3 IMPORTANT Things Your Wife NEEDS From You! - Marriage Advice

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    3 IMPORTANT Things Your Wife NEEDS From You! - Marriage Advice
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  • @aubs965
    @aubs965 6 лет назад +795

    You know what makes me furious? Most women in the comments of this video are saying things like 'Yes! Spot on! All men need to take notes and be better!!" Yet, on the other video by the same speaker, talking about what men want from women, there are TONS of women in the comments, acting like true hypocrites, saying things like "this is so annoying! My husband doesn't DESERVE my respect! I dont need to be better for him!". Why do most women feel exempt from self improvement yet they will be the FIRST to say that their husbands and other men need to completely change and be better for them? A lot of women have a serious issue with thinking they dont need to be better on anything and that all their relationship issues come from the man. Guess what? If you are living and breathing, you DO have improvements to make. Being a humble and pious Muslim is about always trying to improve your character.
    Oh Allah, please let us women not be of those who are hypocrites. blaming men for the issues they themselves need to work on. May we all realize we need to constantly be working on our character. not just men. Ameen

    • @bobm3250
      @bobm3250 5 лет назад +85

      I pray Allah protects us from marrying hypocrites and from being hypocrites ourselves. Amen

    • @sheisbeautiful6072
      @sheisbeautiful6072 5 лет назад +30

      May Allah Almighty protect you and bless you! Just Yesterday I was saying to those women that had problem with him doing the same lecture about what Man want from their woman’s and lot of women was out of control expressing themselves.

    • @shamimyasmeen7909
      @shamimyasmeen7909 5 лет назад +16

      I know. They're just a bunch of hypocrite idiots

    • @sw-ew1ed
      @sw-ew1ed 5 лет назад +37

      All i can say is as a woman soon going to go through divorce...A woman needs to sometimes feel that she has her husbands attention. For 20 years i tried. And in that 20 years...except for the first year in which i kind of told my husband i'll take you for dinnner...for our anniversay...he never took me out for a meal. He always went out with his friends and was nice to his relatives. But when i asked for help it was never willingly given. He spent 18 hours on the phone and when i asked for just 10 min to help me in my work he point blank refused. I stayed in the marriage for my 4 kids. But finally when i heard he was looking for another wife...i thought enough is enough. I need a husband who will be there for me and who i can trust. Not just a brood mare. I pulled my weight in the family ...providing half the income...and yet he complains i don't keep a clean house or i'm not loving enough! Women need to feel valued, and they need to be able to trust the husband will always be there for them and will take care of them.

    • @shammanusrat4373
      @shammanusrat4373 5 лет назад +18

      Oh Allah, please let our men also not be the one who is egoistic because of being man and let them know that if any man are more intelligent than any women that is not because of his being man, let them know they can be wrong and women can instruct them. And I will pray to Allah that as a women you also start to respect women .

  • @MahimRahadSam
    @MahimRahadSam 4 года назад +80

    As a muslim man, I will try my best for my future wife.she will cant imagine how mush love i will give her. YA Allah , Please take care & safe my future wife.I am waiting for her.I want to be a best husband for my wife, Best father for my child.

    • @prathyusha_arl
      @prathyusha_arl 3 года назад +3

      😊 Good times ahead !

    • @shifayousaf2562
      @shifayousaf2562 2 года назад +3

      Bro are you married yet?

    • @animallover6627
      @animallover6627 2 года назад +2

      Proud that guys like you exist. MashAllah

    • @Danish_Khan_
      @Danish_Khan_ 2 года назад +3

      Bro you are just me !

    • @tindany3168
      @tindany3168 Год назад

      @@Danish_Khan_ you seem to be indian right ?
      are indian men good to their wives ? we mostly hear they treat their wives badly as a slave and make them serve their in laws ( husbands parents )

  • @pushpinderkaur7986
    @pushpinderkaur7986 5 лет назад +199

    I'm shocked how well this person understands about women... Each and everything is mention soo clearly and sweet.... Awesome video👌👌👌..every husband Hv to watch this

    • @randomz6592
      @randomz6592 5 лет назад +3

      This is what Islam teaches us

    • @gonebamboo4116
      @gonebamboo4116 5 лет назад +1

      So he appeals to women
      That deserves an amen?
      Should he appeal to God!

    • @rashmitamang6572
      @rashmitamang6572 5 лет назад +7

      This is not that man . This is what islam teaches ! Allahu akbar

    • @LaLaTheRockstar
      @LaLaTheRockstar 5 лет назад +1

      @@rashmitamang6572 This man is preaching what he learnt from western people

    • @issbbymjs4999
      @issbbymjs4999 4 года назад

      LaLa ohy begherat chup kr aram se bat kr

  • @aali1134
    @aali1134 6 лет назад +682

    As a female, I can confirm that this is 110% true!

    • @nuclearfatheranddictator8233
      @nuclearfatheranddictator8233 6 лет назад +20

      A Ali I will do those with my future wife Insha Allah 😍

    • @waifu_png_pl6854
      @waifu_png_pl6854 6 лет назад +8

      for you its true, but not for every female

    • @mr.d6275
      @mr.d6275 5 лет назад +8

      @@waifu_png_pl6854 ,
      That's okey.
      Just don't complain when your husband doesn't do these things to you,deal?

