trouble' to do so.
    One final bit of information is the way these things change with age. We men, with age, become more similar to what is often described as the female pattern of sexual pleasure - slower to build, longer to stay aroused, more of a prolonged-pleasure experience. At 75, I still feel absolutely incredible during love-making, and more attuned to my partner's experience than when I was younger. The "goal" has changed from "get there fast" to "make it last" - and last - and last - and last - . . .
    Fred

    • @floorcoatin4u
      @floorcoatin4u 6 месяцев назад

      SorrY to hear that, Ive always been selfish as hell in the bedroom, the thing is, I get more pleasure giving. The best mindset to have going in is that its the first and last time youll have sex, be so good that she wont ever forget that time if anything happens or anyone else happens to get at it afterwards its not likely they will do better

    • @LumpyGravy-wh8vi
      @LumpyGravy-wh8vi 4 месяца назад +2

      Freddie Fred Thank -You for your everything. TakeCare, gooddays

    • @user-kq1ou9xl4t
      @user-kq1ou9xl4t Месяц назад +1

      Fred, that last and last stuff is the essence of the Kama Sutra.

  • @TheFlyMD
    @TheFlyMD 7 месяцев назад

    Such a wonderful discussion of a very important subject to all of us. Like many I stumbled upon this. I am glad I took the time to smell the roses (pun intended). Way to go, Magda.

  • @ScootersAdventure
    @ScootersAdventure Год назад +7

    Wow! Great information you explained all this so well thank you so much

  • @scottsent8120
    @scottsent8120 11 месяцев назад +331

    I don't have time for all this thinking; I just go in like a thirsty Great Dane lapping up water after a hike in the desert. She gets off every time.

    • @lamontthecapricorn9086
      @lamontthecapricorn9086 7 месяцев назад +57

      Exactly. It's exhausting sometimes, and sex isn't an SAT. I'm too grown to be trying to figure a woman out. If you like me enough to take me to bed, than tell me what you like and don't like.

    • @Lampwick-dz1zq
      @Lampwick-dz1zq 7 месяцев назад +20

      With body counts over 100 nowadays , go for it 🤮🤮🤮

    • @babakhazini417
      @babakhazini417 7 месяцев назад +24

      No fucking joke!
      Woman make this shit into a great romantic experience in Paris on Christmas Eve every time.

    • @angelallen4629
      @angelallen4629 7 месяцев назад +23

      Or she's faking it

    • @dudebud72
      @dudebud72 7 месяцев назад +9

      You are doing something right my friend!

  • @karinesavard2016
    @karinesavard2016 Месяц назад

    Very helpful for men because every woman is different and sometimes experiences with other women in their past impedes a true connection with the new partner.

  • @piracanga1957
    @piracanga1957 15 дней назад

    Magda, you are a gem to share these truths of the most important communication that exists between men and waoman. Thank you

  • @stevegray2091
    @stevegray2091 Год назад +19

    Thank you for your presentation. So important to hear a woman's perspective.

  • @earlmccoubrey7580
    @earlmccoubrey7580 Год назад +21

    This is valuable. I wish I had known this a few decades ago. I’d have been a better husband.

  • @circaindustries173
    @circaindustries173 Месяц назад

    WOW; You've got a fantastic ability to teach and communicate! You have helped many in your professional practice and I appreciate that you have given us this lesson on You-tube.

  • @ranhat2
    @ranhat2 7 месяцев назад

    Phew! Powerful, smart, educational. I've subscribed for more.

  • @josewantland
    @josewantland Год назад +6

    Thank you for this awesome video, a lot of guys need to slow down and learn moreTantra. I always respect a woman boundaries and communication is always important, I have discovered that sometimes a woman won't try something that could be so pleasurable because someone else had force them to do it, so in this case I sure them that we can try it and that she will be under full control and if she doesn't like it I will stop and continue with something else she enjoys. I hope this makes sense.

  • @robgodden6736
    @robgodden6736 Год назад +5

    Magda, what a great personality you have. Pity most women today have no charm or personality.
    Loved the information in your video.

  • @gerrythegypsy
    @gerrythegypsy 3 месяца назад

    Thank YOU Magda !!! I am aged 80 with a healthy libido and more sensual than sexual. I really enjoyed and found what i learnt from you interesting and beneficial. Your style [pienso que tu es una Latina] and mature, practical presentation is impressive and appreciated. I have never seen this type of info before...showing that we are always young enough to learn...no matter how many years we have been living 💋 !!!