    • @killerpro6982
      @killerpro6982 5 лет назад

      A Ali, Bitch please😐😐😐😐

    • @realme8pro145
      @realme8pro145 5 лет назад +2

      @@waifu_png_pl6854 yes exactly every wives are not same ....
      Women who have a deep knowledge they only think this .....

  • @aysha9588
    @aysha9588 6 лет назад +395

    Every women will agree that this talk is spot on 👌 Guys pay attention, may Allah make it easy for you all Ameen

    • @abdulbaset9369
      @abdulbaset9369 6 лет назад +2

      Aysha Ameen lol

    • @lbumakeup4891
      @lbumakeup4891 6 лет назад +1

      I disagree. I don’t want that at all because it’s unrealistic and sexist.

    • @wayabovethegame
      @wayabovethegame 6 лет назад +8

      Aysha and you listen to the “What men want from women lecture” sister. But I have a feeling you are a Western feminist who will hate that also important well done lecture!

    • @nasirahmad2342
      @nasirahmad2342 6 лет назад

      Aamin

    • @kaz4442
      @kaz4442 6 лет назад +3

      Dr. Acula [student] Lol what you're saying is quite widespread now actually. Btw nice dp. Dont know many Muslims who watch anime lol.

  • @jasikusman9257
    @jasikusman9257 5 лет назад +111

    YA ALLAH make my future wife to be one of the happiest woman in this world, and allow me to express my love to her within the limit of Islam. Aameen Summa Aameen Ya Rabbal Aalameen.

    • @saraumarrasul405
      @saraumarrasul405 4 года назад +4

      She will be a lucky woman

    • @JahannamHellfire
      @JahannamHellfire 3 года назад +1

      Marriage has to be announced in a society at all costs otherwise it can potentially damage the repute of the man and woman. Secret marriages must not take place. In fact, nikah in itself encompasses an open announcement that it has taken place.
      However, once a marriage has taken place in this fashion, it is up to a court of law to decide whether it should continue or be annulled keeping in view all the circumstances. We cannot give rulings unless a case is closely studied. Likewise implementation of a decision in this regard also rests on competent authorities of a state.
      As for the condition of approval of a guardian please refer to the following discussion: Wali's Consent in Marriage. ruclips.net/video/VuBpsc2DDHI/видео.html

    • @nasser8659
      @nasser8659 3 года назад

      Oh she's a lucky one that will take you my man

    • @freshflower8327
      @freshflower8327 2 года назад

      I wish all man be like you

  • @myrnagrijalva7271
    @myrnagrijalva7271 6 лет назад +17

    Wise and true advise for men. I'm a Christian and I can say across cultures, religions and languages, this remains the same truth. Listen to this preaching my brothers and sisters.

  • @rajkumarprajapat341
    @rajkumarprajapat341 5 лет назад +38

    quality time you said..
    I'll work on it from now on.
    Nice explanation.

  • @syedali9954
    @syedali9954 5 лет назад +14

    I AGREE WITH EVERY BIT OF THIS VIDEO!!! I was just smiling for whole 7 mins coz everything said in this video is absolutely true and there is no doubt about it.

  • @Galaxy-sj8ug
    @Galaxy-sj8ug 5 лет назад +9

    I’m not even married yet but I want both men and women to treat each other equally and love each other and have trust within their relationships. Yes a senior high school student just said that 🤗

  • @amit675
    @amit675 5 лет назад +41

    Today only.. I realized how women think & what blunders I have been making until now... It has completely changed my mindset.. May God bless u..

    • @aliya150aman7
      @aliya150aman7 4 года назад

      ❤️😘😁😁👈

    • @Just_logic
      @Just_logic 4 года назад

      It is a bit more complicated than that.

    • @adibagouher4182
      @adibagouher4182 4 года назад +1

      May allah give good hedhayath ameen ameen . Lecture is true and every single word is right.

  • @aishaahmed6417
    @aishaahmed6417 4 года назад +6

    for my husband ,his family and mother is the most deserving to spend time with.He loves to spend time with them because he believes a person cant go in jannah if his parents are not happy so spend time with them and be there when they need

  • @MFischer27
    @MFischer27 2 года назад +12

    1. Always refresing your confession of love for her
    2. Undivided attention time
    3. Simply just listening to her without giving any advices or speculations

  • @rifayamariam395
    @rifayamariam395 6 лет назад +8

    Nicee.. alhamdhuliahh.. my husband is allah gift..dua for us.. allah want to tie our relation vry strong till jannah😍

  • @syedmuheeb1103
    @syedmuheeb1103 5 лет назад +8

    Well said ...... the leceture is very true every man can think like you your is wife soo lucky

  • @heenasamreen3191
    @heenasamreen3191 6 лет назад +6

    Mashallah.. these are the things needed in my life.. I dont know when my husband understands this.. hope soon he will do.. inshallah 😭

    • @fayaqun0
      @fayaqun0 5 лет назад +1

      May Allah put love and faith in your heart and your husband's heart

  • @KS-kg3iv
    @KS-kg3iv 5 лет назад +27

    All the time on the video I was thinking about my unimagined future wife . 😍

  • @jkizondoswahilibites434
    @jkizondoswahilibites434 4 года назад +2

    I wish my husband could listen to this and change for better. I pray Allah will guide him to realize how important these words are in our marriage SoubhanaAllah. Am in pain

  • @nurhatrakamlian4393
    @nurhatrakamlian4393 5 лет назад +10

    I think, we become complicated when we received or felt less love from our dear husband. Per experienced.
    Let us not make this world hard for us.
    Be giving and loving.

  • @salimatoudiallo5998
    @salimatoudiallo5998 6 лет назад +23

    Thank God my husband do all this good things eveng ystd he say it when he eat when i cooked

  • @muslimah_peace1907
    @muslimah_peace1907 6 лет назад +167

    Exactly......Sir you are right ....May Allah make all husbands loving and caring

  • @adrianabonitaaziz
    @adrianabonitaaziz 6 лет назад +123

    All i want from him is that he obeys the laws of Allah , with sincerity. That is the man which i wil fall in love with , In Shaa Allah . And i dont care how long i need to wait for him... For i know that i need to deserve such person , first .

    • @zalimahussein2611
      @zalimahussein2611 6 лет назад +2

      Adriana Bonita masha Allah same here siz

    • @syedbasit2701
      @syedbasit2701 6 лет назад +5

      You dont need to wait for long sister,i think i am the perfect match for you but problem is i am little bit lazy and fat too and my nose looks like the beak of bird.i am 100 kg big fat boy,i eat a lot of food but you need ensure there is a lot of food in kitchen otherwise i will end up eating you,so what do you think?

    • @syedbasit2701
      @syedbasit2701 6 лет назад

      Zalima Hussein sister are you really cruel,because your name is (zalima=cruel)

    • @adrianabonitaaziz
      @adrianabonitaaziz 6 лет назад +2

      Syed basit LOL ! Lets get merried !

    • @adrianabonitaaziz
      @adrianabonitaaziz 6 лет назад +5

      Syed basit i am a very actieve person , i like work outs , walk a lot , and i dont eat Garbage , junk food , and i dont drink alcohol... Your life wil be hell ! 😂

  • @innerpeace4716
    @innerpeace4716 5 лет назад +6

    My opinion to this lecture is everything is clearly said and yeah not yet married but one day wife to be inshallah not only men may Almighty make us good women too❤ SubhanAllAH how beautiful is my religion

  • @saqibomari7104
    @saqibomari7104 6 лет назад +100

    My Allah give the most beautiful knowledgeable lovely wife Allah will see my love with her in Sha Allah.

    • @zakirkhankausar
      @zakirkhankausar 6 лет назад +2

      Hahahhaha..
      Same to me❤💙💛

    • @9293-p1y
      @9293-p1y 6 лет назад

      Aameen Allah is kareem and rahim, he gives you whatever u wish for. He better knows the best time...

  • @SHEBBY007
    @SHEBBY007 6 лет назад +157

    Every wife should show this video to her husband or husband to be. Every man should watch this and act upon this video before it is too late.
    Ya Allah guide us men ❤

    • @continentalworld8835
      @continentalworld8835 6 лет назад +7

      SHEBBY007
      U r great
      My husband would never watch after 17 years marriage
      Watching internet whole day but not this
      No love
      No interest
      No watching
      Just being cared

    • @SHEBBY007
      @SHEBBY007 6 лет назад +7

      Sophie Müller i wish i was great. The sad fact and the honest truth is i realised all this too late. I wosh i had opened my eyes earlier and knew and acted on all this. The fact is my next partner will have all this now and i will fully act upon it.

    • @223nadia
      @223nadia 5 лет назад +2

      I never got credits in my life..watever I did was always wrong..no praise nothing..soul mate doesn't exist for me I guess...😑

    • @pyhooma3308
      @pyhooma3308 5 лет назад

      @@223nadia doen't lose hope Allah has a plan for all

    • @dianegardner4444
      @dianegardner4444 5 лет назад

      He don’t care his daughter is first

  • @sanasiddiqui9426
    @sanasiddiqui9426 6 лет назад +2

    MASHA ALLAH how nicely you have explained a women's heart..

  • @abby_2023
    @abby_2023 5 лет назад +4

    MashaAllah MashaAllah MashaAllah...what a lovely marriage advice...feeling very happy after dis video...Allhumdullillah...whoever made dis video ..may allah bless u.... i had tears in my eyes

  • @Sayyada1992
    @Sayyada1992 6 лет назад +26

    By hearing this today i got atleast one man who caught my point.i always wanted these things to be understand by my husband...make dua for us our relationship is going very wrong.

  • @andreinamorales1071
    @andreinamorales1071 5 лет назад +8

    Yes! Alhamdullilah I really thought I was crazy and the only one asking for this.. I know I have work to do on my end since I've know heard what the man needs but this video made me realize that I'm not the only one asking for this.. this is the nature of most women ... InshaAllah I'll find the one that understands me and visaversa

  • @halosunnah5446
    @halosunnah5446 6 лет назад +64

    Can you see how good the content is? It urgues husbands to not take wives for granted. While other ustadhs constantly suggest women to obey their husbands except wives want to go to the hellfire, this video show us that husbands have their obligation, too, beside nafkah. Being loved is the nicest thing for both men and women, my dear friend. It is nothing to do with objectification. Allahualam bishowab. May Allah give us spouses that will love us constantly, endlessly, beautifully. Please pray for me that I'll be married soon with the best man chosen by Allah just for me.