  • @dogood63
    @dogood63 5 месяцев назад +1

    Great advice in video. The best book I read that helped me the most with women was "Attract and Succeed with Women, Essential Info for Men".

  • @davelyew4645
    @davelyew4645 11 месяцев назад +19

    This has got to be the best 30 minutes of advice I have seen on RUclips. If I had sons of sexual age I would definitely forward this video to them. I have forwarded to most of my closest open minded friends. What she has said here guys is invaluable information and have heard very similar things from girlfriends over the decades. Wish I had gotten these kinds of advice when I started the journey over 40 years now. Kudos for posting this video.

  • @robertlindsay9968
    @robertlindsay9968 Год назад +5

    Thanks for this information ! I love your approach !

  • @robertjordan157
    @robertjordan157 7 месяцев назад +1

    You're a very beautiful woman, Magda. The way that you express yourself on this topic is very, very relaxing. Also, your innocence comes through in this video while using slang terms to express your personal thoughts on this topic. Finally, I really enjoy the sense of sincerety that you impart as your deep inner attractiveness immerges through your guilelessness method of delivery!

    • @iracordem
      @iracordem 7 месяцев назад

      first thing i see is that explosive smile riding a bullet called Deep Good Energy!
      all other good things came along with! hope all get to hear you!

  • @deanchristie3829
    @deanchristie3829 6 месяцев назад

    Wow, that was great. I love the way that you present your ideas.

  • @jad8633
    @jad8633 Год назад +5

    really I never thought that things are more complicated than the final maths exam , I have learnt so many things and you put my hands on so many weak points , with all love

  • @seth_piano
    @seth_piano 8 месяцев назад +52

    I'm grateful to have listened to this. My biggest takeaway is that it never would have occurred to me - seriously - that a woman might want/need/desire validation for her vagina. Hearing you say that out loud, it makes obvious sense, but this is the first time I've ever heard that expressed. I will remember this :)

    • @BenDover4Mee
      @BenDover4Mee 7 месяцев назад +4

      Yes, they ALL know and realize they Smell HORRIBLE (no matter how much they wash them), so it's understandable they'd want to hear you PRETEND you think it's smells and tastes good. Pretty obvious.

    • @dianneestell6554
      @dianneestell6554 6 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@BenDover4MeeLOL

    • @Li_Tobler
      @Li_Tobler 5 месяцев назад +1

      ​@BenDover4Mee you know who else is repulsed so much by the lady parts right?

    • @Noqqin
      @Noqqin 4 месяца назад

      @@Li_Tobler Enlighten us.

    • @user-kq1ou9xl4t
      @user-kq1ou9xl4t Месяц назад

      I am surprised you never would have picked up on a woman's desire for validation of her vagina. I mean we guys are surely obsessed with our units, agreed? So why wouldn't they be as gaa-gaa over their squishy bits? Well, here's news! They are!!
      Completely absorbed with their things. I mean totally! How could you miss that!?!

  • @angelallen4629
    @angelallen4629 7 месяцев назад +1

    She is 100% spot on. Listen up guys.

  • @tet2mor282
    @tet2mor282 Месяц назад

    Everything you said is so much better than many others. Thank you

  • @mikemusialowski4473
    @mikemusialowski4473 Год назад +4

    Thank you Magda, fantastic info described in a straightforward manner. Easy to absorb and sympathize with. You're a great communicator! I can't wait to go down more "mindfully", as you say. :-)

    • @MagdaKay
      @MagdaKay  Год назад +2

      thank you so much. glad you found it useful

  • @wintersthrall
    @wintersthrall Год назад +15

    Wonderfully informative and empowering - both for women and men. Thank you.

    • @Noqqin
      @Noqqin 4 месяца назад

      None of t his was empowering for men. It was a set of instructions of how to waste hours of your life setting up your woman for half an hour of "fun" where you, yet again, do all the work to please her-while, she's most likely, as the empowered feminist she is, cheating on you with another man.
      That's all such videos are. Nothing about what's important to us. It's always about them.

  • @Jesse-qg7hp
    @Jesse-qg7hp 4 месяца назад

    I just want to Thank You for this refresher!!! I was taught at young age with an older woman everyday for yr. I think that relationship is actually why I haven't settled down yet... She was 28 I was 14 and at the time I thought this is everyone dream to get with the beautiful older woman and yet I think it damaged me in certain areas, but either way... Thank You and its about time for a woman to speak up and tell us how you personally want it....

  • @lloydhansen7487
    @lloydhansen7487 4 месяца назад

    This is absolutely the best and most informative presentation on oral sex and how women experience it that I have seen. You are most skilled and knowledgable, Magda. Thank you.

  • @shirishmehta8687
    @shirishmehta8687 Год назад +9

    Absolutely simple and yet simply fantastic guidelines. An absolute knowledge that a Male partner should keep in mind

    • @MagdaKay
      @MagdaKay  Год назад +4

      glad you found the video useful

  • @seankornaus4870
    @seankornaus4870 8 месяцев назад +17

    Very helpful I've been married for 27 years and still learning which is a amazing. Thank you that was very informative 👍

  • @terryhendricks1965
    @terryhendricks1965 7 месяцев назад

    Great Video. I am all about learning. Thank you so much! Cheers

  • @ScooterClues
    @ScooterClues 7 месяцев назад +1

    Altho I've never had any complaints before this, I want to say this is the most recreshing - and pfobably needed talk.
    I have to say this really had me thinking.
    The last 10-14 minutes were as far as I'm concerned the most helpful as it included and maintained having as much as possible an open, honest conversation with the female.
    What a novel, great way to begin to hold the trust of the woman.
    What a concept, right?
    If this alone sunk in with BOTH male and female what a great, and wonderful thing as in learning to listen, both ways really is the best in advice here. I was totally impressed on your cautions to men.
    What a great thing if this has sunk in with even half the men, and yes the woman too: how great can that be.
    "Best of Video" right here for both female and male. 🤗 Easily...

    • @ORWELL_USA
      @ORWELL_USA 6 месяцев назад

      recreshing pfobably???

  • @benmiller5303
    @benmiller5303 Год назад +12

    My Lady knew I was inexperienced, but was astonished by how good we were together. She asked how I knew what to do, 'You tell me' was my reply, which was true because I paid utter attention to Her responses. Glad I happened across this, takes me right back.

    • @jogace1950
      @jogace1950 Год назад +1

      That is correct technic is in some way important but the connection and close attention to the response is way critical.

    • @haroldhenderson2824
      @haroldhenderson2824 21 день назад

      Perfect answer! You continue (or change) according to her responses.

  • @smartsnco
    @smartsnco Год назад +5

    I really enjoyed your tutorial. I thought being an older chap that I knew a lot but there were little things you nudged my memory on. Thank you again!

  • @DavidKohler-uz8gv
    @DavidKohler-uz8gv 2 месяца назад

    I don't know where to start, except to say thank you.

  • @tedbookless5906
    @tedbookless5906 20 дней назад

    Excellent topic, and nicely done! You manage to discuss sensitive topics with light-hearted, enthusiastic and logical poise and presentation. Although I was raised by my mom and 2 older sisters, and learned a great deal listening to all of their, "horror stories" about men's ham-handed, uneducated, floundering, where the end state was strictly for man's pleasure and that whatever feeble techniques they may have read, seen or heard about, (and probably not preformed in a proper manner) will suffice for pleasuring her, and if not, who cares, I got mine....
    Certainly not what any besides someone having a strange fetish for such things would enjoy. It was pleasing for me to hear from you, that I am not too far off the mark, and was tracking on everything you said. Although I already practice most of whst you said, I learned a great deal. Not to mention that I learned the bits from a professional lady, academically trained in the topics and able to convey personal experiences pertaining to the topic, which is certainly not easy, but adds so much to the talk by being open, making people feel more comfortable, and a little closer to you, for sharing personal information.
    I am pleasantly shocked and pleased that your video just happen to come up, especially, especially since I was watching videos about the Janes Webb telescope...
    You are a breath of fresh air that all men and women could benefit from listening to. Thank you so much, for being who you are, finding your niche, and sharing great information for the masses! Now if we could only get the school boards to integrate your talks into the sex education program... 🙄 😢
    Just imagine how much nicer life could be, for both men and women, if they heard this talk in 7th grade. There would actually be a generation or two, that could properly communicate, be aware if one another's thoughts, feelings and desires and truly want to do the right things so both parties are happy, comfortable and satisfied!!
    Stranger things have happened, so there is hope! 😊