    • @96muslimgirl
      @96muslimgirl 6 лет назад +1

      Halo Sunnah both men and women have their obligations alhamduliLlah😊

    • @96muslimgirl
      @96muslimgirl 6 лет назад +2

      And may Allah grant you a pious man whom He is pleased with and unite both of you in goodness, ameen

    • @sarahkhan6250
      @sarahkhan6250 5 лет назад

      Ameen SumAmeen

    • @VanDerDeckken
      @VanDerDeckken 5 лет назад +1

      Both have their duties and not the ustadhs advise the women to obey their husbands , but Allah says so. You cant just take something and leave the other as you wish. Stop attacking anyone who advises women, this reaction is sinply immature. There are lectures about men and there are lectures about women. Take both , not just the one you like. I know we will in a world where many men abuse their position and want to be treated like kings while treating their wives like scum. But that doesnt mean we cant give lectures to women in general. There are many women with humble husbands who do mistakes in marriage too. Its not always men. Aslong as women stay like that, families wont be as good as they used to be. Always this "men abuse, men dont treat good, stop lecturing women" like what the heck, such behaviour is disgusting. It shows that many women are not able to reflect and check themselves. They dont admit mistakes anymore and hate advice. Such individuals will have a hard time in marriages. If you cant look at yourself first to start improving and instead point at others, you wont be able to improve. Especially in marriage this is fatal. May Allah guide us

  • @ZainabJawed_1187
    @ZainabJawed_1187 2 года назад +7

    To all those waiting for their man out there, may Allah give all of you my sisters this caring and understanding husband, may HE bring your dream prince to you soon🤲
    Also make us the best wife and the best woman in his knowledge 🤲
    Ya Allah I'm also in the que ya Rabb... 🙃🤲

  • @omarsmith4741
    @omarsmith4741 6 лет назад +304

    I love my future wife 😍

    • @luqmanshah7942
      @luqmanshah7942 6 лет назад +11

      hahaha

    • @mr.d6275
      @mr.d6275 6 лет назад +7

      If you get one that is.I mean, how do you even know that you would be blessed with one? Nobody knows the future.

    • @Mramin9808
      @Mramin9808 6 лет назад +2

      ouch

    • @---sm6ve
      @---sm6ve 6 лет назад +5

      Decka the 10 dimensional creature Allah created us in pairs. If you dont get it here, you may get it in Heaven.

    • @mohmedishaaq1771
      @mohmedishaaq1771 6 лет назад +22

      Decka the 10 dimensional creature
      You are actually wishing bad for him. Instead of saying Insha Allah.

  • @asthasaxena9752
    @asthasaxena9752 5 лет назад +48

    Every women should be treated like a princess... Mashaallah agree with each word... very well said👍🏻

    • @arindambanerjee3593
      @arindambanerjee3593 5 лет назад

      💓

    • @killerpro6982
      @killerpro6982 5 лет назад +4

      And every husband should be their slave.

    • @hindustani3551
      @hindustani3551 5 лет назад

      @@killerpro6982 😆

    • @killerpro6982
      @killerpro6982 5 лет назад +4

      @مقدس , Now that's what I wanted to see . Equality in a relationship.

    • @LaVoixdEnki
      @LaVoixdEnki 5 лет назад +2

      Astha Saxena nevermind sister we are now Mgtow 😍 more money and no more cohabitation with a person who question over and over again after a wedding commitment 🙂
      Escort girl are now better less expensive.

  • @fazlinhoosain3116
    @fazlinhoosain3116 2 года назад +1

    Sharing this with my future husband for sure! :) Beautifully said, MashaAllah.

  • @lizemma584
    @lizemma584 6 лет назад +5

    Best marriage advice...God bless you

  • @hudaak5437
    @hudaak5437 5 лет назад +2

    Believe me,every intelligent women in the world want to be respected,honored and acknowledged more than they want anything else.

  • @Solutionofummah
    @Solutionofummah 6 лет назад +90

    The talk is exuctly right.

  • @dr.berserk1406
    @dr.berserk1406 5 лет назад +7

    I’m so gonna show this to my future husband cz he better learn this.
    And the other video about wives was such an awakening. I aspire to be a wife who’ll guide her husband to the right path, make him feel like a king but also be his best friend. Ameen 😊
    Ps. Gosh! That’s gonna be a lotta work!! 😆

    • @fakhrulislam6869
      @fakhrulislam6869 3 месяца назад

      Finally, I see some sisters who are also taking the other video seriously as well cuz I see the women are very happy in the comment section of this video but in the other video (I'm sure even sisters have noticed this, one sister actually pointed this out as well) women were so like..... annoyed basically. They were just saying my husband doesn't deserve my respect or this or that but when it comes to this video every girl is like, Yeah spot on, every man should take notes and I'm like sisters that's not how it works 😐. But Alhamdulillah there are also sisters like you and some others who are taking their rights as well as their responsibilities seriously. May Allah bless sisters like that.

  • @ubederadams2812
    @ubederadams2812 6 лет назад +14

    May Allah give us a good futuer wife n good futuer husband Ameen

  • @nuclearfatheranddictator8233
    @nuclearfatheranddictator8233 6 лет назад +12

    I love my future wife Insha Allah😍💜

  • @aishanoor8782
    @aishanoor8782 6 лет назад +10

    Beautifull word's mashaAllah..I just download the video for my husbnad...lets see😏

    • @foxman2233
      @foxman2233 4 года назад

      😆same I wanted him to listen this beautiful saying

  • @emranmohamad3116
    @emranmohamad3116 6 лет назад +1

    Masha-Allah, very realistic, what a good research on human nature! Allahu Akbar!!!

  • @mamthaacharyaaa
    @mamthaacharyaaa 5 лет назад +6

    Masha allah♥😍 i jus don have words for dis video❤ each n evry word is very true💯💯💯.! I literally hv no words to express wat i want to convey❤..... But it's really really amazing💯😍❤❤❤

  • @hafeedafarook905
    @hafeedafarook905 5 лет назад +1

    his wife is lucky... and this is 100 percent right!!!

  • @lovemecom3832
    @lovemecom3832 6 лет назад +50

    One of the most important needs of a wife is when his husband treats her special and make her priority and to feel her that he loves her so much and most all is to respect her wife.

    • @Just_logic
      @Just_logic 4 года назад

      There are two parts of every communication. Transmitter and receiver. The definition of respect and love differs between different people. Based on upbringing some women will never have enough of whatever their definition of love or attention is to them

  • @guzaldinim100
    @guzaldinim100 6 лет назад +11

    A very nice speech brother. Unfortunately, less and less men are following these rules. More then 90% of muslim families I have known are thight to the old cultures that happened to passed from generation to generation. The wife is always at the last place , she does not have right to have her own voice. Especially, if mother-in-law lives together and takes control of everything.

    • @saraumarrasul405
      @saraumarrasul405 4 года назад

      It's not how Islam should be

    • @yaseenmalik1755
      @yaseenmalik1755 3 года назад

      Might be from India , Pakistan or Bangladesh.

    • @umar9174
      @umar9174 3 года назад

      If u watch the other video what a guy needs from his wife almost 200% of woman i know don’t even do that

  • @samiyashaikh2281
    @samiyashaikh2281 6 лет назад +7

    😚😘😚😚my bby always care for me alwz sy he loves me a lot n im to love him somuch😊

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  • @Yougirlslay
    @Yougirlslay 5 лет назад +12

    10 years down the line and I'm still waiting for the day that my husband appreciates me....... Still looking on.....

    • @fayaqun0
      @fayaqun0 5 лет назад +6

      May Allah ease your hardships

    • @Yassinekamp
      @Yassinekamp 5 лет назад

      Send him this video?

    • @masrurazmal8235
      @masrurazmal8235 5 лет назад +1

      Yeah trying showing the video lol. Can’t just expect him to understand quantum physics without providing him a book about it.

    • @nisharafan2803
      @nisharafan2803 5 лет назад +1

      Have patience my dear Sis., Even this too shall pass.

    • @rashmitamang6572
      @rashmitamang6572 5 лет назад +1

      May allah bless you

  • @amandakhan952
    @amandakhan952 5 лет назад

    This is a very nice assessment of what women want, truly. However, in the spirit of bridging the gap between Mars and Venus that you were so thoughtful to touch on in this lovely video, I would like to offer a woman's perspective that actions are more beautiful than words can ever be (in fact you could shut words out entirely as far as I am concerned), but you hit the nail on the head in regards to the priceless value of quality time.
    It is my observation that in marriage, we women do savor and cherish the time our husbands spend in mutual presence with us (sometimes to the point that we can hardly get enough of it), but that is a pure and sincere complement to our wonderful husbands. Quality time is the real deal because it celebrates and makes room for what it means to be alive.
    Although I can certainly see how it would appear otherwise at times, it is very important to understand that it would be erroneous to equate the desire to share precious moments in mindful appreciation with our beloveds to an insatiable need for constant attention. The truth is that when we do not choose true, meaningful interactions, we are saying to ourselves and each other that we prefer to exist (at least part of the time) more as cohabitating beings of artificial intelligence rather than the eternal souls we are.
    There is a reason we crave to spend time in awareness with those we love, and that reason arises from within our souls. It isn't a surface level desire stemming from the ego's need for "attention." Engaging in quality time fosters deeper love, understanding, and growth, so why deprive ourselves? Why waste precious time? It is a shame that something so integral to our experience is sometimes seen as a gender issue, but it is refreshing to hear it addressed regardless, so I thank you for that 🙏❤

  • @mohdfaiz9377
    @mohdfaiz9377 5 лет назад +7

    INSHAALLAH i will full fill all there needs and these things to my future wife😊

  • @durdanatabassum6057
    @durdanatabassum6057 2 года назад +15

    The number one thing a wife needs from her husband and a husband needs from the wife is understanding.
    You can't have true intimacy and love and respect and trust without deep understanding of each other's character.

  • @MorsidAKadir-td4uj
    @MorsidAKadir-td4uj 6 лет назад +5

    Jazaakumullahu Khayraan Jazaa for uploading this beneficial Naseehah.

  • @1981sabo
    @1981sabo 6 лет назад +7

    But one more important point is missing physical relationship husband and wife should have according on their needs not just when one wants, both should respect each other’s physical needs

    • @Noorenaat_1
      @Noorenaat_1 5 лет назад

      Least talked about amonst couple but good to hear from a lady about catering physical needs bcz this aspect is lacking specially in asian muslim community

  • @Aliali-ff6xf
    @Aliali-ff6xf 6 лет назад +6

    Spouses not all of them. Take each other for granted. He's so right they have learn to appreciate each other. This life short our spouses don't live forever. My opinion don't be afraid to love one another. Inshallah we are granted good spouses.

  • @Islamichaya6316
    @Islamichaya6316 6 лет назад +15

    exactly I just want it from my husband, but he never does this,he sees it as irritating, I love him madly,but he thinks my uncountable love makes him disturbed :(

    • @khettabimene2500
      @khettabimene2500 5 лет назад

      farjana runa assalam alaykom sister ,it’s ok just be more patience with him and in shaa allah he will exchange love for you
      It’s a bit hard for a some men to express thier genuine feelings so please don’t feel that you are the only one going through this
      I wish you a happy life with your husband

    • @RJ-uq6py
      @RJ-uq6py 4 года назад

      Give him his space. Men are less emotional than women.

    • @saraumarrasul405
      @saraumarrasul405 4 года назад

      I am in the same situation

    • @linalili2698
      @linalili2698 4 года назад

      i think that women view love in a very cringy way remember you are married it will be cringy if you say i love you every single day , although i am a girl myself i still don't understand why women want their husbands to treat them like princesses grow up you are partners now there is no use in quastioning his love anymore

  • @رحمةمفلحاتي-ش8ق
    @رحمةمفلحاتي-ش8ق 6 лет назад +7

    thank you brother.جزاك الله خير

  • @ganeshmane6589
    @ganeshmane6589 4 года назад

    Awesome video thank you very much every husband in the world must watch this video.

  • @georgeannacurry6229
    @georgeannacurry6229 5 лет назад +5

    Omg thank you! My husband doesn’t get it. He use to do this. Once we got married that was it! Keep doing what you did to get me!

  • @khalisaamila2491
    @khalisaamila2491 6 лет назад +7

    Masya Allah the explanation is beyond words! It’s 100% correct and beautifully explained. :’)

    • @cobrashotsyt
      @cobrashotsyt 5 лет назад

      Why do Indonesians write Masya Allah instead of Masha Allah?

  • @tahminaakhter6748
    @tahminaakhter6748 6 лет назад +4

    which i felt for 6 years but couldn't make clear to one person, this video has cleared that within few minutes...MASHALLAH...what a beautiful video....just speaks the word of every woman...

  • @briansmith3934
    @briansmith3934 5 лет назад +4

    This is so true! I almost lost my wife of 19 years because I did not give her what she needed. Woman are high maintaince but if you take care of them they will take care of you.

  • @eeshajamil8503
    @eeshajamil8503 6 лет назад +56

    110% accurate

    • @u.n258
      @u.n258 6 лет назад

      Eesha Jamil honestly it is

  • @ishratahmed8510
    @ishratahmed8510 5 лет назад +6

    Mashallah 💯✔👍same every woman need onely very good speach😚😚😚

  • @zoyakhan2453
    @zoyakhan2453 6 лет назад +7

    How beautifully you explained it. 👍

  • @reerbaadiye1
    @reerbaadiye1 6 лет назад +139

    while i was watching this i was imagining my future husband

    • @arayofhope6809
      @arayofhope6809 6 лет назад +4

      abdisatar jama but they don't exist anymore sis, don't keep your hopes high.

    • @ibraheemeastwood7022
      @ibraheemeastwood7022 6 лет назад +11

      A Ray of hope. they do, they are just rare nowadays. Have faith and make dua and then u will have nothing to worry about, because insha'Allah Allah will take care of your situation. Always make dua with certainty and high hopes that Allah will answer it.

    • @ummsomeone4964
      @ummsomeone4964 6 лет назад +1

      SAMEEEE lol

    • @asad_mirza
      @asad_mirza 6 лет назад +1

      Share this video whenever you find him 😊😊

    • @SalehSaleh-vh5cm
      @SalehSaleh-vh5cm 6 лет назад +4

      may Allah bless all you sisters to the one who's close to Allah

  • @meherunnessavlogz6986
    @meherunnessavlogz6986 5 лет назад +3

    1000%true

  • @azizadidat8499
    @azizadidat8499 5 лет назад

    Would be wonderful to spread this beautiful message far and wide .... our men really need to work on this .. their definitely will be much less divorces!!

  • @cookliet8444
    @cookliet8444 5 лет назад +5

    You know I’m a girl and most of the women around me says I need to doll myself up in front of my husband otherwisw he’ll lose interest and stuff like that. I agree a woman wants love but also Respect. Cause love without respect is worthless. You don’t see me as important when making any decision but love me? I mean What I mean is I want a man who’ll love and respect me as a person. You need me to do something you can request me but don’t order me like I’m your servant, sorry I’m saying these cause these stuff happen. Men think their providing us with food and looking after us, not looking at other women so that’s all we deserve. But No! when it comes to the children the father barely takes opinion from the mother. I don’t need money, jewelry from you, I think even if two person can’t love each other but respects than they can live together. But doesn’t respect each other but Loves, well what’s that supposed to mean? You love me as long as you can control me. And I’ve watched the Other video as well. I think if a wife can’t even tell the husband what’s he doing wrong or her opinion then idk how someone’s gonna survive that marriage cause I’ll be suffocated. They don’t want motherly behavior but will act as a child.. and if we say anything it’ll hurt their ego. 😕 and as a wife If My husband treats me as I want then I’ll make sure to serve him good. He won’t even have to ask me for something I’ll try ny best already. But he keeps on ordering and act like that I don’t think I can handle that. I’m also a human. You what’s difficult for us that we have live under somebody’s rulings. First Father obviously he raised he has the right. But then husband he married me so he will control everything about me too. If I protest I’m a bad girl. ☺️ Idk if I’m right or wrong in Islamic Way but that’s just how I feel. I’m not being arrogant I’m just saying we want to live normally too.
    I just noticed I’ve made a lot of mistakes.. ignore those please😅😅

    • @ethantremblay1633
      @ethantremblay1633 4 года назад +1

      Mashallah sister, appreciate your analysis. You're right, even in Islamic way. The idea of marriage is about equality, your husband MUST respect you if he wishes to have the same. Sister, selfish men will always quote hadith about how wives should serve their husbands and how wives should even follow some non-mandatory sunnah, but they themselves don't follow the basic compulsory fard of marriage in our deen. Sister please watch this series by Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan, it's mainly about women and Islam.
      ruclips.net/video/1azySjz4edk/видео.html
      Hope this helps you, may Allah bless you with barakah. Ameen.

    • @syedbasha6529
      @syedbasha6529 4 года назад

      I think love includes respect.

  • @nazrulislam-ol8wt
    @nazrulislam-ol8wt 5 лет назад

    Amazing video , inshallah I will try my best to follow your advice. And make her feel like a princess .

  • @izzaatif9799
    @izzaatif9799 6 лет назад +5

    Lecture is right that's what women want but they can never ask for that

  • @nehas2911
    @nehas2911 5 лет назад

    Mashallah Very good bayan every husband have to listen

  • @Riva94
    @Riva94 6 лет назад +34

    Ma sha Allah 😊👏 hubbies better watch this one! 💁

    • @wayabovethegame
      @wayabovethegame 6 лет назад +1

      Riva Chowdhury listen to the “What men want from women lecture” sister. But I have a feeling you are a Western feminist who will hate that also important well done lecture!

    • @fayaqun0
      @fayaqun0 5 лет назад +1

      I watched this video many times! 👌💕❤️

  • @TheMrsansari
    @TheMrsansari 5 лет назад +3

    Nope my so called husband will never do those things. He loves his job then his computer then his phone.

  • @rifatqadri7325
    @rifatqadri7325 6 лет назад +26

    Above said is all about being romantic, though it is also an important part of marriage,
    But the most important thing is being sincere. If husband is sincere then only he can make his wife feel loved, cared and number one priority and for this he don't need to give flowers, celebrate adversaries or tell now and then I love u. His sincerity itself makes her to feel all these things without any show.
    Otherwise what is the fun of giving the bunches of roses, celebrating birthdays and anversaries, repeating words like parrot, which in reality means nothing
    Men should know apart of seeing the things women has also quality of smelling things.

  • @samiyashaikh2281
    @samiyashaikh2281 6 лет назад +23

    ur wife is so lucky 😊she have uh in her life ur thinking so amazing mashallah

    • @amisashmohamed8760
      @amisashmohamed8760 5 лет назад +1

      Exactly.Mashallah!!!

    • @LaVoixdEnki
      @LaVoixdEnki 5 лет назад

      nevermind sister we are now Mgtow 😍 more money and no more cohabitation with a person who question over and over again after a wedding commitment 🙂
      Escort girl are now better less expensive. Samiya Shaikh

    • @LaVoixdEnki
      @LaVoixdEnki 5 лет назад

      UNITED MONEY the naive way you think is the same as me when I was in your change.
      When you will get more mature in life you understand.
      To answer to your « hikma » Im prefer telling that my elder brother (deeply on deen) suicide himself after his hijab wife left the house with the daughter after 10 years of marriage and my brother caught that she were cheating on him.
      Just have look on divorce rate and who is initiate divorce often time and you will shut up fuck up.
      The wife you have in your mind is a Disney dream boy. Wake up because you will lose soon everything and you will get back to me for gratitude ;)

  • @izzaatif9799
    @izzaatif9799 6 лет назад +16

    I don't think that's absolutely right ,l know that l am number 10 ,coming after his mother brother ,sisters ,children and friends .But l still love him and he is number one for me on top of my parents .

    • @nisharafan2803
      @nisharafan2803 5 лет назад

      That's great about your concern. But Every women deserves their Self respect. Not only Respect but even Love too should be given and to be taken.

  • @muminaislamchoudhury6102
    @muminaislamchoudhury6102 6 лет назад +5

    the best lecture....just forwarded to my husband..haha

  • @shabbeershaik2269
    @shabbeershaik2269 6 лет назад +5

    U r right sir may allah grant all the husbands loving and caring for their wifes

  • @ummulhudaa856
    @ummulhudaa856 2 года назад +1

    As a female i can say that this is 100000% true

  • @anifamwenda1784
    @anifamwenda1784 5 лет назад +4

    mashaallah, what an amazing speech. may the Almighty Rabb always give u courage to clean out men perception over ladies. Time is attention indeed.

  • @gbolabodba
    @gbolabodba 5 лет назад +1

    I Did all these and more, I just flew thousands of miles to be with her on her birthday and that’s when she told me she’s in love with someone else .

    • @shiftautomotive854
      @shiftautomotive854 5 лет назад

      Yeah man don’t listen to what women want because 9/10 she don’t know what she want. Don’t put them on pedestal by flying thousands of miles. If she really care about you she would initiate to fly to you. She want a man who she look up to not the other way around.

  • @sayemasamreen8551
    @sayemasamreen8551 6 лет назад +14

    Mashallah ..... Mashallah .... I hv a doubt did u actually peeped in a woman's heart ? Bcz every word u said is so damn true ..... 😋

  • @hiazhar2008
    @hiazhar2008 Год назад

    Good points, I shall follow this In she Allah. And the only thing I don't agree is about the celebration of the anniversary.

  • @twade9950
    @twade9950 2 года назад +3

    Wow!! Definitely needed to put my feelings into words and this is simply said. My husband makes me feel like this is too much....apparently I'm not the one. I only want to be loved wholeheartedly. May Allah grant us mercy, grace and peace during these times...InshaAllah

  • @YasminBaa
    @YasminBaa 2 года назад

    So educative may Allah guide all d Muslim men to make a lovely hone

  • @aquadistant
    @aquadistant 5 лет назад +3

    Who else isnt even married and watching this?

  • @twinklythingy2445
    @twinklythingy2445 5 лет назад +3

    I wish someone could show this video to my husband. Although I found it kind of exaggerated, I guess men needs this much exaggeration to get the point 😏

  • @annbiggs7270
    @annbiggs7270 2 года назад +4

    Every husband in this world needs to be made to watch this video!
    These are all the missing puzzles pieces…Some wise men know this but then again there’s a lot of men who don’t. This would prevent A lot of Narcissistic men knowing they are going in the wrong direction and finding a true way to love the woman he’s married too!

    • @fakhrulislam6869
      @fakhrulislam6869 3 месяца назад

      Just a question, if a man is constantly reminding his wife about his love, won't that reduce the worth of his love. It is natural, every time we get something easily, we don't appreciate it any more and sometimes we might also get annoyed of that thing. Just trying to understand the phycology of a women and I'll be honest It's NOT easy😅

  • @MUSICVIRAL12-22
    @MUSICVIRAL12-22 5 лет назад

    1000% he say the truth.. wallah, this only what we want

  • @afiyafatima9220
    @afiyafatima9220 2 года назад +3

    I came here after watching the video “what men want from women” which honestly pissed me off. I felt it’s unfair. But, I couldn’t deny a bit to this video. It made me realise how different men and women actually are. SubhanAllah may Allah guide us and help us to be the best partner to our spouse.

    • @MessiAddiction
      @MessiAddiction Год назад +1

      you are brainwashed by western culture...both the videos are correct to the points...And Islam teaches us this....but we have created a different world . listening and respecting your husband doesn't make you low...but increase respect and love of your husband towards you and vice versa.

  • @safreeny1
    @safreeny1 6 лет назад +2

    Oooo Allah y m i crying sooo much..... my husband has never done this to me in 7 yrs of my marriage.

    • @fayaqun0
      @fayaqun0 5 лет назад +1

      May Allah ease your hardships

    • @fayaqun0
      @fayaqun0 5 лет назад +1

      May Allah put love and faith in your heart and your husband's heart

  • @nazmanazma1384
    @nazmanazma1384 6 лет назад +3

    100% true

  • @asiyaheibhlin
    @asiyaheibhlin 3 года назад +2

    I wish they would have a different speaker than Yasir Qadhi. Is there any reputable Sheikh that speaks on this issue?

  • @syedanaqvi9845
    @syedanaqvi9845 6 лет назад +4

    MaashaAllah ❤ very nice... all wives need this attention from their husbands 😊

  • @AdventureCollectiveWithPromi
    @AdventureCollectiveWithPromi 6 лет назад +2

    That is so true.

  • @natureloverloveforgreen9940
    @natureloverloveforgreen9940 5 лет назад +3

    This is What I expect from my husband, beautifully explained 👏👏👏🙏🙏 the unspoken words of womens

  • @dayzinmylife
    @dayzinmylife 2 года назад +2

    💯%.....May Allah(SWT) shower his blessings upon every husband and wife. A'AMEEN SUM'MA A'AMEEN

  • @msjanuary1980
    @msjanuary1980 6 лет назад +6

    Mash Allah this is so right.. Men pay attention. Remember when she is happy everyone is happy.

    • @Just_logic
      @Just_logic 4 года назад

      Are you married? I am assuming you are a male.
      Above statement is so biased.

    • @umar9174
      @umar9174 3 года назад

      @@Just_logic ik right 😂

  • @real_estate_dxb
    @real_estate_dxb 4 года назад

    Beautiful lecture! MaShaAllah❤️